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So my bf was talking about marriage and buying me an engagement ring! He was drunk and obviously I’m not taking him seriously about this right now, but it got me thinking.

Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?

Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?

Did you love your ring or hate it?

How does a man know what size ring to get?

If there is a process, please share.

Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?

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I didnt pick my engagement ring out but I did pick out the actual wedding band.

It was not what I would have picked out for myself but I loved it regardless because it was from him.

I did have to get it resized because it was to big, but not by much.

I wouldnt have enjoyed picking it out myself because it would have felt to planned out, like he asked me to marry him with out the ring... wtf.... doesn't seem very romantic... but I know couples who have done it and that's their thing so who am I to judge.
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I didnt pick my engagement ring out but I did pick out the actual wedding band.

It was not what I would have picked out for myself but I loved it regardless because it was from him.

I did have to get it resized because it was to big, but not by much.

I wouldnt have enjoyed picking it out myself because it would have felt to planned out, like he asked me to marry him with out the ring... wtf.... doesn't seem very romantic... but I know couples who have done it and that's their thing so who am I to judge.


Years ago I thought about picking out my own because I love jewelry and I want something I love, but now I’m thinking it’s more special if the guy does it.
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
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It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
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I had picked mine, but thats only because the Aries wouldn't have known where to start lol. He suggested I pick what i wanted...He was a bit scattered. I loved it though and liked that I was able to choose one I knew I'd like.

I think most men would be terrible at this. My bf is an Aries. U made me nervous 😬 😂
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He will be fine im sure, to be honest the ring is secondary anyway. Is the fact that he chose you that will matter x
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I didnt pick my engagement ring out but I did pick out the actual wedding band.

It was not what I would have picked out for myself but I loved it regardless because it was from him.

I did have to get it resized because it was to big, but not by much.

I wouldnt have enjoyed picking it out myself because it would have felt to planned out, like he asked me to marry him with out the ring... wtf.... doesn't seem very romantic... but I know couples who have done it and that's their thing so who am I to judge.

Years ago I thought about picking out my own because I love jewelry and I want something I love, but now I’m thinking it’s more special if the guy does it.
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The only way I could see it being somewhat romantic to pick out my own is if my man was really rich and he took me to the jewelery store, got down on one knee, asked me to marry him in that moment and if I said yes I'd get to pick out what I wanted. 😂 But that's like a billion to one chance of that happening.
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

You should write a book

Thinking of the title

Why men marry cleaners

Nah that sucks

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Hahaha this made me laugh
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
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Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
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I like these as a wedding band (for me)

I am waiting on an earring from them

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I like the rose gold but the skulls are hilarious.

I think I prefer something like this more. But I don’t really need to get married to buy it. I just like shiny shiny.

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Pretty 🤩🤍
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I like these as a wedding band (for me)

I am waiting on an earring from them

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Earrings with skulls?

It’s so not gay...why skulls? Are you THE MAN?

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I’m getting seriously confused with Peak Soy and Sith Rogen 😅 these prawns are multiplying
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So my bf was talking about marriage and buying me an engagement ring! He was drunk and obviously I’m not taking him seriously about this right now, but it got me thinking.

Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?

Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?

Did you love your ring or hate it?

How does a man know what size ring to get?

If there is a process, please share.

Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?

OMGOMGOMG!!!

I am so psyched!!!

I have no answers. I never had a ring...but if he gave me the ring - he would better let me pick it out! Or it would be ugly...

Congratulations!!!
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lol thank you!! But I don’t take him seriously right now. He said he wanted to get married this year! I told him I want to date for about two years. It’s been a 3.5 months lol he was drunk tooooooo.

I’m afraid it will be ugly too lol
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So my bf was talking about marriage and buying me an engagement ring! He was drunk and obviously I’m not taking him seriously about this right now, but it got me thinking.

Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?

Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?

Did you love your ring or hate it?

How does a man know what size ring to get?

If there is a process, please share.

Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?

OMGOMGOMG!!!

I am so psyched!!!

I have no answers. I never had a ring...but if he gave me the ring - he would better let me pick it out! Or it would be ugly...

Congratulations!!!

lol thank you!! But I don’t take him seriously right now. He said he wanted to get married this year! I told him I want to date for about two years. It’s been a 3.5 months lol he was drunk tooooooo.

I’m afraid it will be ugly too lol
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I bet if an Aries man buys a ring it will be ugly
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Posted by pinkbird03

So my bf was talking about marriage and buying me an engagement ring! He was drunk and obviously I’m not taking him seriously about this right now, but it got me thinking.

Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?

Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?

Did you love your ring or hate it?

How does a man know what size ring to get?

If there is a process, please share.

Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?

OMGOMGOMG!!!

I am so psyched!!!

I have no answers. I never had a ring...but if he gave me the ring - he would better let me pick it out! Or it would be ugly...

Congratulations!!!

lol thank you!! But I don’t take him seriously right now. He said he wanted to get married this year! I told him I want to date for about two years. It’s been a 3.5 months lol he was drunk tooooooo.

I’m afraid it will be ugly too lol

I bet if an Aries man buys a ring it will be ugly
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Yeah....
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Posted by PeakSoy

I like these as a wedding band (for me)

I am waiting on an earring from them

Image Not Found

Earrings with skulls?

It’s so not gay...why skulls? Are you THE MAN?

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I’m getting seriously confused with Peak Soy and Sith Rogen 😅 these prawns are multiplying

It’s them clowns who are in love/hate forever rship?
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My husband picked everything along with the rest of the fine bridal jewelry. His choices ended up being tasteful. I also didn't want to be put in the spotlight of having to choose within a certain personal range he had in mind especially since I'm very picky and I didn't want him getting the wrong impression ya feel


Yea. I was thinking that too. Rings cost a lot of money. Who knows what his price range is.
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
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How long have you been dating him?
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.

How long have you been dating him?
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Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.

How long have you been dating him?

Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.
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That’s quick!
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Posted by Isolde
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Isolde

Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.

How long have you been dating him?

Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.

That’s quick!

Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.

And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol
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And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels
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Posted by Isolde
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Isolde

Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.

How long have you been dating him?

Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.

That’s quick!

Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.

And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol

And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels

I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.
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I agree

Give yourself time to get to know someone and what you’re committing to...
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Posted by Isolde

Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.

How long have you been dating him?

Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.

That’s quick!

Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.

And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol

And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels

I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.

I agree

Give yourself time to get to know someone and what you’re committing to...

I would say I didn’t really know him until 2-3 years into being married. And we got married after I knew him for a year.

Mutables smh
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I had two years in my mind too...
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.

How long have you been dating him?

Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.

That’s quick!

Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.

And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol

And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels

I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.
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If you read my posts, you’d know I told him 2 years and that I didn’t take his drunk convo seriously. I was just curious about ring stuff as I’ve never been close to getting married. And actually one time 10+ years ago my bf at the time and I went into a jewelry store. The sales women asked me if I wanted to try on engagement rings. I said no, but always wondered if that was a thing. So now I’m asking.
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Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.

It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally

Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.

How long have you been dating him?

Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.

That’s quick!

Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.

And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol

And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels

I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.

I agree

Give yourself time to get to know someone and what you’re committing to...

I would say I didn’t really know him until 2-3 years into being married. And we got married after I knew him for a year.

Mutables smh

I had two years in my mind too...
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Yes. I’m also 31 so times ticking. But two years is what I want.
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Ooooooh congrats! ♥️♥️♥️

It’s sweet to know a man cares. So many men don’t verbalize their feelings. Not that this guy does often except I love you, so that’s why everything he said feels special.

Yes cherish it! Take time tho, and don't rush into things. Has he brought it up since his drunkenness?
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Not about marriage, but about kids. Mentioning that my clocks ticking (cuz I’m 31). Hes 36. Then he gave me a tour of his work - something he seemed very excited to share with me.

I’ll be honest, I’m the one who has a wall up because I’ve dated a few guys that I was hopeful for and wasted my time. He acts nothing like them which is a great thing, but also why I’m thinking about our relationship so much. As if it’s too good to be true.
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Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..


Lol See I’m not a ring person in general. I don’t even know what looks good on me. I probably couldn’t pick out a ring for another person. Did you prefer to go ring shopping or was it his idea?
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Ooooooh congrats! ♥️♥️♥️

It’s sweet to know a man cares. So many men don’t verbalize their feelings. Not that this guy does often except I love you, so that’s why everything he said feels special.

Yes cherish it! Take time tho, and don't rush into things. Has he brought it up since his drunkenness?

Not about marriage, but about kids. Mentioning that my clocks ticking (cuz I’m 31). Hes 36. Then he gave me a tour of his work - something he seemed very excited to share with me.

I’ll be honest, I’m the one who has a wall up because I’ve dated a few guys that I was hopeful for and wasted my time. He acts nothing like them which is a great thing, but also why I’m thinking about our relationship so much. As if it’s too good to be true.

Well, everyone has their own timeline. If it feels good, keep feeling good. Why not...

Do what feels right at that time. If kids first feels better, and than marriage... Then do that.

I have a Leo friend who got pregnant after 2 years and married after 6. Her kids thought the wedding was amazing.
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Hmm I’m a traditional person so marriage first would be my preference, but that idea could be good considering our ages. We both want kids, but we both don’t want them right now. We both have this I wanna be 21 forever mindset. It’s a inner conflict for us. I’ve thought about adopting if I got too old. I’m also worried about ruining my body from kids. I’m petite. I’d need a c-section.
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Ooooooh congrats! ♥️♥️♥️

It’s sweet to know a man cares. So many men don’t verbalize their feelings. Not that this guy does often except I love you, so that’s why everything he said feels special.

Yes cherish it! Take time tho, and don't rush into things. Has he brought it up since his drunkenness?

Not about marriage, but about kids. Mentioning that my clocks ticking (cuz I’m 31). Hes 36. Then he gave me a tour of his work - something he seemed very excited to share with me.

I’ll be honest, I’m the one who has a wall up because I’ve dated a few guys that I was hopeful for and wasted my time. He acts nothing like them which is a great thing, but also why I’m thinking about our relationship so much. As if it’s too good to be true.

Lol he is my age 😅
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Do you want marriage or kids—
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Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..

Lol See I’m not a ring person in general. I don’t even know what looks good on me. I probably couldn’t pick out a ring for another person. Did you prefer to go ring shopping or was it his idea?
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I’m not so much a ring person either. His idea? So long ago hard to remember lol.. neither of them had any clue so it was easier to go together. Both were pretty simple, both diamonds but small ones. To me it’s just a symbol, the marriage is what’s most important.

I probably got a smaller one by going together lol.. but ones I liked.

First time I don’t know what the hell we were doing, it was way too fast, we were too young & a bad idea. Second time we were already living together for a couple of years & I was pregnant. He wanted to be married before the baby was born.
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Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..

Lol See I’m not a ring person in general. I don’t even know what looks good on me. I probably couldn’t pick out a ring for another person. Did you prefer to go ring shopping or was it his idea?

I’m not so much a ring person either. His idea? So long ago hard to remember lol.. neither of them had any clue so it was easier to go together. Both were pretty simple, both diamonds but small ones. To me it’s just a symbol, the marriage is what’s most important.

I probably got a smaller one by going together lol.. but ones I liked.

First time I don’t know what the hell we were doing, it was way too fast, we were too young & a bad idea. Second time we were already living together for a couple of years & I was pregnant. He wanted to be married before the baby was born.
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At least you got something you liked. I could see it being uncomfortable knowing the price when u were looking. I’d feel guilty knowing how much it is. The only thing I want is a real diamond. I don’t want a fake diamond. Since I was a young child, my family began buying me pearls for a necklace. I finished maybe 6 years ago. It’s worth $ 3,000. I’ve never worn it. Where would I wear it— Saving it for my wedding day. Would I be afraid to wear a wedding ring everywhere?? Oh goodness.
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Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..

Lol See I’m not a ring person in general. I don’t even know what looks good on me. I probably couldn’t pick out a ring for another person. Did you prefer to go ring shopping or was it his idea?

I’m not so much a ring person either. His idea? So long ago hard to remember lol.. neither of them had any clue so it was easier to go together. Both were pretty simple, both diamonds but small ones. To me it’s just a symbol, the marriage is what’s most important.

I probably got a smaller one by going together lol.. but ones I liked.

First time I don’t know what the hell we were doing, it was way too fast, we were too young & a bad idea. Second time we were already living together for a couple of years & I was pregnant. He wanted to be married before the baby was born.

At least you got something you liked. I could see it being uncomfortable knowing the price when u were looking. I’d feel guilty knowing how much it is. The only thing I want is a real diamond. I don’t want a fake diamond. Since I was a young child, my family began buying me pearls for a necklace. I finished maybe 6 years ago. It’s worth $ 3,000. I’ve never worn it. Where would I wear it— Saving it for my wedding day. Would I be afraid to wear a wedding ring everywhere?? Oh goodness.
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You could alway pick out and hint some style s online and he can actually go out to the Jewellers, and pick out something in his price range
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