Posted by EvoxxxscorpioNOT on the first date bro! LOL!Posted by poison_ivyLol a lot of females be judgin a guy if he doesn't pay on a first date lol what's wrong with splitting the bill does that make the guy cheap?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioThat's why you're my bro... great minds think alike. 🙂Posted by poison_ivyLol this is what I'm trying to say.
I don't expect a man to pay for everything... However... when I pull my wallet out he gives me a look like... "I got this.." Every single TIM! I think a man respects a woman that doesn't rely on him for everything... but a good man is okay with spending on his lady.click to expand
Posted by MiZLeoI've been poor too, but I don't call guys cheap because they can't afford something. There's a difference between not having enough cash and being cheap, you ignorant cunt.Posted by rockyroadicecreamDon't take me out if you can't afford it. Take me out and do something you can afford or some kind of alternative. OR maybe discuss with me ahead of time if you want to go Dutch. But don't take me out and expect me to pay when you can't afford it yourself. That's a loser or cheap. I've been poor. I've had to decide on food or bills. I married a poor man. If you can't fit the bill to take me out and make me feel like a lady then don't expect me to treat you like a man. I think it has more to do with class than having money. If he can't afford it....hey... I'd love a free movie in the park and a $ 2 hot dog. As long as I'm not asked out and then told to pay. You fig it out you're taking me out. Like I said.... I'll pay when I take you out.Posted by MiZLeoThis says a lot about you honey, and it's not flattering.
Also, it tells me if he is cheap or a loser with no money.
You're just as much of a loser as he is with this mindset. Stay away from dating you loser.
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioMy philosophy on a first date, because you don't know if it works, always go dutch. lolPosted by poison_ivyLol a lot of females be judgin a guy if he doesn't pay on a first date lol what's wrong with splitting the bill does that make the guy cheap?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioThat's why you're my bro... great minds think alike. 🙂Posted by poison_ivyLol this is what I'm trying to say.
I don't expect a man to pay for everything... However... when I pull my wallet out he gives me a look like... "I got this.." Every single TIM! I think a man respects a woman that doesn't rely on him for everything... but a good man is okay with spending on his lady.click to expand
Posted by rektAgree 100%
it's usually millennial men who are too butthurt about feeling taken advantage of to want to pay for a first date. i don't usually see older men having an issue with it. it's always been that way. man pays to show interest. locks woman down. relationship happens. then they trade off who pays what.
but netflix and chill dudes want free sex and no commitment so why should they have to court a woman and show actual interest?
smdh.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHoorPosted by nikkistarLol funny thing is I already know there won't be a second date once I get to see that person.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioMy philosophy on a first date, because you don't know if it works, always go dutch. lolPosted by poison_ivyLol a lot of females be judgin a guy if he doesn't pay on a first date lol what's wrong with splitting the bill does that make the guy cheap?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioThat's why you're my bro... great minds think alike. 🙂Posted by poison_ivyLol this is what I'm trying to say.
I don't expect a man to pay for everything... However... when I pull my wallet out he gives me a look like... "I got this.." Every single TIM! I think a man respects a woman that doesn't rely on him for everything... but a good man is okay with spending on his lady.click to expand
Posted by rektTrue. You see the most whining coming from the entitled generation. They know nothing of common courtesy, consideration, and just doing shit to be nice. Everything revolves around self and what they get out of it.
it's usually millennial men who are too butthurt about feeling taken advantage of to want to pay for a first date. i don't usually see older men having an issue with it. it's always been that way. man pays to show interest. locks woman down. relationship happens. then they trade off who pays what.
but netflix and chill dudes want free sex and no commitment so why should they have to court a woman and show actual interest?
smdh.
Posted by aquarius_beautyYou poor, dumb child.Posted by rockyroadicecreamIf you're ok with being a sugar momma that's on you. I'm not initially paying for a man until he shows interest in me, part of that is paying on the first date. But again, I figure you either didn't read what I initially wrote or you lack comprehension skills. I'm assuming it's the latter.
It is. You both come across as gold diggers.
"He's cheap."
Yeah, so are you if this is your mindset with dating. Cheapskates insist on others paying for them out of entitlement.click to expand
Posted by Evoxxxscorpiolike I said hoorPosted by nikkistarLol so before I'm judged as being cheap you're already nextedPosted by EvoxxxscorpioMy philosophy on a first date, because you don't know if it works, always go dutch. lolPosted by poison_ivyLol a lot of females be judgin a guy if he doesn't pay on a first date lol what's wrong with splitting the bill does that make the guy cheap?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioThat's why you're my bro... great minds think alike. 🙂Posted by poison_ivyLol this is what I'm trying to say.
I don't expect a man to pay for everything... However... when I pull my wallet out he gives me a look like... "I got this.." Every single TIM! I think a man respects a woman that doesn't rely on him for everything... but a good man is okay with spending on his lady.click to expand
Posted by HareIt's tacos, that means she is into you if she pays.Posted by ChrisIsKodakWhat about tacos from the truck parked at Home Depot?Posted by HareBreakfeast and lunch means shes not that into you.
Okay so what if it's breakfast or lunch, and not dinner?
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Posted by HareNoPosted by ChrisIsKodakTacos for dinner = No butt secks laterPosted by Haremeans shes likes to give tuggies for ciggies.Posted by ChrisIsKodakWhat about tacos from the truck parked at Home Depot?Posted by HareBreakfeast and lunch means shes not that into you.
Okay so what if it's breakfast or lunch, and not dinner?
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Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Posted by EnochtheWiseBut why is it okay to even label a man "cheap"? Why does society have to place labels on a man in this way because of this particular reason? Why is not paying for a dinner offensive?Posted by aquarius_beautyI have to agree with this. I think generally, the societal standard is still that the man pays, so just the fact that a guy would want to go against the grain on that and risk offending the woman, looking cheap/broke, etc., even if he doesn't accept the standard, would be alarming to me. Why take that risk, unless he really is cheap or broke? lol...maybe that is a sexist or old-fashioned view, but I think most women still would prefer that a man demonstrate generosity in this regard...
I'm going to go based on traditional and double standards here ... so... WARNING
I believe a man should pay on the first date because it shows he has #1 interest and #2 he's not a cheap skate.
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Posted by ChrisIsKodakI am severely questioning why I associate with you, right now.Posted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakI don't know if I want to be your friend anymore. Your brand of cooties is dangerous.Posted by nikkistarYou're just a battered taco wife.Posted by ChrisIsKodakI am severely questioning why I associate with you, right now.Posted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU SABRINA.
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Posted by ChrisIsKodakTbh, all these stipulations that people keep posting are irrelevant. It depends on the situation, tbh.Posted by HareBreakfeast and lunch means shes not that into you.
Okay so what if it's breakfast or lunch, and not dinner?click to expand
Posted by Hare#nodairy #lookmaxing
If the taco isn't made with an entire pizza as the shell, then fuck you.
Posted by ChrisIsKodakHeh... 😄Posted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.click to expand
Posted by tizianiSee this is why Niziani lives! lmao
If I want to prove myself as a provider and protector, I go out there into the woods and hunt the wild tacos myself.
Posted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Posted by tiziani
I never dated so my opinion is useless.
As far as being "well raised" goes, I was raised on: When I ask someone out to eat (whether friends or lovers) I pay, no problem. Keeps it simple.
The one thing I want to avoid is talking about splitting the bill. It's just awkward.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamlmao whaaaaatPosted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakYou have not lived in Cali long enough, dear. You'll learn soon enough.Posted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.click to expand
Posted by AfternoonDelights22Right??Posted by rockyroadicecreamlmao whaaaaatPosted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
Yeah thats ridiculousclick to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamOh don't even get me started on this.Posted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou really doPosted by AfternoonDelights22Right??Posted by rockyroadicecreamlmao whaaaaatPosted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
Yeah thats ridiculous
In regard to dating- the guy butting in and ordering his food first. Either that, or "I'M READY!!" when she clearly isn't. I'm like omg run bitch, run.
You learn SO much about people while serving.click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakWatch me block you. lolPosted by nikkistarhaha. His name is Garry.Posted by rockyroadicecreamOh don't even get me started on this.Posted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
My bestfriend, Garry, his wife's bridesmaids had her paying for her own spa shit at the bachlorette party. She paid for her own nails and all this stuff. Didn't even offer to pay for hers collectively.
Then one of those assholes, had the nerve to question if I actually paid for their honeymoon as a wedding present. I literally had to do a screenshare and check them into the cruise as she watched, because the stupid hoor kept saying I wouldn't pay that for them. Totally ruined it, cause I wanted them to do it as a couple and pick what they wanted to do together, not with me as an interloper.
I hate these folks.
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Posted by nikkistarPeople are such dicks. I had two sets of friends. Some out this way, and some out in the OC. I had two separate birthday things with these groups. The OC group- I paid for everything when we went out. Overall, was a lackluster celebration (needless to say, that group has been one I don't associate with anymore because that was just the tip of the iceberg with that self absorbed group).Posted by rockyroadicecreamOh don't even get me started on this.Posted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
My bestfriend, Garry, his wife's bridesmaids had her paying for her own spa shit at the bachlorette party. She paid for her own nails and all this stuff. Didn't even offer to pay for hers collectively.
Then one of those assholes, had the nerve to question if I actually paid for their honeymoon as a wedding present. I literally had to do a screenshare and check them into the cruise as she watched, because the stupid hoor kept saying I wouldn't pay that for them. Totally ruined it, cause I wanted them to do it as a couple and pick what they wanted to do together, not with me as an interloper.
I hate these folks.
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Posted by AfternoonDelights22I usually see that in certain cultures, or really older couples, but when it's a very American couple, it's like dafuq? IS SHE MUTE? I don't understand here.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou really doPosted by AfternoonDelights22Right??Posted by rockyroadicecreamlmao whaaaaatPosted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
Yeah thats ridiculous
In regard to dating- the guy butting in and ordering his food first. Either that, or "I'M READY!!" when she clearly isn't. I'm like omg run bitch, run.
You learn SO much about people while serving.
and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is thatclick to expand
Posted by EnochtheWiseHow about neither? How bout society not even label it. I can understand calling someone cheap, that acts cheap. Example. is a millionaire, and takes you to McDonald's on a first date, and makes you still pay for it. That's cheap.Posted by nikkistarWell, what else could it be, besides cheap or broke? Give me some more options...Posted by EnochtheWiseBut why is it okay to even label a man "cheap"? Why does society have to place labels on a man in this way because of this particular reason? Why is not paying for a dinner offensive?Posted by aquarius_beautyI have to agree with this. I think generally, the societal standard is still that the man pays, so just the fact that a guy would want to go against the grain on that and risk offending the woman, looking cheap/broke, etc., even if he doesn't accept the standard, would be alarming to me. Why take that risk, unless he really is cheap or broke? lol...maybe that is a sexist or old-fashioned view, but I think most women still would prefer that a man demonstrate generosity in this regard...
I'm going to go based on traditional and double standards here ... so... WARNING
I believe a man should pay on the first date because it shows he has #1 interest and #2 he's not a cheap skate.
This does not make sense to me.click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.click to expand
Posted by BlackburnI want to like this a million times.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
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Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamrofl I just remember one particular instance. Cuz I was used to asking the a person specifically if they needed something and even after he ordered for her I kept forgetting so when I would ask her a question about something she may need, he kept answering. It was just so awkward. :sPosted by AfternoonDelights22I usually see that in certain cultures, or really older couples, but when it's a very American couple, it's like dafuq? IS SHE MUTE? I don't understand here.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou really doPosted by AfternoonDelights22Right??Posted by rockyroadicecreamlmao whaaaaatPosted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
Yeah thats ridiculous
In regard to dating- the guy butting in and ordering his food first. Either that, or "I'M READY!!" when she clearly isn't. I'm like omg run bitch, run.
You learn SO much about people while serving.
and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is thatclick to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakYou lost about 1021381293 attractive points for me, when you said "hard tacos iz the bestz"Posted by BlackburnYou just don't know GREATNESS.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
----
Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
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Posted by ChrisIsKodak#friendzonedPosted by nikkistarThey are the michael jordan of tacos.Posted by ChrisIsKodakYou lost about 1021381293 attractive points for me, when you said "hard tacos iz the bestz"Posted by BlackburnYou just don't know GREATNESS.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
----
Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodak#lookmaxingfailPosted by nikkistar#respectzonedPosted by ChrisIsKodak#friendzonedPosted by nikkistarThey are the michael jordan of tacos.Posted by ChrisIsKodakYou lost about 1021381293 attractive points for me, when you said "hard tacos iz the bestz"Posted by BlackburnYou just don't know GREATNESS.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
----
Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
click to expand
Posted by nikkistarPosted by BlackburnI want to like this a million times.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
----
Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by BlackburnYou just don't know GREATNESS.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
----
Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
click to expand
Posted by AfternoonDelights22People are freaks. I say it at least once a week.Posted by rockyroadicecreamrofl I just remember one particular instance. Cuz I was used to asking the a person specifically if they needed something and even after he ordered for her I kept forgetting so when I would ask her a question about something she may need, he kept answering. It was just so awkward. :sPosted by AfternoonDelights22I usually see that in certain cultures, or really older couples, but when it's a very American couple, it's like dafuq? IS SHE MUTE? I don't understand here.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou really doPosted by AfternoonDelights22Right??Posted by rockyroadicecreamlmao whaaaaatPosted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
Yeah thats ridiculous
In regard to dating- the guy butting in and ordering his food first. Either that, or "I'M READY!!" when she clearly isn't. I'm like omg run bitch, run.
You learn SO much about people while serving.
and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is thatclick to expand
Posted by nikkistarOnly when they're potato tacos is it acceptable to tout hard tacos.Posted by ChrisIsKodakYou lost about 1021381293 attractive points for me, when you said "hard tacos iz the bestz"Posted by BlackburnYou just don't know GREATNESS.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
----
Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
click to expand
Posted by EnochtheWiseThis is the issue I have. I am not saying that paying is the issue. If a man makes the decision to pay, okay, that's fine, but if he chooses to want to go Dutch, that should be fine as well.
societal expectation
Posted by Infinite8SHHHHH. I need to keep him on his toes. Don't be using logic. He's a bit slow. Even thought @EnochtheWise was a girl. You pointing this out, means he will figure it out.Posted by nikkistarI thought he was ALWAYS on that zone? ?Posted by ChrisIsKodak#friendzonedPosted by nikkistarThey are the michael jordan of tacos.Posted by ChrisIsKodakYou lost about 1021381293 attractive points for me, when you said "hard tacos iz the bestz"Posted by BlackburnYou just don't know GREATNESS.Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by nikkistarMerica tacos are the best.Posted by ChrisIsKodakGross Americanized "mexican".
Soft tacos are for losers.
Hard shells for lyfe.
Soft Tacos are just tacos with ED.
----
Your taco ignorance surprises me.
I'm just waiting for sb mexican to slap you in the face
with a real taco. ¬¬
click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamahhh peoplePosted by AfternoonDelights22People are freaks. I say it at least once a week.Posted by rockyroadicecreamrofl I just remember one particular instance. Cuz I was used to asking the a person specifically if they needed something and even after he ordered for her I kept forgetting so when I would ask her a question about something she may need, he kept answering. It was just so awkward. :sPosted by AfternoonDelights22I usually see that in certain cultures, or really older couples, but when it's a very American couple, it's like dafuq? IS SHE MUTE? I don't understand here.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou really doPosted by AfternoonDelights22Right??Posted by rockyroadicecreamlmao whaaaaatPosted by AfternoonDelights22You know what I see a lot of?
I'd rather do it but Im not gonna argue about it. If they give me the cliche "you're not paying for mine" I will prolly say yes I am once, but after that then she can just pay for whatever portion she wants.
I used to wait tables and sometimes saw couples get into legit squabbles about who would be paying. Idk who has time for that crap. Arguing in public is the worst. Libra moon would rather die.
Birthday people paying for the entire dinner.
"WE'RE OUT CELEBRATING. IT'S HIS/HER BIRTHDAY LOL!!!"
*watches birthday person pay for themselves or the entire table*
... It makes me sad.
Yeah thats ridiculous
In regard to dating- the guy butting in and ordering his food first. Either that, or "I'M READY!!" when she clearly isn't. I'm like omg run bitch, run.
You learn SO much about people while serving.
and the guys that even order for the girl lolol wtf even is that
"Hi, how's everyone do-"
*shoves spoon at me* "THIS IS DIRTY."
...okay. Hello to you to you rude cunt. Jfc.click to expand
Posted by EnochtheWiseI guess I am slightly different than you because I don't necessarily care about making a good impression with someone based on monetary actions. My group of friends, we alternate paying for the entire group. One person happens to not really have funds readily available, and we always pay for her cause of her circumstances. And I don't even care if she offers to pay. That's just us though.Posted by nikkistarI think its pretty common for us Scorps to really not care about societal norms. And truthfully, I don't. I'm more concerned, in the case of a first date especially, that maybe the person I'm eating with does accept those norms, and so I want to accommodate them and also make a good impression I suppose. I am not cheap at all (I usually pay for even friends' meals), and I find it to be a really unattractive quality in anyone, so basically I want to do whatever I can to avoid seeming that way.Posted by EnochtheWiseThis is the issue I have. I am not saying that paying is the issue. If a man makes the decision to pay, okay, that's fine, but if he chooses to want to go Dutch, that should be fine as well.
societal expectation
Society expectations is what I have an issue with. Why are we allowing our peers to dictate how we act? I don't like this idea that anyone has to live up to societal expectations. Because what one group deems as their normal, is not what another group may deem as normal.click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakCan't you tell by my avatar?Posted by TeddyBearMDyou mad bro?
You bitches want 'Equal Rights'.... right—
Well, that comes with equal lefts too.
FUCK NO. A man should not be paying for dinner unless he is GUARANTEED entry into the vagina. Why am I paying for a woman to eat, just for her to turn around have some other guy pay for her meal tomorrow while she calls it "Dating Around".
Don't give me that "it's tradition" bullshit either. If you want tradition then fine, stay in the kitchen, don't speak unless asked to, and do laundry for the rest of your life. It's either ALL or NOTHING when it comes to dating norms and traditions with me.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarI agree with him too!
I just watched a video last night, of a guy asking if men should always pay for dinner. I found it fascinating the amount of "yeas" I heard when he asked if men should always pay for dinner. I have never been one to think a man should pay, but it got me thinking. How many women actually think it is the man's responsibility to pay for everything regardless of the length of the relationship?
For me, I sided with the speaker. But that is me.
Here is the video in case some of you want to watch it.
Posted by EnochtheWiseYou should have seen my face when it happened. It was the first date I went on after my divorce. Literally, the first one I had in 13 years. I swore off dating for a good 1.5 years after that and remained single. I heard from mutual friends, that he bought some flowers for another girl, and they broke up a week later. He asked her to reimburse him for them. *Shivers*Posted by nikkistarI'm the same with my friends. Most of them are struggling financially. I've been fortunate there, really my entire life. Not bragging at all, but I have never even really thought or worried about money and I don't live anywhere near or beyond my means. I'm not very materialistic at all. I have to remind myself to check my bank account just to make sure there are no security issues, etc. But a lot of my friends have really gotten themselves into debt, have outrageous mortgages, so I always pay for meals.Posted by EnochtheWiseI guess I am slightly different than you because I don't necessarily care about making a good impression with someone based on monetary actions. My group of friends, we alternate paying for the entire group. One person happens to not really have funds readily available, and we always pay for her cause of her circumstances. And I don't even care if she offers to pay. That's just us though.Posted by nikkistarI think its pretty common for us Scorps to really not care about societal norms. And truthfully, I don't. I'm more concerned, in the case of a first date especially, that maybe the person I'm eating with does accept those norms, and so I want to accommodate them and also make a good impression I suppose. I am not cheap at all (I usually pay for even friends' meals), and I find it to be a really unattractive quality in anyone, so basically I want to do whatever I can to avoid seeming that way.Posted by EnochtheWiseThis is the issue I have. I am not saying that paying is the issue. If a man makes the decision to pay, okay, that's fine, but if he chooses to want to go Dutch, that should be fine as well.
societal expectation
Society expectations is what I have an issue with. Why are we allowing our peers to dictate how we act? I don't like this idea that anyone has to live up to societal expectations. Because what one group deems as their normal, is not what another group may deem as normal.
I just don't view someone unwilling to pay my portion as cheap. I know cheap. I have been on a date with someone cheap. First date, used a groupon, and asked me if I felt comfortable paying my half of the $ 20.00 groupon at the beginning of the date. Then told me if I ordered a drink, not water, I would have to pay for that as well. I would have offered to pay, and did pay, but the approach was uncouth. Needless to say, it didn't work out, but we remained friends after.
Wow, that date you described....I can't even fathom it really. That's embarrassing to even read....click to expand
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