
Pink Bird
@pinkbird03
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Posted by PeakSoy
She can look at it for the whole day
And then off to the safe it goes
She can pick out her wedding band 😅

Posted by PeakSoy
She can look at it for the whole day
And then off to the safe it goes
She can pick out her wedding band 😅




Posted by BlueStarPosted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
Why not have someone to clean up after you forever—? 🙄click to expand

Posted by SeaLion
I didnt pick my engagement ring out but I did pick out the actual wedding band.
It was not what I would have picked out for myself but I loved it regardless because it was from him.
I did have to get it resized because it was to big, but not by much.
I wouldnt have enjoyed picking it out myself because it would have felt to planned out, like he asked me to marry him with out the ring... wtf.... doesn't seem very romantic... but I know couples who have done it and that's their thing so who am I to judge.

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I had picked mine, but thats only because the Aries wouldn't have known where to start lol. He suggested I pick what i wanted...He was a bit scattered. I loved it though and liked that I was able to choose one I knew I'd like.

Posted by BlueStarPosted by IsoldePosted by BlueStarPosted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
Why not have someone to clean up after you forever—? 🙄
Hey if the supply and demand works for them 😆
Sounds like decades of resentment. 😛click to expand

Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I had picked mine, but thats only because the Aries wouldn't have known where to start lol. He suggested I pick what i wanted...He was a bit scattered. I loved it though and liked that I was able to choose one I knew I'd like.
I think most men would be terrible at this. My bf is an Aries. U made me nervous 😬 😂click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by SeaLion
I didnt pick my engagement ring out but I did pick out the actual wedding band.
It was not what I would have picked out for myself but I loved it regardless because it was from him.
I did have to get it resized because it was to big, but not by much.
I wouldnt have enjoyed picking it out myself because it would have felt to planned out, like he asked me to marry him with out the ring... wtf.... doesn't seem very romantic... but I know couples who have done it and that's their thing so who am I to judge.
Years ago I thought about picking out my own because I love jewelry and I want something I love, but now I’m thinking it’s more special if the guy does it.click to expand

Posted by PeakSoyPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
You should write a book
Thinking of the title
Why men marry cleaners
Nah that sucks
Working titleclick to expand

Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literallyclick to expand

Posted by PeakSoyPosted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by PeakSoy
I like these as a wedding band (for me)
I am waiting on an earring from them
Earrings with skulls?
It’s so not gay...why skulls? Are you THE MAN?
https://i.ibb.co/5KPt6fW/23-EC4923-DC16-47-EA-9179-F2982-FDC6267.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by BlueStarPosted by PeakSoy
I like these as a wedding band (for me)
I am waiting on an earring from them
I like the rose gold but the skulls are hilarious.
I think I prefer something like this more. But I don’t really need to get married to buy it. I just like shiny shiny.
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/1a/e4/8a/1ae48a5b835509efec0d7356f935cb77.jpg<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by PeakSoyPosted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by PeakSoy
I like these as a wedding band (for me)
I am waiting on an earring from them
Earrings with skulls?
It’s so not gay...why skulls? Are you THE MAN?
https://i.ibb.co/5KPt6fW/23-EC4923-DC16-47-EA-9179-F2982-FDC6267.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by pinkbird03
So my bf was talking about marriage and buying me an engagement ring! He was drunk and obviously I’m not taking him seriously about this right now, but it got me thinking.
Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?
Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?
Did you love your ring or hate it?
How does a man know what size ring to get?
If there is a process, please share.
Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?
OMGOMGOMG!!!
I am so psyched!!!
I have no answers. I never had a ring...but if he gave me the ring - he would better let me pick it out! Or it would be ugly...
Congratulations!!!click to expand

Posted by Pulsy
No family airlooms my ex ask
For it back because his mother died n it had been hers. So don’t accept family airlooms

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by pinkbird03
So my bf was talking about marriage and buying me an engagement ring! He was drunk and obviously I’m not taking him seriously about this right now, but it got me thinking.
Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?
Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?
Did you love your ring or hate it?
How does a man know what size ring to get?
If there is a process, please share.
Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?
OMGOMGOMG!!!
I am so psyched!!!
I have no answers. I never had a ring...but if he gave me the ring - he would better let me pick it out! Or it would be ugly...
Congratulations!!!
lol thank you!! But I don’t take him seriously right now. He said he wanted to get married this year! I told him I want to date for about two years. It’s been a 3.5 months lol he was drunk tooooooo.
I’m afraid it will be ugly too lolclick to expand

Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by pinkbird03
So my bf was talking about marriage and buying me an engagement ring! He was drunk and obviously I’m not taking him seriously about this right now, but it got me thinking.
Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?
Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?
Did you love your ring or hate it?
How does a man know what size ring to get?
If there is a process, please share.
Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?
OMGOMGOMG!!!
I am so psyched!!!
I have no answers. I never had a ring...but if he gave me the ring - he would better let me pick it out! Or it would be ugly...
Congratulations!!!
lol thank you!! But I don’t take him seriously right now. He said he wanted to get married this year! I told him I want to date for about two years. It’s been a 3.5 months lol he was drunk tooooooo.
I’m afraid it will be ugly too lol
I bet if an Aries man buys a ring it will be uglyclick to expand

Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by IsoldePosted by PeakSoyPosted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by PeakSoy
I like these as a wedding band (for me)
I am waiting on an earring from them
Earrings with skulls?
It’s so not gay...why skulls? Are you THE MAN?
I’m getting seriously confused with Peak Soy and Sith Rogen 😅 these prawns are multiplying
It’s them clowns who are in love/hate forever rship?click to expand


Posted by PulsyPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Pulsy
No family airlooms my ex ask
For it back because his mother died n it had been hers. So don’t accept family airlooms
Oh that’s awful. I’m so sorry u had to go through that.
He probably grave it to his hf at the time.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwi
My husband picked everything along with the rest of the fine bridal jewelry. His choices ended up being tasteful. I also didn't want to be put in the spotlight of having to choose within a certain personal range he had in mind especially since I'm very picky and I didn't want him getting the wrong impression ya feel


Posted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
How long have you been dating him?click to expand

Posted by FactCheck
Most men choose safe/diamond and the wrong size. I'd want something unique. I never get to choose though. I'd want his and her rings that piece together where no exact copies are made lol.

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
How long have you been dating him?
Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.click to expand

Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
How long have you been dating him?
Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.
That’s quick!
Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.
And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lolclick to expand

Posted by BlueStarPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
How long have you been dating him?
Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.
That’s quick!
Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.
And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol
And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels
I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.click to expand

Posted by BlueStarPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BlueStarPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
How long have you been dating him?
Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.
That’s quick!
Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.
And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol
And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels
I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.
I agree
Give yourself time to get to know someone and what you’re committing to...
I would say I didn’t really know him until 2-3 years into being married. And we got married after I knew him for a year.
Mutables smhclick to expand


Posted by PeakSoy
I like these as a wedding band (for me)
I am waiting on an earring from them

Posted by BlueStarPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
How long have you been dating him?
Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.
That’s quick!
Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.
And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol
And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels
I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by BlueStarPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BlueStarPosted by pinkbird03Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by IsoldePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Isolde
Hahah!! So cleaning his house worked 🤣
I guess so!! This man has been spilling his heart out to me and opening up about some important/personal things. It’s interesting how much growth there’s been since cleaning his house and taking care of him. But I think it has a lot to do with that personal thing... big connection there.
It’s because you’ve gone beyond the frivolous stuff. He’s shown you his skeletons in the closet... literally
Very true. I haven’t felt this way with any other man, but I do feel like our relationship was meant to be. That we were matched together for a purpose. That I am exactly what he needs and he’s what I need. We help each other grow and fill each other’s weaknesses.
How long have you been dating him?
Only 3.5 months lol you may know I’ve dated tons of men in the last 8 years looking for someone I could spend the rest of my life with. I’m very picky.
That’s quick!
Some people fuck up after years of happy dating.
And you know - fire is moving like...fire! Lol
And I’m water! Lol when I fall for someone, I’m head over heels
I would not recommend getting married to someone you’ve only known a few months or getting engaged, period.
I agree
Give yourself time to get to know someone and what you’re committing to...
I would say I didn’t really know him until 2-3 years into being married. And we got married after I knew him for a year.
Mutables smh
I had two years in my mind too...click to expand


Posted by Marai
Ooooooh congrats! ♥️♥️♥️


Posted by MaraiPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Marai
Ooooooh congrats! ♥️♥️♥️
It’s sweet to know a man cares. So many men don’t verbalize their feelings. Not that this guy does often except I love you, so that’s why everything he said feels special.
Yes cherish it! Take time tho, and don't rush into things. Has he brought it up since his drunkenness?click to expand

Posted by PuzzlePieces
Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..

Posted by MaraiPosted by pinkbird03Posted by MaraiPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Marai
Ooooooh congrats! ♥️♥️♥️
It’s sweet to know a man cares. So many men don’t verbalize their feelings. Not that this guy does often except I love you, so that’s why everything he said feels special.
Yes cherish it! Take time tho, and don't rush into things. Has he brought it up since his drunkenness?
Not about marriage, but about kids. Mentioning that my clocks ticking (cuz I’m 31). Hes 36. Then he gave me a tour of his work - something he seemed very excited to share with me.
I’ll be honest, I’m the one who has a wall up because I’ve dated a few guys that I was hopeful for and wasted my time. He acts nothing like them which is a great thing, but also why I’m thinking about our relationship so much. As if it’s too good to be true.
Well, everyone has their own timeline. If it feels good, keep feeling good. Why not...
Do what feels right at that time. If kids first feels better, and than marriage... Then do that.
I have a Leo friend who got pregnant after 2 years and married after 6. Her kids thought the wedding was amazing.click to expand

Posted by PeakSoyPosted by pinkbird03Posted by MaraiPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Marai
Ooooooh congrats! ♥️♥️♥️
It’s sweet to know a man cares. So many men don’t verbalize their feelings. Not that this guy does often except I love you, so that’s why everything he said feels special.
Yes cherish it! Take time tho, and don't rush into things. Has he brought it up since his drunkenness?
Not about marriage, but about kids. Mentioning that my clocks ticking (cuz I’m 31). Hes 36. Then he gave me a tour of his work - something he seemed very excited to share with me.
I’ll be honest, I’m the one who has a wall up because I’ve dated a few guys that I was hopeful for and wasted my time. He acts nothing like them which is a great thing, but also why I’m thinking about our relationship so much. As if it’s too good to be true.
Lol he is my age 😅click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by PuzzlePieces
Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..
Lol See I’m not a ring person in general. I don’t even know what looks good on me. I probably couldn’t pick out a ring for another person. Did you prefer to go ring shopping or was it his idea?click to expand

Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PuzzlePieces
Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..
Lol See I’m not a ring person in general. I don’t even know what looks good on me. I probably couldn’t pick out a ring for another person. Did you prefer to go ring shopping or was it his idea?
I’m not so much a ring person either. His idea? So long ago hard to remember lol.. neither of them had any clue so it was easier to go together. Both were pretty simple, both diamonds but small ones. To me it’s just a symbol, the marriage is what’s most important.
I probably got a smaller one by going together lol.. but ones I liked.
First time I don’t know what the hell we were doing, it was way too fast, we were too young & a bad idea. Second time we were already living together for a couple of years & I was pregnant. He wanted to be married before the baby was born.click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pinkbird03Posted by PuzzlePieces
Both marriages, we went ring shopping together. Both were discussions about getting married & then we went shopping. Not so romantic. I think a proposal would be you get what you get, hey and maybe he has great taste! If you’re lucky..
Lol See I’m not a ring person in general. I don’t even know what looks good on me. I probably couldn’t pick out a ring for another person. Did you prefer to go ring shopping or was it his idea?
I’m not so much a ring person either. His idea? So long ago hard to remember lol.. neither of them had any clue so it was easier to go together. Both were pretty simple, both diamonds but small ones. To me it’s just a symbol, the marriage is what’s most important.
I probably got a smaller one by going together lol.. but ones I liked.
First time I don’t know what the hell we were doing, it was way too fast, we were too young & a bad idea. Second time we were already living together for a couple of years & I was pregnant. He wanted to be married before the baby was born.
At least you got something you liked. I could see it being uncomfortable knowing the price when u were looking. I’d feel guilty knowing how much it is. The only thing I want is a real diamond. I don’t want a fake diamond. Since I was a young child, my family began buying me pearls for a necklace. I finished maybe 6 years ago. It’s worth $ 3,000. I’ve never worn it. Where would I wear it— Saving it for my wedding day. Would I be afraid to wear a wedding ring everywhere?? Oh goodness.click to expand

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Did you pick out your ring or was it completely your husband?
Is it okay to pick out a few and let him choose out of your choices? Or does this ruin the surprise and fun of this?
Did you love your ring or hate it?
How does a man know what size ring to get?
If there is a process, please share.
Men, how did you feel about picking out a ring?