Is It Official You're Cancelled?

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Since Dxpnet censored my last post, thought I would try something safer.

I have a friend in LA who is my age. He has been having hookups with this older married woman that is in a open relationship with her husband.

That ironically is not the issue. They have hooked up a few times now and he just found out she is a Trump supporter She had a campaign sticker on her wallet.

They have not discussed politics obviously since it is just physical between them. Him and I are both from the progressive Elizabeth Warren school.

He is feeling super guilty now for hooking up with a Trumper He is struggling with wanting to end it and keep it going. Due to the fact she is about to be 50 and looks 12 yrs younger then she is -(She used to be a model back in the 90's ) And he told me they have great chemistry in bed .

There were no romantic feelings on his end prior to him finding out nor on her side He wanted to know from me if he is a piece of garbage if he kept having hookups with her even though she is a Trumper

I told him I would have to think about it. To me, if he is not getting in a relationship with her and it is only physical, I dont see the harm.

But should progressives stick to their principle 100% even if it is just hooking up with no relationship in sight?
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I mean if they will not be fucking and simultaneously talking about politics ever I don’t understand the issue here

Some people have boundaries on who they wanna hook up with, some don’t. There’s probably worse things out there besides being a Trump supporter. Like having STDs. So if she a clean Trump supporter, he should at least be grateful there y’kno
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Posted by slowdive80

Since Dxpnet censored my last post, thought I would try something safer.

I have a friend in LA who is my age. He has been having hookups with this older married woman that is in a open relationship with her husband.

That ironically is not the issue. They have hooked up a few times now and he just found out she is a Trump supporter She had a campaign sticker on her wallet.

They have not discussed politics obviously since it is just physical between them. Him and I are both from the progressive Elizabeth Warren school.

He is feeling super guilty now for hooking up with a Trumper He is struggling with wanting to end it and keep it going. Due to the fact she is about to be 50 and looks 12 yrs younger then she is -(She used to be a model back in the 90's ) And he told me they have great chemistry in bed .

There were no romantic feelings on his end prior to him finding out nor on her side He wanted to know from me if he is a piece of garbage if he kept having hookups with her even though she is a Trumper

I told him I would have to think about it. To me, if he is not getting in a relationship with her and it is only physical, I dont see the harm.

But should progressives stick to their principle 100% even if it is just hooking up with no relationship in sight?

Tribalism and segration, is not the answer to our predicament.

She supports Trump for some reasons whole you both take a progressive stance for your own. Unless one side is ashamed or judgmental about the other, why would it be a issue?
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Just tell him you’re trying to fuck and let that zero go and get with you, cause you a hero! 🦸‍♀️

Pretty sure the OP is a straight dude.

Not that there's anything wrong with 2 dudes hooking up. I'm just trying to clarify the situation.

OP, I don't see any harm. Also, Warren soldout to CNN during the primary.
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I think it’s a girl. A dude wouldn’t waste his time writing this type of crap. Men don’t think this way.
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@mystarshine - That would be funny as hell though. If I was having sex and a girl said that, I would have the biggest laughing fit ever

@UnusualVaginalDischarge

Only move to LA if you have a six pack if you are trying to date or be a drug dealer instead if you dont have one . Girls will swarm after that. 😉 My friend is really good looking and so he can get laid really easy. He met this gal through an app from what he told me.

And to someone else that asked my friend is in his 30's. Yeah Im going to tell him to enjoy it and as long as they arent getting serious, then who cares



LA does have a lot of swingers there. Not as much as Vegas but close.
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Posted by Ceviche
Posted by saggurl88

Just tell him you’re trying to fuck and let that zero go and get with you, cause you a hero! 🦸‍♀️

Pretty sure the OP is a straight dude.

Not that there's anything wrong with 2 dudes hooking up. I'm just trying to clarify the situation.

OP, I don't see any harm. Also, Warren soldout to CNN during the primary.

I think it’s a girl. A dude wouldn’t waste his time writing this type of crap. Men don’t think this way.

Lol dudes here do.

Let's ask em @slowdive80 are u male or female? 🤔
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I just read some of his previous posts. And he’s always in his friends business.

He talks like a female though.
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Posted by slowdive80

Since Dxpnet censored my last post, thought I would try something safer.

I have a friend in LA who is my age. He has been having hookups with this older married woman that is in a open relationship with her husband.

That ironically is not the issue. They have hooked up a few times now and he just found out she is a Trump supporter She had a campaign sticker on her wallet.

They have not discussed politics obviously since it is just physical between them. Him and I are both from the progressive Elizabeth Warren school.

He is feeling super guilty now for hooking up with a Trumper He is struggling with wanting to end it and keep it going. Due to the fact she is about to be 50 and looks 12 yrs younger then she is -(She used to be a model back in the 90's ) And he told me they have great chemistry in bed .

There were no romantic feelings on his end prior to him finding out nor on her side He wanted to know from me if he is a piece of garbage if he kept having hookups with her even though she is a Trumper

I told him I would have to think about it. To me, if he is not getting in a relationship with her and it is only physical, I dont see the harm.

But should progressives stick to their principle 100% even if it is just hooking up with no relationship in sight?


Just warn him that if she's still childbearing, she's keeping the baby if she gets pregnant.
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Posted by slowdive80

@mystarshine - That would be funny as hell though. If I was having sex and a girl said that, I would have the biggest laughing fit ever

@UnusualVaginalDischarge

Only move to LA if you have a six pack if you are trying to date or be a drug dealer instead if you dont have one . Girls will swarm after that. 😉 My friend is really good looking and so he can get laid really easy. He met this gal through an app from what he told me.

And to someone else that asked my friend is in his 30's. Yeah Im going to tell him to enjoy it and as long as they arent getting serious, then who cares



LA does have a lot of swingers there. Not as much as Vegas but close.

I am female, do i still need a six pack?
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Yes.
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Posted by slowdive80

Since Dxpnet censored my last post, thought I would try something safer.

I have a friend in LA who is my age. He has been having hookups with this older married woman that is in a open relationship with her husband.

That ironically is not the issue. They have hooked up a few times now and he just found out she is a Trump supporter She had a campaign sticker on her wallet.

They have not discussed politics obviously since it is just physical between them. Him and I are both from the progressive Elizabeth Warren school.

He is feeling super guilty now for hooking up with a Trumper He is struggling with wanting to end it and keep it going. Due to the fact she is about to be 50 and looks 12 yrs younger then she is -(She used to be a model back in the 90's ) And he told me they have great chemistry in bed .

There were no romantic feelings on his end prior to him finding out nor on her side He wanted to know from me if he is a piece of garbage if he kept having hookups with her even though she is a Trumper

I told him I would have to think about it. To me, if he is not getting in a relationship with her and it is only physical, I dont see the harm.

But should progressives stick to their principle 100% even if it is just hooking up with no relationship in sight?


I've seen some raunchy shit on DXP that was allowed so I just want to know what did your original post say that deemed censoring necessary?
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I'm thinking this would only ever become an issue for anyone of sound mind if it was more than just physical. Dude is subconsciously, if not fully consciously and afraid of admitting it, looking for the next step on the relationship staircase. The dichotomy of their political stances either poses a threat to the long-term love idea, or it's being used as a means to sabotage their relationship in order to avoid aforementioned next step.

I refuse to believe that anyone normal would ever drop a hot hook up over politics. They're not spending that much time talking.
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@solarisitic -

I posted a funny article about one of the bachelor dudes turning to adult film to make money,

But I had the word famewh--- in title which dxp thought was offensive and hid the post.

As for the others the reason it is a big deal even nailing a trumper that they are associated with white nationalism. This is beyond a republican and democrat situation.

Trumpers fall into the category of being unapologetically racist or they may not be, but dont care what Trump does as they feel he is serving their personal interests.

I dont identify with the democrat party either as they are just moderate republicans at this point.

If she was just a republican this wouldnt be an issue. Ive casually dated republican gals before but never got serious with them if they were conservative and not moderate. But Trumplicans are a whole different ball of republican.

@TMV -

Last few weeks my friend has been isolated and hasnt hooked up in close to a month He didnt give it much thought before cause he was constantly knocking boots with her But now he has all the time in the world to think about it in isolation

She has a teenager along with her husband. Because she with a child he has no interest beyond hooking up

He just feels embarrassed is all. I think I am going to tell him it's his life, but if I were him I would cut it off if he has other options to get laid with. Just because I think the chances are higher of her eventually getting attached as she is the one who is more aggressive than he is as far is initiating the hookups.

BTW before I know who she was and what she was about, I thought Dana Loesch was attractive. Then she opened her mouth and my reaction was this -

Shower Cry GIF from Aceventura GIFs
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Posted by slowdive80

Last few weeks my friend has been isolated and hasnt hooked up in close to a month He didnt give it much thought before cause he was constantly knocking boots with her But now he has all the time in the world to think about it in isolation

She has a teenager along with her husband. Because she with a child he has no interest beyond hooking up

Meh. I stand by my initial assessment. People don't generally dwell on things that don't matter. There's more than meets the eye. Though this looks more like a sabotage scenario now.