New Libra (Page 5)

Your definately welcome.

i'm off to make my chicken fajita pizza.

HP, I just don't think a guy would indicate ANY jealousy if he was interested in being more than a friend. He's probably excited about "What's next" also. And you, being from Houston and being a peach---won't have any problem whatsoever.

HAD FUN

"HAD FUN"

Uhhhhh... That's it?!?!? WTF?!?

SPILL!! 🙂

—? HP, We're DYING here!

I mean, we had fun. Watched movies. He loved my pizza (and it rocked I must admit). We watched one movie all the way through, but we talked throughout the 2nd movie. Joking, laughing, sharing stories. We'd cuddled up, then break away, talk, laugh, cuddle up again. I didn't make any moves and neither did he. He left around 3 am. I got an email this morning:

"Had a blast. Wanted to stay longer.

Been a long time since someone was in my 'personal bubble', liked it."

I laughed at the 'wanted to stay longer' comment, because he stayed until 3. lol

Impatient Aries here say not making moves frustrating---but it sounds like the "dates" I've been having with Libra Girl! The term "personal bubble" is sure interesting.

What movies did you see? (It DOES make a difference). And, think about it: he LOVED your pizza. Well, appears you are on course. On course with a Libra. On a very long course.

personal bubble, from what i can determine, is because he went through a hard divorce that was finalized about 9 months ago. he's told me that he'd felt women were the antichrist after what his ex-wife said and did during the divorce proceedings. he admitted a few nights ago that i clearly am not the antichrist and i think that's what he meant by someone being in his personal bubble. almost like he's letting his guards down? I don't know. that's my guess.

He IS being brave.

what do you mean, tom?

Hmmmmm. After I went through my divorce I didn't date for a year and 1/2. In fact the majority of my time was spent playing Beethoven, just Beethoven. THEN I started dating tentatively and keeping things VERY private to myself. Any man I've ever known is very cautious about exposing himself emotionally. THAT'S HUGE that's he's opening up to you in this way. Why is it brave? NO ONE likes being hurt. He's seeing how far he can trust you. Baby, you must be doing SOMETHING right!

oh cool

Yeah I do think that men take it as hard if not harder when a r/ship breaks down...THIS I am starting to realise.....wow@not dating for 1&1/2 years!!! A lot of guys actually do hide themselves away emotionally for a very long time but in relation to mine?? 2 years is a very very very long time and to continually say "I've only just gotten out of a long term r/ship" seems odd.....Funny though, I thought he might still have feelings for his ex but yesterday was her birthday and he chose to be with me instead *shrugs*

Beethoven huh?? Interesting!! soothing huh??

This guy likes me 🙂

He just called and said he was thinking about me a lot today. 🙂

awwww

We coulda told ya that!!! LOL....we're all envious here!!!

scary stuff, though

Chatz, if you have a chance, purchase some Beethoven Sonata CD's---you'll know. The dude knew how to convey strong emotions.

HP, *sparkly eyes*

😛 true tom, true.

oh he made a comment...he said "Thanks for fixing breakfast for me this morning"

I was folding clothes while he said that so it took me a second to realize what he said, so I said "huh?"

He laughed and said "Your pizza?"

oooooooooooooo

haha....

Ah! Libra wit! IF they are sharing their wit, they're into you. Just ask our friend nic'!

well i'll just have to be slow and careful about this. there is still something that i'm not sure about, so i'll just have to take it one day at a time....of course you guys will have to bear my giddyness.

giddyness is cute though!!!

And sharing their wit— OMG I was in on day one then!! LOL

"You had me at 'Your pizza?'"

you crack me up!

Oh, I'm grinning from ear to ear with his last email....

So, have you decided if you like him, or are you just going to wing it and see where it goes?

Inquiring minds... 😉

winging it....still confused.

ther'es one TINY aspect that's holding me back.

"winging it....still confused."

That's cool. It can be fun... 🙂

"ther'es one TINY aspect that's holding me back."

Damn, girl. Are all Bulls like this?!? Dropping evil little clues and not expanding on them? You're killing me here...

well here's part of his email, bits and pieces:

" i would have like to run my fingers around your neck...well that sounded bad, but what i meant was you just seemed really relaxed with me and i enjoyed it."

"you just naturally put me at ease, and i'm realizing that."

"you smile a lot. i like that. you laugh a lot. i like that"

"you're the first woman I've been alone with in a long time. i think you know that. i was staring at your neck, and just about ran my fingers across it...several times"

OK, guys, decipher...

actually don't have to decipher....i think the guys' hooked.

You enchantress!

Yeah HP, he is hooked...

I think so, but I am not going to be the one to assume it out loud first. 🙂

You got it girl. Don't just enjoy it... Let him be the first to do everything.

Take that back, not everything, but most. Sometimes you have to initiate, just don't be the one doing all the initiating.

Awww, he's so sweet...but part of me wonders:

Latest excerp from an email:

"i guess the other thing that would make me happy is finding that person. I just keep saying that it's not on my timing, but i guess i kinda expected it to take a bit longer before fitting with someone (I feel like i'm fitting pretty good with you so far) to this level. I think what I enjoy now is no expectations, at least knowing where we both are in that respect."

this email reply from him was a result of my 20 questions with him. LOL. I asked him how happy he was with his life and what missing that he could pinpoint.

* Is he referring to my food or me being good in so many ways?

hee!

That was totally hitting on you. this is how Libras flirt. We like keeping double meanings in things.

The do you mean what I think you mean is sexy to us.

We love clever people. Cookie has had me pacing back and forth a couple of times.

*** "did that guy from last week call ya? not to get in your personal business, but just curious. just trying to figure him out. not that it's a priority, but....ok, i'll shut up now."

awwww .... he is jealous. This is how we show jealousy when we REALLY care. We pretend we don't mind and we can deal but we just think, and think, and think about it. We won't be ... all in your face about it and domineering about it. A balanced Libra is polite and shy and shuffles from foot to foot about it. You REALLY have to piss us off to see the fireworks. (Unless we really don't care then we will push you around more.)

HP!!!!

You have the guy all hot and bothered. LOL! He wants you .... bad.

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Chatz

"I've only just gotten out of a long term r/ship" seems odd

My ex is this way. It is coming up to two years. He still is in love with me.

Ohhh! I like him HP. He is a good guy. He is being honest. He is saying I really like you and fit well with you but I don't want to promise this is forever cause it is too soon to know.

I like him.

You have my approval.

cool. yeah, he's a nice guy....i'm still watching from the sideline though.

He has my approval too hehehehe

*Chatz

"I've only just gotten out of a long term r/ship" seems odd

My ex is this way. It is coming up to two years. He still is in love with me.*

Yes I understand this clearly but it was the exes birthday on Sunday and he chose not to celebrate with her in any way, shape or form (apart from buy her a present for his daughter's sake) and then chose to spend the afternoon and evening with me....THAT's the confusing part....he does this sweet stuff and lets me know what goes on in his life, yet the blasted singles sites— Grrrrrrrr

You HAVE to let him know you're aware of it and don't approve otherwise he probably figures you don't mind for WHATEVER reason. Gee, I would not stand still for a moment if an a woman was doing that to me. (Sorry, Chatz, but it comes off as an insult to you EVEN IF he is doing all the other considerate / nice things and focusing on you). I'll put it another way: IF I wasn't sensitive to the woman I care about, I'd just keep doing it---figuring it's okay with her. BUT, since I do my best to be sensitive to the woman I care about, I'd drop it in a heartbeat! WHY? Because she's worth it and because I wouldn't want to take any risk losing her.

yup you've sealed it thank you 🙂

so why would i receive an email from this guy asking me if i'd had any serious relationships in the past few years?

that's not a question you ask someone you're buddies with, is it?

* he does this sweet stuff and lets me know what goes on in his life, yet the blasted singles sites— Grrrrrrrr

'Cause he is messed up honey. Nothing you can do.

HP

Because he is trying to date you without having you notice. lol!

he's coming over tomorrow night....that's 4 times in the last 8 days.

seee?

just make sure to give it breaks for a couple of days inbetween. you need to pace him, not to mention, just good for your own balance and keeping your own life running smooth.

well true. i don't think we'll see each other until next week after this. he is a cyclist and he's going out of town for a race on saturday and i have plans tomorrow and friday nights.

Excellent!

We like balance. We don't like it when we become someone else's life and they give everything/everyone in their life up for us. It suffocates us and we can't breathe.