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Posted by balblair
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Something is wrong if this keeps happening to you...
No decent man would do this, decent as in his actions not his words signify you are in a relationship
Did you meet his family?Have his actions aligned with his words.
Where is your mom or an older wiser woman who would've sat you down and explained what a decent relationship looks like.
You coulvde been kidnapped or worse leaving a man's me at 2am...
Stop letting sex dictate your worth.
exactly
Posted by LuckyLibra979
O u just want some honesty. I completely understand my bad I thought u were bullshitting at first but him telling you y'all are in a relationship puts the blame on him but then again he was honest in saying he wanted to sleep alone but if he is making proclamations without convictions dust his ass n keep moving or you'll always be hit with a lame excusehaving sex and then having me leave felt AWFUL. omg i never felt so crappy walking to my car in the cold and 2 am and it was a walk. he didnt even walk me to the car. it was awful. never again. i felt like used garbage
O wow.........that's some disrespectful shit. Let him go he can play with his dick st night. No need to lie about a relationship for sex just be real
Sorry u had to go thru that
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thank you. i mean i made it clear, is this just casual? im fine if it is just LET ME KNOW. thats all i asked
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?If any man asked me to leave like that I'd laugh in their face and make myself comfortable.
Oooh no. I would leave, and when I say leave, I mean Leeeave! Fo evvva.
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I would too but after I've had my rest 🙂
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?If any man asked me to leave like that I'd laugh in their face and make myself comfortable.
Oooh no. I would leave, and when I say leave, I mean Leeeave! Fo evvva.
I would too but after I've had my rest 🙂
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Posted by Magenta_Azure
Also, its good to not put emotion into sex. Something so valuable shouldn't be associated with something so disgusting.
You, my dear, are clearly fucked.
Posted by GreyWiz
you have some childhood issues don't you? did you grow up without a father—you need to understand hoe men should treat a woman and how they should not. you have zero self wirth because of all this. you need a massive overhaul. though i feel you are toying with us now...............
why would you stay with a guy that constantly talks about power? the more i hear your story the more i think you are either blind to obvious or this is justa troll post.
you should have left immediaetly
i did leave immediately i put my clothes on and left without a word in about a min flat. i'm not toying or trolling. i liked this gem guy and i tried to make it work. the first date was great and then things were deteriorating to this. i'm thinking maybe and ex came back or something to have happened for this extreme change. i didn't allow myself to be treated bad. i left and called him out his bad behavior every time thinking he would get it but he didn't get it. and this last episode, the subject of the thread as being the ultimate end of things. he went from begging me to stay the night to asking me to leave. i cant help but thinking another female entered the pictured and it would have behooved him to just tell me as i asked him many time. i wouldn't have even been mad, i would have just left. i find it weird he had me many times to his house i could show up any time and cause problems even though i never would because hes not worth the hassle to me at this point.
Posted by faceroll
grey lots of people assume kitten is a catfish because of certain things that happened in the past. i've always liked her though. she's always been nice to me. i wish people wouldn't be such asshats to her.
thank you 🙂
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.thank you. i asked him MULTIPLE times do you just want sex just tell me i wont be mad and i meant it , he said no no no
Yeah, girl. They're always acting like they want a relationship up until the sex, then suddenly it's like you're not even human and without any feelings. I've been there many times before.
i was with one person for almost 8 years committed,, what we had was very special. i have had nothing but this ^^^ since. i feel like i had "my relationship" and that's it. i can't find it again. maybe its me? i don't know thus the thread.
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I understand that some unknowing people took this seriously, but even after this post? Really—? I am the only person who actually reads this persons threads AND does math. C'mon people. You should all know better....
Posted by GreyWiz
you have some childhood issues don't you? did you grow up without a father—you need to understand hoe men should treat a woman and how they should not. you have zero self wirth because of all this. you need a massive overhaul. though i feel you are toying with us now...............
why would you stay with a guy that constantly talks about power? the more i hear your story the more i think you are either blind to obvious or this is justa troll post.
you should have left immediaetly
i didn't allow myself to be treated bad. i left and called him out his bad behavior every time thinking he would get it but he didn't get it. and this last episode, the subject of the thread as being the ultimate end of things. he went from begging me to stay the night to asking me to leave. i cant help but thinking another female entered the pictured and it would have behooved him to just tell me as i asked him many time. i wouldn't have even been mad, i would have just left. i find it weird he had me many times to his house i could show up any time and cause problems even though i never would because hes not worth the hassle to me at this point.
This is a contradictory statement and it proves what i said before. His behavior has been bad for a while. You thought you were standing up for yourself by calling him out. You continued putting up with it until it got to a level of disrespect that caused you to leave for good which is what he wanted anyway.
Calling someone out is really just bitching and moaning. Standing up for yourself is leaving people alone who misbehave toward you. Next time leave at the first sign of disrespect instead of sticking around letting them prove just how disrespectful they can be.
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Leave for good,? Then why does he keep texting me when I said we are over. Dude is a gemini nut case
Idk sweetie, maybe it's to good how kinky do u get maybe u made them feel a bit uncomfortable
Posted by Magenta_Azure
Also, its good to not put emotion into sex. Something so valuable shouldn't be associated with something so disgusting.You, my dear, are clearly fucked.
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Mmmmkaaayyyyy
Forget those piles of shit and find someone worth your time and energy. Play them a bit, don't get too serious into it until you know for sure. If he is worth keeping then allow him in your life. If not, kick him in a hole like this is Sparta. In nature, the female chooses the best male to be her mate. Guys who won't stick with you are weakling little sissies and don't deserve the privilege of being with you.
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.thank you. i asked him MULTIPLE times do you just want sex just tell me i wont be mad and i meant it , he said no no no
Yeah, girl. They're always acting like they want a relationship up until the sex, then suddenly it's like you're not even human and without any feelings. I've been there many times before.
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Kitten and you are the same person... Maybe?
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
what makes you think you're dating? You're not dating. Your the hit it and send that bitch home girl.
Some guys will say anything to get you into bed, I will marry you, I want a relationship...
Lol
Posted by Koniucha
Why does everyone say she is a catfish?
Because she had a picture of a woman as her avatar and claimed it was her.
When reverse image searched, that woman is happily married to some dude and NOT kitten la rouge.
Also she's been 23 for the last...6 years now?
Posted by Koniucha
Why does everyone say she is a catfish?Because she had a picture of a woman as her avatar and claimed it was her.
When reverse image searched, that woman is happily married to some dude and NOT kitten la rouge.
Also she's been 23 for the last...6 years now?
Lol ok. I get it now
on her previous account:
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Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
God no! That's horrible.... So sorry for you. I've actually got up n left immediately bc I just wanted a dude for sex and he felt used but that's been years.
Posted by Koniucha
Why does everyone say she is a catfish?Because she had a picture of a woman as her avatar and claimed it was her.
When reverse image searched, that woman is happily married to some dude and NOT kitten la rouge.
Also she's been 23 for the last...6 years now?
Lol ok. I get it now
on her previous account:
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Eewww look at that layout!!!
No like feature? No emojis !
The horror!!!! ¢¢¢
Posted by Koniucha
Why does everyone say she is a catfish?
If you read her posts, in the last 30 days alone she has claimed to be in an 8 year committed relationship AND a 5 year relationship with a black man (her words)....so she's been in committed relationships since she was 10.
Oh, not to mention the numerous times her sex stories contradict everything she says. 2mos ago she was sleeping with a Sagittarius and a Pisces.
Posted by Koniucha
Why does everyone say she is a catfish?If you read her posts, in the last 30 days alone she has claimed to be in an 8 year committed relationship AND a 5 year relationship with a black man (her words)....so she's been in committed relationships since she was 10.
Oh, not to mention the numerous times her sex stories contradict everything she says. 2mos ago she was sleeping with a Sagittarius and a Pisces.
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When I read the opening post, I was expecting a storm with comments......... 15 pages later it was still mainly supportive and good advise....... even if it was an irony and a jab (some people who post here are real nutcases, so I thought it was irony from the beginning)
BUT:
catfish or not, trolling or not, the problem is real and the answers showed dxp at its best 🙂 or was it playing along with friends?
as I said, it doesnt matter, because all these pages was a really nice read and supportive..... maybe somebody out there needed it? you know what I mean
I only read the first page ... and "no" I don't know how it feels to be repeatedly kicked out of the bed to go home.
Considering that this only happens after the deed and the guy can't get sleep with you there .... the only logical conclusion is that you're a mouth breather with skank breath.
Posted by ramparts
Was he bad in bed?not the first night, he was great. but then he got real sloppy, little to no foreplay no kissing just screwing. is this the gemini split personality? i mean really i dont know who his is anymore its like a whole different person has emerged
Never slept with a gem. I made out with one once and he had horrible breath
lol. maybe im a side chick and don't know it. i mean i could easily show up at his house anytime. i also told hey if i am let me know i wont be mad and he said no no no
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You told him you'd be fine with being the side chick??!
No wonder he's treating you like a hit it and quit it and kicking you out of his bed. Your not demanding more and sending him signals (saying even) that your ok with being treated that way.
Side chicks don't get to cuddle after sex, spend the night, or get breakfast in bed the next morning. Side chicks are who you call when your other options fall through and your looking to deposit your load.
You say you wait a month before you sleep with these guys. That really won't effect how they treat you. A guy you sleep with on the first date can just as easily fuck you over if you wait till the 10th date. The key here is to qualify these guys, for yourself and for them, before you get physical.
LOL @ 'mouth breather"
Bless her poor, sweet, little heart.
Block their numbers and date a Cancer.
Posted by Finbuff
I hesitated to say this, but I think it offers a different perspective. I have actually suggested for women to leave in the middle of the night, but I did do it nicely and tactfully. It's all in the delivery, and the reason for the suggestion. Personally, I just don't sleep all that well with someone I don't know intimately, It may take many months or even years to know someone that well. (sensitive Cancer) If you have to work the next day in a high pressure environment where performing at your optimal intellectual level is required, proper sleep is s necessity. It sounds more like HOW the guy asked you to leave, than the fact he actually did. What exactly did he say when he asked you do leave him alone? I would always walk the lady to her car, so it's pretty rude he didn't do that.
The only time I would possibly accept that would be if I really knew the guy, the delivery was great...AND if the subject was brought to my attention well in advance(like, yes, you are welcome to come over, but I have to warn you, I have an early day tomorrow, so you can't spend the night. Is that allright with you?). No delivery in the world would suffice if they would inform me of this suddenly after I slept with them.
Posted by Magenta_Azure
I think it's weird to stay around after you fuck. Idk I'm pretty hoeish tho.Anyways, there is no valid excuse for their behavior. Nope, in reality it doesn't matter how long you wait to screw. Nope, it doesn't matter that you act like a lady. At the end of the day these guys are pieces of shit. I would sit them down and have a conversation about how their treatment makes you feel. If they seem indifferent or don't seem interested in talking then I'd suggest you bounce.
Men are like busses and train. There's another one already waiting.
really you dont cuddle. but the rest of what you said i agree with
Yeah. I don't like lingering. Too much room for a power play like..... Him kicking you out for no reason. Not saying that you should adopt my mental, but I never cuddle, pillow talk, or text my FWB (unless its about dick). As soon as I walk in the door I usually ask, " why are you wearing clothes?". I don't care about your day, you kids, your job. Drop you pants and fuck me so I can leave N go shopping. Period.
Im like this because when I was younger and first getting into sex I had learned the hard way that men are allowed to treat women like shit with no repercussions. If you walk into a FWB as a human being you will get mistreated. Men treat women like shit because they can. People never check men when they are disrespectful or hateful towards women. People always make excuses and assume that its just in their nature. Men are not held responsible for their actions. So when they inevitably fuck you over its always going to be your fault, no matter preventative measures you took (waiting to have sex, acting 'classy', ect.).
Take your emotions out of sex and enjoy it for what it really is. A bodily exchange between two human beings. Sex can be more than just that, but the society we live in doesn't allow for it.
im a cancer moon i cant subract emotion from sex, its doesnt even compute. however what you said about power is interesting. this gemini talks alot about "power. i have the power you have the power. POWER is a very dominant topic of conversation with this guy when it comes to he and i. it's weird
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This is why I tell you, always be in your home, they cant have any power there. I can also understand why you wouldn't to take them there though.
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.
Just because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
Posted by Finbuff
I hesitated to say this, but I think it offers a different perspective. I have actually suggested for women to leave in the middle of the night, but I did do it nicely and tactfully. It's all in the delivery, and the reason for the suggestion. Personally, I just don't sleep all that well with someone I don't know intimately, It may take many months or even years to know someone that well. (sensitive Cancer) If you have to work the next day in a high pressure environment where performing at your optimal intellectual level is required, proper sleep is s necessity. It sounds more like HOW the guy asked you to leave, than the fact he actually did. What exactly did he say when he asked you do leave him alone? I would always walk the lady to her car, so it's pretty rude he didn't do that.
he said would i be ok if i slept alone tonight ive got to get sleep and i said huh? you want me to leave and he said ya then i had to walk a good five minutes to my car at 3 am by myself and it was cold it bothered me enough that i broke it off with him
Posted by Pandala
LOL @ 'mouth breather"Bless her poor, sweet, little heart.
Lmao!!! I'm in the south...I know what you mean.
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My family comes from the South, I'm currently in the Midwest but my "country" shows now and again. Backhanded compliments galore lol
Posted by ramparts
Was he bad in bed?not the first night, he was great. but then he got real sloppy, little to no foreplay no kissing just screwing. is this the gemini split personality? i mean really i dont know who his is anymore its like a whole different person has emerged
Never slept with a gem. I made out with one once and he had horrible breath
lol. maybe im a side chick and don't know it. i mean i could easily show up at his house anytime. i also told hey if i am let me know i wont be mad and he said no no no
You told him you'd be fine with being the side chick??!
No wonder he's treating you like a hit it and quit it and kicking you out of his bed. Your not demanding more and sending him signals (saying even) that your ok with being treated that way.
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no i DID NOT SAY i would be ok with it. i just simply asked him to be honest about so i could make a logical decision on what to do the pisces was very honest from the jump
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?what makes you think you're dating? You're not dating. Your the hit it and send that bitch home girl.
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he SAID were were dating and i was not to see anyone else nor would he i didnt pull that out of my ass
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.
he said he wanted to sleep alone he has to get up at 730 to work but we can just "sleep" together so i too high offense
Posted by KittenLaRouge
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?God no! That's horrible.... So sorry for you. I've actually got up n left immediately bc I just wanted a dude for sex and he felt used but that's been years.
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it was horrible
Posted by ashley1734
Block their numbers and date a Cancer.
uggh the cancer in know at work is a nice guy but ughh, he gets drunk every night and lives with roomates and is 45 the think is he seems happily stuck in his college days he clings to his youth he is SO not what i want. plus he isnt black and i like black men but i am re thinking that
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.Just because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
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well i hope what he did sits well with him because we are over. he just text me this morning and i ignored him, i guess he doesnt get it that we are over after what he did i dont care if he had a meeting with the president in the morning a gentleman would not have done that
I would at least let you sleep there on my bed as long as you'd like or I would move to the couch if I were that picky and let you have the bed. Everything about what he did to you was unethical.
Posted by ashley1734
Block their numbers and date a Cancer.hell naw.
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+1
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.Just because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
well i hope what he did sits well with him because we are over. he just text me this morning and i ignored him, i guess he doesnt get it that we are over after what he did i dont care if he had a meeting with the president in the morning a gentleman would not have done that
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So you told him it's over?...what was his response...
Posted by Aquistorm
I would at least let you sleep there on my bed as long as you'd like or I would move to the couch if I were that picky and let you have the bed. Everything about what he did to you was unethical.
exactly which i why i ended it. i felt very, very bad walking to my car, the lowest of the low. no one should be made to feel that way especially someone you are dating
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.Just because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
well i hope what he did sits well with him because we are over. he just text me this morning and i ignored him, i guess he doesnt get it that we are over after what he did i dont care if he had a meeting with the president in the morning a gentleman would not have done that
So you told him it's over?...what was his response...
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didnt say a thing. he has texted me three to four times "hey baby" since then. i told him multiples times "your will never have an opportunity to make me feel that way again, we are done"
everytime he text me i send that this morning i just ignored his text
Posted by Vixen2
If you friggin continue to mess with that dude after this...then you have issues. Bury whatever feelings you have for him and keep it moving. No contact. I don't care what anyone says....you two have way different ideas on how a s/o should be treated. Even for a side chick...and let's just say he is THAT good of a player...dude is foul and that is some foul shit. He could of atleast walked her to her damn car at 3am if he was gonna make her leave...she is a female. Dude does not care about you...he's a damn liar if he says otherwise. Actions...actions..actions...*smdh*
She shouldn't be messing with anyone until she gets her shit together. She's extremely immature, and will only ever be a side chick at this rate. I mean the girl can't even hold down her position as a side chick cause she's so damn delusional and has so many expectations.
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ya i have expectations to be treated right, sue me
Posted by Vixen2
If you friggin continue to mess with that dude after this...then you have issues. Bury whatever feelings you have for him and keep it moving. No contact. I don't care what anyone says....you two have way different ideas on how a s/o should be treated. Even for a side chick...and let's just say he is THAT good of a player...dude is foul and that is some foul shit. He could of atleast walked her to her damn car at 3am if he was gonna make her leave...she is a female. Dude does not care about you...he's a damn liar if he says otherwise. Actions...actions..actions...*smdh*
i agree and i dont know if im a side chick he went from making out with me to now he wont kiss me on the lips he only lets me kiss him on the cheek
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.Just because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
well i hope what he did sits well with him because we are over. he just text me this morning and i ignored him, i guess he doesnt get it that we are over after what he did i dont care if he had a meeting with the president in the morning a gentleman would not have done that
So you told him it's over?...what was his response...
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his actions feel like there is another chick even tho he swears up and down. my friend said his "other chick" is weed but im not buying it
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.Just because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
well i hope what he did sits well with him because we are over. he just text me this morning and i ignored him, i guess he doesnt get it that we are over after what he did i dont care if he had a meeting with the president in the morning a gentleman would not have done that
So you told him it's over?...what was his response...
didnt say a thing. he has texted me three to four times "hey baby" since then. i told him multiples times "your will never have an opportunity to make me feel that way again, we are done"
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Good, put him on ignore, ice him out and move on. Feck him.
Posted by ramparts
Was he bad in bed?not the first night, he was great. but then he got real sloppy, little to no foreplay no kissing just screwing. is this the gemini split personality? i mean really i dont know who his is anymore its like a whole different person has emerged
Never slept with a gem. I made out with one once and he had horrible breath
lol. maybe im a side chick and don't know it. i mean i could easily show up at his house anytime. i also told hey if i am let me know i wont be mad and he said no no no
You told him you'd be fine with being the side chick??!
No wonder he's treating you like a hit it and quit it and kicking you out of his bed. Your not demanding more and sending him signals (saying even) that your ok with being treated that way.
no i DID NOT SAY i would be ok with it. i just simply asked him to be honest about so i could make a logical decision on what to do the pisces was very honest from the jump
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YOU said to him "hey if I am (side chick) let me know, I won't be mad"
Telling him you won't be mad = okay with being a side chick. At least that's how it comes off to me and also to him, and most anyone else I'm guessing.
The problem here might be how your communicating with these dudes...
Posted by cuteboy
i dunno. it all seems fake to me. i mean what man in his right state of mind would kick a woman out the bed? unless he's gay and prefer to sleep with a man of course.Just because.you're not like that, doesn't mean others aren't. There are real POS out there.
well i hope what he did sits well with him because we are over. he just text me this morning and i ignored him, i guess he doesnt get it that we are over after what he did i dont care if he had a meeting with the president in the morning a gentleman would not have done that
So you told him it's over?...what was his response...
didnt say a thing. he has texted me three to four times "hey baby" since then. i told him multiples times "your will never have an opportunity to make me feel that way again, we are done"
everytime he text me i send that this morning i just ignored his textGood, put him on ignore, ice him out and move on. Feck him.
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i really liked certain parts of him so im disappointed. but the being ask to leave hurt too much for me. ill never go back to him.
Posted by ramparts
Was he bad in bed?not the first night, he was great. but then he got real sloppy, little to no foreplay no kissing just screwing. is this the gemini split personality? i mean really i dont know who his is anymore its like a whole different person has emerged
Never slept with a gem. I made out with one once and he had horrible breath
lol. maybe im a side chick and don't know it. i mean i could easily show up at his house anytime. i also told hey if i am let me know i wont be mad and he said no no no
You told him you'd be fine with being the side chick??!
No wonder he's treating you like a hit it and quit it and kicking you out of his bed. Your not demanding more and sending him signals (saying even) that your ok with being treated that way.
no i DID NOT SAY i would be ok with it. i just simply asked him to be honest about so i could make a logical decision on what to do the pisces was very honest from the jump
YOU said to him "hey if I am (side chick) let me know, I won't be mad"
Telling him you won't be mad = okay with being a side chick. At least that's how it comes off to me and also to him, and most anyone else I'm guessing.
The problem here might be how your communicating with these dudes...
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i wouldnt be mad. i would leave. why give a guy an ego boost and get all upset over it. i would have simply said "cool, bye" but the fact that he NOW wont kiss me is suspect
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Www.baggagereclaim.com
Very useful site.
Something is wrong if this keeps happening to you...
No decent man would do this, decent as in his actions not his words signify you are in a relationship
Did you meet his family?
Have his actions aligned with his words.
Where is your mom or an older wiser woman who would've sat you down and explained what a decent relationship looks like.
You coulvde been kidnapped or worse leaving a man's me at 2am...
Stop letting sex dictate your worth.