
RamOfPeace
@RamOfPeace
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Posted by JustBrowsing
Technology has made it easier to be an asshole without public knowledge while typing on a telephone.

Posted by Black-Mamba
Agreed, this was my complaint the other night about millennials and ppl attacked me
They also seem to lie alot to themselves and others, very delusional



Posted by VenusAquarius
Um, I think my generation, X, was emotionally stunted and I was a perfect representation.
X-ers, please go back and listen to our music as a reminder...

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by VenusAquarius
Um, I think my generation, X, was emotionally stunted and I was a perfect representation.
X-ers, please go back and listen to our music as a reminder...
How? We had r&b, bands like the cure, nirvana, tupac
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Posted by RamOfPeace
Most of my late 20s early 30s peers here in USA however can’t even maintain one-two good connections, nevermind the shitshow their romantic love is. “Friends” are really acquaintances, there’s zero ability lin fostering emotional warmth and bonding, and the sheer fear in their eyes at “having to work to build connections” is so pathetic, I hardly give new interests the time of day anymore, once I see it.
Many people from EU and third world countries will tell you that this is not a “millenial problem”, it really is a USA problem. I don’t see this shit elsewhere as much at all.

Posted by Ram416
I am going to agree with this.Posted by RamOfPeace
Most of my late 20s early 30s peers here in USA however can’t even maintain one-two good connections, nevermind the shitshow their romantic love is. “Friends” are really acquaintances, there’s zero ability lin fostering emotional warmth and bonding, and the sheer fear in their eyes at “having to work to build connections” is so pathetic, I hardly give new interests the time of day anymore, once I see it.
Many people from EU and third world countries will tell you that this is not a “millenial problem”, it really is a USA problem. I don’t see this shit elsewhere as much at all.
Most of the US exchange students I lived with or interacted with almost everyday for 6 months - 2 years during my university years (back in late 90s/early 2000s) have not kept in touch with me since their exchange programme ended and they went home. At this moment there are only 2 Americans out of the many from that batch whom I have kept in touch with, over the last almost 20 years.
In comparison to the EU students I lived with and interacted with back then, most of them are still in touch with me. A few of them even sent condolence cards and wreaths when my dad passed in 2017.
Maybe it's a cultural thing.
Mind you, all this was way before social media became such a big thing.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Black-MambaPosted by VenusAquarius
Um, I think my generation, X, was emotionally stunted and I was a perfect representation.
X-ers, please go back and listen to our music as a reminder...
How? We had r&b, bands like the cure, nirvana, tupac
You're not making sense
With the exception of R&B...
The music is mostly indirect and not classically romantic... and, when I say not romantic, I'm not necessarily talking love... but that too. No kissy kissy. Mostly outrage and shock.click to expand

Posted by VenusAquarius
Um, I think my generation, X, was emotionally stunted and I was a perfect representation.
X-ers, please go back and listen to our music as a reminder...






Posted by ELIGAB
Eh
That's just the way the cookie crumbles
What generation is after the millennials? I could already feel how bad they are...
As so ya feel about millennials

Posted by RamOfPeace
Is emotionally stunted.
I’d say that it’s another barrel roll towards millenials, but not really. Being raised in a different culure, I grew accustomed to making and building emotional connections, placing value on interpersonal relationships, and maintaining friendships.
Most of my late 20s early 30s peers here in USA however can’t even maintain one-two good connections, nevermind the shitshow their romantic love is. “Friends” are really acquaintances, there’s zero ability lin fostering emotional warmth and bonding, and the sheer fear in their eyes at “having to work to build connections” is so pathetic, I hardly give new interests the time of day anymore, once I see it.
So what gives? Bad parenting? Shitty education/economic/health systems? Mass consumprion of psych medications at a developmental age? Sense of entitlement and the first world/nation factor of abundance of literally everything?
Many people from EU and third world countries will tell you that this is not a “millenial problem”, it really is a USA problem. I don’t see this shit elsewhere as much at all.

Posted by virgoop
i don't have the heart for this thread
just went on a terrible date
zero mental/emotional connection
was just there to be polite
oh wait i'm not american



Posted by JustBrowsingPosted by RamOfPeacePosted by JustBrowsing
Technology has made it easier to be an asshole without public knowledge while typing on a telephone.
So, by your logic, the rest of the world type on a telephone in a different way and magically succeed at social life? Lol...
I think that this is rather a cultural problem.
I've interacted with people from all cultures. I don't see any real differences between them. It's definitely a generational problem.click to expand



Posted by JustBrowsingPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by JustBrowsingPosted by RamOfPeacePosted by JustBrowsing
Technology has made it easier to be an asshole without public knowledge while typing on a telephone.
So, by your logic, the rest of the world type on a telephone in a different way and magically succeed at social life? Lol...
I think that this is rather a cultural problem.
I've interacted with people from all cultures. I don't see any real differences between them. It's definitely a generational problem.
There is a huge difference between a generation or nation that have been raised with violence due to gun culture and those that haven't ... it creates a completely different mindset
I work with children on an almost daily basis. I used to be a teacher at the high school level. I am not the ultimate authority but I can say that guns play no major role and how these people interact with each other. The biggest problem is technology at their fingertips which remove the need for actual face-to-face conversations.
If you have your face glued to the screen all the time, how can you possibly have enough experience to hold a conversation for more than 3 minutes at a time? When I interview younger generations, you can tell they're completely uncomfortable.click to expand

Posted by TheRabbitPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by JustBrowsingPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by JustBrowsingPosted by RamOfPeacePosted by JustBrowsing
Technology has made it easier to be an asshole without public knowledge while typing on a telephone.
So, by your logic, the rest of the world type on a telephone in a different way and magically succeed at social life? Lol...
I think that this is rather a cultural problem.
I've interacted with people from all cultures. I don't see any real differences between them. It's definitely a generational problem.
There is a huge difference between a generation or nation that have been raised with violence due to gun culture and those that haven't ... it creates a completely different mindset
I work with children on an almost daily basis. I used to be a teacher at the high school level. I am not the ultimate authority but I can say that guns play no major role and how these people interact with each other. The biggest problem is technology at their fingertips which remove the need for actual face-to-face conversations.
If you have your face glued to the screen all the time, how can you possibly have enough experience to hold a conversation for more than 3 minutes at a time? When I interview younger generations, you can tell they're completely uncomfortable.
I'm talking about long term unconscious effects.....living in a peaceful environment v a threatening one will produce a different atttide to life, on some level...
And yes to the modern tech stuff....very worrying, very sad
There has always been something threatening, though. When I was a kid (and even for a generation back), it was the Russians during the cold war. Later, it was terrorism, today it's school shootings.
Contrary to what media will sell you, we are living in a relatively peaceful time. Even in the United States, your chances of being the victim of a gun crime are the lowest it's ever been.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
This must be media hype? Why would they write this if it's not true......scaremongering?
https://edition.cnn.com/2018/12/13/health/gun-deaths-highest-40-years-cdc/index.html

Posted by TheRabbitPosted by MyStarsShine
This must be media hype? Why would they write this if it's not true......scaremongering?
https://edition.cnn.com/2018/12/13/health/gun-deaths-highest-40-years-cdc/index.html
Did you read the article?
The vast majority are suicide deaths.
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Posted by elllle
Like....since when is a "Influencer" a fricken career path?
*eye roll*




Posted by LittleStarPosted by hellosaggy
I’m on the cusp. I’m not emotionally stunted. I just am not going to waste my time on people that are clearly not worth extra effort being put out.
One thing I have noticed is the work ethic is so poor among the majority of them it’s beyond disgusting. What makes you entitled to bot doing leg work.
I’ve been talked back to more from them than other generations.
This isn’t fair, how come you don’t do it but you expect me to? Mfers pay your dues and stfu.
Just because you have a masters degree with no experience doesn’t give you clout.
I admire their view of fairness. They just don’t understand until the older generations die off and more diversity comes into play that nothing changes overnight.
A 25 year old, while right in their observation, isn’t going to change a 55 year olds mind. 🤷🏾♂️
I think it’s interesting that getting a masters degree is seen as a “poor work ethic”. And a lot of kids stay in college because the jobs out there pay $ 20,000-40,000 which in a lot of places isn’t enough to be out of poverty. Even with a bachelors degree a lot of people in my area make the same as people without them.
Why put in any more effort when people discover that all the reward for effort they’ve been told will pay off no longer exists? Boomers promised us all these things based of their own experience while those who control the rules have been robbing us by paying lower wages and benefits to increase their profit statements.
We are a work force that is being taken advantage of because we have no other choice. We can be fired by a whim. A lot of us feel like we have no future. We can’t have families because childcare is as expensive as a place to live. We have been in such a competitive over-saturated world and haven’t had emotional needs met so a lot of us only feel like we have ourselves. And what’s our purpose in this world?click to expand

Posted by LittleStarPosted by hellosaggyPosted by LittleStarPosted by hellosaggy
I’m on the cusp. I’m not emotionally stunted. I just am not going to waste my time on people that are clearly not worth extra effort being put out.
One thing I have noticed is the work ethic is so poor among the majority of them it’s beyond disgusting. What makes you entitled to bot doing leg work.
I’ve been talked back to more from them than other generations.
This isn’t fair, how come you don’t do it but you expect me to? Mfers pay your dues and stfu.
Just because you have a masters degree with no experience doesn’t give you clout.
I admire their view of fairness. They just don’t understand until the older generations die off and more diversity comes into play that nothing changes overnight.
A 25 year old, while right in their observation, isn’t going to change a 55 year olds mind. 🤷🏾♂️
I think it’s interesting that getting a masters degree is seen as a “poor work ethic”. And a lot of kids stay in college because the jobs out there pay $ 20,000-40,000 which in a lot of places isn’t enough to be out of poverty. Even with a bachelors degree a lot of people in my area make the same as people without them.
Why put in any more effort when people discover that all the reward for effort they’ve been told will pay off no longer exists? Boomers promised us all these things based of their own experience while those who control the rules have been robbing us by paying lower wages and benefits to increase their profit statements.
We are a work force that is being taken advantage of because we have no other choice. We can be fired by a whim. A lot of us feel like we have no future. We can’t have families because childcare is as expensive as a place to live. We have been in such a competitive over-saturated world and haven’t had emotional needs met so a lot of us only feel like we have ourselves. And what’s our purpose in this world?
School isn’t hard. It takes effort, but it isn’t hard. A masters with no work experience is theory with no application. Get some work under your belt in the real world.
Feeding the soul is great and shouldn’t be set aside but survival comes first and that is lost to the late minnes and the Zs
Lulz. I’m glad school wasn’t hard for you.
“The real world” is bullshit. It’s all real. The cards are just stacked higher against us. Most companies don’t want to pay a living wage and most companies don’t want to give someone a full time job because of health costs. We graduate with $ 50k- $ 100k in debt because our parents told us it was necessary to survive. Rent is hard and so is ever hoping to get savings for a house. I know “kids” on the streets my age.
But please go ahead and buy stereotypes about avocado toast and act like older generations wouldn’t have had smart phones if they existed back then.
🙄click to expand

Posted by LittleStarPosted by hellosaggyPosted by LittleStarPosted by hellosaggyPosted by LittleStarPosted by hellosaggy
I’m on the cusp. I’m not emotionally stunted. I just am not going to waste my time on people that are clearly not worth extra effort being put out.
One thing I have noticed is the work ethic is so poor among the majority of them it’s beyond disgusting. What makes you entitled to bot doing leg work.
I’ve been talked back to more from them than other generations.
This isn’t fair, how come you don’t do it but you expect me to? Mfers pay your dues and stfu.
Just because you have a masters degree with no experience doesn’t give you clout.
I admire their view of fairness. They just don’t understand until the older generations die off and more diversity comes into play that nothing changes overnight.
A 25 year old, while right in their observation, isn’t going to change a 55 year olds mind. 🤷🏾♂️
I think it’s interesting that getting a masters degree is seen as a “poor work ethic”. And a lot of kids stay in college because the jobs out there pay $ 20,000-40,000 which in a lot of places isn’t enough to be out of poverty. Even with a bachelors degree a lot of people in my area make the same as people without them.
Why put in any more effort when people discover that all the reward for effort they’ve been told will pay off no longer exists? Boomers promised us all these things based of their own experience while those who control the rules have been robbing us by paying lower wages and benefits to increase their profit statements.
We are a work force that is being taken advantage of because we have no other choice. We can be fired by a whim. A lot of us feel like we have no future. We can’t have families because childcare is as expensive as a place to live. We have been in such a competitive over-saturated world and haven’t had emotional needs met so a lot of us only feel like we have ourselves. And what’s our purpose in this world?
School isn’t hard. It takes effort, but it isn’t hard. A masters with no work experience is theory with no application. Get some work under your belt in the real world.
Feeding the soul is great and shouldn’t be set aside but survival comes first and that is lost to the late minnes and the Zs
Lulz. I’m glad school wasn’t hard for you.
“The real world” is bullshit. It’s all real. The cards are just stacked higher against us. Most companies don’t want to pay a living wage and most companies don’t want to give someone a full time job because of health costs. We graduate with $ 50k- $ 100k in debt because our parents told us it was necessary to survive. Rent is hard and so is ever hoping to get savings for a house. I know “kids” on the streets my age.
But please go ahead and buy stereotypes about avocado toast and act like older generations wouldn’t have had smart phones if they existed back then.
🙄
I’m 35 not 45... I have cousins in their 20s that act like children.
There are just a lot of excuses I worked a full time job and went to school. I worked during my masters as well.
There are some serious with materialism and expectations that a vast amount of 30 and less are facing.
I was lower middle class. I had only a single mother who wasn’t home because she was working two jobs.
The amount of effort a lot of you generate is not sufficient to be successful. It’s always easier to point fingers.
I rarely see anyone who’s busting their ass not get buy. Y’all want your 8 hours of sleep; two hours plus of fortnite and to chase dreams without the 8-10 hours of punching at least one clock.
Awww how dare people want a life!!! 😂
And fortnight is mostly played by 14 year olds. But thanks!
Nice to know you hate your own generation and don’t pay attention to anyone in it.click to expand

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I’d say that it’s another barrel roll towards millenials, but not really. Being raised in a different culure, I grew accustomed to making and building emotional connections, placing value on interpersonal relationships, and maintaining friendships.
Most of my late 20s early 30s peers here in USA however can’t even maintain one-two good connections, nevermind the shitshow their romantic love is. “Friends” are really acquaintances, there’s zero ability lin fostering emotional warmth and bonding, and the sheer fear in their eyes at “having to work to build connections” is so pathetic, I hardly give new interests the time of day anymore, once I see it.
So what gives? Bad parenting? Shitty education/economic/health systems? Mass consumprion of psych medications at a developmental age? Sense of entitlement and the first world/nation factor of abundance of literally everything?
Many people from EU and third world countries will tell you that this is not a “millenial problem”, it really is a USA problem. I don’t see this shit elsewhere as much at all.