@TheGreatSearcher
10 Years1,000+ Posts
How did you lose your virginity?
P in V.
Scorp woman.
Lost it in a threesome. I wanted to bang this older guy I was working with, his ex-fiance was a stripper. I was worried that if we hooked up he wouldn't be satisfied with my lack of sexual experience.
So i decided to take two friends up on an offer and spend a night banging them and learning how to give and receive pleasure.
I had sex.
I was on top and 2 pumps and squeeze later my virginity joined history.
I'm leaving on this note, I had a friend in High School ask me how to get his gf to have sex with him. I drank alot and smoked alot of weed and was hammered so I told him to say "I love you will you take your panties off" with a straight face. The next day I got a call, he actually used that garbage and it actually worked. For the rest of my junior year the slogan was "I love you will you take your panties off". See ya'll later.
YOU WOULDN'T BELIEVE IT
I didn't have one.
She just took it!!!!
Fourteen, but that sucked and we broke up a week later. And I never really counted it because it was literally only two pumps.
The real time was sixteen.
In a Papasan chair with my first love
We decided gravity and my own body weight were the only hopes we had of getting it in. I am convinced it was just as bad as child birth lol
(Spoiler alert: we're still together)
The usual way. I mean, how many ways are there ?
Posted by Season
The usual way. I mean, how many ways are there ?
You have no idea. 🙂
Last time - this subject was opened for discussion on DXP (around February) - somebody mentioned something about a "bathtub faucet". I don't remember all the details (: as a man I'm not equipped for that type of test drive anyway), but I'm sure there's someone that could fill you in - if you wanna know more. ^^
PS.You gotta love Scorpio season... ^^
i didn't, its in a jar.
Posted by Season
The usual way. I mean, how many ways are there ?You have no idea. 🙂
Last time - this subject was opened for discussion on DXP (around February) - somebody mentioned something about a "bathtub faucet". I don't remember all the details (: as a man I'm not equipped for that type of test drive anyway), but I'm sure there's someone that could fill you in - if you wanna know more. ^^
PS.You gotta love Scorpio season... ^^
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Yeah, I thought of that after I posted. There are a lot of ways for both sexes. I guess that's why these threads get so much attention. LoL.
Teh secks
(dafuq kind of question is this?)
Posted by Season
The usual way. I mean, how many ways are there ?You have no idea. 🙂
Last time - this subject was opened for discussion on DXP (around February) - somebody mentioned something about a "bathtub faucet". I don't remember all the details (: as a man I'm not equipped for that type of test drive anyway), but I'm sure there's someone that could fill you in - if you wanna know more. ^^
PS.You gotta love Scorpio season... ^^
Yeah, I thought of that after I posted. There are a lot of ways for both sexes. I guess that's why these threads get so much attention. LoL.
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Well, technically, this whole virginity thing - applies only to the female counterpart. ^^
Though, this days (the days of the modern western culture), there's this new trend - where even men seem to have a hymen (a physiological hymen that is). Won't be long now - and you'll hear men talking about dealing with PMS and morning sickness (due to pregnancy). Then again, we're already their...
^^
Posted by irreconcilabledifferences
@tauromale22
I don't get why Topanga and Sean are making out?
....?!?!?!?!?!
I feel like this question would be so much more fun if it were
"How as it for you the first time you had sex"
Both of us were 16. We were pretty innocent but horny enough. I think we tried like for the first few hours to teach each other where it felt good and it became a game rather than a sexual thing.
Then we gave up because we decided it wouldn't fit.
Later we found out there was a thing called lube.
how ? you need an explanation ? lol
Posted by Season
The usual way. I mean, how many ways are there ?You have no idea. 🙂
Last time - this subject was opened for discussion on DXP (around February) - somebody mentioned something about a "bathtub faucet". I don't remember all the details (: as a man I'm not equipped for that type of test drive anyway), but I'm sure there's someone that could fill you in - if you wanna know more. ^^
PS.You gotta love Scorpio season... ^^
Yeah, I thought of that after I posted. There are a lot of ways for both sexes. I guess that's why these threads get so much attention. LoL.
Well, technically, this whole virginity thing - applies only to the female counterpart. ^^
Though, this days (the days of the modern western culture), there's this new trend - where even men seem to have a hymen (a physiological hymen that is). Won't be long now - and you'll hear men talking about dealing with PMS and morning sickness (due to pregnancy). Then again, we're already their...
^^
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LoL. Men lose their "virginity" too, in a manner of speaking because there is a first time for them as well. I define virginity as someone who has not had sexual intercourse with a member of the opposite sex. Of course, others may have differing opinions about it. Understood.
I was 14, she was 14, and she was the first girl I ever did sexual stuff with. She was a Virgo so she obviously already experenced sexual stuff. Everything but intercourse that is. I already knew what sex was and how to fuck from porn my dad and mom's bf left laying around. I remember thinking I made masturbating up on my own, and remember fantasizing about sexual stuff since age 7. I'm still highly addicted to masturbating at age 26. Anyway she was coming over, but my mom was leaving so we had to hang out at my grandmother's. My mom was smart and took my house key and put it on her key ring, but I was smart myself and switched the real key with my grandmother's house key. My grandma picked her up and had to go in the store. Her and I waited in the car and started dry humping. For 14 she had big boobs I remember. More than a handful. So we get to my grandma's and I tell her I'm going to show my gf around, then stole a few cigs and we left. We went to my house, then fucked in my bed and in the shower.
She was the first girl I had unprotected sex with too. I remember the sensations were so extreme I was literally shaking the whole time. It was amazing. All 20 seconds of it! Then she got pregnant and her parents made her abort it at age 15. Those were weird times.
Posted by Season
The usual way. I mean, how many ways are there ?You have no idea. 🙂
Last time - this subject was opened for discussion on DXP (around February) - somebody mentioned something about a "bathtub faucet". I don't remember all the details (: as a man I'm not equipped for that type of test drive anyway), but I'm sure there's someone that could fill you in - if you wanna know more. ^^
PS.You gotta love Scorpio season... ^^
Yeah, I thought of that after I posted. There are a lot of ways for both sexes. I guess that's why these threads get so much attention. LoL.
Well, technically, this whole virginity thing - applies only to the female counterpart. ^^
Though, this days (the days of the modern western culture), there's this new trend - where even men seem to have a hymen (a physiological hymen that is). Won't be long now - and you'll hear men talking about dealing with PMS and morning sickness (due to pregnancy). Then again, we're already their...
^^
LoL. Men lose their "virginity" too, in a manner of speaking because there is a first time for them as well. I define virginity as someone who has not had sexual intercourse with a member of the opposite sex. Of course, others may have differing opinions about it. Understood.
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I'm aware of this modern concept (that's why i said "this days"), but... that was not a personal opinion! ^^ Quite objective - since it's based on historical evidence/facts. Take the prudish times of the Victorian era (which ended around a century ago), a time when - women were still objectified through marriage (same goes for men - in times of war... but that's a different story - one that hasn't changed that much...). If you were to address a male from those times as a virgin - that would have been perceived as a serious insult (incomparable to what it means to call a guy a pussy this days - which is the equivalent of a coward, since women had limited rights back then). Here's a detailed article - which portrays the sexuality from the Victorian era quite well:
http://www.quailbellmagazine.com/the-real/female-sexuality-in-the-victorian-age
As a women, those times - are quite relevant for you - since that's when women started fighting for their rights - the first feminists, the true feminists - the Suffragette. Those events - were used as inspiration for the movie with the same name:
And i suppose, it's also related to the male virginity of today - to the adaptation of this concept (for the sake of gender equality). ^^
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As for my personal opinion (what applies to me), well, by the looks of it... most people don't seem to value their physical intimacy that much (they give themselves to easily - without forming a deeper bond with one another). There's this rush for sex - where they just wanna get over with it (starting with virginity) - a.s.a.p., while quantity - seems to matter more than quality (which you can't achieve... with just anybody - by fucking around). I've been a teen as well, i know what it means to dabble with hormones and strong sexual urges - but, common... have some respect for yourself (some restraint). It's not a fucking contest! Or maybe I'm to old school - when it comes to this believes. To each their own. ^^
Posted by lavaliquid
19. To a random. I picked an Asian man so it wouldn't hurt.
ROFLMAO. My nail tech told me (she's Korean), "Don't ever be with Chinese guy, they have 'little dic*ks". Again, ROFLMAO!
🤗 Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Very romantically (:
Thanks.
Basically yes, I never called it rape because I didn't want the stigma of me playing the victim. It took a pisces guy to sit me down and explain it to me. Sometimes I felt like there was more I could've done to stop or prevent it from happening.
It takes a Piscean (male) to sit you down with "empathy and sympathy" cyber hugs to you and your Piscean "male" dude. 🤗
Love,
Eva
Okay, my turn to answer before I'm gone for the day and have round 3 with a certain "Teeny, tiny, 'small'" Scorpio to deal with tomorrow (Eva does the Matrix stance).
I was 17, boyfriend (he was 20) and I were in his truck after we watched Escape from New York at the movie theater. We parked and it helped w/the pain by pressing my foot on the break peddle.....had the BEST orgasm a 17 year old could have! It hurt like heck when I got home as Miss Kitty was red and swollen. I wanted MORE and we kept doing it until the pain subsided; married at 18, had two kids, divorced five years later.
I LOVE this topic regardless of the question asked since y'all responded either way. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by irreconcilabledifferences
@tauromale22
I don't get why Topanga and Sean are making out?
....?!?!?!?!?!
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I believe that episode was some sort of alternate universe/dream sequence type of thing.
An evil cunt took it away from me.
14 years old, clinging onto a laundry basket near by for dear life with some 17 year old I hardly knew but he had a car and idk...
I couldn't sit right the next day... instantly regretted it, took me a year or two to realize this wasn't a story to share unless anonymously.
So does anyone actually enjoy their first time ? I'm really curious
Like an American in the backseat of a 1968 camaro ss.
Posted by brianafay
So does anyone actually enjoy their first time ? I'm really curious
It was weird... but fun.
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