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Posted by bricklemarkI actually read this yesterday but I'm just now responding. Personally, I deal with no one who plays games. Life is too short and I like it real. If you are getting played, then you might want to ask yourself why you fall for that crap. As a Cancer you are a sensitive man and as such, you don't need that in your life at all. Any woman who thinks girls only go out with guys to break them to pieces is a piece of human trash and you should stay away from that stupid crap and find yourself someone sweet who doesn't play any games.
Maybe its cause she Aquarius, she play games...shes my only real long term gf...my current isnt there mentally...as much as regular people...so it don't really count. So, my Aqua ex is givin me the impression that girls only go out with guys to break them to pieces....guys are much more dumb than women...l'm thinkin we get played every. Time.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by bricklemarkThey aren't private. You're here sharing these thoughts with people. And people will judge you for it. Deal with it. Just like your wife had to deal with a disloyal husband who lust after his exes 20 years later. We're all dealing with something.Posted by bkbella86Yes it is the point. I can have my private thoughts. Mrs thought police !!!!!!Posted by bricklemarkLOL! That's not the point. It's the notion it itself. You don't deserve commitment.Posted by bkbella86My wife doesnt go on the internet. Stop being such a judgmental being.Posted by bricklemarkWhat a sorry ass excuse. Youre a perfect example of why this topic is bullshit.Posted by justagirlYeah l think it's a thing...my in laws are actually Aqua-quadruple Cancer —
And I just saw your post about you both are married? ?
What is up with this? You guys seperated from spouses?
I get the Aqua/cancer thing, I really do, dated a few and I'm fuxking drawn to you guys like a moth to a flame... But still you need to fix your marriage man.
It's not that my marriage needs fixing, it's that the drag is so strong, and like unfinished business....we were too intense with eachother, we'd fight like crazy, then make up like crazy...we had to stop it! But now 20 years later we feel maybe we have a shot, we're more mature.
Just because it was sooooo "intense" you don't get to shit on your wife. Selfish and weak. I would be done.
And the loyalty is about what you do and say behind someone's back. Not the fake shit you present to their face.
And l told her the other day we might need to break up, because l want to go back to England and she never wants to!!! And l've often tried to end it! That's when she gets all kind and adorable. Strange huh? ?click to expand
People arent judgmental like you, you're pathological.
Also, if you're with someone, you're supposed to never question your relationship? Ever? And never leave? Once stuck with someone that's it for eternity?
If those are your retarded braindead thoughts, then you should agree l should go back with my ex. Retard.
Posted by Whatthehellyou can always tell by where the person came from - meaning their immediate family ... like I always say "the beer can doesn't fall far from the trailer" ...Posted by tctaAmen. Games are for children.Posted by bricklemarkI actually read this yesterday but I'm just now responding. Personally, I deal with no one who plays games. Life is too short and I like it real. If you are getting played, then you might want to ask yourself why you fall for that crap. As a Cancer you are a sensitive man and as such, you don't need that in your life at all. Any woman who thinks girls only go out with guys to break them to pieces is a piece of human trash and you should stay away from that stupid crap and find yourself someone sweet who doesn't play any games.
Maybe its cause she Aquarius, she play games...shes my only real long term gf...my current isnt there mentally...as much as regular people...so it don't really count. So, my Aqua ex is givin me the impression that girls only go out with guys to break them to pieces....guys are much more dumb than women...l'm thinkin we get played every. Time.click to expand
if we are to survive as a species we need to wise up; pick better partners; raise better children; work on our inner selves and take pride in a modest and meaningful life
preach!
Posted by bricklemarkPosted by WhatthehellYou're soooooo not trying to help me !!! You hypocritical piece of shit !!!! You're so narcissistic!!! You feed off other peoples energy !!!! You're a troll !!!! Fuck you!!!!! If you wanna settle this in perosn l'd gladly fix you right up you braindead bitch !!!!!!Posted by bricklemarkJust chill, man. I really was trying to help you. You're in victim mode, but that's not your place, because you put yourself where you are. You're smart and strong enough to know that. You're just mad at my yipping because you know I'm telling you the truth.Posted by WhatthehellIm not butthurt. Your "comments" are like having a little dog barking in your face and you're not allowed to kick it.Posted by bricklemarkThat's some nice butthurt you got there.Posted by WhatthehellYes you are !!! You're waaaaay beyond normal stupid! I've had to repeat every part of the PREMISE, not even the complex parts, the basic PREMISE!!!! Several times !!! AND you're judging me wiout knowing ANYTHING about me or my relationship. I cant even begin to explain how stupid you are to a normal person. And explaining it to you would be impossible!Posted by bricklemarkI'm not stupid, and I'm a girl. Carry on, man. You clearly don't want to hear the truth. You just want people to tell you how this can work out.Posted by WhatthehellNo l'm really not. Im yelling because you're consistently not understanding the situation while judging me, stupid prick.Posted by bricklemarkNo. I think you're yelling at me for what you're upset about yourself. /shrugsPosted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.click to expand
Lmfao!!
Can't see any posts on page 9, blocked people stay blocked...the likes of bkbelle and whatthehell can get shafted..
nothing is more painful than longing for someone else while being with a partner. you may need to take the bull by the horns and look deep into yourself to either resolve it internally or make a life changing decision, if you ever want to feel content
Posted by iCloud9Thank you. It's not that bad, it feels good to be in a more quiet relationship. Granted there's not the passion like my former one but it's soothing. Also it's nice to imagine cultivating this passion as an older adult, when all the security parts of life are sorted. It just might happen in the near future, l do have some major transits coming up.
nothing is more painful than longing for someone else while being with a partner. you may need to take the bull by the horns and look deep into yourself to either resolve it internally or make a life changing decision, if you ever want to feel content
Posted by notsosureHim being a flip flopper and trying to justify his weak actions. he's going to bat and willing to lose his wife over someone who I'm sure played him. Based on the post and the pining.Posted by bricklemarkHow come you are so sure of this, when your topic opening post is about not being sure what the aqua wants and if she sorta did a number on you right now? I 'm confused. What happened between that opening post and then this one??Posted by WhatthehellShe asked me if l was happy, she said she missed me....but of course the obstacle is that we're both married. How many times do l have to say it? Are you brain dead —? Missing the big picture.Posted by bricklemarkThat doesn't make it better, dude! Maybe that is why she's pulling back. My guess is that is exactly why she's pulling back.Posted by WhatthehellThe Aquas married too...wi kids! Ya dumbass !!! Judgmental prick!Posted by bkbella86There are circumstances under which I can see a man or woman stepping out on their spouse. Let's say your spouse has Alzeimers or something, and you love them and want to care for them still, but you need to have a relationship with someone whose mind is still there...it's messy but I get that.
And ya damn right I'm judging you.
But just flat going behind your spouse's back, and then not seeing that THAT is the entire issue is weird. The Aqua clearly sees that is the problem which is why she stepped back.
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He realizes he looks like an idiot so he switched the story, now the feelings are mutual. What a puss.
Posted by bricklemarkPosted by iCloud9Thank you. It's not that bad, it feels good to be in a more quiet relationship. Granted there's not the passion like my former one but it's soothing. Also it's nice to imagine cultivating this passion as an older adult, when all the security parts of life are sorted. It just might happen in the near future, l do have some major transits coming up.
nothing is more painful than longing for someone else while being with a partner. you may need to take the bull by the horns and look deep into yourself to either resolve it internally or make a life changing decision, if you ever want to feel contentclick to expand
Your sentiment is your main obstacle, it’s keeping you with your current and in this Aqua loop.
Idk what 13 years feels like. I’ve only seen Cancers endure about 10 before they crack.
To get out of the current, they often have to fall in love with something and it’s usually the memory of the ex.
That memory is used to remember the spark. The ex doesn't work out it's only about what they represent.
Then the realization comes it’s the love feeling they really want and it leads them in taking the next step. That love feeling can be for another person, their children, a hobby, a dream, anything as long as it tingles.
Posted by EllygantHaha, pretty sure I'd be called out for having a massive ego if I did that. I try to teach by example instead.Posted by ChuckcemYou a bright and shining sun everywhere for Leo men lmao.Posted by jeaneRight.
I think this could be true. Women get their heart broken as well but normally it is the men that don't see it coming. I think I read somewhere women are more likely to end their marriages than men are. I'm not sure if that is the same for all couples.
@bricklemark It depends on what you mean by "more".
Men have their hearts broken more often because most of us simply don't understand women, their emotions, and how to attract them. Women are generally more in tune with their emotions and understand guys a lot better. Men typically fall for women a lot faster than women fall for men. So for guys, our hearts being broken happens more frequently.
That's not to say that guys expect to be dumped, but it's not a scenario we're altogether unfamiliar with either. Men get dumped all of the time, so to some degree we are used to it. Every guy "knows" (or believes) that the woman he's with could find another guy tomorrow. Obviously this notion isn't entirely realistic, but it's not untrue either. So to some degree a man is constantly aware of his "competition" (which is a whole different problem, but not one I'll address here).
When a man is dumped he also doesn't move on as fast, so he is forced to get through his pain alone. We eventually push aside our pain and "man up" so we can stop feeling hurt. We build up our emotional walls to protect us from the next blow.
The difference is women can be hurt a lot harder emotionally than guys. Even when a woman has her walls up, there is still that part of her that is hopeful and emotionally open to receive love. A woman's love is a powerful thing, I'd argue more so than a man's love. Hence women generally aren't the ones getting dumped, so it's not something they prepare for when they are in love. (That's not to say that it doesn't happen, I'm simply speaking in generalities). Most women don't often worry that another woman will swoop in and take her man.
Also it takes a lot longer for women to fall in love, so it also takes a lot longer for them to fall out of love. Women are also more present with their emotions, so they are going to feel every bit of pain from that break up. Having more "options" women are also more likely to rebound faster than men. Rebounding however almost always backfires, which means the woman winds up feeling doubly worse emotionally. Two break ups is always harder than one.
So I'd say heartbreak is generally "more" frequent for men, but "more" enduring for women.
Start training your Leo subordinates. You and @seraph should make a school for them. 😄click to expand
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
Posted by TheSagInteresting.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
Posted by Rindaroo25 years later?? What are you 55? ? You look 30...
Men. In my experience, sometimes they never get over you. My dad never got over my mom even though he married again & happily. Both my exes chose to never marry again. Man too bad they didn't want to work on the marriages while we were married. ? 1st one tracked me down 25 years later for closure. I guess.
It is about choosing to let go. If you settle for something calmer, it is tough when the one that was passion reminds you & yanks that chain.
How old are you? Is this a midlife crisis? Wondering what you want for the rest of your life. There comes a point where you ask yourself can I do this forever with this person? If the answer is no, then you should work towards what you can live with. I'm not saying cheating. This has nothing to do with the Aquarius. But working on the marriage first preferably & if that doesn't work, leave and do what makes you happy.
Im 38. I have plenty of midlife crisies coming up, Saturn stuff, Uranus exile (half-way round), Pluto stuff, seems every year or two years l get something, for the next 10 years ? My life is a mid-life crisis.
The problem really, is that she doesn't want to travel, or live abroad, l'm from England, living in France, shes French, and l want to live in America for a while, or South Africa, l've visited both places and really want to live there, experience something different. I simply refuse to spend my life here, like this.
Posted by Gob_ShiteThat's cause of all the shit we eat, alcohol we drink, and sport we do ?...but it could stem from a lack of love.
Men are more prone to heart attacks than women. Enough said...
A carefull look over the threads on these forum can give you the answer.
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases 🙂
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
😉
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases 🙂
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
😉
Posted by IamTheRamhhhmmm....Only date women 10+ years your junior?
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
😉
Posted by tizianiThis here! This is what i am talking about!Posted by WhatthehellPosted by tizianiIsn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected?Posted by WhatthehellThe walls of text I read are usually ego struggling to cope with rejection. That may or may not involve (some) loving feelings there in a few cases. Not for me to say. But often I read OPs from women who basically don't even like the guy they're writing about, and they know it, but they're struggling to cope with the fact that he doesn't pay as much attention to her as she expected, even though once he does (if ever) she knows it wouldn't really be what she wants and she'd leave anyway.Posted by IamTheRamThat's a very selective reading of what goes on here in my view.
A carefull look over the threads on these forum can give you the answer.
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases 🙂
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
😉
Who are the woman haters here? DJ for sure...The Sag has said some pretty iffy things. There are several men here who refer to dating as a "numbers game" as though women were items in a shopping cart.
I don't see any women saying similar things. I see them come here and write giant walls of text about all the stupid things they did to try to get a guy to stay, and people slam them and call them stupid.
You've been here a long time I see. I have not yet seen the last part of that statement happening, except that one lady who said she didn't even want to see this dude's face, but she was thinking about going out with him anyway. 😆
"Isn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected? "
That's true. You're right.
The last part often doesn't need to be outright said by the OP but it shows in how they respond selectively to posts. Especially if they reply only to responses that emphasise it's all the other person's fault for the relationship not being up to OP's expectations (even though they're not there to give their side of the story) and the threadstarter is actively looking for people to point out flaws in their partner's character or behaviour.
Generally speaking, I'd say that's when the love is completely forgotten about.
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Damn..this last week there was a guy that found out her gf was an escort...look how people treated him...
And look at his reaction...he was still trying to defend her Gf and finding a solution no matter how.many bricks people were aiming at him...fuck...it was..*painfull* to watch it to say the least...
As for the majority of women post on this subject...it really is what you are saying Tiz...they gather up and throw the blame on the other person in order to find comprehension among each other...and ofc..the selective story telling of facts...lol i am not even go down that road
But there was a women here also some weeks ago that was trying to make things work out for her relation despite all the *faults* her partner might had...that was admirable what she was doing...
And thats what people should be trying to do...
Sure i also agree with you Tiz...man do have more perks when it comes to this subject...
But most of the times...man do try to put more effort on *how to make things work*, instead of trying to find just the blame on the other side...because if *you* are just trying to find blame...you didnt even realise that *you* also have some stuff to work out on yourself...
Rship means 2...for better or worse...
Again...generaly...most of the times...generalisation...people...
Posted by IamTheRamMen put more effort in how to make things work? I have not seen much proof of that....I have seen men run into the arms of other women when things go wrong, some go online and try their luck with other women, and the cases i have heard where marriage counselling is involved, the man often refuses to go and the woman attends sessions alone (I have heard two examples of that recently)Posted by tizianiThis here! This is what i am talking about!Posted by WhatthehellPosted by tizianiIsn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected?Posted by WhatthehellThe walls of text I read are usually ego struggling to cope with rejection. That may or may not involve (some) loving feelings there in a few cases. Not for me to say. But often I read OPs from women who basically don't even like the guy they're writing about, and they know it, but they're struggling to cope with the fact that he doesn't pay as much attention to her as she expected, even though once he does (if ever) she knows it wouldn't really be what she wants and she'd leave anyway.Posted by IamTheRamThat's a very selective reading of what goes on here in my view.
A carefull look over the threads on these forum can give you the answer.
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases 🙂
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
😉
Who are the woman haters here? DJ for sure...The Sag has said some pretty iffy things. There are several men here who refer to dating as a "numbers game" as though women were items in a shopping cart.
I don't see any women saying similar things. I see them come here and write giant walls of text about all the stupid things they did to try to get a guy to stay, and people slam them and call them stupid.
You've been here a long time I see. I have not yet seen the last part of that statement happening, except that one lady who said she didn't even want to see this dude's face, but she was thinking about going out with him anyway. 😆
"Isn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected? "
That's true. You're right.
The last part often doesn't need to be outright said by the OP but it shows in how they respond selectively to posts. Especially if they reply only to responses that emphasise it's all the other person's fault for the relationship not being up to OP's expectations (even though they're not there to give their side of the story) and the threadstarter is actively looking for people to point out flaws in their partner's character or behaviour.
Generally speaking, I'd say that's when the love is completely forgotten about.
Damn..this last week there was a guy that found out her gf was an escort...look how people treated him...
And look at his reaction...he was still trying to defend her Gf and finding a solution no matter how.many bricks people were aiming at him...fuck...it was..*painfull* to watch it to say the least...
As for the majority of women post on this subject...it really is what you are saying Tiz...they gather up and throw the blame on the other person in order to find comprehension among each other...and ofc..the selective story telling of facts...lol i am not even go down that road
But there was a women here also some weeks ago that was trying to make things work out for her relation despite all the *faults* her partner might had...that was admirable what she was doing...
And thats what people should be trying to do...
Sure i also agree with you Tiz...man do have more perks when it comes to this subject...
But most of the times...man do try to put more effort on *how to make things work*, instead of trying to find just the blame on the other side...because if *you* are just trying to find blame...you didnt even realise that *you* also have some stuff to work out on yourself...
Rship means 2...for better or worse...
Again...generaly...most of the times...generalisation...people...
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Generally speaking, I think women are the ones who try and repair things, but of course there are exceptions......?
Posted by WhatthehellI dont think we are talking about the same thing...Posted by IamTheRamBut that's just bullshit. Almost all of the horror stories of people doing horrific things are women telling what men did. I guess you just look at that and think they're lying or not telling the whole story. Well, of course, they're not telling the whole story. That would take a novel. People in pain need to be told they're worth love. Sometimes that takes throwing the ex under the bus, temporarily, on an anonymous forum. Why the hell would anyone get butthurt about that unless he is the ex in question?Posted by tizianiThis here! This is what i am talking about!Posted by WhatthehellPosted by tizianiIsn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected?Posted by WhatthehellThe walls of text I read are usually ego struggling to cope with rejection. That may or may not involve (some) loving feelings there in a few cases. Not for me to say. But often I read OPs from women who basically don't even like the guy they're writing about, and they know it, but they're struggling to cope with the fact that he doesn't pay as much attention to her as she expected, even though once he does (if ever) she knows it wouldn't really be what she wants and she'd leave anyway.Posted by IamTheRamThat's a very selective reading of what goes on here in my view.
A carefull look over the threads on these forum can give you the answer.
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases 🙂
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
😉
Who are the woman haters here? DJ for sure...The Sag has said some pretty iffy things. There are several men here who refer to dating as a "numbers game" as though women were items in a shopping cart.
I don't see any women saying similar things. I see them come here and write giant walls of text about all the stupid things they did to try to get a guy to stay, and people slam them and call them stupid.
You've been here a long time I see. I have not yet seen the last part of that statement happening, except that one lady who said she didn't even want to see this dude's face, but she was thinking about going out with him anyway. 😆
"Isn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected? "
That's true. You're right.
The last part often doesn't need to be outright said by the OP but it shows in how they respond selectively to posts. Especially if they reply only to responses that emphasise it's all the other person's fault for the relationship not being up to OP's expectations (even though they're not there to give their side of the story) and the threadstarter is actively looking for people to point out flaws in their partner's character or behaviour.
Generally speaking, I'd say that's when the love is completely forgotten about.
Damn..this last week there was a guy that found out her gf was an escort...look how people treated him...
And look at his reaction...he was still trying to defend her Gf and finding a solution no matter how.many bricks people were aiming at him...fuck...it was..*painfull* to watch it to say the least...
As for the majority of women post on this subject...it really is what you are saying Tiz...they gather up and throw the blame on the other person in order to find comprehension among each other...and ofc..the selective story telling of facts...lol i am not even go down that road
But there was a women here also some weeks ago that was trying to make things work out for her relation despite all the *faults* her partner might had...that was admirable what she was doing...
And thats what people should be trying to do...
Sure i also agree with you Tiz...man do have more perks when it comes to this subject...
But most of the times...man do try to put more effort on *how to make things work*, instead of trying to find just the blame on the other side...because if *you* are just trying to find blame...you didnt even realise that *you* also have some stuff to work out on yourself...
Rship means 2...for better or worse...
Again...generaly...most of the times...generalisation...people...
Oh, and it's not an absence of love. You don't create an account on an anonymous forum and pour your heart out over someone you don't give a shit about.
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The selective choice of some facts...and hiding some of them...are all that it takes to shape a story (or novel..) to *your* side...
Things dont just magickly happen because someone is in fact the son of satan...
And you know....this forum got 2 sides...an open one..and a private one...i will just leave it at that.
Posted by tizianiIndeed.Posted by IamTheRamPersonally, I took a different impression out of that thread than you so I disagree on that example lol he came across as though he was asking how can he convince her to change her life for him, which again is pretty much ego facing rejection.Posted by tizianiThis here! This is what i am talking about!Posted by WhatthehellPosted by tizianiIsn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected?Posted by WhatthehellThe walls of text I read are usually ego struggling to cope with rejection. That may or may not involve (some) loving feelings there in a few cases. Not for me to say. But often I read OPs from women who basically don't even like the guy they're writing about, and they know it, but they're struggling to cope with the fact that he doesn't pay as much attention to her as she expected, even though once he does (if ever) she knows it wouldn't really be what she wants and she'd leave anyway.Posted by IamTheRamThat's a very selective reading of what goes on here in my view.
A carefull look over the threads on these forum can give you the answer.
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases 🙂
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
😉
Who are the woman haters here? DJ for sure...The Sag has said some pretty iffy things. There are several men here who refer to dating as a "numbers game" as though women were items in a shopping cart.
I don't see any women saying similar things. I see them come here and write giant walls of text about all the stupid things they did to try to get a guy to stay, and people slam them and call them stupid.
You've been here a long time I see. I have not yet seen the last part of that statement happening, except that one lady who said she didn't even want to see this dude's face, but she was thinking about going out with him anyway. 😆
"Isn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected? "
That's true. You're right.
The last part often doesn't need to be outright said by the OP but it shows in how they respond selectively to posts. Especially if they reply only to responses that emphasise it's all the other person's fault for the relationship not being up to OP's expectations (even though they're not there to give their side of the story) and the threadstarter is actively looking for people to point out flaws in their partner's character or behaviour.
Generally speaking, I'd say that's when the love is completely forgotten about.
Damn..this last week there was a guy that found out her gf was an escort...look how people treated him...
And look at his reaction...he was still trying to defend her Gf and finding a solution no matter how.many bricks people were aiming at him...fuck...it was..*painfull* to watch it to say the least...
As for the majority of women post on this subject...it really is what you are saying Tiz...they gather up and throw the blame on the other person in order to find comprehension among each other...and ofc..the selective story telling of facts...lol i am not even go down that road
But there was a women here also some weeks ago that was trying to make things work out for her relation despite all the *faults* her partner might had...that was admirable what she was doing...
And thats what people should be trying to do...
Sure i also agree with you Tiz...man do have more perks when it comes to this subject...
But most of the times...man do try to put more effort on *how to make things work*, instead of trying to find just the blame on the other side...because if *you* are just trying to find blame...you didnt even realise that *you* also have some stuff to work out on yourself...
Rship means 2...for better or worse...
Again...generaly...most of the times...generalisation...people...
But there are a lot of threads from women (and men) where they try to see the best in their partner through the problems, and they are ridiculed for it. Especially facing ridicule from other women. So I definitely understand the general sentiment of what you're saying here.
Forums seem like they're mostly used to talk and comfort one another so I think any good advice traded on here is a bonus for me, rather than an expectation, nowadays.
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It is what it is...best to do is to ignore most of it and have a laugh here and there and try to offer some advice, if the other side is willing to take it.
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A carefull look over the threads on these forum can give you the answer.
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases 🙂
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.
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Yes absolutely women have a selfish and spoiled fibre....usually trying to get the best deal whereas guys we just want to enjoy the relationship.
Posted by shellshockerDayum...interesting. Are you a Cancer? My father in law 4x cancer and hes been in love with his highschool sweetheart/ex-wife and still is, after 40 years...he also has 2x scorpio, maybe that has smth to do with it...Posted by bricklemarkPosted by iCloud9Thank you. It's not that bad, it feels good to be in a more quiet relationship. Granted there's not the passion like my former one but it's soothing. Also it's nice to imagine cultivating this passion as an older adult, when all the security parts of life are sorted. It just might happen in the near future, l do have some major transits coming up.
nothing is more painful than longing for someone else while being with a partner. you may need to take the bull by the horns and look deep into yourself to either resolve it internally or make a life changing decision, if you ever want to feel content
Your sentiment is your main obstacle, it’s keeping you with your current and in this Aqua loop.
Idk what 13 years feels like. I’ve only seen Cancers endure about 10 before they crack.
To get out of the current, they often have to fall in love with something and it’s usually the memory of the ex.
That memory is used to remember the spark. The ex doesn't work out it's only about what they represent.
Then the realization comes it’s the love feeling they really want and it leads them in taking the next step. That love feeling can be for another person, their children, a hobby, a dream, anything as long as it tingles.
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I hope you're wrong...l mean l love a hobby...skating, and rock climbing, l'm building a skatepark ? And have a wall in my house. But l'm hoping to find that love spark again. Would you say sentiment and love spark are completely different?
Posted by HarukkaDesire is love, theres always feelings attached even if we deny it.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
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Posted by HarukkaYes possibly, but we desire our main one the most, it's just also kind of from a distance.Posted by bricklemarkRemind me ofPosted by HarukkaDesire is love, theres always feelings attached even if we deny it.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
For men, they desire something, and love something else, but women always love and desire the same person.
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Posted by HarukkaYes women always remember the negative shit.Posted by bricklemarkI remember that you said it's because men are the victims ..Posted by HarukkaYes possibly, but we desire our main one the most, it's just also kind of from a distance.Posted by bricklemarkRemind me ofPosted by HarukkaDesire is love, theres always feelings attached even if we deny it.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
For men, they desire something, and love something else, but women always love and desire the same person.
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Posted by RindarooAnd how were those years? Mostly good? It's better on the other side? After divorce? It would probably still break me...but l'd heal with another partner.Posted by bricklemarkI'm 53. 30 is stretching it! ?? Tbh most people think I'm about 40 when they meet me. Well I've been through it. It's a lot better on the other side 🙂Posted by Rindaroo25 years later?? What are you 55? ? You look 30...
Men. In my experience, sometimes they never get over you. My dad never got over my mom even though he married again & happily. Both my exes chose to never marry again. Man too bad they didn't want to work on the marriages while we were married. ? 1st one tracked me down 25 years later for closure. I guess.
It is about choosing to let go. If you settle for something calmer, it is tough when the one that was passion reminds you & yanks that chain.
How old are you? Is this a midlife crisis? Wondering what you want for the rest of your life. There comes a point where you ask yourself can I do this forever with this person? If the answer is no, then you should work towards what you can live with. I'm not saying cheating. This has nothing to do with the Aquarius. But working on the marriage first preferably & if that doesn't work, leave and do what makes you happy.
Im 38. I have plenty of midlife crisies coming up, Saturn stuff, Uranus exile (half-way round), Pluto stuff, seems every year or two years l get something, for the next 10 years ? My life is a mid-life crisis.
The problem really, is that she doesn't want to travel, or live abroad, l'm from England, living in France, shes French, and l want to live in America for a while, or South Africa, l've visited both places and really want to live there, experience something different. I simply refuse to spend my life here, like this.
Well as you get older, you will get it all figured out. Life is short. Who knows maybe she'll change her mind. Marriage is about compromise and caring about what the other wants so you can be a team. When it isn't, it just doesn't work so well. (My second one for me was 17 years).click to expand
You look 30 in that pic.
Posted by HarukkaBeauty is not measurable at all. When men say they like pretty women then it is just an expression because what another man thinks is pretty doesn't necessarily match my definition of a pretty woman. But if women say they only go for guys above 6ft then this is a measurable stat.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
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However what my dad's friend in regard to unconditional love meant wasn't about looks or sex it was more about things like career, money, red flags, personal issues etc.
Posted by NevermoreBecause that wouldn't be reality.
Why not equal? We equally broken our hearts on the same line.
Some overboards, hides it from public, deepened it or easily moved on.
Posted by RindarooAmazing ?Posted by bricklemarkLol. Thanks!! It's a recent picture too 🙂Posted by RindarooAnd how were those years? Mostly good? It's better on the other side? After divorce? It would probably still break me...but l'd heal with another partner.Posted by bricklemarkI'm 53. 30 is stretching it! ?? Tbh most people think I'm about 40 when they meet me. Well I've been through it. It's a lot better on the other side 🙂Posted by Rindaroo25 years later?? What are you 55? ? You look 30...
Men. In my experience, sometimes they never get over you. My dad never got over my mom even though he married again & happily. Both my exes chose to never marry again. Man too bad they didn't want to work on the marriages while we were married. ? 1st one tracked me down 25 years later for closure. I guess.
It is about choosing to let go. If you settle for something calmer, it is tough when the one that was passion reminds you & yanks that chain.
How old are you? Is this a midlife crisis? Wondering what you want for the rest of your life. There comes a point where you ask yourself can I do this forever with this person? If the answer is no, then you should work towards what you can live with. I'm not saying cheating. This has nothing to do with the Aquarius. But working on the marriage first preferably & if that doesn't work, leave and do what makes you happy.
Im 38. I have plenty of midlife crisies coming up, Saturn stuff, Uranus exile (half-way round), Pluto stuff, seems every year or two years l get something, for the next 10 years ? My life is a mid-life crisis.
The problem really, is that she doesn't want to travel, or live abroad, l'm from England, living in France, shes French, and l want to live in America for a while, or South Africa, l've visited both places and really want to live there, experience something different. I simply refuse to spend my life here, like this.
Well as you get older, you will get it all figured out. Life is short. Who knows maybe she'll change her mind. Marriage is about compromise and caring about what the other wants so you can be a team. When it isn't, it just doesn't work so well. (My second one for me was 17 years).
You look 30 in that pic.
The marriage was complicated. A lot of good, some major issues, and emotionally damaging for me. He was happy as long as everything was about him & he didn't have to deal with anything. Which meant my needs & desires did not matter. Eventually, I had a wake up call. I guess I mean it's better on the other side of the midlife crisis. I was 45 when I asked myself the question "can you live how you are living for the rest of your life?" I didn't know the answer, so the midlife crisis happened. I honestly thought my personal growth would help the marriage. Well all that happened was I realized I was important too. I completely broke & had to heal, but it wasn't another partner who helped me heal. It was all me, therapists, support groups, finding my own hobbies, and reasons to live & happily. He didn't care or support me. In fact, he tried to stop me from getting healthy. We've been divorced for 5 years now and we are actually kinda friends, we do co-parent & are fair to each other. And now I have a bf who is completely supportive & good emotionally for me. But that happened when I was ready. i am in the best place I have ever been. 🙂 that is about going through the midlife crisis.. and he is doing what he wants to, so it all turns out alright.
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Well he sounds very selfish...good for you thats a fantastic effort. But women's lives seem like journeys, full of growth, and change and excitement. Guys we're more like, we just gotta stand there and act like a male lol.
And so despite breaking up and his bad attitude you're still friends? Isnt that a bit hard to do?
And did you take note of the transit that marked your m-lc? Or was it many things?
Posted by TheSagI think guys are unanimous on Amanda Seyfried and Aneglina ?Posted by HarukkaBeauty is not measurable at all. When men say they like pretty women then it is just an expression because what another man thinks is pretty doesn't necessarily match my definition of a pretty woman. But if women say they only go for guys above 6ft then this is a measurable stat.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
However what my dad's friend in regard to unconditional love meant wasn't about looks or sex it was more about things like career, money, red flags, personal issues etc.click to expand
Posted by bricklemarkActually I don't know who Amanda S. is but I don't find her that attractive judging by her pics. And I have never been a fan of Angelina either. lolPosted by TheSagI think guys are unanimous on Amanda Seyfried and Aneglina ?Posted by HarukkaBeauty is not measurable at all. When men say they like pretty women then it is just an expression because what another man thinks is pretty doesn't necessarily match my definition of a pretty woman. But if women say they only go for guys above 6ft then this is a measurable stat.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
However what my dad's friend in regard to unconditional love meant wasn't about looks or sex it was more about things like career, money, red flags, personal issues etc.click to expand
Posted by TheSagTheres no way you believe that shit. If you saw them irl you'd be hypnotised.Posted by bricklemarkActually I don't know who Amanda S. is but I don't find her that attractive judging by her pics. And I have never been a fan of Angelina either. lolPosted by TheSagI think guys are unanimous on Amanda Seyfried and Aneglina ?Posted by HarukkaBeauty is not measurable at all. When men say they like pretty women then it is just an expression because what another man thinks is pretty doesn't necessarily match my definition of a pretty woman. But if women say they only go for guys above 6ft then this is a measurable stat.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
However what my dad's friend in regard to unconditional love meant wasn't about looks or sex it was more about things like career, money, red flags, personal issues etc.click to expand
Posted by bricklemarkI didn't say I wouldn't sleep with them either...lolPosted by TheSagTheres no way you believe that shit. If you saw them irl you'd be hypnotised.Posted by bricklemarkActually I don't know who Amanda S. is but I don't find her that attractive judging by her pics. And I have never been a fan of Angelina either. lolPosted by TheSagI think guys are unanimous on Amanda Seyfried and Aneglina ?Posted by HarukkaBeauty is not measurable at all. When men say they like pretty women then it is just an expression because what another man thinks is pretty doesn't necessarily match my definition of a pretty woman. But if women say they only go for guys above 6ft then this is a measurable stat.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
However what my dad's friend in regard to unconditional love meant wasn't about looks or sex it was more about things like career, money, red flags, personal issues etc.click to expand
It's just that there are better women than them. Hell my hair dresser is 10000 times hotter than them. ♥♥♥
Posted by TheSagDo you have pics, or pics of women you find attractive? I noticed on IMDB that the popularity of the actress mirrored my taste EXACTLY. Seyfried got tons of praise, as did Silverstone, or Witherspoon, while Fairuza Balk had a small cult following, guys just love her atypical tom-boyish charm. Just every actress was praised exactly according to my tastes. I'd wonder how popular an actress was, in terms of attractiveness, and go and check, and it always mirrored my taste. I thought my 5th and 7th house determined the women l was attracted to, but turns out it didn't.Posted by bricklemarkI didn't say I wouldn't sleep with them either...lolPosted by TheSagTheres no way you believe that shit. If you saw them irl you'd be hypnotised.Posted by bricklemarkActually I don't know who Amanda S. is but I don't find her that attractive judging by her pics. And I have never been a fan of Angelina either. lolPosted by TheSagI think guys are unanimous on Amanda Seyfried and Aneglina ?Posted by HarukkaBeauty is not measurable at all. When men say they like pretty women then it is just an expression because what another man thinks is pretty doesn't necessarily match my definition of a pretty woman. But if women say they only go for guys above 6ft then this is a measurable stat.Posted by TheSagThis is funny, there is no man can love woman unconditionally.
A friend's dad once told us “guys let me tell you two things about life:
1. Don't you ever tell a woman how much money you have
2. Women don't love us, as much as we love them. Women can't love us unconditionally, we can.“
He is such smart dad.
They always want her beauty and sex and things like this .
However what my dad's friend in regard to unconditional love meant wasn't about looks or sex it was more about things like career, money, red flags, personal issues etc.
It's just that there are better women than them. Hell my hair dresser is 10000 times hotter than them. ♥♥♥click to expand
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
I guess I would kill for a woman like her, cause she combines like all three types in one smh
Posted by bricklemarkThat’s a good question. I think the two are closely tied together.Posted by shellshockerDayum...interesting. Are you a Cancer? My father in law 4x cancer and hes been in love with his highschool sweetheart/ex-wife and still is, after 40 years...he also has 2x scorpio, maybe that has smth to do with it...Posted by bricklemarkPosted by iCloud9Thank you. It's not that bad, it feels good to be in a more quiet relationship. Granted there's not the passion like my former one but it's soothing. Also it's nice to imagine cultivating this passion as an older adult, when all the security parts of life are sorted. It just might happen in the near future, l do have some major transits coming up.
nothing is more painful than longing for someone else while being with a partner. you may need to take the bull by the horns and look deep into yourself to either resolve it internally or make a life changing decision, if you ever want to feel content
Your sentiment is your main obstacle, it’s keeping you with your current and in this Aqua loop.
Idk what 13 years feels like. I’ve only seen Cancers endure about 10 before they crack.
To get out of the current, they often have to fall in love with something and it’s usually the memory of the ex.
That memory is used to remember the spark. The ex doesn't work out it's only about what they represent.
Then the realization comes it’s the love feeling they really want and it leads them in taking the next step. That love feeling can be for another person, their children, a hobby, a dream, anything as long as it tingles.
I hope you're wrong...l mean l love a hobby...skating, and rock climbing, l'm building a skatepark ? And have a wall in my house. But l'm hoping to find that love spark again. Would you say sentiment and love spark are completely different?click to expand
I’m a Cancer and so is my brother. Both married for 10 years to people with emotional issues. Big time white knight syndrome.
We both looked backwards to ex’s when the marriages became unbearable. He reconnected and went on to marry his ex. In hindsight he says he would have done it differently, less messy. While I realized the spark with my ex was real and wanted that again, just not with him.
Knowing what I needed allowed me to find it with someone else after my marriage ended.
Lots of relationships can survive and flourish with stability and mutual understanding but I think for Cancers we really need to feel love. Idealistic and sometimes irrational... but there ya go.
Posted by LushWomen need a lot more to fall in love...guys we fall much easier..no?
When grass *appears* greener on the other side: water your own lawn.
I think men and women experience the same level of heart break. The heart break is just about different things. We all have lessons to learn.
Things to think about:
1) Although, this is something that truly means something to you, it may not be as important to someone else, but it doesn't invalidate your feelings or make your heart ache any less.
2) Just because 1 person cannot handle a broken heart as well as the next person, doesn't mean it doesn't hurt equally.
I'd say broken hearts are unique for each individual and what matters most is how we deal with it.
Posted by RindarooThat's good...intelligent humans who put their differences aside for the kids!Posted by bricklemarkHe is selfish, but he's generally a good guy just has some issues he is unwilling to face. That's just how he protects himself. We went through a lot together (20 years total), he had a drinking problem, almost died, about 18 years ago and still can't face himself. Yeah I tried to save him for a long time, and well obviously I finally learned I couldn't do that for him.Posted by RindarooAmazing ?Posted by bricklemarkLol. Thanks!! It's a recent picture too 🙂Posted by RindarooAnd how were those years? Mostly good? It's better on the other side? After divorce? It would probably still break me...but l'd heal with another partner.Posted by bricklemarkI'm 53. 30 is stretching it! ?? Tbh most people think I'm about 40 when they meet me. Well I've been through it. It's a lot better on the other side 🙂Posted by Rindaroo25 years later?? What are you 55? ? You look 30...
Men. In my experience, sometimes they never get over you. My dad never got over my mom even though he married again & happily. Both my exes chose to never marry again. Man too bad they didn't want to work on the marriages while we were married. ? 1st one tracked me down 25 years later for closure. I guess.
It is about choosing to let go. If you settle for something calmer, it is tough when the one that was passion reminds you & yanks that chain.
How old are you? Is this a midlife crisis? Wondering what you want for the rest of your life. There comes a point where you ask yourself can I do this forever with this person? If the answer is no, then you should work towards what you can live with. I'm not saying cheating. This has nothing to do with the Aquarius. But working on the marriage first preferably & if that doesn't work, leave and do what makes you happy.
Im 38. I have plenty of midlife crisies coming up, Saturn stuff, Uranus exile (half-way round), Pluto stuff, seems every year or two years l get something, for the next 10 years ? My life is a mid-life crisis.
The problem really, is that she doesn't want to travel, or live abroad, l'm from England, living in France, shes French, and l want to live in America for a while, or South Africa, l've visited both places and really want to live there, experience something different. I simply refuse to spend my life here, like this.
Well as you get older, you will get it all figured out. Life is short. Who knows maybe she'll change her mind. Marriage is about compromise and caring about what the other wants so you can be a team. When it isn't, it just doesn't work so well. (My second one for me was 17 years).
You look 30 in that pic.
The marriage was complicated. A lot of good, some major issues, and emotionally damaging for me. He was happy as long as everything was about him & he didn't have to deal with anything. Which meant my needs & desires did not matter. Eventually, I had a wake up call. I guess I mean it's better on the other side of the midlife crisis. I was 45 when I asked myself the question "can you live how you are living for the rest of your life?" I didn't know the answer, so the midlife crisis happened. I honestly thought my personal growth would help the marriage. Well all that happened was I realized I was important too. I completely broke & had to heal, but it wasn't another partner who helped me heal. It was all me, therapists, support groups, finding my own hobbies, and reasons to live & happily. He didn't care or support me. In fact, he tried to stop me from getting healthy. We've been divorced for 5 years now and we are actually kinda friends, we do co-parent & are fair to each other. And now I have a bf who is completely supportive & good emotionally for me. But that happened when I was ready. i am in the best place I have ever been. 🙂 that is about going through the midlife crisis.. and he is doing what he wants to, so it all turns out alright.
Well he sounds very selfish...good for you thats a fantastic effort. But women's lives seem like journeys, full of growth, and change and excitement. Guys we're more like, we just gotta stand there and act like a male lol.
And so despite breaking up and his bad attitude you're still friends? Isnt that a bit hard to do?
And did you take note of the transit that marked your m-lc? Or was it many things?
We don't reach out & just talk. It's usually related to kids ( we have a 16 & 21 yo) but then we talk like friends caring about each other. If I ever need anything, he's there. I just have to ask. Which I really try not to do since we aren't married anymore. But sometimes he notices things that needs to be fixed if he's over related to kids. He tries to tell my son lol cuz he knows I don't want him to fix stuff. Idk 20 years is a long time. It's better to get along for our kids sake & we don't hate each other. There was no cheating just not being able to save the marriage. I did not track any transits. Wasn't into astrology then, have just lately as I'm noticing how things just make sense in ways I didn't understand before. Lol it would've been interesting to see though.click to expand
You can still track the transits!...lol
Put your birth details, with the date of the events...? I can help you if you want.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_synastry_chart.php
Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
Posted by bricklemarklol I never payed attention to either of them or their movies.Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
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No I guess I am slightly younger than you, I am in my 30s. It's not about looks only but those women I like have the it factor.
I couldn't even name a current pretty actress cause they look all the same to me or let's say they don't stand out.
Posted by TheSaglool i get you 🙂
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
Except for the age...i like women that are my age arround it...if she is my age...then its perfect !
But...beware with that type of women...those are the ones that will most likely makes *us fall*... hehe
And this goes along with the 3rd rule that i dind't reply to you yesterday (got distracted in a argument here).
Never under any circumstance say that you love a woman...unless you are dead sure that she loves you back the same way...like...never..
And that personality type of woman you mentioned before...lol..just beware...hehe 😆
Posted by IamTheRamI actually know those women don't exist at all, it's just what I project in my mind.Posted by TheSaglool i get you 🙂
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
Except for the age...i like women that are my age arround it...if she is my age...then its perfect !
But...beware with that type of women...those are the ones that will most likely makes *us fall*... hehe
And this goes along with the 3rd rule that i dind't reply to you yesterday (got distracted in a argument here).
Never under any circumstance say that you love a woman...unless you are dead sure that she loves you back the same way...like...never..
And that personality type of woman you mentioned before...lol..just beware...hehe 😆click to expand
At least I have never told a woman "I love you". ^^
Posted by TheSagWell this conversation about being able to measure beauty, you deconstructed it into nothing.Posted by bricklemarklol I never payed attention to either of them or their movies.Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
No I guess I am slightly younger than you, I am in my 30s. It's not about looks only but those women I like have the it factor.
I couldn't even name a current pretty actress cause they look all the same to me or let's say they don't stand out.
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Posted by bricklemarkWell women believe men like the same women, but obviously we do not. That's why beauty is not measurable at allPosted by TheSagWell this conversation about being able to measure beauty, you deconstructed it into nothing.Posted by bricklemarklol I never payed attention to either of them or their movies.Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
No I guess I am slightly younger than you, I am in my 30s. It's not about looks only but those women I like have the it factor.
I couldn't even name a current pretty actress cause they look all the same to me or let's say they don't stand out.
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Posted by TheSagBut we do like the same women!!! I showed that your criteria were vague, and applicable to anyone. And the popularity on IMDB that l saw, that doesn't change. That's still a reality.Posted by bricklemarkWell women believe men like the same women, but obviously we do not. That's why beauty is not measurable at allPosted by TheSagWell this conversation about being able to measure beauty, you deconstructed it into nothing.Posted by bricklemarklol I never payed attention to either of them or their movies.Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
No I guess I am slightly younger than you, I am in my 30s. It's not about looks only but those women I like have the it factor.
I couldn't even name a current pretty actress cause they look all the same to me or let's say they don't stand out.
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Posted by bricklemarkWe don't. lolPosted by TheSagBut we do like the same women!!! I showed that your criteria were vague, and applicable to anyone. And the popularity on IMDB that l saw, that doesn't change. That's still a reality.Posted by bricklemarkWell women believe men like the same women, but obviously we do not. That's why beauty is not measurable at allPosted by TheSagWell this conversation about being able to measure beauty, you deconstructed it into nothing.Posted by bricklemarklol I never payed attention to either of them or their movies.Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
No I guess I am slightly younger than you, I am in my 30s. It's not about looks only but those women I like have the it factor.
I couldn't even name a current pretty actress cause they look all the same to me or let's say they don't stand out.
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You base your facts on what IMDB lists as popular? lol Maybe those are teens who vote for anything that's popular.
However I don't know any guy who says "ooooh Angelina is so hot" or any other popular celeb.
I think you confuse beauty and sexual attraction. I would bang like half the women I see on a daily basis but that doesn't mean I find them beautiful and interesting. I would bang Silverstone too but other than that she has never been the girl I have dreamt about.
Posted by TheSagI obviously meant most people! We do!!! No l NEVER said l based my facts on what imdb lists as popular. Do you even read my comments— ?Posted by bricklemarkWe don't. lolPosted by TheSagBut we do like the same women!!! I showed that your criteria were vague, and applicable to anyone. And the popularity on IMDB that l saw, that doesn't change. That's still a reality.Posted by bricklemarkWell women believe men like the same women, but obviously we do not. That's why beauty is not measurable at allPosted by TheSagWell this conversation about being able to measure beauty, you deconstructed it into nothing.Posted by bricklemarklol I never payed attention to either of them or their movies.Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
No I guess I am slightly younger than you, I am in my 30s. It's not about looks only but those women I like have the it factor.
I couldn't even name a current pretty actress cause they look all the same to me or let's say they don't stand out.
You base your facts on what IMDB lists as popular? lol Maybe those are teens who vote for anything that's popular.
However I don't know any guy who says "ooooh Angelina is so hot" or any other popular celeb.
I think you confuse beauty and sexual attraction. I would bang like half the women I see on a daily basis but that doesn't mean I find them beautiful and interesting. I would bang Silverstone too but other than that she has never been the girl I have dreamt about.
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And sexual attraction is directly related to beauty.
Posted by bricklemarkWe don't! lolPosted by TheSagI obviously meant most people! We do!!! No l NEVER said l based my facts on what imdb lists as popular. Do you even read my comments— ?Posted by bricklemarkWe don't. lolPosted by TheSagBut we do like the same women!!! I showed that your criteria were vague, and applicable to anyone. And the popularity on IMDB that l saw, that doesn't change. That's still a reality.Posted by bricklemarkWell women believe men like the same women, but obviously we do not. That's why beauty is not measurable at allPosted by TheSagWell this conversation about being able to measure beauty, you deconstructed it into nothing.Posted by bricklemarklol I never payed attention to either of them or their movies.Posted by TheSagI dont understand, Seyfried, Silverstone and Witherspoon would all more or less qualify for curvy/blonde, introvert yet confident, and girl next door... It's more a matter of their disposition at the time, and how they dress and present themselves. It has nothing to do with their beauty per say. Also, are you like in your 60's? Given your taste in women. Like you were in your 20's when the godfather came out. ?
@bricklemark
See that's interesting because I never considered Silverstone and Witherspoon as attractive or at least they never crossed my mind as desirable women and I never thought of Angelina that way either, just like I never gave a damn about Jennifer Aniston. lol I like women of all ages though. I guess I like 3 types of women:
- the curvy amazone/or blonde no matter what her age is
- the introvert yet confident classic beauty
- the funny girl next door type
I had a crush on her when I was young
No I guess I am slightly younger than you, I am in my 30s. It's not about looks only but those women I like have the it factor.
I couldn't even name a current pretty actress cause they look all the same to me or let's say they don't stand out.
You base your facts on what IMDB lists as popular? lol Maybe those are teens who vote for anything that's popular.
However I don't know any guy who says "ooooh Angelina is so hot" or any other popular celeb.
I think you confuse beauty and sexual attraction. I would bang like half the women I see on a daily basis but that doesn't mean I find them beautiful and interesting. I would bang Silverstone too but other than that she has never been the girl I have dreamt about.
And sexual attraction is directly related to beauty.click to expand
Then why do you even have to mention IMDB?
Are you kidding me? Sexual attraction and beauty are not the same at all.
There are tons of busty hot porn actresses that we all would like to fuck but they are not necessarily pretty women.
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