Alright DXP....

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Sag898 on Friday, October 12, 2018 and has 42 replies.

Is Flirting Considered Cheating

Flirting can be seen as crossing boundaries depending on personal values and relationship agreements. Some view it as harmless, while others see it as emotional infidelity. Clear communication with your partner about boundaries is essential to avoid misunderstandings and maintain trust.

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@BlueVelvet
7 Years

It depends if they can hold their dick or pussy in. And only that person can tell.

That being said, I am highly in favor of ankle monitors.

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@FireStarter
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Yeah if it's intentional, I'd consider it cheating at least emotionally. If not then no, some people *cough* me*cough* have flirty personalities but it doesn't mean anything.

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@BlueVelvet
7 Years

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My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.

So true. Venus in Scorps need a reality check when it comes to flirting.

No they don't, their reality is different to other Venus signs.

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Yeah but it gets messy/embarrassing for them or the people who flirt with them. If you flirt with one, be prepared to have them all over u.

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@BlueVelvet
7 Years

Posted by Arachnophobia

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My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.

So true. Venus in Scorps need a reality check when it comes to flirting.

No they don't, their reality is different to other Venus signs.

Yeah but it gets messy/embarrassing for them or the people who flirt with them. If you flirt with one, be prepared to have them all over u.

Sounds good, where can I sign up.

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Right here, on the application for a marriage license 🤣

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@Cappadonna
8 Years

Posted by BlueVelvet

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My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.

So true. Venus in Scorps need a reality check when it comes to flirting.

No they don't, their reality is different to other Venus signs.

Yeah but it gets messy/embarrassing for them or the people who flirt with them. If you flirt with one, be prepared to have them all over u.

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Venus in scorps are flirts themselves although we’re snobs about with whom.. so don’t flatter ya self thinking we like your attention

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Posted by tiziani

I like the idea of an ankle bracelet. I offered to wear one for a straight month because I thought it'd be a fun challenge for me. Just haven't found a good one yet. They're all pretty heavy duty.

Just think of the muscle gains, almost like a workout wrap 😂

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If flirting is cheating, there should be a fuckload of DXP members who should be sweating bullets right about now....

Called em out

Are you asking me to call them out? Nah, no need. Their lives. Not mine.

5th house moon is not nearly utilized enough from you

There's a gaggle of true blue Leo moons who are more than happy to make up for what my 5th house moons lacks.

Stop denying your true self. You'll neer be happy until you do.

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@MademoiselleFisk

It's not so bad...we have shiny things and once a month we all get together and stare into mirrors and practice how to be an attention whore. We bring snacks....

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@neves
10 Years1,000+ Posts

The thing is - flirting happens only between people that find each-other attractive. That being said... Depends. If things go further - and you reach a point where you long for each-other's company - while your partner is less meaningful. Then, yes. Even if you didn't have sex. Yet.

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@Havoc077
9 Years

Big no for me lest there was trust.

I don't trust most people and expect everyone to be an unfaithful, disingenuous fuckface.

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@VenusAquarius
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Posted by Sag898

Is flirting cheating? Do we draw the line at ankle monitors?

My Virgo lets me dance with other men cause he can't dance. And, he knows how much dancing makes me happy.

But, I have to be careful... I let 'em know he's sitting at that table over there... LOL

That's why I love Mars in Taurus (and not it's opposite Mars in Scorpio).

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Victorious

No.

It's flirting.

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Suggestive comments accompanying intense eye fucking on the otherhand I'd say are well on the way to a yes.

...lol now i can see your Sagittarius placements.

my husband doesn't think it's cheating if he just LOLs with women and make them laugh. And i know for sure each time he makes them laugh and easy.... they fall in love. (he keeps it bare minimum though. Because he sees how they get around him. And i warn him. you better watch out, you are irresistible!!!)

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No.

It's flirting.

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cause u know.. it's one of the ways women wil FALLl for a man.

lol

Being just charming...automatically puts men and women as "cheating' anyway lol

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@Ram416
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Flirting can be interpreted differently from person to person. Playful banter, verbal teasing, even simple compliments can be misconstrued as flirting. Unless the people involved are graphically describing other how you'd bang each other's brains out... then most of the time, I wouldn't exactly call it "cheating."

Wow, I didn't expect this answer from a Scorpio Moon...

Why?

Because the Scorpio Moons I know IRL are super paranoid and over analyze every little move and would basically count anything that has a tinge of a flirty vibe a signal of cheating.

When I get into a relationship with someone and give them my trust, I have no desire to police or control my partner's interactions. Maybe because I don't want them controlling mine as well. Maybe I'm naive... or just plain lazy.

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Nah not naive. I'm the same way. I don't even remember the last time I was trying to control a partner's every move. The only problem I've ever had was letting go once I sense everything has come to an end. (I learnt to get over that).

Scorpio moons who are constantly looking over their shoulders paranoid fucks need to get over themselves. Too much energy wasted on often unnecessary stuff.