Pisces man and drama

So my pisces ex dumped me I got another post on here explaining all. Anyway I didn't want it but I feel so much better about it.

I sent him a txt by mistake congratulating my friend on the birth of her baby. As soon as it sent I sent another txt saying sorry not for you. He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes. The day before we were having a normal convo about me visiting theme parks etc.

I told him he seems to like drama and he really needs to take time out to think about if he really wants to be friends and if he does he needs to treat me with the respect I deserve or stay away.

I don't hate him.or anything close. I do think he hasn't treated me fairly but I've been concentrating on not holding a grudge etc.

My question is what on earth is his problem?

Do pisces men like drama?

Is he annoyed because ive taken a step back?

Just to be clear I didn't want the break up. So I would have thought I would be the one with a chip on my shoulder.

I'm a scorpio woman by the way.

Posted by Angie35scorp
So my pisces ex dumped me I got another post on here explaining all. Anyway I didn't want it but I feel so much better about it.

I sent him a txt by mistake congratulating my friend on the birth of her baby. As soon as it sent I sent another txt saying sorry not for you. He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes. The day before we were having a normal convo about me visiting theme parks etc.

I told him he seems to like drama and he really needs to take time out to think about if he really wants to be friends and if he does he needs to treat me with the respect I deserve or stay away.

I don't hate him.or anything close. I do think he hasn't treated me fairly but I've been concentrating on not holding a grudge etc.

My question is what on earth is his problem?

Do pisces men like drama?

Is he annoyed because ive taken a step back?

Just to be clear I didn't want the break up. So I would have thought I would be the one with a chip on my shoulder.

I'm a scorpio woman by the way.

my ex-husband Pisces could be like that at times - hated it ... why would someone even do that to another is beyond me - sorry but it always seemed to me that he like drama in a way but if you don't feed into it then your life will be more calm

Posted by Infinite8
Why are you still responding to him and trying to convince him of who he "should" be around you?

Stop talking to him. You like drama too if you respond back.

Just get your cat already. I'm not sure why you haven't done this faster. I wouldn't be able to rest knowing my pet was with such a manipulative weirdo... Who knows what he's capable of!

But all you seem o worry about is... Trying to convince him to be something he is NOT. ?

I didn't see it that way ...maybe your right ...im getting her at the end of the week finally!! He stopped ignoring me so arrangements were.made.

Yes I think your right I need to just shut it down completely.

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I like that last one - I say that all the time - that we were born alone, we die alone ...

I cant see pisces_hominis posts

"He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes."



Is this the drama you were talking about...? Take it easy, it sounds more like a joke/flirting to me.

One is for sure.....most Pisces like someone with a bit of a sense of humour!

BTW...your reply should have been : "I haven't made any significant mistakes since accepting to date you"

Posted by Undine
"He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes."



Is this the drama you were talking about...? Take it easy, it sounds more like a joke/flirting to me.

yes most people like others with a sense of humor - but if you are around someone who says these things you would know whether or not it's humor

in the case of my ex-husband it was not humor - not sure of his other placements - he would wake me up at 3am and ask me why his white socks get dirty walking on the floor - he would freak out if I didn't put the drain plug back in the sink after I cleaned it and it was sitting on the side of the sink - he would literally ask me "what type of person does these things' ... I finally just looked at him and said "I don't know what type of person does these things" ... he could be a nut case - sometimes astrology has absolutely nothing to do with people being strange

Posted by Undine
"He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes."



Is this the drama you were talking about...? Take it easy, it sounds more like a joke/flirting to me.

Oh no!!! It wasnt a joke he said at the end.of.it do what you keep.doing....It was such an immense reaction for something so small....

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Posted by Undine
"He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes."



Is this the drama you were talking about...? Take it easy, it sounds more like a joke/flirting to me.

yes most people like others with a sense of humor - but if you are around someone who says these things you would know whether or not it's humor

in the case of my ex-husband it was not humor - not sure of his other placements - he would wake me up at 3am and ask me why his white socks get dirty walking on the floor - he would freak out if I didn't put the drain plug back in the sink after I cleaned it and it was sitting on the side of the sink - he would literally ask me "what type of person does these things' ... I finally just looked at him and said "I don't know what type of person does these things" ... he could be a nut case - sometimes astrology has absolutely nothing to do with people being strange

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Oh my goodness my ex said the same when I told him I wanted to go travelling alone and he said what type of person does that. He tried to make out that I was an idiot or strange

Is "Do what you keep doing" an imense reaction......? HOW? It sounds to me like he was washing his hands of it after your reply?

You know, whatever the initial intention was, one could always set the tone of a conversation. It is what you make of it. It takes two to interact.

Where is your Mercury?

Oh my goodness my ex said the same when I told him I wanted to go travelling alone and he said what type of person does that. He tried to make out that I was an idiot or strange



now that is too funny and yet not lol ya know I had never heard anyone else say that like that before he did - and I'm not sure where that was coming from - he always played Mr. Innocent with everything he did that seemed off to me so I stopped bothering to pursue his "craziness" ...

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Posted by Undine
"He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes."



Is this the drama you were talking about...? Take it easy, it sounds more like a joke/flirting to me.

yes most people like others with a sense of humor - but if you are around someone who says these things you would know whether or not it's humor

in the case of my ex-husband it was not humor - not sure of his other placements - he would wake me up at 3am and ask me why his white socks get dirty walking on the floor - he would freak out if I didn't put the drain plug back in the sink after I cleaned it and it was sitting on the side of the sink - he would literally ask me "what type of person does these things' ... I finally just looked at him and said "I don't know what type of person does these things" ... he could be a nut case - sometimes astrology has absolutely nothing to do with people being strange

Oh my goodness my ex said the same when I told him I wanted to go travelling alone and he said what type of person does that. He tried to make out that I was an idiot or strange

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Well, tcta, now you know what your ex was thinking about you when you told him that 🙂

I don't know about ....ahem..... idiot, but he might have had some OCD?

Well, tcta, now you know what your ex was thinking about you when you told him that 🙂

I don't know about ....ahem..... idiot, but he might have had some OCD?



? not sure which you are referring to when you say "now I know what your ex was thinking about you when you told him that" ?

he didn't have OCD, he was BPD

This:

"I finally just looked at him and said "I don't know what type of person does these things"

And this:

"Oh my goodness my ex said the same when I told him I wanted to go travelling alone and he said what type of person does that. He tried to make out that I was an idiot or strange "

Posted by Undine
I finally just looked at him and said "I don't know what type of person does these things"

ok - lol - not sure that I even cared what he thought of me at that point since we he had been trying to argue about the drain thing for at least an hour and I was trying to ignore him because it is so insignificant in the big scheme of things - I surely had a lot of thoughts spinning in my head about what I thought of him lol - and we did bring that up at therapy - she couldn't get through to him either - he simply could not think outside of his box

Posted by Undine
This:

"I finally just looked at him and said "I don't know what type of person does these things"

And this:

"Oh my goodness my ex said the same when I told him I wanted to go travelling alone and he said what type of person does that. He tried to make out that I was an idiot or strange "

not sure I completely get what you are saying lol - sorry - those 2 quotes were coming from 2 different people

I'm sure he thought I was crazy about the drain thing - I really didn't care lol

AAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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whaatttt ?

Posted by Undine
AAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol - you are the pisces - you tell us what "they" think of us - lol - not that we care - obviously he thought I was just the most horrible person on this earth to not put the drain back - that is absolutely and positively insane to me to even go there - it just makes not sense whatsoever LOL !

Posted by Undine
AAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol - you are the pisces - you tell us what "they" think of us - lol - not that we care - obviously he thought I was just the most horrible person on this earth to not put the drain back - that is absolutely and positively insane to me to even go there - it just makes not sense whatsoever LOL !

Sorry, girls.... I'm just tired, hungry, unhappy and out of my depth.

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Posted by Undine
"He jumped all over it saying oh yea you always seem to make mistakes."



Is this the drama you were talking about...? Take it easy, it sounds more like a joke/flirting to me.

Under normal circumstances I would agree... But there is way more to this story. That particular Pisces is toxic and a mind-fucker:

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/i-dont-know-what-happened-scorpion-woman-pisces-man-6877152/

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Actually, according to the thread you linked here .. I would say it's the other way around.

She's the one who was causing the drama.

I'll give you a clue, take a look at this sentence of hers. Now read it for what it says, and NOT for what you want it to mean:

"Everything was great until I asked him about why he lied about a woman that brought him a gift."

and then a couple sentences later, she says: "Anyway I thought that was the end of it."

She did NOT say, "everything was fine until a woman bought him a gift."

Her concern was about a lie, NOT about another woman. She doesn't address another woman.

But, let's say for sake of argument that the concern is about another woman .... so how do you justify her sentence in stating that his words to her for clarification was an end to it?

If it's an end to it, then her only concern was his words to her. His job was to pacify her, and then all was good for her.



Her complaint isn't about another woman. Even now, she doesn't address his actions .. she only addresses his words to her. she expects to be talked to a certain way.



She doesn't appear to a problem with anything other than what words she hears from him.



That kind of ignorance causes drama. So, this drama that she is faulting him for entertaining, is hers that she inflicts.

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Posted by P-Angel
She did NOT say, "everything was fine until a woman bought him a gift."

Her concern was about a lie, NOT about another woman. She doesn't address another woman.

But, let's say for sake of argument that the concern is about another woman .... so how do you justify her sentence in stating that his words to her for clarification was an end to it?

If it's an end to it, then her only concern was his words to her. His job was to pacify her, and then all was good for her.



Her complaint isn't about another woman. Even now, she doesn't address his actions .. she only addresses his words to her. she expects to be talked to a certain way.



She doesn't appear to a problem with anything other than what words she hears from him.



That kind of ignorance causes drama. So, this drama that she is faulting him for entertaining, is hers that she inflicts.

Yeah, I agree. She has issues being clear about her true needs and probably has some low-self esteem issues. She is not upset about the right things and if she doesn't become aware of that now, she could find herself in a similar situation in the future.

It's best if she just stays single for a while and learn to really know herself and what she really wants in life. Maybe some self love will go a LONG WAY. It will also ensure her attracting healthier men that treat her accordingly.

If she wants it, she can do it.

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I dont have low self esteem issues like I said before I didn't believe he was cheating naive or not I didn't get that vibe my issue was with the lie. To lie brings distrust so why lir over something petty it was only with his reaction did I think uh oh maybe something more is going in here. If my partner is lying.to me over something silly I have the right to ask him about it. I did not curse him out or talk badly to him I just explained he really doesnt have to lie to me I would not judge etc I even gave him the option to go sort out anything he felt he needed to. In which case we would have gone our seperate ways.

Now after me explaining he didnt have to lie him seeming as though he understood why would I not think that was the end of it. Lets be honest we are human beings and adults. So he lied. I spoke he just agreed and that should have been that. If he was committed that really should have been that. No relationship is going to.work.out if we don't have the freedom to talk to our partners about anything.

And yes the time we spent before this was excellent which is why I was surprised by his response. We have never argued. I never felt like I had to question him once. Again which is why this was out of the blue to me.

I def agree that I need to stay single. I know what I want but I need time alone to heal and rebuild I loved him with all of my heart and I trusted him but he broke my trust in everyway.

Thats life I guess.

Of course if the relationship seemed to be going well and I'm supposed to leave my home state to.move to his which he insisted on. When he dumps me out of the blue I have every right to try and figure out what happened in our so called committed relationship. Through the pain I couldn't think or see clearly which is why I came on here. You guys helped clarify and as the hurt and pain has eased a little I will tell u this. I will not be blamed.for his bad behaviour! I will not be blamed.for his response to me because I know I am.not at fault. He did something wrong got caught out and.tried to.flip the script. He lost a great person and like many have said I had a lucky escape! It doesnt however mean.it doesnt hurt and its not disappointing.

Im.really.not trying to be defensive its just taken.me.a while to.see.actually.it.isnt my.fault which he has been.trying to get me.to believe this entire.time.and.when I was a litte weaker you guys pulled my.thoughts back.together.

I dont.want.you to think I.dont appreciate.your help because.without it I think he would have taken the piss out of me!

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Posted by P-Angel
She did NOT say, "everything was fine until a woman bought him a gift."

Her concern was about a lie, NOT about another woman. She doesn't address another woman.

But, let's say for sake of argument that the concern is about another woman .... so how do you justify her sentence in stating that his words to her for clarification was an end to it?

If it's an end to it, then her only concern was his words to her. His job was to pacify her, and then all was good for her.



Her complaint isn't about another woman. Even now, she doesn't address his actions .. she only addresses his words to her. she expects to be talked to a certain way.



She doesn't appear to a problem with anything other than what words she hears from him.



That kind of ignorance causes drama. So, this drama that she is faulting him for entertaining, is hers that she inflicts.

Yeah, I agree. She has issues being clear about her true needs and probably has some low-self esteem issues. She is not upset about the right things and if she doesn't become aware of that now, she could find herself in a similar situation in the future.

It's best if she just stays single for a while and learn to really know herself and what she really wants in life. Maybe some self love will go a LONG WAY. It will also ensure her attracting healthier men that treat her accordingly.

If she wants it, she can do it.

I dont have low self esteem issues like I said before I didn't believe he was cheating naive or not I didn't get that vibe my issue was with the lie. To lie brings distrust so why lir over something petty it was only with his reaction did I think uh oh maybe something more is going in here. If my partner is lying.to me over something silly I have the right to ask him about it. I did not curse him out or talk badly to him I just explained he really doesnt have to lie to me I would not judge etc I even gave him the option to go sort out anything he felt he needed to. In which case we would have gone our seperate ways.

Now after me explaining he didnt have to lie him seeming as though he understood why would I not think that was the end of it. Lets be honest we are human beings and adults. So he lied. I spoke he just agreed and that should have been that. If he was committed that really should have been that. No relationship is going to.work.out if we don't have the freedom to talk to our partners about anything.

And yes the time we spent before this was excellent which is why I was surprised by his response. We have never argued. I never felt like I had to question him once. Again which is why this was out of the blue to me.

That's great that you trusted him and asked him about the other woman. As I said before, I think your behavior became dramatic when you fed into his games. And kept giving him energy. You should have just cut it dry.

Also, I think P-Angel makes a strong point about you not being concerned about the other woman.

The reason I am wondering if you have low self-esteem issues is because you chose him as your boyfriend. This guy has massive trust issues and surveyed your every move at his house. How did that not bother you? It should have really been a red flag for you.

I agree on your ideals of a relationship, but I feel like you had a disconnect when picking this mate. That's the only reason I mentioned it might be best you take some time to yourself.

No need to get defensive. I'm not attacking, just analyzing ?

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Trust me I have no.idea how I didn't see it then!! I think I acknowledged his trust issues but thought its ok because im not doing anything wrong.and he will.chill.out.in time. Naive and.stupid I know lol I even.have to.laugh at myself with my.stupid way of thinking

Again I def agree I need time alone im looking forward to getting my cat back having my own space and enjoying thinking about only me ...I actually can't wait!!

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Posted by Angie35scorp
Im.really.not trying to be defensive its just taken.me.a while to.see.actually.it.isnt my.fault which he has been.trying to get me.to believe this entire.time.and.when I was a litte weaker you guys pulled my.thoughts back.together.

I dont.want.you to think I.dont appreciate.your help because.without it I think he would have taken the piss out of me!

Yeah, he will keep on doing it if he can. What he sees is that you are very susceptible to the opinions of others, it's a weakness that he gladly took advantage of - and don't be surprised if others do the same. Again, don't concern yourself about others, concern yourself about you and that is it.

Trust that your opinion matters and you don't have to over-explain yourself. When you know you are right, don't doubt and learn to believe in yourself.

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Yep.your right it was important to me what he thought about me ... which I have to look at further especially since as soon as he did me wrong I shouldn't have really cared what he thought. I think.I was hoping he would see he made a mistake.

Well like I.said the fog has lifted time alone to.recoup is needed.

I will def tell you when I get my cat back im.so excited he sent me a little video of her and I was teary. Im very EXCITED!!!

Please for your own sake just move on we all know Scorpios like to get revenge the truth is he ain't think about you it don't matter how many thread you post he ain't coming back.

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Posted by Angie35scorp

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Posted by P-Angel
She did NOT say, "everything was fine until a woman bought him a gift."

Her concern was about a lie, NOT about another woman. She doesn't address another woman.

But, let's say for sake of argument that the concern is about another woman .... so how do you justify her sentence in stating that his words to her for clarification was an end to it?

If it's an end to it, then her only concern was his words to her. His job was to pacify her, and then all was good for her.



Her complaint isn't about another woman. Even now, she doesn't address his actions .. she only addresses his words to her. she expects to be talked to a certain way.



She doesn't appear to a problem with anything other than what words she hears from him.



That kind of ignorance causes drama. So, this drama that she is faulting him for entertaining, is hers that she inflicts.

Yeah, I agree. She has issues being clear about her true needs and probably has some low-self esteem issues. She is not upset about the right things and if she doesn't become aware of that now, she could find herself in a similar situation in the future.

It's best if she just stays single for a while and learn to really know herself and what she really wants in life. Maybe some self love will go a LONG WAY. It will also ensure her attracting healthier men that treat her accordingly.

If she wants it, she can do it.

I dont have low self esteem issues like I said before I didn't believe he was cheating naive or not I didn't get that vibe my issue was with the lie. To lie brings distrust so why lir over something petty it was only with his reaction did I think uh oh maybe something more is going in here. If my partner is lying.to me over something silly I have the right to ask him about it. I did not curse him out or talk badly to him I just explained he really doesnt have to lie to me I would not judge etc I even gave him the option to go sort out anything he felt he needed to. In which case we would have gone our seperate ways.

Now after me explaining he didnt have to lie him seeming as though he understood why would I not think that was the end of it. Lets be honest we are human beings and adults. So he lied. I spoke he just agreed and that should have been that. If he was committed that really should have been that. No relationship is going to.work.out if we don't have the freedom to talk to our partners about anything.

And yes the time we spent before this was excellent which is why I was surprised by his response. We have never argued. I never felt like I had to question him once. Again which is why this was out of the blue to me.

So u have ur answer. He wasn't committed n u offered him an out which he took.

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Yep.offered he turned it down.saying he doesnt want to break up a week later I went home and he broke up with me. Mind games. He can keep it. I'm looking forward to not feeling.anything for him at all.

Posted by BlueQueen
Please for your own sake just move on we all know Scorpios like to get revenge the truth is he ain't think about you it don't matter how many thread you post he ain't coming back.

Oh no I guarantee he will be back they always come back for whatever reason I can almost bet my life on it but I dont trust him so it doesn't matter and I am not wanting or waiting for him to come back. I'm just waiting for my.feelings to.die which they will.eventually.

I now have so much to sort out that this whole.conversation has shown.me.im.giving him far.too much of my time and head space. Love and pain not a good combo. My revenge will be to move on and be happy.

@hydorah waste no time. He goes from this chick to a gemini woman married to a controlling scorpio

Posted by Angie35scorp

Posted by BlueQueen
Please for your own sake just move on we all know Scorpios like to get revenge the truth is he ain't think about you it don't matter how many thread you post he ain't coming back.

Oh no I guarantee he will be back they always come back for whatever reason I can almost bet my life on it but I dont trust him so it doesn't matter and I am not wanting or waiting for him to come back. I'm just waiting for my.feelings to.die which they will.eventually.

I now have so much to sort out that this whole.conversation has shown.me.im.giving him far.too much of my time and head space. Love and pain not a good combo. My revenge will be to move on and be happy.

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I'm pretty certain that in the OP I read where you talk to him everyday ... because it was during this talking to him that you decided he is obligated to talk to you a certain way, if he plans on staying in contact with you.

that is the opposite of moving on. In fact, it is keeping him dangling on the end of a string.

furthermore, the only reason for you to have NOT retrieved your animal the very instant he broke up with you .. is because you are using that animal, also, as a means to attempt to manipulate him.

You're not fooling me, and you're not naïve .... you're playing games with him.



Your actions speak louder than your words .....



If you were honest, then your actions would represent that, and they don't. In fact, you have invalid reasons as to why you didn't retrieve your animal. And you have invalid reasons as to why you were pissed at him.



Here's a warning for you in the future, I fucking guarantee it .... if you try to fuck a Pisces, he's going to fuck you over.



EVERYTIME

The moment you disregarded the other woman, just so you could whimper and carryon about his words spoken to you .... you were rendered insignificant, not worthy.

A woman of integrity would have acted like she had it.

And you ARE at fault for your behavior, and you ARE at fault for your ignorance ... you were NOT a good girlfriend.



because good girlfriends don't ignore indiscretions, and then demand to be treated with respect

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Posted by BlueQueen
Please for your own sake just move on we all know Scorpios like to get revenge the truth is he ain't think about you it don't matter how many thread you post he ain't coming back.

Oh no I guarantee he will be back they always come back for whatever reason I can almost bet my life on it but I dont trust him so it doesn't matter and I am not wanting or waiting for him to come back. I'm just waiting for my.feelings to.die which they will.eventually.

I now have so much to sort out that this whole.conversation has shown.me.im.giving him far.too much of my time and head space. Love and pain not a good combo. My revenge will be to move on and be happy.

I'm pretty certain that in the OP I read where you talk to him everyday ... because it was during this talking to him that you decided he is obligated to talk to you a certain way, if he plans on staying in contact with you.

that is the opposite of moving on. In fact, it is keeping him dangling on the end of a string.

furthermore, the only reason for you to have NOT retrieved your animal the very instant he broke up with you .. is because you are using that animal, also, as a means to attempt to manipulate him.

You're not fooling me, and you're not naïve .... you're playing games with him.



Your actions speak louder than your words .....



If you were honest, then your actions would represent that, and they don't. In fact, you have invalid reasons as to why you didn't retrieve your animal. And you have invalid reasons as to why you were pissed at him.



Here's a warning for you in the future, I fucking guarantee it .... if you try to fuck a Pisces, he's going to fuck you over.



EVERYTIME

The moment you disregarded the other woman, just so you could whimper and carryon about his words spoken to you .... you were rendered insignificant, not worthy.

A woman of integrity would have acted like she had it.

And you ARE at fault for your behavior, and you ARE at fault for your ignorance ... you were NOT a good girlfriend.



because good girlfriends don't ignore indiscretions, and then demand to be treated with respect

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I don't think you have taken time to read my posts, but thank you for your input.

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The day before we were having a normal convo about me visiting theme parks etc.

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Posted by Infinite8

Just get your cat already. I'm not sure why you haven't done this faster.

...im getting her at the end of the week finally!!

He stopped ignoring me so arrangements were.made.

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Posted by Angie35scorp

Is he annoyed because ive taken a step back?

Just to be clear I didn't want the break up.

You didn't take a step back ..... he did from you.

You attempt to manipulate the viewing audience with that comment, in trying to tell them that something is wrong with him because he can't handle the dramatic effect of you taking a step back from him.

When in reality .... he broke up with you, and you are demanding of him on how he is going to treat you, if he plans on staying with you.

Posted by Angie35scorp

I told him he really needs to ......

he does he needs to ......

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You didn't text him on accident. In fact, rarely do people text people on accident ... because you have to actually go to contacts and push a button on a certain person to send a text.

You text him on purpose, and you know it .. and we all know it.

And then when he responds to you ... you begin to tell him what he needs to do if he plans on staying with you.

when the reality is that he broke up with your ass because he doesn't want you.



You abandoned your animal. That should be enough for the viewing audience to realize how awful of a person you must be. They should also be able to put two and two together to realize that you're lying in here ... because your words are contradictory.

Again ... what kind of crazy must you be that you carryon about who looked in his phone, rather than what was found on the phone. I'm sure you ignored it on purpose, so you could use it for ammunition later.

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Posted by BlueQueen
Please for your own sake just move on we all know Scorpios like to get revenge the truth is he ain't think about you it don't matter how many thread you post he ain't coming back.

Oh no I guarantee he will be back they always come back for whatever reason I can almost bet my life on it but I dont trust him so it doesn't matter and I am not wanting or waiting for him to come back. I'm just waiting for my.feelings to.die which they will.eventually.

I now have so much to sort out that this whole.conversation has shown.me.im.giving him far.too much of my time and head space. Love and pain not a good combo. My revenge will be to move on and be happy.

I'm pretty certain that in the OP I read where you talk to him everyday ... because it was during this talking to him that you decided he is obligated to talk to you a certain way, if he plans on staying in contact with you.

that is the opposite of moving on. In fact, it is keeping him dangling on the end of a string.

furthermore, the only reason for you to have NOT retrieved your animal the very instant he broke up with you .. is because you are using that animal, also, as a means to attempt to manipulate him.

You're not fooling me, and you're not naïve .... you're playing games with him.



Your actions speak louder than your words .....



If you were honest, then your actions would represent that, and they don't. In fact, you have invalid reasons as to why you didn't retrieve your animal. And you have invalid reasons as to why you were pissed at him.



Here's a warning for you in the future, I fucking guarantee it .... if you try to fuck a Pisces, he's going to fuck you over.



EVERYTIME

The moment you disregarded the other woman, just so you could whimper and carryon about his words spoken to you .... you were rendered insignificant, not worthy.

A woman of integrity would have acted like she had it.

And you ARE at fault for your behavior, and you ARE at fault for your ignorance ... you were NOT a good girlfriend.



because good girlfriends don't ignore indiscretions, and then demand to be treated with respect

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He obviously does not think I was a good girl friend which is why he left. Which is fine he will find someone that suits him and I will find someone who suits me.

Yes your right I am to blame for my behaviour and I fully accept that and I am happy with the way I have behaved.

I am happily looking at myself and I am at peace with all of the things I have done.

I've read many of your posts P-Angel you have a tendency to upset people with your tone. What I find is people get upset because they are vulnerable and when you respond this isn't always taken into account. Do you ever think that you could possibly be the person to push people over the edge? I think you need to be a little mindful that you don't really know what people are going through you only know what they write. If I had read your response two weeks ago when at my weakest your response as honest as you think your being is tact less and insensitive would have upset me further which is unnecessary. You have attacked my integrity and basically called me lame and not a good woman. People don't come on here to be attacked there is enough of that in the real world and when someone is in pain or having difficulty your approach is very hostile. This is a public forum and you are free to treat people how you wish but a great book for you to read is An inspector calls. It may help you think twice about how you treat those who are in need.

Thank you again for your input P-Angel. Fortunately I know who and what I am. If I ever get confused on that fact I will be sure to speak to those who know me.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone else for your help. I understand so much more of what happened and where to go from here. I'm going to collect my cat soon 🙂 EXCITED!!!!

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Posted by Angie35scorp

Is he annoyed because ive taken a step back?

Just to be clear I didn't want the break up.

You didn't take a step back ..... he did from you.

You attempt to manipulate the viewing audience with that comment, in trying to tell them that something is wrong with him because he can't handle the dramatic effect of you taking a step back from him.

When in reality .... he broke up with you, and you are demanding of him on how he is going to treat you, if he plans on staying with you.

Posted by Angie35scorp

I told him he really needs to ......

he does he needs to ......

You didn't text him on accident. In fact, rarely do people text people on accident ... because you have to actually go to contacts and push a button on a certain person to send a text.

You text him on purpose, and you know it .. and we all know it.

And then when he responds to you ... you begin to tell him what he needs to do if he plans on staying with you.

when the reality is that he broke up with your ass because he doesn't want you.



You abandoned your animal. That should be enough for the viewing audience to realize how awful of a person you must be. They should also be able to put two and two together to realize that you're lying in here ... because your words are contradictory.

Again ... what kind of crazy must you be that you carryon about who looked in his phone, rather than what was found on the phone. I'm sure you ignored it on purpose, so you could use it for ammunition later.

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It's even more clear that you have not read my posts throughly but that's ok...thank you for your input x

What I don't understand is why you accused him of cheating if you didn't actually think he was cheating?

That's dramatic.

He said he didn't tell you about the gift because he thought you'd make a big deal about. And you did. In fact you made a false accusation. Why?

Posted by shellshocker
What I don't understand is why you accused him of cheating if you didn't actually think he was cheating?

That's dramatic.

He said he didn't tell you about the gift because he thought you'd make a big deal about. And you did. In fact you made a false accusation. Why?

No I didn't accuse him of cheating because I didn't think he was. I only spoke to him about the lie. His reaction to that convo then led me to ask if there was anything else he needed to tell me. Funny enough it was the people on here that told me he was probably cheating because I just didn't see it naïve and silly I know ...

Actually I'm not sure if I posted this earlier but when I did ask him why he lied he said because he knew I would accuse him of sleeping with her. I thought this statement was strange because we have never had a conversation about other women or me thinking he was cheating etc. So that's what I told him why would he think that with no prior evidence of that behaviour.

Well it doesn't really matter now if hes cheating or not that's his choice. I am only in control of my own choices/decisions I make. So it's time to make those which are good for me.

You said in your other thread you asked him if he slept with her, just to make sure. I'm not going to go back and quote it, it doesn't matter, but it's there.

There was mistrust on both ends it seems. Not a great feeling to have if you're about to change living arrangements to be with someone. It takes time to meld a life together.

for the best I guess

Posted by shellshocker
You said in your other thread you asked him if he slept with her, just to make sure. I'm not going to go back and quote it, it doesn't matter, but it's there.

There was mistrust on both ends it seems. Not a great feeling to have if you're about to change living arrangements to be with someone. It takes time to meld a life together.

for the best I guess

Yes I did ...I thought I should ask so I did...it wasn't as straight forward but it was basically what I asked.

Yes your right about mistrust which is why we aren't for each other. He never really trusted me and I no longer trust him.

Oh well onwards and upwards.

Posted by shellshocker
You said in your other thread you asked him if he slept with her, just to make sure. I'm not going to go back and quote it, it doesn't matter, but it's there.

There was mistrust on both ends it seems. Not a great feeling to have if you're about to change living arrangements to be with someone. It takes time to meld a life together.

for the best I guess

And asking a question isn't accusing.

Well I'm sitting and waiting outside of his house he hasn't turned up to hand over my cat. So I'm just waiting. I started another topic and someone said just keep waiting and the police won't help me. So I'm going to keep waiting.