GOATAction
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Woman I have history with texted me this morning asking for $200.
"Don't know if I'm being played or not" (too late now as you should have asked yourself this question before handing out the monies).
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by GOATAction
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200. She goes on to say how I'm a good person at heart, and she knows I've always got her back.
I send the money (because I legit care about her and because I can spare it, I'm off to a great start in this new role, getting a good commission check in a few weeks). Says I'm the best and that it means a lot to her. I ask if everything's OK, she says yes and no. She's got a couple of doctor's appointments, but states she should be alright (had issues in her back and neck last time we hung out).
Don't know if I'm being played or not, but I tell her I'm just a text or call away if she wants to talk. Weird, I had a sexual dream about her two days ago lol. DXP thoughts?
only time will tell - I hope you don't get played and that she's ok and pays the money back when she can - yer a good man Charlie Brown ...
Posted by FantamRooster
Getting played how? As far as I can tell, she asked for money, no strings attached. You gave her money, no strings attached. Are you expecting something out of it?
Maybe just a "hey how are you doing? I was thinking about you..."
All she said was that she'd tell me more later.
Hi I am almost overdue for flea prevention treatment. Can you chip in? I haz Venmo and PayPal. Thanks in advance!
Welp this thread is gonna be a doozy.
Have some character! You ask for a blowjob BEFORE you loan out the money, not moan about it later.
Has she been nice to you in the past? More disconcerting to me than the money is the fact that she contacted you out of the blue with a laudatory remark about how great you are, yet giving no explanation as to why she needs the money (and from you of all people??). Sounds manipulative.
But since it's an amount you felt comfortable parting with, the worst that could happen is that you get stiffed and chalk it up to a lesson learned. Maybe those dreams will be gone for good too.
Personally, the only time I would lend a sum of money to someone no questions asked, is if they were an immediate family member or really close friend.
But since it's an amount you felt comfortable parting with, the worst that could happen is that you get stiffed and chalk it up to a lesson learned. Maybe those dreams will be gone for good too.
Personally, the only time I would lend a sum of money to someone no questions asked, is if they were an immediate family member or really close friend.
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by GOATActionPosted by FantamRooster
Getting played how? As far as I can tell, she asked for money, no strings attached. You gave her money, no strings attached. Are you expecting something out of it?
Maybe just a "hey how are you doing? I was thinking about you..."
All she said was that she'd tell me more later.
I sometimes give money to people I care about who are in need if I can afford it. I don't ask what it's for. I don't expect it back, and I don't expect it to buy me any goodwill with them. I honestly think that's the only way to approach it and not get disappointed. Do it because you care, if you want, and try not to ask anything in return.
I'd also say don't give money to the same person over and over. You might be financing a drug addiction.click to expand
First time I ever gave her money. She's nowhere near as good with cash as I am.
I told her not to worry about paying me back. I'm doing this mainly cause I care and always will about her.
Posted by Fleshpot
Has she been nice to you in the past? More disconcerting to me than the money is the fact that she contacted you out of the blue with a laudatory remark about how great you are, yet giving no explanation as to why she needs the money (and from you of all people??). Sounds manipulative.
But since it's an amount you felt comfortable parting with, the worst that could happen is that you get stiffed and chalk it up to a lesson learned. Maybe those dreams will be gone for good too.
Personally, the only time I would lend a sum of money to someone no questions asked, is if they were an immediate family member or really close friend.
She says it's for her doctor's appointment(s). Always had issues with her back and neck. I'll trust her on it.
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Caplove
Best get ready for the Nigerian Prince to come at you in your pms.
Srs though, be vigilant if she's asking for more money. It might have been just a one off thing and she really needed the help, but if she has bad intentions and knows you have a soft, kind heart, she'll come around again. And yeah, if you'd like the money back then clarify that it's a loan.
The fact she’s not even clarifying what she needs it for
Makes it suspiciousclick to expand
She says it's for her doctor's appointment(s). Always had issues with her back and neck. I'll trust her on it.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Either she’s really desperate or knows she can walk on you. Just saying.
We'll see. I do care about her. Feel like I got a duty to hold, after saying I'd always be there for her.
One time occurrence is an incident, two-time occurrence is a pattern. I'll assume the former until all the evidence points to the latter, but I have no real reason to doubt her yet. But women and Libras can be manipulative...only time will tell.
Posted by TimonPosted by Jade_Alexander
If you can spare it and you don’t care then it doesn’t matter.
I have had to ask for money before and it was humiliating. I couldn’t imagine texting some dude....
I'm with you on this. I would never ask an acquaintance for money. I don't even want to ask friends and family. They only time I've seen libras do it is if their intentions aren't the best. When they are selfish and thinking about themselves. The fact that she didn't insist on paying you back when she got the chance makes me think she's just using you. Sorry. Hope I'm wrong.
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She did say that she'd pay me back. I was the one who said "don't worry about it."
Doing this first and foremost out of my heart. I gave her my word I'd always be there for her, so I don't break my word or duty easily until I see it necessary to do so.
Posted by TimonPosted by GOATActionPosted by TimonPosted by Jade_Alexander
If you can spare it and you don’t care then it doesn’t matter.
I have had to ask for money before and it was humiliating. I couldn’t imagine texting some dude....
I'm with you on this. I would never ask an acquaintance for money. I don't even want to ask friends and family. They only time I've seen libras do it is if their intentions aren't the best. When they are selfish and thinking about themselves. The fact that she didn't insist on paying you back when she got the chance makes me think she's just using you. Sorry. Hope I'm wrong.
She did say that she'd pay me back. I was the one who said "don't worry about it."
Doing this first and foremost out of my heart. I gave her my word I'd always be there for her, so I don't break my word or duty easily until I see it necessary to do so.
Well if it comes from your heart it's never wrong. Only future will tell if she deserved it or not. Hope she values it.click to expand
Exactly. Regardless of what happens, my karma balance should be increased right now lol.
It could be A. Something that is difficult to talk about or B. Something she doesn't want to tell you. If she doesn't fulfill her end and come back to talk to you about it, forget giving her money again. It'll probably be the same. My 1st thought is drugs by the sound of her but I could be wrong.
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
Need me a young Capricorn sugar daddy
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
I'm trying to pick my jaw up off the floor. That is quite the confession!click to expand
I like to own my shittiness. Lol
We texted a little. This seems all very personal by the fact that she's said little, and apparently, she doesn't know anything yet. Her family knows about her situation, her company doesn't. If it were just some regular physical issues, she'd be on her company's dime, right?
May be negative and me thinking pessimistically but my gut feeling is that she was sexually assaulted, and may be getting testing for a pregnancy (makes some sense with doctor's appointments and not knowing anything, correct?) She had a basic but maybe hidden message pic on IG a few weeks ago about "peace and happiness being her priority, negativity cannot exist." She always had some on-off depression issues in her words.
Honestly I care to know the details but I kind of don't, either. I even told her as much, that it was her choice to tell me what was going on. I can sleep calmly at night knowing my efforts came from the heart, regardless if she's manipulating me or not.
May be negative and me thinking pessimistically but my gut feeling is that she was sexually assaulted, and may be getting testing for a pregnancy (makes some sense with doctor's appointments and not knowing anything, correct?) She had a basic but maybe hidden message pic on IG a few weeks ago about "peace and happiness being her priority, negativity cannot exist." She always had some on-off depression issues in her words.
Honestly I care to know the details but I kind of don't, either. I even told her as much, that it was her choice to tell me what was going on. I can sleep calmly at night knowing my efforts came from the heart, regardless if she's manipulating me or not.
Posted by Whorpio
Hi I am almost overdue for flea prevention treatment. Can you chip in? I haz Venmo and PayPal. Thanks in advance!
My two doggies need their annual vaccinations...approx $ 150/each. I've adopted both of them because they had no home. Can you please help this lil family out... $ 300...? 😛
Why do Cap men get asked for money and favors...ayy...
Cap guy friend of mine just got asked by an "old friend" to crash at his place. When he said why don't you take my lease over she said that she's too bougie to pay for that apt. WTF. But that she'd stay there for free LMAO.
But my bud just ran away. lol. He said that she gives him the creeps because she's playing the "feel sorry for me" game.
OP, I understand though; you have a soft spot for this Libra... but don't get your hopes up expecting anything... not even a "how are you" because you gave it to her without asking anything back so it wouldn't be fair to either of you. take it as a charity cause.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by TimonPosted by Jade_Alexander
If you can spare it and you don’t care then it doesn’t matter.
I have had to ask for money before and it was humiliating. I couldn’t imagine texting some dude....
I'm with you on this. I would never ask an acquaintance for money. I don't even want to ask friends and family. They only time I've seen libras do it is if their intentions aren't the best. When they are selfish and thinking about themselves. The fact that she didn't insist on paying you back when she got the chance makes me think she's just using you. Sorry. Hope I'm wrong.
She did say that she'd pay me back. I was the one who said "don't worry about it."
Doing this first and foremost out of my heart. I gave her my word I'd always be there for her, so I don't break my word or duty easily until I see it necessary to do so.click to expand
Always, really? How many $ 200 hand outs will always really be?
@GoatAction bottom line though is that you're a good guy with upstanding character. Hard to find these days! I'm glad you did what you felt was the right thing.
I didn't read the post but can I borrow $ 100...it's less than $ 200 😜
Posted by stillstillwater
@GoatAction bottom line though is that you're a good guy with upstanding character. Hard to find these days! I'm glad you did what you felt was the right thing.
Thank you @stillstillwater. It sounds to be obviously personal (she's 28 and what I imagine is going through her Saturn return like myself, but the difference is I've had hardship time after time in my life as a Cap, so this has been a little tough but I've been preparing my whole life for this return; not sure if she's ever had to deal with similar hardship).
I didn't feel like pushing immediately to know what was the reason. I can spare it without feeling cash strapped, so I did. Benefit of being good with money I guess.
Of course, if she asks again for a sum of money, however big or small it is, I've got a right to know before I do anything else.
Posted by JanMayMarry
Can you send me $ 1000? I know you're a good person with a good heart.
Please...
Get your Aqua to do it.
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.click to expand
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
I'd need some details about why she needed this money. That's just me! haha
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.click to expand
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Cap suns are generally stingy.. That was 100% your moon handing out that money. My husband is a Virgo moon and has helped out exes similarly in the past. It’s that sense of duty. I get it but in all honesty she is probably taking advantage of your good nature.
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.click to expand
Poor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is. 😢
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Poor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is. 😢
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.click to expand
LOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!
LMAO
My logic tells me no doctors appointment is $ 200
Posted by GOATAction
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.
What kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Poor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is. 😢
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.click to expand
I take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Poor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is. 😢
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
I take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.click to expand
How about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Poor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is. 😢
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
I take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.
How about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.
Just write 'I am the best among all males in the world' and we have a deal.click to expand
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Poor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is. 😢
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
I take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.
How about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.
Just write 'I am the best among all males in the world' and we have a deal.
Admit it honey. I am a great negotiator.click to expand
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
You're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
LOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Poor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is. 😢
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
I take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.
How about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.
Just write 'I am the best among all males in the world' and we have a deal.
Admit it honey. I am a great negotiator.
You know you want me.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATAction
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.
What kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.click to expand
We dated, got close. Never given her money. Bought her a gift on X-mas.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATAction
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.
What kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.
We dated, got close. Never given her money. Bought her a gift on X-mas.click to expand
I wouldn’t trip then. See if she only reaches out to ask you for something. Otherwise no worries.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATActionPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATAction
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.
What kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.
We dated, got close. Never given her money. Bought her a gift on X-mas.
I wouldn’t trip then. See if she only reaches out to ask you for something. Otherwise no worries.click to expand
Yeah, like I said, she offered to pay me back, but I said "don't worry, just hope you're OK." Sounds super personal, so I don't really care to know her situation. I'm OK with giving her this initially because I won't feel it and it is coming from the heart, whether she's manipulating me or not, my intentions are in the right place.
But if she asks again, I've definitely feel like I should know.
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by Mhmmm
Cap suns are generally stingy.. That was 100% your moon handing out that money. My husband is a Virgo moon and has helped out exes similarly in the past. It’s that sense of duty. I get it but in all honesty she is probably taking advantage of your good nature.
This is what you would think from astrological descriptions, but the Caps I know IRL are actually extremely charitable to their loved ones. I was just talking to one of my best friends (a Cap) this weekend about how she's tired of helping a family member financially.click to expand
So much this. Hell, I know a lot of us Caps (including myself) who will almost always give to the homeless person on the street. We do it because it is the right thing to do, whether they use it the money for good or bad.
I think a lot of us under the sign know what it is like to struggle a lot and have even been in that position before, so we relate easy. We have big hearts, just don't show them readily or show them without being demonstrative.
She said "I Kno you are a good person" with "and you always have my back". Both sound like manipulating tactical advances.
If she and you kno these things, why does she have to reinstall it during the text. She should have kept it at she has a medical emergency and needs to borrow 200 units.
If she and you kno these things, why does she have to reinstall it during the text. She should have kept it at she has a medical emergency and needs to borrow 200 units.
Posted by Anomalous
She said "I Kno you are a good person" with "and you always have my back". Both sound like manipulating tactical advances.
If she and you kno these things, why does she have to reinstall it during the text. She should have kept it at she has a medical emergency and needs to borrow 200 units.
I don't know. When we first started dating, she thought I was a unfeeling, austere, and generally unhelpful person, and even when she broke it off, she still kind of felt this way. Maybe now she's seeing that I'm not a bad guy, I've got a big, protective heart for those I care about. But we'll see.
I don't give people the chance to really know me until I want them to, even in a romance situation.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by RooSagicorn
Either she’s really desperate or knows she can walk on you. Just saying.
We'll see. I do care about her. Feel like I got a duty to hold, after saying I'd always be there for her.
One time occurrence is an incident, two-time occurrence is a pattern. I'll assume the former until all the evidence points to the latter, but I have no real reason to doubt her yet. But women and Libras can be manipulative...only time will tell.click to expand
You are a food man! I don’t see why everyone here are bent over $ 200 that you were willing to give without a struggle...
Don’t listen to anybody!
If she never asked and she needed it now - God bless your heart. You don’t seem like you going to feed her again and again. You care about her - you helped her in time of needs...that’s not a subject for huge butthurt discussion!
One thing is I don’t really get is why did you make a thread about it? HERE? Out of all places...
❤️
Posted by GemitatiPosted by GOATActionPosted by RooSagicorn
Either she’s really desperate or knows she can walk on you. Just saying.
We'll see. I do care about her. Feel like I got a duty to hold, after saying I'd always be there for her.
One time occurrence is an incident, two-time occurrence is a pattern. I'll assume the former until all the evidence points to the latter, but I have no real reason to doubt her yet. But women and Libras can be manipulative...only time will tell.
You are a food man! I don’t see why everyone here are bent over $ 200 that you were willing to give without a struggle...
Don’t listen to anybody!
If she never asked and she needed it now - God bless your heart. You don’t seem like you going to feed her again and again. You care about her - you helped her in time of needs...that’s not a subject for huge butthurt discussion!
One thing is I don’t really get is why did you make a thread about it? HERE? Out of all places...
❤️click to expand
I like discussion lol.
LMFAO at food man.
Now that I look back on times, it was always a Cap who had my back. (Men, not women, I don’t know many.)
I never asked for money though. That’s not my style , I only spend what I earn, and even then I save a lot. Pretty good with money.
But it was a Cap who told me, “The more you give, the more you get.” He told me this when after my divorce, I was struggling with money. He wanted to lend me what I needed, but I said no.
You did a nice thing. It’s difficult to do that though. Trusting that much. But if you can and it’s something you want to do, then it only matters how you feel about it! 🤷🏼♀️
I never asked for money though. That’s not my style , I only spend what I earn, and even then I save a lot. Pretty good with money.
But it was a Cap who told me, “The more you give, the more you get.” He told me this when after my divorce, I was struggling with money. He wanted to lend me what I needed, but I said no.
You did a nice thing. It’s difficult to do that though. Trusting that much. But if you can and it’s something you want to do, then it only matters how you feel about it! 🤷🏼♀️
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