ayla13
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Why is he so rude to me?
Break up.
Immature Leo. Find someone who will appreciate you and not bring you down. Toxic AF.
He is probably insecure about himself, hence bringing you down to somehow be attached to him. Don't let him play with your feelings. Find a mature guy or Leo that will treat you like a Queen with respect.
Immature Leo. Find someone who will appreciate you and not bring you down. Toxic AF.
He is probably insecure about himself, hence bringing you down to somehow be attached to him. Don't let him play with your feelings. Find a mature guy or Leo that will treat you like a Queen with respect.
Clue him in on how your feeling. This may be his way of flirting, the teasing insults...the mean banter. Gotta set some boundaries with him ASAP. THEN, if he’s still being a dick, drop his ass.
Honestly it doesn’t sound healthy on either end. What possessed you to go on a holiday with the person you just spent a month ignoring?
I would think baby steps would be the way forward. Not being around each other 24/7
I would think baby steps would be the way forward. Not being around each other 24/7
No, leave, now.
It sounds like he is systematically trying to tear down your self worth and how you view yourself as an abuser would do while trying to "train" their victim. He is trying to get you into scarcity thinking, and make you believe that only he wants you, because "look at how gross you are. You are lucky you have me" mentality. The reason I state that is because your final comment of him saying "good youre learning discipline".
He is not your father, and his role is not to discipline you. A partner is there to be your cheerleader, not an authority figure.
Get out, now.
It sounds like he is systematically trying to tear down your self worth and how you view yourself as an abuser would do while trying to "train" their victim. He is trying to get you into scarcity thinking, and make you believe that only he wants you, because "look at how gross you are. You are lucky you have me" mentality. The reason I state that is because your final comment of him saying "good youre learning discipline".
He is not your father, and his role is not to discipline you. A partner is there to be your cheerleader, not an authority figure.
Get out, now.
I would’ve blown up on him by #2 on this list. Do NOT be a doormat. I’m a Virgo and my ex is a Leo so I know what I’m talking about.
Leo’s love to joke around. Sometimes their jokes are taken too far and they need to be put in their place. The comment about him disciplining u seems like he’s trynna train a damn horse.
There was this time that my ex kept on making fun of my heritage. Which was fine bc it was teasing, but then he took it too far and I was getting annoyed so I said “could u uhhh STFU? Ur so annoying all u do is talk. Shape up before I ship up and leave ur dumb ass”. He was highly shocked and apologized.
Leo’s love to joke around. Sometimes their jokes are taken too far and they need to be put in their place. The comment about him disciplining u seems like he’s trynna train a damn horse.
There was this time that my ex kept on making fun of my heritage. Which was fine bc it was teasing, but then he took it too far and I was getting annoyed so I said “could u uhhh STFU? Ur so annoying all u do is talk. Shape up before I ship up and leave ur dumb ass”. He was highly shocked and apologized.
Just thinking about this has my blood boiling. I would’ve slapped the everlasting SOUL out of him
He's an immature and insecure Leo cub, definitely dump him. You deserve far better! If you're going to date another Leo, find an older Leo who's more of a Lion or Sphinx.
all of the above, make it over now and move on to someone who is more mature and isn't abusive
this is the type of instance where - to me - it's best to just ghost - no sense getting into the whys and how's of it all with him, just ghost - he's not even worth trying to tell him anything; obviously he wasn't like this at the beginning - typical scenario cycle of a person who is abusive
if he does ask, what "I" would say is this "you are a loser, and I don't want to see or speak to you again, goodbye, and hang up" and DO NOT engage any further
this is the type of instance where - to me - it's best to just ghost - no sense getting into the whys and how's of it all with him, just ghost - he's not even worth trying to tell him anything; obviously he wasn't like this at the beginning - typical scenario cycle of a person who is abusive
if he does ask, what "I" would say is this "you are a loser, and I don't want to see or speak to you again, goodbye, and hang up" and DO NOT engage any further
Posted by greengemini_Posted by ayla13
The guy in question is a Leo and I'm a virgo, we both got scorpio moons. I'm starting to believe the stuff I read now on how incompatible they are. 🤔
We've been dating for about a year on and off. Sometimes he's ok, other times the things he does and says are questionable.
We went on holiday together, he organised the whole thing since prior to that I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month. He said let's start again and it can be a new chapter, so I agreed to go away with him.
Since we got back i've just been analysing and questioning why to put it mildly he's such a d**k
First day was good, we got on fine. Then he started doing and saying somethings which were out of order and pretty much made me not want to be there with him.
1. everywhere we went he would leave me trailing behind him trying to catch up, he would just walk and not even consider if im behind him or not. one time I lost him and spent about half an hour contemplating if I should go just end the day and go back to the hotel or carry on looking for him. Only for him to come out and say he's been watching me going up n down the whole time, much to his amusement. I didn't find that very funny.
2. We went to one of the hotel nights, he found a nerdy looking guy and said that guy is you. Why don't you go chat him up, he said it jokingly. when I said ok then I will he suddenly changed and said he doubts he would give you me a chance anyway since the women he's been dancing with are of a different level, implying im unattractive in comparison. 🤕😨
3. He also was sitting there all moody simply because I didn't have a drink with him at that bar
4. This was probably the worst one and put me in a bad mood all day to the point I didn't even want to dress up or anything, I was actually nearly in tears but I hid it.
We got up headed to breakfast at the hotel, granted I was too tired to make an effort like I do usually when I go out out.
so its a buffet breakfast where there's hundreds of people and he sat there making comment after comment about my appearance, to the point where I felt absolutely self conscious.
he's lik so I woke up today to find out you have a double chin 😨, how did you hide it so well all this time. im actually slim and people are constantly saying Iv got a good figure . he's like someone's been eating a bit too much.
I defended myself.and said you need to get.an eye test, he was like if only you could see yourself right now. ( implying how terrible I look).
I said I could always count on you for a compliment, he's like if there's anything to compliment I would. and by the way he never compliments me anyway, ever.
For me that was the icing on the cake and the rest of the holiday I just kept going through his scathing words and couldn't comprehend his rudeness.
I'm used to strangers and everyone I know always saying how beautiful I am and how pretty I am and the person I decide to spend most my time with keeps attacking my appearance. 😐
The reason I didn't go over all that with him is simply because I just wanted to appear tough as if it didnt bother me. but really it's the opposite.
Oh yeh and another thing, on the journey home he ws driving me in his car and he started making jokes about how people look in my area and I threw a scrunched up piece of paper at him in a playful way, he then switched and very aggressively threw it back and told me to pick it up, pick it up now. when I did he said good you're learning how to be disciplined.
I'm always nice to him but his level of disrespect is just getting to me now but at the same time I don't want to act like it got to me so instead ill just end up avoiding him. SINCE we got back he's been messaging me n iv not replied.
What do you guys think
yup all this sounds like @soul click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
I was actually expecting this to sound like me, but most of it doesn't. I don't act all judgy at the appearance of people I'm with. If anything I'm more likely to lie and tell them they look great just to make them feel good. I wouldn't even speak like that to someone I truly disliked, because that person wouldn't be in my life in the first place.
Also I like to be a close knit group with the people I'm with. I'd be the last one waiting for someone straggling behind in the group, because i know how butterty that would feel.
I agree with being moody at times, but that is literally the only part I really have in common with this guy.
Truth is the people in my life I respect and care about deeply. If i didn't they wouldn't have ever had a shot in my life in the first place.
Posted by greengemini_Posted by Smil3Posted by greengemini_
He got his revenge
Exactly.
'I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month."
What were you saying and doing to him?
Scorpio moons stinging each other.
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A scorpio woman did similar thing to.me. not in that exact way but she pretended everything was cool between us only to pull me in. Lesson learned. One of you have to be the bigger person. Delete him out of your life completely! I wouldn't even engage anyone that knows him click to expandclick to expand
this is going to sound immature but he started it. so I ignored him. he was coco, we were meant to meet up and six times he cancelled Six times, either he had the flu or had someting he had to do. I even said our lucky I still talk to you after you cancelled this many times he said in a arrogant way leave then if you don't like it but either way I just thought im not going to engage with him after that. hence I ignored him. then he comes running back trying to get me to go away with.him.
Posted by Meowpie
Break up.
Immature Leo. Find someone who will appreciate you and not bring you down. Toxic AF.
He is probably insecure about himself, hence bringing you down to somehow be attached to him. Don't let him play with your feelings. Find a mature guy or Leo that will treat you like a Queen with respect.
I know you're right. its pretty pathetic though to bring down the person who is spending their valuable time and money on him. I mean I even paid for his niece and nephews birthday presents which of course he didn't pay me back for. this was after all the mean comments by the way and I just told him it's fine since they're only kids so I let it go.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Honestly it doesn’t sound healthy on either end. What possessed you to go on a holiday with the person you just spent a month ignoring?
I would think baby steps would be the way forward. Not being aroulnd each other 24/7
Well the reason I ignored him in thr first place is because he kept making plans and cancelling on me.even though he was thr one making the plans and he did that six times. after that I thought f*** it can't be f**** and then he comes back all guns blazing trying to see me and booking holidays and messaging me constantly.
Posted by nikkistar
No, leave, now.
It sounds like he is systematically trying to tear down your self worth and how you view yourself as an abuser would do while trying to "train" their victim. He is trying to get you into scarcity thinking, and make you believe that only he wants you, because "look at how gross you are. You are lucky you have me" mentality. The reason I state that is because your final comment of him saying "good youre learning discipline".
He is not your father, and his role is not to discipline you. A partner is there to be your cheerleader, not an authority figure.
Get out, now.
it does sound like that I know.
but although I didn't say anything at the time I am the kind of person who if you provoke enough will end up so mad that it will all come out like one big explosion. I am certainly not someone who would ever be a victim in that way and I will bring him down in the end if he carries on.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I would’ve blown up on him by #2 on this list. Do NOT be a doormat. I’m a Virgo and my ex is a Leo so I know what I’m talking about.
Leo’s love to joke around. Sometimes their jokes are taken too far and they need to be put in their place. The comment about him disciplining u seems like he’s trynna train a damn horse.
There was this time that my ex kept on making fun of my heritage. Which was fine bc it was teasing, but then he took it too far and I was getting annoyed so I said “could u uhhh STFU? Ur so annoying all u do is talk. Shape up before I ship up and leave ur dumb ass”. He was highly shocked and apologized.
im exactly like you I just take and take until ill come out with something that is so shocking to the system lol.
You're exactly.right he loves to joke. but if it's the other way around he will get so offended and I'm like hello you do this to me all the time??
but what he said about how if I saw myself in the mirror I would know what he's talkig about that wasn't teasing at all. he said it with a serious face no laughing no smiling.. I'm no trying to be rude but I think it was better lookig than his exes and with them all he ever did was give compliment after compliment and with me its simply insult after insult
Posted by MLeodramaIt's funny becsuse all he goes on about is how mature he is and how great he is. ik just like get a grip already. its too much. and then on top of that to say how not great I am at everything.
He's an immature and insecure Leo cub, definitely dump him. You deserve far better! If you're going to date another Leo, find an older Leo who's more of a Lion or Sphinx.
Posted by tctaoye honestly he wasnt like this before I mean he had his moments but on holiday he was really quite bad.
all of the above, make it over now and move on to someone who is more mature and isn't abusive
this is the type of instance where - to me - it's best to just ghost - no sense getting into the whys and how's of it all with him, just ghost - he's not even worth trying to tell him anything; obviously he wasn't like this at the beginning - typical scenario cycle of a person who is abusive
if he does ask, what "I" would say is this "you are a loser, and I don't want to see or speak to you again, goodbye, and hang up" and DO NOT engage any further
Posted by ayla13once things settle down in a relationship, the real "person" comes out - I call them the true colors - people usually show their best behavior in the very beginning. I like to just smile and wait because I know it's coming ... if it doesn't come, then you have a genuine person in your presencePosted by tctao
all of the above, make it over now and move on to someone who is more mature and isn't abusive
this is the type of instance where - to me - it's best to just ghost - no sense getting into the whys and how's of it all with him, just ghost - he's not even worth trying to tell him anything; obviously he wasn't like this at the beginning - typical scenario cycle of a person who is abusive
if he does ask, what "I" would say is this "you are a loser, and I don't want to see or speak to you again, goodbye, and hang up" and DO NOT engage any further
ye honestly he wasnt like this before I mean he had his moments but on holiday he was really quite bad. click to expandclick to expand
you don't have to be around anyone so toxic - he's no prize believe us - so drop him like a hot potato and be available for a gentleman that wants to talk to you and asks you out - that "tool" doesn't deserve you at all ...
Posted by tctaoPosted by ayla13Posted by tctaoye honestly he wasnt like this before I mean he had his moments but on holiday he was really quite bad. click to expand
all of the above, make it over now and move on to someone who is more mature and isn't abusive
this is the type of instance where - to me - it's best to just ghost - no sense getting into the whys and how's of it all with him, just ghost - he's not even worth trying to tell him anything; obviously he wasn't like this at the beginning - typical scenario cycle of a person who is abusive
if he does ask, what "I" would say is this "you are a loser, and I don't want to see or speak to you again, goodbye, and hang up" and DO NOT engage any further
once things settle down in a relationship, the real "person" comes out - I call them the true colors - people usually show their best behavior in the very beginning. I like to just smile and wait because I know it's coming ... if it doesn't come, then you have a genuine person in your presence
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his type colours certainly are not very nice
Posted by tctaoyeh you're probably.right, he's just weird he comes back whilst I've gone into a phase of not wanting to speak to him is trying to be nice and organise a holiday and then ruins it all by being a d*** again
you don't have to be around anyone so toxic - he's no prize believe us - so drop him like a hot potato and be available for a gentleman that wants to talk to you and asks you out - that "tool" doesn't deserve you at all ...
Posted by ayla13well you could be polite and thank him for the holiday but it can just end therePosted by tctao
you don't have to be around anyone so toxic - he's no prize believe us - so drop him like a hot potato and be available for a gentleman that wants to talk to you and asks you out - that "tool" doesn't deserve you at all ...
yeh you're probably.right, he's just weird he comes back whilst I've gone into a phase of not wanting to speak to him is trying to be nice and organise a holiday and then ruins it all by being a d*** again click to expandclick to expand
bro
they cuckoo
leo would act like the edgy always mad posessive bf ( 🤢 )
virgo not impressed
next day they'll try (and fail) to be cute and cuddly ( 🤢 )
virgo not surprised nor impressed just disappointed
theyd keep trying hard until you give them attention (never)
they cuckoo
leo would act like the edgy always mad posessive bf ( 🤢 )
virgo not impressed
next day they'll try (and fail) to be cute and cuddly ( 🤢 )
virgo not surprised nor impressed just disappointed
theyd keep trying hard until you give them attention (never)
Posted by tctaoPosted by ayla13Posted by tctaoyeh you're probably.right, he's just weird he comes back whilst I've gone into a phase of not wanting to speak to him is trying to be nice and organise a holiday and then ruins it all by being a d*** again click to expand
you don't have to be around anyone so toxic - he's no prize believe us - so drop him like a hot potato and be available for a gentleman that wants to talk to you and asks you out - that "tool" doesn't deserve you at all ...
well you could be polite and thank him for the holiday but it can just end there click to expandclick to expand
oh no Id rather not even thank him lol. he can thank me for coming along and putuig.up with his ass
Posted by startwars
bro
they cuckoo
leo would act like the edgy always mad posessive bf ( 🤢 )
virgo not impressed
next day they'll try (and fail) to be cute and cuddly ( 🤢 )
virgo not surprised nor impressed just disappointed
theyd keep trying hard until you give them attention (never)
yeh he's a real attention seeker always geting me to say how amazing.and.great he is.
whilst unable to do the same back. its sad really
Posted by startwars
bro
they cuckoo
leo would act like the edgy always mad posessive bf ( 🤢 )
virgo not impressed
next day they'll try (and fail) to be cute and cuddly ( 🤢 )
virgo not surprised nor impressed just disappointed
theyd keep trying hard until you give them attention (never)
I have no idea why women are into leo guys but I certainly have been put off for life.
Posted by ayla13lol you go gurl !Posted by tctaoPosted by ayla13well you could be polite and thank him for the holiday but it can just end there click to expandPosted by tctao
you don't have to be around anyone so toxic - he's no prize believe us - so drop him like a hot potato and be available for a gentleman that wants to talk to you and asks you out - that "tool" doesn't deserve you at all ...
yeh you're probably.right, he's just weird he comes back whilst I've gone into a phase of not wanting to speak to him is trying to be nice and organise a holiday and then ruins it all by being a d*** again click to expand
oh no Id rather not even thank him lol. he can thank me for coming along and putuig.up with his ass click to expandclick to expand
The fuck is going on here?
Boy bye.
Boy bye.
How old are you guys?
Both sound immature but yea that leo is a jerk an half
Both sound immature but yea that leo is a jerk an half
He is emotionally abusive.Drop his asa gal before it's late!
Posted by tctaoPosted by ayla13Posted by tctaoPosted by ayla13Posted by tctao
you don't have to be around anyone so toxic - he's no prize believe us - so drop him like a hot potato and be available for a gentleman that wants to talk to you and asks you out - that "tool" doesn't deserve you at all ...
yeh you're probably.right, he's just weird he comes back whilst I've gone into a phase of not wanting to speak to him is trying to be nice and organise a holiday and then ruins it all by being a d*** again click to expand
well you could be polite and thank him for the holiday but it can just end there click to expand
oh no Id rather not even thank him lol. he can thank me for coming along and putuig.up with his ass click to expand
lol you go gurl ! click to expandclick to expand
thanksss 😆😍
Posted by heliumfiasco
The treetrunk is going on here?
Boy bye.
LOL!😆😅
Posted by MoonshineLeohe's actually going to be 30 this year
How old are you guys?
Both sound immature but yea that leo is a jerk an half
im in.ma mid twenties
Posted by ayla13Posted by MoonshineLeo
How old are you guys?
Both sound immature but yea that leo is a jerk an half
he's actually going to be 30 this year
im in.ma mid twenties
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Oh woooow yea i would not deal with that especially coming from someone older.
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We've been dating for about a year on and off. Sometimes he's ok, other times the things he does and says are questionable.
We went on holiday together, he organised the whole thing since prior to that I wasn't happy with him and was pretty much ignoring him for a month. He said let's start again and it can be a new chapter, so I agreed to go away with him.
Since we got back i've just been analysing and questioning why to put it mildly he's such a d**k
First day was good, we got on fine. Then he started doing and saying somethings which were out of order and pretty much made me not want to be there with him.
1. everywhere we went he would leave me trailing behind him trying to catch up, he would just walk and not even consider if im behind him or not. one time I lost him and spent about half an hour contemplating if I should go just end the day and go back to the hotel or carry on looking for him. Only for him to come out and say he's been watching me going up n down the whole time, much to his amusement. I didn't find that very funny.
2. We went to one of the hotel nights, he found a nerdy looking guy and said that guy is you. Why don't you go chat him up, he said it jokingly. when I said ok then I will he suddenly changed and said he doubts he would give you me a chance anyway since the women he's been dancing with are of a different level, implying im unattractive in comparison. 🤕😨
3. He also was sitting there all moody simply because I didn't have a drink with him at that bar
4. This was probably the worst one and put me in a bad mood all day to the point I didn't even want to dress up or anything, I was actually nearly in tears but I hid it.
We got up headed to breakfast at the hotel, granted I was too tired to make an effort like I do usually when I go out out.
so its a buffet breakfast where there's hundreds of people and he sat there making comment after comment about my appearance, to the point where I felt absolutely self conscious.
he's lik so I woke up today to find out you have a double chin 😨, how did you hide it so well all this time. im actually slim and people are constantly saying Iv got a good figure . he's like someone's been eating a bit too much.
I defended myself.and said you need to get.an eye test, he was like if only you could see yourself right now. ( implying how terrible I look).
I said I could always count on you for a compliment, he's like if there's anything to compliment I would. and by the way he never compliments me anyway, ever.
For me that was the icing on the cake and the rest of the holiday I just kept going through his scathing words and couldn't comprehend his rudeness.
I'm used to strangers and everyone I know always saying how beautiful I am and how pretty I am and the person I decide to spend most my time with keeps attacking my appearance. 😐
The reason I didn't go over all that with him is simply because I just wanted to appear tough as if it didnt bother me. but really it's the opposite.
Oh yeh and another thing, on the journey home he ws driving me in his car and he started making jokes about how people look in my area and I threw a scrunched up piece of paper at him in a playful way, he then switched and very aggressively threw it back and told me to pick it up, pick it up now. when I did he said good you're learning how to be disciplined.
I'm always nice to him but his level of disrespect is just getting to me now but at the same time I don't want to act like it got to me so instead ill just end up avoiding him. SINCE we got back he's been messaging me n iv not replied.
What do you guys think