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Do any of you ever want to get married? (Page 2)
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Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88
I have no interest in being married again. I will sport a fat diamond ring, just because though 😄
Yo! You were married babe? What was his sign?
Yeah I was 😄 He is a Gemini. He was nothing like people say about Geminis. He was super loyal and never cheated and was never flaky. Must have been his Virgo moon, I guess. He just never really grew up and liked pretending he was 21 all the time. Too much partying for me.
I can't hold on to Aquas, as easy as everyone says they are 😢
All he wants me to do is chase him and I'm not about that track and field life! 😆
Did not know you married him. Wow!
Gems have always been good to me, but I witness their shadiness with people who never suspect them. So I figure they’re being phony with me. I don’t trust them at all. I figure what makes me so special that they’d never try those things with me, so I am constantly waiting for the inevitable. You know? There are certain character flaws that I can’t take. They’re the craftiest people I’ve ever observed. The arrogance is the biggest turn off for me, even when they are bragging about me. *cringe* Then they never see themselves. After a while I just wind up leaving. I just avoid them at all cost these days.
Also, the men use women for money a lot. So many women that I’ve talked to about their Gem guy, says that they foot their bills. I know you’ve mentioned him spending your money too or borrowing from you, even after you’ve been broken up. That’s just not manly at all to me.
I have an older Scorp friend. She has been with her Gem for 20 yrs. She’s so far in debt because of him. He has 3 cars and she pays the pymts and insurance for all of them. Around the 10th yr of their relationship he cheated on her and got another Gem pregnant. Of course, she had no clue he was cheating and he had been for 4 yrs. She struggles to help him pay his child support. Actually, her sisters (Aqua and Libra) “lends” her money to pay this stuff. They were so upset when they found out the money was for him. She’s unable to pay them back. She had to file bankruptcy twice that I know of. After all these yrs of her sticking by his side, she’s in a love triangle with him now. He told the Scorp. the only reason he is with the other woman and have moved in her house is because she pays the bills. I asked the Scorp, what makes her ok with this and how could she not lose respect for a moocher. I understand at all…..
I have plenty of stories about Gems, but I try to keep it at a limit on dxp. People can share their bad experiences with Aquas, but Aquas are forbidden to share our bad experiences.
If your Aqua proposes, will you marry him? 😛
Yes, some Gemini men use people for money. I can't stand when men play broke.
I can't even get my Aqua to call me lol Even talking about him has my hand itching to call his number and tell him that I miss him. Just so he can hang up in my face and get me to try harder lol (He probably just wouldn't answer, I'm being dramatic lol) I miss him a lot and hate that he has this much power over me lol I'm just glad he doesn't know it. I'm sure his ego would love it! 😆
He has been married too. We would have to be in a relationship for a long time and then get married on our deathbed! 😆 See! I can compromise! 😛
I think the problem is, is that he doesn’t know.
That’s cute!
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Or maybe that he just doesn't like me like that and doesn't care 😄
If he contacts me when he's single then we can start over again, but I can't be a friend to him while he has a girlfriend. I tried and it's too hard. He may be single now but you guys are always moving too quick to the next one willing to give them a shot to see if they get it right on the first try! 😢
I never get it right at first lol I like learning lessons and growing from them. It teaches me how to treat you.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88
I have no interest in being married again. I will sport a fat diamond ring, just because though 😄
Yo! You were married babe? What was his sign?
Yeah I was 😄 He is a Gemini. He was nothing like people say about Geminis. He was super loyal and never cheated and was never flaky. Must have been his Virgo moon, I guess. He just never really grew up and liked pretending he was 21 all the time. Too much partying for me.
I can't hold on to Aquas, as easy as everyone says they are 😢
All he wants me to do is chase him and I'm not about that track and field life! 😆
Did not know you married him. Wow!
Gems have always been good to me, but I witness their shadiness with people who never suspect them. So I figure they’re being phony with me. I don’t trust them at all. I figure what makes me so special that they’d never try those things with me, so I am constantly waiting for the inevitable. You know? There are certain character flaws that I can’t take. They’re the craftiest people I’ve ever observed. The arrogance is the biggest turn off for me, even when they are bragging about me. *cringe* Then they never see themselves. After a while I just wind up leaving. I just avoid them at all cost these days.
Also, the men use women for money a lot. So many women that I’ve talked to about their Gem guy, says that they foot their bills. I know you’ve mentioned him spending your money too or borrowing from you, even after you’ve been broken up. That’s just not manly at all to me.
I have an older Scorp friend. She has been with her Gem for 20 yrs. She’s so far in debt because of him. He has 3 cars and she pays the pymts and insurance for all of them. Around the 10th yr of their relationship he cheated on her and got another Gem pregnant. Of course, she had no clue he was cheating and he had been for 4 yrs. She struggles to help him pay his child support. Actually, her sisters (Aqua and Libra) “lends” her money to pay this stuff. They were so upset when they found out the money was for him. She’s unable to pay them back. She had to file bankruptcy twice that I know of. After all these yrs of her sticking by his side, she’s in a love triangle with him now. He told the Scorp. the only reason he is with the other woman and have moved in her house is because she pays the bills. I asked the Scorp, what makes her ok with this and how could she not lose respect for a moocher. I understand at all…..
I have plenty of stories about Gems, but I try to keep it at a limit on dxp. People can share their bad experiences with Aquas, but Aquas are forbidden to share our bad experiences.
If your Aqua proposes, will you marry him? 😛
Yes, some Gemini men use people for money. I can't stand when men play broke.
I can't even get my Aqua to call me lol Even talking about him has my hand itching to call his number and tell him that I miss him. Just so he can hang up in my face and get me to try harder lol (He probably just wouldn't answer, I'm being dramatic lol) I miss him a lot and hate that he has this much power over me lol I'm just glad he doesn't know it. I'm sure his ego would love it! 😆
He has been married too. We would have to be in a relationship for a long time and then get married on our deathbed! 😆 See! I can compromise! 😛
I think the problem is, is that he doesn’t know.
That’s cute!
Or maybe that he just doesn't like me like that and doesn't care 😄
If he contacts me when he's single then we can start over again, but I can't be a friend to him while he has a girlfriend. I tried and it's too hard. He may be single now but you guys are always moving too quick to the next one willing to give them a shot to see if they get it right on the first try! 😢
I never get it right at first lol I like learning lessons and growing from them. It teaches me how to treat you.click to expand
IDK. We're weird. People always read our behavior wrong.
Yes. Him being single is most important.
lmbo @ ...."right on the first try". You're learning! 😄
Posted by SassyKiwi
Most of you are 30+. I'm just curious on why you don't ever plan on marrying (apart from believing it's an outdated institution) or maybe you do but just haven't found the right person - in that case what are you specifically looking for in a life partner that you haven't found yet? For women, do you ever feel pressured that your clock is ticking? What's your approach on that? Do some of you believe having a long term life partner without marriage is sufficient enough, if so why?
I've stated my views on marriage so often I feel like a broken record. We've also talked kids. Cause he's younger than me and I have the next 5 years really before I need to pull the trigger. Either way I'm freezing my eggs by 33. My mom had babies up until 41...
My friend is in her 50s and regrets not having kids/freezing her eggs. Her cautionary tale is whats lighting a fire under my butt. She's going through the adoption process and its pretty emotionally and financially brutal.
Posted by tiziani
I'm about to get engaged end of this month. Just wanted to sort out the living situation first. Having said that ours is not a typical marriage arrangement, which I don't think either of us would have been entirely satisfied with anyway to begin with. So as for the "institution" itself, I've no idea.
Posted by tizianiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by tiziani
I'm about to get engaged end of this month. Just wanted to sort out the living situation first. Having said that ours is not a typical marriage arrangement, which I don't think either of us would have been entirely satisfied with anyway to begin with. So as for the "institution" itself, I've no idea.
rofl
*death bell tolls*
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I hope you have a prenup. Unless she makes more in which case, nice bro. Get it
For suckers.
I don't respect married men.
I don't respect married men.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SassyKiwi
Most of you are 30+. I'm just curious on why you don't ever plan on marrying (apart from believing it's an outdated institution) or maybe you do but just haven't found the right person - in that case what are you specifically looking for in a life partner that you haven't found yet? For women, do you ever feel pressured that your clock is ticking? What's your approach on that? Do some of you believe having a long term life partner without marriage is sufficient enough, if so why?
I've stated my views on marriage so often I feel like a broken record. We've also talked kids. Cause he's younger than me and I have the next 5 years really before I need to pull the trigger. Either way I'm freezing my eggs by 33. My mom had babies up until 41...
My friend is in her 50s and regrets not having kids/freezing her eggs. Her cautionary tale is whats lighting a fire under my butt. She's going through the adoption process and its pretty emotionally and financially brutal.click to expand
I bet 😢 Doesn't it also suck that it's us women who need to scram in finding the right mate before we dry up or resort to financial heavy and intrusive alternatives like freezing our eggs.
How old is your beau and what is his sign?
With the internet and technology i no longer need a lover to validate me. I can just get random strangers from the internet to do it, with much less effort. I don't need a wife or child to make me feel like I matter in life. The virtual red notifications from all social platforms do it for me.
At this point why waist time, money, and effort in a human that can easily malfunction when I could spend it on technology that is always giving 100% everyday? Also never asking questions, and always what I pay for?
At this point why waist time, money, and effort in a human that can easily malfunction when I could spend it on technology that is always giving 100% everyday? Also never asking questions, and always what I pay for?
Posted by SassyKiwi
Most of you are 30+. I'm just curious on why you don't ever plan on marrying (apart from believing it's an outdated institution) or maybe you do but just haven't found the right person - in that case what are you specifically looking for in a life partner that you haven't found yet? For women, do you ever feel pressured that your clock is ticking? What's your approach on that? Do some of you believe having a long term life partner without marriage is sufficient enough, if so why?
hell to the no
No thank you.
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