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Is it true
my aries SIL i feel gets disregarded a lot coz she was def the chaser.
and ime the one time that i've shown more interest, yeah it turned out that way down the line but when i was just my usual passive and dumb asf self trying to break up at least once a month for the first half of the year, things turned out better.
and ime the one time that i've shown more interest, yeah it turned out that way down the line but when i was just my usual passive and dumb asf self trying to break up at least once a month for the first half of the year, things turned out better.
Posted by MonaLisa26
Idk. My Scorpio cousin chases hell out of Gem so he married her. Then she married 17 y/old younger (I bet she worked on it) and she is now finally married to someone we see as a swan song. But it seems like she says - tomorrow we signing the papers and he said yes dear…
Depends on a man.
I say they’re plenty of guys who aren’t crafty daters. I loooove those shy looking with piercing eyes who pretending to be all cute and then you run from their dick just to catch breath…mmmmm
Ok those are pretenders. They are dangerous.
And amazing.
Those who are seriously shy - you can run into few kinds. One who wants to be discovered. And when you do discover him - he wants to have you (love or not) just so he don’t have to go trough a horror of dating ever again. Those - hit or miss. Another one is the MTFKER who wants someone but choosy. Worse kind! Usually looking like crap but wants to have the prettiest woman though doesn’t even deserve one eyed with a crutches. Brrrrr
i only really understood the first paragraph.
but i've always felt like it's so much easier to drop a guy that i feel i've shown more interest in than the other way around. msut be my 5th house.
but i also know that there are other women who find it harder to let of 'something they've worked so hard for.' mainly, i'd just be annoyed wasting time.
Posted by StubbornSagittarius
It has a lot to do with age imo but yes, in my experience yes.
how do you mean?
I think there are certain chasing signs of the Zodiac that fit well with the non chasers. (men and women, not gender specific)
The women get disrespected like that are because they are with the men that don't like being chased but like the attention.
Men who expect to be chased, are more respectful and appreciate a woman doing it, because it's hard to find and it eases their anxiety over chasing and rejection.
Chasers usually don't have anxiety over rejection.
The women get disrespected like that are because they are with the men that don't like being chased but like the attention.
Men who expect to be chased, are more respectful and appreciate a woman doing it, because it's hard to find and it eases their anxiety over chasing and rejection.
Chasers usually don't have anxiety over rejection.
Posted by saggurl88
I think there are certain chasing signs of the Zodiac that fit well with the non chasers. (men and women, not gender specific)
The ones women get disrespected like that are because they are with the men that don't like being chased but like the attention.
Men who expect to be chased, are more respectful and appreciate a woman doing it, because it's hard to find and it eases their anxiety over chasing and rejection.
Chasers usually don't have anxiety over rejection.
most times, i'm the type to just sit around and kinda see things happen. but the one time i feel like i've shown more interest or initiative in the past, it turned out BAD down the line.
and yeah when i was like that, it felt so easy to just drop the guy (isn't that weird?). it's coz i feel like as a man, he just didn't do enough in the first place for me to want to hold on to him. it's almost life if i feel like i did MORE than you in the approach, i will feel less motivated to hold on to you.
like in my current relationship, i feel like he chased me more so i find myself clinging to him more. idk is it my zodiac sign?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
I think there are certain chasing signs of the Zodiac that fit well with the non chasers. (men and women, not gender specific)
The ones women get disrespected like that are because they are with the men that don't like being chased but like the attention.
Men who expect to be chased, are more respectful and appreciate a woman doing it, because it's hard to find and it eases their anxiety over chasing and rejection.
Chasers usually don't have anxiety over rejection.
most times, i'm the type to just sit around and kinda see things happen. but the one time i feel like i've shown more interest or initiative in the past, it turned out BAD down the line.
and yeah when i was like that, it felt so easy to just drop the guy (isn't that weird?). it's coz i feel like as a man, he just didn't do enough in the first place for me to want to hold on to him. it's almost life if i feel like i did MORE than you in the approach, i will feel less motivated to hold on to you.
like in my current relationship, i feel like he chased me more so i find myself clinging to him more. idk is it my zodiac sign?click to expand
My personal opinion is that a man needs to invest more in a woman for it to work. Men need to feel needed, and they need a sense of purpose.
So I can see why it wouldn't work when a man isn't contributing to the relationship. Men feel valued when they can help or contribute in any way to a relationship.
Woman are always needed by someone, men are not. Now that women can provide for themselves, which was a mans main job back in the days, it makes it even harder for men to know where they can be of service towards an independent woman who has everything and where they fit in.
The initial chase of how you got together isn't as important as how you actually keep a man.
Maybe my values and opinions are too traditional though. Maybe things will change with the new 20 year olds.
I see more men wanting to be taken care of and chased and more women being the strong types now, It's like the roles are reversed. I'm not sure that's a good thing.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88most times, i'm the type to just sit around and kinda see things happen. but the one time i feel like i've shown more interest or initiative in the past, it turned out BAD down the line.
I think there are certain chasing signs of the Zodiac that fit well with the non chasers. (men and women, not gender specific)
The ones women get disrespected like that are because they are with the men that don't like being chased but like the attention.
Men who expect to be chased, are more respectful and appreciate a woman doing it, because it's hard to find and it eases their anxiety over chasing and rejection.
Chasers usually don't have anxiety over rejection.
and yeah when i was like that, it felt so easy to just drop the guy (isn't that weird?). it's coz i feel like as a man, he just didn't do enough in the first place for me to want to hold on to him. it's almost life if i feel like i did MORE than you in the approach, i will feel less motivated to hold on to you.
like in my current relationship, i feel like he chased me more so i find myself clinging to him more. idk is it my zodiac sign?
click to expand
My personal opinion is that a man needs to invest more in a woman for it to work. Men need to feel needed, and they need a sense of purpose.
So I can see why it wouldn't work when a man isn't contributing to the relationship. Men feel valued when they can help or contribute in any way to a relationship.
Woman are always needed by someone, men are not. Now that women can provide for themselves, which was a mans main job back in the days, it makes it even harder for men to know where they can be of service towards an independent woman who has everything and where they fit in.
The initial chase of how you got together isn't as important as how you actually keep a man.
Maybe my values and opinions are too traditional though. Maybe things will change with the new 20 year olds.
I see more men wanting to be taken care of and chased and more women being the strong types now, It's like the roles are reversed. I'm not sure that's a good thing.click to expand
i lose interest when i'm not chased
i'd be okay with being like materially-supportive but most of the the emotional effort is gonna come from you
it's my relationship rn and i've never felt more compatible with someone
like i don't get sidechicks who 'worked' for it or exerted too much effort in 'go-getting' coz eventually, it's not like you'd actually like a man like that but yeah maybe it's different for everyone
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPMy personal opinion is that a man needs to invest more in a woman for it to work. Men need to feel needed, and they need a sense of purpose.Posted by saggurl88
I think there are certain chasing signs of the Zodiac that fit well with the non chasers. (men and women, not gender specific)
The ones women get disrespected like that are because they are with the men that don't like being chased but like the attention.
Men who expect to be chased, are more respectful and appreciate a woman doing it, because it's hard to find and it eases their anxiety over chasing and rejection.
Chasers usually don't have anxiety over rejection.
most times, i'm the type to just sit around and kinda see things happen. but the one time i feel like i've shown more interest or initiative in the past, it turned out BAD down the line.
and yeah when i was like that, it felt so easy to just drop the guy (isn't that weird?). it's coz i feel like as a man, he just didn't do enough in the first place for me to want to hold on to him. it's almost life if i feel like i did MORE than you in the approach, i will feel less motivated to hold on to you.
like in my current relationship, i feel like he chased me more so i find myself clinging to him more. idk is it my zodiac sign?
click to expand
So I can see why it wouldn't work when a man isn't contributing to the relationship. Men feel valued when they can help or contribute in any way to a relationship.
Woman are always needed by someone, men are not. Now that women can provide for themselves, which was a mans main job back in the days, it makes it even harder for men to know where they can be of service towards an independent woman who has everything and where they fit in.
The initial chase of how you got together isn't as important as how you actually keep a man.
Maybe my values and opinions are too traditional though. Maybe things will change with the new 20 year olds.
I see more men wanting to be taken care of and chased and more women being the strong types now, It's like the roles are reversed. I'm not sure that's a good thing.
click to expand
i lose interest when i'm not chased
i'd be okay with being like materially-supportive but most of the the emotional effort is gonna come from you
it's my relationship rn and i've never felt more compatible with someone
like i don't get sidechicks who 'worked' for it or exerted too much effort in 'go-getting' coz eventually, it's not like you'd actually like a man like that but yeah maybe it's different for everyone
You basically described first years of my rs with Virgo lol never liked it that way in fact but had done it anyway. He did respond quite positively to my efforts thoughclick to expand
you chased a virgo?
Side chicks rarely get the man, or if they do, they get cheated on down the line. They have a lack of respect for themselves and call it fun to ruin someone else’s relationship just cause they can’t get and keep a man for themselves.
They cling to a cheater since that’s all they have to offer.
They need self worth and morals lol
And I’m aware that Virgos need to be chased, that’s why I didn’t work out with the ones I dated. Let the chasing women have them!
There can’t be 2 non chasers in a relationship. It never gets anywhere
They cling to a cheater since that’s all they have to offer.
They need self worth and morals lol
And I’m aware that Virgos need to be chased, that’s why I didn’t work out with the ones I dated. Let the chasing women have them!
There can’t be 2 non chasers in a relationship. It never gets anywhere
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88i lose interest when i'm not chasedPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
I think there are certain chasing signs of the Zodiac that fit well with the non chasers. (men and women, not gender specific)
The ones women get disrespected like that are because they are with the men that don't like being chased but like the attention.
Men who expect to be chased, are more respectful and appreciate a woman doing it, because it's hard to find and it eases their anxiety over chasing and rejection.
Chasers usually don't have anxiety over rejection.
most times, i'm the type to just sit around and kinda see things happen. but the one time i feel like i've shown more interest or initiative in the past, it turned out BAD down the line.
and yeah when i was like that, it felt so easy to just drop the guy (isn't that weird?). it's coz i feel like as a man, he just didn't do enough in the first place for me to want to hold on to him. it's almost life if i feel like i did MORE than you in the approach, i will feel less motivated to hold on to you.
like in my current relationship, i feel like he chased me more so i find myself clinging to him more. idk is it my zodiac sign?
click to expand
My personal opinion is that a man needs to invest more in a woman for it to work. Men need to feel needed, and they need a sense of purpose.
So I can see why it wouldn't work when a man isn't contributing to the relationship. Men feel valued when they can help or contribute in any way to a relationship.
Woman are always needed by someone, men are not. Now that women can provide for themselves, which was a mans main job back in the days, it makes it even harder for men to know where they can be of service towards an independent woman who has everything and where they fit in.
The initial chase of how you got together isn't as important as how you actually keep a man.
Maybe my values and opinions are too traditional though. Maybe things will change with the new 20 year olds.
I see more men wanting to be taken care of and chased and more women being the strong types now, It's like the roles are reversed. I'm not sure that's a good thing.
click to expand
i'd be okay with being like materially-supportive but most of the the emotional effort is gonna come from you
it's my relationship rn and i've never felt more compatible with someone
like i don't get sidechicks who 'worked' for it or exerted too much effort in 'go-getting' coz eventually, it's not like you'd actually like a man like that but yeah maybe it's different for everyone
You basically described first years of my rs with Virgo lol never liked it that way in fact but had done it anyway. He did respond quite positively to my efforts though
you chased a virgo?
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pretty much, yes.click to expand
figures. one time i encountered one and it culminated in a standstill like the ball's constantly in the middle. like we're both trying at 20% but i just dropped that coz i feel like i'm the only one who should be in that level and you should be trying at 80% .
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88
Side chicks rarely get the man, or if they do, they get cheated on down the line. They have a lack of respect for themselves and call it fun to ruin someone else’s relationship just cause they can’t get and keep a man for themselves.
They cling to a cheater since that’s all they have to offer.
They need self worth and morals lol
And I’m aware that Virgos need to be chased, that’s why I didn’t work out with the ones I dated. Let the chasing women have them!
There can’t be 2 non chasers in a relationship. It never gets anywhere
That is an extremely superficial view. There is so much beyond what you see and what actually happens...it would be way to long to writeclick to expand
lol A side chick is a side chick. That's why they are called side chicks.
That mentality is what makes side chicks go after married men.
"so much beyond what you see and what actually happens"
What happens? A girl falls for the guys lies of him about to leave his wife or his wife is mistreating him or the marriage is on the rocks and she starts being his side chick?
You're right, it's way too long to go into. There are too many unattached, single men to waste time on a women getting attention and dick from a married man.
I've never had to deal with this in person, but a woman busy with a married man that doesn't have time to make her a priority is either too busy to care or too desperate for a man to notice.
Married men are easy to get. Free pussy for them and a girl with high hopes of him leaving and believing his lies.
It doesn't make any sense in the long run of trying to be in a solid, long term relationship, only for a little fun and no obligations.
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariuslol A side chick is a side chick. That's why they are called side chicks.Posted by saggurl88
Side chicks rarely get the man, or if they do, they get cheated on down the line. They have a lack of respect for themselves and call it fun to ruin someone else’s relationship just cause they can’t get and keep a man for themselves.
They cling to a cheater since that’s all they have to offer.
They need self worth and morals lol
And I’m aware that Virgos need to be chased, that’s why I didn’t work out with the ones I dated. Let the chasing women have them!
There can’t be 2 non chasers in a relationship. It never gets anywhere
That is an extremely superficial view. There is so much beyond what you see and what actually happens...it would be way to long to write
click to expand
That mentality is what makes side chicks go after married men.
"so much beyond what you see and what actually happens"
What happens? A girl falls for the guys lies of him about to leave his wife or his wife is mistreating him or the marriage is on the rocks and she starts being his side chick?
You're right, it's way too long to go into. There are too many unattached, single men to waste time on a women getting attention and dick from a married man.
I've never had to deal with this in person, but a woman busy with a married man that doesn't have time to make her a priority is either too busy to care or too desperate for a man to notice.
Married men are easy to get. Free pussy for them and a girl with high hopes of him leaving and believing his lies.
It doesn't make any sense in the long run of trying to be in a solid, long term relationship, only for a little fun and no obligations.
click to expand
Well what can I say, I probably know nothing and you know the best.
I'm only with one who did leave someone to be with me. Never been desperate, never had low standards or poor choices, never looked for taken men- but they do tend to find me. And sometimes there's something that happens unexpected and is called falling in love. And it develops over time. And you may not always know someone is taken right away so that's how it happens. And they do leave to be where they are feeling better. Been a solid and long term relationship for over a decade. No lies, no cheating.
Oh look miracles happen.
Chill, no need to get all worked up about it.🤷♀️
Realization that you can't know everything is the first step to greater knowledge. I'm sure it's easier to stay stereotypical and judgemental, but expanding your horizons sometimes really does wonders.
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You have your experiences in life and I have mine. I get hit on all the time by married men and it gets annoying and is a waste of my time. Which is why I'm so passionate about what I said.
I'm not side piece material and don't choose to be.
For the women that enjoy it, that's their business.
I had no clue you about your personal life, which is why you may be taking offense to what I wrote.
But you saying this about the Virgo you're with and then fantasizing about a married Gemini man is making much more sense 🙂
To each his own, it's not my business what you do with your life. Live it how you want. We only have 1!
I'm not a judge or the jury, I just don't like married me trying to have sex with me, since that's mostly what they can offer. Sex, a listening ear, and gifts.
If that's being offered, I'd rather get that from someone unattached.
If expanding my horizons means opening my legs to a married man, NO THANKS!
Cardinal and Fixed Men have always resented me for making the first, second, initiating.
Mutables don’t care and they’re here for the ride
Mutables don’t care and they’re here for the ride
Posted by DMV
Cardinal and Fixed Men have always resented me for making the first, second, initiating.
Mutables don’t care and they’re here for the ride
i think mutables do best together
cardinals and fixed seem to lose respect when you exert too much effort
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusYou have your experiences in life and I have mine. I get hit on all the time by married men and it gets annoying and is a waste of my time. Which is why I'm so passionate about what I said.Posted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88
Side chicks rarely get the man, or if they do, they get cheated on down the line. They have a lack of respect for themselves and call it fun to ruin someone else’s relationship just cause they can’t get and keep a man for themselves.
They cling to a cheater since that’s all they have to offer.
They need self worth and morals lol
And I’m aware that Virgos need to be chased, that’s why I didn’t work out with the ones I dated. Let the chasing women have them!
There can’t be 2 non chasers in a relationship. It never gets anywhere
That is an extremely superficial view. There is so much beyond what you see and what actually happens...it would be way to long to write
click to expand
lol A side chick is a side chick. That's why they are called side chicks.
That mentality is what makes side chicks go after married men.
"so much beyond what you see and what actually happens"
What happens? A girl falls for the guys lies of him about to leave his wife or his wife is mistreating him or the marriage is on the rocks and she starts being his side chick?
You're right, it's way too long to go into. There are too many unattached, single men to waste time on a women getting attention and dick from a married man.
I've never had to deal with this in person, but a woman busy with a married man that doesn't have time to make her a priority is either too busy to care or too desperate for a man to notice.
Married men are easy to get. Free pussy for them and a girl with high hopes of him leaving and believing his lies.
It doesn't make any sense in the long run of trying to be in a solid, long term relationship, only for a little fun and no obligations.
click to expand
Well what can I say, I probably know nothing and you know the best.
I'm only with one who did leave someone to be with me. Never been desperate, never had low standards or poor choices, never looked for taken men- but they do tend to find me. And sometimes there's something that happens unexpected and is called falling in love. And it develops over time. And you may not always know someone is taken right away so that's how it happens. And they do leave to be where they are feeling better. Been a solid and long term relationship for over a decade. No lies, no cheating.
Oh look miracles happen.
Chill, no need to get all worked up about it.🤷♀️
Realization that you can't know everything is the first step to greater knowledge. I'm sure it's easier to stay stereotypical and judgemental, but expanding your horizons sometimes really does wonders.
click to expand
I'm not side piece material and don't choose to be.
For the women that enjoy it, that's their business.
I had no clue you about your personal life, which is why you may be taking offense to what I wrote.
But you saying this about the Virgo you're with and then fantasizing about a married Gemini man is making much more sense
To each his own, it's not my business what you do with your life. Live it how you want. We only have 1!
I'm not a judge or the jury, I just don't like married me trying to have sex with me, since that's mostly what they can offer. Sex, a listening ear, and gifts.
If that's being offered, I'd rather get that from someone unattached.
If expanding my horizons means opening my legs to a married man, NO THANKS!
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But spreading them for 100 single ones is ok I guess lol
On a side note, I never cheated on my partner and have never been with a married man🤷♀️
Wanting to eat a cake and actually eating it are two very different things. And yes, we only live once, I live by that rule.
Only thing I pointed out was that particular reasoning is superficial because it lacks depth and comprehension of actual examples of such situations.
Here's few examples. 1. She caught him cheating, told him she'll forgive him as long as he stops seeing her. He said no, I'll not stop stop seeing her and I want to be with her instead.
2. He keeps visiting his also married ex in another city while lying to his wife that he works night shifts.
3. She found a number of his mistress and called her to ask her to stop seeing him, and she said no, I'll see him and don't care that you know about it.
4. Every year he comes to city he first calls his ex to ask her to meet him saying he still loves her and wants to be with her despite the fact he's married and she always rejected him.
5. He keeps cheating on his wife constantly, she catches him cause she constantly checks his phone and then calls those girls to tell them he's married to her and to stay away from him...and so on and on. People are who they are.
6. Entire marriage he had field work and cheated on his wife, literally had a 2nd phone number and several girlfriends without his wife knowing a thing about it. At first she left him but later came back and they reconciliated.
Not to mention the examples of people that I personally don't know but read their requests for legal help in some groups about their spouses bringing another pregnant woman to their home and kicking his wife out and similar things.click to expand
what is your mercury?
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusYou have your experiences in life and I have mine. I get hit on all the time by married men and it gets annoying and is a waste of my time. Which is why I'm so passionate about what I said.Posted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88
Side chicks rarely get the man, or if they do, they get cheated on down the line. They have a lack of respect for themselves and call it fun to ruin someone else’s relationship just cause they can’t get and keep a man for themselves.
They cling to a cheater since that’s all they have to offer.
They need self worth and morals lol
And I’m aware that Virgos need to be chased, that’s why I didn’t work out with the ones I dated. Let the chasing women have them!
There can’t be 2 non chasers in a relationship. It never gets anywhere
That is an extremely superficial view. There is so much beyond what you see and what actually happens...it would be way to long to write
click to expand
lol A side chick is a side chick. That's why they are called side chicks.
That mentality is what makes side chicks go after married men.
"so much beyond what you see and what actually happens"
What happens? A girl falls for the guys lies of him about to leave his wife or his wife is mistreating him or the marriage is on the rocks and she starts being his side chick?
You're right, it's way too long to go into. There are too many unattached, single men to waste time on a women getting attention and dick from a married man.
I've never had to deal with this in person, but a woman busy with a married man that doesn't have time to make her a priority is either too busy to care or too desperate for a man to notice.
Married men are easy to get. Free pussy for them and a girl with high hopes of him leaving and believing his lies.
It doesn't make any sense in the long run of trying to be in a solid, long term relationship, only for a little fun and no obligations.
click to expand
Well what can I say, I probably know nothing and you know the best.
I'm only with one who did leave someone to be with me. Never been desperate, never had low standards or poor choices, never looked for taken men- but they do tend to find me. And sometimes there's something that happens unexpected and is called falling in love. And it develops over time. And you may not always know someone is taken right away so that's how it happens. And they do leave to be where they are feeling better. Been a solid and long term relationship for over a decade. No lies, no cheating.
Oh look miracles happen.
Chill, no need to get all worked up about it.🤷♀️
Realization that you can't know everything is the first step to greater knowledge. I'm sure it's easier to stay stereotypical and judgemental, but expanding your horizons sometimes really does wonders.
click to expand
I'm not side piece material and don't choose to be.
For the women that enjoy it, that's their business.
I had no clue you about your personal life, which is why you may be taking offense to what I wrote.
But you saying this about the Virgo you're with and then fantasizing about a married Gemini man is making much more sense
To each his own, it's not my business what you do with your life. Live it how you want. We only have 1!
I'm not a judge or the jury, I just don't like married me trying to have sex with me, since that's mostly what they can offer. Sex, a listening ear, and gifts.
If that's being offered, I'd rather get that from someone unattached.
If expanding my horizons means opening my legs to a married man, NO THANKS!
click to expand
But spreading them for 100 single ones is ok I guess lol
On a side note, I never cheated on my partner and have never been with a married man🤷♀️
Wanting to eat a cake and actually eating it are two very different things. And yes, we only live once, I live by that rule.
Only thing I pointed out was that particular reasoning is superficial because it lacks depth and comprehension of actual examples of such situations.
Here's few examples. 1. She caught him cheating, told him she'll forgive him as long as he stops seeing her. He said no, I'll not stop stop seeing her and I want to be with her instead.
2. He keeps visiting his also married ex in another city while lying to his wife that he works night shifts.
3. She found a number of his mistress and called her to ask her to stop seeing him, and she said no, I'll see him and don't care that you know about it.
4. Every year he comes to city he first calls his ex to ask her to meet him saying he still loves her and wants to be with her despite the fact he's married and she always rejected him.
5. He keeps cheating on his wife constantly, she catches him cause she constantly checks his phone and then calls those girls to tell them he's married to her and to stay away from him...and so on and on. People are who they are.
6. Entire marriage he had field work and cheated on his wife, literally had a 2nd phone number and several girlfriends without his wife knowing a thing about it. At first she left him but later came back and they reconciliated.
Not to mention the examples of people that I personally don't know but read their requests for legal help in some groups about their spouses bringing another pregnant woman to their home and kicking his wife out and similar things.
what is your mercury?
Sag Merc, why?click to expand
which house is it in? just curious coz mine is virgo in the 1st
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusYou have your experiences in life and I have mine. I get hit on all the time by married men and it gets annoying and is a waste of my time. Which is why I'm so passionate about what I said.Posted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88
Side chicks rarely get the man, or if they do, they get cheated on down the line. They have a lack of respect for themselves and call it fun to ruin someone else’s relationship just cause they can’t get and keep a man for themselves.
They cling to a cheater since that’s all they have to offer.
They need self worth and morals lol
And I’m aware that Virgos need to be chased, that’s why I didn’t work out with the ones I dated. Let the chasing women have them!
There can’t be 2 non chasers in a relationship. It never gets anywhere
That is an extremely superficial view. There is so much beyond what you see and what actually happens...it would be way to long to write
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lol A side chick is a side chick. That's why they are called side chicks.
That mentality is what makes side chicks go after married men.
"so much beyond what you see and what actually happens"
What happens? A girl falls for the guys lies of him about to leave his wife or his wife is mistreating him or the marriage is on the rocks and she starts being his side chick?
You're right, it's way too long to go into. There are too many unattached, single men to waste time on a women getting attention and dick from a married man.
I've never had to deal with this in person, but a woman busy with a married man that doesn't have time to make her a priority is either too busy to care or too desperate for a man to notice.
Married men are easy to get. Free pussy for them and a girl with high hopes of him leaving and believing his lies.
It doesn't make any sense in the long run of trying to be in a solid, long term relationship, only for a little fun and no obligations.
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Well what can I say, I probably know nothing and you know the best.
I'm only with one who did leave someone to be with me. Never been desperate, never had low standards or poor choices, never looked for taken men- but they do tend to find me. And sometimes there's something that happens unexpected and is called falling in love. And it develops over time. And you may not always know someone is taken right away so that's how it happens. And they do leave to be where they are feeling better. Been a solid and long term relationship for over a decade. No lies, no cheating.
Oh look miracles happen.
Chill, no need to get all worked up about it.🤷♀️
Realization that you can't know everything is the first step to greater knowledge. I'm sure it's easier to stay stereotypical and judgemental, but expanding your horizons sometimes really does wonders.
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I'm not side piece material and don't choose to be.
For the women that enjoy it, that's their business.
I had no clue you about your personal life, which is why you may be taking offense to what I wrote.
But you saying this about the Virgo you're with and then fantasizing about a married Gemini man is making much more sense
To each his own, it's not my business what you do with your life. Live it how you want. We only have 1!
I'm not a judge or the jury, I just don't like married me trying to have sex with me, since that's mostly what they can offer. Sex, a listening ear, and gifts.
If that's being offered, I'd rather get that from someone unattached.
If expanding my horizons means opening my legs to a married man, NO THANKS!
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But spreading them for 100 single ones is ok I guess lol
On a side note, I never cheated on my partner and have never been with a married man🤷♀️
Wanting to eat a cake and actually eating it are two very different things. And yes, we only live once, I live by that rule.
Only thing I pointed out was that particular reasoning is superficial because it lacks depth and comprehension of actual examples of such situations.
Here's few examples. 1. She caught him cheating, told him she'll forgive him as long as he stops seeing her. He said no, I'll not stop stop seeing her and I want to be with her instead.
2. He keeps visiting his also married ex in another city while lying to his wife that he works night shifts.
3. She found a number of his mistress and called her to ask her to stop seeing him, and she said no, I'll see him and don't care that you know about it.
4. Every year he comes to city he first calls his ex to ask her to meet him saying he still loves her and wants to be with her despite the fact he's married and she always rejected him.
5. He keeps cheating on his wife constantly, she catches him cause she constantly checks his phone and then calls those girls to tell them he's married to her and to stay away from him...and so on and on. People are who they are.
6. Entire marriage he had field work and cheated on his wife, literally had a 2nd phone number and several girlfriends without his wife knowing a thing about it. At first she left him but later came back and they reconciliated.
Not to mention the examples of people that I personally don't know but read their requests for legal help in some groups about their spouses bringing another pregnant woman to their home and kicking his wife out and similar things.click to expand
MY INITIAL POST WASN'T ABOUT YOU.
What you do with your life is non of my business.
My post was based on my opinion.
I never said I was right or wrong, I said what I said and you quoted me and decided to say that I was a know it all and that I was right and only think single mindedly.
I could care less about reasons and excuses of being a woman on the side.
It adds no value to my life, so I don't need to expand my knowledge on the topic.
I sleep good at night when I log off DXP and go home. I'm not thinking of posts from a stranger when I'm off the computer.
YOU DO YOU!
can i answer even tho i’m a guy? 😳
.….i could be wrong but i think the people who ended up treating you like trash would’ve treated you like trash anyway somewhere down the line. it probably has nothing to do with you chasing them.
treating someone like trash just because they chased you/showed enthusiasm towards you is weird, asshole behavior.
for example, would you treat a friend who showed enthusiasm towards you like trash? (friend of the same gender)
my best friend (virgo sun/aries moon) pretty much pestered me 24/7 upon meeting but i never treated him like trash. in fact, i was like “ i need to protect this dude at all cost cuz he’s out here wearing his heart on his sleeve , being way too gullible and innocent lol 😂”
and that was many years ago. we’re still best friends and inseparable. lol
if you wouldn’t treat a friend of the same gender with disrespect, you also wouldn’t treat someone of the opposite gender with disrespect (for showing any kind of interest in you).
but i will say that, in romantic relationships, you’ll tend to get better results when you aren’t desperate to “sell yourself”.
what i mean by that is , your presence alone should speak for itself.
the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you think, the way you move, these should all convey a message that you are valuable and not someone who should be treated like trash.
in other words, act respectable if you wanna be respected.
you know how all those luxury brands get sales even without advertising loudly and frequently? without going around saying “please buy me??”
that’s kinda how you wanna be.
sorry, i suck at explaining lol 😅
.….i could be wrong but i think the people who ended up treating you like trash would’ve treated you like trash anyway somewhere down the line. it probably has nothing to do with you chasing them.
treating someone like trash just because they chased you/showed enthusiasm towards you is weird, asshole behavior.
for example, would you treat a friend who showed enthusiasm towards you like trash? (friend of the same gender)
my best friend (virgo sun/aries moon) pretty much pestered me 24/7 upon meeting but i never treated him like trash. in fact, i was like “ i need to protect this dude at all cost cuz he’s out here wearing his heart on his sleeve , being way too gullible and innocent lol 😂”
and that was many years ago. we’re still best friends and inseparable. lol
if you wouldn’t treat a friend of the same gender with disrespect, you also wouldn’t treat someone of the opposite gender with disrespect (for showing any kind of interest in you).
but i will say that, in romantic relationships, you’ll tend to get better results when you aren’t desperate to “sell yourself”.
what i mean by that is , your presence alone should speak for itself.
the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you think, the way you move, these should all convey a message that you are valuable and not someone who should be treated like trash.
in other words, act respectable if you wanna be respected.
you know how all those luxury brands get sales even without advertising loudly and frequently? without going around saying “please buy me??”
that’s kinda how you wanna be.
sorry, i suck at explaining lol 😅
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can i answer even tho i’m a guy? 😳
.….i could be wrong but i think the people who ended up treating you like trash would’ve treated you like trash anyway somewhere down the line. it probably has nothing to do with you chasing them.
treating someone like trash just because they chased you/showed enthusiasm towards you is weird, asshole behavior.
for example, would you treat a friend who showed enthusiasm towards you like trash? (friend of the same gender)
my best friend (virgo sun/aries moon) pretty much pestered me 24/7 upon meeting but i never treated him like trash. in fact, i was like “ i need to protect this dude at all cost cuz he’s out here wearing his heart on his sleeve , being way too gullible and innocent lol 😂”
and that was many years ago. we’re still best friends and inseparable. lol
if you wouldn’t treat a friend of the same gender with disrespect, you also wouldn’t treat someone of the opposite gender with disrespect (for showing any kind of interest in you).
but i will say that, in romantic relationships, you’ll tend to get better results when you aren’t desperate to “sell yourself”.
what i mean by that is , your presence alone should speak for itself.
the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you think, the way you move, these should all convey a message that you are valuable and not someone who should be treated like trash.
in other words, act respectable if you wanna be respected.
you know how all those luxury brands get sales even without advertising loudly and frequently? without going around saying “please buy me??”
that’s kinda how you wanna be.
sorry, i suck at explaining lol 😅
what i mean is more like when the guy might not have really liked the girl much or at all but she did everything she can to be with him like superfans who follow their popstar obssession then end up marrying them.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by serenidad
can i answer even tho i’m a guy? 😳
.….i could be wrong but i think the people who ended up treating you like trash would’ve treated you like trash anyway somewhere down the line. it probably has nothing to do with you chasing them.
treating someone like trash just because they chased you/showed enthusiasm towards you is weird, asshole behavior.
for example, would you treat a friend who showed enthusiasm towards you like trash? (friend of the same gender)
my best friend (virgo sun/aries moon) pretty much pestered me 24/7 upon meeting but i never treated him like trash. in fact, i was like “ i need to protect this dude at all cost cuz he’s out here wearing his heart on his sleeve , being way too gullible and innocent lol 😂”
and that was many years ago. we’re still best friends and inseparable. lol
if you wouldn’t treat a friend of the same gender with disrespect, you also wouldn’t treat someone of the opposite gender with disrespect (for showing any kind of interest in you).
but i will say that, in romantic relationships, you’ll tend to get better results when you aren’t desperate to “sell yourself”.
what i mean by that is , your presence alone should speak for itself.
the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you think, the way you move, these should all convey a message that you are valuable and not someone who should be treated like trash.
in other words, act respectable if you wanna be respected.
you know how all those luxury brands get sales even without advertising loudly and frequently? without going around saying “please buy me??”
that’s kinda how you wanna be.
sorry, i suck at explaining lol 😅
what i mean is more like when the guy might not have really liked the girl much or at all but she did everything she can to be with him like superfans who follow their popstar obssession then end up marrying them.click to expand
ohh i see
um, in that case, if the guy never really liked her all that much to begin with, it’s gonna be pretty hard to turn that around.
men either like you from the get-go or they don’t.
attraction is instinctive for most men, it’s not so much something we think long and hard about.
of course, it’s possible to fall deeper in love with someone later, like after knowing more about the person (their mind, their character, their values etc) but that initial attraction has to be there.
also, the psychology behind fans who put idols on pedestals and obsess over them is that , these fans subconsciously think these idols are somehow above them. in other words, you worship someone because you think you are below them somehow. you think they have something you don’t or can’t ever have. or something to that effect.
so, what happens in relationships where the woman puts the man on a pedestal is, she subconsciously sends a message to the man that she thinks he is above her somehow. which may lead to the man thinking he is “king shit” (so to speak lol) because the woman is placing herself below him through her words and actions.
that is how an unbalanced relationship is formed.
i think. :/
Posted by virgoOPPP
from your own exp and what you've seen
that when a woman chases/goes after a guy that he will tend to be irritable, demanding and it would make it easier for them to disregard you and treat you like trash instead of the other way around?
just smthng i've read from LA about the whole eyebrow gate
apparently, lots of aries moon involved in this
Fuck no! That's not true.
Doesn't matter the gender. Attention and pressure when unwanted, causes people to act out like that instead on saying something about it and talking about....for whatever dumb reason. Another words it's passive aggressive shit.
In fact, It can get toxic when people are stuck with each other for whatever reason and don't come to terms or separate.
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Cardinal and Fixed Men have always resented me for making the first, second, initiating.
Mutables don’t care and they’re here for the ride
Why does it make them feel less "manly"? lmao
Not really. I notice women who chase men tend to be off a bit. That's not 100% the case every time, but I've noticed most women who chase men have deep rooted problems, and those problems can't be fixed. So it would make sense that a woman like that would lead to men that seem easily irritable. I would be irritable too if I was dealing with a woman with a significant amount of emotional baggage. Women chasing men isn't normal imo. It's a sign of a woman with issues no man will truly fix. Likely tormentors their own father left them with. Again, that isn't the case 100% of the time. Just in most cases.
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by serenidadPosted by virgoOPPPohh i seePosted by serenidad
can i answer even tho i’m a guy? 😳
.….i could be wrong but i think the people who ended up treating you like trash would’ve treated you like trash anyway somewhere down the line. it probably has nothing to do with you chasing them.
treating someone like trash just because they chased you/showed enthusiasm towards you is weird, asshole behavior.
for example, would you treat a friend who showed enthusiasm towards you like trash? (friend of the same gender)
my best friend (virgo sun/aries moon) pretty much pestered me 24/7 upon meeting but i never treated him like trash. in fact, i was like “ i need to protect this dude at all cost cuz he’s out here wearing his heart on his sleeve , being way too gullible and innocent lol 😂”
and that was many years ago. we’re still best friends and inseparable. lol
if you wouldn’t treat a friend of the same gender with disrespect, you also wouldn’t treat someone of the opposite gender with disrespect (for showing any kind of interest in you).
but i will say that, in romantic relationships, you’ll tend to get better results when you aren’t desperate to “sell yourself”.
what i mean by that is , your presence alone should speak for itself.
the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you think, the way you move, these should all convey a message that you are valuable and not someone who should be treated like trash.
in other words, act respectable if you wanna be respected.
you know how all those luxury brands get sales even without advertising loudly and frequently? without going around saying “please buy me??”
that’s kinda how you wanna be.
sorry, i suck at explaining lol 😅
what i mean is more like when the guy might not have really liked the girl much or at all but she did everything she can to be with him like superfans who follow their popstar obssession then end up marrying them.
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um, in that case, if the guy never really liked her all that much to begin with, it’s gonna be pretty hard to turn that around.
men either like you from the get-go or they don’t.
attraction is instinctive for most men, it’s not so much something we think long and hard about.
of course, it’s possible to fall deeper in love with someone later, like after knowing more about the person (their mind, their character, their values etc) but that initial attraction has to be there.
also, the psychology behind fans who put idols on pedestals and obsess over them is that , these fans subconsciously think these idols are somehow above them. in other words, you worship someone because you think you are below them somehow. you think they have something you don’t or can’t ever have. or something to that effect.
so, what happens in relationships where the woman puts the man on a pedestal is, she subconsciously sends a message to the man that she thinks he is above her somehow. which may lead to the man thinking he is “king shit” (so to speak lol) because the woman is placing herself below him through her words and actions.
that is how an unbalanced relationship is formed.
i think. :/
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This is very true, it reminded me on one couple I knew, Pisces and Cancer. She chased him, basically did everything to be with him, came from another country to stay with him, in a way even invited herself to his home. He did even marry her, but it was short lived. And he constantly cheated on her. Despite the fact she was very pretty and a really good person, he was just never that into her. She put him on pedestal and he took advantage of it.click to expand
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by serenidadThis is very true, it reminded me on one couple I knew, Pisces and Cancer. She chased him, basically did everything to be with him, came from another country to stay with him, in a way even invited herself to his home. He did even marry her, but it was short lived. And he constantly cheated on her. Despite the fact she was very pretty and a really good person, he was just never that into her. She put him on pedestal and he took advantage of it.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by serenidad
can i answer even tho i’m a guy? 😳
.….i could be wrong but i think the people who ended up treating you like trash would’ve treated you like trash anyway somewhere down the line. it probably has nothing to do with you chasing them.
treating someone like trash just because they chased you/showed enthusiasm towards you is weird, asshole behavior.
for example, would you treat a friend who showed enthusiasm towards you like trash? (friend of the same gender)
my best friend (virgo sun/aries moon) pretty much pestered me 24/7 upon meeting but i never treated him like trash. in fact, i was like “ i need to protect this dude at all cost cuz he’s out here wearing his heart on his sleeve , being way too gullible and innocent lol 😂”
and that was many years ago. we’re still best friends and inseparable. lol
if you wouldn’t treat a friend of the same gender with disrespect, you also wouldn’t treat someone of the opposite gender with disrespect (for showing any kind of interest in you).
but i will say that, in romantic relationships, you’ll tend to get better results when you aren’t desperate to “sell yourself”.
what i mean by that is , your presence alone should speak for itself.
the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you think, the way you move, these should all convey a message that you are valuable and not someone who should be treated like trash.
in other words, act respectable if you wanna be respected.
you know how all those luxury brands get sales even without advertising loudly and frequently? without going around saying “please buy me??”
that’s kinda how you wanna be.
sorry, i suck at explaining lol 😅
what i mean is more like when the guy might not have really liked the girl much or at all but she did everything she can to be with him like superfans who follow their popstar obssession then end up marrying them.
click to expand
ohh i see
um, in that case, if the guy never really liked her all that much to begin with, it’s gonna be pretty hard to turn that around.
men either like you from the get-go or they don’t.
attraction is instinctive for most men, it’s not so much something we think long and hard about.
of course, it’s possible to fall deeper in love with someone later, like after knowing more about the person (their mind, their character, their values etc) but that initial attraction has to be there.
also, the psychology behind fans who put idols on pedestals and obsess over them is that , these fans subconsciously think these idols are somehow above them. in other words, you worship someone because you think you are below them somehow. you think they have something you don’t or can’t ever have. or something to that effect.
so, what happens in relationships where the woman puts the man on a pedestal is, she subconsciously sends a message to the man that she thinks he is above her somehow. which may lead to the man thinking he is “king shit” (so to speak lol) because the woman is placing herself below him through her words and actions.
that is how an unbalanced relationship is formed.
i think. :/
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Very true. People also don't respect you when they don't reciprocate your interest in them. And it's just not worth it. I really felt so sorry for that girl and never understood why he didn't like her that much. Girls I saw him cheating with weren't even that pretty as she was and you would expect at least that when it comes to cheating lolclick to expand
princess diana was also very pretty
so was selena gomez
and abby choi
i feel like cancer ladies usually deserve better tbh
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by serenidadPosted by virgoOPPPohh i seePosted by serenidad
can i answer even tho i’m a guy? 😳
.….i could be wrong but i think the people who ended up treating you like trash would’ve treated you like trash anyway somewhere down the line. it probably has nothing to do with you chasing them.
treating someone like trash just because they chased you/showed enthusiasm towards you is weird, asshole behavior.
for example, would you treat a friend who showed enthusiasm towards you like trash? (friend of the same gender)
my best friend (virgo sun/aries moon) pretty much pestered me 24/7 upon meeting but i never treated him like trash. in fact, i was like “ i need to protect this dude at all cost cuz he’s out here wearing his heart on his sleeve , being way too gullible and innocent lol 😂”
and that was many years ago. we’re still best friends and inseparable. lol
if you wouldn’t treat a friend of the same gender with disrespect, you also wouldn’t treat someone of the opposite gender with disrespect (for showing any kind of interest in you).
but i will say that, in romantic relationships, you’ll tend to get better results when you aren’t desperate to “sell yourself”.
what i mean by that is , your presence alone should speak for itself.
the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you think, the way you move, these should all convey a message that you are valuable and not someone who should be treated like trash.
in other words, act respectable if you wanna be respected.
you know how all those luxury brands get sales even without advertising loudly and frequently? without going around saying “please buy me??”
that’s kinda how you wanna be.
sorry, i suck at explaining lol 😅
what i mean is more like when the guy might not have really liked the girl much or at all but she did everything she can to be with him like superfans who follow their popstar obssession then end up marrying them.
click to expand
um, in that case, if the guy never really liked her all that much to begin with, it’s gonna be pretty hard to turn that around.
men either like you from the get-go or they don’t.
attraction is instinctive for most men, it’s not so much something we think long and hard about.
of course, it’s possible to fall deeper in love with someone later, like after knowing more about the person (their mind, their character, their values etc) but that initial attraction has to be there.
also, the psychology behind fans who put idols on pedestals and obsess over them is that , these fans subconsciously think these idols are somehow above them. in other words, you worship someone because you think you are below them somehow. you think they have something you don’t or can’t ever have. or something to that effect.
so, what happens in relationships where the woman puts the man on a pedestal is, she subconsciously sends a message to the man that she thinks he is above her somehow. which may lead to the man thinking he is “king shit” (so to speak lol) because the woman is placing herself below him through her words and actions.
that is how an unbalanced relationship is formed.
i think. :/
click to expand
This is very true, it reminded me on one couple I knew, Pisces and Cancer. She chased him, basically did everything to be with him, came from another country to stay with him, in a way even invited herself to his home. He did even marry her, but it was short lived. And he constantly cheated on her. Despite the fact she was very pretty and a really good person, he was just never that into her. She put him on pedestal and he took advantage of it.click to expand
she was in love but she left herself behind.
For me, I’m most content when things are mutual and 50/50. 🙌❤️
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just smthng i've read from LA about the whole eyebrow gate
apparently, lots of aries moon involved in this