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Uh I love them❤️
Really?? Lol I just find them hard to connect with emotionally
Lol! I just come across a lot of them n we get along really well. Also my mom n sister have that moon.They're amazing.
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Lol yeah they are cool people, I just can't handle dating someone with that moon because I'm a passionate person and they're the opposite so it's just hard to deal with. I can be friends with them any day tho lol
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Right!? My brother has this placement and trying to get through to him is like trying to get through to a plank of wood. Hands down the most frustrating person I've ever met. He's very sweet deep down, but he is very argumentative and very changeable. He'll fight for some girl and then he gets her and pulls back and acts all aloof and ruins the whole situation for himself. He's a master at self sabotage.

Not saying this is all from the gem moon, but I really think it has a lot to do with it. I don't understand him at all.
Omg yes!!! The guy I am dating sounds too much like your brother when it comes to the changeable moods and self sabotage. He will act act distant and aloof one minute but then when I threaten to move on, he starts to fight for me and tell me he dont want to lose me smh! I don't understand gemini moons at all.. I'm all about consistency and they're the opposite. I can't deal
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Right!? My brother has this placement and trying to get through to him is like trying to get through to a plank of wood. Hands down the most frustrating person I've ever met. He's very sweet deep down, but he is very argumentative and very changeable. He'll fight for some girl and then he gets her and pulls back and acts all aloof and ruins the whole situation for himself. He's a master at self sabotage.

Not saying this is all from the gem moon, but I really think it has a lot to do with it. I don't understand him at all.
Omg yes!!! The guy I am dating sounds too much like your brother when it comes to the changeable moods and self sabotage. He will act act distant and aloof one minute but then when I threaten to move on, he starts to fight for me and tell me he dont want to lose me smh! I don't understand gemini moons at all.. I'm all about consistency and they're the opposite. I can't deal
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I understand the complains. I can wake up thinking one thing and leave the bed thinking another. However it's more to do with being able to see many points of views than an actual change of mind. For me, with time I learned to wait before my mind goes through many different view points until I settle in the one I think it's the real deal. And yes if you are a fiery person it can be very frustrating to argue with a gemini moon: we put the logical plank of wood face and nobody can see anything. We do feel everything however. We are just trying to understand what's "really" going on, underneath all the emotional displays that came with an argument. And we do hate emotional displays, we don't know how to deal with them. It's hard enough for us to deal with our emotions.

Regarding changeable moods and self sabotage: it can came with a gemini moon, but tbh it's mostly immaturity.

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Right!? My brother has this placement and trying to get through to him is like trying to get through to a plank of wood. Hands down the most frustrating person I've ever met. He's very sweet deep down, but he is very argumentative and very changeable. He'll fight for some girl and then he gets her and pulls back and acts all aloof and ruins the whole situation for himself. He's a master at self sabotage.

Not saying this is all from the gem moon, but I really think it has a lot to do with it. I don't understand him at all.
Omg yes!!! The guy I am dating sounds too much like your brother when it comes to the changeable moods and self sabotage. He will act act distant and aloof one minute but then when I threaten to move on, he starts to fight for me and tell me he dont want to lose me smh! I don't understand gemini moons at all.. I'm all about consistency and they're the opposite. I can't deal
I understand the complains. I can wake up thinking one thing and leave the bed thinking another. However it's more to do with being able to see many points of views than an actual change of mind. For me, with time I learned to wait before my mind goes through many different view points until I settle in the one I think it's the real deal. And yes if you are a fiery person it can be very frustrating to argue with a gemini moon: we put the logical plank of wood face and nobody can see anything. We do feel everything however. We are just trying to understand what's "really" going on, underneath all the emotional displays that came with an argument. And we do hate emotional displays, we don't know how to deal with them. It's hard enough for us to deal with our emotions.

Regarding changeable moods and self sabotage: it can came with a gemini moon, but tbh it's mostly immaturity.

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Wow you hit it on the head. But I'll try to be more understanding tho
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While we seem to be indecisive and distant, we're just pondering our options. It doesn't mean we're incapable of feeling you. We just hate to show it or even admit it to ourselves. You have to keep us entertained, though, I totally agree with that. I'm bored way too easily. Apart from that - Gem moons are the best. 😉
So is it easy to be with one person and only in love with them? Because I've read something before about gemini moons being able to love two different people at once
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I feel like we're easy work. I get that it might not seem like that from the outside for some.

How old is your guy?
He's 37. Scorpio Sun with a gemini moon... weird combination lol
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My last crush was a scorpio sun with gemini moon. Perhaps the biggest crush of my life actually. She was amazing but either too nice without wanting anything more than a friendship, or too hot/cold, or too consistent in her inconsistency, whatever it was she always seemed to be leaving a door open. I kept going for four months with full intensity until I end up in therapy! I'm still recovering from it and trying to understand how this thing hit me and how to move on. I'm still too much on top of it to be able to blame her or myself. To a point it's not really finished, but I promise myself not to talk to her for a couple of weeks. But, whatever it was, she truly seemed to be a fantastic person: the intensity, depth and mystery of a scorpio with the communication, cleverness and logical thinking of a gemini.

I don't blame really her sun/moon combination though (or mine). We had many aspects in our chart and I can't really tell which one play the strongest role. Trine suns, conjunct moons, conjunct and trine mars/venus, conjunct and square pluto/sun, conjunct pluto/moon and the list goes on.
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I feel like we're easy work. I get that it might not seem like that from the outside for some.

How old is your guy?
He's 37. Scorpio Sun with a gemini moon... weird combination lol
Well that's all right then, that would make his Moon progressed to Libra at this time in his life. Would should be easier for you on paper.

In that stage someone is going to be less focused on relationships with the opposite sex in general and just more on enjoying their life. They'll make time for the one woman/man in their life of the opposite sex that is a priority, but it'll be on their terms.
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Okay interesting. If it's meant to be, I'll be the woman that's a priority to him.
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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
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I feel like we're easy work. I get that it might not seem like that from the outside for some.

How old is your guy?
He's 37. Scorpio Sun with a gemini moon... weird combination lol
My last crush was a scorpio sun with gemini moon. Perhaps the biggest crush of my life actually. She was amazing but either too nice without wanting anything more than a friendship, or too hot/cold, or too consistent in her inconsistency, whatever it was she always seemed to be leaving a door open. I kept going for four months with full intensity until I end up in therapy! I'm still recovering from it and trying to understand how this thing hit me and how to move on. I'm still too much on top of it to be able to blame her or myself. To a point it's not really finished, but I promise myself not to talk to her for a couple of weeks. But, whatever it was, she truly seemed to be a fantastic person: the intensity, depth and mystery of a scorpio with the communication, cleverness and logical thinking of a gemini.

I don't blame really her sun/moon combination though (or mine). We had many aspects in our chart and I can't really tell which one play the strongest role. Trine suns, conjunct moons, conjunct and trine mars/venus, conjunct and square pluto/sun, conjunct pluto/moon and the list goes on.
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Omg I'm starting to get scared now because it's the same way with him but everytime I discuss just being friends, he don't like it smh. We also have sun/pluto double whammy and venusconjunct pluto in the composite chart so it's very intense. I try to get away but he won't let me go. It's hard
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Right!? My brother has this placement and trying to get through to him is like trying to get through to a plank of wood. Hands down the most frustrating person I've ever met. He's very sweet deep down, but he is very argumentative and very changeable. He'll fight for some girl and then he gets her and pulls back and acts all aloof and ruins the whole situation for himself. He's a master at self sabotage.

Not saying this is all from the gem moon, but I really think it has a lot to do with it. I don't understand him at all.
Omg yes!!! The guy I am dating sounds too much like your brother when it comes to the changeable moods and self sabotage. He will act act distant and aloof one minute but then when I threaten to move on, he starts to fight for me and tell me he dont want to lose me smh! I don't understand gemini moons at all.. I'm all about consistency and they're the opposite. I can't deal
What's his sun sign??

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Scorpio! Lol and I love scorpios cause of the passion they have but the gemini moon just messed it all up ??
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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
So do you think gemini moons get bored with the same person after awhile? Because I know gemini moons get bored easily and the guy I'm dating hasn't been married yet and likes the freedom of living alone. I'm the opposite with me being a Taurus moon, I need that security and I just can't get that with him
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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
So do you think gemini moons get bored with the same person after awhile? Because I know gemini moons get bored easily and the guy I'm dating hasn't been married yet and likes the freedom of living alone. I'm the opposite with me being a Taurus moon, I need that security and I just can't get that with him
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Not necessarily same person, but the same things. Gem moons can tend to be prime candidates for open relationships due to the detached emotions and insatiable need for variety, but it is possible for one person to fulfill their requirements. She just has to be willing to switch things up from time to time. The gem moon needs to be constantly stimulated, and routine kills this like nothing else.

This guy sounds a lot like me in the sense he needs his uncontested, and unmolested personal space; never having been married, and I'm guessing he doesn't have any kids either. Depending on his age, it can be deeply rooted in his psyche at this point that his freedom(s) need to remain intact. This will make it very difficult for any potential partner.

If this is going to work, he has to understand that he is going to have to give you some of him, and what you require instead of what he deems you need. On your end, you will have to adapt somewhat by avoiding routines. The more he already has, the less you can bring to the table. You'll need to be puzzling from time to time because once he's got you all figured out, he will get bored.

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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
So do you think gemini moons get bored with the same person after awhile? Because I know gemini moons get bored easily and the guy I'm dating hasn't been married yet and likes the freedom of living alone. I'm the opposite with me being a Taurus moon, I need that security and I just can't get that with him

Not necessarily same person, but the same things. Gem moons can tend to be prime candidates for open relationships due to the detached emotions and insatiable need for variety, but it is possible for one person to fulfill their requirements. She just has to be willing to switch things up from time to time. The gem moon needs to be constantly stimulated, and routine kills this like nothing else.

This guy sounds a lot like me in the sense he needs his uncontested, and unmolested personal space; never having been married, and I'm guessing he doesn't have any kids either. Depending on his age, it can be deeply rooted in his psyche at this point that his freedom(s) need to remain intact. This will make it very difficult for any potential partner.

If this is going to work, he has to understand that he is going to have to give you some of him, and what you require instead of what he deems you need. On your end, you will have to adapt somewhat by avoiding routines. The more he already has, the less you can bring to the table. You'll need to be puzzling from time to time because once he's got you all figured out, he will get bored.

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Yeah I can respect the need for personal space because I need space as well but when he told me his ex broke up with him because he refused to move in with her, it worried me that he rather have his freedom and personal space than being in a serious relationship. I just don't want to waste time if he will never compromise..
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Right!? My brother has this placement and trying to get through to him is like trying to get through to a plank of wood. Hands down the most frustrating person I've ever met. He's very sweet deep down, but he is very argumentative and very changeable. He'll fight for some girl and then he gets her and pulls back and acts all aloof and ruins the whole situation for himself. He's a master at self sabotage.

Not saying this is all from the gem moon, but I really think it has a lot to do with it. I don't understand him at all.
Omg yes!!! The guy I am dating sounds too much like your brother when it comes to the changeable moods and self sabotage. He will act act distant and aloof one minute but then when I threaten to move on, he starts to fight for me and tell me he dont want to lose me smh! I don't understand gemini moons at all.. I'm all about consistency and they're the opposite. I can't deal
What's his sun sign??


Scorpio! Lol and I love scorpios cause of the passion they have but the gemini moon just messed it all up ??
Okay. My brother is a Leo. Maybe having a fixed sun with a Gemini moon makes it worse cause they're stubborn too!
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Yes I think it does make it worse.. ugh this sucks smh
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Right!? My brother has this placement and trying to get through to him is like trying to get through to a plank of wood. Hands down the most frustrating person I've ever met. He's very sweet deep down, but he is very argumentative and very changeable. He'll fight for some girl and then he gets her and pulls back and acts all aloof and ruins the whole situation for himself. He's a master at self sabotage.

Not saying this is all from the gem moon, but I really think it has a lot to do with it. I don't understand him at all.
Omg yes!!! The guy I am dating sounds too much like your brother when it comes to the changeable moods and self sabotage. He will act act distant and aloof one minute but then when I threaten to move on, he starts to fight for me and tell me he dont want to lose me smh! I don't understand gemini moons at all.. I'm all about consistency and they're the opposite. I can't deal
What's his sun sign??


Scorpio! Lol and I love scorpios cause of the passion they have but the gemini moon just messed it all up ??
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I'm Scorpio with Gem moon too. What are his other placements? Sorry if you wrote them earlier and I missed them.

I don't match some of the things you're describing about this guy, so I'm curious about other things in his chart. I have Taurus rising, Sag Mercury, Scorpio Venus and Libra Mars.

I prefer to live alone, but when I have a partner I'm quite devoted to them. I need more time to myself than some people, but when I'm with a partner I'm very focused on them and expressive. I haven't had many relationships end because I was bored with the person -- I don't get attracted to people who bore me in the first place, and also I don't expect a partner to be my source of entertainment and stimulation all of the time. I have many good friends and interests, and I can entertain myself with just my imagination sometimes. :-)
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Right!? My brother has this placement and trying to get through to him is like trying to get through to a plank of wood. Hands down the most frustrating person I've ever met. He's very sweet deep down, but he is very argumentative and very changeable. He'll fight for some girl and then he gets her and pulls back and acts all aloof and ruins the whole situation for himself. He's a master at self sabotage.

Not saying this is all from the gem moon, but I really think it has a lot to do with it. I don't understand him at all.
Omg yes!!! The guy I am dating sounds too much like your brother when it comes to the changeable moods and self sabotage. He will act act distant and aloof one minute but then when I threaten to move on, he starts to fight for me and tell me he dont want to lose me smh! I don't understand gemini moons at all.. I'm all about consistency and they're the opposite. I can't deal
What's his sun sign??


Scorpio! Lol and I love scorpios cause of the passion they have but the gemini moon just messed it all up ??
I'm Scorpio with Gem moon too. What are his other placements? Sorry if you wrote them earlier and I missed them.

I don't match some of the things you're describing about this guy, so I'm curious about other things in his chart. I have Taurus rising, Sag Mercury, Scorpio Venus and Libra Mars.

I prefer to live alone, but when I have a partner I'm quite devoted to them. I need more time to myself than some people, but when I'm with a partner I'm very focused on them and expressive. I haven't had many relationships end because I was bored with the person -- I don't get attracted to people who bore me in the first place, and also I don't expect a partner to be my source of entertainment and stimulation all of the time. I have many good friends and interests, and I can entertain myself with just my imagination sometimes. :-)
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His placements:

Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Gemini, Mercury in Sag, Venus in Sag and Mars in Leo

.. but yes he likes being alone as well, I have to ask to see him a lot of the time because he will get wrapped up in his own world and I'm trying to respect how he is since we're different but it's hard.
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Id say that just because you are family or blood related we won't automaticall be open and emotional.

We are difficult because we just won't open our heart to someone if that person doesn't nurture us, my roommate is a cap sun and I can open up to her and talk about my feelings, same with my Cap sun exes. (except my last cap ex, actually they make me feel secure and vulnerable)

Also the fact that we don't open about how we feel doesn't mean that we don't have feelings towards you, the main reason why we don't talk and are all up in our head is when is with someone that may not share our same view and it may just be different but not an issue.
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Id say that just because you are family or blood related we won't automaticall be open and emotional.

We are difficult because we just won't open our heart to someone if that person doesn't nurture us, my roommate is a cap sun and I can open up to her and talk about my feelings, same with my Cap sun exes. (except my last cap ex, actually they make me feel secure and vulnerable)

Also the fact that we don't open about how we feel doesn't mean that we don't have feelings towards you, the main reason why we don't talk and are all up in our head is when is with someone that may not share our same view and it may just be different but not an issue.
He says he gets a long with Cap Suns too which I am one myself, but me being a passionate person it's hard dealing with someone who's closed off emotionally.. it's a struggle but I'm giving him time to work on it
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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
So do you think gemini moons get bored with the same person after awhile? Because I know gemini moons get bored easily and the guy I'm dating hasn't been married yet and likes the freedom of living alone. I'm the opposite with me being a Taurus moon, I need that security and I just can't get that with him

Not necessarily same person, but the same things. Gem moons can tend to be prime candidates for open relationships due to the detached emotions and insatiable need for variety, but it is possible for one person to fulfill their requirements. She just has to be willing to switch things up from time to time. The gem moon needs to be constantly stimulated, and routine kills this like nothing else.

This guy sounds a lot like me in the sense he needs his uncontested, and unmolested personal space; never having been married, and I'm guessing he doesn't have any kids either. Depending on his age, it can be deeply rooted in his psyche at this point that his freedom(s) need to remain intact. This will make it very difficult for any potential partner.

If this is going to work, he has to understand that he is going to have to give you some of him, and what you require instead of what he deems you need. On your end, you will have to adapt somewhat by avoiding routines. The more he already has, the less you can bring to the table. You'll need to be puzzling from time to time because once he's got you all figured out, he will get bored.


Yeah I can respect the need for personal space because I need space as well but when he told me his ex broke up with him because he refused to move in with her, it worried me that he rather have his freedom and personal space than being in a serious relationship. I just don't want to waste time if he will never compromise..
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Mmm, if he's like me, he's the type to believe that marriages can function living in separate homes (so long as there are no kids). That my friend, is a Gem moon for you. You should ask him that question. See what he tells you.

What he and his ex broke up over is a giant red flag for most women, but 'boundaries' isn't a word you'll find in a gem moon's book of conduct. I know I'm going full-on astrology here, but this placement is unorthodox and fickle to a great extent. By remaining separate, you also remain interesting. And when you remain interesting, there is NO ONE on the entire planet they want more. It's almost like the further away you are from the gem moon, the closer they are to you.

These moons are superficial though. Gemini intelligence is massive, but general. They know a lot about everything, but nothing beyond the extent of their attention span. Depending on other placements, their love lives are much the same way. Haha! I practically want to say that those with multiple personalities would be perfect for them 😆

I kid, but to make things short, I understand that everything I'm saying is only confirming for you that gem moons are difficult, but it really depends on who they are partnered up with. Speaking both astrology and non, it simply comes down to compatibility.
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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
So do you think gemini moons get bored with the same person after awhile? Because I know gemini moons get bored easily and the guy I'm dating hasn't been married yet and likes the freedom of living alone. I'm the opposite with me being a Taurus moon, I need that security and I just can't get that with him

Not necessarily same person, but the same things. Gem moons can tend to be prime candidates for open relationships due to the detached emotions and insatiable need for variety, but it is possible for one person to fulfill their requirements. She just has to be willing to switch things up from time to time. The gem moon needs to be constantly stimulated, and routine kills this like nothing else.

This guy sounds a lot like me in the sense he needs his uncontested, and unmolested personal space; never having been married, and I'm guessing he doesn't have any kids either. Depending on his age, it can be deeply rooted in his psyche at this point that his freedom(s) need to remain intact. This will make it very difficult for any potential partner.

If this is going to work, he has to understand that he is going to have to give you some of him, and what you require instead of what he deems you need. On your end, you will have to adapt somewhat by avoiding routines. The more he already has, the less you can bring to the table. You'll need to be puzzling from time to time because once he's got you all figured out, he will get bored.


Yeah I can respect the need for personal space because I need space as well but when he told me his ex broke up with him because he refused to move in with her, it worried me that he rather have his freedom and personal space than being in a serious relationship. I just don't want to waste time if he will never compromise..

Mmm, if he's like me, he's the type to believe that marriages can function living in separate homes (so long as there are no kids). That my friend, is a Gem moon for you. You should ask him that question. See what he tells you.

What he and his ex broke up over is a giant red flag for most women, but 'boundaries' isn't a word you'll find in a gem moon's book of conduct. I know I'm going full-on astrology here, but this placement is unorthodox and fickle to a great extent. By remaining separate, you also remain interesting. And when you remain interesting, there is NO ONE on the entire planet they want more. It's almost like the further away you are from the gem moon, the closer they are to you.

These moons are superficial though. Gemini intelligence is massive, but general. They know a lot about everything, but nothing beyond the extent of their attention span. Depending on other placements, their love lives are much the same way. Haha! I practically want to say that those with multiple personalities would be perfect for them 😆

I kid, but to make things short, I understand that everything I'm saying is only confirming for you that gem moons are difficult, but it really depends on who they are partnered up with. Speaking both astrology and non, it simply comes down to compatibility.
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Oh God I'm scared to even ask ?? I feel like he would love being married and living separately which is a hell no in my book! Lol but yes it all comes down to compatibility and he's a fun guy and we get along, he just drive me crazy with the inconsistency. I think you really right about the multiple personalities because he made a comment about how he loves that I'm unpredictable which makes sense now to why he's so into me.
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Gemini Moon here,

I'm quite reserved in relationships (due to my Sun in Taurus).

However, I DO require a great deal of space, freedom, and intellectual discussions and cultural experiences.

But the other person's interest has to be consistent.

I have a short attention span, emotionally.

It's not apathy...just distraction.

Intrigue holds my interest in the beginning and this is just because my 'active' mind is trying to assess you or feel you out. But it's ephemeral, it has no foundation, no hidden agenda, no structure, or no plainfield. Any connection is only being held by a tilted table.

I can lose interest at any point.

What keeps my emotions consistent?

When I know I have met the right individual who I will continue to grow and evolve with.
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Gemini Moon here,

I'm quite reserved in relationships (due to my Sun in Taurus).

However, I DO require a great deal of space, freedom, and intellectual discussions and cultural experiences.

But the other person's interest has to be consistent.

I have a short attention span, emotionally.

It's not apathy...just distraction.

Intrigue holds my interest in the beginning and this is just because my 'active' mind is trying to assess you or feel you out. But it's ephemeral, it has no foundation, no hidden agenda, no structure, or no plainfield. Any connection is only being held by a tilted table.

I can lose interest at any point.

What keeps my emotions consistent?

When I know I have met the right individual who I will continue to grow and evolve with.
Great explanation.
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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
So do you think gemini moons get bored with the same person after awhile? Because I know gemini moons get bored easily and the guy I'm dating hasn't been married yet and likes the freedom of living alone. I'm the opposite with me being a Taurus moon, I need that security and I just can't get that with him

Not necessarily same person, but the same things. Gem moons can tend to be prime candidates for open relationships due to the detached emotions and insatiable need for variety, but it is possible for one person to fulfill their requirements. She just has to be willing to switch things up from time to time. The gem moon needs to be constantly stimulated, and routine kills this like nothing else.

This guy sounds a lot like me in the sense he needs his uncontested, and unmolested personal space; never having been married, and I'm guessing he doesn't have any kids either. Depending on his age, it can be deeply rooted in his psyche at this point that his freedom(s) need to remain intact. This will make it very difficult for any potential partner.

If this is going to work, he has to understand that he is going to have to give you some of him, and what you require instead of what he deems you need. On your end, you will have to adapt somewhat by avoiding routines. The more he already has, the less you can bring to the table. You'll need to be puzzling from time to time because once he's got you all figured out, he will get bored.


Yeah I can respect the need for personal space because I need space as well but when he told me his ex broke up with him because he refused to move in with her, it worried me that he rather have his freedom and personal space than being in a serious relationship. I just don't want to waste time if he will never compromise..

Mmm, if he's like me, he's the type to believe that marriages can function living in separate homes (so long as there are no kids). That my friend, is a Gem moon for you. You should ask him that question. See what he tells you.

What he and his ex broke up over is a giant red flag for most women, but 'boundaries' isn't a word you'll find in a gem moon's book of conduct. I know I'm going full-on astrology here, but this placement is unorthodox and fickle to a great extent. By remaining separate, you also remain interesting. And when you remain interesting, there is NO ONE on the entire planet they want more. It's almost like the further away you are from the gem moon, the closer they are to you.

These moons are superficial though. Gemini intelligence is massive, but general. They know a lot about everything, but nothing beyond the extent of their attention span. Depending on other placements, their love lives are much the same way. Haha! I practically want to say that those with multiple personalities would be perfect for them 😆

I kid, but to make things short, I understand that everything I'm saying is only confirming for you that gem moons are difficult, but it really depends on who they are partnered up with. Speaking both astrology and non, it simply comes down to compatibility.
Oh God I'm scared to even ask ?? I feel like he would love being married and living separately which is a hell no in my book! Lol but yes it all comes down to compatibility and he's a fun guy and we get along, he just drive me crazy with the inconsistency. I think you really right about the multiple personalities because he made a comment about how he loves that I'm unpredictable which makes sense now to why he's so into me.
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The good news is there's a limit to all that inconsistency. But admittedly, it can be a bit frustrating at times getting to that point. If you can sustain that unpredictability, the time will pass much easier, and he will eventually settle down. Toss him a puzzle. That'll keep him busy for a little bit so you can get some sleep 😉

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I think the difficulty of dealing with a Gem moon depends on the placements of the person dealing with him/her, and also the level of the relationship with this person. IOW, a cynical/insecure person who is romantically involved with a gem moon will likely find them more difficult than a trusting person who is just their friend.

Speaking from my own experience, this is a very sexual placement and where problems have existed for me with past partners. Sex, whether talking about it or having it typically has a greater level of importance for me than my exes. This opens the gate to communication breakdown, rampant/raging mood changes, and coming off as cold, callus, and detached. We can be pretty superficial too.

All in all, this placement is like a rollercoaster ride: Up and downs, high anticipation and suspense, brief moments of a slowdown before things pick back up even faster than before, etc. Hella fun for a little while, but eventually the person needs to get off of it.
So do you think gemini moons get bored with the same person after awhile? Because I know gemini moons get bored easily and the guy I'm dating hasn't been married yet and likes the freedom of living alone. I'm the opposite with me being a Taurus moon, I need that security and I just can't get that with him

Not necessarily same person, but the same things. Gem moons can tend to be prime candidates for open relationships due to the detached emotions and insatiable need for variety, but it is possible for one person to fulfill their requirements. She just has to be willing to switch things up from time to time. The gem moon needs to be constantly stimulated, and routine kills this like nothing else.

This guy sounds a lot like me in the sense he needs his uncontested, and unmolested personal space; never having been married, and I'm guessing he doesn't have any kids either. Depending on his age, it can be deeply rooted in his psyche at this point that his freedom(s) need to remain intact. This will make it very difficult for any potential partner.

If this is going to work, he has to understand that he is going to have to give you some of him, and what you require instead of what he deems you need. On your end, you will have to adapt somewhat by avoiding routines. The more he already has, the less you can bring to the table. You'll need to be puzzling from time to time because once he's got you all figured out, he will get bored.


Yeah I can respect the need for personal space because I need space as well but when he told me his ex broke up with him because he refused to move in with her, it worried me that he rather have his freedom and personal space than being in a serious relationship. I just don't want to waste time if he will never compromise..

Mmm, if he's like me, he's the type to believe that marriages can function living in separate homes (so long as there are no kids). That my friend, is a Gem moon for you. You should ask him that question. See what he tells you.

What he and his ex broke up over is a giant red flag for most women, but 'boundaries' isn't a word you'll find in a gem moon's book of conduct. I know I'm going full-on astrology here, but this placement is unorthodox and fickle to a great extent. By remaining separate, you also remain interesting. And when you remain interesting, there is NO ONE on the entire planet they want more. It's almost like the further away you are from the gem moon, the closer they are to you.

These moons are superficial though. Gemini intelligence is massive, but general. They know a lot about everything, but nothing beyond the extent of their attention span. Depending on other placements, their love lives are much the same way. Haha! I practically want to say that those with multiple personalities would be perfect for them 😆

I kid, but to make things short, I understand that everything I'm saying is only confirming for you that gem moons are difficult, but it really depends on who they are partnered up with. Speaking both astrology and non, it simply comes down to compatibility.
Oh God I'm scared to even ask ?? I feel like he would love being married and living separately which is a hell no in my book! Lol but yes it all comes down to compatibility and he's a fun guy and we get along, he just drive me crazy with the inconsistency. I think you really right about the multiple personalities because he made a comment about how he loves that I'm unpredictable which makes sense now to why he's so into me.

The good news is there's a limit to all that inconsistency. But admittedly, it can be a bit frustrating at times getting to that point. If you can sustain that unpredictability, the time will pass much easier, and he will eventually settle down. Toss him a puzzle. That'll keep him busy for a little bit so you can get some sleep 😉

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I'll probably be waiting til the end of time before he decide to settle down lol. But he did say he want to eventually get married and have more kids since he only has one child so there is hope ?
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We might be inconsistent but this is why we are attracted to fixed or earth signs... they give us what we lack and what we are aware of. At least I am...
I don't feel inconsistent! I can be very hesitant about what I'm having for lunch but I know exactly where I want to be in 10 years. I'm always moving in the same direction - it's just that I move in a zig-zag line 🙂
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While we seem to be indecisive and distant, we're just pondering our options. It doesn't mean we're incapable of feeling you. We just hate to show it or even admit it to ourselves. You have to keep us entertained, though, I totally agree with that. I'm bored way too easily. Apart from that - Gem moons are the best. 😉
So is it easy to be with one person and only in love with them? Because I've read something before about gemini moons being able to love two different people at once
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I've never been in love with two people at once - I can jump around pretty quickly if I can't make a deep connection, but usually I'm well aware of my feelings. My ex-bf has Gem moon/Gem Venus and he was never in two minds about loving me, being faithful etc. Gem mooners can be very determined.
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While we seem to be indecisive and distant, we're just pondering our options. It doesn't mean we're incapable of feeling you. We just hate to show it or even admit it to ourselves. You have to keep us entertained, though, I totally agree with that. I'm bored way too easily. Apart from that - Gem moons are the best. 😉
So is it easy to be with one person and only in love with them? Because I've read something before about gemini moons being able to love two different people at once
I've never been in love with two people at once - I can jump around pretty quickly if I can't make a deep connection, but usually I'm well aware of my feelings. My ex-bf has Gem moon/Gem Venus and he was never in two minds about loving me, being faithful etc. Gem mooners can be very determined.
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Same here. If I have a deep connection I'm fully loyal and commited, even if we haven started a relationship yet. Cannot even think about someone else. But I have sun in cancer and venus in leo - always thought those were good placements for loyalty.
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