@Sag898
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Understanding why some people enjoy choking or slapping during sex
Some individuals find these activities arousing due to the adrenaline rush, power dynamics, or heightened sensations. It is important that all acts are consensual and communicate boundaries clearly to ensure safety and comfort during sexual activities.
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Lol. Slapped in the face or on the ass? Low neck choking, done the right way is fine for me, but I don’t like the almost passing out type. I’m not trying to die! 😂😂
To me it all goes with rough sex. Since I like it all, I will take it as it comes as long as it’s pleasurable. Most times it is since your adrenaline is pumping and your horny! 😜😜😜
You little freaky Scorpio Mars. I see you! Quit playing! 🤣🤣🤣
Btw have I been sayin' wildin' and shit on here? I dunno if I have or not. If so, lay off my fuckin' word, half pint.
Please don't slap or choke me
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
I don't like being choked. Slapping is fine in moderation.. Just don't miss and hit an ear.
Pretty much every women I've been with has wanted to be choked. From light grapping.. To lack of oxygen/passing out in order to orgasm.
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Great...I guess I'm in the slow sexual group
Aren't you scared you could do it too hard and hurt them??
You little freaky Scorpio Mars. I see you! Quit playing! 🤣🤣🤣
Okay, so like you can pull my hair but that's as far as I go with this " rough stuff " lol
Lol. Slapped in the face or on the ass? Low neck choking, done the right way is fine for me, but I don’t like the almost passing out type. I’m not trying to die! 😂😂
To me it all goes with rough sex. Since I like it all, I will take it as it comes as long as it’s pleasurable. Most times it is since your adrenaline is pumping and your horny! 😜😜😜
I don't want to die either lol
I don't like getting slapped on the butt. It hurts haha
You are a tough girl saggy 😄 😄
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
I don't like being choked. Slapping is fine in moderation.. Just don't miss and hit an ear.
Pretty much every women I've been with has wanted to be choked. From light grapping.. To lack of oxygen/passing out in order to orgasm.
Great...I guess I'm in the slow sexual group
Aren't you scared you could do it too hard and hurt them??
The pain thing is kind of a thing you find out as you go. Increase. Obviously they should tell you if you're hurting them lol safe word for stopping etc.
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Safe word already implies it's already dangerous though right? lol
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
I don't like being choked. Slapping is fine in moderation.. Just don't miss and hit an ear.
Pretty much every women I've been with has wanted to be choked. From light grapping.. To lack of oxygen/passing out in order to orgasm.
Great...I guess I'm in the slow sexual group
Aren't you scared you could do it too hard and hurt them??
Yes.. Which is why I couldn't do it. She literally told me that if she passes out, to let go but to keep fucking her. I'm like.. Naw.
I do like a hand around there neck though. Lightly grabbing. They usually moan and tell me to grab a bit harder.
I'm fine as long as it doesn't get "almost kill me an go to prison" type cray
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Omg...I'm really glad I'm not a guy.
Do you find that hot?
Dude, I asked my bf to choke me during sex, he never fulfill that desire of mine up til now..
Man!!! 😥
I'm an 8th house moon ya'll, sex, death and rebirth yo!
I dont know about slap tho, may not like it.
Did you like it—
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
This from a fellow venus in aquarius? I don't buy it..
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I'm a different kind of kink I guess
not into choking, I need my oxygen working, ironically I like to be squeezed as hard as posible 😆
slapping is allowed in the back cheeks though 🙂
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
I don't like being choked. Slapping is fine in moderation.. Just don't miss and hit an ear.
Pretty much every women I've been with has wanted to be choked. From light grapping.. To lack of oxygen/passing out in order to orgasm.
Great...I guess I'm in the slow sexual group
Aren't you scared you could do it too hard and hurt them??
Yes.. Which is why I couldn't do it. She literally told me that if she passes out, to let go but to keep fucking her. I'm like.. Naw.
I do like a hand around there neck though. Lightly grabbing. They usually moan and tell me to grab a bit harder.
I'm fine as long as it doesn't get "almost kill me an go to prison" type cray
Omg...I'm really glad I'm not a guy.
Do you find that hot?
The passing out?! No.. I don't think negligent homicide is hot 😂
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Well apparently she did lol
I mean the choking in general?
Y'all need Jesus! 😱
not into choking, I need my oxygen working, ironically I like to be squeezed as hard as posible 😆
slapping is allowed in the back cheeks though 🙂
Squeezed? 😄
I’ve been lightly “choked” before, I had an ex that was into it. It wasn’t terrible, but it wasn’t fun all the time either. Moderation is key lol
Slapping is a no unless it’s on the booty.
Did he ask if it was okay or did he just come right out and do it?
not into choking, I need my oxygen working, ironically I like to be squeezed as hard as posible 😆
slapping is allowed in the back cheeks though 🙂
Squeezed? 😄
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of course!! 😆
hahaha, is the feel of some biceps around my chest, pushing me closer and closer, and getting squeezed 😛 is like you're gonna become one Lmao
and it makes me feel so freaking desired, maybe it was that venus/pluto sextile
not into choking, I need my oxygen working, ironically I like to be squeezed as hard as posible 😆
slapping is allowed in the back cheeks though 🙂
Squeezed? 😄
of course!! 😆
hahaha, is the feel of some biceps around my chest, pushing me closer and closer, and getting squeezed 😛 is like you're gonna become one Lmao
and it makes me feel so freaking desired, maybe it was that venus/pluto sextile
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omg omg I so know what you mean now hahah yes love that shit! I love being close too 😄
I’ve been lightly “choked” before, I had an ex that was into it. It wasn’t terrible, but it wasn’t fun all the time either. Moderation is key lol
Slapping is a no unless it’s on the booty.
Did he ask if it was okay or did he just come right out and do it?
He asked the first few times, and he never got too rough so I didn’t mind lol
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I feel like I would start laughing lol but that's cool you were a good sport about it haha
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
As an Aries w/Venus in Aqua, turnabout is fairplay, hahaaaay.
But...
...Aries rules the head/face. So, don't fuck wit my face dawg.
When I'm taking deep dick, something about pain makes me get deeper.
adrenaline and I also think there's a dominance/submissive factor....seems to be a mammalian thing in general, also some fish...ever watch cats go at it? they can be pretty rough...they even have a certain tone/pitch that acts as a safe word, used here by this leopard:
not into choking, I need my oxygen working, ironically I like to be squeezed as hard as posible 😆
slapping is allowed in the back cheeks though 🙂
Squeezed? 😄
of course!! 😆
hahaha, is the feel of some biceps around my chest, pushing me closer and closer, and getting squeezed 😛 is like you're gonna become one Lmao
and it makes me feel so freaking desired, maybe it was that venus/pluto sextile
omg omg I so know what you mean now hahah yes love that shit! I love being close too 😄
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My pisces would do that and tell me he loves me. It's like two seconds later orgasm! hahah
adrenaline and I also think there's a dominance/submissive factor....seems to be a mammalian thing in general, also some fish...ever watch cats go at it? they can be pretty rough...they even have a certain tone/pitch that acts as a safe word, used here by this leopard:
Kitties!!!
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
But...
...Aries rules the head/face. So, don't fuck wit my face dawg.
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Heard that!
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
I don't like being choked. Slapping is fine in moderation.. Just don't miss and hit an ear.
Pretty much every women I've been with has wanted to be choked. From light grapping.. To lack of oxygen/passing out in order to orgasm.
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Because my love is twice my size, he ain gotta choke me. If he don't prop up and lays all the way on me, I can't breathe. And, I wait 'til I'm about to pass out to whisper, "baby, you killing me."
~Pluto in the 8th House, In Air~
LMAO!
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
It’s a thrill. It’s a trust builder. It’s seeing how far one can go with another. It’s a lot of things.
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
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Nothing wrong with that. Truth be told I like the idea of taking control of a woman, with consent of course. Even though I seem really nice and passive face to face.
It actually makes me look at what I just posted from a different light. I never took into consideration the idea of having one type of life style , but becoming extremely attracted to the complete opposite. For example you were always strong and held responsibility, yet like the idea of your lover taking you over you during sex.
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
Nothing wrong with that. Truth be told I like the idea of taking control of a woman, with consent of course. Even though I seem really nice and passive face to face.
It actually makes me look at what I just posted from a different light. I never took into consideration the idea of having one type of life style , but becoming extremely attracted to the complete opposite. For example you were always strong and held responsibility, yet like the idea of your lover taking you over you during sex.
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Yes, you feel me.
The pressure, decision, holding people's careers in my hand; I'm carrying my whole fam on my back; putting money in people's bank accounts, creating savings and sending money to my lil neice and nephews. My sis died and I gotta take care of her son as much as I can.
The mental pressure makes me need physical pressure to feel balanced again.
I'm always amazed by peoples abilities to do such things without dying of laughter. I understand most of the resons for it but I'm sure I couldn't do anything of it because I couldn't stp laughing most of the time.
Ain't nothing wrong with laughing during sex, eating during sex, smoking during sex, singing during sex...
There's a certain thing I do near end of sex that brings forth a spontaneous giggle in my lover. Marks my return to control.
I'm always amazed by peoples abilities to do such things without dying of laughter. I understand most of the resons for it but I'm sure I couldn't do anything of it because I couldn't stp laughing most of the time.
Like what?
I'm always amazed by peoples abilities to do such things without dying of laughter. I understand most of the resons for it but I'm sure I couldn't do anything of it because I couldn't stp laughing most of the time.
Like what?
The reasons or what do you mean?
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I guess I was asking what you found particularly funny
I love all that. Is about the guy having the control and trusting him completely. Super hot
I just want to cuddle.
Forsure
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
Less oxygen makes the orgasm come quicker. Somehow.
Slapping is cool but never the face. I’ll bitch slap you back full force 🖕
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
Nothing wrong with that. Truth be told I like the idea of taking control of a woman, with consent of course. Even though I seem really nice and passive face to face.
It actually makes me look at what I just posted from a different light. I never took into consideration the idea of having one type of life style , but becoming extremely attracted to the complete opposite. For example you were always strong and held responsibility, yet like the idea of your lover taking you over you during sex.
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I’ve had partners that were completely against it and, I gotta admit, it made me give em the side eye. While I get that not everyone is compatible in that way and they might not feel comfortable laying hands on me like that, it still makes me wonder why. Do they not trust themselves? It’s always given me pause.
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
Nothing wrong with that. Truth be told I like the idea of taking control of a woman, with consent of course. Even though I seem really nice and passive face to face.
It actually makes me look at what I just posted from a different light. I never took into consideration the idea of having one type of life style , but becoming extremely attracted to the complete opposite. For example you were always strong and held responsibility, yet like the idea of your lover taking you over you during sex.
I’ve had partners that were completely against it and, I gotta admit, it made me give em the side eye. While I get that not everyone is compatible in that way and they might not feel comfortable laying hands on me like that, it still makes me wonder why. Do they not trust themselves? It’s always given me pause.
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Some guys just don't have it in them. Especially in today's time. I'm sure lots of the crazy ass stuff happening in the media makes some men paranoid about it. Others are simply too passive, or nice to want to be agressive in that type of way. Even though its 100% fine and the woman already clarified its how she likes it. I guess some men could also not trust themselves. They might worry they could actually do harm to you, or fuck up in some way and end up taking a heavy hit for it.
I know most womens sexual wants aren't as drastic as this next example, but I dated a woman who told me she wanted to feel like she was getting raped during sex. To make matters even worse the woman actually was raped when she was a teen, so it made me feel really awkward at that moment. I couldn't fulfill her wants because of it.
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
Nothing wrong with that. Truth be told I like the idea of taking control of a woman, with consent of course. Even though I seem really nice and passive face to face.
It actually makes me look at what I just posted from a different light. I never took into consideration the idea of having one type of life style , but becoming extremely attracted to the complete opposite. For example you were always strong and held responsibility, yet like the idea of your lover taking you over you during sex.
I’ve had partners that were completely against it and, I gotta admit, it made me give em the side eye. While I get that not everyone is compatible in that way and they might not feel comfortable laying hands on me like that, it still makes me wonder why. Do they not trust themselves? It’s always given me pause.
Some guys just don't have it in them. Especially in today's time. I'm sure lots of the crazy ass stuff happening in the media makes some men paranoid about it. Others are simply too passive, or nice to want to be agressive in that type of way. Even though its 100% fine and the woman already clarified its how she likes it. I guess some men could also not trust themselves. They might worry they could actually do harm to you, or fuck up in some way and end up taking a heavy hit for it.
I know most womens sexual wants aren't as drastic as this next example, but I dated a woman who told me she wanted to feel like she was getting raped during sex. To make matters even worse the woman actually was raped when she was a teen, so it made me feel really awkward at that moment. I couldn't fulfill her wants because of it.
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I hear ya and those are all valid points. My experiences were well before the “me too” movement tho. One of the guys that was into it was an ex-Special Forces guy, who said he’d never choked someone that hard before, without trying to kill them. Makes me look at the others like, What... you don’t have self control? 😁
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
Nothing wrong with that. Truth be told I like the idea of taking control of a woman, with consent of course. Even though I seem really nice and passive face to face.
It actually makes me look at what I just posted from a different light. I never took into consideration the idea of having one type of life style , but becoming extremely attracted to the complete opposite. For example you were always strong and held responsibility, yet like the idea of your lover taking you over you during sex.
I’ve had partners that were completely against it and, I gotta admit, it made me give em the side eye. While I get that not everyone is compatible in that way and they might not feel comfortable laying hands on me like that, it still makes me wonder why. Do they not trust themselves? It’s always given me pause.
Some guys just don't have it in them. Especially in today's time. I'm sure lots of the crazy ass stuff happening in the media makes some men paranoid about it. Others are simply too passive, or nice to want to be agressive in that type of way. Even though its 100% fine and the woman already clarified its how she likes it. I guess some men could also not trust themselves. They might worry they could actually do harm to you, or fuck up in some way and end up taking a heavy hit for it.
I know most womens sexual wants aren't as drastic as this next example, but I dated a woman who told me she wanted to feel like she was getting raped during sex. To make matters even worse the woman actually was raped when she was a teen, so it made me feel really awkward at that moment. I couldn't fulfill her wants because of it.
I hear ya and those are all valid points. My experiences were well before the “me too” movement tho. One of the guys that was into it was an ex-Special Forces guy, who said he’d never choked someone that hard before, without trying to kill them. Makes me look at the others like, What... you don’t have self control? 😁
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Ikr? Lol.
I think lately men have been trained by the media and internet to hide from the idea of being dominant. Like the amount of men that can't control it whatsoever ruined it for those who can, so now all men have to fully control themselves at all times and never show signs of dominance whatsoever or it means they are sexist, racist, a rapist, arrogant, misogynistic, a masochistic, and so on. Most men honestly believe women want a passive man. Truth be told only like 5% of women are complaining about dominant men. Yet they tend to be the loudest, and have the most media time to convince people that dominant men are the worst thing possible. Now I'm ranting lol. Guess I got a bit off topic 🤣
Some women and men want to feel like they are being completely taken over. They want to feel the type of control over them that either inflicts pain, or makes them feel helpless.
I personally believe all types of sexual fantasies are created during childhood, around the time puberty hits. The body is going through heavy changes, and sometimes mental thoughts cross wires with the body, thus creating a fetish or deep sexual fantasy.
I feel this is when homosexuality and transgender is starting to take form in the childs brain. Same goes for weird things like furries, and also any type of fetish imaginable. It doesn't become a true desire until the body and mind cross paths at the wrong time. Or right time if you chose to believe that.
So thats where you get people who love being taken over and left powerless during sex. Most of them likely had strict parents, and had a moment during puberty that rooted itself deep within their subconscious. Or they could have seen something on tv, media, or other forms of entertainment and it had the same effect.
I was born an adult, young matriarch, too much responsibility, power, and freedom since 3rd grade.
And, it hasn't stopped as I am an executive.
Thus, I love being taken over and left powerless but only during sex. Sex is the safest place for me. Because it's a new sensation to me... foreign. And, my man knows my life.
I told him that he's the only one who can teach me how to swim. I can't relax enoigh to float. I can float with him.
Nothing wrong with that. Truth be told I like the idea of taking control of a woman, with consent of course. Even though I seem really nice and passive face to face.
It actually makes me look at what I just posted from a different light. I never took into consideration the idea of having one type of life style , but becoming extremely attracted to the complete opposite. For example you were always strong and held responsibility, yet like the idea of your lover taking you over you during sex.
I’ve had partners that were completely against it and, I gotta admit, it made me give em the side eye. While I get that not everyone is compatible in that way and they might not feel comfortable laying hands on me like that, it still makes me wonder why. Do they not trust themselves? It’s always given me pause.
Some guys just don't have it in them. Especially in today's time. I'm sure lots of the crazy ass stuff happening in the media makes some men paranoid about it. Others are simply too passive, or nice to want to be agressive in that type of way. Even though its 100% fine and the woman already clarified its how she likes it. I guess some men could also not trust themselves. They might worry they could actually do harm to you, or fuck up in some way and end up taking a heavy hit for it.
I know most womens sexual wants aren't as drastic as this next example, but I dated a woman who told me she wanted to feel like she was getting raped during sex. To make matters even worse the woman actually was raped when she was a teen, so it made me feel really awkward at that moment. I couldn't fulfill her wants because of it.
I hear ya and those are all valid points. My experiences were well before the “me too” movement tho. One of the guys that was into it was an ex-Special Forces guy, who said he’d never choked someone that hard before, without trying to kill them. Makes me look at the others like, What... you don’t have self control? 😁
Ikr? Lol.
I think lately men have been trained by the media and internet to hide from the idea of being dominant. Like the amount of men that can't control it whatsoever ruined it for those who can, so now all men have to fully control themselves at all times and never show signs of dominance whatsoever or it means they are sexist, racist, a rapist, arrogant, misogynistic, a masochistic, and so on. Most men honestly believe women want a passive man. Truth be told only like 5% of women are complaining about dominant men. Yet they tend to be the loudest, and have the most media time to convince people that dominant men are the worst thing possible. Now I'm ranting lol. Guess I got a bit off topic 🤣
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Ha. You’re fine. And I think there’s a lotta truth in what you say, but I’d think the kid gloves would come off at some point. The Virgo is nothing, but a gentleman. That said, I place his hand on my throat and he’s never been one to disappoint. 😂
Mutual choking/strangling
You're gonna die before me 😡
Lol
Lol. Slapped in the face or on the ass? Low neck choking, done the right way is fine for me, but I don’t like the almost passing out type. I’m not trying to die! 😂😂
To me it all goes with rough sex. Since I like it all, I will take it as it comes as long as it’s pleasurable. Most times it is since your adrenaline is pumping and your horny! 😜😜😜
I don't want to die either lol
I don't like getting slapped on the butt. It hurts haha
You are a tough girl saggy 😄 😄
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I don’t like anything that hurts either. Lol. It has to be pleasure. Light taps are fine. I don’t want it red. 😳😰
I'm always amazed by peoples abilities to do such things without dying of laughter. I understand most of the resons for it but I'm sure I couldn't do anything of it because I couldn't stp laughing most of the time.
Like what?
The reasons or what do you mean?
I guess I was asking what you found particularly funny
Sexual intercourse in general is quite funny to me. Looking at it you see two, or more, people doing weird thing, making weird faces and weird noises. If you add slapping and choking to it on comman without any proper built up or context I couldn't help but laugh because it would feel more like a pornographic stereotype to me than a real human interaction. I guess things need to feel natural for me in general.
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Porn has a lot to answer for, especially for susceptible people, more is the pity ...
I'm always amazed by peoples abilities to do such things without dying of laughter. I understand most of the resons for it but I'm sure I couldn't do anything of it because I couldn't stp laughing most of the time.
Like what?
The reasons or what do you mean?
I guess I was asking what you found particularly funny
Sexual intercourse in general is quite funny to me. Looking at it you see two, or more, people doing weird thing, making weird faces and weird noises. If you add slapping and choking to it on comman without any proper built up or context I couldn't help but laugh because it would feel more like a pornographic stereotype to me than a real human interaction. I guess things need to feel natural for me in general.
Porn has a lot to answer for, especially for susceptible people, more is the pity ...
I don't think so. Porn has been around since the first ape utilized tools. Porn problem in general is that it has nothing left to say which makes it quite boring.
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It sure has, but so much more easily available now...no need to furtively glance at the top shelf...just swipe swipe now and kids at a very young age can avail of it too whereas before they couldn't ... they grow up thinking all those fake images they see are real
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
I don't like being choked. Slapping is fine in moderation.. Just don't miss and hit an ear.
Pretty much every women I've been with has wanted to be choked. From light grapping.. To lack of oxygen/passing out in order to orgasm.
Because my love is twice my size, he ain gotta choke me. If he don't prop up and lays all the way on me, I can't breathe. And, I wait 'til I'm about to pass out to whisper, "baby, you killing me."
~Pluto in the 8th House, In Air~
LMAO!
Mars in 8th, in Air..
I seen death 2 feet from my face too many times to count. I want no part unless it is me.. Which I welcome with open arms.
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I know in advance when someone is going to die.
I'm always amazed by peoples abilities to do such things without dying of laughter. I understand most of the resons for it but I'm sure I couldn't do anything of it because I couldn't stp laughing most of the time.
Like what?
The reasons or what do you mean?
I guess I was asking what you found particularly funny
Sexual intercourse in general is quite funny to me. Looking at it you see two, or more, people doing weird thing, making weird faces and weird noises. If you add slapping and choking to it on comman without any proper built up or context I couldn't help but laugh because it would feel more like a pornographic stereotype to me than a real human interaction. I guess things need to feel natural for me in general.
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Yeah that’s what I think too lol just the second part. I enjoy sex mostly.
Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild
Less oxygen makes the orgasm come quicker. Somehow.
Slapping is cool but never the face. I’ll bitch slap you back full force 🖕
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😂😂😂😂
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Do people like being choked or slapped during sex?
Wth is that about?
Ya'll wild