Boyfriends mom still friendly with his EX's... (Page 2)

Posted by Silverado

Posted by Boots1313

After 8 hours of work.

Reading all the posts.

Having people rip me a new one.

And talking to my bf (general tall not about the situation at all)

Ive come to the conclusion this is no big deal.

And no need to being anything up.

On the contrary, you opened up a line of thought that needs to be discussed. It may not happen today, tomorrow, or even next year but it will happen. You asked for opinions on what should be done now you know how you should probably proceed when the time comes. You had to have this discussion with us instead of causing trouble within your own relationship. Nothing beats multiple viewpoints.

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You must’ve missed some posts in the thread. Notable where the op talks about how she brought up the moms excluding language when talking about the future house purchase to her bf. he spoke to the mom and now she is using more inclusive language and being kinder to the op.

In light of that recent event I’d say bringing up these sm convos is overkill and may paint the op in an insecure light to the bf. Especially since said convos don’t involve op or show any disrespect to her whatsoever. And the mother is saying similar compliments to the ops sm posts.

Posted by ItsSupes2

Posted by Boots1313

I dont know if this is something i should bring up to my bf or not. I want to give the benefit of the doubt that its all innocent, but i noticed his mom (whom is very friendly eh, fake friendly) comments on his ex's facebook and instagrams. Things as small as "you look beautiful ", but then things that kind of bother me like "I MISS YOU". Maybe im thinking too much into it, but that seems almost undermining. Unfair to me, unfair to the exes and unfair to my bf.

Again, i feel as though she doesnt accept me in her sons life yet.

maybe she is just being friendly and she isnt good with Boundries ?

Should i mention it to my bf and i feel its disrespectful all around? or just let her do what she does and it has no baring on his and I's relationship?

How do you know his mom is commenting on his exes stuff?

Are you looking at his exes pages like a crazy stalker?

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Lol

Posted by Sag898

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I'm sure people around will accuse Virgo moons of being paranoid, but sometimes where there's smoke there's fire. A healthy dose of paranoia is good, especially when it comes to people with a history of shady behavior. It's our self-preservation instinct kicking in.

Am I wrong, or are you starting to think that the old bag is possibly egging on the ex to get back together with your man?

I should know, because it happened to me. Only it wasn't the mother, it was the big sister. Egging on the thirsty Libra hoe who forced herself on him. I punished her by making her watch a compilation of some of the weirdest scenes from Shameless which she absolutely hates lol. Something like this:



She apologized for it, but when you cross a certain line with Virgo moons, we never fully trust again. And they find themselves constantly in our sights, that unwavering laser focus we're infamous for.

Thats terrible. I hope something shitty happened to the sister

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Oh sure did.....she had to watch Shameless.



Allow me to introduce you to my spirit animal lol



@shakedown I'm looking at you too

I had a boyfriend's mom that called me bitch so much, you'd think it was my name. She'd be like, "what that bitch want for breakfast."

I gave 0 fucks.

I gave all my fucks to her son, lol.

Idk man, looking back, I was an iron princess. So fucking detached... a true symbol of my generation and class, Lol.

Posted by VenusAquarius

I had a boyfriend's mom that called me bitch so much, you'd think it was my name. She'd be like, "what that bitch want for breakfast."

I gave 0 fucks.

I gave all my fucks to her son, lol.

Idk man, looking back, I was an iron princess. So fucking detached... a true symbol of my generation and class, Lol.

Wow how did you take that?

Im called opinionated all the time by her. Over the littlest things. Lol.

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by VenusAquarius

I had a boyfriend's mom that called me bitch so much, you'd think it was my name. She'd be like, "what that bitch want for breakfast."

I gave 0 fucks.

I gave all my fucks to her son, lol.

Idk man, looking back, I was an iron princess. So fucking detached... a true symbol of my generation and class, Lol.

Wow how did you take that?

Im called opinionated all the time by her. Over the littlest things. Lol.

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I didn't care.

If you get married cut her off and deliver the sting on the wedding day so she never knew about it and sends a clear message of how insignificant she is to you. Let her have the ex... Cut her off!