How to make a Libra

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Cherry
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Posted by tiziani

why would you need to do something like that?


My libra has been spying on me a lot on my snapchat GPS and would throw a fit for the last 5 months since he got kicked out of his grandparents place (which had a stupid reason to it)

Constantly he doesnt understand I cant balance a schedule with work, school, homework, a group study and just give him a specific time for us to hang out.

He would ask pictures of who i last text accusing me that I am doing something behind his back and this has been going on since March and its killing me no matter how many times I proved him wrong with the evidences I have.

He took all my free time for granted since the beginning, but now I dont have the time he just demands things which I can't do.

His insecurities are stressing me out and the last few months my phone call history is blown up with ALL HIS CALLS.

There is one that he called me 52x in a day.

I am just so sick and tired of being accused by him and I cant focus on my class.
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Posted by tiziani

why would you need to do something like that?


My libra has been spying on me a lot on my snapchat GPS and would throw a fit for the last 5 months since he got kicked out of his grandparents place (which had a stupid reason to it)

Constantly he doesnt understand I cant balance a schedule with work, school, homework, a group study and just give him a specific time for us to hang out.

He would ask pictures of who i last text accusing me that I am doing something behind his back and this has been going on since March and its killing me no matter how many times I proved him wrong with the evidences I have.

He took all my free time for granted since the beginning, but now I dont have the time he just demands things which I can't do.

His insecurities are stressing me out and the last few months my phone call history is blown up with ALL HIS CALLS.

There is one that he called me 52x in a day.

I am just so sick and tired of being accused by him and I cant focus on my class.
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Tell him you are going to block him and then block him.
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Posted by tiziani

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Posted by tiziani

why would you need to do something like that?


My libra has been spying on me a lot on my snapchat GPS and would throw a fit for the last 5 months since he got kicked out of his grandparents place (which had a stupid reason to it)

Constantly he doesnt understand I cant balance a schedule with work, school, homework, a group study and just give him a specific time for us to hang out.

He would ask pictures of who i last text accusing me that I am doing something behind his back and this has been going on since March and its killing me no matter how many times I proved him wrong with the evidences I have.

He took all my free time for granted since the beginning, but now I dont have the time he just demands things which I can't do.

His insecurities are stressing me out and the last few months my phone call history is blown up with ALL HIS CALLS.

There is one that he called me 52x in a day.

I am just so sick and tired of being accused by him and I cant focus on my class.


ok, so he has a lot of time on his hands since he got kicked out. That sucks you're on the end of that. Either way don't give him an emotional reaction, just be very robotic about it and block contact.
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I have blocked, but he sometimes shows up in front of my door begging and wanting to work it out.

He cant even last a few days without us talking. I really need the space I've been there for him thick and thin but I feel like it's now the time for me to focus on myself.
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Posted by tiziani

why would you need to do something like that?


My libra has been spying on me a lot on my snapchat GPS and would throw a fit for the last 5 months since he got kicked out of his grandparents place (which had a stupid reason to it)

Constantly he doesnt understand I cant balance a schedule with work, school, homework, a group study and just give him a specific time for us to hang out.

He would ask pictures of who i last text accusing me that I am doing something behind his back and this has been going on since March and its killing me no matter how many times I proved him wrong with the evidences I have.

He took all my free time for granted since the beginning, but now I dont have the time he just demands things which I can't do.

His insecurities are stressing me out and the last few months my phone call history is blown up with ALL HIS CALLS.

There is one that he called me 52x in a day.

I am just so sick and tired of being accused by him and I cant focus on my class.


Tell him you are going to block him and then block him.
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I blocked him without him knowing actually...
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Posted by tiziani

Posted by Echo

Posted by tiziani

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Posted by tiziani

why would you need to do something like that?


My libra has been spying on me a lot on my snapchat GPS and would throw a fit for the last 5 months since he got kicked out of his grandparents place (which had a stupid reason to it)

Constantly he doesnt understand I cant balance a schedule with work, school, homework, a group study and just give him a specific time for us to hang out.

He would ask pictures of who i last text accusing me that I am doing something behind his back and this has been going on since March and its killing me no matter how many times I proved him wrong with the evidences I have.

He took all my free time for granted since the beginning, but now I dont have the time he just demands things which I can't do.

His insecurities are stressing me out and the last few months my phone call history is blown up with ALL HIS CALLS.

There is one that he called me 52x in a day.

I am just so sick and tired of being accused by him and I cant focus on my class.


ok, so he has a lot of time on his hands since he got kicked out. That sucks you're on the end of that. Either way don't give him an emotional reaction, just be very robotic about it and block contact.


I have blocked, but he sometimes shows up in front of my door begging and wanting to work it out.

He cant even last a few days without us talking. I really need the space I've been there for him thick and thin but I feel like it's now the time for me to focus on myself.


Do you both have any mutual friends or family that can straighten him out?
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No. Cause I was the only one who was.

All I know those mutual friends are also a wreck like him. 😕
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Posted by tiziani

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Posted by Echo

Posted by tiziani

why would you need to do something like that?


My libra has been spying on me a lot on my snapchat GPS and would throw a fit for the last 5 months since he got kicked out of his grandparents place (which had a stupid reason to it)

Constantly he doesnt understand I cant balance a schedule with work, school, homework, a group study and just give him a specific time for us to hang out.

He would ask pictures of who i last text accusing me that I am doing something behind his back and this has been going on since March and its killing me no matter how many times I proved him wrong with the evidences I have.

He took all my free time for granted since the beginning, but now I dont have the time he just demands things which I can't do.

His insecurities are stressing me out and the last few months my phone call history is blown up with ALL HIS CALLS.

There is one that he called me 52x in a day.

I am just so sick and tired of being accused by him and I cant focus on my class.


ok, so he has a lot of time on his hands since he got kicked out. That sucks you're on the end of that. Either way don't give him an emotional reaction, just be very robotic about it and block contact.


I have blocked, but he sometimes shows up in front of my door begging and wanting to work it out.

He cant even last a few days without us talking. I really need the space I've been there for him thick and thin but I feel like it's now the time for me to focus on myself.


Do you both have any mutual friends or family that can straighten him out?


No. Cause I was the only one who was.

All I know those mutual friends are also a wreck like him. 😕


Then it's time to move place. Dunno what other option you have other than 1. hiring someone to straighten him out or 2. involve the cops, which I don't like but eh
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😥😥 probably the 2nd one if the matters goes worst. I prefer him to grow some balls and become mature
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Posted by GemLover

*sigh* how to make a Libra?

Ok let's see. First you take a couple of square woods. Then drill small holes on each ends of the woods and you take a screw and screw them together. Then you find a piece of strong sturdy paper and write numbers on them and the lines between each numbers. Stick the paper in between the two woods and make sure it turns when you step on it and you have your homemade custom scale.


😂😂😂😂 this made me laugh thanks!
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Posted by GemLover

*sigh* how to make a Libra?

Ok let's see. First you take a couple of square woods. Then drill small holes on each ends of the woods and you take a screw and screw them together. Then you find a piece of strong sturdy paper and write numbers on them and the lines between each numbers. Stick the paper in between the two woods and make sure it turns when you step on it and you have your homemade custom scale.


😂😂😂😂 this made me laugh thanks!


😄 you welcome

I thought you'd get mad at me trolling your thread. I almost started to hide this post. Yeah I know what you meant I was just foolin around.
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Nahh I would do the same tbh 😁😁
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It depends on what kind of Libra you're dealing with. What is the Venus Mars and Moon ?


Leo Moon

And scorpio Mars
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Lmao! Leo moon is the reason for the demanding of time. The only way to get rid of them the kind wAy is to be direct but honestly both Leo Moon and Scorpio Mars need loyalty they need to know that you are being open and honest with them at all times. They only really let go and they diss trust you but I wouldn't recommend going that route because you will regret it and it's a shitty thing to do. You just have to woman up and let him know that you don't think it's going to work out because you can't for fill his need for time and attention at this point. Try not to make it seem like he's wrong for a needing that though.
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It depends on what kind of Libra you're dealing with. What is the Venus Mars and Moon ?


Leo Moon

And scorpio Mars


Lmao! Leo moon is the reason for the demanding of time. The only way to get rid of them the kind wAy is to be direct but honestly both Leo Moon and Scorpio Mars need loyalty they need to know that you are being open and honest with them at all times. They only really let go and they diss trust you but I wouldn't recommend going that route because you will regret it and it's a shitty thing to do. You just have to woman up and let him know that you don't think it's going to work out because you can't for fill his need for time and attention at this point. Try not to make it seem like he's wrong for a needing that though.
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I honestly have done this. I seen him yesterday and from the look on my face he finally realized that I am physically drained and I was extremely tired.

He hasn't seen me for awhile so, I'm guessing that's why hes been a bit crazy lately
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Be honest


This with being direct.

His back will never turn.

You can do it, crab.


No, I have already tried this to the point he shows up at my front door begging to talk this relationship out and giving more chances.

I already given him so much already I have reached my limit


Sounds awful.

What is it about him and his friends that are a wreck? Substances?

I do apologise to anyone who has to put up with 5 missed calls let alone 52 in one day. Plus uninvited appearances. Like Tiz said, you may have to involve police. They have the power to use all your phone and text history to enforce whatever it is you want them to do to cut him off. If that is what you want.

What made him highly dependent on you to the point of being this toxic?
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I honestly dont know.

He only said that the reason he doesnt want me to go and leave is because I've been there for him at his worst times. 🤷‍♀️

But I saw him yesterday and he saw how extremely exhausted I am. So he came to an understanding to give me space
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I can’t even imagine 52 calls.

I had a client last week being annoying af and blowing up my phone. I would pick up 4/5 xs throughout the day and STILL have 3 missed calls from him.

I was ready to drown my phone and I’m getting PAID to take those calls. So....

Nope. No way could I do it.

Screenshot the 52 missed calls in your call log and each time he calls/texts you send it to him.