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Posted by GemitatiEven better for you when it comes to reasonable doubt, since he's a nice guy they won't believe you'd ever wanna harm him.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI said he is a nice guy! Not nasty guy!
You could always kill the hubby
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHmmmm...if you insist! What weapon would you choose?Posted by GemitatiEven better for you when it comes to reasonable doubt, since he's a nice guy they won't believe you'd ever wanna harm him.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI said he is a nice guy! Not nasty guy!
You could always kill the hubby
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Posted by RindarooYes because his going to bee bloody!Posted by GemitatiNo lie, emotionally it's hard. But worth it. Just gotta be brave. Lol on waiting for him to leave first. Well I guess if that's the only reason you're willing to get divorced, it makes sense.Posted by RindarooEmotionally!
What do you mean survive a divorce? Emotionally, financially, or being alone (since the Scorp is married after all)?
And no! Scorp is filing first!
Lol
I am not moving a finger before he does.
Or we don't divorce and agreeing on open marriage! Both.
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And can take forever!
But as soon as he will say a word - there is going to be no point of return!
And I will have to watch my ass...
Lol
So all he needs to do is to call me from hotel where his language is!
I am glad it's not winter anymore! Lol
Posted by -elle-
lol...can I just take a time out and say how much I love my boring capricorn? ♡
I was married to a scorp for 7 years.
Love the scorp guys, but.....yeah...I would now choose the stoic goat any day.
The moon makes that square sparkle. ??
Good match imo.
Posted by GemitatiWeapon? It's the 21st century, weapons are a thing of the past. Nowadays you can kill a man with your thumb. Or use curare to asphyxiate him or to relax his muscles long enough for him to careen off the road 🙂Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHmmmm...if you insist! What weapon would you choose?Posted by GemitatiEven better for you when it comes to reasonable doubt, since he's a nice guy they won't believe you'd ever wanna harm him.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI said he is a nice guy! Not nasty guy!
You could always kill the hubby
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Apparently, you don't have to tell your husband. Just do it. You said he already knows and just loves his comforts. It is nice that you are friends. With you not sharing a bedroom, you are like roommates. With him being lazy, you guys not having sex, and you providing him comforts, it's more like you are hired help now.
So, with all that you have said, you really don't have to tell him anything.
You can continue your love and friendship with your husband but, you do not have to live with him. You can have dinners, come over and do his laundry, watch a movie,and hang out. You can also do the same with the Scorp as you have as well.
The only difference is you'll be doing it from your own dwelling and at your own time by finding an alternate place to live.
Find a place to live, buy furniture, decorate, move your belongings out slowly. When you decide to stay at your place, say "I'm staying at my place tonight." Stay a night, stay a couple of days, call and check on him. Stay with him a month, two weeks at a time, whatever.
That in essence is a separation.
Let him figure it out the same way he figured out you had a lover. It seems that he is okay with that type of communication based on how you described his response to discovering you have a lover. I don't know who brought the fact that you have a lover out in the open. It appears to be your husband based on how you described it. So, let him continue to lead the conversations and the communication style you all already have established. When he asks about your other home (a year, a month, or weeks later), then you can have the discussion about filing for separation, if you like. I'm sure he will be fine as by this time, he will have comfort in knowing that he can still have the comforts of your friendship, meals, cleaning,etc. as you do care for him. Being able to continue to exercise care for him will help you as well.
Meanwhile, you will discover all there is to discover concerning the Scorp. You'll see what he does or does not do. However, and probably simultaneously, you will still have the essence of the same relationship with your Cap husband - no sex, meals, comforts, friendship. Or, he might change, change your mind.
You don't have to tell the Scorp anything either. He can visit, spend time, etc. like he always has. Except, it will probably be more frequent as you will have your own place. He can continue to lead the conversation about what he wants with you. Or, he may stop having those conversations all together.
So, with all that you have said, you really don't have to tell him anything.
You can continue your love and friendship with your husband but, you do not have to live with him. You can have dinners, come over and do his laundry, watch a movie,and hang out. You can also do the same with the Scorp as you have as well.
The only difference is you'll be doing it from your own dwelling and at your own time by finding an alternate place to live.
Find a place to live, buy furniture, decorate, move your belongings out slowly. When you decide to stay at your place, say "I'm staying at my place tonight." Stay a night, stay a couple of days, call and check on him. Stay with him a month, two weeks at a time, whatever.
That in essence is a separation.
Let him figure it out the same way he figured out you had a lover. It seems that he is okay with that type of communication based on how you described his response to discovering you have a lover. I don't know who brought the fact that you have a lover out in the open. It appears to be your husband based on how you described it. So, let him continue to lead the conversations and the communication style you all already have established. When he asks about your other home (a year, a month, or weeks later), then you can have the discussion about filing for separation, if you like. I'm sure he will be fine as by this time, he will have comfort in knowing that he can still have the comforts of your friendship, meals, cleaning,etc. as you do care for him. Being able to continue to exercise care for him will help you as well.
Meanwhile, you will discover all there is to discover concerning the Scorp. You'll see what he does or does not do. However, and probably simultaneously, you will still have the essence of the same relationship with your Cap husband - no sex, meals, comforts, friendship. Or, he might change, change your mind.
You don't have to tell the Scorp anything either. He can visit, spend time, etc. like he always has. Except, it will probably be more frequent as you will have your own place. He can continue to lead the conversation about what he wants with you. Or, he may stop having those conversations all together.
@rockyroadicecream filed for divorce. It wasn't mutual, but since she made more I got alimony. A+, would divorce her again.
Posted by julietteeI've answered that already. No!Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.
How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?
Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...
would you want a divorce if scorpio is not in the picture?
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I am in a cozy place. Why would I ruin it?
Unless there is a reason?
My husband just sang stupid song when he saw me unable to eat and I left the table and he is still watching his show!!!
Posted by Blue_FroggieWho are you smart person? Thanks!
If you want to divorce your husband, tell him the reason as to why you want a divorce. Arrange a maid to do the chores in the house before you talk about divorce, so he won't panic when you bring in the discussion.... Don't divorce because you want to marry the other guy. Divorce because you want to divorce. Most people will tell you cheating and abuse are the only reasons to get a divorce.... I don't think so..Couples tend to outgrow each other....One or the other party feel neglected, would have faked happiness for many years, been depressed for years.... I live in a society where women don't leave their husband and struggle a lot for decades...
It is never too old to be happy...But do it the right way. And don't rush to marry the Scorp....
If you aren't happy in your marriage, go your way. You have been with the cap for a decade(?) Today, I read in the Taurus forum how a girl got three years with a guy and that most people don't even get that many years....
Stay single for some time.... Date the Scorpio... Take it from there.
Breath of fresh air!
Seriously! Thanks.
That's what I am looking for. Painless break up like...we have now! I am in my room at 3pm waiting for my message or call from my love but if it won't happen - it means he couldn't! Because he always reaching out to me when he can.
I want some transition period and he is ok with that but I am afraid since we getting closer he might do something stupid!
I always protect him. Because when he sees me he loses it! But when I say what to do - he follows!
So my question about divorce is not tomorrow happening! It is about time. However I don't want to age to become some kind of old witch and him became an impotent!!! Lol
Thanks again!
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHow many on you record?Posted by GemitatiWeapon? It's the 21st century, weapons are a thing of the past. Nowadays you can kill a man with your thumb. Or use curare to asphyxiate him or to relax his muscles long enough for him to careen off the road 🙂Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHmmmm...if you insist! What weapon would you choose?Posted by GemitatiEven better for you when it comes to reasonable doubt, since he's a nice guy they won't believe you'd ever wanna harm him.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI said he is a nice guy! Not nasty guy!
You could always kill the hubby
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Posted by VenusAquariusWhere you born smart and tolerant or you just became this way?
Apparently, you don't have to tell your husband. Just do it. You said he already knows and just loves his comforts. It is nice that you are friends. With you not sharing a bedroom, you are like roommates. With him being lazy, you guys not having sex, and you providing him comforts, it's more like you are hired help now.
So, with all that you have said, you really don't have to tell him anything.
You can continue your love and friendship with your husband but, you do not have to live with him. You can have dinners, come over and do his laundry, watch a movie,and hang out. You can also do the same with the Scorp as you have as well.
The only difference is you'll be doing it from your own dwelling and at your own time by finding an alternate place to live.
Find a place to live, buy furniture, decorate, move your belongings out slowly. When you decide to stay at your place, say "I'm staying at my place tonight." Stay a night, stay a couple of days, call and check on him. Stay with him a month, two weeks at a time, whatever.
That in essence is a separation.
Let him figure it out the same way he figured out you had a lover. It seems that he is okay with that type of communication based on how you described his response to discovering you have a lover. I don't know who brought the fact that you have a lover out in the open. It appears to be your husband based on how you described it. So, let him continue to lead the conversations and the communication style you all already have established. When he asks about your other home (a year, a month, or weeks later), then you can have the discussion about filing for separation, if you like. I'm sure he will be fine as by this time, he will have comfort in knowing that he can still have the comforts of your friendship, meals, cleaning,etc. as you do care for him. Being able to continue to exercise care for him will help you as well.
Meanwhile, you will discover all there is to discover concerning the Scorp. You'll see what he does or does not do. However, and probably simultaneously, you will still have the essence of the same relationship with your Cap husband - no sex, meals, comforts, friendship. Or, he might change, change your mind.
You don't have to tell the Scorp anything either. He can visit, spend time, etc. like he always has. Except, it will probably be more frequent as you will have your own place. He can continue to lead the conversation about what he wants with you. Or, he may stop having those conversations all together.
I would love to take your advise. For sometime anyway....
Hmmm...you said what I was thinking of!
Thanks.
Crazy but true...
I left two major relationships.
Imagine that you are doing the same things every day/month/year with a bit of variation. One of you is happy, the other one grows bored. "You need to inject some variety and excitement". Right. The thing is that more often than not, one of you does not want to change a thing.
Would you try to change him/her, or change your own life?
By the time you ask for a divorce, the other one must have known for a while that you were unhappy and this is where your relationship was heading to.
Imagine that you are doing the same things every day/month/year with a bit of variation. One of you is happy, the other one grows bored. "You need to inject some variety and excitement". Right. The thing is that more often than not, one of you does not want to change a thing.
Would you try to change him/her, or change your own life?
By the time you ask for a divorce, the other one must have known for a while that you were unhappy and this is where your relationship was heading to.
"How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?"
Hurt will be soon followed by relief. From both sides. I felt like a stone has been lifted from my chest after divorce was over.
Mine's was a very pleasant marriage with a handsome man who loved and cherished me and had all the right to find love and happiness again, just not with me.
Hurt will be soon followed by relief. From both sides. I felt like a stone has been lifted from my chest after divorce was over.
Mine's was a very pleasant marriage with a handsome man who loved and cherished me and had all the right to find love and happiness again, just not with me.
Posted by UndineAmazing! Care to talk about? Pm or not I am so curiois'
"How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?"
Hurt will be soon followed by relief. From both sides. I felt like a stone has been lifted from my chest after divorce was over.
Mine's was a very pleasant marriage with a handsome man who loved and cherished me and had all the right to find love and happiness again, just not with me.
Posted by TheTinManPosted by Gemitatijust out of curiosity, what does your chart look like. I was always curious to know. besides just Gemini sun. I just like to desperately know where your moon, Venus, mars, mercury and ascendant is placed.
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.
How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?
Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...
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I have my chart. Just don't remember how to post it here. There is some site...
Posted by GemitatiGood if that's the case.Posted by iCloud9Why are you guys talking about money?Posted by -elle-that's what a decent human being would do - not taking his money when you are the one who is breaking the commitmentPosted by iCloud9The right thing to do, since *she* wants out...is to leave his money alone.Posted by Gemitatiif he already called scorp 'your lover', then you probably won't break his heart. that makes it way easier. just don't take his money. if money can solve it, it's not really a probem. he is a capricorn after all lolPosted by DepthAndDeathSee? If my husband paid attention by taking his head out of his ass - he would know! I told him!!! He laughed! He still calling my Scorp 'your lover'...and he knows him! And he knows we are mad about each other!Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.
How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?
Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...
Ohh Gemi.. Can I suggest you something?
Tell your husband that you have fallen out of love with him and you have fallen in love with another person.
Why do you have to carry this burden alone?
Why?
Look at him, your husband, he has been with you for long. Doesn't he deserve some truth??
Share it with your husband. First and foremost. He has to hear it first from you.
Respect him enough to be true to yourself.
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He had never changed to save our marriage! As long as he is served his dinner - that's all he needs! He is happy!
My MOM can do it for him!
I've moved to another room - no reaction!
He asked why - I said I go to bed much earlier so...
He takes me for very granted! Like a piece of furniture it's cozy and comfy!
But he is still a nice guy so I feel awful!
If I remember past posts correctly....she wasn't willing to do that.
It's one thing to break the man's heart...it's another to then take things away from him.
I am not taking anything. Where did you get that idea?click to expand
Well, you got to acknowledge that you often do not present your thoughts in an organized matter. you are all over the place sometimes with conflicting ideas. together with your light hearted attitude toward everything, they do not inspire confidence that you are a person of principle who would do the right thing even when facing difficulties
Posted by iCloud9And agreeing with you on that...is there solution? Or you just posting smart ass comment so people think you...smart?Posted by GemitatiGood if that's the case.Posted by iCloud9Why are you guys talking about money?Posted by -elle-that's what a decent human being would do - not taking his money when you are the one who is breaking the commitmentPosted by iCloud9The right thing to do, since *she* wants out...is to leave his money alone.Posted by Gemitatiif he already called scorp 'your lover', then you probably won't break his heart. that makes it way easier. just don't take his money. if money can solve it, it's not really a probem. he is a capricorn after all lolPosted by DepthAndDeathSee? If my husband paid attention by taking his head out of his ass - he would know! I told him!!! He laughed! He still calling my Scorp 'your lover'...and he knows him! And he knows we are mad about each other!Posted by Gemitati
Well. Something had unfolded with my Scorp yesterday.
I am supposed to be smart about my future and I honestly can't imagine divorce!
It's not a thing you do every day and though my husband survived 3 - he says he didn't love anyone as much as he loves me and he is older now.
How is it all of a sudden one comes to another and say I want divorce?
How?
He is very lazy and extremely annoying but nice guy whom I don't feel anything for except cozy boring 'friendship'.
How can I hurt him so much and live happily ever after?
Have anyone of you left non-abusive spouse just because you fell out of love and you had tried to talk but they just don't listen...
Ohh Gemi.. Can I suggest you something?
Tell your husband that you have fallen out of love with him and you have fallen in love with another person.
Why do you have to carry this burden alone?
Why?
Look at him, your husband, he has been with you for long. Doesn't he deserve some truth??
Share it with your husband. First and foremost. He has to hear it first from you.
Respect him enough to be true to yourself.
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He had never changed to save our marriage! As long as he is served his dinner - that's all he needs! He is happy!
My MOM can do it for him!
I've moved to another room - no reaction!
He asked why - I said I go to bed much earlier so...
He takes me for very granted! Like a piece of furniture it's cozy and comfy!
But he is still a nice guy so I feel awful!
If I remember past posts correctly....she wasn't willing to do that.
It's one thing to break the man's heart...it's another to then take things away from him.
I am not taking anything. Where did you get that idea?
Well, you got to acknowledge that you often do not present your thoughts in an organized matter. you are all over the place sometimes with conflicting ideas. together with your light hearted attitude toward everything, they do not inspire confidence that you are a person of principle who would do the right thing even when facing difficulties
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Any experience in my field? Go ahead!
Posted by Harukka
If this is real
Then, you told me once:Posted by GemitatiSee? Easy ... just do it.Posted by HarukkaSo if friends crush likes you and you reject him for a friend who has no chance - 3 unhappy people!
I thought these things happens only in the movies
It's so weird ?
If you accept friends crush - only 1 unhappy people!
See? Easy...
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What's yoir frogging problem!
There is some!
Just spit it!
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXBullcrap! Keep telling it to yourself...unless someone proposed!
Thank you for reminding me why I never want to get married.
Posted by HarukkaWill you be mine best man/woman?Posted by GemitatiJust do it, don't die unhappy ..Posted by Harukka
If this is real
Then, you told me once:Posted by GemitatiSee? Easy ... just do it.Posted by HarukkaSo if friends crush likes you and you reject him for a friend who has no chance - 3 unhappy people!
I thought these things happens only in the movies
It's so weird ?
If you accept friends crush - only 1 unhappy people!
See? Easy...
What's yoir frogging problem!
There is some!
Just spit it!
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i have to say that i admire the thoughtfulness and patience with the ideas of arranging a maid to do the chores before talking divorce or still coming back to cook and do choirs after separation. however, i mostly find it really sad that if it is this easy to replace you, then you are merely a maid after all these years. this should have ended years ago
is he mentally challenged? if not, he can arrange his own maid service. are you going to be his mother even after the divorce, jesus f christ
is he mentally challenged? if not, he can arrange his own maid service. are you going to be his mother even after the divorce, jesus f christ
Posted by iCloud9Lmao!!! You are a hoot! I didn't think I can will laugh tonight! I was so depressed!!!
i have to say that i admire the thoughtfulness and patience with the ideas of arranging a maid to do the chores before talking divorce or still coming back to cook and do choirs after separation. however, i mostly find it really sad that if it is this easy to replace you, then you are merely a maid after all these years. this should have ended years ago
is he mentally challenged? if not, he can arrange his own maid service. are you going to be his mother even after the divorce, jesus f christ
Thanks!!! Really!
No he is normal! No mental disorders!
You are right!
Omg! Will get back to you...thanks again!
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXAnd you will dream of the wedding no matter what!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXBullcrap! Keep telling it to yourself...unless someone proposed!
Thank you for reminding me why I never want to get married.
I have been proposed to a few different times in my life and was even engaged for several years.
Marriage is overrated and you're the poster child for that fact.click to expand
Posted by HarukkaAt the wedding!Posted by GemitatiWhat did that mean ?Posted by HarukkaWill you be mine best man/woman?Posted by GemitatiJust do it, don't die unhappy ..Posted by Harukka
If this is real
Then, you told me once:Posted by GemitatiSee? Easy ... just do it.Posted by HarukkaSo if friends crush likes you and you reject him for a friend who has no chance - 3 unhappy people!
I thought these things happens only in the movies
It's so weird ?
If you accept friends crush - only 1 unhappy people!
See? Easy...
What's yoir frogging problem!
There is some!
Just spit it!
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXThat's what all spinsters saying...Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXAnd you will dream of the wedding no matter what!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXBullcrap! Keep telling it to yourself...unless someone proposed!
Thank you for reminding me why I never want to get married.
I have been proposed to a few different times in my life and was even engaged for several years.
Marriage is overrated and you're the poster child for that fact.
We're not all desperate like you, Gemitati.
Some of us actually realize that our happiness doesn't rely on our relationship status.
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Posted by DistilledAre you living or...what's your deal?
People always survive divorce unless they off themselves, don't divorce or get killed. Other wise you gonna make it. It's a paper in that matter. Just like any other contract and bond in life. Ya know what ya signed up for and ya deal with it.
If there are kids or serious life works here involved and this isn't being discussed, realistically weighed out in real life and just being a good ol human- that can be life. But if not- somebody gonna get hurt. For years if not already and for generations to come.
Like you are not even know what you are saying!
What's your relashionship status?
Ever been married for more than 2 months? Kids?
I don't think SO!
Posted by DistilledMarried? Dating? Kids?Posted by GemitatiYes, I'm alive.Posted by DistilledAre you living or...what's your deal?
People always survive divorce unless they off themselves, don't divorce or get killed. Other wise you gonna make it. It's a paper in that matter. Just like any other contract and bond in life. Ya know what ya signed up for and ya deal with it.
If there are kids or serious life works here involved and this isn't being discussed, realistically weighed out in real life and just being a good ol human- that can be life. But if not- somebody gonna get hurt. For years if not already and for generations to come.
Like you are not even know what you are saying!
What's your relashionship status?
Ever been married for more than 2 months? Kids?
I don't think SO!
How can you be so sure. You know me?
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What are you can't read?
Apparently none so...advise kindergarten!
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXHave you ever been?🙂Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXThat's what all spinsters saying...Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXAnd you will dream of the wedding no matter what!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXBullcrap! Keep telling it to yourself...unless someone proposed!
Thank you for reminding me why I never want to get married.
I have been proposed to a few different times in my life and was even engaged for several years.
Marriage is overrated and you're the poster child for that fact.
We're not all desperate like you, Gemitati.
Some of us actually realize that our happiness doesn't rely on our relationship status.
I'd rather be a spinster than a shameless hussy.click to expand
How can you tell?
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXMaturation available online for free!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXHave you ever been?🙂Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXThat's what all spinsters saying...Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXAnd you will dream of the wedding no matter what!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXBullcrap! Keep telling it to yourself...unless someone proposed!
Thank you for reminding me why I never want to get married.
I have been proposed to a few different times in my life and was even engaged for several years.
Marriage is overrated and you're the poster child for that fact.
We're not all desperate like you, Gemitati.
Some of us actually realize that our happiness doesn't rely on our relationship status.
I'd rather be a spinster than a shameless hussy.
How can you tell?
A hussy? No. I was taught to love myself.click to expand
Posted by DistilledAs much as I hate it...wut?Posted by GemitatiToo much time on hands.Posted by DistilledMarried? Dating? Kids?Posted by GemitatiYes, I'm alive.Posted by DistilledAre you living or...what's your deal?
People always survive divorce unless they off themselves, don't divorce or get killed. Other wise you gonna make it. It's a paper in that matter. Just like any other contract and bond in life. Ya know what ya signed up for and ya deal with it.
If there are kids or serious life works here involved and this isn't being discussed, realistically weighed out in real life and just being a good ol human- that can be life. But if not- somebody gonna get hurt. For years if not already and for generations to come.
Like you are not even know what you are saying!
What's your relashionship status?
Ever been married for more than 2 months? Kids?
I don't think SO!
How can you be so sure. You know me?
What are you can't read?
Apparently none so...advise kindergarten!
When you're with truly tied to a Scorp who likes ya for whatever reason even if just pleasure- you don't have time to do anything else. Only when they ain't with ya anymore peeps go crying on the Internet boards.
Something ain't right. Or you a Pisces.
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Posted by HarukkaWas waiting for you to come out asking what color of my underwear...care or not?Posted by GemitatiAre you trolling, or really that lonely ?Posted by HarukkaAt the wedding!Posted by GemitatiWhat did that mean ?Posted by HarukkaWill you be mine best man/woman?Posted by GemitatiJust do it, don't die unhappy ..Posted by Harukka
If this is real
Then, you told me once:Posted by GemitatiSee? Easy ... just do it.Posted by HarukkaSo if friends crush likes you and you reject him for a friend who has no chance - 3 unhappy people!
I thought these things happens only in the movies
It's so weird ?
If you accept friends crush - only 1 unhappy people!
See? Easy...
What's yoir frogging problem!
There is some!
Just spit it!
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXHave they rejected you?Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXMaturation available online for free!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXHave you ever been?🙂Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXThat's what all spinsters saying...Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXAnd you will dream of the wedding no matter what!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXBullcrap! Keep telling it to yourself...unless someone proposed!
Thank you for reminding me why I never want to get married.
I have been proposed to a few different times in my life and was even engaged for several years.
Marriage is overrated and you're the poster child for that fact.
We're not all desperate like you, Gemitati.
Some of us actually realize that our happiness doesn't rely on our relationship status.
I'd rather be a spinster than a shameless hussy.
How can you tell?
A hussy? No. I was taught to love myself.
For just 3 easy payments of integrity, dignity, and self respect!
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXPosted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXHave they rejected you?Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXMaturation available online for free!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXHave you ever been?🙂Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXThat's what all spinsters saying...Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXAnd you will dream of the wedding no matter what!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXBullcrap! Keep telling it to yourself...unless someone proposed!
Thank you for reminding me why I never want to get married.
I have been proposed to a few different times in my life and was even engaged for several years.
Marriage is overrated and you're the poster child for that fact.
We're not all desperate like you, Gemitati.
Some of us actually realize that our happiness doesn't rely on our relationship status.
I'd rather be a spinster than a shameless hussy.
How can you tell?
A hussy? No. I was taught to love myself.
For just 3 easy payments of integrity, dignity, and self respect!
What is this "rejection" you speak of?
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Tha crap add you posted! I haven't even looked at seriously. So you haven't applied?
Posted by Gemitatiyou know, i'd just directly tell to his face and ask him whether his laziness is due to a mental issue. if he ever wants to work out with another woman, he needs to realize that his so-called "nice guy" and good-look cannot make up for decades of his laziness as a husband. consider it as a departure gift after all these years of your service lolPosted by iCloud9Lmao!!! You are a hoot! I didn't think I can will laugh tonight! I was so depressed!!!
i have to say that i admire the thoughtfulness and patience with the ideas of arranging a maid to do the chores before talking divorce or still coming back to cook and do choirs after separation. however, i mostly find it really sad that if it is this easy to replace you, then you are merely a maid after all these years. this should have ended years ago
is he mentally challenged? if not, he can arrange his own maid service. are you going to be his mother even after the divorce, jesus f christ
Thanks!!! Really!
No he is normal! No mental disorders!
You are right!
Omg! Will get back to you...thanks again!
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i despise laziness in a partner and i'm extremely blunt when i'm irritated. i'm sure you can tell lol
I think all romantic relationships come with an expiry date...we become either good friends or just house-mates after a decade or so. Most likely both of you are feeling it equally. The difference being that one of you is fine with it. Most likely the one who puts the least effort in the marriage, let themselves go and likes routine!
Look around you and see how many are divorced. When I ask them, you hear things like: I hesitated for years mostly because of our children. If I knew how good it could be (after divorce) I would have done it much earlier!
Don't let guilt hold you back. It has no basis whatsoever. Something has run its course. If he/she cannot cook, clean, drive, pay bills, run a household....who's fault it is? They have an exciting time ahead, learning what they should have known already!
If she/he has let themselves go...divorce could be their rescue. They could start looking after themselves much more, joining fitness classes, go dancing....a long list to choose from, before even signing with a dating site.
If you still feel guilty....someone once said that thinking their partner cannot live without them WELL means they are thinking very LOW of him/her!
Look around you and see how many are divorced. When I ask them, you hear things like: I hesitated for years mostly because of our children. If I knew how good it could be (after divorce) I would have done it much earlier!
Don't let guilt hold you back. It has no basis whatsoever. Something has run its course. If he/she cannot cook, clean, drive, pay bills, run a household....who's fault it is? They have an exciting time ahead, learning what they should have known already!
If she/he has let themselves go...divorce could be their rescue. They could start looking after themselves much more, joining fitness classes, go dancing....a long list to choose from, before even signing with a dating site.
If you still feel guilty....someone once said that thinking their partner cannot live without them WELL means they are thinking very LOW of him/her!
Posted by iCloud9Wow! That might actually the best point because he knows very well it's truth and he had a chance to change things around!Posted by Gemitatiyou know, i'd just directly tell to his face and ask him whether his laziness is due to a mental issue. if he ever wants to work out with another woman, he needs to realize that his so-called "nice guy" and good-look cannot make up for decades of his laziness as a husband. consider it as a departure gift after all these years of your service lolPosted by iCloud9Lmao!!! You are a hoot! I didn't think I can will laugh tonight! I was so depressed!!!
i have to say that i admire the thoughtfulness and patience with the ideas of arranging a maid to do the chores before talking divorce or still coming back to cook and do choirs after separation. however, i mostly find it really sad that if it is this easy to replace you, then you are merely a maid after all these years. this should have ended years ago
is he mentally challenged? if not, he can arrange his own maid service. are you going to be his mother even after the divorce, jesus f christ
Thanks!!! Really!
No he is normal! No mental disorders!
You are right!
Omg! Will get back to you...thanks again!
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i despise laziness in a partner and i'm extremely blunt when i'm irritated. i'm sure you can tell lol
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Thanks!!
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