@little_sparrow
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Good job, HP! And little sparrow, 'appreciate your posts!
blah, i'm sure i'm reading into his emails; just not used to it i guess.
Grrrr..
THIS
MAN
CONFUSES
ME
I don't think you are confused. I just think you are being careful and who could blame you. I think is definitely into you.
HP, careful is smart, being to careful might be dangerous.. Trust your gut and advice given to you. Don't read too much into every little detail.. He likes you and he is undamaged. Enjoy it!!!
oH THAT frustration was based on a new email.
"i think we're on the same page, but just to make sure i'll throw this out there.
i'm not sure where this is going, i like it, and i like the fact that i can be honest with you.
i like the fact that i can relax around you, and that we talk so easy. looking forward to what's next."
Queen, I can't believe you'd say ANYONE was undamaged!
HP, Frustrated just because he's a guy, mayber—
i have no idea how to reply
HP, this lovely person is heavenly & heavily into you. Do all our opinions (external to the actual relationship) not confuse you?
everyone confuses me.
You cannot go wrong, sweetie. Once we like, we LIKE...
here's my awesome reply:
"Me, too"
whoa, nelly...i go all day sending long emails and then he hits me with that, and I can't even come up with a full sentence.
i guess it's good that he likes my humor.
Perhaps respond lightly to the comments made... Like "Yes, I also like that we talk so easily. It is refreshing." It might allow you to not commit?!?
It's a big thing for a Libra to write about feelings.
I NEVER do that. For a variety of reasons...
Whoops, a little late... Sorry! Not that mine was much different than yours. 🙂
HP, it isn't confusing to me. What is confusing. He, like you love being around you, however he is smart enough to know this is new and who knows what the future holds, however, he is willing to take it one day at a time, and is excited about it. Just respond... I am excited to see as well or something like that... "On the same page"
Atom, I know the difference between damaged and undamaged... I am crystal clear that my libra friend is damaged to an extent. Remember I have been going through the termoil with him in and out of his relationship with his ex about 5 times already. This being the longest time they have been apart. He told me when they got back together a couple months ago that they both agreed if it didn't work that time it would be the last...
I never took it serious and still don't although this has been the longest they have been apart. Whenever they do get back togethere they have never been together longer than a couple weeks. I told him "I hate to see what that does to him".
When a libra is in love he's miles ahead in what the future can hold, and yet time stands still, it's a vacuum filled with good feelings. Very off with the ferries, if you like. No mental boundaries, not realism, just very enternal...
Yet when we talk to the other person it is very controlled and careful, not to scare you and to leave enough room for you to get out at any time, not to pressurise you and to give you room to be objective in your views of and want for the relationship.
BUT NOT ON THE INSIDE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
eternal*
HP, light for now.
Hey Atom, what do you mean "light for now"?
he has invited me over there. since i'm making dinner, i feel more comfortable using my kitchen (at least for now).
It took mine 4 months to invite me to his!! Apparently its good he's done this...I'd say so!!! LOL
he wanted me to come over tomorrow night, but i talked him into coming over here once more...just mainly because i like to cook in my own kitchen.
light touch, HP.
what does that mean?
light, breezy, humous, fun, ENJOY each other.
ok
i suck with control....
here's my awesome reply:
"Me, too"
This is absolutely perfect! I was going to tell you to simply reply "Me too!" Well done!
We don't like a lot of heavy talk about feelings. We like short, sweet, simple. Much easier.
🙂
*** light, breezy, humous, fun, ENJOY each other.
Yep! No big long talks about feelings. (Yuck!) Just have fun and enjoy each other. Play.
this guy is totally into expressing his feelings.
That's the same reply I suggested LS, Me too.
to me, that's a good thing...
ha! i replied with that before you guys said so. dang, these libra boards are rubbing off on me! 😛
Seriously HP, don't worry about it. Enjoy it for what it is at the moment. Ya knoW?
If it doesn't work out with this chap, there will be another bus full of Libras dropping in on you any moment. lol!
so just relax about it and have fun damnit! That is an order!
I have my "date" tonight. I guess it's a date, huh?
Well wish me luck and here's hoping I don't say or do anything stupid.
bus full...ha ha
Have fun HP!!! ***jealous eyes rolling***
Have a blast, HP! Don't do anything I wouldn't do. It would probably be best not to do anything I would either... 😉
HP, from your previous posts, you'll have a truckload of Libra guys coming your way anyway! And the short sweet fun answers will keep it light and---
throw him off some! Go for it! Have a GREAT time!
All the best HP 🙂
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OK, how was the date?
No need to say anymore and looks like you and I are both glowing today LOL...you go girl 😛
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NOT that you would do that.
🙂