Pisces Ex annoy my bf

So me n my bf are dating, then his pisces ex gf keep on stuck between us. And using suicides to blackmail my bf, my bf is very compassionate, so he worrying that she will do it for real, so he told me to give him time to fix it, and its annoying the hell out of me. She keep guilt trips my bf and even atk him physically, being all aggressive on him. I couldn’t stand it, i told him call the police, but he doesn’t want. She even use knife and bring glass bottle to my bf work place to scare him n suicide.

What should i do?

How to make a pisces girl stop all of these shits?

He told me to trust him n he will fix it, because he also busy with his masters course n work, the stupid ex gf just added more burden to us.

Posted by RedemptionSong
M first thought was to kick her ass. But that's not the best solution. Lol. What is his sign and what is yours?

My bf sign is Virgo and I am Cancer.

I wish i can kick her ass too lol

But my bf wanted to fix it peacefully, he doesnt want to involve police or family.

But he wanted me to back him up n help him.

Posted by Impulsv
CALL the cops on her next time she cries wolf

Welfare check

I told my bf call the cops too, but he said doesnt want to be too mean.

That’s too over for him.

Posted by UnicornSag
My ex had one ex like that. His solution was ignore her. It worked lol spread a word about it

I told him to ignore her, and let her be.

Then he said when he ignores her, she goes all crazy, bring knifes and stuffs, then throw glass bottle, throw chairs, slap him, kick him, i wanted to face to face talk to her, but my bf scare she stab me, so he wont let us talk n meet.

Posted by Impulsv
WHAt sign is your bf

Duh Pisces lol

I’d leave till he mans up

My bf is a Virgo

Posted by Cvurkoo
Just let the guy deal with it on his own as he's asked you. Its none of your business.

So i just let my bf handle it and i support him ?

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Posted by Cvurkoo
Just let the guy deal with it on his own as he's asked you. Its none of your business.

My skepticism pertaining the OP notwithstanding, suppose the claims are true, it kinda IS her business though... whether she asked for it or not!

That said, I concur that he should be the one to take care of it!

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Ok, i will just leave it to him. But i just got annoyed. Because of this girl, she ruining everything and it pissed me off lol

Obviously she is mentally unstable so you should really just step out and support him like he asked you. Imagine if she actually kill her self... he would never forgive him self for no trying to help her. Terrible situation for all of you. He must be extremely stressed about it and if you don’t support him now I think it will damage your relationship. Be patient.

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Obviously she is mentally unstable so you should really just step out and support him like he asked you. Imagine if she actually kill her self... he would never forgive him self for no trying to help her. Terrible situation for all of you. He must be extremely stressed about it and if you don’t support him now I think it will damage your relationship. Be patient.

Ya i am being supportive on him. I follow what he told me to do and try to support him and accompany him pass thru this. He just told me to give him time, and keep ask me to trust him. I hope this end soon, i just heartache to see my bf being abuse by that crazy bitch lol

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Just let the guy deal with it on his own as he's asked you. Its none of your business.

So i just let my bf handle it and i support him ?

Yes, please.

If i was in such a situation and my current gf was pressuring me id feel worse and would probably distance myself from her

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Thanks for your advice. I will just support him and stay with him whenever he needed my help. I guess i just a bit cant accept the fact that he told me that he couldnt contact me for few days. The ex going crazy and he wants me to wait until he contact me.

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Obviously she is mentally unstable so you should really just step out and support him like he asked you. Imagine if she actually kill her self... he would never forgive him self for no trying to help her. Terrible situation for all of you. He must be extremely stressed about it and if you don’t support him now I think it will damage your relationship. Be patient.

Ya i am being supportive on him. I follow what he told me to do and try to support him and accompany him pass thru this. He just told me to give him time, and keep ask me to trust him. I hope this end soon, i just heartache to see my bf being abuse by that crazy bitch lol

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I can imagine... terrible situation. But you are doing good. Hopefully it doesn’t last long. It’s normal for him to feel responsible so he just needs to deal with it.

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Obviously she is mentally unstable so you should really just step out and support him like he asked you. Imagine if she actually kill her self... he would never forgive him self for no trying to help her. Terrible situation for all of you. He must be extremely stressed about it and if you don’t support him now I think it will damage your relationship. Be patient.

Ya i am being supportive on him. I follow what he told me to do and try to support him and accompany him pass thru this. He just told me to give him time, and keep ask me to trust him. I hope this end soon, i just heartache to see my bf being abuse by that crazy bitch lol

I can imagine... terrible situation. But you are doing good. Hopefully it doesn’t last long. It’s normal for him to feel responsible so he just needs to deal with it.

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Ya, its terrible. Hopefully it doesn’t last long. And i hope he really can fix it asap. Because he has to focus his studies and part time job. Now this crazy ex, he said he just wants solve and end it peacefully. Thanks, I hope I can handle it too, I am really depressed due to this lol, but I can’t be weak at this moment, else no one is going to give him positive energy.

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Posted by RedemptionSong
kick her ass.

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Haha! I really want to kick her ass and slap her badly -.-

Honestly I think the first step is for you to understand the situation the best you can and put your own ego aside. Your bf would actually appreciate it more if you don't get upset about the situation, but rather, show that you've accepted it and show your support. Learn to let go of any negative feelings you may have and understand that he may be feeling things all on his own already and you wouldn't want to add to that. If you truly trust your bf, then you shouldn't worry about your insecurities and thoughts of him and his ex. If his love for you is truly genuine and authentic then he will never do the things you mostly fear of in the relationship. Trust in him to handle the situation. Accept what was, let go of what is, and have faith in what will be.

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Just let the guy deal with it on his own as he's asked you. Its none of your business.

So i just let my bf handle it and i support him ?

Yes, please.

If i was in such a situation and my current gf was pressuring me id feel worse and would probably distance myself from her

Thanks for your advice. I will just support him and stay with him whenever he needed my help. I guess i just a bit cant accept the fact that he told me that he couldnt contact me for few days. The ex going crazy and he wants me to wait until he contact me.

I get it, but have confidence in him. If he returns with the problem fixed it will be a proof you can trust him which is essential for a healthy relationship

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Ya true. Thanks! I will just trust him and give him time.

Use it as a oppurtunity to see if he is the man for me.

Ya must have confidence in him.

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My ex had one ex like that. His solution was ignore her. It worked lol spread a word about it

I told him to ignore her, and let her be.

Then he said when he ignores her, she goes all crazy, bring knifes and stuffs, then throw glass bottle, throw chairs, slap him, kick him, i wanted to face to face talk to her, but my bf scare she stab me, so he wont let us talk n meet.

DO NOT GO ANYWHERE NEAR THAT WOMAN!

She might ACTUALLY stab you, she sounds crazy!

A crazy Pisces is unpredictable, especially when it's about love. Probably the only time a pisces would hurt someone.

I still think you guys should call the cops. Your bf might lose his job with her coming all crazy with glass bottles to stab people.

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Ya, my bf not allow me to go near her.

He said he will handle it.

I guess if i go near to her, she will really stab me lol.

She is crazy.

Me n my bf need to act like we have fight and not talking, just to calm her down.

She keep doing physically violence on my bf.

Ya i told him to call the cops if really way too far. He still insist not to call the cops for now. I hope nothing bad will happen to him ltr.

Ya he told me his boss is very unhappy to him. And his friends, classmates, everyone know the ex already.

Any ideas how to deal with crazy pisces like this?

Posted by Raakac
I had exactly the same thing with my ex pisces, tho i was single, she was playing the victim, suice and so on and trying me to be with her just out of pity.... Don't get into that shit ..... Doesn' matter how much you want to help the person, you should help and be with them because you want to, not because you are afraid or out of pity. I've fallen in that trap once i remember, didn't do it again. Fucks you up real time. Either say to your BF to be happy with your or go back to his ex if he want's 2. Don't hold a person and say what you mean to him, this triangle shit will fuck up your relationship if you let it go further, either he drops that ex for good and ignores her or you leave him, there's no other way, not from the healthy way anyways. Goodluck and stay strong ! You deserve the best, and if the guy isn't ready to move from the past you should let him go.

Ya she is really crazy.

Actually my bf already broke her up, but she keep thinking that they are still together. Like she is living in her own world. And not listen to advices and keep threaten suicides.

Ya i am kinda unhappy that this has lead to this point. I kinda disappointed, but i told my bf that i will help him and support him to get thru this.

We were all good and fine until this crazy ex gf came, and keep abusing, threaten.

I hate the fact that he cant call the cops.

He wanted to fix it by himself.

Now i just wait n see what he can do and try support him, but i am sure this is damaging my relationship, if this keep going on and non stop. I might just end up give up.

Ya thanks! I will stay strong, i hope this end soon.

If he cant fix his past then i will just break up i guess.

Posted by Raakac
Well goodluck on that. I think that pisces is beying manipulative, she will either get him back or fuck up your relationship, i hope i'm wrong tho, stay strong.

I dont think my bf will go back to her, because she is too crazy.

He told me he is unhappy.

Keep being abused.

Like he keep seek helps from me, so i just try my best to find solutions n support him.

This is gonna be hard, the ex will not give up easily, since no cops involved.

She isnt scare at all.

How exactly is he fixing it? By sleeping with her and what? Telling her every time it’s the last time?

I can’t imagine fixing tactics if his with a mental person!

She knows they are broken up though he is living you to fix IT with her! What is he fixing? Break up? Hmmmmm

Refusing to get police involved is strange. He doesn’t want to me mean to a person who treatening to take his/hers life?

That’s immature. Or he is afraid of something else. Does she have some shit on him he wants to keep hush-hush?

You might need to consult some professionals or just go to police and ask for an advise. Just to get info and pass it into him because his fixing apparently doesn’t work!

You facing relationships IF he comes back where she will be popping here and there and stalking you both in future. Who needs that ‘happy end’?

You have a tons of crap to deal with.

Do you want him that badly?

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I had exactly the same thing with my ex pisces, tho i was single, she was playing the victim, suice and so on and trying me to be with her just out of pity.... Don't get into that shit ..... Doesn' matter how much you want to help the person, you should help and be with them because you want to, not because you are afraid or out of pity. I've fallen in that trap once i remember, didn't do it again. Fucks you up real time. Either say to your BF to be happy with your or go back to his ex if he want's 2. Don't hold a person and say what you mean to him, this triangle shit will fuck up your relationship if you let it go further, either he drops that ex for good and ignores her or you leave him, there's no other way, not from the healthy way anyways. Goodluck and stay strong ! You deserve the best, and if the guy isn't ready to move from the past you should let him go.

Ya she is really crazy.

Actually my bf already broke her up, but she keep thinking that they are still together. Like she is living in her own world. And not listen to advices and keep threaten suicides.

Ya i am kinda unhappy that this has lead to this point. I kinda disappointed, but i told my bf that i will help him and support him to get thru this.

We were all good and fine until this crazy ex gf came, and keep abusing, threaten.

I hate the fact that he cant call the cops.

He wanted to fix it by himself.

Now i just wait n see what he can do and try support him, but i am sure this is damaging my relationship, if this keep going on and non stop. I might just end up give up.

Ya thanks! I will stay strong, i hope this end soon.

If he cant fix his past then i will just break up i guess.

He can't fix that, she either needs a doctors help or she's just manipulating him to get him back, pity and fear is really strong emotion, people often get what they want when they use it, she's passive aggressive.

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Ya i told him to tell his parents or find the cops. Because i dont think he can fix it by himself. She is really good in manipulating, keep guilt trips him and threaten suicide.

I dont know what can i do anymore, it made me frustrated.

Posted by Gemitati
How exactly is he fixing it? By sleeping with her and what? Telling her every time it’s the last time?

I can’t imagine fixing tactics if his with a mental person!

She knows they are broken up though he is living you to fix IT with her! What is he fixing? Break up? Hmmmmm

Refusing to get police involved is strange. He doesn’t want to me mean to a person who treatening to take his/hers life?

That’s immature. Or he is afraid of something else. Does she have some shit on him he wants to keep hush-hush?

You might need to consult some professionals or just go to police and ask for an advise. Just to get info and pass it into him because his fixing apparently doesn’t work!

You facing relationships IF he comes back where she will be popping here and there and stalking you both in future. Who needs that ‘happy end’?

You have a tons of crap to deal with.

Do you want him that badly?

I dont know if he sleep with her.

I cant trust him like 100%

He keep saying to give him time fix it, but the girl is crazy, how can he fix it just like that.

She cant accept th fact that everything is end.

Ya i hate it when he doesnt want to go for police.

He said he dont want it to involve police if possible, because that’s too mean.

But she is hurting him, i dont know he refused, im thinking he just afraid or not brave enough to find the police. Maybe i shud find some professionals for help as u said.

Ya, i thought of that too.

Even he “fixed”

But i still think the girl will keep stalking us.

I dont think thats what we want too as the ending.

The reason i stay and help him is because before i was in a emotional abusive relationship too. He helped me get thru it and then i am really thankful for him.

So later on we both get together and never expect his ex gf will do shitss like this, so thats why i said i will stay n help him just like what he did for me last time.

Posted by Raakac
People don't realise how strong manipulation is, especially passive aggressive, she's playing the victim, and the attention she's geting from him is satisfying enough to keep going, in the end she will either have what she wants, she will either make him sleep with him and fuck up your relationship or she's really i'll and have something done to him or to herself which will make your relationship even worse because he will blame himself... The moment he got involved with her manipulation he casted a shadow on your relationship, she's more important to him now that you are, fear, anxiety and guilt are really strong feelings, people need to realise manipulation like this because if not, they will fuck up their own life and in this case yours. I'd say you need to talk to him about how you feel, that you don't want him involved and so on, say it because you want, not because you're waiting for responce and then distance yourself. He needs to figure this shit out on his own, in a place he's in right now pushing him would make things even worse, i hope you'll be fine and stay strong. 🙂

Thanks for the advice! I think I will find a day and talk about it with him.

Since now he is busy with studies n job.

His final coming soon.

If not this is not going to end, its endless.

The girl is crazy, I contact some of the abuse helpline for help too. I hope it helps.

Too bad i cant face to face talk to the girl, i think she will be more unstable when she see me.

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How exactly is he fixing it? By sleeping with her and what? Telling her every time it’s the last time?

I can’t imagine fixing tactics if his with a mental person!

She knows they are broken up though he is living you to fix IT with her! What is he fixing? Break up? Hmmmmm

Refusing to get police involved is strange. He doesn’t want to me mean to a person who treatening to take his/hers life?

That’s immature. Or he is afraid of something else. Does she have some shit on him he wants to keep hush-hush?

You might need to consult some professionals or just go to police and ask for an advise. Just to get info and pass it into him because his fixing apparently doesn’t work!

You facing relationships IF he comes back where she will be popping here and there and stalking you both in future. Who needs that ‘happy end’?

You have a tons of crap to deal with.

Do you want him that badly?

I dont know if he sleep with her.

I cant trust him like 100%

He keep saying to give him time fix it, but the girl is crazy, how can he fix it just like that.

She cant accept th fact that everything is end.

Ya i hate it when he doesnt want to go for police.

He said he dont want it to involve police if possible, because that’s too mean.

But she is hurting him, i dont know he refused, im thinking he just afraid or not brave enough to find the police. Maybe i shud find some professionals for help as u said.

Ya, i thought of that too.

Even he “fixed”

But i still think the girl will keep stalking us.

I dont think thats what we want too as the ending.

The reason i stay and help him is because before i was in a emotional abusive relationship too. He helped me get thru it and then i am really thankful for him.

So later on we both get together and never expect his ex gf will do shitss like this, so thats why i said i will stay n help him just like what he did for me last time.

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I can just wish you luck and be safe.

Get some consulting and you CAN go to police station and talk to someone about abuse and they saw this more than you can imagine.

Someone has to step in and DO something about it. Though fixing mentals is an almost mission impossible.

We had a thread here when couple moved and phsyco followed them. I don’t remember how it ended. But they were married and it didn’t stop her!

Just be safe. Pray. And God bless! 🙌

DONT face her! For your own safety! She is not the one you want to be one on one with. Her rage is a power! You can’t deal with it. Leave that thought and if she will try to face you - run! She sees you as a obstacle to their ‘happily ever after’ and that’s all she need - you out!

Think of yourself and your family!

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Assuming she is serious about suicide, and seeing as how your bf knows her best and is worried she is for real..., your callous attitude towards this situation is gross. Not attractive at all.

Don’t let your own jealousies and insecurities overpower your capacity for empathy, compassion, and just basic human kindness.

Although if he told you she came to his work and threatened to stab herself and the cops weren’t called...idk I’d start to question these stories of his. The police are gonna get called if some girl walks into a place of business with a knife threatening to kill herself. Js.

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How exactly is he fixing it? By sleeping with her and what? Telling her every time it’s the last time?

I can’t imagine fixing tactics if his with a mental person!

She knows they are broken up though he is living you to fix IT with her! What is he fixing? Break up? Hmmmmm

Refusing to get police involved is strange. He doesn’t want to me mean to a person who treatening to take his/hers life?

That’s immature. Or he is afraid of something else. Does she have some shit on him he wants to keep hush-hush?

You might need to consult some professionals or just go to police and ask for an advise. Just to get info and pass it into him because his fixing apparently doesn’t work!

You facing relationships IF he comes back where she will be popping here and there and stalking you both in future. Who needs that ‘happy end’?

You have a tons of crap to deal with.

Do you want him that badly?

I dont know if he sleep with her.

I cant trust him like 100%

He keep saying to give him time fix it, but the girl is crazy, how can he fix it just like that.

She cant accept th fact that everything is end.

Ya i hate it when he doesnt want to go for police.

He said he dont want it to involve police if possible, because that’s too mean.

But she is hurting him, i dont know he refused, im thinking he just afraid or not brave enough to find the police. Maybe i shud find some professionals for help as u said.

Ya, i thought of that too.

Even he “fixed”

But i still think the girl will keep stalking us.

I dont think thats what we want too as the ending.

The reason i stay and help him is because before i was in a emotional abusive relationship too. He helped me get thru it and then i am really thankful for him.

So later on we both get together and never expect his ex gf will do shitss like this, so thats why i said i will stay n help him just like what he did for me last time.

I can just wish you luck and be safe.

Get some consulting and you CAN go to police station and talk to someone about abuse and they saw this more than you can imagine.

Someone has to step in and DO something about it. Though fixing mentals is an almost mission impossible.

We had a thread here when couple moved and phsyco followed them. I don’t remember how it ended. But they were married and it didn’t stop her!

Just be safe. Pray. And God bless! 🙌

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Thanks! Ya, mental is hard to fix.

She definitely need to see doc.

So my bf just told me that the ex gf want to talk to me, and he convinced her not to.

Because she seems like wanna do something bad maybe.

My bf just told me to stay safe and get out of this. But i can’t just do nothing.

Ya, i will go seek helps from professionals or police and ask for their suggestions.

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I had exactly the same thing with my ex pisces, tho i was single, she was playing the victim, suice and so on and trying me to be with her just out of pity.... Don't get into that shit ..... Doesn' matter how much you want to help the person, you should help and be with them because you want to, not because you are afraid or out of pity. I've fallen in that trap once i remember, didn't do it again. Fucks you up real time. Either say to your BF to be happy with your or go back to his ex if he want's 2. Don't hold a person and say what you mean to him, this triangle shit will fuck up your relationship if you let it go further, either he drops that ex for good and ignores her or you leave him, there's no other way, not from the healthy way anyways. Goodluck and stay strong ! You deserve the best, and if the guy isn't ready to move from the past you should let him go.

Ya she is really crazy.

Actually my bf already broke her up, but she keep thinking that they are still together. Like she is living in her own world. And not listen to advices and keep threaten suicides.

Ya i am kinda unhappy that this has lead to this point. I kinda disappointed, but i told my bf that i will help him and support him to get thru this.

We were all good and fine until this crazy ex gf came, and keep abusing, threaten.

I hate the fact that he cant call the cops.

He wanted to fix it by himself.

Now i just wait n see what he can do and try support him, but i am sure this is damaging my relationship, if this keep going on and non stop. I might just end up give up.

Ya thanks! I will stay strong, i hope this end soon.

If he cant fix his past then i will just break up i guess.

He can't fix that, she either needs a doctors help or she's just manipulating him to get him back, pity and fear is really strong emotion, people often get what they want when they use it, she's passive aggressive.

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Lol how is she passive aggressive tho?? You can’t get more aggressive than going to someone’s place of work with a knife. I mean...come on.

Posted by Gemitati
DONT face her! For your own safety! She is not the one you want to be one on one with. Her rage is a power! You can’t deal with it. Leave that thought and if she will try to face you - run! She sees you as a obstacle to their ‘happily ever after’ and that’s all she need - you out!

Think of yourself and your family!

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Ya, my bf told me to step out of this too.

Because the ex gf keep wanted to face me.

I guess she really has some bad intention and might be thinking taken me away will make him loves her back.

I contacted some professionals and helpline.

I hope they can help.

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Just let the guy deal with it on his own as he's asked you. Its none of your business.

So i just let my bf handle it and i support him ?

Yes, please.

If i was in such a situation and my current gf was pressuring me id feel worse and would probably distance myself from her

Thanks for your advice. I will just support him and stay with him whenever he needed my help. I guess i just a bit cant accept the fact that he told me that he couldnt contact me for few days. The ex going crazy and he wants me to wait until he contact me.

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So let me get this right. He’s disappeared to go help her for the next few days. Look sorry to expose him, but this is Christmas. People spend the holiday with family and their SO. If he’s spending it with her over you...idk man. Red flag. I wouldn’t stand for that.

Seems like a fishy excuse. I wouldn’t buy it.

Posted by HaziiFlo
I would leave him, I wouldn’t risk my life for another persons ex and than being in the middle of it all because he can’t man up.. that’s too much drama. All this violence harassment and craziness ain’t worth destroying your own emotional and mental health.

Within the last month I’ve learned, people who truly care show it and those that don’t, well they’re not for me. At this point, I’m fine with letting anybody go that’s going to drag me down.

I thought of leaving.

But he helped me and saved me before when i was under emotional abusive relationship for two years.

I even had the thought of suicide.

But he changed my life by helping me make the psycho away.

So that’s why i didn’t leave and choose to stay and help him.

It’s like returning a favor back for him.

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I had exactly the same thing with my ex pisces, tho i was single, she was playing the victim, suice and so on and trying me to be with her just out of pity.... Don't get into that shit ..... Doesn' matter how much you want to help the person, you should help and be with them because you want to, not because you are afraid or out of pity. I've fallen in that trap once i remember, didn't do it again. Fucks you up real time. Either say to your BF to be happy with your or go back to his ex if he want's 2. Don't hold a person and say what you mean to him, this triangle shit will fuck up your relationship if you let it go further, either he drops that ex for good and ignores her or you leave him, there's no other way, not from the healthy way anyways. Goodluck and stay strong ! You deserve the best, and if the guy isn't ready to move from the past you should let him go.

Ya she is really crazy.

Actually my bf already broke her up, but she keep thinking that they are still together. Like she is living in her own world. And not listen to advices and keep threaten suicides.

Ya i am kinda unhappy that this has lead to this point. I kinda disappointed, but i told my bf that i will help him and support him to get thru this.

We were all good and fine until this crazy ex gf came, and keep abusing, threaten.

I hate the fact that he cant call the cops.

He wanted to fix it by himself.

Now i just wait n see what he can do and try support him, but i am sure this is damaging my relationship, if this keep going on and non stop. I might just end up give up.

Ya thanks! I will stay strong, i hope this end soon.

If he cant fix his past then i will just break up i guess.

He can't fix that, she either needs a doctors help or she's just manipulating him to get him back, pity and fear is really strong emotion, people often get what they want when they use it, she's passive aggressive.

Lol how is she passive aggressive tho?? You can’t get more aggressive than going to someone’s place of work with a knife. I mean...come on.

Coming back to your ex and talking about suicide is passive aggressive manipulation to get what you want while playing a victim.

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She’s not just talking tho, is she. According to the bf she is showing up at his work, following him around, using a knife. That reads aggression to me. Not passive at all.

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Just let the guy deal with it on his own as he's asked you. Its none of your business.

So i just let my bf handle it and i support him ?

Yes, please.

If i was in such a situation and my current gf was pressuring me id feel worse and would probably distance myself from her

Thanks for your advice. I will just support him and stay with him whenever he needed my help. I guess i just a bit cant accept the fact that he told me that he couldnt contact me for few days. The ex going crazy and he wants me to wait until he contact me.

So let me get this right. He’s disappeared to go help her for the next few days. Look sorry to expose him, but this is Christmas. People spend the holiday with family and their SO. If he’s spending it with her over you...idk man. Red flag. I wouldn’t stand for that.

Seems like a fishy excuse. I wouldn’t buy it.

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We can’t spend Xmas together.

Because we aren’t in the same country.

Im currently in different country of him.

So im trying to seek for helps and suggestions from online.

The fact she using suicide just for threaten and get attentions.

She didn’t even really do it or actually

“Bleeding”

She just wanted to scare ppl.

The one she bring the knife and go to work place is she went right away to find my bf and scare him.

I dont think other ppl might see it, maybe some of them.

But my bf dont let them call the police.

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Well goodluck on that. I think that pisces is beying manipulative, she will either get him back or fuck up your relationship, i hope i'm wrong tho, stay strong.

I dont think my bf will go back to her, because she is too crazy.

He told me he is unhappy.

Keep being abused.

Like he keep seek helps from me, so i just try my best to find solutions n support him.

This is gonna be hard, the ex will not give up easily, since no cops involved.

She isnt scare at all.

Were you fucking him when they were together?

Like what's the time-line of all of this?

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I don’t I am.

Because when i know my bf, he is already single.

And i never question anything about his exes.

Because i don’t like to talk about past rel stuffs.

He told they are done before he get together with me, but the girl can’t accept it.

They are flatmate before, so currently she stay beside his room.

And she probably never thought that he get a gf already.

Until recently my bf accidentally left keys then she break in and ransack his room.

Then she found out our pictures and stuffs, she started becoming more crazier than before and cut and destroyed all our items n stuffs.

She cut all our polaroid pics into pieces =_=

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Just let the guy deal with it on his own as he's asked you. Its none of your business.

So i just let my bf handle it and i support him ?

Yes, please.

If i was in such a situation and my current gf was pressuring me id feel worse and would probably distance myself from her

Thanks for your advice. I will just support him and stay with him whenever he needed my help. I guess i just a bit cant accept the fact that he told me that he couldnt contact me for few days. The ex going crazy and he wants me to wait until he contact me.

So let me get this right. He’s disappeared to go help her for the next few days. Look sorry to expose him, but this is Christmas. People spend the holiday with family and their SO. If he’s spending it with her over you...idk man. Red flag. I wouldn’t stand for that.

Seems like a fishy excuse. I wouldn’t buy it.

We can’t spend Xmas together.

Because we aren’t in the same country.

Im currently in different country of him.

So im trying to seek for helps and suggestions from online.

The fact she using suicide just for threaten and get attentions.

She didn’t even really do it or actually

“Bleeding”

She just wanted to scare ppl.

The one she bring the knife and go to work place is she went right away to find my bf and scare him.

I dont think other ppl might see it, maybe some of them.

But my bf dont let them call the police.

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Honestly your bf is the problem here. You have no control over how she is going to act. However each time he entertains her hysterics by having you pretend to be in a fight with him or refusing to call the cops or tell his parents what is happening, he is adding fuel to the fire.

It’s not his job to ‘fix’ her. And seriously if he really cared about your well being AND her well being he would call the cops and try to get her some help. Fucking virgos and they’re capt. save a ho complex 😂

And for the record it’s still really strange and a red flag that he is saying he’s not going to contact you and for you not to contact him for the next few days. Is this because he is spending the holiday with her? Maybe...

I feel like you may be getting played by him...

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Well goodluck on that. I think that pisces is beying manipulative, she will either get him back or fuck up your relationship, i hope i'm wrong tho, stay strong.

I dont think my bf will go back to her, because she is too crazy.

He told me he is unhappy.

Keep being abused.

Like he keep seek helps from me, so i just try my best to find solutions n support him.

This is gonna be hard, the ex will not give up easily, since no cops involved.

She isnt scare at all.

Were you fucking him when they were together?

Like what's the time-line of all of this?

I don’t I am.

Because when i know my bf, he is already single.

And i never question anything about his exes.

Because i don’t like to talk about past rel stuffs.

He told they are done before he get together with me, but the girl can’t accept it.

They are flatmate before, so currently she stay beside his room.

And she probably never thought that he get a gf already.

Until recently my bf accidentally left keys then she break in and ransack his room.

Then she found out our pictures and stuffs, she started becoming more crazier than before and cut and destroyed all our items n stuffs.

She cut all our polaroid pics into pieces =_=

Well it could be he's lying and she's thinking they were actually together

He could be playing both of you

And he's still living with her.!!! Lol .. The chick that's threatening her own life going around with knives

You can't be this stupid!!!

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Yeah I just saw that. Op is in denial.

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Well if she really used a real knife you should def involve cops, that shit ain't normal.... Unless your BF is just making up stories to be with her, either way she's manipulating him and if the shit with knife is real and he doesn't want to call the cops , well he's really either stupid or he's making this shit up.

He insisted not to call the police until he really no choice and thats the last resort.

According to him, he said he is compassionate and he can’t be so heartless, she might be send to jail or whatever, she still studying.

But i guess the girl probably won’t stab him, unless it’s me lol

Im trying to seek helps from some abuse helpline too, i hope it works.

The ex gf is a chinese educated chinese girl, her way of thinking is very emotional and childish and not logic. According to my bf.

Usually the pure chinese edcuated one is more extreme, their way of thinking.

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Well if she really used a real knife you should def involve cops, that shit ain't normal.... Unless your BF is just making up stories to be with her, either way she's manipulating him and if the shit with knife is real and he doesn't want to call the cops , well he's really either stupid or he's making this shit up.

He insisted not to call the police until he really no choice and thats the last resort.

According to him, he said he is compassionate and he can’t be so heartless, she might be send to jail or whatever, she still studying.

But i guess the girl probably won’t stab him, unless it’s me lol

Im trying to seek helps from some abuse helpline too, i hope it works.

The ex gf is a chinese educated chinese girl, her way of thinking is very emotional and childish and not logic. According to my bf.

Usually the pure chinese edcuated one is more extreme, their way of thinking.

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Kinda racist of you.

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I had exactly the same thing with my ex pisces, tho i was single, she was playing the victim, suice and so on and trying me to be with her just out of pity.... Don't get into that shit ..... Doesn' matter how much you want to help the person, you should help and be with them because you want to, not because you are afraid or out of pity. I've fallen in that trap once i remember, didn't do it again. Fucks you up real time. Either say to your BF to be happy with your or go back to his ex if he want's 2. Don't hold a person and say what you mean to him, this triangle shit will fuck up your relationship if you let it go further, either he drops that ex for good and ignores her or you leave him, there's no other way, not from the healthy way anyways. Goodluck and stay strong ! You deserve the best, and if the guy isn't ready to move from the past you should let him go.

Ya she is really crazy.

Actually my bf already broke her up, but she keep thinking that they are still together. Like she is living in her own world. And not listen to advices and keep threaten suicides.

Ya i am kinda unhappy that this has lead to this point. I kinda disappointed, but i told my bf that i will help him and support him to get thru this.

We were all good and fine until this crazy ex gf came, and keep abusing, threaten.

I hate the fact that he cant call the cops.

He wanted to fix it by himself.

Now i just wait n see what he can do and try support him, but i am sure this is damaging my relationship, if this keep going on and non stop. I might just end up give up.

Ya thanks! I will stay strong, i hope this end soon.

If he cant fix his past then i will just break up i guess.

He can't fix that, she either needs a doctors help or she's just manipulating him to get him back, pity and fear is really strong emotion, people often get what they want when they use it, she's passive aggressive.

Lol how is she passive aggressive tho?? You can’t get more aggressive than going to someone’s place of work with a knife. I mean...come on.

Coming back to your ex and talking about suicide is passive aggressive manipulation to get what you want while playing a victim.

She’s not just talking tho, is she. According to the bf she is showing up at his work, following him around, using a knife. That reads aggression to me. Not passive at all.

Yeah, thats creepy , but i was talking about the passive aggressive thing. This thing is on another level lol. Either the BF is lying or that Pisces is really fucked up, sounds like a movie rather than reality 😄

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Seeing as how the bf is still living with the Pisces I am thinking the op is actually the other woman and both ladies are being played.

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Well if she really used a real knife you should def involve cops, that shit ain't normal.... Unless your BF is just making up stories to be with her, either way she's manipulating him and if the shit with knife is real and he doesn't want to call the cops , well he's really either stupid or he's making this shit up.

He insisted not to call the police until he really no choice and thats the last resort.

According to him, he said he is compassionate and he can’t be so heartless, she might be send to jail or whatever, she still studying.

But i guess the girl probably won’t stab him, unless it’s me lol

Im trying to seek helps from some abuse helpline too, i hope it works.

The ex gf is a chinese educated chinese girl, her way of thinking is very emotional and childish and not logic. According to my bf.

Usually the pure chinese edcuated one is more extreme, their way of thinking.

Kinda racist of you.

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Why am i racist when i am a chinese too? Lol

Im chinese educated as well, but i am not the extreme one.

We have diff method of teaching in our family when we are young, some are more old fashioned.

Not that open minded, that’s what i meant for his ex gf

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Well if she really used a real knife you should def involve cops, that shit ain't normal.... Unless your BF is just making up stories to be with her, either way she's manipulating him and if the shit with knife is real and he doesn't want to call the cops , well he's really either stupid or he's making this shit up.

He insisted not to call the police until he really no choice and thats the last resort.

According to him, he said he is compassionate and he can’t be so heartless, she might be send to jail or whatever, she still studying.

But i guess the girl probably won’t stab him, unless it’s me lol

Im trying to seek helps from some abuse helpline too, i hope it works.

The ex gf is a chinese educated chinese girl, her way of thinking is very emotional and childish and not logic. According to my bf.

Usually the pure chinese edcuated one is more extreme, their way of thinking.

Kinda racist of you.

Why am i racist when i am a chinese too? Lol

Im chinese educated as well, but i am not the extreme one.

We have diff method of teaching in our family when we are young, some are more old fashioned.

Not that open minded, that’s what i meant for his ex gf

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Ok. Sounded like you were going somewhere else with that.

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Well if she really used a real knife you should def involve cops, that shit ain't normal.... Unless your BF is just making up stories to be with her, either way she's manipulating him and if the shit with knife is real and he doesn't want to call the cops , well he's really either stupid or he's making this shit up.

He insisted not to call the police until he really no choice and thats the last resort.

According to him, he said he is compassionate and he can’t be so heartless, she might be send to jail or whatever, she still studying.

But i guess the girl probably won’t stab him, unless it’s me lol

Im trying to seek helps from some abuse helpline too, i hope it works.

The ex gf is a chinese educated chinese girl, her way of thinking is very emotional and childish and not logic. According to my bf.

Usually the pure chinese edcuated one is more extreme, their way of thinking.

Chinese girl with a knife? Sounds like a fucking horror movie. Well if she sowed up with a knife that's a real problem. Either your boyfriend is stupid or he's making a joke out of you, he could simply call cops and tell she tried to kill herself, he doesn't need to tell she came to him with a knife. Being compassionate or heartless has nothing to do with that, it's the best thing he could do for the girl if she's really that crazy or stupid, she needs a help from docs... Seriously this is some serious crazy shit, like a movie, he's either making it up or he's being used, either way you can't do nothing from the distance .

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I already told you to reach the cops if things out of control.

Now what i do is just try to support and help him back as much as i could.

As in to return my favor back to him, because he helped me.

Ya it’s crazy, but it is not something i can do much with my distance.

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Block her number

People who threathen suicide rarely actually do it

Ya thats what me and his friends told him too.

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Well goodluck on that. I think that pisces is beying manipulative, she will either get him back or fuck up your relationship, i hope i'm wrong tho, stay strong.

I dont think my bf will go back to her, because she is too crazy.

He told me he is unhappy.

Keep being abused.

Like he keep seek helps from me, so i just try my best to find solutions n support him.

This is gonna be hard, the ex will not give up easily, since no cops involved.

She isnt scare at all.

Were you fucking him when they were together?

Like what's the time-line of all of this?

I don’t I am.

Because when i know my bf, he is already single.

And i never question anything about his exes.

Because i don’t like to talk about past rel stuffs.

He told they are done before he get together with me, but the girl can’t accept it.

They are flatmate before, so currently she stay beside his room.

And she probably never thought that he get a gf already.

Until recently my bf accidentally left keys then she break in and ransack his room.

Then she found out our pictures and stuffs, she started becoming more crazier than before and cut and destroyed all our items n stuffs.

She cut all our polaroid pics into pieces =_=

Well it could be he's lying and she's thinking they were actually together

He could be playing both of you

And he's still living with her.!!! Lol .. The chick that's threatening her own life going around with knives

You can't be this stupid!!!

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Cc’s right you know.

If he’s playing you both and she thought they were still together and stumbled on these pics of you...cutting them up is a perfectly rational response to most.

She goes to his work to check in on his two timing ass. He tells the story to you completely different.

Irregardless of all that, why are you dating someone who lives with their ‘ex’? I know you came out of an abusive relationship but still, demand better.

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Block her number

People who threathen suicide rarely actually do it

He lives with the suicidal Pisces. Blocking her number isn’t going to do much when they share a fridge...

To make it clear: if she still thinks that they are in relationship (even if she is delusional crazy pisces), then the fact is that you are a REBOUND for the guy. Can’t be that long since they broke up.

No time alone and jumping from one woman to another should be a big no no no for you, even if you exclude all the drama with crazy ex.

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He lives with his ex but is in relationship with you? Wtf?!

Yea, he’s playing both of them. I also bet, that this is why the pisces is so upset and all fiery. He’s telling her fairy tales and cheats on her with cancer. The same on other side. Fairy tales for cancer, but still in pisces vagina.

No future, sorry. Get away.

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Well goodluck on that. I think that pisces is beying manipulative, she will either get him back or fuck up your relationship, i hope i'm wrong tho, stay strong.

I dont think my bf will go back to her, because she is too crazy.

He told me he is unhappy.

Keep being abused.

Like he keep seek helps from me, so i just try my best to find solutions n support him.

This is gonna be hard, the ex will not give up easily, since no cops involved.

She isnt scare at all.

Were you fucking him when they were together?

Like what's the time-line of all of this?

I don’t I am.

Because when i know my bf, he is already single.

And i never question anything about his exes.

Because i don’t like to talk about past rel stuffs.

He told they are done before he get together with me, but the girl can’t accept it.

They are flatmate before, so currently she stay beside his room.

And she probably never thought that he get a gf already.

Until recently my bf accidentally left keys then she break in and ransack his room.

Then she found out our pictures and stuffs, she started becoming more crazier than before and cut and destroyed all our items n stuffs.

She cut all our polaroid pics into pieces =_=

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@raakac

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Well goodluck on that. I think that pisces is beying manipulative, she will either get him back or fuck up your relationship, i hope i'm wrong tho, stay strong.

I dont think my bf will go back to her, because she is too crazy.

He told me he is unhappy.

Keep being abused.

Like he keep seek helps from me, so i just try my best to find solutions n support him.

This is gonna be hard, the ex will not give up easily, since no cops involved.

She isnt scare at all.

Were you fucking him when they were together?

Like what's the time-line of all of this?

I don’t I am.

Because when i know my bf, he is already single.

And i never question anything about his exes.

Because i don’t like to talk about past rel stuffs.

He told they are done before he get together with me, but the girl can’t accept it.

They are flatmate before, so currently she stay beside his room.

And she probably never thought that he get a gf already.

Until recently my bf accidentally left keys then she break in and ransack his room.

Then she found out our pictures and stuffs, she started becoming more crazier than before and cut and destroyed all our items n stuffs.

She cut all our polaroid pics into pieces =_=

@raakac

😐 Well then, that's that. 😄 I've only seen the 1st post when she made the topic, that's kinda fucked up, the girl who created the topic is just suffering for nothing, she shouldn't be with that guy.

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I don’t understand the naivety. I’m thinking this is a troll...