would you?

throw up (bulimia) to keep and get a man??

this had me thinking.

cause alot of women are very concerened with body image and looks to get a man.

is it worth it to you?

what do you think?

i know that it's bad to throw up and be bulimic, or aneroxic but this is a very serious thing.

it concerns about how women (i dont know what men have to go through to keep body image)

are so insecure so they try every hidden method out there.

these are DEEP FEARS of not being loved. i think that the media is expressing to us as people that it's not good to be very big.

and we all want to be loved.

Posted by The_Ands
Nothing tastes as good as bulimia feels

O_O

long term effects is bad.

does working out seem to be a struggle?

and bulimia seems to be a poor womans or poor man's way of losing weight.

No.

During the time of my life when I would have been

susceptible to things like that (teens and early 20's),

I would have opted for drugs.

I hate throwing up and/or not eating.

Posted by Montgomery
No.

During the time of my life when I would have been

susceptible to things like that (teens and early 20's),

I would have opted for drugs.

I hate throwing up and/or not eating.

but some people love to eat who are bulimic.

you can have the pleasure of eating anything and then go find a bathroom stall, throw up into the toilet.

and eat again.

Posted by lisabethur8
does working out seem to be a struggle?

and bulimia seems to be a poor womans or poor man's way of losing weight.

Really?

Hmm... I've known privileged women who did this.

One woman in particular was not only bulimic, she was also

obsessive/compulsive about exercise, going well beyond

anything that was normal or healthy.

She had sugar addiction the same way people might have

alcohol and drug addiction (which was also an issue for her).

She struggled, terribly-- but last I spoke with her, she was

doing pretty well.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Montgomery
No.

During the time of my life when I would have been

susceptible to things like that (teens and early 20's),

I would have opted for drugs.

I hate throwing up and/or not eating.

but some people love to eat who are bulimic.

you can have the pleasure of eating anything and then go find a bathroom stall, throw up into the toilet.

and eat again.

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Bleh

Not for me.

I hear you, but yeah... no.

Posted by juliettee

Posted by Montgomery
No.

During the time of my life when I would have been

susceptible to things like that (teens and early 20's),

I would have opted for drugs.

I hate throwing up and/or not eating.

mdma take 4lbs for a night lol

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Ohhh... lol

Water maybe?

Leaves you super dehydrated?

I'm only bothered about wearing nice dresses. I just wanna wear whatever I like n feel good in them?

Getting a man is secondary

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by The_Ands
Nothing tastes as good as bulimia feels

O_O

long term effects is bad.

Play on a Kate moss quote

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oohhh yeah. i can see why people think she's bulimic or aneroxia

but honestly it's drugs with her.

you can lose weight by drugs.

Posted by The_Ands

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by The_Ands

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by The_Ands
Nothing tastes as good as bulimia feels

O_O

long term effects is bad.

Play on a Kate moss quote

oohhh yeah. i can see why people think she's bulimic or aneroxia

but honestly it's drugs with her.

you can lose weight by drugs.

She is just a naturally bony Capricorn

I mean even her teeth are bony

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no way.

she has to KEEP taking those drugs to STAY boney.

lots of cocaine snorting.

Women aren't bulimic because they are trying to keep a man. They are throwing up because they have an unhealthy relationship with their own self image and perception. As well as an unhealthy relationship with food.

Keeping a man isn't the driving force.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Women aren't bulimic because they are trying to keep a man. They are throwing up because they have an unhealthy relationship with their own self image and perception. As well as an unhealthy relationship with food.

Keeping a man isn't the driving force.

it's ONE of ..the motivating factors.

because you want to be loved.

and find love.

this is a very unhealthy way of finding love.

you can package it up anyway you want, but let's be very very truthful here.

Posted by Harukka
I'm that kind of people who is always skinny, maybe because I don't eat meat since I was kiddo

But was with a man who ask me to be faty -_- I refused lol

So 😄

but i know lots of vegetarians, well a handful, that are overweight, and are super vegetarians.

lol@man who asked you to be a fatty.

Posted by Montgomery
No.

During the time of my life when I would have been

susceptible to things like that (teens and early 20's),

I would have opted for drugs.

I hate throwing up and/or not eating.

Amen! Sister! —

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by Montgomery
No.

During the time of my life when I would have been

susceptible to things like that (teens and early 20's),

I would have opted for drugs.

I hate throwing up and/or not eating.

Amen! Sister! —

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Mont's post made me remmeber my teens, and early 20s.

i love food too much, so i ate what i wanted.

metabolism i guess. but i would have opted for drugs too.

i am not into the throwing up.

i threw up a couple times when i was sick and once when drunk, like a few glasses of wine lol

and i dont like the bile.

it's so gross.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by LadyNeptune
Women aren't bulimic because they are trying to keep a man. They are throwing up because they have an unhealthy relationship with their own self image and perception. As well as an unhealthy relationship with food.

Keeping a man isn't the driving force.

it's ONE of ..the motivating factors.

because you want to be loved.

and find love.

this is a very unhealthy way of finding love.

you can package it up anyway you want, but let's be very very truthful here.

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plus

you look into the MIRROR.

what do you see?

if you aren't LOVED or loving yourself, and you think in your mind that people will love you because you are thinner?

that's what it is...

the way people SEE YOU.

and therefore, they (bulimic) will see this as a motivating factor to get love.

"He'll love me because i'm skinny, and DESIRE me because i'm skinny"

do you honestly believe that people will be overweight and look into the mirror and say,

"Yes he will LOVE me."

so, yes let's be HONEST here.

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol I know someone who's actually I'd consider perfect but still unhappy about her body and ended up doing a butt job.

really?? so her butt is nice then..

why?

to get more attention?

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol I know someone who's actually I'd consider perfect but still unhappy about her body and ended up doing a butt job.

really?? so her butt is nice then..

why?

to get more attention?

I have no idea I asked her about it and she said she just want it to be a bit more rounder ?‍♂️. Her face looked like Jessica alba btw but she's shorter 5'3 proportional body.

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she sounds super cute.

:/

well i guess, if it makes them happy.

but she's not throwing up is she? (bulimia)

Christ, no

I wouldn't throw up for anyone lol

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol I know someone who's actually I'd consider perfect but still unhappy about her body and ended up doing a butt job.

really?? so her butt is nice then..

why?

to get more attention?

lol attention or not most are just never satisfied.

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i told my man straight up...

if i get fat as a house, i mean fat as fuck,

then you better love me cause you'd be the shallowest man alive.

lol

i love a man who doesnt want only skinny. cause i'm gonna get FAT just to spite him.

"yeah? you only want skinny!!? fuck you you shallow fuck!!!"

grrr.

this stuff just irks me. lol i hate shallow men.

edit - oh he ain't shallow. lol just venting.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Christ, no

I wouldn't throw up for anyone lol

no fucking way.

shallow men need to be KICKED in the butt.

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol I know someone who's actually I'd consider perfect but still unhappy about her body and ended up doing a butt job.

really?? so her butt is nice then..

why?

to get more attention?

I have no idea I asked her about it and she said she just want it to be a bit more rounder ?‍♂️. Her face looked like Jessica alba btw but she's shorter 5'3 proportional body.

she sounds super cute.

:/

well i guess, if it makes them happy.

but she's not throwing up is she? (bulimia)

She used to do it back then I don't know now cause the ex bf at the time always call her fat just to make her feel like shit but I don't know if she still does it.

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omg what a dick.

she should SPITE HIM.

and get FAT. hahahaha *evil laughter*

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol I know someone who's actually I'd consider perfect but still unhappy about her body and ended up doing a butt job.

really?? so her butt is nice then..

why?

to get more attention?

lol attention or not most are just never satisfied.

i told my man straight up...

if i get fat as a house, i mean fat as fuck,

then you better love me cause you'd be the shallowest man alive.

lol

i love a man who doesnt want only skinny. cause i'm gonna get FAT just to spite him.

"yeah? you only want skinny!!? fuck you you shallow fuck!!!"

grrr.

this stuff just irks me. lol i hate shallow men.

edit - oh he ain't shallow. lol just venting.

Lol me honestly I don't like skinny females I love a lil bit of meat in em and some curves.

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she needs a man who likes curves. lol 😛

those men who poke on you being skinny need an ass whoopping.

like get big as a house and sit on them!!!

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol I know someone who's actually I'd consider perfect but still unhappy about her body and ended up doing a butt job.

really?? so her butt is nice then..

why?

to get more attention?

lol attention or not most are just never satisfied.

i told my man straight up...

if i get fat as a house, i mean fat as fuck,

then you better love me cause you'd be the shallowest man alive.

lol

i love a man who doesnt want only skinny. cause i'm gonna get FAT just to spite him.

"yeah? you only want skinny!!? fuck you you shallow fuck!!!"

grrr.

this stuff just irks me. lol i hate shallow men.

edit - oh he ain't shallow. lol just venting.

Lol me honestly I don't like skinny females I love a lil bit of meat in em and some curves.

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she needs a man who likes curves. lol 😛

those men who poke on you being skinny need an ass whoopping.

like get big as a house and sit on them!!!

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

omg

what a dick.

Absolutely not. Keto diet works much better

Posted by lisabethur8
does working out seem to be a struggle?

and bulimia seems to be a poor womans or poor man's way of losing weight.

It's less work

People are lazy

Good god no. He can love me as I am or not at all.

But i don't think people who have this illness choose it or are doing it for another person.

Posted by LittleFairy
Good god no. He can love me as I am or not at all.

But i don't think people who have this illness choose it or are doing it for another person.

it usually starts when you are aware of your sexuality.

you dont hear many children have bulimia.

not that i know of or studied.

it starts at a teenaged age when young people are aware they are judged for looks and need love affirmation.

also their parents and upbringing never gave them any attention. or love. most likely of course.

Posted by starwars
I remember throwing up and crying then I looked at the mirror and realized im an ugly crier on top of that

my whole world crashed down

lovely memories

you're bad. lol

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

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It was so obvious, my friend is a sag as well lol

are you creating questions for tabloid newspaper covers as occupation? 😛

keep a man thanks to a bulimia?

this makes me want to puke rn

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

It was so obvious, my friend is a sag as well lol

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what?

omg.

you're NOT gonna get pissed off at her and say passive aggressive mean things to her because the man is a Sagittarius like yourself and being nasty and talking to "other" women?? while being married with children?? 😕

you are always pissed off, with your underlying tone of cheating women and women who cheat on other's men.

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

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i am very disappointed in you.

Nope and I can't anyway.. my will power is non-existent when it comes to food...and I don't like cleaning up vomit nor like the after taste in my mouth and certainly don't want to stick my head over the toilet bowl.. just imagining the splash back is enough to make me go green.

Lol

Posted by Pisces1803
Nope and I can't anyway.. my will power is non-existent when it comes to food...and I don't like cleaning up vomit nor like the after taste in my mouth and certainly don't want to stick my head over the toilet bowl.. just imagining the splash back is enough to make me go green.

Lol

same. no will power with food.

that's why i'm fat. (only speaking of myself)

I'm sure you're not fat.. you're just big bone 😄

That's what I tell my mum I am anyway.. hahahaha

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

i am very disappointed in you.

That's only what I let you know. 😉

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what's that supposed to mean?

😕

some play on words.

this is the INTERNET.

are you trying to say that you'd do that to married men in real life?

and you have no conscience??

because honey i would NEVER.

i respect other women's men. and that's the truth

The last guy who was married who kept talking to me about his wife who he hated, i told him you need to get your head straight. (i was reprimanding him)

he HATED that. and he AVOIDED me like the plague because i dont roll like that.

so he found another "victim" to help him with his woes and suffering. whatever man...get your marriage straight.

that was many years ago, when i was with my ex. and going to college.

EDIT -- yes he was a water sun but i wont say what type of water.

Posted by Pisces1803
I'm sure you're not fat.. you're just big bone 😄

lol

naw...FAT.

😆

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

It was so obvious, my friend is a sag as well lol

what?

omg.

you're NOT gonna get pissed off at her and say passive aggressive mean things to her because the man is a Sagittarius like yourself and being nasty and talking to "other" women?? while being married with children?? 😕

you are always pissed off, with your underlying tone of cheating women and women who cheat on other's men.

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LOL What?

Who is her?

Who cheats on who?

Posted by TheSag

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

It was so obvious, my friend is a sag as well lol

what?

omg.

you're NOT gonna get pissed off at her and say passive aggressive mean things to her because the man is a Sagittarius like yourself and being nasty and talking to "other" women?? while being married with children?? 😕

you are always pissed off, with your underlying tone of cheating women and women who cheat on other's men.

LOL What?

Who is her?

Who cheats on who?

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stop playing around. you always do that. play around with me but with other people you dont care.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

i am very disappointed in you.

That's only what I let you know. 😉

what's that supposed to mean?

😕

some play on words.

this is the INTERNET.

are you trying to say that you'd do that to married men in real life?

and you have no conscience??

because honey i would NEVER.

i respect other women's men. and that's the truth

The last guy who was married who kept talking to me about his wife who he hated, i told him you need to get your head straight. (i was reprimanding him)

he HATED that. and he AVOIDED me like the plague because i dont roll like that.

so he found another "victim" to help him with his woes and suffering. whatever man...get your marriage straight.

that was many years ago, when i was with my ex. and going to college.

EDIT -- yes he was a water sun but i wont say what type of water.

That means I did something more than just laughing together with the guy I was referring to. And, he isn't another woman's bf nor husband.

😐

Good, keep up with that attitude toward married men. It's a good standpoint to have.

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oh i thought you were LOLing with a married man with children and he's showing you dirty pictures.

@lisabethur8

I think there is a missunderstanding. My sag friend doesn't cheat on his wife and he doesn't talk to other women, he just sends me dirty pics and videos, that he gets from other guys as well. What I was trying to say is that many men's phones are full with dirt, no matter whether they cheat or not.

Posted by TheSag
@lisabethur8

I think there is a missunderstanding. My sag friend doesn't cheat on his wife and he doesn't talk to other women, he just sends me dirty pics and videos, that he gets from other guys as well. What I was trying to say is that many men's phones are full with dirt, no matter whether they cheat or not.

ohhh

is Aneema a man then?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by TheSag

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by TheSag

Posted by AneemA08
I know a guy tho..

Who claims the size of boobies don't matter. Yet his phone is full with big chested women pics.

I start suspecting him at that very moment. Lol

I guess if you took an average man's phone and watched his pics, you would see a lot more than just some big boobs. Lot of guys send each other nasty things just to have a laugh. One of my friends, who happens to be married with a child, sends me really dirty stuff. lol

It's okay. He just showed me his phone content and stumbled upon that file. I was the one who said, "wait wait, can I see that?"

He's a sagittarius. We have a lot of laughs together. 🙂

It was so obvious, my friend is a sag as well lol

what?

omg.

you're NOT gonna get pissed off at her and say passive aggressive mean things to her because the man is a Sagittarius like yourself and being nasty and talking to "other" women?? while being married with children?? 😕

you are always pissed off, with your underlying tone of cheating women and women who cheat on other's men.

LOL What?

Who is her?

Who cheats on who?

stop playing around. you always do that. play around with me but with other people you dont care.

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What? When have I ever played around with you? We barely talk with each other.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by TheSag
@lisabethur8

I think there is a missunderstanding. My sag friend doesn't cheat on his wife and he doesn't talk to other women, he just sends me dirty pics and videos, that he gets from other guys as well. What I was trying to say is that many men's phones are full with dirt, no matter whether they cheat or not.

ohhh

is Aneema a man then?

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I wasn't talking about her..

Posted by TheSag

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by TheSag
@lisabethur8

I think there is a missunderstanding. My sag friend doesn't cheat on his wife and he doesn't talk to other women, he just sends me dirty pics and videos, that he gets from other guys as well. What I was trying to say is that many men's phones are full with dirt, no matter whether they cheat or not.

ohhh

is Aneema a man then?

I wasn't talking about her..

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i dont like playing around.

be clear and concise.

if not, dont bother.