Do you find Virgo guys creepy?

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As a Virgo guy I have an obvious interest in this question, and would particularly like answers from females (please state your sign). As far as I know nobody has described me as creepy, but quite a few other Virgo males I have met (or famous Virgo males that I know of) seem to be like this, so obviously this has made me think that maybe this is why we do not make friends easily and made me wonder if I come off this way too! Please don't say we are creepy just for fun (only if you mean it) and if you do think so please explain why. Would you say that we are perhaps too quiet, stare, give off a hostile vibe, ask too many questions, seem unsympathetic— If you do think we are creepy, do you think we are creepier than Capricorns or are Capricorns creepier?
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Arifish (aries/pisces cusp) femme fresh from a 5 year relationship with a virgo and he reveled in his creepy vibe. I personally loved him to death but the public opinion was very poor. There were other factors, environment+horrible childhood+first real relationship, but the stare and smile are what attracted me. My girlfriends always called him weird, creepy, scary but when we got one on one he was so sweet and the best friend I ever had. Something about him made him universally disliked but the percentage of people who found him attractive were very very attracted. He could easily get hostile and Id always have to get it into his head when I needed more than his surface 'dont care' mentality. But he was also so giving, so much that people often took advantage, when he made a friend he would die for them. Making friends and dealing with new people was always hard, he scared people off by trying too hard or pushing the creep factor too far. But I think if we met now in a bar for the first time I'd be drawn to him all over again, so yeah a little creepy but some girls dig it ;]
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I recently had a Virgo man approach me while I was working on my laptop - he was looking for change for a 5.

At first the company was nice. He found me delightfully straightforward. We even discussed astrology for a bit. He was obviously interested in me. I wear an engagement ring, by the way. I mentioned by fiance. He got weird about it and was apologetic. However I find that reaction quite ridiculous - I'm engaged but that doesn't mean I can't talk to anybody else. We weren't flirting (err.. I wasn't at least).

After awhile (he stayed for like 2 freaking hours... it was a little odd) he started 'forgetting' I was engaged and tried to get me to stare into his eyes and stand up to show him my height (I'm 5' on a good day). I told him that I don't play games or ask how high when somebody says jump.

I have a couple other Virgo guy friends but we're on good terms. Most are married or in a relationship. They're a little creepy but not overly so. We joke about it and it's mildly flattering but nothing ever has or ever will go past that line. They know my limits and know that I will never hesitate to completely distance myself from somebody who crosses that.

I'm a Leo with Scorpion Moon. My Mercury, Venus, and Mars are all in Virgo.. so no, Virgos typically aren't unsympathetic in my eyes. I favor logical mindsets like my own. I don't think there are hostile vibes.. mostly because I will challenge anything that gives me an issue. I'd call it observant rather than calling it 'staring'.

I don't think Capricorns are creepy but if I had to say which sign was creepier.. it would be Virgo. Capricorns know the concept of space and distance. Some Virgos overstay their welcome. I've never had a Capricorn put me in that uncomfortable situation.
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Freshman year of college, maybe the first 2 weeks, I met a Virgo who gave off , what some would call, creepy vibes. Although looking back, I think it was more my problem than his. He was just very straightforward about his interest in me and "developing a relationship"(his words) with me. I was completely baffled and didn't really know what to make of it.

I am very careful and cautious when it comes to relationships and he completely caught me off guard. I thought he was just my first college friend! We would laugh and talk about everything for hours, but he never flirted with me or gave off romantic vibes. I really thought we were just friends. Suddenly out of nowhere he started talking about a relationship. Saying we were really good together. Talking about where we would settle after graduation and which grad schools, we should think about applying to. I was like WAH?! He started following me around, hanging out in my dorm room, sticking close to me at parties... He acted like we were in a steady partnership, overnight. I was DUMBFOUNDED.

In hindsight, he was actually a great guy and exactly what I would want NOW. But back then I didn't know how to make heads or tails of such "adult" behavior.lol Also we were of different races (me/black and him/white), and in high school no one dated outside their race. It never even occurred to me that someone of a different race than me, could be romantically interested in me. Sounds ignorant, but its what I thought. I come from a small florida town.lol Anyway, I hurt him, I'm sure of it. Bad timing- I was too insecure. I'm sorry Mark!

Virgos come off creepy because they're just more mature than everyone else. People who are used to subtleties or game playing, don't really know how to take such forthrightness. I know I didn't.

All in all, I don't really think earth signs find other earth signs that creepy. Although, if I had to choose, I'd say Capricorns are creepier than Virgos. I say Capricorns, because they could be secret violent psychopaths or the next Gandhi and you wouldn't see any hints of it. I'm fairly intuitive but I read absolutely nothing when I interact with them. I get total emptiness. CREEEEPPPYY! I find other Taurus' delightfully weird and soothing. I could be the most awkward, socially retarded person in the room and Taurus' will just shrug and be weirder.lol I think Aries can get mega creepy, especially if they're interested in you and you don't feel the same way.
I'm a Taurus btdu
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What creeps people out is their blatant interest in wanting sexual copulation.


Most people have finesse, and will work the situation ... Virgos just stare the person down with nothing except a vibe of sexual desire ... and people do find that to be pervy.



Even in here, the Virgo men seem to give off the same vibe ..... and there's no getting through to the male Virgo that the orgasm isn't what's important .. what's important is the eurphoria getting there. They don't seem to have the slightest interest in getting to know a woman, they base their immediate interest on whether she will put-out.



And yes, that makes the male Virgo very creepy.


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Posted by P-Angel
What creeps people out is their blatant interest in wanting sexual copulation.

Most people have finesse, and will work the situation ... Virgos just stare the person down with nothing except a vibe of sexual desire ... and people do find that to be pervy.

And yes, that makes the male Virgo very creepy.




I dated a Virgo man for 6 years off and on. He wasn't creepy but he did stare at me like I was a piece of chicken. I would call him on it. He would stop for a day or two and then "chicken stare" all over again. He would be very aggressive when it came to touching me. I would wash the dishes and turn around and he would be right behind me with the " chicken stare". Grab me, kiss me, smack me on the butt and then the "chicken stare".

It is the look Tom always gived to Jerry.

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Posted by Nala13


I dated a Virgo man for 6 years off and on. He wasn't creepy but he did stare at me like I was a piece of chicken. I would call him on it. He would stop for a day or two and then "chicken stare" all over again. He would be very aggressive when it came to touching me. I would wash the dishes and turn around and he would be right behind me with the " chicken stare". Grab me, kiss me, smack me on the butt and then the "chicken stare".

It is the look Tom always gived to Jerry.

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Posted by caligula
no, she's saying that the manner in which he gawked didn't turn her on, but i don't expect you to get that...especially given how you initially responded to the OP.

ie, if a chick stares at you the entire time she's giving you head...and not in a loving, sexy way...ie bernie mac kings of comedy.


+1

seriously, IT IS A TURN OFF for a woman to be looked at by a man as if she were "something to be conquered."
long, possessive staring, demanding or aggressive groping, touching and "come here baby's" included.
unless the s*x is already 6 minutes in and she WANTS IT, for beginning foreplay? this more often than not is a no-no. there are exceptions of course.

on the contrary, I have never really viewed the said "creepiness" with virgo men, although I know quite well of others that do. but I guess it's because I understand what they are like when entering the s*x and romantics department. they are to the point, in all areas if you get what I mean, but that doesn't undermine that they are actually very established lovers and understand the complexities of foreplay...

the only ones with the above "creepiness" factor (which is an inappropriate term, it's not "creepiness," but that's another discussion) in my opinion are the ones with strong leo influences. every virgo I have met, and leo likewise, have had leo placements and therefore are all a bit "direct" with their s*xual intentions. it just makes them more ego-driven; they like the "I am strong, you follow me" power role-play.
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^whatever
Is this what you want? An argument with me over you stamping your fat hooves? Wait...screw that..why don't you pick something with me you truly want to argue about and then rant that you don't gaf...and that you're drinking..silently laughing while someone is riled up over the ish you say..you know...your "bully" m.o. let's see if it works on me like it doesn't on half the people you troll here with your...well...i'd call it bullheadedness. I'm ever so interested in the wit of the bull with bullshit to pour out of her fingers.




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Mine has been called psycho. LOL And some of the the things he says or does is 'creepy' to some. But here's my view...if they knew him as I do on a deeper level(emotional/mental), an intimate level, as a partner and friend, and know his past, he isn't so creepy afterall 🙂 There is so much love buried beneath what he will show to just anyone. Also a lot of pain and sorrow given his abuseive past. And no he is not used to being with a woman who gives and expects nothing in return.

They express love in a very different way from other sun signs. They are not for the weak. I would find it odd that a cancer sun sign could handle them, unless they had a strong rising sign or moon.
I am cap/aqua cusp, aries rising, and sag moon. My virgo partner is virgo sun, aqua moon, and scorpio rising.

The virgo stare..he has been called a womanizer and he is/was. Definition to a T:A selfish, narcissistic, nefarious character who needs to manipulate and use woman to feed his own childish, self serving ego. Has definite — Mommy issues.?? Will often seek out girls far too young, in hopes that they'll be too naive to read his intentions. Not only will this type of predator pursue women relentlessly—using time, flattery & displaying a —sincere" interest in becoming close on an emotional/mental level—but will quickly lose interest once his true nature as a sodomizing bastard is uncovered. The fallout is ALWAYS the woman's fault, as his ego cannot handle the reality of his own fucked up behavior.

Given his past, I GET why..he has a distorted view. However, once with someone, that changes..I am living proof. Once in a while he still makes off-handed remarks, he still 'looks' at women like a piece of chicken(lol) but that has lessened over time. And as a CAP, I have no problem calling him out on his bull-butter.

You lead a virgo male in the direction you want your relationship to go. And it take a strong woman to do that or they will eat you alive, or let you go.
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I don't know too many Virgo males. Besides the one I went to school with anything.

Well, there was my cousin friends, who were brothers. One was a Capricorn and one a Virgo. The Virgo liked me, the Capricorn liked my Virgo sister. My cousin lived with us, so they were always over our house. They'd all go to the basement and I'd be upstairs in my room. I guess one day the Virgo was coming upstairs, don't remember the reason, but all I remember was him crawling by my room door, which was open. Of course he looked inside. Yeah, I did think that was a bit creepy and I still dont know what that was about. Also, like the Virgo at school, this one kind of stared and never said anything either. I'd hear he liked me from my sister and cousin all the time.

Years before, my sister dated a Capricorn. This was dudes 1st or 2nd time at our house. If I'm not mistaken, I had never seen him before.. I don't know what was up with him this day, but i guess he wanted to see what i(my sisters sister) looked like so he came
in the house, ran up the stairs, and went straight to my room. He had a friend with him, so I guess he was trying to hook something up, idk, but who does that in someone else's house? I thought that was a bit more crazy, than anything.

My sister has a Cap fribe under her at the club to the point where she can't move and he fithat tries to talk to her.
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If I was creeped out by Virgo I wouldn't have married one and donated two eggletts to the cause of propagation. If anything I'd say "I was creeped out by ________ and they happen to be a Virgo."

I rather enjoy the intense "Wanna sop you up with a biscuit" look. Makes me all giddy and does strange things down South...like making it want to dance the fandango in high heels and throw some stank on it. 😛
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What creeps people out is their blatant interest in wanting sexual copulation.

Most people have finesse, and will work the situation ... Virgos just stare the person down with nothing except a vibe of sexual desire ... and people do find that to be pervy.

And yes, that makes the male Virgo very creepy.




I dated a Virgo man for 6 years off and on. He wasn't creepy but he did stare at me like I was a piece of chicken. I would call him on it. He would stop for a day or two and then "chicken stare" all over again. He would be very aggressive when it came to touching me. I would wash the dishes and turn around and he would be right behind me with the " chicken stare". Grab me, kiss me, smack me on the butt and then the "chicken stare".

It is the look Tom always gived to Jerry.


I want a man with depth
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@lunarmaiden did u mean Vince Vaughn ? 😛

@virgodog and Tora technically Norman bates is Aries since Vince Vaughn is an Aries, but yes I see how mommy issues are linked to cancer. But it's the execution of the murders that seems Virgo style ..



I had no idea Vince Vaughn played in the remake, UGH gross. The original 1960's Norman Bates was played by Anthony Perkins, who was also an Aries. So I guess Norman Bates crazy ass was an Aries. All we know is that he was born in 1934.

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@lunarmaiden did u mean Vince Vaughn ? 😛

@virgodog and Tora technically Norman bates is Aries since Vince Vaughn is an Aries, but yes I see how mommy issues are linked to cancer. But it's the execution of the murders that seems Virgo style ..



I had no idea Vince Vaughn played in the remake, UGH gross. The original 1960's Norman Bates was played by Anthony Perkins, who was also an Aries. So I guess Norman Bates crazy ass was an Aries. All we know is that he was born in 1934.

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Oh gosh all of them are Aries...
Vince Vaughn looks Virgo though. I didn't see the original, but the picture you posted, they certainly have the "psycho" look... Lol
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Pisces here.

Exboyfriend is a Sun Virgo/Leo Moon. Yes, he was odd. Started as FWB... then a month later, he starts literally crying because he "loves me and if he can't have me as a girlfriend, we cannot be anything at all". I decide to give it a chance as we got along great and were like two kids all the time, laughing, wrestling. Then out of no-where, he is talking kids, marrige...
I freak, break up with him days after his birthday and is distraught but seemed perfectly fine. He starts showing up to hang out with MY friends at the bar... starts mssging me to hang out... THEN starts sleeping with my girlfriends...all while saying, "but I love you."

erriiitttttt.
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First thing I want to state is Calgia is half right do not stare at me while your giving me head this ties in to Virgo and being creeped the "adult/mature/seriousness, Rose mentioned is true. Confidence comes in all forms. I find Bulls weird because there warm on the inside and cold on the out while i'm cold on the inside and warm out. Virgos have a stare thats weirdly testing as well, actually there character is testing but thats a different story. Virgos to me come from a place where they test your loyalty by question after question action after action it gets weird but I feel thats there character so weird is void because I accept them. Capicorns are weird because of the coldness even when warm as they approach everything even things they shouldnt with cold hard.logic. The killer feel of a Scorp seems like anger of a Virgo meditated of a Cap pyshco.

As far as chicken I have been chicken on a Virgos platter trust me its heaven.
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lol -funny thread! Im kind of involved with a Virgo and a Cap.

Yes "my" Virgo freaks me out a bit coz I catch him watching me but he wont talk to me in public lol and he takes a lot in. His face is also very hard to read; he has this constant deadpan look on his face most of the time. I would agree with others that he does not appear universally popular - I even thought he was on the autistic spectrum when I first met him. on a 1 on 1 level he smiles with me but even that looks a little creepy. I think because it looks like he is trying too hard.

The Cap I am seeing is not creepy at all. He's upfront and confident, although he does hang around me a lot, he has stuff to say - a completely different character altogether
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I have got the chicken stare from a virgo can't say he is "that" creepy because I stare and observe people as well. The only thing I find creepy is watching me at a distance. I'm bold stare in your face type he always stares when he thought I wasn't looking. I giggled when he did that though 🙂

He also use to stare at me like his eyes was on fire watching me walk.

They are weird but I like it!
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Posted by P-Angel
What creeps people out is their blatant interest in wanting sexual copulation.

Most people have finesse, and will work the situation ... Virgos just stare the person down with nothing except a vibe of sexual desire ... and people do find that to be pervy.

And yes, that makes the male Virgo very creepy.


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I dated a Virgo man for 6 years off and on. He wasn't creepy but he did stare at me like I was a piece of chicken. I would call him on it. He would stop for a day or two and then "chicken stare" all over again. He would be very aggressive when it came to touching me. I would wash the dishes and turn around and he would be right behind me with the " chicken stare". Grab me, kiss me, smack me on the butt and then the "chicken stare".

It is the look Tom always gived to Jerry.

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I wish I found virgo guys creepy! Unfortunately I'm a Taurus with moon, venus and Mars in cancer, so virgos are like my kryptonite. Case in point: the guy I'm currently kind of seeing. He's a virgo and thus utterly irresistible to me, and yet he has venus in Leo and Mars in Gemini, which basically means I have NO CLUE what to do with him or how he feels about me. So creepy? No. Hot and sometimes very confusing? YES!