Why does this virgo man not caring about my emotions?

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So, this virgo guy was always sweet with me earlier. But suddenly he blocked me on WhatsApp one day and for three months it went on like that. I am literally crying myself out thinking what wrong I have done. He had a crush on me earlier. But after he talking to me for some days, I was blocked from his WhatsApp. Then after 3 months, I called him to know the reason for his block so that I can get a closure. He spoke with me very sweetly. I got doubt, whether it was him only who blocked me or someone else. So that day he told me not to worry, assured that everything is ok, and I didn't yet ask him about his block but he told me that he's very busy and he'll call me back the next day. So, after this happened, I didn't waited for him to call me back, and I myself returned him the call the next day, and his brother spoke to me. He was very harsh like who are you? I told him my name and that I need to talk to this virgo man. He rudely responded and cutted the call. After that I thought he'll call me back. But he didn't. I only called him but my calls weren't being lifted.. I messaged, they weren't being responded! I got doubt whether something happened since his brother spoke to me, I reached out his bestie and asked him why he is doing like this. His bestie said, his phone was taken off by his bro and his father. They are not letting him use it. So, after this I was worried, and I called him many times and messaged him asking about truths, but no response and got blocked everywhere, on WhatsApp, calls, text messaging. So, I was absolutely afraid of what's happening and asked his mutual friend to ask him how things are. His mutual friend was afraid of his father so he told me he couldn't help me due to fear. He cutted off contact with me in fears that his father will scold his mutual friend. After that I only take risk of calling him through other ways, and his brother lifted the call and started scolding me very harshly and asked me what's going on between us. I was afraid and told him that we're just friends but his brother is not trusting my words. So I asked him to let me speak with this virgo man, and he gave him under his supervision. This virgo man said me that his brother was very very angry on him and was scolding him a lot about my calls and messages. He told me not to call to that number since his brother is using it. His brother was very harshly scolding him while we were expressing our concerns. He told me that he'll talk to me afterwards. I said ok and cutted the call. I received a message that never call me or message me. I got angry and scolded him as much as I want in message and I scolded him in every possible way. I didn't get a reply. My messages were not seen. I didn't message him for a few days and left him alone. I again messaged him yesterday telling him that I hate him a lot and I got a reply that go and get a life. I don't know who replied that. I was guessing it's him, and started expressing him my feelings about love. And I got a response, i will block you now, be careful! I was like shocked. Any boy will usually welcome a girl's proposal. But this boy I know he cares, but I don't know why I got a reply like this harshly for the first time. He was never this harshly responded me earlier. I'm getting doubt whether someone else replied me ( his brother or father ) or him only. What do you think? And what should I do now? I knew he loved me once, and I was showing him my love feelings for the first time yesterday, and didn't even propose him fully saying I love you. I was just giving him signs through my messages and I received a harsh response. Who might have done it? Him? Or his brother? Or his father? How should I know things from him now?
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Posted by Gem03

This is real life, its not a movie. Walk away.

I understand wanting love, being emotional, and sensitive (I'm all those things). But this is gross. You don't respect yourself, why would he respect you?

I messaged him, i hate you a lot and he said me go get a life, i said him why are you making me feel very wrong about myself and started sending him hate messages on his brother and giving him signs of my love on him, and I received a response that I will block you and respect the danger. But still I messaged him again because it was the last chance for me to tell him all the truths, so I told him everything and every little personal secrets we are having. I don't know who saw it, and no message from him yet, my message was marked seen but no reply. Don't know if it's his brother using his phone or him only. Already last time his bro said me that his brother is only using his phone and seeing my messages and he was not allowed to see my messages. After that day I thought he got his phone back so kept on messaging and yesterday I got a response like this? Who's doing it, is it his bro or father or him only??
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You want closure, correct?

Wrong place wrong time.

There is no need to ruin the relationship more by pushing. Yes it hurts and you want to let it out. To lash out and destroy so you can let go.

You said to him what you wanted to say. There is nothing more you can do and that is ok love.

Now walk away from this situation and work on yourself.

You need to learn how to manage your own emotions. They are over powering you. You are lashing out in pain and it's making things worse. That is not the way to get closure.

You will feel compelled to hold in your pain and allow it to effect your future relationships in a bad manner. Such as fearing getting attached to another person.

In the future, just be more consider of the availability of the person you wish to have a romantic relationship with. Most importantly to manage your emotions.

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If there was a dude doing this shit to some woman it’d be serial-killer levels of creepy obsessing... I’d be advising getting locks changed, numbers changed - passwords for getting home safely or Uber logs etc

But for some reason you get a pass because the vibe is low key naive female tamale...—

Reconsider framing your approach as harassment/ stalking and respect another persons desire for space, his right to a safe environment and the long-standing family commitments and relationships already in place.

Perhaps a minute in his shoes might be of benefit, metaphorically speaking.
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TLDR.Then after 3 months, I called him to know the reason for his block so that I can get a closure.

Okie dokie then. Why are you still here writing about dude then? He is trying to make it easier for you to move on?

He said his friend that he is not being given his phone it seems. When he spoke to me on call, he said that his brother was reading the messages and scolding him a lot. He told me he will talk to me later. His brother may be using his phone and might not be giving him. Who knows? Why always should think negatively about him?
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Posted by Moloko_vellocet

You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother
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Posted by wagtail

If there was a dude doing this shit to some woman it’d be serial-killer levels of creepy obsessing... I’d be advising getting locks changed, numbers changed - passwords for getting home safely or Uber logs etc

But for some reason you get a pass because the vibe is low key naive female tamale...—

Reconsider framing your approach as harassment/ stalking and respect another persons desire for space, his right to a safe environment and the long-standing family commitments and relationships already in place.

Perhaps a minute in his shoes might be of benefit, metaphorically speaking.

Before judging put yourself in the girl's shoes too. Getting treated wrongly without being told a reason, is it a high thing? Is it great? Is it very attractive? Don't be oversmart trying to tear a girl down wrongly. What am I asking him, and what's wrong in it?
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TLDR.Then after 3 months, I called him to know the reason for his block so that I can get a closure.

Okie dokie then. Why are you still here writing about dude then? He is trying to make it easier for you to move on?

He said his friend that he is not being given his phone it seems. When he spoke to me on call, he said that his brother was reading the messages and scolding him a lot. He told me he will talk to me later. His brother may be using his phone and might not be giving him. Who knows? Why always should think negatively about him?

I thought you got closure?

Move the fuck on!
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I didn't get. I need to know what actually happened and why I was treated wrongly by his brother on call. Maybe he loves me and maybe his brother is not letting him talk to me. Who knows?
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You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother
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You’re just a selfish asshole.

I’m a Virgo man that would have called the police on you by now.

You’re harassing him and verbally abusive.

Women like you are the reason why men have created a men’s movement. You don’t get to treat men like shit and get away with it.

He needs a restraining order on you.
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You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother

You’re just a selfish asshole.

I’m a Virgo man that would have called the police on you by now.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing? And is it a police thing? Don't act too smart. I am just a good girl who is having emotions and is trying to understand what's happening and trying to solve a problem for him and why should I get abused for this?
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You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother

You’re just a selfish asshole.

I’m a Virgo man that would have called the police on you by now.

Is asking him for answers a wrong thing? And is it a police thing? Don't act too smart. I am just a good girl who is having emotions and is trying to understand what's happening and trying to solve a problem for him and why should I get abused for this?
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No,

You are an entitled prick.

There’s nothing ā€œniceā€ or innocent about you.

He doesn’t want you in his life.

He doesn’t owe your psycho ass anything.
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You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother

You’re just a selfish asshole.

I’m a Virgo man that would have called the police on you by now.

Is asking him for answers a wrong thing? And is it a police thing? Don't act too smart. I am just a good girl who is having emotions and is trying to understand what's happening and trying to solve a problem for him and why should I get abused for this?

No,

You are an entitled prick.

There’s nothing ā€œniceā€ or innocent about you.

He doesn’t want you in his life.

He doesn’t owe your psycho ass anything.
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i acted the same way with a pisces man earlier and he appreciated it a lot and loved me more
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You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother

You’re just a selfish asshole.

I’m a Virgo man that would have called the police on you by now.

Is asking him for answers a wrong thing? And is it a police thing? Don't act too smart. I am just a good girl who is having emotions and is trying to understand what's happening and trying to solve a problem for him and why should I get abused for this?

No,

You are an entitled prick.

There’s nothing ā€œniceā€ or innocent about you.

He doesn’t want you in his life.

He doesn’t owe your psycho ass anything.

i acted the same way with a pisces man earlier and he appreciated it a lot and loved me more
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So you think you can make demands on men and abuse them because you clearly had control of a pisces man?

You are absolutely sick.

This virgo man has created boundaries.

You don’t get to treat men like this.

You are absolutely disgusting excuse for a human being.

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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?
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Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?
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If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me
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You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother

You’re just a selfish asshole.

I’m a Virgo man that would have called the police on you by now.

Is asking him for answers a wrong thing? And is it a police thing? Don't act too smart. I am just a good girl who is having emotions and is trying to understand what's happening and trying to solve a problem for him and why should I get abused for this?

No,

You are an entitled prick.

There’s nothing ā€œniceā€ or innocent about you.

He doesn’t want you in his life.

He doesn’t owe your psycho ass anything.

i acted the same way with a pisces man earlier and he appreciated it a lot and loved me more

So you think you can make demands on men and abuse them because you clearly had control of a pisces man?

You are absolutely sick.

This virgo man has created boundaries.

You don’t get to treat men like this.

You are absolutely disgusting excuse for a human being.
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I didn't get control of pisces man. Pisces man loved me for being so caring, pisces man understood my emotions and never wanted to hurt me in any way. Pisces man always cared about me and told me that he loves to see me in that way of being very responsible on him and caring to him. Why is this virgo man different
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You are creepy

How am I looking creepy? I just scolded in every possible way for many things, insulted him when his brother scolded me. I lashed out in chat. After that, I waited a few days, and messaged him saying I hate you, and i got a response go get a life for you, and i started expressing him how much he hurted me and how much i am crying and talking angrily about his brother and i got a response i will block you if you send another message, respect danger. WTF? What did I do? I don't think so it's him. I'm feeling it might be his brother

You’re just a selfish asshole.

I’m a Virgo man that would have called the police on you by now.

Is asking him for answers a wrong thing? And is it a police thing? Don't act too smart. I am just a good girl who is having emotions and is trying to understand what's happening and trying to solve a problem for him and why should I get abused for this?

No,

You are an entitled prick.

There’s nothing ā€œniceā€ or innocent about you.

He doesn’t want you in his life.

He doesn’t owe your psycho ass anything.

i acted the same way with a pisces man earlier and he appreciated it a lot and loved me more

So you think you can make demands on men and abuse them because you clearly had control of a pisces man?

You are absolutely sick.

This virgo man has created boundaries.

You don’t get to treat men like this.

You are absolutely disgusting excuse for a human being.
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I don't abuse men, I'm just caring about this virgo man. I was just considerate about his past feelings on me
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.
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but he secretly is caring for me.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.
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I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?
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according to his past caring nature, i can estimate his present state
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?
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Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

according to his past caring nature, i can estimate his present state

Then you don't know that, do you? People change. Estimates can be way off.
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but I don't change, so I believe the people with me too are same, since he knows me and my heart, he won't change as far as i feel
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.

I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him

Because that's only your point of view.

Most will likely see you as harassing his family.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.
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Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.

I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him

Because that's only your point of view.

Most will likely see you as harassing his family.

I said him all my feelings to him on chat. I don't know who saw it. No response. Maybe his brother. If it was him, he would have responded my feelings in at least some way and would have understand my pain and would have said me anything nicely, but I didn't get that, i got harsh responses for expressing my fears and feelings of care on him

Maybe he saw it and responded to your feelings harshly.
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No maybe, only his brother was harsh with me previously. He was never harsh. He always tried to make me feel special and good about myself but never bad about myself, and he was very sweet with me on phone call too but since his brother was beating him he holded up the call
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.
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But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.

I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him

Because that's only your point of view.

Most will likely see you as harassing his family.

I said him all my feelings to him on chat. I don't know who saw it. No response. Maybe his brother. If it was him, he would have responded my feelings in at least some way and would have understand my pain and would have said me anything nicely, but I didn't get that, i got harsh responses for expressing my fears and feelings of care on him

Maybe he saw it and responded to your feelings harshly.

No maybe, only his brother was harsh with me previously. He was never harsh. He always tried to make me feel special and good about myself but never bad about myself, and he was very sweet with me on phone call too but since his brother was beating him he holded up the call

Bottom line: He's never gonna do anything about this.
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he may do. Who knows? When I got blocked from his number I asked everyone whether to ask him the reason or not and whether to call him or not. Everyone said don't. But I did, finally to hear his sweet voice and caring replies, it clearly shown me that he didn't block me, after that his bro spoke to me and he was very harsh with me, so here it is clear that something is happening and his brother is not letting me connect with him
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man
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But both are boys only na. Don't they care for a girl in same ways?
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.

I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him

Because that's only your point of view.

Most will likely see you as harassing his family.

I said him all my feelings to him on chat. I don't know who saw it. No response. Maybe his brother. If it was him, he would have responded my feelings in at least some way and would have understand my pain and would have said me anything nicely, but I didn't get that, i got harsh responses for expressing my fears and feelings of care on him

Maybe he saw it and responded to your feelings harshly.

No maybe, only his brother was harsh with me previously. He was never harsh. He always tried to make me feel special and good about myself but never bad about myself, and he was very sweet with me on phone call too but since his brother was beating him he holded up the call

Bottom line: He's never gonna do anything about this.
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I believe in him even if the world doesn't believe in him
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man
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Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.

I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him

Because that's only your point of view.

Most will likely see you as harassing his family.

I said him all my feelings to him on chat. I don't know who saw it. No response. Maybe his brother. If it was him, he would have responded my feelings in at least some way and would have understand my pain and would have said me anything nicely, but I didn't get that, i got harsh responses for expressing my fears and feelings of care on him

Maybe he saw it and responded to your feelings harshly.

No maybe, only his brother was harsh with me previously. He was never harsh. He always tried to make me feel special and good about myself but never bad about myself, and he was very sweet with me on phone call too but since his brother was beating him he holded up the call

Bottom line: He's never gonna do anything about this.

he may do. Who knows? When I got blocked from his number I asked everyone whether to ask him the reason or not and whether to call him or not. Everyone said don't. But I did, finally to hear his sweet voice and caring replies, it clearly shown me that he didn't block me, after that his bro spoke to me and he was very harsh with me, so here it is clear that something is happening and his brother is not letting me connect with him

Again, his family will never let you guys be together.
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it's his life. his wish. I want to give him the chance to open up about his feelings in a privacied manner
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.

I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him

Because that's only your point of view.

Most will likely see you as harassing his family.

I said him all my feelings to him on chat. I don't know who saw it. No response. Maybe his brother. If it was him, he would have responded my feelings in at least some way and would have understand my pain and would have said me anything nicely, but I didn't get that, i got harsh responses for expressing my fears and feelings of care on him

Maybe he saw it and responded to your feelings harshly.

No maybe, only his brother was harsh with me previously. He was never harsh. He always tried to make me feel special and good about myself but never bad about myself, and he was very sweet with me on phone call too but since his brother was beating him he holded up the call

Bottom line: He's never gonna do anything about this.

he may do. Who knows? When I got blocked from his number I asked everyone whether to ask him the reason or not and whether to call him or not. Everyone said don't. But I did, finally to hear his sweet voice and caring replies, it clearly shown me that he didn't block me, after that his bro spoke to me and he was very harsh with me, so here it is clear that something is happening and his brother is not letting me connect with him

Again, his family will never let you guys be together.

it's his life. his wish. I want to give him the chance to open up about his feelings in a privacied manner

You already gave him many chances. He doesn't need more.
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I didn't give a privacied chance, i just gave open chances always
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.
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Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

Why they will put me in jail for asking him the truth? His brother already warned me previously that he will call police if I will talk to him. But he said me that I can talk to him while his brother was aside. But his brother was beating him while he was saying me this. He holded up the call immediately and messaged me not to call or message to his number, but I did after a few days, that is two days ago, and got these harsh responses. Don't know who is having his phone now and don't know who replied me

They may put you in jail for not leaving him and his family alone.

I care for him, so I want to give him a chance to speak up. So, I will take help of someone and get to know the truths. What's wrong in it? I'll make someone else ask him

Because that's only your point of view.

Most will likely see you as harassing his family.

I said him all my feelings to him on chat. I don't know who saw it. No response. Maybe his brother. If it was him, he would have responded my feelings in at least some way and would have understand my pain and would have said me anything nicely, but I didn't get that, i got harsh responses for expressing my fears and feelings of care on him

Maybe he saw it and responded to your feelings harshly.

No maybe, only his brother was harsh with me previously. He was never harsh. He always tried to make me feel special and good about myself but never bad about myself, and he was very sweet with me on phone call too but since his brother was beating him he holded up the call

Bottom line: He's never gonna do anything about this.

he may do. Who knows? When I got blocked from his number I asked everyone whether to ask him the reason or not and whether to call him or not. Everyone said don't. But I did, finally to hear his sweet voice and caring replies, it clearly shown me that he didn't block me, after that his bro spoke to me and he was very harsh with me, so here it is clear that something is happening and his brother is not letting me connect with him

Again, his family will never let you guys be together.

it's his life. his wish. I want to give him the chance to open up about his feelings in a privacied manner

You already gave him many chances. He doesn't need more.

I didn't give a privacied chance, i just gave open chances always

He still doesn't need more.
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he wanted to tell me something, so he said that he will talk to me later, he said u can talk to me and i'm not stopping you from that but please don't call by yourself he said
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