Everyone is not ALL bad, so there will usually be something but he is just an ass. He doesn't even care about your safety, 2am having you walk alone. Bottom line, he doesn't and won't look out for you in life. That would be enough for me.
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Posted by blackphasei;m here discussing because this is a discussion place. im not allowing it im walking away from this guy. i just dont know why they "try" and pull this and expect me to be ok. it begs the questPosted by KittenLaRougeBut you don't.. You have admitted to being with guys strictly for sex. And the way you act on here, I can only imagine the way you are with these fellows. You can't really have expectations if you are only a side chick or not in a relationship with these guys. It's the law of attraction sweetie, you attract what you put out into this world. If you are going to act like a booty call that is all you will ever be.Posted by blackphaseya i have expectations to be treated right, sue mePosted by Vixen2She shouldn't be messing with anyone until she gets her shit together. She's extremely immature, and will only ever be a side chick at this rate. I mean the girl can't even hold down her position as a side chick cause she's so damn delusional and has so many expectations.
If you friggin continue to mess with that dude after this...then you have issues. Bury whatever feelings you have for him and keep it moving. No contact. I don't care what anyone says....you two have way different ideas on how a s/o should be treated. Even for a side chick...and let's just say he is THAT good of a player...dude is foul and that is some foul shit. He could of atleast walked her to her damn car at 3am if he was gonna make her leave...she is a female. Dude does not care about you...he's a damn liar if he says otherwise. Actions...actions..actions...
*smdh*
You can come on here and complain all day long but nothing will ever change until you look at yourself and start to assess where the problems are arising. Look at the title of this thread.. the last word is AGAIN, there is a repetition here, and the only person who is involved in every scenario is you. You are in the right place for self discovery, why not start looking into self development instead of getting hole stuffed. You don't ever seemed satisfied with any of these guys anyways, take some time to figure yourself out and what you really want. This is the most helpful advice you are going to receive on here and I am trying to not be a complete bitch about it. You expect the world from guys that you are not involved with, you do not make yourself appear as someone with a lot of value, that's why these guys treat you this way. You allow them to use you as a squeeze toy and that will never change until you place a higher value on yourself.click to expand
^^^it begs the question do they do this to other girls and other girls are ok with it?
blackphase are you dawn of day or tamara
Posted by blackphaseits ok for guys to exercise their sexuality and they are considered studs but a woman who does it is low value society is fucked i happen to like sex but there are so many connotations applied to the act is riduculous you do this our wrong you do that your wrong you do this he'll call you you do that he wont WTF with all the games
Don't ever allow it to be okay and then they won't expect it. I am sure you have let a few fellas walk over in the past and that is where your value starts to slip. You need to regain that and radiate it. You're letting them get you into bed too quickly and most decent guys don't place a woman like that in the relationship category, they fall into the booty call category. You need to look within yourself and break this vicious cycle. Only you hold the key..
Posted by KittenLaRougeAll of that is your internal dialogue though. How's he supposed to read your mind? My above comment stands.Posted by LadyNeptunei wouldnt be mad. i would leave. why give a guy an ego boost and get all upset over it. i would have simply said "cool, bye" but the fact that he NOW wont kiss me is suspectPosted by KittenLaRougeYOU said to him "hey if I am (side chick) let me know, I won't be mad"Posted by LadyNeptuneno i DID NOT SAY i would be ok with it. i just simply asked him to be honest about so i could make a logical decision on what to do the pisces was very honest from the jumpPosted by KittenLaRougeYou told him you'd be fine with being the side chick??!Posted by rampartslol. maybe im a side chick and don't know it. i mean i could easily show up at his house anytime. i also told hey if i am let me know i wont be mad and he said no no noPosted by KittenLaRougeNever slept with a gem. I made out with one once and he had horrible breathPosted by rampartsnot the first night, he was great. but then he got real sloppy, little to no foreplay no kissing just screwing. is this the gemini split personality? i mean really i dont know who his is anymore its like a whole different person has emerged
Was he bad in bed?
No wonder he's treating you like a hit it and quit it and kicking you out of his bed. Your not demanding more and sending him signals (saying even) that your ok with being treated that way.
Telling him you won't be mad = okay with being a side chick. At least that's how it comes off to me and also to him, and most anyone else I'm guessing.
The problem here might be how your communicating with these dudes...click to expand
In the future, if your looking to pursue something long term, I'd suggest letting the dude know that asap. Preferably in small short sentences. You may need to repeat yourself several times.
Also ask them about their dating history, what their looking for in a relationship, etc. Your questions will send the message that your serious about dating and not looking for a hookup.
Posted by busyeyes886 to 12 months?
6-12 months and if he is still around.. He's a keeper!!
You need to go back.to the rules of "courtship" and become platonic friends and get to know their personality and for them to get to know your personality (if you have one!) and not just your kitty.
If you use your kitty first before engaging your brain then for them it's just a "hit and run"!
Posted by blackphaseyoure probably right but i have a high sex drive. its not worth it tho, to feel like garbage later on. 6 to 12 months of just friends seems excessive thoPosted by KittenLaRougeIt's not okay for guys either, you just always seem to find those ones. There are plenty of guys out there who are not like this, you are just fishing in the wrong pond. Like some of these guys are in their 50's.. what are you honestly expecting to come of a situation like that?Posted by blackphaseits ok for guys to exercise their sexuality and they are considered studs but a woman who does it is low value society is fucked i happen to like sex but there are so many connotations applied to the act is riduculous you do this our wrong you do that your wrong you do this he'll call you you do that he wont WTF with all the games
Don't ever allow it to be okay and then they won't expect it. I am sure you have let a few fellas walk over in the past and that is where your value starts to slip. You need to regain that and radiate it. You're letting them get you into bed too quickly and most decent guys don't place a woman like that in the relationship category, they fall into the booty call category. You need to look within yourself and break this vicious cycle. Only you hold the key..
I sure do not consider a guy like that a stud, I think they are sleezy and they wouldn't get a second of my time! You just need to get to know these guys a bit better before getting involved I think. You are jumping into the intimacy too quickly.click to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen1991lol thats why they keep coming back. its not me texting them. so your cheap shots of im not good looking or bad in bed is complete bullshit. your trying to pin their bad behavior on me. your the type that would blame a woman for her own rape
@KittenLaRouge all I'm trying to say is that maybe you need to change it up and just delete their phone number.
Next time don't chase make sure you get chased in a good way and maybe it's the way you talk can also bore a man too much talking during sex etc or maybe because of your Cancer moon they thought you were too serious and sensitive can be so many reasons
Posted by dewiklaessen1991and for the record, youre not exactly a supermodel so.....
@KittenLaRouge all I'm trying to say is that maybe you need to change it up and just delete their phone number.
Next time don't chase make sure you get chased in a good way and maybe it's the way you talk can also bore a man too much talking during sex etc or maybe because of your Cancer moon they thought you were too serious and sensitive can be so many reasons
@KittenLaRouge
Well, I think we can all agree that you are not great at picking guys - maybe start there?
"i didn't allow myself to be treated bad. i left and called him out his bad behavior every time"
is a contradiction in terms.
Please get yourself together.
Well, I think we can all agree that you are not great at picking guys - maybe start there?
"i didn't allow myself to be treated bad. i left and called him out his bad behavior every time"
is a contradiction in terms.
Please get yourself together.
Posted by KittenLaRougeYet, next time he calls, you go back for more.
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
Posted by KittenLaRougeYet, next time he calls, you go back for more.
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
Posted by SugarfootAgree. 100%Posted by KittenLaRougeI guess anyone could lie. But...typically if you spend enough time together (not having sex), and you enjoy each other's company (without sex), you develop a non sexual bond. Your emotional and mental relationship is not about sex at that point. Therefore when you finally do have sex, you both have reasons to be around each other besides just the sex. Your friend who has feelings for you would never kick you out of bed in the middle of the night. Only a person who is just in it for the sex would do that.Posted by Sugarfootbut how do you know if he really loves you or just want to smash? he might "fake it" and say it tooPosted by KittenLaRougeIf you want a guy to treat you like he loves you after having sex....wait until he loves you BEFORE you have sex with him. Trust me on this one ‰
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
If a guy isn't interested in sticking around without the sex, you just weeded out someone you're not interested in. So that's a win win.click to expand
she can't be a Cap, have I said this before?
Posted by aquapiscescuspWho's to stop her from slapping on a fake sign and age on the internet
she can't be a Cap, have I said this before?
Posted by SassyKiwiI think she is many people on here...Posted by aquapiscescuspWho's to stop her from slapping on a fake sign and age on the internet
she can't be a Cap, have I said this before?
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more like a taurus
Posted by KittenLaRougeYou're 23. How is it possible you had a "very special" relationship for EIGHT years? You were a kid during most of that time.Posted by ShadowAbsorberi was with one person for almost 8 years committed,, what we had was very special. i have had nothing but this ^^^ since. i feel like i had "my relationship" and that's it. i can't find it again. maybe its me? i don't know thus the thread.Posted by KittenLaRougeYeah, girl. They're always acting like they want a relationship up until the sex, then suddenly it's like you're not even human and without any feelings. I've been there many times before.Posted by ShadowAbsorberthank you. i asked him MULTIPLE times do you just want sex just tell me i wont be mad and i meant it , he said no no no
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.click to expand
- just sayin'.
Posted by KittenLaRougeYou're 23. How is it possible you had a "very special" relationship for EIGHT years? You were a kid during most of that time.Posted by ShadowAbsorberi was with one person for almost 8 years committed,, what we had was very special. i have had nothing but this ^^^ since. i feel like i had "my relationship" and that's it. i can't find it again. maybe its me? i don't know thus the thread.Posted by KittenLaRougeYeah, girl. They're always acting like they want a relationship up until the sex, then suddenly it's like you're not even human and without any feelings. I've been there many times before.Posted by ShadowAbsorberthank you. i asked him MULTIPLE times do you just want sex just tell me i wont be mad and i meant it , he said no no no
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.click to expand
- just sayin'.
Posted by KittenLaRougeIf you wouldn't have him at your house, you shouldn't be sleeping with him.Posted by GreenteaNO WAY i would have this douchebag to my house thank goodness i didntPosted by KittenLaRougeWell if it's just sex your after, don't go to their house, have them come to yours..that way your in control and on yoir turf and when the deed is done, kick them out. None of these guys are prince charming or even half that.
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
If it's just sex you want, you domt need to be sleeping there. They don't need to be sleeping over yours either.
Do it to them next time, tell them.to leave. I've done that before, the look on their face is priceless I swear!!
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Geesh!
Posted by KittenLaRougeIf you wouldn't have him at your house, you shouldn't be sleeping with him.Posted by GreenteaNO WAY i would have this douchebag to my house thank goodness i didntPosted by KittenLaRougeWell if it's just sex your after, don't go to their house, have them come to yours..that way your in control and on yoir turf and when the deed is done, kick them out. None of these guys are prince charming or even half that.
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
If it's just sex you want, you domt need to be sleeping there. They don't need to be sleeping over yours either.
Do it to them next time, tell them.to leave. I've done that before, the look on their face is priceless I swear!!
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Geesh!
Posted by truecapAlso it explains why she attracts people aged 40-50s or something like that from her past threadsPosted by KittenLaRougeYou're 23. How is it possible you had a "very special" relationship for EIGHT years? You were a kid during most of that time.Posted by ShadowAbsorberi was with one person for almost 8 years committed,, what we had was very special. i have had nothing but this ^^^ since. i feel like i had "my relationship" and that's it. i can't find it again. maybe its me? i don't know thus the thread.Posted by KittenLaRougeYeah, girl. They're always acting like they want a relationship up until the sex, then suddenly it's like you're not even human and without any feelings. I've been there many times before.Posted by ShadowAbsorberthank you. i asked him MULTIPLE times do you just want sex just tell me i wont be mad and i meant it , he said no no no
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.
- just sayin'.click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspI think so tooPosted by SassyKiwiI think she is many people on here...Posted by aquapiscescuspWho's to stop her from slapping on a fake sign and age on the internet
she can't be a Cap, have I said this before?
more like a taurusclick to expand
APPARENTLY SHE'S BEEN 23 YEARS OLD ON THIS SITE FOR OVER 2 YEARS.
Posted by Vixen2Me, too! lol!Posted by PandalaLmao!!! I'm in the south...I know what you mean.
LOL @ 'mouth breather"
Bless her poor, sweet, little heart.click to expand
anyway, I have the opposite problem, I keep getting thrown back in bed 😉 struggles of life
Posted by KittenLaRougeGood grief. Just ignore him. Let him think you got kidnapped or something on the way to your car. Serves him right.Posted by Greenteadidnt say a thing. he has texted me three to four times "hey baby" since then. i told him multiples times "your will never have an opportunity to make me feel that way again, we are done"Posted by KittenLaRougeSo you told him it's over?...what was his response...Posted by Greenteawell i hope what he did sits well with him because we are over. he just text me this morning and i ignored him, i guess he doesnt get it that we are over after what he did i dont care if he had a meeting with the president in the morning a gentleman would not have done thatPosted by cuteboyJust because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.
everytime he text me i send that this morning i just ignored his textclick to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspShe is NOTHING like the rest of us.
she can't be a Cap, have I said this before?
Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.
Posted by HappyCapperShe is lying about her age.Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.click to expand
I just confirmed.
Her Pluto is in Libra.
She's in her 30s.
Posted by blackphase+1Posted by KittenLaRougeBut you don't.. You have admitted to being with guys strictly for sex. And the way you act on here, I can only imagine the way you are with these fellows. You can't really have expectations if you are only a side chick or not in a relationship with these guys. It's the law of attraction sweetie, you attract what you put out into this world. If you are going to act like a booty call that is all you will ever be.Posted by blackphaseya i have expectations to be treated right, sue mePosted by Vixen2She shouldn't be messing with anyone until she gets her shit together. She's extremely immature, and will only ever be a side chick at this rate. I mean the girl can't even hold down her position as a side chick cause she's so damn delusional and has so many expectations.
If you friggin continue to mess with that dude after this...then you have issues. Bury whatever feelings you have for him and keep it moving. No contact. I don't care what anyone says....you two have way different ideas on how a s/o should be treated. Even for a side chick...and let's just say he is THAT good of a player...dude is foul and that is some foul shit. He could of atleast walked her to her damn car at 3am if he was gonna make her leave...she is a female. Dude does not care about you...he's a damn liar if he says otherwise. Actions...actions..actions...
*smdh*
You can come on here and complain all day long but nothing will ever change until you look at yourself and start to assess where the problems are arising. Look at the title of this thread.. the last word is AGAIN, there is a repetition here, and the only person who is involved in every scenario is you. You are in the right place for self discovery, why not start looking into self development instead of getting hole stuffed. You don't ever seemed satisfied with any of these guys anyways, take some time to figure yourself out and what you really want. This is the most helpful advice you are going to receive on here and I am trying to not be a complete bitch about it. You expect the world from guys that you are not involved with, you do not make yourself appear as someone with a lot of value, that's why these guys treat you this way. You allow them to use you as a squeeze toy and that will never change until you place a higher value on yourself.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwiHow do you know?Posted by HappyCapperShe is lying about her age.Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.
I just confirmed.
Her Pluto is in Libra.
She's in her 30s.click to expand
Posted by HappyCapperShe posted her Pluto is square Neptune.Posted by SassyKiwiHow do you know?Posted by HappyCapperShe is lying about her age.Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.
I just confirmed.
Her Pluto is in Libra.
She's in her 30s.click to expand
They're both generational planets so it can only be one thing.
Pluto in Libra square Neptune in Capricorn.
She can't be Pluto in Scorpio as that's a sextile to Neptune in Capricorn. So she was born around 1984.
Posted by rampartsMy handy dandy scorp placements 😄Posted by SassyKiwiHow did you figure out her pluto? You're a better detective than mePosted by HappyCapperShe is lying about her age.Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.
I just confirmed.
Her Pluto is in Libra.
She's in her 30s.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwiSure, but she also posted that her age was 23...Posted by HappyCapperShe posted her Pluto is square Neptune.Posted by SassyKiwiHow do you know?Posted by HappyCapperShe is lying about her age.Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.
I just confirmed.
Her Pluto is in Libra.
She's in her 30s.
They're both generational planets so it can only be one thing.
Pluto in Libra square Neptune in Capricorn.
She can't be Pluto in Scorpio as that's a sextile to Neptune in Capricorn. So she was born around 1984.click to expand
Posted by HappyCapperPeople can lie about their age but it's hard to lie about aspects without getting caught. Someone called her out 2 years ago for being 23 for a while. She claimed she was too lazy to change her age.Posted by SassyKiwiSure, but she also posted that her age was 23...Posted by HappyCapperShe posted her Pluto is square Neptune.Posted by SassyKiwiHow do you know?Posted by HappyCapperShe is lying about her age.Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.
I just confirmed.
Her Pluto is in Libra.
She's in her 30s.
They're both generational planets so it can only be one thing.
Pluto in Libra square Neptune in Capricorn.
She can't be Pluto in Scorpio as that's a sextile to Neptune in Capricorn. So she was born around 1984.click to expand
If you understand generational planets and aspects, you know for a scientific fact she can't be younger than 30.
Posted by rampartsYeah, it makes complete sense if she's 31. Neptune in Capricorn was from 1984-1998. So she obviously can't be Neptune in Aquarius or else she'd be like 17. Pluto in Libra was from 1971-1984.
She's older than 31 though. Her Dad has been married to her stepmom for 37 years. Unless her Dad had an affair which is a possibility too
Posted by SassyKiwiOh, I believe she's lying, alright. I just think she sounds like an even older person, trying to sound younger. But idk.Posted by HappyCapperPeople can lie about their age but it's hard to lie about aspects without getting caught. Someone called her out 2 years ago for being 23 for a while. She claimed she was too lazy to change her age.Posted by SassyKiwiSure, but she also posted that her age was 23...Posted by HappyCapperShe posted her Pluto is square Neptune.Posted by SassyKiwiHow do you know?Posted by HappyCapperShe is lying about her age.Posted by rampartsWell, if she lies about her age, then who knows what else she's lying about. She might as well be a 43 y/o unemployed bored catlady virgin who is desperately trying to entertain herself here through us, for all we know.
I already cracked the mystery. We can all go home.
She's a 38-43 year old woman who pretends to be in her 20s online so she obviously has some insecurities about her age. She's bed hopping like she's still young and sleeping with pot heads in the hopes that it will turn into something meaningful.
This is what happens when you use your sexuality to lure men and never develop emotionally or intellectually enough to be able to attract anyone with something more than your coochie.
You're not the sex symbol you want to be anymore. Past a certain age it just becomes desperate and sad.
I just confirmed.
Her Pluto is in Libra.
She's in her 30s.
They're both generational planets so it can only be one thing.
Pluto in Libra square Neptune in Capricorn.
She can't be Pluto in Scorpio as that's a sextile to Neptune in Capricorn. So she was born around 1984.click to expand
Without getting caught? She did get caught. She's got caught in that and in so many different ways. If I am to believe what's been written here in this thread, she's not just a lier, but also a bad one. Trying to fool people about her age would definitely be a lie she had really thought about, but throwing out some aspect - any aspect - could be pretty easily done in the moment. I don't know how good or bad she is at astrology, but if she's not very good, she might not realise it was su
Posted by ramparts...or so she claims...
She's older than 31 though. Her Dad has been married to her stepmom for 37 years. Unless her Dad had an affair which is a possibility too
Posted by rampartsYes, I actually learned about orbs yesterday!Posted by SassyKiwiAre you taking into consideration that it could be a square by degree instead of sign? Just curious? Im not as good with aspects.Posted by rampartsYeah, it makes complete sense if she's 31. Neptune in Capricorn was from 1984-1998. So she obviously can't be Neptune in Aquarius or else she'd be like 17. Pluto in Libra was from 1971-1984.
She's older than 31 though. Her Dad has been married to her stepmom for 37 years. Unless her Dad had an affair which is a possibility tooclick to expand
If... She's older than 31, like in her 40s, that would mean she's a Pluto in Libra and Neptune in Sagittarius (which are sextiles), there is no other way it's possible to have her Pluto and Neptune square. Even if you factor in exact degrees, it would just put her at possibly being born at the border of 1984.
Maybe her older music tastes were influenced by her very old parents but it makes sense for someone to pose as 6-8 years younger than like 15 years.
Plus she's ridiculously sexually active and considers herself very young. It's fitting for a 31 year old I guess.
Posted by Vixen2In all fairness, I have a friend who listens to the music his mother played when he was a child, when he is down.Posted by rampartsI'm going to guess 40-44 because she posted yesterday that certain bands helped deal with lonliness...those bands are obscure and relevant to the 90's but even I was alittle to young to listen to Siouxie and the Banshees....
She's older than 31 though. Her Dad has been married to her stepmom for 37 years. Unless her Dad had an affair which is a possibility tooclick to expand
Posted by rampartsVenus in sag.. Are you positive that's her placement? Her venus is conjunct her Neptune. Omg she might be over 31. Cry I'm not that good with orbs. I need to do these calculations off my phone.Posted by HappyCapperSome things really don't make sense to lie about though. Lying about your age is one thing. Then she would have to lie about her placements because anyone who is into astrology know there are ways to tell a persons age by their placements.Posted by ramparts...or so she claims...
She's older than 31 though. Her Dad has been married to her stepmom for 37 years. Unless her Dad had an affair which is a possibility too
But lying about your dad and his marriage, what's the point of that? It could be lie but I think it's something she just let accidentally slip.
There are some things that she's always maintained. She's always said she is a dec 23 cap. And she also said she is a gem moon and sag Venus----those things do add up but not to the age she claims. With those placements she could never be under 27 years old.click to expand
Posted by rampartsIf she was reasonably good at astrology and wanted to lie about her age, why not just make a fake chart for that fake age and roll with it? Maybe she didn't think about that because she doesn't know much about astrology? Maybe? Idk, just speculating. How good is she? Do you know?Posted by HappyCapperSome things really don't make sense to lie about though. Lying about your age is one thing. Then she would have to lie about her placements because anyone who is into astrology know there are ways to tell a persons age by their placements.Posted by ramparts...or so she claims...
She's older than 31 though. Her Dad has been married to her stepmom for 37 years. Unless her Dad had an affair which is a possibility too
But lying about your dad and his marriage, what's the point of that? It could be lie but I think it's something she just let accidentally slip.
There are some things that she's always maintained. She's always said she is a dec 23 cap. And she also said she is a gem moon and sag Venus----those things do add up but not to the age she claims. With those placements she could never be under 27 years old.click to expand
And people who have a tendency to lie could easily lie about just anything, just to have something to say - to be noticed - however small the post may seem.
I totally agree she would be older than that.
Posted by rampartsLoool.
She changed her her air moon and rising both to water signs when the pisces came along.
I think I have enough information to test out a few charts. It's one thing to lie about your age and another go lie about your aspects to gain more understanding on them or whatever. A fake birth date would give you completely different, irrelevant aspects.
Posted by ramparts...meaning she's no stranger to lying about placements and aspects, so we could not be sure about that square either. Damn!
She changed her her air moon and rising both to water signs when the pisces came along.
Kitty!!! Some help here— Any input?
Posted by KittenLaRougeYou're a Gemini. Like your Taurean friends you wouldn't understand.Posted by MrFirebirdwhy?Posted by candycloudsIt's BOTH your faults.
Casual sex never ends well.. IT NEVER DOES. It's really not your fault. Everybody does this and then they reach a point where it hurts so much that they decide what they really want is a beautiful serious long term relationship with someone who loves them.
And sometimes people forget how crappy the casual period can be so if their long term relationship is over they just come back to it. Until it becomes unbearable again 😛
You just reached that point. That's all.
I have gone through the casual sex phase twice in my life. And I've been treated like a princess, and like crap(one guy left right after sex AND I KEPT SEEING THAT GUY FOR A FEW MORE WEEKS..THAT DESPERATE !??!! I know 😄 ).. sometimes it ended because they had a gf or I was jealous, and sometimes because they asked me to be their gf and I didn't want to.
All this craziness ends when you stop the casual sex stuff and become the 'I only do serious long term relationships' girl again. No sex until then might seems like no fun but there is no way around it. Just set some goals and dedicate your time and energy to perfect yourself until your next relationship- join the gym, be more social meet new people, learn new skills etc
good luck 😉
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such detectives
Posted by rampartsI get the same feeling. If I had to guess, not on the facts, but the feel I get from her posts, I'd say she's 40+. But again, idk. Just speculating.
Lying about being 31 doesn't make sense to me though. It means when she first started lying about 4 years ago she was only 27 pretending to be 23. The longer the lie went on the bigger the age gap gets.
I think she was already in her 30s she started lying about her age. Why would someone in their 20s lie about a couple years? It really makes no difference whatsoever.
Posted by rampartsYup. "The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especia"
Actually it looks like synastry aspects
Posted by ramparts"she's more of a caricature of a woman"Posted by HappyCapperShe's definitely closer to 40, I agree. She's not highly sexual...she's more of a caricature of a woman. She's overally sexualized but then still out of touch and clueless about a lot which would make sense for an older woman trying to live in a younger man's world. This isn't her generation and she can't adapt to casual sex. That's why she was upset when her 51 year old sag lover is chasing younger women online....because she's not younger anymore.Posted by rampartsI get the same feeling. If I had to guess, not on the facts, but the feel I get from her posts, I'd say she's 40+. But again, idk. Just speculating.
Lying about being 31 doesn't make sense to me though. It means when she first started lying about 4 years ago she was only 27 pretending to be 23. The longer the lie went on the bigger the age gap gets.
I think she was already in her 30s she started lying about her age. Why would someone in their 20s lie about a couple years? It really makes no difference whatsoever.
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Yes. That struck me too.
Maybe she just wishes she had all that sex and even the drama with the sag and the gem, just to be noticed. People's need to be noticed can be very strong, even if they have to catfish in order to make it happen. What's the most likely, imo, is that she mixed truth and lies, so I do believe there are some truth to some of her posts. I just wonder which ones.
Ya and maybe she is loving all this attention?
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