Dont touch my hair

"Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange Yesterday I made a thread about different hair styles ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love :) lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you
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  • Cancan26
    in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
    female
    "Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange

    Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love smile lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it

    and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
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    I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
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    so I stood up and started stroking her hair ...Laughing she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
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    Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over

  • Cancan26
    in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
    female
    Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
    Posted by Cancan26
    "Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange

    Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love smile lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it

    and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
    User Submitted Image

    I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
    User Submitted Image

    so I stood up and started stroking her hair ...Laughing she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
    User Submitted Image

    Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over



    Lamayo. Only cookiemonsteres i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and butter.
    My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha
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    like what if I just got done eating cheetos and I wanted stick my fingers in your scalp ...does sound fun? or sane? no~! its N U T S .

    ..if I just to wear my fro out ...thats my business ...if I want to wear a weave ...or a wig or braids ...all my business ..no one should be concerned enough with how I chose to wear my hair that they need to "check" to see if its mine

    thats crazy to me ... I would never just stroll up to a white person and be like pssssss hey ...is that yours ..or like you know extensions ...
    pssssss hey are those like really your breasts or like implants ...
  • Ixion
    Possessor of low-cunning and great dance moves.
    I find it to be that this is an exercise in othering black woman....objectifying them, and fetishizing em. Point. Blank "."
  • Cancan26
    in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
    female
    Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
    Posted by Cancan26
    Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
    Posted by Cancan26
    "Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange

    Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love smile lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it

    and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
    User Submitted Image

    I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
    User Submitted Image

    so I stood up and started stroking her hair ...Laughing she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
    User Submitted Image

    Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over



    Lamayo. Only cookiemonsteres i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and butter.
    My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha


    like what if I just got done eating cheetos and I wanted stick my fingers in your scalp ...does sound fun? or sane? no~! its N U T S .

    ..if I just to wear my fro out ...thats my business ...if I want to wear a weave ...or a wig or braids ...all my business ..no one should be concerned enough with how I chose to wear my hair that they need to "check" to see if its mine

    thats crazy to me ... I would never just stroll up to a white person and be like pssssss hey ...is that yours ..or like you know extensions ...
    pssssss hey are those like really your breasts or like implants ...


    I shall NEVER date a man who eats cheetos. I decided.

    And for the record every one does axe me if my eyelashes are real, and its **especially** annoying when black girls do it cause they should already know the treetrunking code. UGH.
    So now whenever a black girl axes me if my eyelashes are real i axe them if their weave is real. Hahahaha
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    no one should ask you if anything is real ...its rude ..even if you wanna wear falsies or they are just your eyelashes its no ones business
  • RedemptionSong
    Pisces sun Virgo moon
    female
  • RedemptionSong
    Pisces sun Virgo moon
    female
    Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
    Posted by Cancan26
    "Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange

    Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love smile lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it

    and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
    User Submitted Image

    I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
    User Submitted Image

    so I stood up and started stroking her hair ...Laughing she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
    User Submitted Image

    Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over



    Lamayo. Only cookiemonsteres i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and butter.
    My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha
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    Because black women are the only ones who wear wigs or extensions...right.

    More like some people have poor boundaries.

  • RedemptionSong
    Pisces sun Virgo moon
    female
    Happens to me too at Cancan26. I have long locs/dreads. People are like ooh your hair is nice. Hold up...i dont know you. Hair nah...don't touch me. I don't want my hair messed up. It took me too long.
  • Cancan26
    in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
    female
    Posted by oxSunQueenxo
    Why not just... Keep your hands off and mouth shut about other people's hair? Or eyelashes? Or just appearance in general?

    How hard is it to just keep your butter to yourself?


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  • brianafay
    30 years old female
    Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
    Posted by Cancan26
    Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
    Posted by Cancan26
    "Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange

    Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love smile lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it

    and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
    User Submitted Image

    I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
    User Submitted Image

    so I stood up and started stroking her hair ...Laughing she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
    User Submitted Image

    Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over



    Lamayo. Only cookiemonsteres i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and butter.
    My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha


    like what if I just got done eating cheetos and I wanted stick my fingers in your scalp ...does sound fun? or sane? no~! its N U T S .

    ..if I just to wear my fro out ...thats my business ...if I want to wear a weave ...or a wig or braids ...all my business ..no one should be concerned enough with how I chose to wear my hair that they need to "check" to see if its mine

    thats crazy to me ... I would never just stroll up to a white person and be like pssssss hey ...is that yours ..or like you know extensions ...
    pssssss hey are those like really your breasts or like implants ...


    I shall NEVER date a man who eats cheetos. I decided.

    And for the record every one does axe me if my eyelashes are real, and its **especially** annoying when black girls do it cause they should already know the treetrunking code. UGH.
    So now whenever a black girl axes me if my eyelashes are real i axe them if their weave is real. Hahahaha
    click to expand


    User Submitted Image

    Wtf is going on here
  • Cancan26
    in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
    female
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
    Posted by Cancan26
    "Don't touch my hair, its the feeling that I wear"- solange

    Yesterday I made a thread about different hair style s ... If you have natural hair then you know its a labor of love smile lots of moisturizing, flat twisting, braiding and patience and when you finally undo your twist out and see your lovely kinks and curls falling perfectly its worth it

    and then ..some weirdo at work, at a restaurant or schools and starts petting you like a farm animal! its so freaking rude ...and annoying ...Im not an animal ...don't just stroke my hair ...
    User Submitted Image

    I had some lady at work do this to me once ..while sitting at my desk...she made a big deal about how it was so big ..and how it really stands up all on it own ...all while she light touch the top of it like she was touching something nasty
    User Submitted Image

    so I stood up and started stroking her hair ...Laughing she looked so freakin startled ...and then I said "its so limp" wow ...I mean it really just hangs there doesn't ...interesting
    User Submitted Image

    Im all about education ...but everyone should keep their hands to themselves as a general rule ...if you wanna know something just ask ?!?!? vent over



    Lamayo. Only cookiemonsteres i ever saw that flip when someone touches their hair are black cause they got them weaves and wigs and butter.
    My bff was going on a date with a white guy for the first time ever, and i told her she best be careful cause he prolly dont kno her hair is fake. And i said "so what are you gonna do if you start making out with white boy and he goes to run his fingers through your hair and your wig comes off" she almost peed her pants hahaha

    Because black women are the only ones who wear wigs or extensions...right.

    More like some people have poor boundaries.

    click to expand


    this all of this

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  • Cancan26
    in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
    female
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Happens to me too at Cancan26. I have long locs/dreads. People are like ooh your hair is nice. Hold up...i dont know you. Hair nah...don't touch me. I don't want my hair messed up. It took me too long.


    right I don't mind compliments or questions but hands need to stay to the owner...we learned that in kindergarten
  • RedemptionSong
    Pisces sun Virgo moon
    female
    Posted by Cancan26
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Happens to me too at Cancan26. I have long locs/dreads. People are like ooh your hair is nice. Hold up...i dont know you. Hair nah...don't touch me. I don't want my hair messed up. It took me too long.


    right I don't mind compliments or questions but hands need to stay to the owner...we learned that in kindergarten
    click to expand


    Ah man before I locked, when I used to wear the fro. For some reason people saw my hair as an invitation. I've been in the grocery in line and felt a hand a hand in the back of my head. What tge hell. Response "oh its so nice". Sigh thank goodness I'm not a violent person.

  • If as a white person you see this butter happening would you prefer someone calling it out or just letting the person handle it themselves? I almost got into it with this woman petting some braids of my coworker.
  • Ixion
    Possessor of low-cunning and great dance moves.
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Posted by Cancan26
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Happens to me too at Cancan26. I have long locs/dreads. People are like ooh your hair is nice. Hold up...i dont know you. Hair nah...don't touch me. I don't want my hair messed up. It took me too long.


    right I don't mind compliments or questions but hands need to stay to the owner...we learned that in kindergarten


    Ah man before I locked, when I used to wear the fro. For some reason people saw my hair as an invitation. I've been in the grocery in line and felt a hand a hand in the back of my head. What tge hell. Response "oh its so nice". Sigh thank goodness I'm not a violent person.

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    My ma and both of my sisters have their hair locked...and even now from time to time when they have it style d some folks will risk death by trying to touch em. Not my mother so much but my sisters...especially the one that works in the interior design field........white gay men just "looooove" their hair. That Hair Nah game was built for em.
  • RedemptionSong
    Pisces sun Virgo moon
    female
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Posted by Cancan26
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Happens to me too at Cancan26. I have long locs/dreads. People are like ooh your hair is nice. Hold up...i dont know you. Hair nah...don't touch me. I don't want my hair messed up. It took me too long.


    right I don't mind compliments or questions but hands need to stay to the owner...we learned that in kindergarten


    Ah man before I locked, when I used to wear the fro. For some reason people saw my hair as an invitation. I've been in the grocery in line and felt a hand a hand in the back of my head. What tge hell. Response "oh its so nice". Sigh thank goodness I'm not a violent person.



    My ma and both of my sisters have their hair locked...and even now from time to time when they have it style d some folks will risk death by trying to touch em. Not my mother so much but my sisters...especially the one that works in the interior design field........white gay men just "looooove" their hair. That Hair Nah game was built for em.
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    They are definitely risking death. Freshly coifed hair should never be meddled with. Lol

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