We'll the one I'm talking about above- we had my sun conjuct his moon, my Saturn his Mars/Venus and some other stuff. Dunno if that's good or not. It was crazy passionate.
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Posted by bricklemark— But if you aren't happy with the person you are married with..then get divorced.
@Aerazo
"an aqua woman still contacts you is because she really likes you. we don't play games, we'd let you know if it's just friendship."
Right, it seems that way, but we're both married...?
P.s. Your cancer guy probably can't handle just being friends.
I know it sounds easier than what it is, but it is easier. (I got divorced from my ex of 12 yrs and we have 2 kids) now I'm free to date, see, marry, so whatever the F I want with my life without having to answer to anyone. —
ps: I feel like it was his girl blocking me ? Insecure people. lol I haven't been with him in 2 yrs not even now that I'm no longer with my ex but I respect he has a girl. ☺
Posted by bricklemarkPosted by justagirlI just thought what might bring the two signs together, it's the freedom, probably...Cancer escapes in the past, in his memories, and Aqua through the future, through his visionary genius and technology.Posted by bricklemarkYa I thought the same thing with my ex crabbie. Was great at first and well now he's an ex again this time he is blocked! Lmao that unfinished busniness might be better left that way.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Wish I had some advise... I would rather not speak and encourage any type of cheating, as I was cheated on and well I don't have high opinion on that whole subject.click to expand
Well, I personally understand the crab shell time lol I also don't really judge, and as long as there is good communication about what's going on, for me it works.
Posted by brianafayYeah l know, l don't have a habit of doing this...and we've been together 13 years...l'm thinkin l need more passion. And before her, l spent pretty much 7 years alone. So it's not like l have a habit of changing girls and thinking of other girls while with someone...this is kind of a crossroads point in my life. ?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayMove on from what? My ex? What if we're meant to be, and l was gonna break up in a few years anyway?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayShould l lie, and repress my feelings? And get cancer? Haha
Damn dude you're always rambling about your ex and always reference her as superior to your current gf in most ways
That's pretty shitty and unfair to your current gf.
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Nah but you gotta find a way to move on and I mean really let it go - not just "moving on" physically
I'm not saying that's not a possibility - my fiancé was my ex several times. Sometimes people are the right people at the wrong time in your life, and when it's the right time everything falls into place....
...but still it's not fair to this girl for you to compare her to your ex and not really give her a real chance.
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you'll be okay buddy 🙂
Posted by bricklemarkYou were with your ex for 13 years or with the current girl for that long?!Posted by brianafayYeah l know, l don't have a habit of doing this...and we've been together 13 years...l'm thinkin l need more passion. And before her, l spent pretty much 7 years alone. So it's not like l have a habit of changing girls and thinking of other girls while with someone...this is kind of a crossroads point in my life. ?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayMove on from what? My ex? What if we're meant to be, and l was gonna break up in a few years anyway?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayShould l lie, and repress my feelings? And get cancer? Haha
Damn dude you're always rambling about your ex and always reference her as superior to your current gf in most ways
That's pretty shitty and unfair to your current gf.
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Nah but you gotta find a way to move on and I mean really let it go - not just "moving on" physically
I'm not saying that's not a possibility - my fiancé was my ex several times. Sometimes people are the right people at the wrong time in your life, and when it's the right time everything falls into place....
...but still it's not fair to this girl for you to compare her to your ex and not really give her a real chance.
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Posted by GemitatiCan't jump off when you're floating in space around the stars and planets and far far away in the universe.Posted by AerazoPosted by Gemitatilmao no but in that particular moment I asked if he was haha not judging. I usually post when I'm high. ??Posted by AerazoDrunk people can type!Posted by bricklemarkAre you drunk ?
I think my ex, that comtacted me during rhis venus retro, is pulling a teick on me, l havent heard back from her, and it feels like she's taking the relationship back, retroactively....??
I do.
Are you discriminate against drunks?
Well...like you believe all this crap posted here by sober people? —?
How high!
Don't jump from the roof'
You could survive..,than you'll be sorry! Lol
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Posted by brianafayThis is when someone finds a girl just to be in a comfortable relationship? may I ask what sign is your current gf?Posted by bricklemarkYou were with your ex for 13 years or with the current girl for that long?!Posted by brianafayYeah l know, l don't have a habit of doing this...and we've been together 13 years...l'm thinkin l need more passion. And before her, l spent pretty much 7 years alone. So it's not like l have a habit of changing girls and thinking of other girls while with someone...this is kind of a crossroads point in my life. ?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayMove on from what? My ex? What if we're meant to be, and l was gonna break up in a few years anyway?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayShould l lie, and repress my feelings? And get cancer? Haha
Damn dude you're always rambling about your ex and always reference her as superior to your current gf in most ways
That's pretty shitty and unfair to your current gf.
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Nah but you gotta find a way to move on and I mean really let it go - not just "moving on" physically
I'm not saying that's not a possibility - my fiancé was my ex several times. Sometimes people are the right people at the wrong time in your life, and when it's the right time everything falls into place....
...but still it's not fair to this girl for you to compare her to your ex and not really give her a real chance.
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Have you asked if she's happy?
what if she isn't either...
I would hate to fall in a relationship where someone chooses me for conformity . Is probably why I haven't been able to find someone yet to accept me as I am.
Probably happens to many aquas.
I'm not trying to talk you into divorce lol but I've been there in a similar situation for many years and the frustration turned into something ugly.
Posted by brianafayPosted by bricklemarkYou were with your ex for 13 years or with the current girl for that long?!Posted by brianafayYeah l know, l don't have a habit of doing this...and we've been together 13 years...l'm thinkin l need more passion. And before her, l spent pretty much 7 years alone. So it's not like l have a habit of changing girls and thinking of other girls while with someone...this is kind of a crossroads point in my life. ?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayMove on from what? My ex? What if we're meant to be, and l was gonna break up in a few years anyway?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayShould l lie, and repress my feelings? And get cancer? Haha
Damn dude you're always rambling about your ex and always reference her as superior to your current gf in most ways
That's pretty shitty and unfair to your current gf.
??♀️
Nah but you gotta find a way to move on and I mean really let it go - not just "moving on" physically
I'm not saying that's not a possibility - my fiancé was my ex several times. Sometimes people are the right people at the wrong time in your life, and when it's the right time everything falls into place....
...but still it's not fair to this girl for you to compare her to your ex and not really give her a real chance.
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Never mind I just read through the other posts
I got nothing
@bricklemark
look at the Aquarius one.
This just came up on My fb feed. haha this is usually always off but I found it interesting regarding to your post and our aqua-cancer posts.
Also...I don't believe that. I had some of the best experiences with the cancer guy. sex wise and we'd do anything to meet or at least see each other in events, without even making arrangements for it. I also dreamed being with him, think about him day and night.
http://www.yourtango.com/2016293274/man-thats-kryptonite-for-you-per-your-zodiac-sign
look at the Aquarius one.
This just came up on My fb feed. haha this is usually always off but I found it interesting regarding to your post and our aqua-cancer posts.
Also...I don't believe that. I had some of the best experiences with the cancer guy. sex wise and we'd do anything to meet or at least see each other in events, without even making arrangements for it. I also dreamed being with him, think about him day and night.
http://www.yourtango.com/2016293274/man-thats-kryptonite-for-you-per-your-zodiac-sign
Men take far longer to recover from rship breakups
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I truly truly hope though, that I will not end up in a relationship with someone who is never over a former love though. Not to critizise you, but that is just such a scary thought.
It happened to me a few times.....the man never let go
Posted by notsosurePosted by MyStarsShineOf you or where you with guys who never let go of other women?Posted by notsosure
I truly truly hope though, that I will not end up in a relationship with someone who is never over a former love though. Not to critizise you, but that is just such a scary thought.
It happened to me a few times.....the man never let go
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Never let go of me....especially the ones where I was their first love
Posted by notsosurePosted by MyStarsShineHow do you feel about that?Posted by notsosurePosted by MyStarsShineOf you or where you with guys who never let go of other women?Posted by notsosure
I truly truly hope though, that I will not end up in a relationship with someone who is never over a former love though. Not to critizise you, but that is just such a scary thought.
It happened to me a few times.....the man never let go
Never let go of me....especially the ones where I was their first love
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I would believe women are more sensitive than men
Posted by MyStarsShineVery truePosted by Mike79
I would believe women are more sensitive than men
Not always so
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Posted by notsosureFirst loves can take a long time to let go....some never doPosted by MyStarsShineWell... I don't know. I just can't imagine anyone holding on like that unless there were signs from you as well?!Posted by notsosurePosted by MyStarsShineHow do you feel about that?Posted by notsosurePosted by MyStarsShineOf you or where you with guys who never let go of other women?Posted by notsosure
I truly truly hope though, that I will not end up in a relationship with someone who is never over a former love though. Not to critizise you, but that is just such a scary thought.
It happened to me a few times.....the man never let go
Never let go of me....especially the ones where I was their first love
A little burdened
Not accusing you of anything, maybe communication has just been bad so they don't believe you, when you tell Them, you have moved on for good?
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I am relieved they are out of my life, yes I have moved on but one of them is father to our child so we still see each other
Communication has been very clear....thanks
Posted by notsosureWell it has been a challenge, but because i have strong boundaries around it, it's okay, my ex wasn't so good, but we have worked through it and we are now good 🙂. The way people do it, is putting the child first....nothing else matters, especially egos....Posted by MyStarsShineUh! Yeah I can see how that will make cutting contact difficult.Posted by notsosureFirst loves can take a long time to let go....some never doPosted by MyStarsShineWell... I don't know. I just can't imagine anyone holding on like that unless there were signs from you as well?!Posted by notsosurePosted by MyStarsShineHow do you feel about that?Posted by notsosurePosted by MyStarsShineOf you or where you with guys who never let go of other women?Posted by notsosure
I truly truly hope though, that I will not end up in a relationship with someone who is never over a former love though. Not to critizise you, but that is just such a scary thought.
It happened to me a few times.....the man never let go
Never let go of me....especially the ones where I was their first love
A little burdened
Not accusing you of anything, maybe communication has just been bad so they don't believe you, when you tell Them, you have moved on for good?
I am relieved they are out of my life, yes I have moved on but one of them is father to our child so we still see each other
Communication has been very clear....thanks
I don't know how people do that stuff honestly! But by the looks of it, marriages ain't happy either, so... same shit different story.click to expand
On the letting go thing.....you can still cut the cords, but the other person can still carry on having feelings, sometimes indefinitely
Posted by AerazoYeah but here lies the dilemma, shes so cute, and sweet, and kind...most the time...it would be heart breaking to break her heart...??Posted by bricklemark— But if you aren't happy with the person you are married with..then get divorced.
@Aerazo
"an aqua woman still contacts you is because she really likes you. we don't play games, we'd let you know if it's just friendship."
Right, it seems that way, but we're both married...?
P.s. Your cancer guy probably can't handle just being friends.
I know it sounds easier than what it is, but it is easier. (I got divorced from my ex of 12 yrs and we have 2 kids) now I'm free to date, see, marry, so whatever the F I want with my life without having to answer to anyone. —
ps: I feel like it was his girl blocking me ? Insecure people. lol I haven't been with him in 2 yrs not even now that I'm no longer with my ex but I respect he has a girl. ☺click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemThanks. I've thought this, it's her issue, she doesnt know herself, shes a bit stupid in that regard...it's got to be said ?. But l guess as a Cancer l hold emotion in high regard, and if she wants a part time relat, or even full time, l would consider it. Maybe wait a few years for my current relat to disintegrate, lol or see what happens...but to me where your emotions are, that's where you are. There's no escaping it, so take your time and consider your friends and exes till the end of time. I don't even want to move on if it might become meaningless, there's no point. Might as well go back, and stitch up the pieces.Posted by bricklemark(Great topic question btw)
Maybe its cause she Aquarius, she play games...shes my only real long term gf...my current isnt there mentally...as much as regular people...so it don't really count. So, my Aqua ex is givin me the impression that girls only go out with guys to break them to pieces....guys are much more dumb than women...l'm thinkin we get played every. Time.
She's an Aquarius, they tend to pop in an out until they are locked down. The reason why she's popping back is because you had a strong connection with her in the past. Strong emotional connections are hard for Aquariuses to create. So they can't help but be drawn to those that made a strong impression on them. That's not to say that she wants you back, but that's what her emotions are making her think. (I myself am curious to see when a particular Aqua chooses to rear her head again).
Since she (like most Aquas) doesn't trust these emotions, she going to pop in and out like a yo-yo. Sounds like this situations is confusing you a bit. My advice is to not get emotionally wound up in this woman at all. She's your ex for a reason. The BEST thing she could be is a friends with benefits, nothing more. She simple doesn't understand her own heart and mind. Also as a Cancer you're looking for something a lot deeper emotionally than she can probably provide. You may connect physically and intellectually, but it's not all there.
Also since she's an ex, she's going to be even more skittish with you. Don't let it get to you, just know it's all her issue.click to expand
Posted by justagirlSun and moon are great for emotions, saturn is awesme for the long term! You protect each other.Posted by bricklemarkWe'll the one I'm talking about above- we had my sun conjuct his moon, my Saturn his Mars/Venus and some other stuff. Dunno if that's good or not. It was crazy passionate.Posted by justagirlYeah l understand...but l've been with my partner 13 years now, and it feels like it's - next stop : the grave. So l'm kind of thinking what l could still do, in my life...Posted by bricklemarkYa I thought the same thing with my ex crabbie. Was great at first and well now he's an ex again this time he is blocked! Lmao that unfinished busniness might be better left that way.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Wish I had some advise... I would rather not speak and encourage any type of cheating, as I was cheated on and well I don't have high opinion on that whole subject.
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Posted by lolk8yMaybe shes just confused, and doesnt know herself. I think this is what's going on. Silly Aquas ??
you'll be okay buddy 🙂
Posted by notsosureYeah but shes kind of hung up on her exes too, she wants to be friends, but they cut her out, well, one of them.
I truly truly hope though, that I will not end up in a relationship with someone who is never over a former love though. Not to critizise you, but that is just such a scary thought.
Posted by AerazoIn what ways did it turn ugly? So far it's going good, she has trauma from an ex, and she's grieving a family friend, otherwise it's ok, she's emotionally very in tune, very sweet, a good heart and fights to the death, in life, shes a Cap Mars, she really goes out and gets them good jobs and never lets up ? And yeah she's sweet as a companion.Posted by brianafayThis is when someone finds a girl just to be in a comfortable relationship? may I ask what sign is your current gf?Posted by bricklemarkYou were with your ex for 13 years or with the current girl for that long?!Posted by brianafayYeah l know, l don't have a habit of doing this...and we've been together 13 years...l'm thinkin l need more passion. And before her, l spent pretty much 7 years alone. So it's not like l have a habit of changing girls and thinking of other girls while with someone...this is kind of a crossroads point in my life. ?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayMove on from what? My ex? What if we're meant to be, and l was gonna break up in a few years anyway?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by brianafayShould l lie, and repress my feelings? And get cancer? Haha
Damn dude you're always rambling about your ex and always reference her as superior to your current gf in most ways
That's pretty shitty and unfair to your current gf.
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Nah but you gotta find a way to move on and I mean really let it go - not just "moving on" physically
I'm not saying that's not a possibility - my fiancé was my ex several times. Sometimes people are the right people at the wrong time in your life, and when it's the right time everything falls into place....
...but still it's not fair to this girl for you to compare her to your ex and not really give her a real chance.
Have you asked if she's happy?
what if she isn't either...
I would hate to fall in a relationship where someone chooses me for conformity . Is probably why I haven't been able to find someone yet to accept me as I am.
Probably happens to many aquas.
I'm not trying to talk you into divorce lol but I've been there in a similar situation for many years and the frustration turned into something ugly.click to expand
Posted by Blue_FroggieThe relate? Not this one...well maybe not. It's special...Cancers have special bonds...and shes Mars Cancer...? If we werent married we'd probably give it another shot.Posted by bricklemarkWhen it is broken, it stays broken....
I think my ex, that comtacted me during rhis venus retro, is pulling a teick on me, l havent heard back from her, and it feels like she's taking the relationship back, retroactively....??click to expand
Posted by SoulWhooo that sounds like a Libra thing but I see you are a Leo...... you realise you will never find perfection, but that's actually ok if you are prepared and understand yourself so well that can accept that's the way you are 🙂Posted by bricklemarkI can see that. For me the women I chose never meet up to the idea I created in my mind. Then they end up too dominat or set in stone to change, so I go back to just being alone. The idea of wanting to change people to the way I want makes me controlling and manipulative in the first place, so I find it better to just be alone.Posted by SoulI mean love and sex are amazing...emotions come with it, inevitably, but it's hard to make it work long term, that's the problem, yeah?Posted by bricklemarkI'm pretty much on the same track. I just know love, sex, emotions, and the idea of time spent for nothing scares me. Because of that I stay away from relationships. The want for a woman's time and attention has always changed me. Made me stupid and distracted. Its also never worked out for me or them in the long run, so being alone just seems like the better option.Posted by SoulI spent 7years pretty much alone...without hardly ever thinking about her...then l found a long term relat but it's quiet, not much sex, not much anything ?. I dont feel another partner would fix my heartache, like l dont get that. I could have had ten intense relats, it wouldnt take away the firseal one.
I feel it's likely the same. Some men and women get their hearts broke and quickly search for something else. Some don't know how to fix themselves then never try to love anymore and end up alone and use to it. I myself am the latter. Personally I also see this happen to men more then women.
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Posted by bricklemarkWhat a sorry ass excuse. Youre a perfect example of why this topic is bullshit.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.click to expand
Just because it was sooooo "intense" you don't get to shit on your wife. Selfish and weak. I would be done.
Posted by bkbella86My wife doesnt go on the internet. Stop being such a judgmental being.Posted by bricklemarkWhat a sorry ass excuse. Youre a perfect example of why this topic is bullshit.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Just because it was sooooo "intense" you don't get to shit on your wife. Selfish and weak. I would be done.
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Posted by WhatthehellI never cheated on my wife, but you are showing wonderful colors, keep going!
So, no one is gonna jump all over this dude for cheating on his wife left and right and coming here for advice about his lover?
Posted by WhatthehellI just did. See a couple post up. People are all up in here coddling this dude lol
So, no one is gonna jump all over this dude for cheating on his wife left and right and coming here for advice about his lover?
Dxp is hilarious. A lot of people just want to fit In. Anywhere!
Posted by bricklemarkLOL! That's not the point. It's the notion it itself. You don't deserve commitment.Posted by bkbella86My wife doesnt go on the internet. Stop being such a judgmental being.Posted by bricklemarkWhat a sorry ass excuse. Youre a perfect example of why this topic is bullshit.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Just because it was sooooo "intense" you don't get to shit on your wife. Selfish and weak. I would be done.
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And the loyalty is about what you do and say behind someone's back. Not the fake shit you present to their face.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
Posted by WhatthehellMaybe we can. We stopped seeing each other in 99 cause we were almost killing eachother...the passion was so strong but it became claustrophobic. But we saw each other every few years, and we both knew we still had the spark, and we just want to reignite it ?Posted by bricklemarkI'm just confused. I was reading this thinking about giving you advice, and then I got to the part where you're married. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellI never cheated on my wife, but you are showing wonderful colors, keep going!
So, no one is gonna jump all over this dude for cheating on his wife left and right and coming here for advice about his lover?
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Posted by bkbella86Yes it is the point. I can have my private thoughts. Mrs thought police !!!!!!Posted by bricklemarkLOL! That's not the point. It's the notion it itself. You don't deserve commitment.Posted by bkbella86My wife doesnt go on the internet. Stop being such a judgmental being.Posted by bricklemarkWhat a sorry ass excuse. Youre a perfect example of why this topic is bullshit.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Just because it was sooooo "intense" you don't get to shit on your wife. Selfish and weak. I would be done.
And the loyalty is about what you do and say behind someone's back. Not the fake shit you present to their face.click to expand
And l told her the other day we might need to break up, because l want to go back to England and she never wants to!!! And l've often tried to end it! That's when she gets all kind and adorable. Strange huh? ?
Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...with kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by WhatthehellNo l'm really not. Im yelling because you're consistently not understanding the situation while judging me, stupid prick.Posted by bricklemarkNo. I think you're yelling at me for what you're upset about yourself. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by WhatthehellYes you are !!! You're waaaaay beyond normal stupid! I've had to repeat every part of the PREMISE, not even the complex parts, the basic PREMISE!!!! Several times !!! AND you're judging me wiout knowing ANYTHING about me or my relationship. I cant even begin to explain how stupid you are to a normal person. And explaining it to you would be impossible!Posted by bricklemarkI'm not stupid, and I'm a girl. Carry on, man. You clearly don't want to hear the truth. You just want people to tell you how this can work out.Posted by WhatthehellNo l'm really not. Im yelling because you're consistently not understanding the situation while judging me, stupid prick.Posted by bricklemarkNo. I think you're yelling at me for what you're upset about yourself. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by WhatthehellAgreed. But this isn't one of those situations.Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by bricklemarkThey aren't private. You're here sharing these thoughts with people. And people will judge you for it. Deal with it. Just like your wife had to deal with a disloyal husband who lust after his exes 20 years later. We're all dealing with something.Posted by bkbella86Yes it is the point. I can have my private thoughts. Mrs thought police !!!!!!Posted by bricklemarkLOL! That's not the point. It's the notion it itself. You don't deserve commitment.Posted by bkbella86My wife doesnt go on the internet. Stop being such a judgmental being.Posted by bricklemarkWhat a sorry ass excuse. Youre a perfect example of why this topic is bullshit.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Just because it was sooooo "intense" you don't get to shit on your wife. Selfish and weak. I would be done.
And the loyalty is about what you do and say behind someone's back. Not the fake shit you present to their face.
And l told her the other day we might need to break up, because l want to go back to England and she never wants to!!! And l've often tried to end it! That's when she gets all kind and adorable. Strange huh? ?click to expand
Posted by bricklemarkYou're the fucking prick! Dickhead!Posted by WhatthehellNo l'm really not. Im yelling because you're consistently not understanding the situation while judging me, stupid prick.Posted by bricklemarkNo. I think you're yelling at me for what you're upset about yourself. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Who are you?! Weak ass lil puppy
Posted by WhatthehellIm not butthurt. Your "comments" are like having a little dog barking in your face and you're not allowed to kick it.Posted by bricklemarkThat's some nice butthurt you got there.Posted by WhatthehellYes you are !!! You're waaaaay beyond normal stupid! I've had to repeat every part of the PREMISE, not even the complex parts, the basic PREMISE!!!! Several times !!! AND you're judging me wiout knowing ANYTHING about me or my relationship. I cant even begin to explain how stupid you are to a normal person. And explaining it to you would be impossible!Posted by bricklemarkI'm not stupid, and I'm a girl. Carry on, man. You clearly don't want to hear the truth. You just want people to tell you how this can work out.Posted by WhatthehellNo l'm really not. Im yelling because you're consistently not understanding the situation while judging me, stupid prick.Posted by bricklemarkNo. I think you're yelling at me for what you're upset about yourself. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by WhatthehellHe's just mad because he's guilty. Projection.Posted by bkbella86He mentioned her not being "all there" at one point, so I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. What a prick I am! 😄Posted by WhatthehellAgreed. But this isn't one of those situations.Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Yes it is !!!!! You're talking without knowing you stupid idiot !!!!!!Posted by WhatthehellAgreed. But this isn't one of those situations.Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Yes they are private !!!!!!Posted by bricklemarkThey aren't private. You're here sharing these thoughts with people. And people will judge you for it. Deal with it. Just like your wife had to deal with a disloyal husband who lust after his exes 20 years later. We're all dealing with something.Posted by bkbella86Yes it is the point. I can have my private thoughts. Mrs thought police !!!!!!Posted by bricklemarkLOL! That's not the point. It's the notion it itself. You don't deserve commitment.Posted by bkbella86My wife doesnt go on the internet. Stop being such a judgmental being.Posted by bricklemarkWhat a sorry ass excuse. Youre a perfect example of why this topic is bullshit.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Just because it was sooooo "intense" you don't get to shit on your wife. Selfish and weak. I would be done.
And the loyalty is about what you do and say behind someone's back. Not the fake shit you present to their face.
And l told her the other day we might need to break up, because l want to go back to England and she never wants to!!! And l've often tried to end it! That's when she gets all kind and adorable. Strange huh? ?click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Does it matter who l am—? You shouldnt disrespect ANYONE like this ever !!! I'd smack you across the earhole for doing it to someone l didnt care about. It's so petty, childish, and SJW-like ———Posted by bricklemarkYou're the fucking prick! Dickhead!Posted by WhatthehellNo l'm really not. Im yelling because you're consistently not understanding the situation while judging me, stupid prick.Posted by bricklemarkNo. I think you're yelling at me for what you're upset about yourself. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.
Who are you?! Weak ass lil puppyclick to expand
Posted by bkbella86That's so not true...and you still havent figured that out. You're a retard !!!!!!Posted by WhatthehellHe's just mad because he's guilty. Projection.Posted by bkbella86He mentioned her not being "all there" at one point, so I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. What a prick I am! 😄Posted by WhatthehellAgreed. But this isn't one of those situations.Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.
click to expand
Posted by WhatthehellYou're a prick but for different reasons !!!!!!! Shes not all there!!!! She has a shitload of problems and once l say it's too much, l think we should break up, she becomes all nice and rational and present! What do you think about that you stupid cunt —?Posted by bkbella86He mentioned her not being "all there" at one point, so I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. What a prick I am! 😄Posted by WhatthehellAgreed. But this isn't one of those situations.Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Posted by WhatthehellYou're soooooo not trying to help me !!! You hypocritical piece of shit !!!! You're so narcissistic!!! You feed off other peoples energy !!!! You're a troll !!!! Fuck you!!!!! If you wanna settle this in perosn l'd gladly fix you right up you braindead bitch !!!!!!Posted by bricklemarkJust chill, man. I really was trying to help you. You're in victim mode, but that's not your place, because you put yourself where you are. You're smart and strong enough to know that. You're just mad at my yipping because you know I'm telling you the truth.Posted by WhatthehellIm not butthurt. Your "comments" are like having a little dog barking in your face and you're not allowed to kick it.Posted by bricklemarkThat's some nice butthurt you got there.Posted by WhatthehellYes you are !!! You're waaaaay beyond normal stupid! I've had to repeat every part of the PREMISE, not even the complex parts, the basic PREMISE!!!! Several times !!! AND you're judging me wiout knowing ANYTHING about me or my relationship. I cant even begin to explain how stupid you are to a normal person. And explaining it to you would be impossible!Posted by bricklemarkI'm not stupid, and I'm a girl. Carry on, man. You clearly don't want to hear the truth. You just want people to tell you how this can work out.Posted by WhatthehellNo l'm really not. Im yelling because you're consistently not understanding the situation while judging me, stupid prick.Posted by bricklemarkNo. I think you're yelling at me for what you're upset about yourself. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
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