Do they lie a lot— (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by sarasa on Sunday, March 23, 2008 and has 55 replies.

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@coldwateryvirgo
9 Years500+ PostsVirgo

If any cancer out there is listening. As a girl DO NOT LIE WHEN YOU NEED SPACE.

Just simply say: Look I love/like (whatever your relationship is with that person) you but sometimes I just need sometime alone. It's just my personality. I'm not leaving to do anything and nothing is wrong. You're still my only girl/ friend etc.

That's all you need to say. You don't have to explain what you are doing but if you really care about someone, a little reassurance that it isn't about them is all someone need. Especially if they have known you for sometime and know your personality. Or just give people a head up like " hey, I'm a weirdo , i disappear sometime, it caused problem before with other people but it's just me , take it or leave it ." lol

But If you say " I need space " or simply lie to get space ...people will sense the lie and think you are not simply needing space.

People might not be able to know your little white lies but they can feel it. They can also feel that you aren't just needing space and that you actually need this time to think if you want to stay with her or not etc.

It is easy to sense you need space because of problems or you need space because you need to go recharge yourself.

It's not so hard , people make it hard because they think lying is easier

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@Puguglies
9 Years

From my experience, cancers lie for the sake of lying. I know a few cancers who lie just because they can. But oddly, the same cancers also claim to bethe "realest" people out there...