brianafay
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Posted by brianafayThat sounds very Taurus-y.Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Why don't you say it? To her.
But for real advice, try offering her surgery. They sow your stomach up, so it physically cannot take any more food. Her's is by now stretchable like a condom i'd imagine.
Also, neuron are littered all over the digestive tract, she probably can't even help herself to say no to cravings. They sow this up too, no contact with upper brain.
She must have some Taurus or something in her because she's very stubborn
I have tried saying things as gently as possible seriously but she's so obstinate
And she's really sensitive so she'll just get all pissy and I don't personally give a shit enough about her to deal with that shit. We aren't friends ??♀️
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Posted by FortunaI did Insanity - Sean T! A wonderful sweet Pisces male employee gave it to me. Very expensive... he accidentally got two when he ordered... Old skool basics. I like that point of euphoria when my mind shuts down a bit...bad, bad.Posted by VenusAquariusI could definitely see you being a Zumba instructor. The Zumba instructors at my gym do Latin dance, Bollywood dance, hip hop with booty pops & drops, and belly dancing aerobics. Each instructor has their own niche. It's so much fun. My own favorite class isn't Zumba though, it's Insanity!
I have big friends and when they asked, I helped them all. I helped my mom too.
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Posted by brianafayWell for someone over 200lbs, exercise wouldn't be the most effective route just because of all the physical challenges that will be discouraging (remember there's a real psychology to motivation). Best bet would be to start with diet and yes to surgery at this point if she can afford it. Or might even have insurance cover it ... not sure.Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by brianafayI would start with exercise. Your appetite and capacity naturally gets checked.Posted by justagirl
Once I hit that point, I worked my asss off, lost over 100 plus pounds and my life and outlook on life changed.
It was hard but the best hung was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
Ugh ?
Makin me feel bad now
I mean she's seen me go through my own journey. I didn't have as much to lose as she does so I know it's discouraging but I have medical obstacles whereas I believe her will power is her only obstacle (I could be wrong)
She's asked me how I've done it a couple times and I tell her just start small - don't eat the bun when you order a burger - get fruit or a veggie instead of fries...try not to add sugar to anything - wean yourself off of it if you have to, stepping it down every couple of days...
She'll order fruit once then go and eat everyone's leftovers and get a venti ?
Maybe I take my strong willpower for granted but it's really not that hard when you want/need to make a change. She's just convinced herself she can't and it doesn't matter because she's going to be alone either way
It's sad
For sure but getting this chick to exercise would be nearly impossible
She can't because of her feet
She can't because she doesn't feel safe walking alone
She can't because she hates the gym
She can't because it's too hot and she gets migraines
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But first step is her wanting it AND most important knowing it can happen. She's lost hope. 😢
Posted by brianafayGeez.Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by brianafayI would start with exercise. Your appetite and capacity naturally gets checked.Posted by justagirl
Once I hit that point, I worked my asss off, lost over 100 plus pounds and my life and outlook on life changed.
It was hard but the best hung was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
Ugh ?
Makin me feel bad now
I mean she's seen me go through my own journey. I didn't have as much to lose as she does so I know it's discouraging but I have medical obstacles whereas I believe her will power is her only obstacle (I could be wrong)
She's asked me how I've done it a couple times and I tell her just start small - don't eat the bun when you order a burger - get fruit or a veggie instead of fries...try not to add sugar to anything - wean yourself off of it if you have to, stepping it down every couple of days...
She'll order fruit once then go and eat everyone's leftovers and get a venti ?
Maybe I take my strong willpower for granted but it's really not that hard when you want/need to make a change. She's just convinced herself she can't and it doesn't matter because she's going to be alone either way
It's sad
For sure but getting this chick to exercise would be nearly impossible
She can't because of her feet
She can't because she doesn't feel safe walking alone
She can't because she hates the gym
She can't because it's too hot and she gets migraines
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I had my aunt tell me she rather clean 100 toilets with a toothbrush. I stopped. I got it.
Posted by brianafayYea, ironically, average girls are the most judgemental. Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone who they think is worse off and give themselves a pat on the back and say, yea, at least I am better than her. Anyways, you are pathetic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
I'm a size 4 actually but was a 6-8 at my largest and yes that is too big for someone my size which is why I've stated numerous times I have PCOS which caused the weight gain and I did something about it
I didn't chug venti frappucinos and say "durrr I don't know why I can't lose weight"
Again, you're an idiot
Fuck off my thread
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayYea, ironically, average girls are the most judgemental. Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone who they think is worse off and give themselves a pat on the back and say, yea, at least I am better than her. Anyways, you are pathetic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
I'm a size 4 actually but was a 6-8 at my largest and yes that is too big for someone my size which is why I've stated numerous times I have PCOS which caused the weight gain and I did something about it
I didn't chug venti frappucinos and say "durrr I don't know why I can't lose weight"
Again, you're an idiot
Fuck off my thread
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No you're pathetic ? You're the one who mentioned size and compared yourself to me!!! Ya fucking retard
omg I can't
I haven't mentioned what size anyone wears
I said she is obese and unhealthy and wonders why but eats like shit and I find it hard to listen to because I want to scream YOU EAT LIKE SHIT
You're really dismissed
Go choke on dick with your "confident size 2" ass
Go choke on dick with your "confident size 2" ass
Posted by brianafayWell, that's her body and her health. She can eat whatever she wants. Why does it bother you then? It's not like she shoves unhealthy food down your throat.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayYea, ironically, average girls are the most judgemental. Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone who they think is worse off and give themselves a pat on the back and say, yea, at least I am better than her. Anyways, you are pathetic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
I'm a size 4 actually but was a 6-8 at my largest and yes that is too big for someone my size which is why I've stated numerous times I have PCOS which caused the weight gain and I did something about it
I didn't chug venti frappucinos and say "durrr I don't know why I can't lose weight"
Again, you're an idiot
Fuck off my thread
No you're pathetic ? You're the one who mentioned size and compared yourself to me!!! Ya fucking retard
omg I can't
I haven't mentioned what size anyone wears
I said she is obese and unhealthy and wonders why but eats like shit and I find it hard to listen to because I want to scream YOU EAT LIKE SHIT
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Just like you don't need to live by my standard, she doesn't need to live by your standard, either 😉
Posted by brianafayLook, who is offended now? Ms. Judgemental.
You're really dismissed
Go choke on dick with your "confident size 2" ass
Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayLook, who is offended now? Ms. Judgemental.
You're really dismissed
Go choke on dick with your "confident size 2" ass
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Not at all offended
Just feel compelled to call out hypocrites who talk out of their ass such as yourself
If you read the thread you would realize this isn't about fat shaming as much as it is self awareness - but that's also going to be a hard concept for you to grasp since you apparently have none
Best of luck
Posted by brianafayInteresting, I commented in the first place to call out hypocracy, too.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayLook, who is offended now? Ms. Judgemental.
You're really dismissed
Go choke on dick with your "confident size 2" ass
Not at all offended
Just feel compelled to call out hypocrites who talk out of their ass such as yourself
If you read the thread you would realize this isn't about fat shaming as much as it is self awareness - but that's also going to be a hard concept for you to grasp since you apparently have none
Best of luck
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You are not perfect, either, but you feel entitled to complaint about fat people.
Obviously, you don't have any self awareness that you are not perfect, either 😄
I am sure there are people out there eating healtheir and living healthier life than you are, too. Do you have that self awareness? 😄
Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayInteresting, I commented in the first place to call out hypocracy, too.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayLook, who is offended now? Ms. Judgemental.
You're really dismissed
Go choke on dick with your "confident size 2" ass
Not at all offended
Just feel compelled to call out hypocrites who talk out of their ass such as yourself
If you read the thread you would realize this isn't about fat shaming as much as it is self awareness - but that's also going to be a hard concept for you to grasp since you apparently have none
Best of luck
You are not perfect, either, but you feel entitled to complaint about fat people.
Obviously, you don't have any self awareness that you are not perfect, either 😄
I am sure there are people out there eating healtheir and living healthier life than you are, too. Do you have that self awareness? 😄click to expand
Too stupid for me to even respond to
Don't comment if you're not going to actually read the thread
"But in reality she's fat because she's lazy and eats like livestock. " => if this statement is not judgemental, tell me what is judgemental. 😄
Posted by whatisthisallabout??♀️It's true
"But in reality she's fat because she's lazy and eats like livestock. " => if this statement is not judgemental, tell me what is judgemental. 😄
Sorry if this strikes a nerve with you
Don't say you don't understand why you're fat as you eat fried cheese for breakfast and I won't have anything to vent about
Posted by ellesbellesYAY!!!!!!Posted by brianafaylol
@ellesbelles have I told you I love this username ? You can never delete
@Andalusia gave me this name years ago 😛
I'll try not to delete this time (lol)click to expand
Also here's some hypocrisy for you -
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
Posted by brianafayI was trying to put you in your place when I made that comment. But you are right-- I was being judgemental of you being judgemental of others so I was being judgemental too.
Also here's some hypocrisy for you -
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
See? No body is perfect 🤗
Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayI was trying to put you in your place when I made that comment. But you are right-- I was being judgemental of you being judgemental of others so I was being judgemental too.
Also here's some hypocrisy for you -
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
See? No body is perfect 🤗click to expand
Wel nobody puts me in my place, ok ? ?♥️
Posted by brianafayYes, Ma'am 🤗Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayI was trying to put you in your place when I made that comment. But you are right-- I was being judgemental of you being judgemental of others so I was being judgemental too.
Also here's some hypocrisy for you -
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
See? No body is perfect 🤗
Wel nobody puts me in my place, ok ? ?♥️
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Posted by ellesbelles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Posted by AndalusiaLOLPosted by ellesbellesYAY!!!!!!Posted by brianafaylol
@ellesbelles have I told you I love this username ? You can never delete
@Andalusia gave me this name years ago 😛
I'll try not to delete this time (lol)
That shall be my new Avi. 😛click to expand
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutLMAO!!!Posted by brianafayI was trying to put you in your place when I made that comment. But you are right-- I was being judgemental of you being judgemental of others so I was being judgemental too.
Also here's some hypocrisy for you -
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
See? No body is perfect 🤗click to expand
Posted by brianafayThe lovePosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayI was trying to put you in your place when I made that comment. But you are right-- I was being judgemental of you being judgemental of others so I was being judgemental too.
Also here's some hypocrisy for you -
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
See? No body is perfect 🤗
Wel nobody puts me in my place, ok ? ?♥️
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The love I tell ya!
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesI wasn't insinuating that your an asshole!Posted by LadyNeptuneTo clarify to all of you- I wasnt saying oh look at me im so skinny. My whole point was to say that what you shove down your pie hole is what determines what makes you fat.Posted by VenusAquariusYes —Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesWeight does 't seem to matter much. Measurements matter to me... particularly the waistline. I watch my stomache, arms, amd back...I'm 5'2, 130 - 140 lbs. and wear a size 4, small or xsmall in everything. I want some weight for self defense. Nobody's just gonna fling me around any old kinda way. I want fitness - strength, speed, and agility.Posted by VenusAquariusYeah if you dont want to lose weight ot doesnt really matter what you eat thenPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesAt Bold Above: it was the opposite for me... because I didn't want to loose weight but, be shapely, firm, and strong...Posted by EvilHareThat sounds fucking gross as shit.Posted by ellesbellesFried cheese curds.
lol...what the hell is fried cheese anyways? Like mozzerella sticks?
any kind of frappacinos are pretty gross, imo.
I eat paleo. I probably consume about 200grams of fat a day.
My breakfast shake alone is 75grams of fat but its all healthy fat. Even though i eat more fat in one day than some people do in a week, im suuuuper tiny.
I was addicted to sugar waaaayyyy back. I quit it finally and went paleo for many years. But then i started eating it again. I got super sick and was stuck in bed for almost a year. Paleo takes a lot of dedication and meal prep and shopping and wasnt able to actually go shopping or stand to cook. So everything was just sugar and instant. Its a miracle i didnt get fat. I quit sugar again recently and am back paleo.
Most of my friends are bodybuilders and fitness buffs. They will all tell you that weight loss is 80% what you put in your mouth and only 20% of working out.
For any of you that go to gym...have you not noticed a lot of fat people that work out every day and are still fat af?
Those are the people who think that because they went to the gym they can now scarf down 2 big macs and a pizza. Then they whine and bitch about their fatness.
Weight, a number, means fuck all. Shape, height, and muscle mass are more important.
Thickness can be beautiful and healthy too. As long as the weight you carry isn't around your middle, that's the cancer/heart disease/bad-news-bears fat.
I'm 5'8" and 160lbds, size 8.
I am saying that even though i eat what looks to be a disgusting amount of fat, because its healthy fat it doesnt make me a porker.
People misunderstand me a lot i feel ?. Im not trying to be an asshole. Unless i flat out be calling people bitches and what not lolclick to expand
But if you ever want to join the asshole brigade we do brunch every Sunday ?
Damn Brie
Are you sure you're not projecting onto her?
Something In your life not going well?
I'm kinda surprised/disappointed by this thread.
Are you sure you're not projecting onto her?
Something In your life not going well?
I'm kinda surprised/disappointed by this thread.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutWtf why are you trying to fat shame? Considering 6 -8 is not fat at all.Posted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutThat's not what is happening here. Did you even read the op??Posted by brianafayYea, ironically, average girls are the most judgemental. Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone who they think is worse off and give themselves a pat on the back and say, yea, at least I am better than her. Anyways, you are pathetic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
I'm a size 4 actually but was a 6-8 at my largest and yes that is too big for someone my size which is why I've stated numerous times I have PCOS which caused the weight gain and I did something about it
I didn't chug venti frappucinos and say "durrr I don't know why I can't lose weight"
Again, you're an idiot
Fuck off my thread
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Posted by LadyNeptuneObviously not lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutThat's not what is happening here. Did you even read the op??Posted by brianafayYea, ironically, average girls are the most judgemental. Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone who they think is worse off and give themselves a pat on the back and say, yea, at least I am better than her. Anyways, you are pathetic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
I'm a size 4 actually but was a 6-8 at my largest and yes that is too big for someone my size which is why I've stated numerous times I have PCOS which caused the weight gain and I did something about it
I didn't chug venti frappucinos and say "durrr I don't know why I can't lose weight"
Again, you're an idiot
Fuck off my thread
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Posted by ellesbellesUh, I work at my workstation, too, BUT I sit on a yoga exercise ball that I bought from Wally Mart (72 cm); I started on a 67 cm ball; over four years ago; and went from a size 14 blue jean to a size 8 blue jean. Since I work for the Army and there WERE jealous *b*itches in the bldg, they would POP my yoga ball (this is the 12th one I bought); so they all moved from our bldg to across the base...yippie! I decided to buy another yoga ball. Guys comment (Taurean; John) on my azz. I have an azz like I did in high school 😄 I cannot stress time and time again, how the staff eat lunch at fast food restaurants at work. I eat salads (fruit, too). For breakfast, I make my smoothie (in my Bullet, almond milk, honey, whey protein, ice, Greek yogurt, frozen bananas, and frozen fruit). Since I don't wake up hungry I bring the Bullet to work and place it on top of my workstation; which I drink later around 8:45 am (I clock in at 6:45 am). I drink tons of water as I am a member of the water cooler club; so I stay hydrated.When I go home I eat salmon, shrimp, etc. I have stayed away from processed foods, bread (carbs), white sugar, and fast foods. Mind you, I didn't go from a size 14 to a size 8 in two weeks. One contracts your butt and thigh muscles. I keep telling y'all you can bounce a quarter on my thighs! No pain no gain!
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I do NOT have stock from Starbucks (I drink black coffee; of which I make at work). I had my first two slices of pizza this year when the Taurean/John came over to meet my son and I for the first time. Sorry, this Piscean is not a fibber.
Posted by ellesbelles"To each his own" I'm just the one informing you of the apparatus to utilize. Up to you to heed my advice (or not).Posted by EvatheDivaI am NOT sitting on a yoga ball at work 😐Posted by ellesbellesUh, I work at my workstation, too, BUT I sit on a yoga exercise ball that I bought from Wally Mart (72 cm); I started on a 67 cm ball; over four years ago; and went from a size 14 blue jean to a size 8 blue jean. Since I work for the Army and there WERE jealous *b*itches in the bldg, they would POP my yoga ball (this is the 12th one I bought); so they all moved from our bldg to across the base...yippie! I decided to buy another yoga ball. Guys comment (Taurean; John) on my azz. I have an azz like I did in high school 😄 I cannot stress time and time again, how the staff eat lunch at fast food restaurants at work. I eat salads (fruit, too). For breakfast, I make my smoothie (in my Bullet, almond milk, honey, whey protein, ice, Greek yogurt, frozen bananas, and frozen fruit). Since I don't wake up hungry I bring the Bullet to work and place it on top of my workstation; which I drink later around 8:45 am (I clock in at 6:45 am). I drink tons of water as I am a member of the water cooler club; so I stay hydrated.When I go home I eat salmon, shrimp, etc. I have stayed away from processed foods, bread (carbs), white sugar, and fast foods. Mind you, I didn't go from a size 14 to a size 8 in two weeks. One contracts your butt and thigh muscles. I keep telling y'all you can bounce a quarter on my thighs! No pain no gain!
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesPosted by brianafayDid you guys literally just fight and make up??Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayI was trying to put you in your place when I made that comment. But you are right-- I was being judgemental of you being judgemental of others so I was being judgemental too.
Also here's some hypocrisy for you -
"Truly confident women wouldn't compare themselves to someone"
" you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?"
While you came in here to judge what youve deemed "judgmental people"
Can't fix stupid
See? No body is perfect 🤗
Wel nobody puts me in my place, ok ? ?♥️
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We weren't fighting we were discussing ?
And it was a spirited discussion
Posted by DMV
Damn Brie
Are you sure you're not projecting onto her?
Something In your life not going well?
I'm kinda surprised/disappointed by this thread.
Nope one can only listen to so much nonsense before they either vent or snap
& I don't know know what is disappointing or surprising about that but maybe read what I actually said instead of immediately thinking I'm fat shaming
Or don't ??♀️ doesn't matter to me
Posted by EvatheDivaI use the ball too for the last 3 or so years, it really makes a difference! I also have a under desk cycle and cycle thru my conference calls.Posted by ellesbelles"To each his own" I'm just the one informing you of the apparatus to utilize. Up to you to heed my advice (or not).Posted by EvatheDivaI am NOT sitting on a yoga ball at work 😐Posted by ellesbellesUh, I work at my workstation, too, BUT I sit on a yoga exercise ball that I bought from Wally Mart (72 cm); I started on a 67 cm ball; over four years ago; and went from a size 14 blue jean to a size 8 blue jean. Since I work for the Army and there WERE jealous *b*itches in the bldg, they would POP my yoga ball (this is the 12th one I bought); so they all moved from our bldg to across the base...yippie! I decided to buy another yoga ball. Guys comment (Taurean; John) on my azz. I have an azz like I did in high school 😄 I cannot stress time and time again, how the staff eat lunch at fast food restaurants at work. I eat salads (fruit, too). For breakfast, I make my smoothie (in my Bullet, almond milk, honey, whey protein, ice, Greek yogurt, frozen bananas, and frozen fruit). Since I don't wake up hungry I bring the Bullet to work and place it on top of my workstation; which I drink later around 8:45 am (I clock in at 6:45 am). I drink tons of water as I am a member of the water cooler club; so I stay hydrated.When I go home I eat salmon, shrimp, etc. I have stayed away from processed foods, bread (carbs), white sugar, and fast foods. Mind you, I didn't go from a size 14 to a size 8 in two weeks. One contracts your butt and thigh muscles. I keep telling y'all you can bounce a quarter on my thighs! No pain no gain!
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
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🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
nope.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by juliettee—
Anyway world medical health org is considering for some time to include obesity to a certain type of illnes. Not just cause it causes so many but as an illnes per se.
So in 10 years 20 idk, when we look at this thread it would be like, fuck this dude he has diabetes and can't get well he is anoying as fuck.
Js ?
Sorry to those this triggered
For the last time ...this isn't about her being a certain size...I could care less what size she is
I just find it annoying that she has the nerve to act stupid about why she is the way she is when she lives the way she lives
Just like y'all find it annoying when girls will come on DXP and complain about how they cant understand why they are single but then say and do things that make it really obvious why they are single
Makes you want to yell at them through the screen
For the last time ...this isn't about her being a certain size...I could care less what size she is
I just find it annoying that she has the nerve to act stupid about why she is the way she is when she lives the way she lives
Just like y'all find it annoying when girls will come on DXP and complain about how they cant understand why they are single but then say and do things that make it really obvious why they are single
Makes you want to yell at them through the screen
Posted by ChrisxKodakYes!!! This thread is about people who bitch and moan about their problems and when you offer them solutions they expend all their energy on coming up with excuses.Posted by brianafayI think you just don't like her complaining.
for a minute.
My one coworker is obese
She easily weighs in the upper 200's, if not 300 lbs
She has complained to me that she can't lose weight "no matter what she does"
She even tried some new laser weight loss thing and gained weight according to her...
But in reality she's fat because she's lazy and eats like livestock.
It's 100% not my problem or business but when she complains to me I want to say "are you fucking serious?? You ate fried cheese for breakfast!!!"
Sag people don't like complainers, so they like to vent about chronic venters.
I feel you.
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Person is question problem happens to be her fatness.
All the triggered people tho lol.
Posted by brianafayHe told me he's not looking for a relationship and only wants to fuck me.
Sorry to those this triggered
For the last time ...this isn't about her being a certain size...I could care less what size she is
I just find it annoying that she has the nerve to act stupid about why she is the way she is when she lives the way she lives
Just like y'all find it annoying when girls will come on DXP and complain about how they cant understand why they are single but then say and do things that make it really obvious why they are single
Makes you want to yell at them through the screen
Obviously he's just scared of his deep feels towards me, right guys??
I laugh when they throw out their "low metabolism" card.
I'm over here all, "Yo! You're not having trouble losing weight because of a low metabolism. You can't lose weight because you can't stop fvcking eating!"
This freakin country I live in isn't helping either. Everywhere you look, we are telling people it's ok to be fat as long as you're you right before a fitness commercial comes on.
I'm over here all, "Yo! You're not having trouble losing weight because of a low metabolism. You can't lose weight because you can't stop fvcking eating!"
This freakin country I live in isn't helping either. Everywhere you look, we are telling people it's ok to be fat as long as you're you right before a fitness commercial comes on.
Posted by ChrisxKodakBut its like a formal introduction so next up he'll introduce me to the parentals. Then marriage and babies.Posted by LadyNeptuneHe's trying to introduce you is all.Posted by brianafayHe told me he's not looking for a relationship and only wants to fuck me.
Sorry to those this triggered
For the last time ...this isn't about her being a certain size...I could care less what size she is
I just find it annoying that she has the nerve to act stupid about why she is the way she is when she lives the way she lives
Just like y'all find it annoying when girls will come on DXP and complain about how they cant understand why they are single but then say and do things that make it really obvious why they are single
Makes you want to yell at them through the screen
Obviously he's just scared of his deep feels towards me, right guys??
To his penis.
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Posted by Crabra
I laugh when they throw out their "low metabolism" card.
I'm over here all, "Yo! You're not having trouble losing weight because of a low metabolism. You can't lose weight because you can't stop fvcking eating!"
This freakin country I live in isn't helping either. Everywhere you look, we are telling people it's ok to be fat as long as you're you right before a fitness commercial comes on.
??♀️
It really is ok to be whatever size you are as long as you're healthy
I think by definition people who are obsese are not healthy
Posted by brianafayPosted by Crabra
I laugh when they throw out their "low metabolism" card.
I'm over here all, "Yo! You're not having trouble losing weight because of a low metabolism. You can't lose weight because you can't stop fvcking eating!"
This freakin country I live in isn't helping either. Everywhere you look, we are telling people it's ok to be fat as long as you're you right before a fitness commercial comes on.
??♀️
It really is ok to be whatever size you are as long as you're healthy
I think by definition people who are obsese are not healthyclick to expand
You can even toss out the "healthy". It's ok to be whatever size you want to be so long as you are happy. Overweight/obese people have two large problems that hinder their happiness: They lack the will/motivation, and even worse they lack the patience.
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Posted by TaurusinTexasDouble cyber hugs Doll 🤗 🤗Posted by EvatheDivaI use the ball too for the last 3 or so years, it really makes a difference! I also have a under desk cycle and cycle thru my conference calls.Posted by ellesbelles"To each his own" I'm just the one informing you of the apparatus to utilize. Up to you to heed my advice (or not).Posted by EvatheDivaI am NOT sitting on a yoga ball at work 😐Posted by ellesbellesUh, I work at my workstation, too, BUT I sit on a yoga exercise ball that I bought from Wally Mart (72 cm); I started on a 67 cm ball; over four years ago; and went from a size 14 blue jean to a size 8 blue jean. Since I work for the Army and there WERE jealous *b*itches in the bldg, they would POP my yoga ball (this is the 12th one I bought); so they all moved from our bldg to across the base...yippie! I decided to buy another yoga ball. Guys comment (Taurean; John) on my azz. I have an azz like I did in high school 😄 I cannot stress time and time again, how the staff eat lunch at fast food restaurants at work. I eat salads (fruit, too). For breakfast, I make my smoothie (in my Bullet, almond milk, honey, whey protein, ice, Greek yogurt, frozen bananas, and frozen fruit). Since I don't wake up hungry I bring the Bullet to work and place it on top of my workstation; which I drink later around 8:45 am (I clock in at 6:45 am). I drink tons of water as I am a member of the water cooler club; so I stay hydrated.When I go home I eat salmon, shrimp, etc. I have stayed away from processed foods, bread (carbs), white sugar, and fast foods. Mind you, I didn't go from a size 14 to a size 8 in two weeks. One contracts your butt and thigh muscles. I keep telling y'all you can bounce a quarter on my thighs! No pain no gain!
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
nope.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Love,
Eva
Everybody ok today?
Anybody want to talk about it ?
Anybody want to talk about it ?
Posted by ellesbellesPosted by brianafaystill not sitting on a got damn ball at my desk.
Everybody ok today?
Anybody want to talk about it ?
nope.
😄
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Lol a chick here does that - it's supposedly really good for your back
I think it would not be good for my face since I would likely eat my desk bad trying to sit on that thing
Posted by ellesbellesI think our zodiac sign should be a puppy ?
Everyone needs a Sag in their life, for real.
Posted by ellesbellesooooo I want a ball and the varidesk as well - attack from all angles - ain't nobody got time for that - lolPosted by brianafaystill not sitting on a got damn ball at my desk.
Everybody ok today?
Anybody want to talk about it ?
nope.
😄
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the question is - a back rest for the ball or no ? anyone ?
Posted by ellesbellesNobody listens to us though
You guys are like natural personal trainers and life coaches. lol
Seriously
Nobody
Lmao BRUTAL
Will read through all of thread later for entertainment
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