@Sag898
8 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius
Alright DXP....
Is Flirting Considered Cheating
Flirting can be seen as crossing boundaries depending on personal values and relationship agreements. Some view it as harmless, while others see it as emotional infidelity. Clear communication with your partner about boundaries is essential to avoid misunderstandings and maintain trust.
If they are flattering each others ankles I might be taken aback
Lol no one is gonna answer the question
Flirting with intent is cheating in my opinion, but just flirting. naw. You can look at the menu but you better not eat.
I dont think flirting is cheating
Unless it involves a bunch of touching/rubbing maybe
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I dont think flirting is cheating
Unless it involves a bunch of touching/rubbing maybe
What about emotional?
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I dont think flirting is cheating
Unless it involves a bunch of touching/rubbing maybe
What about emotional?
Posted by Sag898
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I dont think flirting is cheating
Unless it involves a bunch of touching/rubbing maybe
What about emotional?
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idk Im full of air
I dont really understand emotional cheating tbh lol
Where's there smoke there's fire. 🔥
It depends if they can hold their dick or pussy in. And only that person can tell.
That being said, I am highly in favor of ankle monitors.
Posted by LibraSupreme
Where's there smoke there's fire. 🔥
What if its from dry ice
Yeah if it's intentional, I'd consider it cheating at least emotionally. If not then no, some people *cough* me*cough* have flirty personalities but it doesn't mean anything.
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Posted by LibraSupreme
Where's there smoke there's fire. 🔥
What if its from dry ice
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When rubbed the friction can create a burn.
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Posted by LibraSupreme
Where's there smoke there's fire. 🔥
What if its from dry ice
When rubbed the friction can create a burn.
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touche
Posted by BlueVelvet
It depends if they can hold their dick or pussy in. And only that person can tell.
That being said, I am highly in favor of ankle monitors.
I knew someone on here was!
Posted by Arachnophobia
My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.
So true. Venus in Scorps need a reality check when it comes to flirting.
Posted by Arachnophobia
My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.
Those sag placements
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Posted by BlueVelvet
Posted by Arachnophobia
My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.
So true. Venus in Scorps need a reality check when it comes to flirting.
No they don't, their reality is different to other Venus signs.
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Yeah but it gets messy/embarrassing for them or the people who flirt with them. If you flirt with one, be prepared to have them all over u.
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
If flirting is cheating, there should be a fuckload of DXP members who should be sweating bullets right about now....
Called em out
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Posted by BlueVelvet
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Posted by Arachnophobia
My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.
So true. Venus in Scorps need a reality check when it comes to flirting.
No they don't, their reality is different to other Venus signs.
Yeah but it gets messy/embarrassing for them or the people who flirt with them. If you flirt with one, be prepared to have them all over u.
Sounds good, where can I sign up.
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Right here, on the application for a marriage license 🤣
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Posted by Sag898
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
If flirting is cheating, there should be a fuckload of DXP members who should be sweating bullets right about now....
Called em out
Are you asking me to call them out? Nah, no need. Their lives. Not mine.
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No I was laughing at your comment because it’s true and being sarcastic haha
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Posted by Arachnophobia
My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.
So true. Venus in Scorps need a reality check when it comes to flirting.
No they don't, their reality is different to other Venus signs.
Yeah but it gets messy/embarrassing for them or the people who flirt with them. If you flirt with one, be prepared to have them all over u.
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Venus in scorps are flirts themselves although we’re snobs about with whom.. so don’t flatter ya self thinking we like your attention
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Posted by justagirl
Flirting with intent is cheating in my opinion, but just flirting. naw. You can look at the menu but you better not eat.
You can look at the menu when I am not in the room... #howboutdat?
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Lol well for me I only have eyes for my partner #howboutdat!
Posted by tiziani
I like the idea of an ankle bracelet. I offered to wear one for a straight month because I thought it'd be a fun challenge for me. Just haven't found a good one yet. They're all pretty heavy duty.
Just think of the muscle gains, almost like a workout wrap 😂
Posted by tiziani
I like the idea of an ankle bracelet. I offered to wear one for a straight month because I thought it'd be a fun challenge for me. Just haven't found a good one yet. They're all pretty heavy duty.
I believe you will!
Flirting with another while in a committed relationship period is cheating. If it bothers your partner and they speak up on it stop or leave, end of story.
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Flirting with intent is cheating in my opinion, but just flirting. naw. You can look at the menu but you better not eat.
You can look at the menu when I am not in the room... #howboutdat?
Lol well for me I only have eyes for my partner #howboutdat!
Did you just exclamation point me tho?
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Yup!! ❗️‼️
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Posted by Sag898
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
If flirting is cheating, there should be a fuckload of DXP members who should be sweating bullets right about now....
Called em out
Are you asking me to call them out? Nah, no need. Their lives. Not mine.
5th house moon is not nearly utilized enough from you
There's a gaggle of true blue Leo moons who are more than happy to make up for what my 5th house moons lacks.
Stop denying your true self. You'll neer be happy until you do.
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@MademoiselleFisk
It's not so bad...we have shiny things and once a month we all get together and stare into mirrors and practice how to be an attention whore. We bring snacks....
Ankle bracelets =/= ankle monitors
I'm 50-50 on this lol
The thing is - flirting happens only between people that find each-other attractive. That being said... Depends. If things go further - and you reach a point where you long for each-other's company - while your partner is less meaningful. Then, yes. Even if you didn't have sex. Yet.
if you are flirting with me, you want to marry me
I don't really flirt, I touch and grab first
Posted by Sag898
Is flirting cheating? Do we draw the line at ankle monitors?
I prefer they be chipped
Posted by Arachnophobia
My Venus is in Sag so flirting is just sport t me. A Venus in Scorp might interpret that differently.
Yeah, about that Venus in Sag though, is it flirting with intention?
Posted by justagirl
Flirting with intent is cheating in my opinion, but just flirting. naw. You can look at the menu but you better not eat.
As long as the intent is to get her to comp our drinks, have at it I say lol
Posted by NemDeux
on another note though; who talks to their partners openly about flirting?
double-standards on both fronts.
i don´t tell my BF if somebody hits on me. what for?
I do. Especially if it was cringy or awkward so we can laugh at it together.
Big no for me lest there was trust.
I don't trust most people and expect everyone to be an unfaithful, disingenuous fuckface.
Nope! But I flirt a lot 😄
Depending the intention.
If is just friendly, innocent and fun I wouldn’t consider it cheating.
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Posted by Sag898
Is flirting cheating? Do we draw the line at ankle monitors?
My Virgo lets me dance with other men cause he can't dance. And, he knows how much dancing makes me happy.
But, I have to be careful... I let 'em know he's sitting at that table over there... LOL
That's why I love Mars in Taurus (and not it's opposite Mars in Scorpio).
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Libra's and flirting Is like second nature. Most of my women are secure. But I did have a Pieces flip on a waitress.
Posted by Victorious
No.
It's flirting.
Posted by Victorious
Suggestive comments accompanying intense eye fucking on the otherhand I'd say are well on the way to a yes.
...lol now i can see your Sagittarius placements.
my husband doesn't think it's cheating if he just LOLs with women and make them laugh. And i know for sure each time he makes them laugh and easy.... they fall in love. (he keeps it bare minimum though. Because he sees how they get around him. And i warn him. you better watch out, you are irresistible!!!)
Posted by Victorious
No.
It's flirting.
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cause u know.. it's one of the ways women wil FALLl for a man.
lol
Being just charming...automatically puts men and women as "cheating' anyway lol
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Posted by MademoiselleFisk
Flirting can be interpreted differently from person to person. Playful banter, verbal teasing, even simple compliments can be misconstrued as flirting. Unless the people involved are graphically describing other how you'd bang each other's brains out... then most of the time, I wouldn't exactly call it "cheating."
Wow, I didn't expect this answer from a Scorpio Moon...
Why?
Because the Scorpio Moons I know IRL are super paranoid and over analyze every little move and would basically count anything that has a tinge of a flirty vibe a signal of cheating.
When I get into a relationship with someone and give them my trust, I have no desire to police or control my partner's interactions. Maybe because I don't want them controlling mine as well. Maybe I'm naive... or just plain lazy.
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Nah not naive. I'm the same way. I don't even remember the last time I was trying to control a partner's every move. The only problem I've ever had was letting go once I sense everything has come to an end. (I learnt to get over that).
Scorpio moons who are constantly looking over their shoulders paranoid fucks need to get over themselves. Too much energy wasted on often unnecessary stuff.
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Is flirting cheating? Do we draw the line at ankle monitors?