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Yes especially Libra moons. Gotta remember their one sign away from Scorpio - the known digger so Libra is a pre-face, pre-quel, prep? whatever you want to call it to saying things to spite you or see where you stand. I've seen this with some Libra friends and moon family members. I just shrug it off or disregard it... they don't like that very much.


That makes sense. Years ago I was in a "situationship" with a Libra guy (I didn't realize he was a Libra until recently and because of the things I've heard I swore Libra men off and now I understand why things didn't work out for us, lol). Anyways during that time my daughter's father was not present in my daughter's life but decided he wanted to see her and had a change of heart. I told my Libra guy at the time and he became distant. I had so much going on at the time that I didnt not realize he became distant. He called me one day and said his ex wanted to get back with him and asked me what he should do. Of course the prideful Leo I am got pissed but didn't show it and told him to go back to her. He did just that and returned months later saying he was hurt and that he wanted me to tell him that I wanted to be with him. I said all of that so say I guess you're right. That is how they behave. I asked the question bc my friend is now going through something similar and her Libra man is confusing as hell.


OOOooooH makes sense. Yeah I attract a lot of Libra energy especially sun energy. I see their behavior like game playing though and it's too much passive aggressiveness. I like straightforward questions and answers, so I have very little patience with Libra sun/moon energy. You being a Leo I would have re-acted the same way as Aqua/Leo are the same.

As far as the Libra man your friend is involved with, it sounds like a lot of insecurity. Also take in mind that a lot of Libra and Sags have Scorpio energy due to being next door neighbors - so you have that to think about. Just tell your friend to get him to be straightforward and quit playing games and if he doesn't then walk away. It's not worth the hassle.
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Yes they are passive as hell and I find it so annoying. I would never date one. I like their opposites. I can not get enough of Aries men.

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Idk if you saw any of my pervious post but my friend was friends with a Libra in high school. They recently got involved after years. he told her he felt like she turned him down every chance she got but she did not know how much he liked her and only saw him as a friend. After they were intimate a couple times he said something that pissed her off one day. She shut down, later telling him why she was upset and he ignored her. He later came back around but was short/cold and then went MIA again. while he wasn't speaking to her he was on her social media liking her post. He texted her a couple of weeks later as if nothing happened and was joking around telling her he wanted to make her laugh. She explained (not in depth) how him ignoring her made her feel (she has abandonment issues that stems from childhood so it really bothered her). He claimed he cut everyone off bc he was in a rut (which was not true). After that he started contacting her daily, making plans to hang out. He asked her what she wanted and she told him she wanted him. He sent an emoji, she asked him to explain and said it was a good reaction. things were going well and now today he was being cold again. can you explain? I told her to stop talking to him bc who has time for the never ending games. so many guys like her and here she is stuck on stupid!


Well I never played games. I just used to piss people off on purpose. But he is playing a sick head game. That's a sign of an insecure man and she needs to leave him alone. I comend your friend for facing her fears of abdanonment by offering him open communication because that is very hard to do for someone who has emotional trauma but she was mature(very mature). He is full of shit with no back bone. She just needs to leave him alone. He is feeding off of her emotional responses
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Tell her to ignore him? If he reaches out to her should she just tell him how she feels? I don't understand if he doesn't like her or want to be with her what's the point? He should persue someone he actually has feelings for where they both could make each other feel good instead of killing my friend emotionally.
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Posted by bittercupcake
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Yes especially Libra moons. Gotta remember their one sign away from Scorpio - the known digger so Libra is a pre-face, pre-quel, prep? whatever you want to call it to saying things to spite you or see where you stand. I've seen this with some Libra friends and moon family members. I just shrug it off or disregard it... they don't like that very much.


That makes sense. Years ago I was in a "situationship" with a Libra guy (I didn't realize he was a Libra until recently and because of the things I've heard I swore Libra men off and now I understand why things didn't work out for us, lol). Anyways during that time my daughter's father was not present in my daughter's life but decided he wanted to see her and had a change of heart. I told my Libra guy at the time and he became distant. I had so much going on at the time that I didnt not realize he became distant. He called me one day and said his ex wanted to get back with him and asked me what he should do. Of course the prideful Leo I am got pissed but didn't show it and told him to go back to her. He did just that and returned months later saying he was hurt and that he wanted me to tell him that I wanted to be with him. I said all of that so say I guess you're right. That is how they behave. I asked the question bc my friend is now going through something similar and her Libra man is confusing as hell.


OOOooooH makes sense. Yeah I attract a lot of Libra energy especially sun energy. I see their behavior like game playing though and it's too much passive aggressiveness. I like straightforward questions and answers, so I have very little patience with Libra sun/moon energy. You being a Leo I would have re-acted the same way as Aqua/Leo are the same.

As far as the Libra man your friend is involved with, it sounds like a lot of insecurity. Also take in mind that a lot of Libra and Sags have Scorpio energy due to being next door neighbors - so you have that to think about. Just tell your friend to get him to be straightforward and quit playing games and if he doesn't then walk away. It's not worth the hassle.


Yes they are passive as hell and I find it so annoying. I would never date one. I like their opposites. I can not get enough of Aries men.


Yeah I’d chose an Aries over a Libra any day. Their straightforward no bullshit type of person.
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Yes I absolutely love that about them (Aries). I also can't seem to get away from them even if I tried. @bittercupcake You mentioned early to tell my friend to get the Libra guy to be straightforward with her. How would she do that?

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So Libras men (not all obviously) will act this way after a relationship. It seems like the games (if they must play them) should happen before the relationship. that's ridiculous! @bittercupcake. How long did y'all last?


It’s before. But we just dated a couple months, but during that time, before and after he’d make snide comments instead of being direct. It was annoying. But my ex with the libra moon and I lasted 9 years
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She just came out and asked him what he wanted....a platonic friendship, romantic relationship, friends with benefits, a friendship that could possible grow into something and if he needed her to explain her feelings because she doesn't express them. He asked her how she felt and then said they could be friends and that things were so confusing. When she told me this I laughed bc every option she gave him was a friend of some sort and he gave her this vague answer. I felt like he wanted her to make the decision. maybe I am wrong but he's just not that into her. I think he likes her and I know she likes him but he doesn't want to put fourth any real effort and it is too confusing. what are your thoughts?
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Posted by bittercupcake
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So Libras men (not all obviously) will act this way after a relationship. It seems like the games (if they must play them) should happen before the relationship. that's ridiculous! @bittercupcake. How long did y'all last?


It’s before. But we just dated a couple months, but during that time, before and after he’d make snide comments instead of being direct. It was annoying. But my ex with the libra moon and I lasted 9 years


She just came out and asked him what he wanted....a platonic friendship, romantic relationship, friends with benefits, a friendship that could possible grow into something and if he needed her to explain her feelings because she doesn't express them. He asked her how she felt and then said they could be friends and that things were so confusing. When she told me this I laughed bc every option she gave him was a friend of some sort and he gave her this vague answer. I felt like he wanted her to make the decision. maybe I am wrong but he's just not that into her. I think he likes her and I know she likes him but he doesn't want to put fourth any real effort and it is too confusing. what are your thoughts?


I think she should move on. Ime men who are sure about who they want will go for it and make it clear. It might be he’s unsure or is too afraid of saying that he wants a FWB which sounds like it to me. I’ve had a few Libras chase me romantically and they we’re never vague. Very clear about what they wanted. This guy might just like her enough to sleep with her but not commit. Tell her to walk away or to just keep it platonic.
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She told him she was okay with them being just friends and that she originally wanted more but could agree it was best. He said he just didn't like being confused and having mixed emotions. She asked if it was her causing the confusion and he didn't respond. He would text her daily unless he was going cold (which he would only do it for a day after she explained to him how it made her feel) and now he barely says anything....idk. I agree it's time to cut ties.

Guess who decided to contact me though....my old Libra that I mentioned previously 🙄😒. He wrote me on social media telling me how nice I look and has been in contact a lot the last few days. when he tried getting out of line I redirected him and made things friendly and light. He doesn't know I know he's married. After he asked me about my relationship status I asked about his and he diverted. I do not think it's a good idea to be friendly with him. I don't believe he can just be friends and I don't think it's appropriate anyways so I am cutting off communication before things get messy.