It's totally ouch! Unexpectedly, right out of the blue, it's over đą Personally I think I've been competing with ghosts from his past for a while but he just hit me with it.
Aries man left me ......
Thanks guys! I'm trying to find distractions everywhere.
Yeah, I mean it wasn't ugly or anything. But 6 months of intensity ended via WhatsApp...I didn't even get a chance to bring out the psycho! He says he's depressed, and if i thought for a second i could love and support him out of it I would, but in the bigger context, he just wasn't feeling me (even though he loves and cares for me a lot). Just wish he could have said something sooner.
Oh, plus it was on Thursday with that mega full moon...i guess it was written in the stars.
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Yeah, a massive disappointment.
Gracias, but this guy will never come back around..he has a venus in Taurus! My focus is on me now đ
Posted by Sola
Yeah, a massive disappointment.
The one I was with was terrified of his mother đ
Big babies boo hoo
He has drug dependecy issues and binge drinks..this is a consequence of his self destruction.
Posted by Sola
He has drug dependecy issues and binge drinks..this is a consequence of his self destruction.
fuck that. let him take that shit elsewhere.
Posted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
I know it's happened for the best, but it still hurts like hell.
He's a coward, not for what he wanted..but how he chose to get it. Ending a 6 month relationship via text message out of the blue, that's just nasty.
But you know, he never treated me badly, we never argued. Only the other day he was telling me "i miss you, I love you".. then BAM, he's damaged, scared to love, bringing me down. No opportunity for me to defend myself or deal properly with the situation.
Yeah, I mean I appreciate not being ghosted! That's officialy the worst! And I woudn't say I'm a pushover, just 100% drama free. If you go, get out and stay out!
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
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No, because he couldn't finish it face to face like a real man would ....
Posted by tiziani
Text message is the favourite hiding ground of cowards, but that's just how it is today.
Yes, sadly. Such a weak way to behave and communciate tiz
Ugh
đđ»
Wow sorry to hear that it was through a text messsge.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
No, because he couldn't finish it face to face like a real man would ....
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He was honest with her imo thatâs being very mature to come out and say youâre just straight up not happy. Thatâs VERY mature. Itâs hard for the other person to wrap their head around the fact that maybe you donât make your partner happy and thatâs ok everyone deserves to be happy though. He didnât have to tell her anything, he doesnât have to reveal whatâs going on in his own mind but he did and heâs a coward??
Donât see your logic at ALL.
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
No, because he couldn't finish it face to face like a real man would ....
He was honest with her imo thatâs being very mature to come out and say youâre just straight up not happy. Thatâs VERY mature. Itâs hard for the other person to wrap their head around the fact that maybe you donât make your partner happy and thatâs ok everyone deserves to be happy though. He didnât have to tell her anything, he doesnât have to reveal whatâs going on in his own mind but he did and heâs a coward??
Donât see your logic at ALL.click to expand
Would you finish with someone by text msg or like it if a man did it to you?
Maybe you wouldn't mind that......but I would
That's my logic.....not yours maybe?
Different strokes, miss
đ
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
No, because he couldn't finish it face to face like a real man would ....
He was honest with her imo thatâs being very mature to come out and say youâre just straight up not happy. Thatâs VERY mature. Itâs hard for the other person to wrap their head around the fact that maybe you donât make your partner happy and thatâs ok everyone deserves to be happy though. He didnât have to tell her anything, he doesnât have to reveal whatâs going on in his own mind but he did and heâs a coward??
Donât see your logic at ALL.
Would you finish with someone by text msg or like it if a man did it to you?
Maybe you wouldn't mind that......but I would
That's my logic.....not yours maybe?
Different strokes, miss
đclick to expand
In this day and age be thankful you atleast get an explanation.... miss
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
No, because he couldn't finish it face to face like a real man would ....
He was honest with her imo thatâs being very mature to come out and say youâre just straight up not happy. Thatâs VERY mature. Itâs hard for the other person to wrap their head around the fact that maybe you donât make your partner happy and thatâs ok everyone deserves to be happy though. He didnât have to tell her anything, he doesnât have to reveal whatâs going on in his own mind but he did and heâs a coward??
Donât see your logic at ALL.
Would you finish with someone by text msg or like it if a man did it to you?
Maybe you wouldn't mind that......but I would
That's my logic.....not yours maybe?
Different strokes, miss
đ
In this day and age be thankful you atleast get an explanation.... miss
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And that we can agree on.....indeed!
Posted by DewritosPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
No, because he couldn't finish it face to face like a real man would ....
He was honest with her imo thatâs being very mature to come out and say youâre just straight up not happy. Thatâs VERY mature. Itâs hard for the other person to wrap their head around the fact that maybe you donât make your partner happy and thatâs ok everyone deserves to be happy though. He didnât have to tell her anything, he doesnât have to reveal whatâs going on in his own mind but he did and heâs a coward??
Donât see your logic at ALL.
She's clearly inserting her own personal projections, lacks the ability to see any other perspective than her own.click to expand
Don't think "she" is?
Nobody has ever finished with her by text message so she was just being sympathetic rather than projecting.....
Posted by TimonPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by MyStarsShine
God, he sounds cowardlyđđ»
I was with one that was too
You prob had a lucky escape love đ
Heâs a coward because he wants to be happy?
God, some people are sooooooo selfish
No, because he couldn't finish it face to face like a real man would ....
He was honest with her imo thatâs being very mature to come out and say youâre just straight up not happy. Thatâs VERY mature. Itâs hard for the other person to wrap their head around the fact that maybe you donât make your partner happy and thatâs ok everyone deserves to be happy though.
He didnât have to tell her anything, he doesnât have to reveal whatâs going on in his own mind but he did and heâs a coward??
Donât see your logic at ALL.
If he didn't say anything that is called ghosting and ghosting someone is cowardly imo. However he did say something but doing it over a text when you've been in a relationship with a person... Well I agree with Star on that. It's an act of a coward.click to expand
6 months isnât a long time to be with someone and deff donât need to reveal my depression to someone i barely know but he did...
Mental illness it a bitch no matter what sign. Sucks for op and Iâm sorry but you want someone whoâs already found that happiness within themselves anyways. Donât settle.
Posted by Gobby
#firstworldproblems
Relationship problems are universal problems.
First world problems are more like, my uber eats driver forgot the utensils with my order and they gave me too much ice in my Thai ice tea
Let him go
i find it sad that we've come to a point that anything other than ghosting is seen as a positive. have our standards really fallen so low?
Posted by Timon
đą sorry to hear that. Hope your heart heals soon. â€
There is always sunrise! If you show up for sunset...lmao
Posted by Fallen2Pisces
thAT SUCKS! but if he lost the love nd has no more love to give or share with you than fk him! find some1 who will cherish your love for eternity! apparently he wasn't the one if he was so eager to let go of all you worked for..he might come back around and realized what he lost or threw away..but dont feel bad pretty girl...there is so much love around us,maybe its for the better...hey maybe you might run into me heh
Itâs sucks! Big time! But how does one leave ânicelyâ when they donât feel anymore?
Like I said long time ago - call him an asshole! But what would YOU do in his shoes? Stay? Out of pity or being afraid to call names! Seriously!
Posted by TimonPosted by GemitatiPosted by Timon
đą sorry to hear that. Hope your heart heals soon. â€
There is always sunrise! If you show up for sunset...lmao
I haven't seen sunrise in so long. đ đđclick to expand
Because you are bad sunset date!
You donât show up or dress...strangely! Lmao
Posted by TimonPosted by GemitatiPosted by TimonPosted by GemitatiPosted by Timon
đą sorry to hear that. Hope your heart heals soon. â€
There is always sunrise! If you show up for sunset...lmao
I haven't seen sunrise in so long. đ đđ
Because you are bad sunset date!
You donât show up or dress...strangely! Lmao
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GOD! I think we had a longest laugh at your âadventureâ...havenât we? Lmao still...
I am sorry to hear that...
I personally dont think breaking up via text message is a bad thing.... I mean, why would you want to hear it face to face that somebody doesnt want you? its like adding insult to injury... to talk it throu? I mean, there is nothing to talk throu - you want me you dont want me, I dont even need your reasons..... I mean you are leaving me with the pathetic I am not happy, blah blah blah... I think the best thing to do is to just dont do and say anything in the heat of the moment and save what you have to say when after some time you talk again and you are calm (and you will talk again, its not the end, unless you go in crazy mode... stay calm, give it a few weeks, he will be back for the talk or for whatever)
so different people prefer different things... I think breaking up via text message is actually a considerate thing to do.. saving the other person from going crazy/crying/saying things they will regret/behave in reaction what they would regret - which can happen if the break-up is face-to-face
again, different people different strokes..... I dont think I have low standards, I just have my personal preference
and these things are never really out of blue....
OP, stay calm, focus on something else for a few weeks, this "depressed - oh- so -orginal-searching-for-happiness" man will be back - dont forget, you are not his psychoterapist! your love evidently was not enough to cure him so far, so if you want him, just ignore his pathetic depressed a** for now
PS. a healthy argument and a bit of drama is essential in every relationship, otherwise is too vanilla
I personally dont think breaking up via text message is a bad thing.... I mean, why would you want to hear it face to face that somebody doesnt want you? its like adding insult to injury... to talk it throu? I mean, there is nothing to talk throu - you want me you dont want me, I dont even need your reasons..... I mean you are leaving me with the pathetic I am not happy, blah blah blah... I think the best thing to do is to just dont do and say anything in the heat of the moment and save what you have to say when after some time you talk again and you are calm (and you will talk again, its not the end, unless you go in crazy mode... stay calm, give it a few weeks, he will be back for the talk or for whatever)
so different people prefer different things... I think breaking up via text message is actually a considerate thing to do.. saving the other person from going crazy/crying/saying things they will regret/behave in reaction what they would regret - which can happen if the break-up is face-to-face
again, different people different strokes..... I dont think I have low standards, I just have my personal preference
and these things are never really out of blue....
OP, stay calm, focus on something else for a few weeks, this "depressed - oh- so -orginal-searching-for-happiness" man will be back - dont forget, you are not his psychoterapist! your love evidently was not enough to cure him so far, so if you want him, just ignore his pathetic depressed a** for now
PS. a healthy argument and a bit of drama is essential in every relationship, otherwise is too vanilla
He could have shared his feeling with me, or told me he wasn't happy any given day we spent together. I told him about my problems and mental health issues that I was treated for over a long period of time (I have a panic disorder). But he lied from start to finish, making me believe that it was safe to love him. Then ended it two days ago on a messaging app. I don't really care about other people's standards on how they view relationship timelines/rules/communication, the bottom line is I felt like what we had and my investment was worthy of more than that.
Yeah, arguments are definitely healthy..I agree. We just didn't really ever have a reason to, and one of us would have to be deliberately going out of our way to cause one, i was just that kind of chemistry.
Yeah, arguments are definitely healthy..I agree. We just didn't really ever have a reason to, and one of us would have to be deliberately going out of our way to cause one, i was just that kind of chemistry.
Posted by Sola
He could have shared his feeling with me, or told me he wasn't happy any given day we spent together. I told him about my problems and mental health issues that I was treated for over a long period of time (I have a panic disorder). But he lied from start to finish, making me believe that it was safe to love him. Then ended it two days ago on a messaging app. I don't really care about other people's standards on how they view relationship timelines/rules/communication, the bottom line is I felt like what we had and my investment was worthy of more than that.
you said I love you first
and its okey... I just want to point out that more love and understanding will not cure him now... but it can cure him in a long haul... so for now, let it be
I think you two are/were oversharing about the problems and issues.... which how it should be in a good partnership... but he is taking it to another level with his "my problems are more important than yours, you good bye"
let him go for now..... he will be back, thats for sure
I won't take him back! It's just something I've personally never been able to do. If you shake my foundation, I can't build on them so there's no use in second/third/fourth chances. I couldn't have been clearer since the start about my expectations. Anyways, i told him there were no bad feelings from my side. I just needed to vent here today, i'm hurt and i'm sad but it's a natural response and i'll be fine again soon đ
Posted by NevamorePosted by jeane
i find it sad that we've come to a point that anything other than ghosting is seen as a positive. have our standards really fallen so low?
It actually dependz.
The Russel Brand and Katy Perry break up is actually a good example of cowardly.
But on the other part of other relationships.. break up through text/email after they eithrr got abused (psychical and/or mentally), harrasement and/or that person shows really unstable like a crazy/psycho/toxic maniac side.. Or the opposite side to save their love life a better pne otberwise they'll suck into it to become co-dependency.click to expand
yes perhaps if abuse is a factor but surely breaking up through text is a modern day equivalent to what happened when i was a kid and you got sent a note in class "tony sez yer dumped. signed becky". it was a shitty thing to do then. it's a shitty thing to do now.
Posted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by GemitatiPosted by Fallen2Pisces
thAT SUCKS! but if he lost the love nd has no more love to give or share with you than fk him! find some1 who will cherish your love for eternity! apparently he wasn't the one if he was so eager to let go of all you worked for..he might come back around and realized what he lost or threw away..but dont feel bad pretty girl...there is so much love around us,maybe its for the better...hey maybe you might run into me heh
Itâs sucks! Big time! But how does one leave ânicelyâ when they donât feel anymore?
Like I said long time ago - call him an asshole! But what would YOU do in his shoes? Stay? Out of pity or being afraid to call names! Seriously!
i like to tell it how it is, never beat around the bush, and mix or misinterpret emotions that shouldnt even exist! is why i always hate liars and bullshitters cuz it just puts yourself and other people in a delusional misconception reality...people need to let go of their egos and embrace their emotions...stop fronting! maybe im too real for most, but i just hate seeing others misguided through the provokations of false realities...fk all that shit...life is too short to be bulshitting!click to expand
SO HE LEFT! where is the bullshit?
At least Sia's "Flames" is my new theme tune đ
This is why I don't phuck with Aries men they will hurt a Libra woman. Stay away from them Libras.
I appreciate your approach here. I mean, looking back..he works full time but lives at home but he never had any money but the end of the first week of being paid. Weekdays it was mostly weed, every couple of weekends he would drink himself into oblivion and take cocain and ecstasy (but not once when I was around). He had a couple of bad relationships in the past, but really he was as much to blame for the outcomes of those by his own admission and anyway, who gets to age 30 without some life experience and heartache? I do genuinely think he was trying to protect me, I just still don't understand how easily he could have lied not only to me, but to himself about his emotions.
We spoke once last Sunday, i sent him a message to say that I hopes things would get better for him soon, because I've been there in the past. He just spoke about how great I was and how we never argued, and that everything is just all in his head. It was really unemotional and brief and nothing since.
We spoke once last Sunday, i sent him a message to say that I hopes things would get better for him soon, because I've been there in the past. He just spoke about how great I was and how we never argued, and that everything is just all in his head. It was really unemotional and brief and nothing since.
Posted by Sola
I appreciate your approach here. I mean, looking back..he works full time but lives at home but he never had any money but the end of the first week of being paid. Weekdays it was mostly weed, every couple of weekends he would drink himself into oblivion and take cocain and ecstasy (but not once when I was around). He had a couple of bad relationships in the past, but really he was as much to blame for the outcomes of those by his own admission and anyway, who gets to age 30 without some life experience and heartache? I do genuinely think he was trying to protect me, I just still don't understand how easily he could have lied not only to me, but to himself about his emotions.
We spoke once last Sunday, i sent him a message to say that I hopes things would get better for him soon, because I've been there in the past. He just spoke about how great I was and how we never argued, and that everything is just all in his head. It was really unemotional and brief and nothing since.
If he's smoking weed and doing drugs and booze he won't know what emotions are darling. All that stuff numbs a person
Keep moving forward đ
Yeah, I know. I miss him a lot..he was my best friend.
I've actually just checked his FB page and somebody has shared a post about depression on it đą He must be quite bad, but i still don't think it would be right to reach out just now.
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