@hellosaggy
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wtf.... why can't the good looking guys get the girl
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We think they’re player types and that men find it hard to resist when girls throw themselves at them.
Granted, this new Cap I'm talking to, I met her scorp friend and we hit it off pretty good. she was side eyeing her friend all last night.
The cap is pretty and a sweet heart. the scorp is cute and rough around the edges... I bet if I did synastry I would have chemistry with the scorp but since I haven't had sex with cap yet, I can't say I couldn't see myself with cap... I could use some nurturing right now. Cap would be perfect.
Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.
That’s just stupid lol
Posted by edgelord
pics or gtfo
lmao @edgelord I hope you are like this IRL, because I would enjoy seeing in live in person.
Posted by hellosaggy
Granted, this new Cap I'm talking to, I met her scorp friend and we hit it off pretty good. she was side eyeing her friend all last night.The cap is pretty and a sweet heart. the scorp is cute and rough around the edges... I bet if I did synastry I would have chemistry with the scorp but since I haven't had sex with cap yet, I can't say I couldn't see myself with cap... I could use some nurturing right now. Cap would be perfect.
Well I guess you just proved why girls are wary of good looking guys🤦🏻♀️
Some people play it safe and go for the girl/guy next door types because they don't wanna roll the dice on someone that a lot of people perceive as players. Idk just my two cents, stupid reason but yeah 🙂
But at the same time he’s not in a relationship with the cap and he has the right to change his mind and date someone else whether that happens to be her friend or not.
It’ll be the friends fault if she says yes despite knowing that the cap has feelings etc.
what do you mean by goodlooking??
there's all types of good lookin men that some women dont find good looking.lol
it's perception and taste. Just like the topics of the types of men we think are good looking but not to others.
Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.
Yeah that! You got it right 🙃
no no no @edgelord she bartends and her friend came up to keep her company and I did as well. with the football game on she wanted to get to know me and we drank and had a good time. cap was working we were talking. I think the cap is sweet. I haven't dated a sweet girl ever, I am trying to change my pattern up - I just hope to god the sex will be good. I normally go for sexy mysterious women.
funny thing was Scorp wanted to go party after bar shut down at 11... cap wanted to go, after I said sure bc she asked me in front of her I thought it was a group invite...scorp was like wtf you never want to go out. she was like well I do tonight. I was like. well maybe its not a good idea(because I felt like I caused a problem accepting the invite) I have to work in the morning and said I was going home.
whoops lol
Posted by hellosaggy
Granted, this new Cap I'm talking to, I met her scorp friend and we hit it off pretty good. she was side eyeing her friend all last night.The cap is pretty and a sweet heart. the scorp is cute and rough around the edges... I bet if I did synastry I would have chemistry with the scorp but since I haven't had sex with cap yet, I can't say I couldn't see myself with cap... I could use some nurturing right now. Cap would be perfect.
You're killing me with this shit! lol Sloring it up!!! You're making Sag men look bad. 😆 Pick one and don't go after the damn friend!
Yep.me and cap aren't dating. we just really started hanging out. last week. I haven't put moves on her. I know Caps like to go slow. I just really enjoy her company and she's a sweet girl. I try to not hurt sweet people with my indecisiveness. She would be a change up in my personality type though. I'm nervous about that because I don't want to sleep with her, and get turned off by her. when she's pretty good people.
I don't mean too! I feel like you are judging me.
@RooSagicorn
Ok Ok... I know it SOUNDS backwards... LMAO.... I can't defend it...
Posted by hellosaggy
@stillstillwaterYep.me and cap aren't dating. we just really started hanging out. last week. I haven't put moves on her. I know Caps like to go slow. I just really enjoy her company and she's a sweet girl. I try to not hurt sweet people with my indecisiveness. She would be a change up in my personality type though. I'm nervous about that because I don't want to sleep with her, and get turned off by her. when she's pretty good people.
What’s your usual type?
Caps can be impulsive well at least me and sometimes I regret and other times I don’t lol.
@CaramelizedCoffee
How am I confused? I'm not with anyone. So... does that mean I stop talking to everyone in the world I find interesting if I make a new friend? I'm not THAT bad, I'm saying the Cap's girlfriend is cool and typically my type, but I wouldn't do it to Cap girl I just met, and I am just saying when I finally do get the Cap in bed, it better be good, or I will not be interested in continuing a relationship. thus, ruining a blossoming friendship with said Cap due to sexual incompatibility.
@edgelord
That would be marvelous for a threesome. then she'd definitely be sexually compatible with me. wouldn't be a question. I haven't had a threesome in 5 years...
Posted by edgelord
pics or gtfo
x100!
I just like emotionally unavailable women who are sexy and kind of smart (they don't need to be super intelligent just hold a conversation)... and laugh at my jokes. I don't even need a career woman. that's why I worked so hard. I've dated up and down the rainbow. race isn't an issue for me at all, or a type. well I don't date fat chicks, just because most of the time being fat is a choice. but she doesn't have to be a super model, just not obese.
My ex scorp was a swimsuit model for a couple of magazines and did bikini contests and she had a master's degree from her home country in Europe, and was studying here in US for a bachelors... sex was great. I would have married her and was loyal to her the whole time.
I just need an above average sexual competency, a good friend, and someone I can break out of their emotional solitude, but won't smother the ish out of me. that's not much to ask.
Posted by hellosaggy
@edgelordThat would be marvelous for a threesome. then she'd definitely be sexually compatible with me. wouldn't be a question. I haven't had a threesome in 5 years...
I'm gonna cut off your dick if I ever see you!!! Lmao.
OH MY GAWD!!! 😂😂😂😂
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by hellosaggy
@CaramelizedCoffeeHow am I confused? I'm not with anyone. So... does that mean I stop talking to everyone in the world I find interesting if I make a new friend? I'm not THAT bad, I'm saying the Cap's girlfriend is cool and typically my type, but I wouldn't do it to Cap girl I just met, and I am just saying when I finally do get the Cap in bed, it better be good, or I will not be interested in continuing a relationship. thus, ruining a blossoming friendship with said Cap due to sexual incompatibility.
how old are you?
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I'm 33.... 34 on Dec 14th. Hey my 3rd Decan Saggys!
Posted by hellosaggy
@saggurl88you can see me if you have a +1 boo 🙂
lolol
😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
Ok... its been brought to my attention "arrogance" or should I just say confidence and a strong resume, but anyway I digress, and honesty don't mix well together.
to whom I offended I apologize, well I don't really, I was told to say it.
I am a bad person, no I really am not and I'm a whore, well... ok that's true
BUT!
I will say I am great to be around. anybody that's spoken to me likes me 🙂
@TheCapNi
Nice! you are on my dodgeball team now lol
@CaramelizedCoffee
um yeah. so what I'm 34. I know myself better than most people would care to admit about their own selves or even really know. and I'm fun as all get out. I have great energy.
Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.
@Timon
you hurt my feelings. People actually accuse me of catfishing on dating sites, then when they meet me they ask, why are you single? I just shrug and say nobody loves me 😢 I work too hard and don't have time to make friends 😢 ... will you be my friend 🙂
I feel like we need to vape some flower and chat. I love neptunian energy 🙂
@CaramelizedCoffee
let me make this clear. nothing dumb about me. top 7% MBA graduate in 2014. I treat everybody respectfully. I just don't tie myself down to someone just because they find me interesting. I know I will cheat if the sex sucks so I give it a few times and move on if its not to my liking. while I am with you you have my full attention, if you need help emotional financially I;m there, and I'm great company and can cook. but sex is really important to me. nothing wrong with that. someone who can respect my boundaries of independence and love me from a distance until I come home is what matters to me. I worked too hard to have a basic chick. So it might be easier to date than be in a relationship. I would LIKE a relationship and build some history, but the two times it happened I got my heart broken due to one getting cancer and another not being able to take the long distance.
I don't know or care how good-looking you are. I just love your confidence🤘
I don't think women realize how many of them aren't that good in bed. just because you get off and I get off doesn't mean it was good. it means it was serviceable.
It's not just the guys with ED and OPC (one pump chumps) that make it bad sex.
It's good to see guys being goofy as well.
Posted by hellosaggy
@LadyNeptuneI feel like we need to vape some flower and chat. I love neptunian energy 🙂
Chat away you perfect 10 man.
Posted by clownloyal
most good looking guys aren't usually long term material for the sole purpose that they can't be trusted because women's psych dives and pulls up all insecurities possible to sabotage the relationshipnow if both ppl are mentally/emotionally mature, have the same values, and offer as much as the other is offering it'll work
I keep my distance from really good looking guys because I don't think I have a chance regardless of how attractive I am perceived
That's interesting. Maybe just you re insecure. Appearance just one thing. Can't make judgement by look.
that's the thing. you CAN trust me. I am one of the most honest, trust worthy people out there. You will probably hate me for it, but you will respect it.
Posted by hellosaggy
that's the thing. you CAN trust me. I am one of the most honest, trust worthy people out there. You will probably hate me for it, but you will respect it.
HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAH
Says the dude that straight up left his chick and abandoned her.
K.
Posted by edgelord
@hellosaggy i think i've decided you're my new platonic dxp husband.
You captain save a hoe the worst people on here.
Posted by edgelord
pics or gtfo
😆 this should have been the end of this thread lol
Posted by edgelord
pics or gtfo
😆 this should have been the end of this thread lol
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@hellosaggy i think i've decided you're my new platonic dxp husband.
You captain save a hoe the worst people on here.
nikki bruh 😐
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You do.
I don't even want a "10" I want a solid 7.5 - 8. without makeup All I'm asking... and a great friend and good sex.
I just tend to go for the 8.5 - 9.5, I don't think anyone is perfect. (my swim suit model ex had no eyebrows, she drew them on everyday and hammer toes from wearing heels all the time and prancing around being pretty)... but face body wise people drooled all over her. we would have had pretty kids, who knows.... anyway.... her oral sex skills lacked but she was a freak so I dealt with it. people reminding me everyday how hot she was made me vainly happy also.
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Posted by edgelord
@hellosaggy i think i've decided you're my new platonic dxp husband.
You captain save a hoe the worst people on here.
nikki bruh 😐
You do.
another 😐 for you.
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This is why Ram is on my fb. 😆
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't even want a "10" I want a solid 7.5 - 8. without makeup All I'm asking... and a great friend and good sex.I just tend to go for the 8.5 - 9.5, I don't think anyone is perfect. (my swim suit model ex had no eyebrows, she drew them on everyday and hammer toes from wearing heels all the time and prancing around being pretty)... but face body wise people drooled all over her. we would have had pretty kids, who knows.... anyway.... her oral sex skills lacked but she was a freak so I dealt with it. people reminding me everyday how hot she was made me vainly happy also.
Posted by Sheever
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't even want a "10" I want a solid 7.5 - 8. without makeup All I'm asking... and a great friend and good sex.I just tend to go for the 8.5 - 9.5, I don't think anyone is perfect. (my swim suit model ex had no eyebrows, she drew them on everyday and hammer toes from wearing heels all the time and prancing around being pretty)... but face body wise people drooled all over her. we would have had pretty kids, who knows.... anyway.... her oral sex skills lacked but she was a freak so I dealt with it. people reminding me everyday how hot she was made me vainly happy also.
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lolol...have seen this posted here before....hilarious....
@edgelord
I didn't get my ring tho or more importantly my bachelor party! 🙂
I know this might sound cliche... but.... whats you sign? 🙂
Posted by hellosaggy
@stillstillwaterI just like emotionally unavailable women who are sexy and kind of smart (they don't need to be super intelligent just hold a conversation)... and laugh at my jokes. I don't even need a career woman. that's why I worked so hard. I've dated up and down the rainbow. race isn't an issue for me at all, or a type. well I don't date fat chicks, just because most of the time being fat is a choice. but she doesn't have to be a super model, just not obese.
My ex scorp was a swimsuit model for a couple of magazines and did bikini contests and she had a master's degree from her home country in Europe, and was studying here in US for a bachelors... sex was great. I would have married her and was loyal to her the whole time.
I just need an above average sexual competency, a good friend, and someone I can break out of their emotional solitude, but won't smother the ish out of me. that's not much to ask.
Lol interesting. It’s hard to find emotionally unavailable women if you yourself are that. If that makes sense ? Those who are emotionally unavailable only act unavailable when the other person is showing and hoping for commitment. So for you it’d be hard to find I imagine.
Hmm you got find the rest of her chart.
Capricorn are capricious in that they’re available and then not and then they’re so there but then ghost.
guilty. i run away from overly attractive males out of intimidation. less more now that im older. i still run away from overly manicured or accessorized men bc i figure they are higher maintenance than I'm willing to deal with lol 🙊
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Posted by hellosaggy
@stillstillwaterI just like emotionally unavailable women who are sexy and kind of smart (they don't need to be super intelligent just hold a conversation)... and laugh at my jokes. I don't even need a career woman. that's why I worked so hard. I've dated up and down the rainbow. race isn't an issue for me at all, or a type. well I don't date fat chicks, just because most of the time being fat is a choice. but she doesn't have to be a super model, just not obese.
My ex scorp was a swimsuit model for a couple of magazines and did bikini contests and she had a master's degree from her home country in Europe, and was studying here in US for a bachelors... sex was great. I would have married her and was loyal to her the whole time.
I just need an above average sexual competency, a good friend, and someone I can break out of their emotional solitude, but won't smother the ish out of me. that's not much to ask.
Lol interesting. It’s hard to find emotionally unavailable women if you yourself are that. If that makes sense ? Those who are emotionally unavailable only act unavailable when the other person is showing and hoping for commitment. So for you it’d be hard to find I imagine.
Hmm you got find the rest of her chart.
Capricorn are capricious in that they’re available and then not and then they’re so there but then ghost.
🙏Give this Sag a Cap with fire and air in her chart with a hint of being a sexual nympho.
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Sexual nympho is a tall glass to fill. I think a sag or Aries are better suited for that.
Posted by hellosaggy
@LadyNeptuneI know this might sound cliche... but.... whats you sign? 🙂
Pisces.
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Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.