Cancer man made a fake profile to follow me

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Posted by LuckyLibra7
I find this to be more of a water sign issue, although anyone can keep tabs.


If he took the time to make a fake profile, he hasn't moved on.


True. I don’t plan on reaching out to him anytime. If he reaches out I will be happy to hear from him and I will keep the conversation to a minimum. Although I’m the type of person if you tell me you are moving on I will definitely drop off the face of the earth and work on moving on as well.
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I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.
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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.


Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.


Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?


People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.


Lol I’m playing games because I blocked him to help myself move on 😂. I stopped reading after you said that.

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I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

Lol I’m playing games because I blocked him to help myself move on 😂. I stopped reading after you said that.


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Yeah right, you're a Scorpio lol That's an impossible task!

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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.
Lol I’m playing games because I blocked him to help myself move on 😂. I stopped reading after you said that.


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Yeah right, you're a Scorpio lol That's an impossible task!


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It feels impossible. I am trying tho. I be wanting to reach out to him so bad. I’m trying to put my focus and energy into other ppl to help me. Because if he’s telling me he’s moving on I want to respect that. But I’m missing him in the process.
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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

Lol I’m playing games because I blocked him to help myself move on 😂. I stopped reading after you said that.

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Yeah right, you're a Scorpio lol That's an impossible task!


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It feels impossible. I am trying tho. I be wanting to reach out to him so bad. I’m trying to put my focus and energy into other ppl to help me. Because if he’s telling me he’s moving on I want to respect that. But I’m missing him in the process.

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Did he tell you he wanted to be friends? This is the way most cancers act, they pull back and expect you to chase and prove that you want them. It's like a test. I don't know how long you've been dealing with him, usually it happens when they start catching serious feelings and it doesn't feel reciprocated.

You have to figure out if you want to do that.

Him keeping tabs on you is a clear sign he hasn't moved on.
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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.


Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.


Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?


People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.


She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.

Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.

Tale old as time.
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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.


Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.


Tale old as time.
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A cancer man will disappear lol There are tons of threads on it.

If she likes him and he's feeling unsure and created space, she should try to talk to him and pursue him.

Logic goes out the window with most water signs when they are emotional. They can't grasp the concept with their emotions working in over drive.
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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.


Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.


Tale old as time.

A cancer man will disappear lol There are tons of threads on it.
If she likes him and he's feeling unsure and created space, she should try to talk to him and pursue him.

Logic goes out the window with most water signs when they are emotional. They can't grasp the concept with their emotions working in over drive.
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oh i'm sure.. I'm just talking about her reaction. She does like him, but she wants leverage. He bailed so now he needs to work harder to earn her time.
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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.


Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.


Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?


People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.

Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.

Tale old as time.
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You’re so right. I am willing to talk it out to with him if he circles back. But I won’t expect anything I will just be more open this time and hopefully we can be acquainted again. In the meantime I will respect his wishes.
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I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.


Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.


Tale old as time.

A cancer man will disappear lol There are tons of threads on it.
If she likes him and he's feeling unsure and created space, she should try to talk to him and pursue him.

Logic goes out the window with most water signs when they are emotional. They can't grasp the concept with their emotions working in over drive.
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Thank you. I do like him a lot. My logic definitely goes out the window when I get emotional I be getting sad when it don’t even be that deep lol.
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Posted by saggurl88
I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.


Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.


Tale old as time.
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You’re so right. I am willing to talk it out to with him if he circles back. But I won’t expect anything I will just be more open this time and hopefully we can be acquainted again. In the meantime I will respect his wishes.
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Over time people tend to see the past through rose-tinted glasses. I think you should think about why he left, what he told you prior to disappearing, his behavior and how you behaved during the relationship.

You already stated you weren't very open. Without reflection and effort, you're doomed to repeat if he does circle back.
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I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.
She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.

Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.

Tale old as time.

A cancer man will disappear lol There are tons of threads on it.

If she likes him and he's feeling unsure and created space, she should try to talk to him and pursue him.


Logic goes out the window with most water signs when they are emotional. They can't grasp the concept with their emotions working in over drive.
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Thank you. I do like him a lot. My logic definitely goes out the window when I get emotional I be getting sad when it don’t even be that deep lol.
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My chart is 50 percent water, I get the same way, my Cancer moon is irrational and I usually deal with the consequences later. Thank goodness for my sun sign to help guide me through it.
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I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.


Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.


Tale old as time.
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You’re so right. I am willing to talk it out to with him if he circles back. But I won’t expect anything I will just be more open this time and hopefully we can be acquainted again. In the meantime I will respect his wishes.

Over time people tend to see the past through rose-tinted glasses. I think you should think about why he left, what he told you prior to disappearing, his behavior and how you behaved during the relationship.

You already stated you weren't very open. Without reflection and effort, you're doomed to repeat if he does circle back.
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I have thought about it. I even wrote down areas I need to improve with him. I will be vulnerable next time and going forward. I was afraid to be open. I won’t be afraid anymore if he comes back. I will put in better effort this time. I am determined not to repeat the past. This has been the upmost learning experience for me.

I needed to hear this.
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I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

She's just matching his energy. Following his lead with moving on, but not confessing what she wants.


Why do all of this instead of talking directly? Because it boils down to leverage.. now she has created hoops to jump through if he circles back.


Tale old as time.


A cancer man will disappear lol There are tons of threads on it.

If she likes him and he's feeling unsure and created space, she should try to talk to him and pursue him.


Logic goes out the window with most water signs when they are emotional. They can't grasp the concept with their emotions working in over drive.

oh i'm sure.. I'm just talking about her reaction. She does like him, but she wants leverage. He bailed so now he needs to work harder to earn her time.
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He won’t have to work harder at all. I just need one phone call and I will try to make amends. At first I was thinking that way because I was hurt by him wanting to move on but now I’m like I will give him his space and if he comes back I’m accepting him with open arms. With no expectations. I just want to be at least on good terms with him it doesn’t even have to be a relationship anymore.
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I seriously don't know how you water signs have the patience for these man children.

Both of you guys are playing games.

He says he's moving on and you blocking him but missing him daily and knowing he created a fake page to keep up with you- I bet you accepted the request too.

Why do all this instead of talking directly? Then you say you already make the decision to cut the convo short- for what reason?

People make you feel how they feel. So in this situation- how is he making you feel?

Once you figure that out, you can address the situation and figure out how he is feeling and how to fix it.

Lol I’m playing games because I blocked him to help myself move on 😂. I stopped reading after you said that.

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Yeah right, you're a Scorpio lol That's an impossible task!


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It feels impossible. I am trying tho. I be wanting to reach out to him so bad. I’m trying to put my focus and energy into other ppl to help me. Because if he’s telling me he’s moving on I want to respect that. But I’m missing him in the process.

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Did he tell you he wanted to be friends? This is the way most cancers act, they pull back and expect you to chase and prove that you want them. It's like a test. I don't know how long you've been dealing with him, usually it happens when they start catching serious feelings and it doesn't feel reciprocated.

You have to figure out if you want to do that.

Him keeping tabs on you is a clear sign he hasn't moved on.
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Yes he wanted to be friends. We have been dealing with each other for almost a year. I can say I kind of failed on reciprocating the feelings. I wasn’t being as much into it as he was. But I didn’t know how because I was dealing with a lot of personal issues at home. I tried explaining this to him but he wanted to be first in my life no matter how bad stuff was in my personal life when he wasn’t around.

It turned into us arguing and he said he’s moving on.

2 weeks before this we barely talked. We talked twice within those 2 weeks and it was me that initiated those conversations. Things were getting rocky then. finally this last conversation he said he’s not doing this with me anymore he’s moving on