Yup!! You lose weight and everyone wants to tell you that you're getting too skinny but as soon as you start gaining, you can get as fat as you want and no one says nothing!!
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Posted by ellesbellesok gurl you got me - eat salads and pray - lolPosted by AbbyNormalI do work the day shift.....but my days are 12-16 hours long. lolPosted by ellesbellesgirl working night shift made me depressed. change to day anf get that seratonin!! your body will thank you and maybe give you more energy to begin a light workout!Posted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.click to expand
Posted by tcta~like~Posted by brianafayit is true - but not in the beginning - you have to build up those endorphins - it doesn't take long - and then you get psyched to go again and do more and more - it's all about switching your addictions to the better pathPosted by ellesbellesUgh it's the worstPosted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.
And the gym sucks nobody likes that shit - they lie if they say they do
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Posted by ellesbellestrue that - do what you want and don't let anyone tell you what or how to bePosted by tctaI'm not making excuses nor am I asking for advice....lolPosted by ellesbelleswe all make too many excusesPosted by brianafayI had a treadmill and used to love it but I downsized to an apartment (on the second floor) because I wanted to pretend I lived in a European flat for awhile (LOL)....so, the treadmill did not come with me.....I'm not the kind of dick that likes to disturb my neighbors 😛Posted by ellesbellesUgh it's the worstPosted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.
And the gym sucks nobody likes that shit - they lie if they say they do
Plus I live with the cap now too and before I lived alone and could dance and act a fool around the house but my libra bits don't allow such things when others are present.
He lost a shit ton of weight during our hiatus and his regimen is hard core and it would probably kill me if I participated....lol
I was taking walks in the park with my Taurus friend but his son recently passed away and he's just not feeling it.
I don't mind walking by myself but it would have to be in the dark because I don't see much daylight.
so walk in the dark
and/or do what you need to do or give it up and stop talking about it
lol - this entire post
real
I'm just sharing my experiences.
This is why I don't talk about this stuff publicly. If you read the first few pages you will see when I lost weight people jumped to such assumptions as me being ill.....now that I've gained weight the assumption now is I'm not healthy.
I've never been "unhealthy" in any state of my weight.
People are so funny.
Weight is such a touchy subject for so many people and it doesn't even seem to matter what culture you come from, someone has opinions, suggestions, advice.
No matter what weight you land on....someone will ALWAYS have an opinion.
You are too thin! You are too big!
It's kind of silly, actually.click to expand
I have big friends and when they asked, I helped them all. I helped my mom too.
I want to be an aerobics instructor when I retire.
I want to be an aerobics instructor when I retire.
Posted by ellesbellesyou are right - that is too much work - no wonder !Posted by tctaI know what my issue is....it's work.Posted by ellesbellesok gurl you got me - eat salads and pray - lolPosted by AbbyNormalI do work the day shift.....but my days are 12-16 hours long. lolPosted by ellesbellesgirl working night shift made me depressed. change to day anf get that seratonin!! your body will thank you and maybe give you more energy to begin a light workout!Posted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.
So, I'm currently pursuing a different opportunity that can help undo some of this stuff.
The last two years have been work. work. work and a crap load of stress.
Those are my triggers and that's what I need to focus on.
I could eat salads all day long and if I'm stressed....it makes not a bit of difference.click to expand
Posted by ellesbellesswitch it around if you can then. it's important for your body and mind to get natural sunlight (and absolute darkness) every day to stimulate different natural, necessary processes. if you are working throughout the daylight hours, switch to the opposite. make sure you see the sun. even better, pack a light lunch like a protein shake you can just drink and do a quick stretch/workout outside on your lunch break every day.Posted by AbbyNormalI do work the day shift.....but my days are 12-16 hours long. lolPosted by ellesbellesgirl working night shift made me depressed. change to day anf get that seratonin!! your body will thank you and maybe give you more energy to begin a light workout!Posted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.click to expand
#1 Water... it even causes muscle definition without any physical...if you habitually and regularly adhere to the daily recommendation.
It gets hard when you get past a certain threshold of fatness. You crave the food so bad and eat cause you're used to doing it and bored. You're already full but for some reason you think you're still hungry.
I was on a birth control shot and ended up gaining something like 50lbs when I was in my 20's. It got so bad that I would smell things like cookies and cakes and take a bite just for the taste cause my mouth was watering but then I would spit it out. I only stayed on that shot for a year. I couldn't handle it.
So when people eat like that, the only thing they can do is complain about it while they're shoveling food into their mouth. Thank god I'm not one of those people who are fat and pretend not to eat and then gorge in private.
I was on a birth control shot and ended up gaining something like 50lbs when I was in my 20's. It got so bad that I would smell things like cookies and cakes and take a bite just for the taste cause my mouth was watering but then I would spit it out. I only stayed on that shot for a year. I couldn't handle it.
So when people eat like that, the only thing they can do is complain about it while they're shoveling food into their mouth. Thank god I'm not one of those people who are fat and pretend not to eat and then gorge in private.
Posted by ellesbellesPosted by brianafaysupermodels can be 4'11"
And no I'm not a "supermodel"
I'm 4'11, for one
And would never describe myself as skinny
I am in shape now - but only because I got off my ass and changed my life style /diet for my overall health.
Which is why I can't listen to this nonsense
I didn't delude myself into thinking there was nothing that could be done and I should just eat 3000 calories a day and say fuck it
you will always be a supermodel to me 😄click to expand
♥️
Posted by ellesbellesPosted by brianafayI had a treadmill and used to love it but I downsized to an apartment (on the second floor) because I wanted to pretend I lived in a European flat for awhile (LOL)....so, the treadmill did not come with me.....I'm not the kind of dick that likes to disturb my neighbors 😛Posted by ellesbellesUgh it's the worstPosted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.
And the gym sucks nobody likes that shit - they lie if they say they do
Plus I live with the cap now too and before I lived alone and could dance and act a fool around the house but my libra bits don't allow such things when others are present.
He lost a shit ton of weight during our hiatus and his regimen is hard core and it would probably kill me if I participated....lol
I was taking walks in the park with my Taurus friend but his son recently passed away and he's just not feeling it.
I don't mind walking by myself but it would have to be in the dark because I don't see much daylight.click to expand
Please don't walk at night by yourself ! I watch a lot of ID channel - you'd just be asking for it
She needs dr. Christian
Posted by Senorita_LLlol - yeah I have bitten a lot of heads off when I was younger - but my friends always told me I was for real and I don't actually say or do anything that they were not already thinking about but would never be able to say it - but it just came out my mouth like I don't know who just said that - and then my Taurus would be like "holy crap" run ... lolPosted by tctaTrue! My arguments will start, the moment they just say things, like as if they were so right about it.Posted by Senorita_LLlol yeah but they can be wrong and that pizzed me off totally about the Sag I was dating - I tend to think like that most of the time myself - one of my favorite sayings - it is what it is - but Sags can be "brutal" lol - I just could never be that "mean" for lack of a better word - even though I know where they are coming from ... sometimes I can cause I do have an Aries Mercury - but I hold back a lot more these days - more like an observer and smda cause there just aren't enough words in the world for most people these days - they gonna do what they gonna do regardless - da` gone !Posted by tctaExactly!Posted by Senorita_LLSags are the Honey Badgers - they just don't give a sheet lol
This is why I love Sagittarius. You guys are so upfront and direct most of the times.
Either you take it or just leave. 😆
You're a Sag, aren't you?
To them, it is what it is. My ex and current Sag has the same sheet.
It's depressing for some, but it's funny for me. If you want an honest answer, just ask the archers. Be prepare for the devils to tell you nothing but the truth! 😆
Actually, that's the best thing eva. It helps to motivate you, and show them that you can do better. 😉
I agree with Sag being brutal, and even me, myself, I can never go to that extend, unless they pushed my limit button. You have Aries mercury? Wohoaa....that merc can be crazy too. 😆click to expand
not sure but are you a Gemini ? I can't remember ...
Posted by VenusAquariusJazzercize ?
I have big friends and when they asked, I helped them all. I helped my mom too.
I want to be an aerobics instructor when I retire.
I'm glad I'm not in your seat, my Leo Merc would have gotten me into trouble. I don't do 0 self-awareness very well
Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesAt Bold Above: it was the opposite for me... because I didn't want to loose weight but, be shapely, firm, and strong...Posted by EvilHareThat sounds fucking gross as shit.Posted by ellesbellesFried cheese curds.
lol...what the hell is fried cheese anyways? Like mozzerella sticks?
any kind of frappacinos are pretty gross, imo.
I eat paleo. I probably consume about 200grams of fat a day.
My breakfast shake alone is 75grams of fat but its all healthy fat. Even though i eat more fat in one day than some people do in a week, im suuuuper tiny.
I was addicted to sugar waaaayyyy back. I quit it finally and went paleo for many years. But then i started eating it again. I got super sick and was stuck in bed for almost a year. Paleo takes a lot of dedication and meal prep and shopping and wasnt able to actually go shopping or stand to cook. So everything was just sugar and instant. Its a miracle i didnt get fat. I quit sugar again recently and am back paleo.
Most of my friends are bodybuilders and fitness buffs. They will all tell you that weight loss is 80% what you put in your mouth and only 20% of working out.
For any of you that go to gym...have you not noticed a lot of fat people that work out every day and are still fat af?
Those are the people who think that because they went to the gym they can now scarf down 2 big macs and a pizza. Then they whine and bitch about their fatness.
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesI'll have to do a little more research but the sun is one of our best sources for vitamin d as well. i dont think tanning under bulbs quite does the same thing but i could be wrong. it happens haha. i dont like tanning really bc i dont think its good for the skin. but plenty of women use them to their advantage so whatever works.Posted by AbbyNormalOr go tanning. I know its not good for you but some people need the light therapy.Posted by ellesbellesgirl working night shift made me depressed. change to day anf get that seratonin!! your body will thank you and maybe give you more energy to begin a light workout!Posted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.
When i went up to the northwest territories i noticed a lot of people went tanning all the time. I asked why and they said that its cause it was always dark there and depression is a big problem. Tanning helps. No one goes for the tan since they are already dark. They go for the mood lift.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneNo trends.. old skool.Posted by VenusAquariusJazzercize ?
I have big friends and when they asked, I helped them all. I helped my mom too.
I want to be an aerobics instructor when I retire.click to expand
Posted by ellesbelles——?❤
Every time I was on the treadmill it was like a battle of wits between all my placements....lol
*Elle on a treadmill*
libra venus - do we have to?
aries moon - omg it's soooo boring!
scorp mars - shutup and get dressed
merc in sag - wheeeeee! yes!!!!!!
*finds music, usually selects BPM on XM radio and gets on treadmill*
aries moon - okay, what do I win if I get through this?
libra venus - *fixes hair*
scorp mars - shutup
merc in sag - let's gooooooooo!
*ten minutes in....on the same song*
libra venus - OMG I AM SWEATING. GROSS
aries moon - WHEN WILL THIS FUCKING SONG END
scorp mars - I SAID STFU
merc in sag - I remember this one time....
libra venus, aries moon, scorp mars - STFU
*almost trips - song ends, next one starts*
aries moon - I'm going to see if I can dance on the treadmill
scorp mars - Okay, try that. If you can dance the whole song, you win
aries moon - 123GO!
libra venus - Tennis shoes are so ugly. They are totally boy shoes. Next time can we wear heels?
scorp rising - Did we cover the web cam with tape on the laptop, someone may be watching this
*scorp mars glances at the laptop and sees the tape over the webcam*
*song ends*
Aries moon - I WIN!!!! WHAT DID I WIN——?
Libra venus - IT IS SO HOT. I AM MELTING.
Scorp mars - We can step off and stretch while changing the channel
Sag merc - TAKE YOUR CLOTHES OFF
*takes clothes off, changes the channel to "The Heat"*
Aries moon - WhooooooHoooooooo I'm gonna try walking backwards!
Libra venus - I look ridiculous up here in panties, a bra and BOY SHOES
Sag Merc - Hey, remember that one time......
Scorp mars - *gets irritated - turns up the incline*
*slow song comes on*
Aries moon - WTF THIS IS BULLSHIT
Libra venus - THANK GAWD NOW WE CAN SLOW DOWN
Scorp mars - Fuck this *grabs the phone, headphones - looks for music*
Libra venus - FRENCH!
Aries moon - RAP!
Sag merc - Let's learn a new language!
Scorp mars - Fuck all of you, get in the shower.
Posted by brianafayLmao! My worker who isn't fat - complained once that eggs he ate for breakfast were spoiled because he is feeling nauseated...
I've never seen her turn down leftovers
The fried cheese she ate for breakfast was leftover from another coworker's lunch from the day before...Same thing when she ate half of a leftover cheeseburger and 3 slices of pizza!!
I've said something before - like "omg! Is that your breakfast? youre gonna be sick"
She said "no, I ate some boiled eggs earlier too"
She eats like 5-6 boiled eggs in a sitting. ?
When we go to Starbucks everyone gets their tall whatever or skinny whatever and then there's her ordering a fucking Venti java chip frappucino
Like wtf man
We asked how many he ate and he said 9.
We were dying laughing!
Some people honestly don't know how much food gets in.
Once I told my customer to imagine how much food she put inhe self that day and she went wow! I've never thought of it this way...
Posted by ellesbelles
Every time I was on the treadmill it was like a battle of wits between all my placements....lol
*Elle on a treadmill*
libra venus - do we have to?
aries moon - omg it's soooo boring!
scorp mars - shutup and get dressed
merc in sag - wheeeeee! yes!!!!!!
*finds music, usually selects BPM on XM radio and gets on treadmill*
aries moon - okay, what do I win if I get through this?
libra venus - *fixes hair*
scorp mars - shutup
merc in sag - let's gooooooooo!
*ten minutes in....on the same song*
libra venus - OMG I AM SWEATING. GROSS
aries moon - WHEN WILL THIS FUCKING SONG END
scorp mars - I SAID STFU
merc in sag - I remember this one time....
libra venus, aries moon, scorp mars - STFU
*almost trips - song ends, next one starts*
aries moon - I'm going to see if I can dance on the treadmill
scorp mars - Okay, try that. If you can dance the whole song, you win
aries moon - 123GO!
libra venus - Tennis shoes are so ugly. They are totally boy shoes. Next time can we wear heels?
scorp rising - Did we cover the web cam with tape on the laptop, someone may be watching this
*scorp mars glances at the laptop and sees the tape over the webcam*
*song ends*
Aries moon - I WIN!!!! WHAT DID I WIN——?
Libra venus - IT IS SO HOT. I AM MELTING.
Scorp mars - We can step off and stretch while changing the channel
Sag merc - TAKE YOUR CLOTHES OFF
*takes clothes off, changes the channel to "The Heat"*
Aries moon - WhooooooHoooooooo I'm gonna try walking backwards!
Libra venus - I look ridiculous up here in panties, a bra and BOY SHOES
Sag Merc - Hey, remember that one time......
Scorp mars - *gets irritated - turns up the incline*
*slow song comes on*
Aries moon - WTF THIS IS BULLSHIT
Libra venus - THANK GAWD NOW WE CAN SLOW DOWN
Scorp mars - Fuck this *grabs the phone, headphones - looks for music*
Libra venus - FRENCH!
Aries moon - RAP!
Sag merc - Let's learn a new language!
Scorp mars - Fuck all of you, get in the shower.
Lmao very similar experiences
But throw in some Cap Venus
"Why am I runing if I'm not running from something or being paid to?"
"Why am I runing if I'm not running from something or being paid to?"
Posted by GemitatiPosted by brianafayLmao! My worker who isn't fat - complained once that eggs he ate for breakfast were spoiled because he is feeling nauseated...
I've never seen her turn down leftovers
The fried cheese she ate for breakfast was leftover from another coworker's lunch from the day before...Same thing when she ate half of a leftover cheeseburger and 3 slices of pizza!!
I've said something before - like "omg! Is that your breakfast? youre gonna be sick"
She said "no, I ate some boiled eggs earlier too"
She eats like 5-6 boiled eggs in a sitting. ?
When we go to Starbucks everyone gets their tall whatever or skinny whatever and then there's her ordering a fucking Venti java chip frappucino
Like wtf man
We asked how many he ate and he said 9.
We were dying laughing!
Some people honestly don't know how much food gets in.
Once I told my customer to imagine how much food she put inhe self that day and she went wow! I've never thought of it this way...click to expand
Lol sounds like my Libra - ate roughly 6 ice cream sandwiches iirc and then complained they were "bad" and he felt sick
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Posted by enfant_terribleGirl
I'm glad I'm not in your seat, my Leo Merc would have gotten me into trouble. I don't do 0 self-awareness very well
I should be sainted
The willpower it takes
Foot-in-mouth sun and merc plus sassy Leo moon
Its a wonder I've made it this far
Posted by xBruceCampbellxEat in peace ??
Thanks for ruining fried cheese for me.
I'm not judging unless you mid bite say some stupid shit like "idk why my cholesterol is high, I don't even eat bad"
Posted by brianafaySee? They don't know!!!Posted by GemitatiPosted by brianafayLmao! My worker who isn't fat - complained once that eggs he ate for breakfast were spoiled because he is feeling nauseated...
I've never seen her turn down leftovers
The fried cheese she ate for breakfast was leftover from another coworker's lunch from the day before...Same thing when she ate half of a leftover cheeseburger and 3 slices of pizza!!
I've said something before - like "omg! Is that your breakfast? youre gonna be sick"
She said "no, I ate some boiled eggs earlier too"
She eats like 5-6 boiled eggs in a sitting. ?
When we go to Starbucks everyone gets their tall whatever or skinny whatever and then there's her ordering a fucking Venti java chip frappucino
Like wtf man
We asked how many he ate and he said 9.
We were dying laughing!
Some people honestly don't know how much food gets in.
Once I told my customer to imagine how much food she put inhe self that day and she went wow! I've never thought of it this way...
Lol sounds like my Libra - ate roughly 6 ice cream sandwiches iirc and then complained they were "bad" and he felt sick
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesWeight does 't seem to matter much. Measurements matter to me... particularly the waistline. I watch my stomache, arms, amd back...I'm 5'2, 130 - 140 lbs. and wear a size 4, small or xsmall in everything. I want some weight for self defense. Nobody's just gonna fling me around any old kinda way. I want fitness - strength, speed, and agility.Posted by VenusAquariusYeah if you dont want to lose weight ot doesnt really matter what you eat thenPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesAt Bold Above: it was the opposite for me... because I didn't want to loose weight but, be shapely, firm, and strong...Posted by EvilHareThat sounds fucking gross as shit.Posted by ellesbellesFried cheese curds.
lol...what the hell is fried cheese anyways? Like mozzerella sticks?
any kind of frappacinos are pretty gross, imo.
I eat paleo. I probably consume about 200grams of fat a day.
My breakfast shake alone is 75grams of fat but its all healthy fat. Even though i eat more fat in one day than some people do in a week, im suuuuper tiny.
I was addicted to sugar waaaayyyy back. I quit it finally and went paleo for many years. But then i started eating it again. I got super sick and was stuck in bed for almost a year. Paleo takes a lot of dedication and meal prep and shopping and wasnt able to actually go shopping or stand to cook. So everything was just sugar and instant. Its a miracle i didnt get fat. I quit sugar again recently and am back paleo.
Most of my friends are bodybuilders and fitness buffs. They will all tell you that weight loss is 80% what you put in your mouth and only 20% of working out.
For any of you that go to gym...have you not noticed a lot of fat people that work out every day and are still fat af?
Those are the people who think that because they went to the gym they can now scarf down 2 big macs and a pizza. Then they whine and bitch about their fatness.
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Posted by brianafayUghhh there has to be a way to shut her the fuck up.Posted by enfant_terribleGirl
I'm glad I'm not in your seat, my Leo Merc would have gotten me into trouble. I don't do 0 self-awareness very well
I should be sainted
The willpower it takes
Foot-in-mouth sun and merc plus sassy Leo moon
Its a wonder I've made it this farclick to expand
I mean, she has the right to be as fat as she wants. You have the right not to gaf. Thanks America!!
Posted by xBruceCampbellx
I have a Sagittarius sun, Leo moon sis irl. You remind me of her @brianafay
She has always been very blunt.
And she's the kewlest ? ?
Posted by brianafayI would tell her. Then, she'll stop playing with you. "Sally, I saw you eating fried cheese for breakfast... okay, girl?"Posted by enfant_terribleGirl
I'm glad I'm not in your seat, my Leo Merc would have gotten me into trouble. I don't do 0 self-awareness very well
I should be sainted
The willpower it takes
Foot-in-mouth sun and merc plus sassy Leo moon
Its a wonder I've made it this farclick to expand
I told me girlfriend when she brought up the subject... "girl, I saw you drown that salad in ranch dressing."
Posted by VenusAquariusYes —Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesWeight does 't seem to matter much. Measurements matter to me... particularly the waistline. I watch my stomache, arms, amd back...I'm 5'2, 130 - 140 lbs. and wear a size 4, small or xsmall in everything. I want some weight for self defense. Nobody's just gonna fling me around any old kinda way. I want fitness - strength, speed, and agility.Posted by VenusAquariusYeah if you dont want to lose weight ot doesnt really matter what you eat thenPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesAt Bold Above: it was the opposite for me... because I didn't want to loose weight but, be shapely, firm, and strong...Posted by EvilHareThat sounds fucking gross as shit.Posted by ellesbellesFried cheese curds.
lol...what the hell is fried cheese anyways? Like mozzerella sticks?
any kind of frappacinos are pretty gross, imo.
I eat paleo. I probably consume about 200grams of fat a day.
My breakfast shake alone is 75grams of fat but its all healthy fat. Even though i eat more fat in one day than some people do in a week, im suuuuper tiny.
I was addicted to sugar waaaayyyy back. I quit it finally and went paleo for many years. But then i started eating it again. I got super sick and was stuck in bed for almost a year. Paleo takes a lot of dedication and meal prep and shopping and wasnt able to actually go shopping or stand to cook. So everything was just sugar and instant. Its a miracle i didnt get fat. I quit sugar again recently and am back paleo.
Most of my friends are bodybuilders and fitness buffs. They will all tell you that weight loss is 80% what you put in your mouth and only 20% of working out.
For any of you that go to gym...have you not noticed a lot of fat people that work out every day and are still fat af?
Those are the people who think that because they went to the gym they can now scarf down 2 big macs and a pizza. Then they whine and bitch about their fatness.
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Weight, a number, means fuck all. Shape, height, and muscle mass are more important.
Thickness can be beautiful and healthy too. As long as the weight you carry isn't around your middle, that's the cancer/heart disease/bad-news-bears fat.
I'm 5'8" and 160lbds, size 8.
Posted by xBruceCampbellxPosted by brianafayActually, I'd never heard of fried cheese till now. I don't even think it's possible to form a good association at this point. That's alright though. I'm trying to eat healthy these days.Posted by xBruceCampbellxEat in peace ??
Thanks for ruining fried cheese for me.
I'm not judging unless you mid bite say some stupid shit like "idk why my cholesterol is high, I don't even eat bad"
You may have just saved a crab. 😆
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I feel like that's all I do
Captain save a crab ?
Posted by LadyNeptuneHIGH FIVE!!!! Somebody gets it. I don't even own a scale.Posted by VenusAquariusYes —Posted by Cancervirgo15degreesWeight does 't seem to matter much. Measurements matter to me... particularly the waistline. I watch my stomache, arms, amd back...I'm 5'2, 130 - 140 lbs. and wear a size 4, small or xsmall in everything. I want some weight for self defense. Nobody's just gonna fling me around any old kinda way. I want fitness - strength, speed, and agility.Posted by VenusAquariusYeah if you dont want to lose weight ot doesnt really matter what you eat thenPosted by Cancervirgo15degreesAt Bold Above: it was the opposite for me... because I didn't want to loose weight but, be shapely, firm, and strong...Posted by EvilHareThat sounds fucking gross as shit.Posted by ellesbellesFried cheese curds.
lol...what the hell is fried cheese anyways? Like mozzerella sticks?
any kind of frappacinos are pretty gross, imo.
I eat paleo. I probably consume about 200grams of fat a day.
My breakfast shake alone is 75grams of fat but its all healthy fat. Even though i eat more fat in one day than some people do in a week, im suuuuper tiny.
I was addicted to sugar waaaayyyy back. I quit it finally and went paleo for many years. But then i started eating it again. I got super sick and was stuck in bed for almost a year. Paleo takes a lot of dedication and meal prep and shopping and wasnt able to actually go shopping or stand to cook. So everything was just sugar and instant. Its a miracle i didnt get fat. I quit sugar again recently and am back paleo.
Most of my friends are bodybuilders and fitness buffs. They will all tell you that weight loss is 80% what you put in your mouth and only 20% of working out.
For any of you that go to gym...have you not noticed a lot of fat people that work out every day and are still fat af?
Those are the people who think that because they went to the gym they can now scarf down 2 big macs and a pizza. Then they whine and bitch about their fatness.
Weight, a number, means fuck all. Shape, height, and muscle mass are more important.
Thickness can be beautiful and healthy too. As long as the weight you carry isn't around your middle, that's the cancer/heart disease/bad-news-bears fat.
I'm 5'8" and 160lbds, size 8.click to expand
I only read the first 4 pages but wanted to share this and maybe she just hasn't gotten to the point to care yet.
I struggled with weight my entire life and was once close to this lady. Just under 300 at 5 foot tall! I was a roly poly and had given up on life.
It actually took a good friend to sit me down and say they where concerned, as well as health scares to get motivated.
From what you shared she has given up on life and until she reaches her bottom there isn't really much others can do, other then don't enable her and try to encourage her to change her diet.
I struggled with weight my entire life and was once close to this lady. Just under 300 at 5 foot tall! I was a roly poly and had given up on life.
It actually took a good friend to sit me down and say they where concerned, as well as health scares to get motivated.
From what you shared she has given up on life and until she reaches her bottom there isn't really much others can do, other then don't enable her and try to encourage her to change her diet.
Once I hit that point, I worked my asss off, lost over 100 plus pounds and my life and outlook on life changed.
It was hard but the best thing was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
It was hard but the best thing was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
Posted by justagirl
Once I hit that point, I worked my asss off, lost over 100 plus pounds and my life and outlook on life changed.
It was hard but the best hung was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
Ugh ?
Makin me feel bad now
I mean she's seen me go through my own journey. I didn't have as much to lose as she does so I know it's discouraging but I have medical obstacles whereas I believe her will power is her only obstacle (I could be wrong)
She's asked me how I've done it a couple times and I tell her just start small - don't eat the bun when you order a burger - get fruit or a veggie instead of fries...try not to add sugar to anything - wean yourself off of it if you have to, stepping it down every couple of days...
She'll order fruit once then go and eat everyone's leftovers and get a venti ?
Maybe I take my strong willpower for granted but it's really not that hard when you want/need to make a change. She's just convinced herself she can't and it doesn't matter because she's going to be alone either way
It's sad
But congrats bae ♥️
I know it takes a lot of work - especially when you get to that point of no return
I know it takes a lot of work - especially when you get to that point of no return
Posted by Cookieothat's not that much - walking outside twice during the work day for 10 minutes would give me my dosage and help me feel better - thanks!Posted by ellesbelles15min in the sun is what's required to give you your daily dose of vitamin D. If you're low on it it can cause depression among other things. I had to take extra Vitamin D pills because of it once.Posted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
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Posted by brianafayNot trying to make you feel bad. It's just I relate. Maybe she does have medical issues. I have thyroid issues and PCOS. My life was horrible before I got on my medication for my thyroid.Posted by justagirl
Once I hit that point, I worked my asss off, lost over 100 plus pounds and my life and outlook on life changed.
It was hard but the best hung was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
Ugh ?
Makin me feel bad now
I mean she's seen me go through my own journey. I didn't have as much to lose as she does so I know it's discouraging but I have medical obstacles whereas I believe her will power is her only obstacle (I could be wrong)
She's asked me how I've done it a couple times and I tell her just start small - don't eat the bun when you order a burger - get fruit or a veggie instead of fries...try not to add sugar to anything - wean yourself off of it if you have to, stepping it down every couple of days...
She'll order fruit once then go and eat everyone's leftovers and get a venti ?
Maybe I take my strong willpower for granted but it's really not that hard when you want/need to make a change. She's just convinced herself she can't and it doesn't matter because she's going to be alone either way
It's sad
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Maybe just encourage her to go get tested, I have to do this with my family. It's hard for me to watch on my sister and niece. They complain about the weight and issues but do nothing but shove donuts in their mouth. So it's hard to want to help when they don't want to help themselves.
She got the surgery from what you shared? She's aware then, she just doesn't give a crap and that is sad.
Just let them do what they want ffs. They're going to die soon anyway, might as well let them do what they want in their shorter then normal life.
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
Posted by Cookieoit is - I come to work in the dark and leave in the dark so have to get out during the day for walks around the building outside and then that will help - I can get my exercise walking to work from the parking lot almost a mile away but it will be darkPosted by tctaYes it's usually if you're working hours where the sun isn't up when you're on your way to work and when you leave that there will be problems.Posted by Cookieothat's not that much - walking outside twice during the work day for 10 minutes would give me my dosage and help me feel better - thanks!Posted by ellesbelles15min in the sun is what's required to give you your daily dose of vitamin D. If you're low on it it can cause depression among other things. I had to take extra Vitamin D pills because of it once.Posted by tctalol.....there is no light.Posted by ellesbellesyou know you need to make the time - don't just say there isn't time - start with 1/2 hour a day no matter what - and get in some of that light used for the winter blues - I need this same advice motivation all the time so I'm not just telling you what you need to do, I need to do the same cause I get blah over the dark winter months
I've gained weight in the last two years.
It sucks.
I don't even eat at McDonald's.....or any fast food for that matter. My fridge and cupboards are stacked with low carb everything. I haven't drunk dairy in years. I've turned down Thursday doughnuts at work for years.
It's moreso because of work and relationship......my work entails long hours at my desk or in front of a monitor and my relationship is just really comfortable and the little time we have together because we are both work mongers is spent on the sofa cuddling.
It's lack of activity for me.
it's a vicious circle though.....because to be active takes time.....and I don't have much time these days. Who the hell wants to get up at 3-4am to work out when you just walked in the door from work at 10-11pm? I want a cup of tea and to relax my mind for a bit.
And it makes you tired.
Maybe my new job will help but I have to be extremely disciplined because a couple months at a time will be spent in a hotel.....but the hotel has a gym....but it can get depressing after a week or two....and it will be winter time.
The cap don't seem to mind but I do.
😭
I go to work in the dark....I come home in the dark.
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Posted by brianafayI would start with exercise. Your appetite and capacity naturally gets checked.Posted by justagirl
Once I hit that point, I worked my asss off, lost over 100 plus pounds and my life and outlook on life changed.
It was hard but the best hung was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
Ugh ?
Makin me feel bad now
I mean she's seen me go through my own journey. I didn't have as much to lose as she does so I know it's discouraging but I have medical obstacles whereas I believe her will power is her only obstacle (I could be wrong)
She's asked me how I've done it a couple times and I tell her just start small - don't eat the bun when you order a burger - get fruit or a veggie instead of fries...try not to add sugar to anything - wean yourself off of it if you have to, stepping it down every couple of days...
She'll order fruit once then go and eat everyone's leftovers and get a venti ?
Maybe I take my strong willpower for granted but it's really not that hard when you want/need to make a change. She's just convinced herself she can't and it doesn't matter because she's going to be alone either way
It's sad
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I don't get why people need to put other people down while they themselves are not perfect, either.
Posted by aquaglass
I had always been thin since i was lil. Till i moved to this city and hanging out a lot with this ladies who eat so much. They're nearly obese. And i kinda ate a lot too since we always having snacks everytime we're hanging out.
I'd craving for food here and there then Bam! My body just turned up to be the heaviest i have ever been all my life.
I decided to change my life style , since the weight just made me feel sluggish and such. Worked out and ate healthier.
I lost almost 20 pounds, i felt good my stamina just went better. But theeen these ladies all freaked out and started to picking on me said that i'm anorexic and so on and mad at me for being thin. "Encourage" me to stop workout and stop the healthy eating. I cheated for few days then before i knew it, i binged badly.
Gained few pounds back. And now i hate it!
And they seem happy that i'm no longer that thin no more.
You are better off,if you break off contact with them. People always trying to drag you down if you are improving yourself. They dont want to feel bad about themselves (your appearance cause that).
Befriend athletic people. You are the average of the three people you hang out with the most.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by brianafayI would start with exercise. Your appetite and capacity naturally gets checked.Posted by justagirl
Once I hit that point, I worked my asss off, lost over 100 plus pounds and my life and outlook on life changed.
It was hard but the best hung was those that supported me during this shift as it would be hard to motivate myself.
Maybe you can help her Bri.
Ugh ?
Makin me feel bad now
I mean she's seen me go through my own journey. I didn't have as much to lose as she does so I know it's discouraging but I have medical obstacles whereas I believe her will power is her only obstacle (I could be wrong)
She's asked me how I've done it a couple times and I tell her just start small - don't eat the bun when you order a burger - get fruit or a veggie instead of fries...try not to add sugar to anything - wean yourself off of it if you have to, stepping it down every couple of days...
She'll order fruit once then go and eat everyone's leftovers and get a venti ?
Maybe I take my strong willpower for granted but it's really not that hard when you want/need to make a change. She's just convinced herself she can't and it doesn't matter because she's going to be alone either way
It's sad
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For sure but getting this chick to exercise would be nearly impossible
She can't because of her feet
She can't because she doesn't feel safe walking alone
She can't because she hates the gym
She can't because it's too hot and she gets migraines
Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't get why you are so sensitive about this topic that you can't even see the point
I don't get why people need to put other people down while they themselves are not perfect, either.
Posted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?click to expand
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by brianafayAnd I have seen your pictures and guess what, you look probably size 6-8, if not bigger.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou're an idiot
This is a mean post. Are you skinny yourself? Do you look like a fitness model? 😄
If not, what's up with the fat-shaming?
I am a size 2. Should I call you fat then?
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I'm a size 4 actually but was a 6-8 at my largest and yes that is too big for someone my size which is why I've stated numerous times I have PCOS which caused the weight gain and I did something about it
I didn't chug venti frappucinos and say "durrr I don't know why I can't lose weight"
Again, you're an idiot
Fuck off my thread
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