CaptainCoulter
@MissLadyIceQueen
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The way you show love.
Posted by MagicMona
if everything is tied with money, after while it can become meaningless. i like displays from a person's heart. someone buying things for me really does not mean much because i can buy my own things. give me something you made, wrote, cooked, or took special time on. something that comes from your own hands from your own mind and creativity speaks volumes to me, unlike a price tag. things that come from a store can be replaced. i want something special from my person that cannot be.
i'm a cap venus; i show my love. i dont speak it. i take special care and put all of my energy in crafting something for my s/o. i dont care if it's a gourmet meal, a loving massage, or a painting. i dont mind buying things, but i don't want to give my partner the idea that showing my love equates to shopping all the time.
Yesssss!!!! Like let's say they love a certain band I'm going to get us tickets to see them type buy them stuff. I do also love to cook for my s/o as well. I like doing crafty things together. I once planned an entire prom for a significant other. She told me she never went to prom. So I was going to throw her one with my friends and her friends all going . Surprise her with it by having a limo pick her up. I was going to get her mom to take her to get her hair and nails done as a " girls day cover". We broke up before I could actually do it for her though. I always love your responses. You're pretty okay in my book!
My Cap husband for 23 years thinks he is the best thing after sliced bread and showing his life by...driving me to work!
Funny? Yep!
Funny? Yep!
Posted by MagicMona? Maybe one day! If not that's okay too. I like to coordinate the grand romantic gestures to fit the person. Awe shucks thanks! It also doesn't hurt that I'm cute too? I used to not be a natural. When I was younger I was terrible with romance and a bratty bitch, very selfish. I've really grown into it the last few years and came so far as a person.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenthank you dear 🙂 i'm sorry that you girls broke up before you could execute your awesome plan. but hey, maybe one day you really will get to put your plan into action. you sound like a natural romantic. someone will hit the jackpot when they take you off the market.Posted by MagicMona
if everything is tied with money, after while it can become meaningless. i like displays from a person's heart. someone buying things for me really does not mean much because i can buy my own things. give me something you made, wrote, cooked, or took special time on. something that comes from your own hands from your own mind and creativity speaks volumes to me, unlike a price tag. things that come from a store can be replaced. i want something special from my person that cannot be.
i'm a cap venus; i show my love. i dont speak it. i take special care and put all of my energy in crafting something for my s/o. i dont care if it's a gourmet meal, a loving massage, or a painting. i dont mind buying things, but i don't want to give my partner the idea that showing my love equates to shopping all the time.
Yesssss!!!! Like let's say they love a certain band I'm going to get us tickets to see them type buy them stuff. I do also love to cook for my s/o as well. I like doing crafty things together. I once planned an entire prom for a significant other. She told me she never went to prom. So I was going to throw her one with my friends and her friends all going . Surprise her with it by having a limo pick her up. I was going to get her mom to take her to get her hair and nails done as a " girls day cover". We broke up before I could actually do it for her though. I always love your responses. You're pretty okay in my book!
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Posted by GemitatiWell he married you didn't he? What more could you want? I'm joking ! Umm try dropping hints about something. If he doesn't catch on then I'm sorry ?
My Cap husband for 23 years thinks he is the best thing after sliced bread and showing his life by...driving me to work!
Funny? Yep!
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenDropping dropping...like frigginh hamster!Posted by GemitatiWell he married you didn't he? What more could you want? I'm joking ! Umm try dropping hints about something. If he doesn't catch on then I'm sorry ?
My Cap husband for 23 years thinks he is the best thing after sliced bread and showing his life by...driving me to work!
Funny? Yep!click to expand
The King is never wrong!
The end is near...
I feel I can only show it through touch. Im extremely affectionate.
I'm always there and available.
That's about all I can think of. I'm not the most expressive or creative person when it comes to that.
On the flip side, I feel a person can only show it to me through touch, and how he responds to me in body language etc.
For me, words, gifts, dinners don't tell me much about how a person feels. Like I can't tell a person loves or even likes me by doing those things.
I'm always there and available.
That's about all I can think of. I'm not the most expressive or creative person when it comes to that.
On the flip side, I feel a person can only show it to me through touch, and how he responds to me in body language etc.
For me, words, gifts, dinners don't tell me much about how a person feels. Like I can't tell a person loves or even likes me by doing those things.
I love the way the sign express their love ....
water signs (affection and sex) ...ever been dick down/lick down by a scorpio thats in love with you ? yea me neither? but its sounds awesome...in theory
earth (caretaking) ..this means paying the bills, doing chores, taking care of you ..it sounds boring ..you know cause it is ...but if some one loves you enough to help with all the shitty parts of life ..thats love right?
air (words) so many lovely words ...sometimes just being reassured your the cutest, most fuckable person on any of the planets thats counting the ones that aqua believes in is enough...
fire (grand declarations of love ) this is the type of love everyone sees on tv ...awww ...he filled your entire car with flowers (even though you have terrible allergies) or built you and underground pool without a city license..
😆 😆
water signs (affection and sex) ...ever been dick down/lick down by a scorpio thats in love with you ? yea me neither? but its sounds awesome...in theory
earth (caretaking) ..this means paying the bills, doing chores, taking care of you ..it sounds boring ..you know cause it is ...but if some one loves you enough to help with all the shitty parts of life ..thats love right?
air (words) so many lovely words ...sometimes just being reassured your the cutest, most fuckable person on any of the planets thats counting the ones that aqua believes in is enough...
fire (grand declarations of love ) this is the type of love everyone sees on tv ...awww ...he filled your entire car with flowers (even though you have terrible allergies) or built you and underground pool without a city license..
😆 😆
Posted by GemitatiJust come out and say it to him then. Be like I need you to be more romantic. Give me some spark! Try ignoring him for a little bit, like no sex , or terrible dinners. Then when he's like what gives? Be like no romance no blah blah. Make him work for it.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenDropping dropping...like frigginh hamster!Posted by GemitatiWell he married you didn't he? What more could you want? I'm joking ! Umm try dropping hints about something. If he doesn't catch on then I'm sorry ?
My Cap husband for 23 years thinks he is the best thing after sliced bread and showing his life by...driving me to work!
Funny? Yep!
The King is never wrong!
The end is near...click to expand
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenHahaha! For how many years—Posted by GemitatiJust come out and say it to him then. Be like I need you to be more romantic. Give me some spark! Try ignoring him for a little bit, like no sex , or terrible dinners. Then when he's like what gives? Be like no romance no blah blah. Make him work for it.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenDropping dropping...like frigginh hamster!Posted by GemitatiWell he married you didn't he? What more could you want? I'm joking ! Umm try dropping hints about something. If he doesn't catch on then I'm sorry ?
My Cap husband for 23 years thinks he is the best thing after sliced bread and showing his life by...driving me to work!
Funny? Yep!
The King is never wrong!
The end is near...click to expand
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Posted by MagicMonaThis is why I nod my head so hard when you type. Cap Venus. All of this is me.
if everything is tied with money, after while it can become meaningless. i like displays from a person's heart. someone buying things for me really does not mean much because i can buy my own things. give me something you made, wrote, cooked, or took special time on. something that comes from your own hands from your own mind and creativity speaks volumes to me, unlike a price tag. things that come from a store can be replaced. i want something special from my person that cannot be.
i'm a cap venus; i show my love. i dont speak it. i take special care and put all of my energy in crafting something for my s/o. i dont care if it's a gourmet meal, a loving massage, or a painting. i dont mind buying things, but i don't want to give my partner the idea that showing my love equates to shopping all the time.
Posted by GemitatiUntil it clicks in his hard head that it takes to two —Posted by MissLadyIceQueenHahaha! For how many years—Posted by GemitatiJust come out and say it to him then. Be like I need you to be more romantic. Give me some spark! Try ignoring him for a little bit, like no sex , or terrible dinners. Then when he's like what gives? Be like no romance no blah blah. Make him work for it.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenDropping dropping...like frigginh hamster!Posted by GemitatiWell he married you didn't he? What more could you want? I'm joking ! Umm try dropping hints about something. If he doesn't catch on then I'm sorry ?
My Cap husband for 23 years thinks he is the best thing after sliced bread and showing his life by...driving me to work!
Funny? Yep!
The King is never wrong!
The end is near...
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As an aqua venus, how I show love is a random surprise+ doing practical stuff for you. Its a coin toss between the two everyday.
Posted by daron76I'm an aqua Venus too! Can you give some examples?
As an aqua venus, how I show love is a random surprise+ doing practical stuff for you. Its a coin toss between the two everyday.
My mothers Cap ex would cook for her too. Really, he'd Cook for all of us. We were not his kids, but he always made sure we were fed, had a roof over our heads, and money in our pockets...especially my sisters pocket. She knew how to get money out of that man.
In my mothers mind, he cooked for her so she could get fat. She says one day he bought her 2-3 boxes of chicken and watched her eat it all in bed. I bet she had been full, but stupid stuff like that was entertainment for them both smh..
In my mothers mind, he cooked for her so she could get fat. She says one day he bought her 2-3 boxes of chicken and watched her eat it all in bed. I bet she had been full, but stupid stuff like that was entertainment for them both smh..
Posted by RindarooYeah I love food. I like sharing buying cooking food for myself and s/o.Posted by lnana04Lol. I tell him sometimes he is trying to make me fat. It is very important to him that I eat.. so try to just take small portions ? He just told me last night that we need to make a pact to both go to the gym 3-4 times a week & that he needs to eat better! — I think I've told him this a few times!!
My mothers Cap ex would cook for her too. Really, he'd Cook for all of us. We were not his kids, but he always made sure we were fed, had a roof over our heads, and money in our pockets...especially my sisters pocket. She knew how to get money out of that man.
In my mothers mind, he cooked for her so she could get fat. She says one day he bought her 2-3 boxes of chicken and watched her eat it all in bed. I bet she had been full, but stupid stuff like that was entertainment for them both smh..click to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by daron76This is how my sons dad is (also aqua Venus)
As an aqua venus, how I show love is a random surprise+ doing practical stuff for you. Its a coin toss between the two everyday.click to expand
In the beginning (and sometimes, still) he started off doing small practical things, if he knows I take an interest or have a need for it, he buys it for me. When he learned I didn't have a brush to brush the snow off my car, he bought me one. He made CDs for me all the time. Didn't have a foreman grill, he bought me one. Countless times he would be out and see something he thought I might like, sunglasses or sneakers or an outfit and he would buy it. Just random as hell like daron said.
If it involves goals/hobbies I was pursuing, he would buy it. When I was in nursing school he bought an iMac computer for my birthday as well as an iPad mini. When I discovered my interest in making crafts/personalized gifts, he bought me a t-shirt heat press and other tools and supplies. He loves to buy practical gifts that I can use everyday.
I can depend on him to do anything. Flat tire? He was always right there to save me even if we were fighting. He cooks more than I do. If I have a headache, he is rubbing my temples. He painted my toes and shaved me when I was pregnant with our son ?? He's a natural caregiver which is a rare quality for a man to have and one of the many reasons why I love him so much.
For my 30th birthday I went out with my friends and got so lit. Lol my friends called him so he could come pick me up. I was vomiting and couldn't stand up.. He carried me into my apartment, stripped me out my pukey clothes, and put a bottle of ginger ale, aspirin and waste basket by my side of the bed.
After many years together he still does all of those small practical things, except now he is also very vocal about how he feels about me. it's been interesting to see how he has changed from being a man of very little words (expression of emotion) to going as far as saying he "can't do this without me". Sorry for my long post but we're talking almost 10 years so I had lots of examples. Lol
But thank God he didn't judge me for the drunken pukey 30th birthday outing —? but i haven't drank like that since then lmao
Oh awesome ! Yeah that's what I meant by buying things for my s/o. Don't apologize! I had no idea that was aqua Venus thing. He sounds like a keeper!
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