Mamita91
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BTW I'm taurus with aries moon and cancer in venus... I have a lot of cancer in my chart.
Posted by Mamita91
BTW I'm taurus with aries moon and cancer in venus... I have a lot of cancer in my chart.
You have alot of Cancer I see..... If you want more attention pleasure him more or expect the flaking to increase.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
So, my Pisces and I rarely know what we're going to do when we get up in the morning. We say "wanna do blah blah blah?" and then the other says "yeah, that's cool...maybe around ...?" and sometimes it happens, and sometimes it does not. This changes as the day goes on. Maybe we say we're going to go to a movie and shopping, but then we don't feel like shopping after the movie, so we don't go. It caused us a lot of consternation in the beginning, because we both do this (I'm Pisces dominant) and one would get miffed at the other, but now that we're used to one another it's just us getting to be ourselves and back out of shit when we feel like it.
Also, gamers are very serious about new games. If this is a game he's been looking forward to for a long time, he's actually tearing himself away from it to hang with you.
Obviously, it might also be that he's just not that into you, but that's not what it sounds like.
Thank you, this is the sort of insight I was looking for as I'm not very familiar with pisces mentality, but those I do know seem quite dreamy and in their own world. Do you think there's anything I can do about my overreaction, or is it forgivable? Didn't scare him hopefully..
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Mamita91
BTW I'm taurus with aries moon and cancer in venus... I have a lot of cancer in my chart.
You have alot of Cancer I see..... If you want more attention pleasure him more or expect the flaking to increase.click to expand
Haha I give bj on demand, every time. Our sex life is pretty good
Posted by Mactavish_RPosted by Phantom_Dangus
So, my Pisces and I rarely know what we're going to do when we get up in the morning. We say "wanna do blah blah blah?" and then the other says "yeah, that's cool...maybe around ...?" and sometimes it happens, and sometimes it does not. This changes as the day goes on. Maybe we say we're going to go to a movie and shopping, but then we don't feel like shopping after the movie, so we don't go. It caused us a lot of consternation in the beginning, because we both do this (I'm Pisces dominant) and one would get miffed at the other, but now that we're used to one another it's just us getting to be ourselves and back out of shit when we feel like it.
Also, gamers are very serious about new games. If this is a game he's been looking forward to for a long time, he's actually tearing himself away from it to hang with you.
Obviously, it might also be that he's just not that into you, but that's not what it sounds like.
This.
Nothing to worry about here fellow OP, everything is fine with you two, don't panic and overthink and spoil this, take it slow ans learn to swim with the Pisces' flow, if he plans to do something, 5/10 it can also happen he forgets about it or cancels it later on, can be for various reasons, we are always preoccupied with something.
Best of luck to you two.click to expand
Haha OK š I'm glad I posted, to find out more about pisces mind.. I just hope I didn't overreact too much, I was visibly on the verge of tears! Urghh
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Also, the great thing about going with the flow is sometimes they think of something cooler to do at the last minute. Can lead to nice surprises.
Aww this is a sweet way of looking at it š thank you, I feel better now and understand pisces mind more
Posted by Mamita91Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Mamita91
BTW I'm taurus with aries moon and cancer in venus... I have a lot of cancer in my chart.
You have alot of Cancer I see..... If you want more attention pleasure him more or expect the flaking to increase.
Haha I give bj on demand, every time. Our sex life is pretty goodclick to expand
Well that helps to not keep him at bay. Stay consistent and only worry if the flaking increases.
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
Gamer widow......been there, done that....
Pisces are prone to escapism so he may be playing his game and not even be aware how long it has been, he will get lost in it....
I've a Pisces/Aqua moon friend....she is a lovely woman but very unreliable...she took one year to reply to one of my texts last year š.
Neptune š
I've a Pisces/Aqua moon friend....she is a lovely woman but very unreliable...she took one year to reply to one of my texts last year š.
Neptune š
I know Pisces to be forgetful!
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.click to expand
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
They were out at a movie together, and afterward, he wanted to go home to play the game instead of hanging with her more, which is what he'd suggested earlier. She already said the reason he wanted to play was because he just installed a game he could play with his close friends who have moved away. If you care about your guy, you care about his emotional health, and he needs more than you for that. He needs his hobbies and friends who fulfill him. I see him trying to balance that and not communicating it with her as smoothly as he should have.click to expand
You sound very compassionate and understanding. I think you're right, plus he doesn't have many friends here, and he said it's his way of socialising.
There has become a problem with gaming addiction, young men especially isolate themselves and the screen and console becomes their friends and replaces socializing
Posted by HearttofTopazz
I know youāre upset but this is one of those things where you just need to let it go, and address IF it starts to become a pattern. Let him play his game. Itās normal and has nothing to do with you lol. He has Aqua moon and thatās probably his way of relaxing or zoning out. They need their quiet time.
Yes I was looking online to find more info on pisces sun and aqua moon and couldn't find much. I attract aqua moons though and they seem to need lots of freedom! Thank you for your advice ā¤ļø
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.click to expand
You had a gaming addiction? How did you heal it?
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by MyStarsShine
There has become a problem with gaming addiction, young men especially isolate themselves and the screen and console becomes their friends and replaces socializing
Yes, but most people who play video games are not addicted. If young women tried to date men who don't play them, they would severely limit their dating pool.
"72% of men ages 18 to 29 play video games"
https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/09/17/5-facts-about-americans-and-video-games/<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Yes I can believe it. I was lucky to go on to meet two guys after i was with a gamer who never played, one a musician and the other a lecturer....totally different to my ex, so they are out there.
OP, this may give some insight on the sun moon combo
https://astroligion.com/pisces-sun-aquarius-moon/
https://astroligion.com/pisces-sun-aquarius-moon/
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
You had a gaming addiction? How did you heal it?click to expand
Big time! Played it non stop on the weekends, as soon as I got home from school til bedtime everyday during high school. One thing that healed it was alcohol... switched from one addiction to another. I was in college tho at this time and it was a big party school. I only drank at night but every night. I mean there was always a party to go to!! Frat parties, house parties, night clubs, different bars for certain days. It was fun. I miss college for sure. I still continued to play tho. Just not as much. Then eventually I started getting headaches from playing. Thatās why I completely stopped. Now I just play games on my phone. Solitaire, roller coaster tycoon, and words with friends at the moment. I donāt drink too much anymore. Only on vacations and Social events.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
You had a gaming addiction? How did you heal it?
Big time! Played it non stop on the weekends, as soon as I got home from school til bedtime everyday during high school. One thing that healed it was alcohol... switched from one addiction to another. I was in college tho at this time and it was a big party school. I only drank at night but every night. I mean there was always a party to go to!! Frat parties, house parties, night clubs, different bars for certain days. It was fun. I miss college for sure. I still continued to play tho. Just not as much. Then eventually I started getting headaches from playing. Thatās why I completely stopped. Now I just play games on my phone. Solitaire, roller coaster tycoon, and words with friends at the moment. I donāt drink too much anymore. Only on vacations and Social events.click to expand
You did well to overcome your addictions and be aware of them š
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
You had a gaming addiction? How did you heal it?
Big time! Played it non stop on the weekends, as soon as I got home from school til bedtime everyday during high school. One thing that healed it was alcohol... switched from one addiction to another. I was in college tho at this time and it was a big party school. I only drank at night but every night. I mean there was always a party to go to!! Frat parties, house parties, night clubs, different bars for certain days. It was fun. I miss college for sure. I still continued to play tho. Just not as much. Then eventually I started getting headaches from playing. Thatās why I completely stopped. Now I just play games on my phone. Solitaire, roller coaster tycoon, and words with friends at the moment. I donāt drink too much anymore. Only on vacations and Social events.
You did well to overcome your addictions and be aware of them šclick to expand
I was always functioning fine. I did my school work and jobs came first. But once those responsibilities were completed, I didnāt want to do anything else, but play video games. That was bad. No social interaction. At least drinking gave me that.
I don't see the problem... It sounds like you did have your date and he didn't forget anything
You didn't have your work stuff.. You made the excuse to not hang out more
Gotta learn to improvise
Not cool when people look at zodiac signs and find a way to blame it. He's not forgetful or escapist because he's pisces.. It sounds like he actually made time for you outside his hobby
You didn't have your work stuff.. You made the excuse to not hang out more
Gotta learn to improvise
Not cool when people look at zodiac signs and find a way to blame it. He's not forgetful or escapist because he's pisces.. It sounds like he actually made time for you outside his hobby
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
So, my Pisces and I rarely know what we're going to do when we get up in the morning. We say "wanna do blah blah blah?" and then the other says "yeah, that's cool...maybe around ...?" and sometimes it happens, and sometimes it does not. This changes as the day goes on. Maybe we say we're going to go to a movie and shopping, but then we don't feel like shopping after the movie, so we don't go. It caused us a lot of consternation in the beginning, because we both do this (I'm Pisces dominant) and one would get miffed at the other, but now that we're used to one another it's just us getting to be ourselves and back out of shit when we feel like it.
One thing- above all- I appreciate the most about gems is their spontaneous nature. Despite my fixed dominant chart, I can still very much be changeable and it is such a relief to be partnered with someone whoās not only going to be ok with it, but perhaps even appreciate it. My gem and I ride each otherās waves on the daily. LoL If we are not about to strangle one another, we are like to peas in a pod.
As for the OP, you guys have Venus square by sign which might cause some consternation but if you can learn how to appreciate some tension as a learning curve, it may not be as challenging after all.
Also, as someone already mentioned, you neednāt repeatedly apologize for the disappointment he was the root cause of to begin with! If we are to split hairs that is. Youāre good!
Posted by NemDeux
If you were standing in front of the cinema and waited for an hour without hearing a peep from him for the rest of the day/night, that would be a forgotten date.
Smfh.
āhe said he was going to buy a pack of cigarettes, but he never came back!ā -as my Pisces sis from Germany would say in those kind of situations! ššš
Bless our randomness!
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by ArgusPosted by Phantom_Dangus
So, my Pisces and I rarely know what we're going to do when we get up in the morning. We say "wanna do blah blah blah?" and then the other says "yeah, that's cool...maybe around ...?" and sometimes it happens, and sometimes it does not. This changes as the day goes on. Maybe we say we're going to go to a movie and shopping, but then we don't feel like shopping after the movie, so we don't go. It caused us a lot of consternation in the beginning, because we both do this (I'm Pisces dominant) and one would get miffed at the other, but now that we're used to one another it's just us getting to be ourselves and back out of shit when we feel like it.
One thing- above all- I appreciate the most about gems is their spontaneous nature. Despite my fixed dominant chart, I can still very much be changeable and it is such a relief to be partnered with someone whoās not only going to be ok with it, but perhaps even appreciate it. My gem and I ride each otherās waves on the daily. LoL If we are not about to strangle one another, we are like to peas in a pod.
As for the OP, you guys have Venus square by sign which might cause some consternation but if you can learn how to appreciate some tension as a learning curve, it may not be as challenging after all.
Also, as someone already mentioned, you neednāt repeatedly apologize for the disappointment he was the root cause of to begin with! If we are to split hairs that is. Youāre good!
It's such a relief not to feel constant pressure to keep to a schedule. Obviously, sometimes we need to, and do, but when we don't have to, both of us prefer to be spontaneous.
Also, there's this factor for both of us. lol
https://reductress.com/post/im-not-mysterious-i-just-have-ibs/<div class="bqfade">click to expand
LoL
I love the candidness of the article!!! Speaking of which, I really never understood ppls fascination with āmysteriousā individuals. Itās not like they are working on some high level classified stuff pertaining time travel and other related quantum physics subjects. Or summoning dark overlords for that matter! But I digress!
Thanks for the article. It made me chuckle for sure!
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by ArgusPosted by NemDeux
If you were standing in front of the cinema and waited for an hour without hearing a peep from him for the rest of the day/night, that would be a forgotten date.
Smfh.
āhe said he was going to buy a pack of cigarettes, but he never came back!ā -as my Pisces sis from Germany would say in those kind of situations! ššš
Bless our randomness!
Hahaha mozda je to i istina. š¤£
Ali ovo je stvarno sranje
At least she could have used these "....". Misleading intro.
Come taurus season, my boyfriend forgot my birfday.
Daaaaj molim te lipo. š„
Ode ja ....ljubim te janje š„°šššclick to expand
Itās always a possibility for sure! š
I do see where OPs anxiety (and I say anxiety with intent) is coming from but I also agree with the fact that she could greatly benefit from just taking a deep breath and letting small things slide!
Best advise anyone could give anyone in life is as simple as āPick your battles carefully!ā, OP. Otherwise youāll burn yourself out prematurely!
Okie lane moje...ljubi seka! Äuvaj mi se! šššš»
Posted by FuckItWhateverPosted by ArgusPosted by FuckItWhatever
Pisces men are trash
*spits on the ground in disgust*
š¬
Donāt spit on the ground, the ground didnāt do anything wrong. Youāre supposed to spit on me ššclick to expand
And youād like that too, wouldnāt you!? LoL
Good grief, Pisces manās kinkiness knows no bounds!
Besides, you donāt deserve to be spat on! Not just yet anyway! Iām m saving it for special occasion! ;p
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by ArgusPosted by Phantom_Dangus
So, my Pisces and I rarely know what we're going to do when we get up in the morning. We say "wanna do blah blah blah?" and then the other says "yeah, that's cool...maybe around ...?" and sometimes it happens, and sometimes it does not. This changes as the day goes on. Maybe we say we're going to go to a movie and shopping, but then we don't feel like shopping after the movie, so we don't go. It caused us a lot of consternation in the beginning, because we both do this (I'm Pisces dominant) and one would get miffed at the other, but now that we're used to one another it's just us getting to be ourselves and back out of shit when we feel like it.
One thing- above all- I appreciate the most about gems is their spontaneous nature. Despite my fixed dominant chart, I can still very much be changeable and it is such a relief to be partnered with someone whoās not only going to be ok with it, but perhaps even appreciate it. My gem and I ride each otherās waves on the daily. LoL If we are not about to strangle one another, we are like to peas in a pod.
As for the OP, you guys have Venus square by sign which might cause some consternation but if you can learn how to appreciate some tension as a learning curve, it may not be as challenging after all.
Also, as someone already mentioned, you neednāt repeatedly apologize for the disappointment he was the root cause of to begin with! If we are to split hairs that is. Youāre good!
It's such a relief not to feel constant pressure to keep to a schedule. Obviously, sometimes we need to, and do, but when we don't have to, both of us prefer to be spontaneous.
Also, there's this factor for both of us. lol
https://reductress.com/post/im-not-mysterious-i-just-have-ibs/<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Lol š
Posted by MyStarsShine
Gamer widow......been there, done that....
I havenāt been there and I always thought game addiction is a mental issue. š¤·āāļø
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
If you have a dim view of gaming as a hobby, best not to date a gamer. You'll always be resentful that he is doing something "stupid" instead of spending time with you. If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
Sooo...you donāt live up to the game? Game is more appealing? Thatās sad.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Dangus
If you have a dim view of gaming as a hobby, best not to date a gamer. You'll always be resentful that he is doing something "stupid" instead of spending time with you. If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
Sooo...you donāt live up to the game? Game is more appealing? Thatās sad.
Am I desperate for his attention and can't get it or is he desperate for mine and can't get it? I can't keep up with which fantasy about my marriage you're currently living in.click to expand
Apparently his attention is for the games.
And I donāt remember yiur marriage story...I normally replying to a subject without considering sources so I donāt really remember your story. I just replied to what you said. Your husband prefers game playing to being with you. Thatās what I thought. Nothing else.
Posted by FuckItWhateverPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Dangus
If you have a dim view of gaming as a hobby, best not to date a gamer. You'll always be resentful that he is doing something "stupid" instead of spending time with you. If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
Sooo...you donāt live up to the game? Game is more appealing? Thatās sad.
So when a person goes to take a shit or piss and they have a significant other, that means their significant other doesnāt live up to shut and piss? Interesting š¤
Everyone knows the tell-tale sign of a healthy relationship is crippling insecurity caused by hobbies and only being a co-dependent sticking like glue 24/7 makes for a healthy relationshipclick to expand
If you spend hours in a bathroom I would suggest you make an appt with urologist.
It was finger up an ass comparison...
Posted by FuckItWhateverPosted by GemitatiPosted by FuckItWhateverPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Dangus
If you have a dim view of gaming as a hobby, best not to date a gamer. You'll always be resentful that he is doing something "stupid" instead of spending time with you. If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
Sooo...you donāt live up to the game? Game is more appealing? Thatās sad.
So when a person goes to take a shit or piss and they have a significant other, that means their significant other doesnāt live up to shut and piss? Interesting š¤
Everyone knows the tell-tale sign of a healthy relationship is crippling insecurity caused by hobbies and only being a co-dependent sticking like glue 24/7 makes for a healthy relationship
If you spend hours in a bathroom I would suggest you make an appt with urologist.
It was finger up an ass comparison...
You know your boyfriend/girlfriend donāt literally cease to exist when people play video games right? Getting mad at people paying attention to other things except you for a few hours.....yikes š¬click to expand
Few hours vs right after work and going to bed after playing. Like 5-8 hours...while their partner right there...then up in the morning going to work to come back and play the games...same ahit...different day...š¤·āāļø
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Dangus
If you have a dim view of gaming as a hobby, best not to date a gamer. You'll always be resentful that he is doing something "stupid" instead of spending time with you. If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
Sooo...you donāt live up to the game? Game is more appealing? Thatās sad.
Am I desperate for his attention and can't get it or is he desperate for mine and can't get it? I can't keep up with which fantasy about my marriage you're currently living in.
Apparently his attention is for the games.
And I donāt remember yiur marriage story...I normally replying to a subject without considering sources so I donāt really remember your story. I just replied to what you said. Your husband prefers game playing to being with you. Thatās what I thought. Nothing else.
Sure. I'm just imagining that you insult my marriage (and everyone else's relationships) every chance you get.
I did not say that. I did not even come close to saying that. You're nasty and a liar.click to expand
I though you written this:
If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
So I thought however happy his gaming makes HIM - you just making up ahit about being HAPPY about him being a gamer. THATS ALL...
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by GemitatiPosted by FuckItWhateverPosted by GemitatiPosted by FuckItWhateverPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Dangus
If you have a dim view of gaming as a hobby, best not to date a gamer. You'll always be resentful that he is doing something "stupid" instead of spending time with you. If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
Sooo...you donāt live up to the game? Game is more appealing? Thatās sad.
So when a person goes to take a shit or piss and they have a significant other, that means their significant other doesnāt live up to shut and piss? Interesting š¤
Everyone knows the tell-tale sign of a healthy relationship is crippling insecurity caused by hobbies and only being a co-dependent sticking like glue 24/7 makes for a healthy relationship
If you spend hours in a bathroom I would suggest you make an appt with urologist.
It was finger up an ass comparison...
You know your boyfriend/girlfriend donāt literally cease to exist when people play video games right? Getting mad at people paying attention to other things except you for a few hours.....yikes š¬
Few hours vs right after work and going to bed after playing. Like 5-8 hours...while their partner right there...then up in the morning going to work to come back and play the games...same ahit...different day...š¤·āāļø
Where are you getting this information? Why are you pulling scenarios from your ass to insult with? I have never said how we play games, how often we fuck, or anything of the sort. You invent all of this.click to expand
I was t talking to YOU!
But me being right bugs shit out of you.
Have you heard saying...donāt argue with mental person because people who are watching wonāt be able to tell who is mental.
YOU KNOW you canāt do shit about what I am saying and you continuing to try to get up my ass...and I am not bothered...you are.
Maybe itās because I am mental? ššš
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by GemitatiPosted by FuckItWhateverPosted by GemitatiPosted by FuckItWhateverPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Dangus
If you have a dim view of gaming as a hobby, best not to date a gamer. You'll always be resentful that he is doing something "stupid" instead of spending time with you. If my husband didn't game I wouldn't get any alone time, and I need my alone time (for gaming, painting, reading, etc.)
Sooo...you donāt live up to the game? Game is more appealing? Thatās sad.
So when a person goes to take a shit or piss and they have a significant other, that means their significant other doesnāt live up to shut and piss? Interesting š¤
Everyone knows the tell-tale sign of a healthy relationship is crippling insecurity caused by hobbies and only being a co-dependent sticking like glue 24/7 makes for a healthy relationship
If you spend hours in a bathroom I would suggest you make an appt with urologist.
It was finger up an ass comparison...
You know your boyfriend/girlfriend donāt literally cease to exist when people play video games right? Getting mad at people paying attention to other things except you for a few hours.....yikes š¬
Few hours vs right after work and going to bed after playing. Like 5-8 hours...while their partner right there...then up in the morning going to work to come back and play the games...same ahit...different day...š¤·āāļø
Where are you getting this information? Why are you pulling scenarios from your ass to insult with? I have never said how we play games, how often we fuck, or anything of the sort. You invent all of this.
I was t talking to YOU!
But me being right bugs shit out of you.
Have you heard saying...donāt argue with mental person because people who are watching wonāt be able to tell who is mental.
YOU KNOW you canāt do shit about what I am saying and you continuing to try to get up my ass...and I am not bothered...you are.
Maybe itās because I am mental? ššš
You're right about it being stupid to let you get to me. Tata, Tati.click to expand
I am always right...š
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
They were out at a movie together, and afterward, he wanted to go home to play the game instead of hanging with her more, which is what he'd suggested earlier. She already said the reason he wanted to play was because he just installed a game he could play with his close friends who have moved away. If you care about your guy, you care about his emotional health, and he needs more than you for that. He needs his hobbies and friends who fulfill him. I see him trying to balance that and not communicating it with her as smoothly as he should have.click to expand
You gotta let this girl answer. Not assume youāre right because of your own relationship. Itās two different people living a completely different life. Iāll wait for facts from the op.
Thank you everyone for your responses and insights. I have another qs, as I really don't know much about pisces. Should I be a bit more forward and ask to see him? It's pretty balanced at the moment, I read pisces need to be lead sometimes, but his venus is aries so maybe he needs to chase me and I should let him ask me out more?
Leave it
Venus in Aries chase if they want you. I was with one who chased me for almost five years...although no Pisces in his chart...
Venus in Aries chase if they want you. I was with one who chased me for almost five years...although no Pisces in his chart...
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Mamita91
Thank you everyone for your responses and insights. I have another qs, as I really don't know much about pisces. Should I be a bit more forward and ask to see him? It's pretty balanced at the moment, I read pisces need to be lead sometimes, but his venus is aries so maybe he needs to chase me and I should let him ask me out more?
Forget it.click to expand
Forget what?
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Mamita91
Thank you everyone for your responses and insights. I have another qs, as I really don't know much about pisces. Should I be a bit more forward and ask to see him? It's pretty balanced at the moment, I read pisces need to be lead sometimes, but his venus is aries so maybe he needs to chase me and I should let him ask me out more?
Forget it.click to expand
Forget what?
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
They were out at a movie together, and afterward, he wanted to go home to play the game instead of hanging with her more, which is what he'd suggested earlier. She already said the reason he wanted to play was because he just installed a game he could play with his close friends who have moved away. If you care about your guy, you care about his emotional health, and he needs more than you for that. He needs his hobbies and friends who fulfill him. I see him trying to balance that and not communicating it with her as smoothly as he should have.
You gotta let this girl answer. Not assume youāre right because of your own relationship. Itās two different people living a completely different life. Iāll wait for facts from the op.
this is very illogical. as youĀ“re jumping to conclusions based on your own experiences, too. how the fuck can you just assume "he is probably addicted" to gaming from the little and extremely vague info presented?click to expand
All the bitchās claws are out! šš¤£š
Posted by Mamita91
Thank you everyone for your responses and insights. I have another qs, as I really don't know much about pisces. Should I be a bit more forward and ask to see him? It's pretty balanced at the moment, I read pisces need to be lead sometimes, but his venus is aries so maybe he needs to chase me and I should let him ask me out more?
I kindly told my Pisces 3 times what i wanted and needed in a relationship. Which is security and to hang out more. On the 3rd time, I told him if I didnāt get it, I couldnāt be in the relationship. He listened to me and I feel like itās allowed us to move forward.
So maybe being forward is a good idea with Pisces. I donāt know. Itās my first time dating one.
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by pinkbird03Posted by NemDeuxPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by pinkbird03
He just wants to play his game with his friends. Itās actually a lot more fun than you understand. And it has nothing to do with you. However, he isnāt balancing his time or making you a priority.
But he DID make her a priority. He hung out with her.
Sounds like he canceled on her one day. Plus sheās writing on here about it. Things have changed since he started gaming. Probably because heās addicted. Iāve been there. Serious addiction. Halo and call of duty and gears of war. For a decade... I understand it.
They were out at a movie together, and afterward, he wanted to go home to play the game instead of hanging with her more, which is what he'd suggested earlier. She already said the reason he wanted to play was because he just installed a game he could play with his close friends who have moved away. If you care about your guy, you care about his emotional health, and he needs more than you for that. He needs his hobbies and friends who fulfill him. I see him trying to balance that and not communicating it with her as smoothly as he should have.
You gotta let this girl answer. Not assume youāre right because of your own relationship. Itās two different people living a completely different life. Iāll wait for facts from the op.
this is very illogical. as youĀ“re jumping to conclusions based on your own experiences, too. how the fuck can you just assume "he is probably addicted" to gaming from the little and extremely vague info presented?
All the bitchās claws are out! šš¤£š
Learn to read and comprehend.click to expand
Cold too. Whereās your heart?
Posted by Mamita91
He did forget as he'd double booked that day. The only reason I we t was because he asked me to come over with food as he felt sick, but he played video games that night and I worked a bit and read my book, didn't count..
Learn to read and comprehend what?
Hunnie donāt listen to this girl. Sheās miserable and not even trying to understand your perspective. Ignore her completely.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Mamita91
He did forget as he'd double booked that day. The only reason I we t was because he asked me to come over with food as he felt sick, but he played video games that night and I worked a bit and read my book, didn't count..
Learn to read and comprehend what?
Hunnie donāt listen to this girl. Sheās miserable and not even trying to understand your perspective. Ignore her completely.click to expand
...she's also very intuitive .... Pisces sun, Scorpio moon
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Posted by Mamita91
He did forget as he'd double booked that day. The only reason I we t was because he asked me to come over with food as he felt sick, but he played video games that night and I worked a bit and read my book, didn't count..
Learn to read and comprehend what?
Hunnie donāt listen to this girl. Sheās miserable and not even trying to understand your perspective. Ignore her completely.
...she's also very intuitive .... Pisces sun, Scorpio moon
šclick to expand
It totally gets looked over when sheās rude and disrespectful. Iāll pass on her.
You're trying to manipulate him using astrology. It won't work. But what u could do is focus on your hobbies more and let him enjoy his
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