@nikkistar
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How to Spot a DXP Cat Lady
@xkraft
I adopted a kitten on Saturday. Wondering if I made the wrong decision..... hahaha
you forgot.
"Burn it all"
hahah I had to use this one because it has Crab on it hahahahahahahahah
I almost bet there is a horde of cat ladies, that are ferociously typing about this topic, and calling me the devil and evil in PMs.
Don't you think @tiziani? LOL
Posted by tizianithey mock us! they mock our twin flames, our values, our very life style , they mock our humility, our empathy!
They swipe right on Tinder and laugh (shakes fist)
GIVE US THE BOY AND THE HOOR!
P.S. I would be said the said hoor they wanna kill. lol
Posted by nikkistar@xkraft
Hands out advice to others in relationships, yet simultaneously post threads about being "Forever alone" and wondering why.
🤣🤣🤣💦💦💦Fuck!!! I am LMAO in ER!!!
Posted by RooSagicorn😆 this should be fun.
Isn’t it already? I am crying...🤣🤣💦💦
Posted by nikkistarI almost bet there is a horde of cat ladies, that are ferociously typing about this topic, and calling me the devil and evil in PMs.
Don't you think @tiziani? LOL
Tiziani IS a cat lady...lol
Posted by nikkistarP.S. I would be said the said hoor they wanna kill. lol
Make sure to post PMs...🙏🏻
Posted by Waterbearerwearer
You called but forgot to tag meh?
You are not cat woman. ktx 😛
Posted by Waterbearerwearer
You called but forgot to tag meh?
Wut? I hope you are being factitious, because I thought our problems were already addressed and squashed. Or is there further issue?
Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by nikkistarPosted by Waterbearerwearer
You called but forgot to tag meh?
Wut? I hope you are being factitious, because I thought our problems were already addressed and squashed. Or is there further issue?
Girl I’m playing I laughed at this
I am all those things though
When the shoe fits
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LOL okay. I couldn't tell. haha
If you read this and felt some type of way...
Bish you might be
Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by justagirlPosted by Waterbearerwearer
You called but forgot to tag meh?
You are not cat woman. ktx 😛
Ugfrreedgytrrfhyrdv #triggeredsry
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meow?
Posted by brianafayIf you read this and felt some type of way...
Bish you might be
Posted by Ladyleo18I'm #5!
You should add the ones who have internet relationships and have never met their boyfriend in person. The advice from those ones is really awkward.
That's a good one. lol
That does need to be added.
Posted by HeartofTopazz
Pet that pussy! 😉
Posted by nikkistar1) "Leave him!"
2) "He's manipulative!"
3) "I dated (enter astrology placement) and they are all liars!"
4) *Enters into any thread about a placement about any ex they have had* "Fuck them all!"
5) Has never had a long term relationship.
6) Hands out advice to others in relationships, yet simultaneously post threads about being "Forever alone" and wondering why.
7) Hands out advice as if women are meek idiots that don't know any better, which ironically keeps them weak. (We aren't)
8) Double standards. Girl gets used for sex: "omgimsosorrylemmeholdyourhand!" Guy gets used for sex: "youshouldbethankfulyougotyourdickwet!"
9) Bitter towards whatever gender and/or placement that has rejected them
10) "Ok, little girl."
11) "You're a fat/ugly/etc...!"
and last but not least....
12) Gives out advice to others, that keeps them the FOREVERCUMDUMPSTER Merry-go-round. #alwaysthebridesmaid.
READY FOR IT.
Where do I pick up my gift bag?
But in their defense at least they are going green. It’s the responsible choice. No pollution of the earth with remains, earth to table.
Or rather table to earth.
Those kitties will eat your face and shit it out into the sand. Yw environment.
Posted by brianafayIf you read this and felt some type of way...
Bish you might be
Do *you* have my gift bag?
Posted by xkraftPosted by nikkistar@xkraft
I don't have anything against catladies. 😺😺
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No, I am calling you one. LOL jk
Posted by AndalusiaPosted by brianafayIf you read this and felt some type of way...
Bish you might be
Do *you* have my gift bag?
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Nikki’s cheap, it’s nothing good anyway
Posted by brianafayPosted by AndalusiaPosted by brianafayIf you read this and felt some type of way...
Bish you might be
Do *you* have my gift bag?
Nikki’s cheap, it’s nothing good anyway
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It's not my fault I make only 2 dollar tips doing feet for a living.
@Dreamyboy - Cat Man
Posted by inmercuryPeople actually listen to advice given on dxp? I thought everyone just looks for confirmations of their own insecure beliefs in order to feel more secure while ignoring everything else. I liked this place a lot more when I thought it was a place for shit talking.
Shhh they can read this
Posted by TheRabbitName names you cowards.
Ladies first. Go ahead.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by brianafayPosted by AndalusiaPosted by brianafayIf you read this and felt some type of way...
Bish you might be
Do *you* have my gift bag?
Nikki’s cheap, it’s nothing good anyway
It's not my fault I make only 2 dollar tips doing feet for a living.
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You deserve at least 5 dollar. People are so cheap these days. Smh
Posted by Arielle83I only call chicks “little girls” when they’re arrogant.
Like bishes that sell crack and prop their tax free money on social media.
Small time
That was actually aimed at the men I see as cat ladies. Lol
Posted by DreamyboyPosted by nikkistar@Dreamyboy - Cat Man
That list doesn’t even apply to me😂😂 you’re just ovulating today. It’s a waning crescent at the moment and I forgive you
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LOL
Sounds like the way women's magazines seem to deliberately give out bad advice to keep women single and needing an endless stream of relationship advice.
Posted by inmercuryThe irony of this post. Or is the "woman hater on the loose" sign referring to yourself, @nikkistar?
It is indeed referencing myself, because I am called it. And as per your other quote in Tiz's thread, I suggest you look at older posts scattered about in this forum. They are everywhere.
I'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Posted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
Posted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
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unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
Posted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
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Do you think that social media has made it worse?
Posted by inmercuryPosted by nikkistarPosted by inmercuryThe irony of this post. Or is the "woman hater on the loose" sign referring to yourself, @nikkistar?
It is indeed referencing myself, because I am called it. And as per your other quote in Tiz's thread, I suggest you look at older posts scattered about in this forum. They are everywhere.
Hmm ok. I just hope people who are kidding about their pussies aren't getting a bad vibe. Cuz i don't think ive done that but I wouldn't be opposed to it.
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Nah. Most of the people I am talking about (men are actually included in this) that show that trait do it in the way they handle their advice or things they expect from the person they date.
Take for instance terramine aka @ocjack. He's a good example of a cat lady, and he's a dude. He thinks he deserves a prime rib version of a woman, but you will often times see him delusionally ranting about the vileness of all women simply because no one wants a man that lives in an extended stay motel with his mom and donates plasma for money. I am pretty sure he doesn't even want to work. Thinks that he is enough to make up for it all, and calls woman materialistic assholes if they don't want him.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
Do you think that social media has made it worse?
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its cliche to say it by now, but yes I do....still in the early stages of watching my kid get jealous/competitive/insecure over these things....I don't let her do SM yet, but even w/texting, her friends are texting her their posts from their Instragram and FB Accounts (11 yr olds), and her reactions are telling....And with dating apps, first image impression is pretty much your greatest asset, right? At some point though, when you're spending more time in the virtual world than the real one, no matter how fake, I guess the image you portray online does sort of become part of your new identity, even if its just the outer-most layer...
Posted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
Do you think that social media has made it worse?
its cliche to say it by now, but yes I do....still in the early stages of watching my kid get jealous/competitive/insecure over these things....I don't let her do SM yet, but even w/texting, her friends are texting her their posts from their Instragram and FB Accounts (11 yr olds), and her reactions are telling....And with dating apps, first image impression is pretty much your greatest asset, right? At some point though, when you're spending more time in the virtual world than the real one, no matter how fake, I guess the image you portray online does sort of become part of your new identity, even if its just the outer-most layer...
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*takes notes*
Posted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
Do you think that social media has made it worse?
its cliche to say it by now, but yes I do....still in the early stages of watching my kid get jealous/competitive/insecure over these things....I don't let her do SM yet, but even w/texting, her friends are texting her their posts from their Instragram and FB Accounts (11 yr olds), and her reactions are telling....And with dating apps, first image impression is pretty much your greatest asset, right? At some point though, when you're spending more time in the virtual world than the real one, no matter how fake, I guess the image you portray online does sort of become part of your new identity, even if its just the outer-most layer...
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But applying your previous statement, if what people portray online becomes an extension of their identity, does that mean the people that lie about their relationships, or make their lives more grandiose then what is in reality, would that mean they dislike themselves in reality?
Posted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
Do you think that social media has made it worse?
its cliche to say it by now, but yes I do....still in the early stages of watching my kid get jealous/competitive/insecure over these things....I don't let her do SM yet, but even w/texting, her friends are texting her their posts from their Instragram and FB Accounts (11 yr olds), and her reactions are telling....And with dating apps, first image impression is pretty much your greatest asset, right? At some point though, when you're spending more time in the virtual world than the real one, no matter how fake, I guess the image you portray online does sort of become part of your new identity, even if its just the outer-most layer...
But applying your previous statement, if what people portray online becomes an extension of their identity, does that mean the people that lie about their relationships, or make their lives more grandiose then what is in reality, would that mean they dislike themselves in reality?
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Yes.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
Do you think that social media has made it worse?
its cliche to say it by now, but yes I do....still in the early stages of watching my kid get jealous/competitive/insecure over these things....I don't let her do SM yet, but even w/texting, her friends are texting her their posts from their Instragram and FB Accounts (11 yr olds), and her reactions are telling....And with dating apps, first image impression is pretty much your greatest asset, right? At some point though, when you're spending more time in the virtual world than the real one, no matter how fake, I guess the image you portray online does sort of become part of your new identity, even if its just the outer-most layer...
But applying your previous statement, if what people portray online becomes an extension of their identity, does that mean the people that lie about their relationships, or make their lives more grandiose then what is in reality, would that mean they dislike themselves in reality?
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....or you at least dislike your circumstances. Those are the reasons for some I'm sure. But there are others. You dont have to dislike your self to want to upgrade it in the virtual world, alter it entirely, or just seek forms of attention or validation not as readily available irl...I dont like the way this convo is going though - I think I might be a cat lady.
Posted by ArkansassyWe need @Metatron cat gifs asap
at the gym with no xanax on me bro...
I’m basically a catdude. Not only have I been single like 7 months but I’ve cut ties with my friends over the past 1 1/2 years and turned into a recluse who plays video games/watches movies with revenge driving the plot and also love my cat and car more than anything else?
😐
But can you blame me? Look at this fella! 😊
Posted by tizianiPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronPosted by nikkistarPosted by MetatronI'd add:
- decades old sex stories read like highly embellished erotic fiction...you can tell they're getting turned on just writing it...
- entire relationships fabricated - saw a user once claiming to have had an LTR w/a certain sign, having very recently said elsewhere she has never dated one....
- dudes who turn down sex w/them or anyone else are assumed to be gay, the hidden assumption being that all men are as desperate and thirsty as said cat lady....
Do you think that some of the cat ladies subconsciously think the value of a women is determined by men finding her appealing?
unfortunately I think its probably fair to say that view carries across all genders (not sure how many there are now), and is only going to be more prevalent as time goes on.....was just lecturing my kid on the dangers of basing your self worth on the attention you get around your image online, like-addiction, etc. while intermittently checking my dxp notifications on my phone....
Do you think that social media has made it worse?
its cliche to say it by now, but yes I do....still in the early stages of watching my kid get jealous/competitive/insecure over these things....I don't let her do SM yet, but even w/texting, her friends are texting her their posts from their Instragram and FB Accounts (11 yr olds), and her reactions are telling....And with dating apps, first image impression is pretty much your greatest asset, right? At some point though, when you're spending more time in the virtual world than the real one, no matter how fake, I guess the image you portray online does sort of become part of your new identity, even if its just the outer-most layer...
But applying your previous statement, if what people portray online becomes an extension of their identity, does that mean the people that lie about their relationships, or make their lives more grandiose then what is in reality, would that mean they dislike themselves in reality?
....or you at least dislike your circumstances. Those are the reasons for some I'm sure. But there are others. You dont have to dislike your self to want to upgrade it in the virtual world, alter it entirely, or just seek forms of attention or validation not as readily available irl...I dont like the way this convo is going though - I think I might be a cat lady.
Lol yeah I was thinking, I've done that for years. Though weirdly to the benefit of my real life.
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came in here like 'gonna expose these bishes' lol...
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1) "Leave him!"
2) "He's manipulative!"
3) "I dated (enter astrology placement) and they are all liars!"
4) *Enters into any thread about a placement about any ex they have had* "Fuck them all!"
5) Has never had a long term relationship.
6) Hands out advice to others in relationships, yet simultaneously post threads about being "Forever alone" and wondering why.
7) Hands out advice as if women are meek idiots that don't know any better, which ironically keeps them weak. (We aren't)
8) Double standards. Girl gets used for sex: "omgimsosorrylemmeholdyourhand!" Guy gets used for sex: "youshouldbethankfulyougotyourdickwet!"
9) Bitter towards whatever gender and/or placement that has rejected them
10) "Ok, little girl."
11) "You're a fat/ugly/etc...!"
and last but not least....
12) Gives out advice to others, that keeps them the FOREVERCUMDUMPSTER Merry-go-round. #alwaysthebridesmaid.
READY FOR IT.