@TheSag
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wtf.... why can't the good looking guys get the girl (Page 3)
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@TheTinMan
oh sorry bro. I was talking about women generally being skeptical up front. not after knowing me. They don't believe genuine interest all the time.
I'm generally seen as attractive and due to my pedigree just well spoken and educated. then my clothes come off and they go oh I didn't know you were hiding that.
I have noticed during the summer I tend to get more attention as I am wearing less.
holy shit. is that you in your profile pic? ... you wanna grab a drink sometime 😉
Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.I think for me this is exactly it. I only maintain a society accepted level of appearance in order to snag a man. Once I can manage to achieve such an onerous task I will cease to perform any sort of grooming task on myself because what the fuck for?
It's a no brainer.
I knew someone would be honest! My friend's wife acts like she broke her leg in a chocolate factory and just survived off of engorging herself on chocolate... no kids.. yes she works, but why you go and get fat though. I yelled at him the other day because I wanted him to come with me to the gym to give her some motivation since he's too scared to tell her something... I definitely ain't saying shit... her macaroni and cheese is the bomb.
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Two and a half years in and I still shave my legs in the winter, so you can fuck right off with that shit. 😄
Maybe it’s character flaws, like narcissism or a sense of self entitlement that turns women off. There’s a big difference in attitude between people who are confident in their appearance and those who are smug about it.
Women will subconsciously go for men who don't seem serious until they are actually ready for that imo. What you looking for?
I'm actually down for whatever it leads to.
Posted by hellosaggy
@stillstillwaterholy shit. is that you in your profile pic? ... you wanna grab a drink sometime 😉
lol! A sag man....
Maybe others do not see
what you think is obvious.
What is great to one is not
necessarily great to others.
Take the air
out the ball.
Posted by hellosaggy
Granted, this new Cap I'm talking to, I met her scorp friend and we hit it off pretty good. she was side eyeing her friend all last night.The cap is pretty and a sweet heart. the scorp is cute and rough around the edges... I bet if I did synastry I would have chemistry with the scorp but since I haven't had sex with cap yet, I can't say I couldn't see myself with cap... I could use some nurturing right now. Cap would be perfect.
Dude you're such a CATCH 22!!!! 😡
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.I think for me this is exactly it. I only maintain a society accepted level of appearance in order to snag a man. Once I can manage to achieve such an onerous task I will cease to perform any sort of grooming task on myself because what the fuck for?
It's a no brainer.
I knew someone would be honest! My friend's wife acts like she broke her leg in a chocolate factory and just survived off of engorging herself on chocolate... no kids.. yes she works, but why you go and get fat though. I yelled at him the other day because I wanted him to come with me to the gym to give her some motivation since he's too scared to tell her something... I definitely ain't saying shit... her macaroni and cheese is the bomb.
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oh @Jeane lol - ah hell no - I continue to maintain no matter what - lol - I have high standards for myself - and I make very good food but I make it for him - he actually told me to stop putting so much food on his plate lol
Posted by hellosaggy
@stillstillwaterholy shit. is that you in your profile pic? ... you wanna grab a drink sometime 😉
lol! A sag man....
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LOL. truth be told that is my barometer of if I should actually even have sex with a woman.. if afterwards I was still wanting it.....and I always end up wanting it... Need to find a new test lol.
Posted by hellosaggy
@stillstillwaterholy shit. is that you in your profile pic? ... you wanna grab a drink sometime 😉
lol! A sag man....
LOL. truth be told that is my barometer of if I should actually even have sex with a woman.. if afterwards I was still wanting it.....and I always end up wanting it... Need to find a new test lol.
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I get that... but with that barometer it means sleeping with a lot of people, no? Unless you're really good at picking them out the first time.
Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.I think for me this is exactly it. I only maintain a society accepted level of appearance in order to snag a man. Once I can manage to achieve such an onerous task I will cease to perform any sort of grooming task on myself because what the fuck for?
It's a no brainer.
I knew someone would be honest! My friend's wife acts like she broke her leg in a chocolate factory and just survived off of engorging herself on chocolate... no kids.. yes she works, but why you go and get fat though. I yelled at him the other day because I wanted him to come with me to the gym to give her some motivation since he's too scared to tell her something... I definitely ain't saying shit... her macaroni and cheese is the bomb.
oh @Jeane lol - ah hell no - I continue to maintain no matter what - lol - I have high standards for myself - and I make very good food but I make it for him - he actually told me to stop putting so much food on his plate lol
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Well tctao, you know, I realise my cleanliness and appearance is only maintained because good looking men will accept nothing less. I realise that all my self worth is wrapped up on grabbing myself a good looking fella. Why else would I want to look and smell good? For me? Hell no. As op said, he is good looking and women don't want to approach because possibly they realise they too will have to continue to have an acceptable appearance. I'm not sure what acceptable entails but no doubt, op has clear views on what that looks like.
I also realise that because this thing like washing everyday, brushing my hair, cleaning my teeth is a lot to continue to do for the sake of a relationship with a handsome man. I guess I have to go for the ugly gent so he will put up with me. Maybe one day, an ugly man will look kindly on me and when I've got him, then I can start working on my very own yeast infection.
Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.I think for me this is exactly it. I only maintain a society accepted level of appearance in order to snag a man. Once I can manage to achieve such an onerous task I will cease to perform any sort of grooming task on myself because what the fuck for?
It's a no brainer.
I knew someone would be honest! My friend's wife acts like she broke her leg in a chocolate factory and just survived off of engorging herself on chocolate... no kids.. yes she works, but why you go and get fat though. I yelled at him the other day because I wanted him to come with me to the gym to give her some motivation since he's too scared to tell her something... I definitely ain't saying shit... her macaroni and cheese is the bomb.
oh @Jeane lol - ah hell no - I continue to maintain no matter what - lol - I have high standards for myself - and I make very good food but I make it for him - he actually told me to stop putting so much food on his plate lol
Well tctao, you know, I realise my cleanliness and appearance is only maintained because good looking men will accept nothing less. I realise that all my self worth is wrapped up on grabbing myself a good looking fella. Why else would I want to look and smell good? For me? Hell no. As op said, he is good looking and women don't want to approach because possibly they realise they too will have to continue to have an acceptable appearance. I'm not sure what acceptable entails but no doubt, op has clear views on what that looks like.
I also realise that because this thing like washing everyday, brushing my hair, cleaning my teeth is a lot to continue to do for the sake of a relationship with a handsome man. I guess I have to go for the ugly gent so he will put up with me. Maybe one day, an ugly man will look kindly on me and when I've got him, then I can start working on my very own yeast infection.
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omg you are too funny - lol - I guess I am stubborn - I refuse to be the one that goes down first - lol
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back then I was brutally muscular and alpha, well maybe contained a little......let's say waterweight as we experts like to call it, but still I was a solid killer.
Now I am more lean at 183 lbs and feel like one of those italian male models from Milano..😢
it's almost 3 a.m in europe and I am about to go to work in like 1,5 hrs without any sleep.....
will be back in like 10 hrs