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Posted by Reincarnation2Ladies - if you are still young, don't waste your time experimenting.
Find a good man and settle down, and have as many kids as you can. Feminism has lied to you.
If even Ben Shapiro can get himself a doctor wife, why can't you?
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
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old for what?
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by SassyKiwiSometimes I get baby fever and want like 4 kids and dress them all cute and shit like tiny reindeers and believe it'll all be ok because kids practically raise themselves right... RIGHT ?
Then I have times where I'm like God I don't even have time for myself because maybe driving takes up way too much time in a day when I could just be teleporting to places if technologists and scientists got their shit together by now and use the saved time for SLEEP. I love sleep.
I AM SO CONFLICTED
Share with me your arguments for and against them. Dish me the dreaded scary reality of the tiny humans.
It may be too late for you.
My astrological forecast of you only sees cats and boxed wine.
Kidding aside - how old are you?
Way off. I prefer dogs and don't drink or smoke.
Guess.
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You’re not a stereotype ...
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
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Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies who got married and pregnant at 18 yrs lol
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies lol
35 is advanced maternal age.
You honestly believe this feminist dogshit? Did you take biology in high school?
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did you?
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Posted by Reincarnation2Alright, alright. Let me stop.
I love everyone. Hakuna matata. Namaste.
you throw shit at everyone and then you're trying to get away with it lmao
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies lol
35 is advanced maternal age.
You honestly believe this feminist dogshit? Did you take biology in high school?
did you?
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Did I take biology in high school?
LOL. That and a lot more, sweetheart.
Anyway - do you. The West is lost.
Let me just sip on this whiskey and light up a little joint as I watch it burn.
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You may have taken biology, but you didn't learn it
I am no sweetheart Thank you
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies lol
35 is advanced maternal age.
You honestly believe this feminist dogshit? Did you take biology in high school?
did you?
check my edit
Did I take biology in high school?
LOL. That and a lot more, sweetheart.
Anyway - do you. The West is lost.
Let me just sip on this whiskey and light up a little joint as I watch it burn.
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That may not be good for your fertility
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by ScorpioDreamsPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by ScorpioDreamsDo I want kids? Most definitely!
Will I have kids? Probably not
Where's the discrepancy?
Well I’m about past the child bearing age and single. I’d prefer to raise a child in a two parent home. I could always adopt of course, but I also don’t want to be 70 by the time my child graduates from high school.
lots of teens needing good homes stuck in the foster system
While I wish there were enough good homes to put them in care under, they can also be very difficult to work with. They often have lots of trauma that need to be addressed through counseling and other means of support so it would require a tremendous amount of patience and understanding which I unfortunately don't think the average person has. If they did then the children would have better care under the system to begin with but the system is completely stacked up against them. Especially from the very beginning of banning abortions...
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nah thats just a myth. kids are kids. when they act out its a cry for help.
do you know anyone that grew up in the foster system? I do and once they got a stable loving home (foster or adoption don't matter) they flourished.
LOL @ the redpill male virgin trying to tell women 31 is old. My mother had 5 kids on a crushed pelvis (doctors told her no babies) and her last she had when she was almost 41.
Plus there is surrogacy these days.
And women are literally having babies into their 70s now, true story. Although that's kinda insane but to each their own.
What we can all agree with is that when it comes to women's bodies and their choices on what to do with their body autonomy, men's opinions do not matter. Scurry along.
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by SassyKiwiSometimes I get baby fever and want like 4 kids and dress them all cute and shit like tiny reindeers and believe it'll all be ok because kids practically raise themselves right... RIGHT ?
Then I have times where I'm like God I don't even have time for myself because maybe driving takes up way too much time in a day when I could just be teleporting to places if technologists and scientists got their shit together by now and use the saved time for SLEEP. I love sleep.
I AM SO CONFLICTED
Share with me your arguments for and against them. Dish me the dreaded scary reality of the tiny humans.
It may be too late for you.
My astrological forecast of you only sees cats and boxed wine.
Kidding aside - how old are you?
Way off. I prefer dogs and don't drink or smoke.
Guess.
36.
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Subtract a decade.
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies lol
35 is advanced maternal age.
You honestly believe this feminist dogshit? Did you take biology in high school?
did you?
check my edit
Did I take biology in high school?
LOL. That and a lot more, sweetheart.
Anyway - do you. The West is lost.
Let me just sip on this whiskey and light up a little joint as I watch it burn.
That may not be good for your fertility
Who cares.
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Your motility! But if any issues are to ever arise, it'd never be your fault. Only hers.
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by _elle_Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies lol
35 is advanced maternal age.
You honestly believe this feminist dogshit? Did you take biology in high school?
did you?
check my edit
Did I take biology in high school?
LOL. That and a lot more, sweetheart.
Anyway - do you. The West is lost.
Let me just sip on this whiskey and light up a little joint as I watch it burn.
That may not be good for your fertility
Who cares.
You sound a lot more jaded and bitter than when you were here last time.
Time must not have been kind.
This country is done. I am planning my exit.
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I wonder if you'll end up resorting to the dark web or overseas mail-order for your child bride 🤔
Factory is closed
Posted by TsunamySure, when do you want to start sassy? I believe I have an opening on friday this week. I imagine I'll be in charge of bedtime stories? because if left up to you, they'd be crying themselves to sleep every night. I also get to decide where they go to school. These are my conditions.
I also need you to take them in the mornings and afternoons. Mommy needs her beauty sleep and then meditation and yoga sess.
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies lol
35 is advanced maternal age.
You honestly believe this feminist dogshit? Did you take biology in high school?
did you?
check my edit
Did I take biology in high school?
LOL. That and a lot more, sweetheart.
Anyway - do you. The West is lost.
Let me just sip on this whiskey and light up a little joint as I watch it burn.
That may not be good for your fertility
Who cares.
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You should if you want to make five babies lol
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by _elle_Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by TxOgalI do! Just today I realized I am really happy around children, such pure souls
31 is kind of old though.
old for what?
Kids.
Actually the best age to have first child is at 30.5 years. Not mentioning one's emotional, physical and financial readiness, which I believe is not really common in 20s
and by the way women can get pregnant until late 40s or 50 even, you sound like old grannies lol
35 is advanced maternal age.
You honestly believe this feminist dogshit? Did you take biology in high school?
did you?
check my edit
Did I take biology in high school?
LOL. That and a lot more, sweetheart.
Anyway - do you. The West is lost.
Let me just sip on this whiskey and light up a little joint as I watch it burn.
That may not be good for your fertility
Who cares.
You sound a lot more jaded and bitter than when you were here last time.
Time must not have been kind.
This country is done. I am planning my exit.
I wonder if you'll end up resorting to the dark web or overseas mail-order for your child bride 🤔
One calling me a virgin. The other implying I am a pedo.
Lol - when a 45-year-old cougar screws a 22-year-old boy, it is applauded. Where is DonJohnson? I need him in here.
I just want healthy kids, ladies. Family is everything to me. I am not out here screwing everything that moves. I want a family.
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If you want healthy babies, you need to give up booze and weed for more than one reason...
Posted by Krabssnot to demoralize you, but one friend was like (3 kids) from what ppl die who don't have them? lol
it can be fun af, and draining af, sometimes at the same time. i have one, and she is my precious leo sun aries mooner, but sometimes i'm like this is not for me, and i'm a failure as a parent.
anyway there is no stigma anymore about not wanting to have kids. but it is certainly a very opening eye experience. i'm sure i would never understand where i fail so much if i never had my lioness.
It’s life changing for sure
To be honest, I am okay without kids. I just don’t see what’s so fun about having them. When they’re little they cry, throw tantrums and scream and have your house looking like a mess. It doesn’t make sense for me how all these women are excited to become moms but then they have to go to work and leave their child with theirs moms or at daycare. What’s the point of becoming a mom then? You gotta take care of the kid! You probably will need a rich husband if you want to spend time time with your baby and being a stay at home mom.
Plus, relationships are so complicated now a days and the divorce rates are high. Let’s say I don’t get along with my partner, I only have two choices: (A) get divorced and leave my child without a father or (B) be stuck to my partner since I have a child with that person. A person who is child free can just walk out of the relationship without feeling guilty or dealing with kids drama.
My cousin has twins with a man she married and then had another baby. A third one! And when the third baby was only one, she decided to separate from her husband. Why do people do this? Just keep on having kids instead of focusing on having a descent family. I guess being single dads/moms is more popular now a days than having a real family.
Posted by Rainbow87To be honest, I am okay without kids. I just don’t see what’s so fun about having them. When they’re little they cry, throw tantrums and scream and have your house looking like a mess. It doesn’t make sense for me how all these women are excited to become moms but then they have to go to work and leave their child with theirs moms or at daycare. What’s the point of becoming a mom then? You gotta take care of the kid! You probably will need a rich husband if you want to spend time time with your baby and being a stay at home mom.
Plus, relationships are so complicated now a days and the divorce rates are high. Let’s say I don’t get along with my partner, I only have two choices: (A) get divorced and leave my child without a father or (B) be stuck to my partner since I have a child with that person. A person who is child free can just walk out of the relationship without feeling guilty or dealing with kids drama.
My cousin has twins with a man she married and then had another baby. A third one! And when the third baby was only one, she decided to separate from her husband. Why do people do this? Just keep on having kids instead of focusing on having a descent family. I guess being single dads/moms is more popular now a days than having a real family.
Gurl, sometimes I am so selfish and only concerned with what benefits me, I get shocked at myself for even desiring to have kids. I don't know why I feel this strong pull towards it, I just do? Maybe it's just biological? I can't turn it off? And everyone always says I'm great with kids (probs because I'm still a kid at heart myself). Idk maybe there needs to be a program where you borrow an infant for a month or so to test run. Pretty sure that'd help a lot of people figure things out 🤣
I also don't think most people get married in anticipation of separating some day... I feel women dread that idea more than men as the market for divorced men is much better than divorced women regardless of if there are kids involved. I also think a lot of people have kids to feel wanted or needed by another human as we are social creatures.
The hardest job I ever did
The most rewarding
No other level of love like it
So much fun, so much laughter
And now he’s a man, so proud of him
Didn’t know myself before i had him
Wouldn’t have missed it for the world
❤️
I don’t want any bio kids, but was tossing around the idea of adopting a 4+ year old. Unfortunately, that can get pretty expensive and there’s a few other issues with it, too.
Posted by Reincarnation2I am going to invest in pet food and boxed wine.
There, there. It only gets easier after the acceptance.
Posted by Reincarnation2I am going to invest in pet food and boxed wine.
Did the cancer lady not accept your marriage proposal?
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2I am going to invest in pet food and boxed wine.
Did the cancer lady not accept your marriage proposal?
She has Leo Mars. I am skeptical.
Don't want to take her V-card if I am not going to commit. I respect her too much.
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Mars square your Mars? Could become ugly.
How do you know she’s a virgin?
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2I am going to invest in pet food and boxed wine.
Did the cancer lady not accept your marriage proposal?
She has Leo Mars. I am skeptical.
Don't want to take her V-card if I am not going to commit. I respect her too much.
Mars square your Mars? Could become ugly.
How do you know she’s a virgin?
Yeah I have had fights before with Leo Mars.
As a Scorp Mars, I find it very unpleasant. And I find Leo Mars to be extremely immature and unreasonable when angry. I have a lot of patience with my Taurus Moon, but eventually that Scorp Mars takes over.
Mars square Mars is just bad.
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Yes it is...it can get violent, not good if you have babies around.
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I wanna be a gilf like you when I grow up! It's funny cause my grandma is in her 60s and has a great grandkid whilst my MIL is in her 60s with very young grandkids and likes to act like she's 16. 50 is the new 30 and 60 is the new 40, etc.