goldrockett
@goldrockett
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Dating a man with kids ?
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See, lemme tell yah whatcha problem is. The problem is you're putting the poosy on a pedestal. Don't put the poosy on the pedestal. It's the human being behind the poosy that matters.
You understand me?
You understand me?
Ok he needs to seriously do something about it before the kids end up learning it’s ok for uncles/aunts to do that stuff with their neices/nephews or something.... the world is a dark place
Esp since I found out today Woody Allen groomed his step daughter to be his wife as well as Elon Musk's biological father who had a baby with his step daughter that he knew from age 4!
Esp since I found out today Woody Allen groomed his step daughter to be his wife as well as Elon Musk's biological father who had a baby with his step daughter that he knew from age 4!
What a weird cover story to give his kids when you are around and you are both affectionate with one another in front of them.
Posted by Anomalous
See, lemme tell yah whatcha problem is. The problem is you're putting the poosy on a pedestal. Don't put the poosy on the pedestal. It's the human being behind the poosy that matters.
You understand me?
Yeah I get it lol , maybe I am without even realizing
Posted by Phangus
How old are the kids? They really think you're a cousin, an actual relative, and that their dad is inappropriately touching a family member? I mean, yeah, that's fucked up. Kids do what they see their parents do.
His daughter is 7 and his son is 6. But you putting it like that then yes I think I really do need to say something bc no I don't want them to think it's ok
Posted by SassyKiwi
Ok he needs to seriously do something about it before the kids end up learning it’s ok for uncles/aunts to do that stuff with their neices/nephews or something.... the world is a dark place
Esp since I found out today Woody Allen groomed his step daughter to be his wife as well as Elon Musk's biological father who had a baby with his step daughter that he knew from age 4!
Yeah the world is a sick dark place. I'm going to talk to him about it. I'm the first girlfriend or real relationship he's been in since he's had his kids so I feel like he doesn't really know how he should go about introducing a new woman to his kids as someone special
Posted by LadyNeptune
What a weird cover story to give his kids when you are around and you are both affectionate with one another in front of them.
Well they came up with the conclusion of thinking I'm their cousin themselves. He didn't tell them that. They randomly said it one day and he just laughed at them
Posted by goldrockettPosted by LadyNeptune
What a weird cover story to give his kids when you are around and you are both affectionate with one another in front of them.
Well they came up with the conclusion of thinking I'm their cousin themselves. He didn't tell them that. They randomly said it one day and he just laughed at themclick to expand
Why would they assume your a cousin tho 🤔
Does he have other ‘cousins’ come by for sleepovers. This is suspect.
i wouldnt do it but im 20 and dont like kids
This is how lies can bite you in the ass. I'm not sure why you two weren't honest as soon as the relationship became serious.
Posted by PhangusPosted by LadyNeptune
What a weird cover story to give his kids when you are around and you are both affectionate with one another in front of them.
I wonder if there are other cousins, like some kids have many "uncles".click to expand
My thoughts exactly.
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by goldrockettPosted by LadyNeptune
What a weird cover story to give his kids when you are around and you are both affectionate with one another in front of them.
Well they came up with the conclusion of thinking I'm their cousin themselves. He didn't tell them that. They randomly said it one day and he just laughed at them
Why would they assume your a cousin tho 🤔
Does he have other ‘cousins’ come by for sleepovers. This is suspect.click to expand
No they don't. But bc I guess I spend so much time with them that they feel like I'm more like family than just a friend ? I have no idea 🤦🏾♀️
Posted by the_verdictofkiki
All these questions and confusion because you guys had zero boundaries.... now you guys have to deal with the mess in your hands...
There's away to avoid this hot mess but it's too late for both of you.
What the hell can't parents and grown ass adults understand about boundaries when it comes to children? Blows my mind.
I'm totally confused with everything you just said. What boundaries are we as a couple supposed to have ? We're in a relationship , we're not supposed to express anything for each other just bc of the children ?
Posted by sweetpea2977
This is how lies can bite you in the ass. I'm not sure why you two weren't honest as soon as the relationship became serious.
What lies ? Honest about what ? To the children with who I am to them ?
Posted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
Posted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.click to expand
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
yeah, I'd definitely clear that up....obviously she's seeing it as inappropriate, or its making her uncomfortable in some way....
maybe I'm a little prudish in these matters; I don't really get all sensual with my SO in front of my daughter ever, beyond maybe an arm being around my SO....
when reading this, my first thought was "regardless of the status you portray to them, why is he even getting on top of you in front of 6 or 7 year olds?"....just IMO, no judgies...
maybe I'm a little prudish in these matters; I don't really get all sensual with my SO in front of my daughter ever, beyond maybe an arm being around my SO....
when reading this, my first thought was "regardless of the status you portray to them, why is he even getting on top of you in front of 6 or 7 year olds?"....just IMO, no judgies...
I'm with jeane and metatron, why is he laying on top of you in front of his kids?
Where are your boundaries? 🤔
Where are your boundaries? 🤔
Posted by the_verdictofkiki
All these questions and confusion because you guys had zero boundaries.... now you guys have to deal with the mess in your hands...
There's away to avoid this hot mess but it's too late for both of you.
What the hell can't parents and grown ass adults understand about boundaries when it comes to children? Blows my mind.
Because they put their own needs and feelings before their childrens.
Posted by goldrockettPosted by sweetpea2977
This is how lies can bite you in the ass. I'm not sure why you two weren't honest as soon as the relationship became serious.
What lies ? Honest about what ? To the children with who I am to them ?click to expand
To the children once you and your guy became serious.
Posted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?click to expand
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
Posted by PhangusPosted by goldrockettPosted by the_verdictofkiki
All these questions and confusion because you guys had zero boundaries.... now you guys have to deal with the mess in your hands...
There's away to avoid this hot mess but it's too late for both of you.
What the hell can't parents and grown ass adults understand about boundaries when it comes to children? Blows my mind.
I'm totally confused with everything you just said. What boundaries are we as a couple supposed to have ? We're in a relationship , we're not supposed to express anything for each other just bc of the children ?
"just bc of the children?"
I'm really not sure you should be dating a man with children.click to expand
Ok your exited from the convo. Thanks for your input but it's not needed anymore bc I can see you're very judgemental behind the keyboard and I'm not here for it
Posted by MyStarsShine
I'm with jeane and metatron, why is he laying on top of you in front of his kids?
Where are your boundaries? 🤔
It's as if he tackled me if we were wrestling , you'd have to be there to see how innocent it really was
Posted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....click to expand
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
Posted by goldrockett
It's as if he tackled me if we were wrestling
just be careful out there...fine line between showing your SO your ground game and dry humping....
maybe a good time to practice your sprawl...
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by the_verdictofkiki
All these questions and confusion because you guys had zero boundaries.... now you guys have to deal with the mess in your hands...
There's away to avoid this hot mess but it's too late for both of you.
What the hell can't parents and grown ass adults understand about boundaries when it comes to children? Blows my mind.
Because they put their own needs and feelings before their childrens.click to expand
Yeah he definitely is not the kind of parent you're probably used to being like that.
Posted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.click to expand
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
Posted by MetatronPosted by goldrockett
It's as if he tackled me if we were wrestling
just be careful out there...fine line between showing your SO your ground game and dry humping....
maybe a good time to practice your sprawl...click to expand
Lol we're not dry humping in front of them. We both know better and if you knew him , he doesn't play that shit when it comes to him
Posted by Arielle83
Seems like your the cousin in the closet
Yeah right ? I'm going to have to bring that to his attention bc I don't like how that looks
Posted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.click to expand
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
Posted by PhangusPosted by PhangusPosted by goldrockettPosted by the_verdictofkiki
All these questions and confusion because you guys had zero boundaries.... now you guys have to deal with the mess in your hands...
There's away to avoid this hot mess but it's too late for both of you.
What the hell can't parents and grown ass adults understand about boundaries when it comes to children? Blows my mind.
I'm totally confused with everything you just said. What boundaries are we as a couple supposed to have ? We're in a relationship , we're not supposed to express anything for each other just bc of the children ?
"just bc of the children?"
I'm really not sure you should be dating a man with children.
Sorry, that phrase triggered something in me. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with some PDA in front of kids, but if the kids are giving you side-eye or separating you, that definitely means it's not appropriate. That could be because you get called "cousin" or because the touch itself is too sexual, rather than just affectionate in nature, or something else. Are you concerned about how all of this affects them or are you using this to measure how serious is he is about your relationship? I'm sensing a little of the latter, and that makes me feel judgmental and defensive, as a former child of a single parent.click to expand
It's ok. I'm also a child of a single parent. But his son doesn't really have an issue with it. It's moreso his daughter that responds to it. Idk if it's bc I'm not their mom so it seems strange to them or if it's bc they've just never seen their dad act like this with any woman before. Or just to see their dad showing any kind of affection to someone other that them. But I'm just concerned that bc I am the first person he's been with since their mom that he may not feel an urgency to explain to them who I am to him bc I don't want them to be confused either. I just didn't know whether to talk to him about it or just wait it out until he's ready to do so.
Posted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.click to expand
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by goldrockettPosted by Arielle83
Seems like your the cousin in the closet
Yeah right ? I'm going to have to bring that to his attention bc I don't like how that looks
Like after 2 years his baby mom should of had at least one interaction.
He’s going with cousin because the kids will talk about you to mom.
But now they’re saying he’s cuddling his cousin.
Yet he says his baby mom is someone that reacts?
Sounds like he creates the drama.
But I’m only going off what you’ve stated.
I’m sure there are reasons for you to agree with him.
It’s like he’s avoiding conflict, but potentially creating it anyways.click to expand
You get it !! However the baby mom knows about me already , she's aware he's with someone else. But I feel they made up cousin themselves. Bc of the way the convo came about when they brought up cousin to me and him. We both were taken aback by it. But I feel like myself and the kids mom should've interacted at some point. Smh I'm sure we will. He's just dragging it out for whatever reason. But he's making it worse by doing so. Which I agree with you he could be causing conflict on
Posted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.click to expand
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
Posted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.click to expand
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
Posted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.click to expand
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
Posted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.click to expand
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
Posted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $click to expand
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Posted by goldrockett
So my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for going on 2 years. I'm pretty present in his children's lives , they're 6 and 7. However , they think I'm their cousin now. At first , friend , now cousin. He got on top of me last night and his daughter was like ew get off her. Nothing serious , but I feel like bc they don't know that I am his girlfriend that they don't understand why he and I may act certain ways. I'll see his daughter staring at us sometimes when I'm laying on him or rubbing his head. And I know it's bc she doesn't understand what's going on.
Should I talk to him about that ? Ask him when he is going to tell them who I really am to him ? Bc if this ends up being long term , and we were to get married , it would be kind of awkward still if they didn't know either I'm his wife or to think I'm their cousin one day then their step mom the next. Not to mention I haven't even crossed paths with their mom yet. She is not the type of person things could be cordial with from what he tells me , and I get it , but she'll try to find some way to stir up the moment and he doesn't want that energy around the kids when they meet up on their days to give the kids back.
I just feel like at some point it's going to happen. I just feel like he's just afraid of confronting awkward moments but if this is to last he needs to man up and do what he needs to for this relationship.
Thoughts ?
That's all his problem.
And, if he's not thinking like you are about this, he really isn't too sharp and/or he's a coward.
Posted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.click to expand
Ok , are you done ?
Posted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Ok , are you done ?click to expand
it makes no difference to me.
Posted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeanePosted by goldrockettPosted by jeane
i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Ok , are you done ?
it makes no difference to me.click to expand
Great. Have a nice night
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i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Ok , are you done ?
it makes no difference to me.
Great. Have a nice nightclick to expand
cheers cuz
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i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Ok , are you done ?
it makes no difference to me.
Great. Have a nice night
cheers cuzclick to expand
Cheers to you too bitter b|tch
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i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Ok , are you done ?
it makes no difference to me.
Great. Have a nice night
cheers cuz
Cheers to you too bitter b|tchclick to expand
the only come back available when you have still missed the point.
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i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Ok , are you done ?
it makes no difference to me.
Great. Have a nice night
cheers cuz
Cheers to you too bitter b|tch
the only come back available when you have still missed the point.click to expand
There's no point to miss bc everything you're saying is irrelevant. You don't get it , you're not reading what any of what I said correctly. I never said that I was being inappropriate in front of the kids. If you read my comments to the others you'd probably get a little bit of a better understanding. But bc you're a bully I don't expect it. You're bored ASF on a Saturday night with nothing better to do but be online and come on ppls topics really seeking advice but in turn you troll. Seek help. Not even a therapist giving their advice would be as ignorant and shallow as you.
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i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.
kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.
and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.
Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.
laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?
So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....
sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.
are you married?
are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?
save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.
I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.
you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.
don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.
i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.
I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.
spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.
There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.
call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.
I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $
i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.
Ok , are you done ?
it makes no difference to me.
Great. Have a nice night
cheers cuz
Cheers to you too bitter b|tch
the only come back available when you have still missed the point.
There's no point to miss bc everything you're saying is irrelevant. You don't get it , you're not reading what any of what I said correctly. I never said that I was being inappropriate in front of the kids. If you read my comments to the others you'd probably get a little bit of a better understanding. But bc you're a bully I don't expect it. You're bored ASF on a Saturday night with nothing better to do but be online and come on ppls topics really seeking advice but in turn you troll. Seek help. Not even a therapist giving their advice would be as ignorant and shallow as you.click to expand
uh-huh.
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What a weird cover story to give his kids when you are around and you are both affectionate with one another in front of them.
Well they came up with the conclusion of thinking I'm their cousin themselves. He didn't tell them that. They randomly said it one day and he just laughed at them
Why would they assume your a cousin tho 🤔
Does he have other ‘cousins’ come by for sleepovers. This is suspect.
No they don't. But bc I guess I spend so much time with them that they feel like I'm more like family than just a friend ? I have no idea 🤦🏾♀️click to expand
Idk, something seems suspect here. My spidey senses are tingling.
It’s somewhat understandable for him to call you a cousin or friend in front of his kids if your meeting them in passing and relationship is brand new. But that ain’t the case here...
You say you spend a ton of time with them. Add to that he’s been in a relationship with you for 2 years... it doesn’t add up why he would downplay his relationship with you unless...
-he doesn’t see a long term future with you
-he has other women he is seeing that he brings around as ‘friends/cousins’
Definitely bring this ish up!
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