DonnaLibra
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Marriage is for men in 2023 (not women) (Page 5)
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Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by FUCKTHISLIFEYou don’t like a bit of struggle, a healthy challenge?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by nanochipWhere’s the fun in that not being challenged?Posted by Walk_on_by
I think it's hilarious women being annoyed about men not wanting a partner that challenges them. Why the hell would you want your partner to be a challenge, life is hard you don't need a partner that makes it harder.
I think it’s hilarious (concerning) that’s all you took from that exchange. You ignored the abuse-domination dynamic topic we were discussing completely, and took the word “challenge” grossly out of context.
I think you know this too. Any man can get a submissive housewife who wants to be kept, they are everywhere. Why haven’t you if that’s so appealing?
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gimme an example, because competition inside of the couple to me is instant GO NEXT
i'm lazy to make a long answers but overall its no, its doesnt work and its overall not sexy,
not threateting just not sexy, like its not interessing
You don’t think banter and stimulating conversations aren’t sexy…you like a woman that agrees with you all the time?
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this is being normal', the real problem is people who tell to their partner that they should do better when life is hard and they already doing their best. Money doesnt work
How many serious relationships have you been in? How long was your longest relationship? You are giving me strong vibes that you don’t have any experience with women.
are you happily married with kids ? If not I don’t really care about your judgement and ur opinion tbh. don’t quote me and die aloneclick to expand
You have no experience with women. I think you’ve consumed too much red pill content to feel as bitter you do. You’re arguing with people who have spent decade(s)in marriages and relationships, and acting like you’re operating on a higher level of consciousness, morals, and experience than the rest of us.
Ask yourself why you have been and continue to be the only triggered person in my thread. Incapable of having a discussion. But now we know that you don’t want women to have opinions and thoughts, yet you don’t have any baseline experience with them in the first place.
You’re a victim of consuming online red pill ideologies. I see why you’re so angry.
There there. I’m sure someone will touch your weiner one day
Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by DonnaLibra
Marriage is a much better deal for men than women. Married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. Marriage and children literally kill women earlier in life.
die alone then
I have a friend whose parents both died alone. They had 11 kids and were divorced at the end of life.
I visited my aunt every week in a retirement home. I made friends with a lot of the residents who had children. Most of them rarely saw their children or received visits from them. Having kids so you don't die alone is a poor excuse to bring children into this world and is very selfish.
i wish u a long single life alone, because this is what u wish. now no more quotes,click to expand
Thanks but you should have done this 20 sum years ago as I am a married woman.
“Are u happily married with kids?”
What a dumb fucking thing to say in my thread about why marriage doesn’t benefit women 🤦🏼♀️
We have come full circle.
What a dumb fucking thing to say in my thread about why marriage doesn’t benefit women 🤦🏼♀️
We have come full circle.
Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by FUCKTHISLIFEYou don’t like a bit of struggle, a healthy challenge?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by nanochipWhere’s the fun in that not being challenged?Posted by Walk_on_by
I think it's hilarious women being annoyed about men not wanting a partner that challenges them. Why the hell would you want your partner to be a challenge, life is hard you don't need a partner that makes it harder.
I think it’s hilarious (concerning) that’s all you took from that exchange. You ignored the abuse-domination dynamic topic we were discussing completely, and took the word “challenge” grossly out of context.
I think you know this too. Any man can get a submissive housewife who wants to be kept, they are everywhere. Why haven’t you if that’s so appealing?
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gimme an example, because competition inside of the couple to me is instant GO NEXT
i'm lazy to make a long answers but overall its no, its doesnt work and its overall not sexy,
not threateting just not sexy, like its not interessing
You don’t think banter and stimulating conversations aren’t sexy…you like a woman that agrees with you all the time?
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this is being normal', the real problem is people who tell to their partner that they should do better when life is hard and they already doing their best. Money doesnt work
How many serious relationships have you been in? How long was your longest relationship? You are giving me strong vibes that you don’t have any experience with women.
are you happily married with kids ? If not I don’t really care about your judgement and ur opinion tbh. don’t quote me and die alone
You have no experience with women. I think you’ve consumed too much red pill content to feel as bitter you do. You’re arguing with people who have spent decade(s)in marriages and relationships, and acting like you’re operating on a higher level of consciousness, morals, and experience than the rest of us.
Ask yourself why you have been and continue to be the only triggered person in my thread. Incapable of having a discussion. But now we know that you don’t want women to have opinions and thoughts, yet you don’t have any baseline experience with them in the first place.
You’re a victim of consuming online red pill ideologies. I see why you’re so angry.
There there. I’m sure someone will touch your weiner one day
Idk what u are talking about tbh lol, I’m really not interested. U wish I was angry, u wish I would be triggered l, U wish I would be an ugly incell virgin. But I’m not interested like I said you don’t interested me and I don’t want to have a conversation with you, I invite you to block me lol.
I share and talk about my life with people I like it’s simple move on xdclick to expand
You’re not interested, yet you continue to be spending so much of your time talking to me and in my thread.
I don’t block people on message boards. Why would I want to block you? I’m enjoying this conversation. If you don’t want to have a conversation with me in my own thread like you said, then maybe you should block me.
Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochip
“Are u happily married with kids?”
What a dumb fucking thing to say in my thread about why marriage doesn’t benefit women 🤦🏼♀️
We have come full circle.
Then die alone with your animals in your shithole, in live your whole life in fearclick to expand
A strong emotional response
Spoken like a true incel.
Ask fuckmylife
He big big mad rn
He big big mad rn
guys calm down
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Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
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Go back to workclick to expand
I’m on lunch.
Posted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipGo back to workPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEI don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
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I’m on lunch.click to expand
What's for lunch?
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yo nano, i be honest u need to change location and get back to the city or near nature, money doesnt make u happy plus as a dev myself, i think coding is garbage because u becoming an angry femcell who hates man for wtv reason,
Wtv clockwatching fck job u doclick to expand
I already told you that I work in hardware testing and development. I don’t hate my job. I like my job, the people I work with. For me personally, it fulfills that are of my life well.
Money makes life easier, and an easier life means happier life with less problems. It’s really that simple
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEI’m on lunch.Posted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
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Go back to work
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What's for lunch?click to expand
I’m just gonna have some fruit
Posted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEI’m on lunch.Posted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
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Go back to work
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What's for lunch?
I’m just gonna have some fruitclick to expand
Would you still love me if I was an orange?
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipWhat's for lunch?Posted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
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Go back to work
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I’m on lunch.
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I’m just gonna have some fruit
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Would you still love me if I was an orange?click to expand
🙄🙄😒😒 Yes
Posted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipWould you still love me if I was an orange?Posted by Walk_on_byI’m just gonna have some fruitPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
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Go back to work
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I’m on lunch.
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What's for lunch?
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🙄🙄😒😒 Yesclick to expand
Even if I was the kind of orange that is full of pips?
Posted by EggrollPosted by UndinePosted by Walk_on_byI can afford a home, in fact I have been owning a lovely one for a decade. It's not a mansion, though!Posted by UndineHow are you financially independent if you couldn't have afforded such a home on your own?Posted by nanochipPosted by Undine
For men, marriage has clear HEALTH BENEFITS, since married men live in average LONGER than unmarried ones! This is not the case for women.
For women, marriage may have financial benefits when there are children to raise, but only with men that are stable and responsible (aka have skills that guarantee a good income and future promotions, save money without being stingy, spend little on clothes and gadgets for themself, and have no costly hobbies or addictions).
For both, living together saves costs (bills and possibly taxes). Like Saturn, marriage may bring stability to those with impulsive tendencies, keeping them in place when they would otherwise run for the hills at the first hurdle.
Yea I didn’t even get into lifespan of married couples vs not, good point.
The financials of having a child(ren) makes total sense, and splitting cost within the marriage too. But what about when it ends? Marriage makes sense from a family perspective, but people desire children less now, and statistically it’s still going to likely end in divorce regardless.
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I am a childless woman who is financially independent and doesn't care about traditions, religion, what other people think, etc. Yet I married twice (first time a few days after my college degree; second time, a few days ago).
Apart from finding love and a compatible man, I believe there has to be at least another good reason for a woman like me to get hitched!
First time, I wouldn't have gained permission to live and work in his country, if we just "lived together". When I eventually got a job, I earned more than him. Second time around, I married a man who earns more than me, has accumulated wealth and is now buying an expensive home (of my choice) mortgage-free. I couldn't have afforded such a home on my own, and being married makes gives me 50% ownership, without having spent a penny.
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Did you keep your home or sell it?click to expand
Never sell for now it look good relationship but who know the future
My biggest regret was not byomg prior marriage cuz he said we’d by home together. We did n was left homeless after divorce
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_by🙄🙄😒😒 YesPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
click to expand
Go back to work
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I’m on lunch.
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What's for lunch?
I’m just gonna have some fruit
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Would you still love me if I was an orange?
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Even if I was the kind of orange that is full of pips?click to expand
No shot, it’s way too….. challenging for me
I just wanna get off work and scratch my ballsack and not have to deal with any unruly oranges. I just want the easiest most compliant orange you know—
Posted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_by🙄🙄😒😒 YesPosted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFEPosted by nanochipPosted by FUCKTHISLIFE
Doesn’t make you beautiful or interesting
I don’t need you to think I’m smart, rich, beautiful, or interesting. I do not exist to please you. Women do not exist to please you.
click to expand
Go back to work
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I’m on lunch.
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What's for lunch?
I’m just gonna have some fruit
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Would you still love me if I was an orange?
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Even if I was the kind of orange that is full of pips?
No shot, it’s way too….. challenging for meclick to expand
🥺
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I just wanna get off work and scratch my ballsack and not have to deal with any unruly oranges. I just want the easiest most compliant orange you know—
Haha … I like this …. Clever you
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Posted by __ixi__
I wonder what kind of beliefs does a person have to hold in order to feel threatened by feminism? I am genuinely curious.
The best I got is that the kind of guy who might feel threatened by the kind of world that is not as gender-defined fits a certain mold, picture this: They like the world being a certain way, like those old black-and-white movies where the men wear the suits, smoke the big cigars, and run the show. They are comfortable for several reasons being in a world where men and women have clear, distinct roles, and they don't have to question their own privileges, prejudices, or feelings.
Throw in newer concepts of inclusivity and intersectionalism and it's like you're asking him to watch a movie in 3D after a lifetime of 2D. Suddenly, there are layers and dimensions he's not used to dealing with, and it understandably could leave them wondering "Why are the rules changing? What does this mean for me?" It's like someone just told him their comfortable armchair is being replaced with an exercise ball. It might be better for his posture, but boy, is it going to feel different at first! It's that fear of change and the unknown that's really causing the discomfort.
Ixi, this is probably a post for another topic, but I’m thinking about what you said about men feeling threatened by a world without gender definition. I’ve spoken with quite a few Gen z recently at work and on an anonymous posting group that I’m apart of. We know that the world is changing in terms of how gender is viewed, and talking to gen z’ers it was interesting to hear what they had to say. I don’t know if these are the beliefs of radicals or not. But I was told by 2-3 in separate scenarios, that the goal would be to ultimately have so much gender ambiguity and lack of sexual dimorphism, that gender roles would crumble completely. The dumbed down version of my understanding, would be you literally could not tell who was a male or who was a female and thus the gender roles would cease to exist. That seems a little bit extreme, because many people are traditionally biologically attracted to the opposite gender for their masculine/feminine traits. I know you work in a school - not sure their ages - but have you heard about this? What do you think?
Posted by nanochipPosted by __ixi__
I wonder what kind of beliefs does a person have to hold in order to feel threatened by feminism? I am genuinely curious.
The best I got is that the kind of guy who might feel threatened by the kind of world that is not as gender-defined fits a certain mold, picture this: They like the world being a certain way, like those old black-and-white movies where the men wear the suits, smoke the big cigars, and run the show. They are comfortable for several reasons being in a world where men and women have clear, distinct roles, and they don't have to question their own privileges, prejudices, or feelings.
Throw in newer concepts of inclusivity and intersectionalism and it's like you're asking him to watch a movie in 3D after a lifetime of 2D. Suddenly, there are layers and dimensions he's not used to dealing with, and it understandably could leave them wondering "Why are the rules changing? What does this mean for me?" It's like someone just told him their comfortable armchair is being replaced with an exercise ball. It might be better for his posture, but boy, is it going to feel different at first! It's that fear of change and the unknown that's really causing the discomfort.
Ixi, this is probably a post for another topic, but I’m thinking about what you said about men feeling threatened by a world without gender definition. I’ve spoken with quite a few Gen z recently at work and on an anonymous posting group that I’m apart of. We know that the world is changing in terms of how gender is viewed, and talking to gen z’ers it was interesting to hear what they had to say. I don’t know if these are the beliefs of radicals or not. But I was told by 2-3 in separate scenarios, that the goal would be to ultimately have so much gender ambiguity and lack of sexual dimorphism, that gender roles would crumble completely. The dumbed down version of my understanding, would be you literally could not tell who was a male or who was a female and thus the gender roles would cease to exist. That seems a little bit extreme, because many people are traditionally biologically attracted to the opposite gender for their masculine/feminine traits. I know you work in a school - not sure their ages - but have you heard about this? What do you think?click to expand
Lack of sexual dimorphism = mid
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
Posted by virgoOPPP
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
♥️
Posted by virgoOPPP
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
Plus he will live longer
So if you are ballpark the same age
You might die about the same time
Lol sorry so dark
Going on vacation tomorrow, below is a division of task/labor
My List
1. Checking the State Park page every day, to find a cancellation to an impossible to get Beach Camp site.
2. Makes List of activities/events/restaurants that are dog friendly
3. Take dog to Pet store to be fitted for a harness, to have better control, after he complains about other people’s dogs fucking with his dog.
4. Find and schedule House sitter.
5. Makes a camping checklist.
6. Purchases additional camping gear.
7. Organize and pack camp gear.
8. Create camp daily menu and grocery list.
9. Buy groceries.
10. Prep Meals (Marinate, Chop, portion)
11. Organize and pack groceries.
12. Pack Kids clothes, toys and beach gear.
13. Pack, Games, Puzzles, Art Supplies
14. Charge all Electronics & check batteries in all lights
15. Load Ice Chest
16. Pick up house before leaving.
Shit he's gonna do
1. Get Ice
2. Load Truck
My List
1. Checking the State Park page every day, to find a cancellation to an impossible to get Beach Camp site.
2. Makes List of activities/events/restaurants that are dog friendly
3. Take dog to Pet store to be fitted for a harness, to have better control, after he complains about other people’s dogs fucking with his dog.
4. Find and schedule House sitter.
5. Makes a camping checklist.
6. Purchases additional camping gear.
7. Organize and pack camp gear.
8. Create camp daily menu and grocery list.
9. Buy groceries.
10. Prep Meals (Marinate, Chop, portion)
11. Organize and pack groceries.
12. Pack Kids clothes, toys and beach gear.
13. Pack, Games, Puzzles, Art Supplies
14. Charge all Electronics & check batteries in all lights
15. Load Ice Chest
16. Pick up house before leaving.
Shit he's gonna do
1. Get Ice
2. Load Truck
Posted by BasicPosted by virgoOPPP
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
Plus he will live longer
So if you are ballpark the same age
You might die about the same time
Lol sorry so darkclick to expand
So tragically romantic 🖤
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochip
@dragonh0rsecvck I think the post got too long to quote anymore lol. I wanted to reply to the part about sacrificing passion for stability. I dated a lot in my midtwenties, I was going on dates with nice enough men, but realizing that something was missing and it was the passion aspect. I came to the conclusion that you can have this exciting, sexy, turbulent, CHALLENGING (throwing that in there for Taniwha), passionate relationship that usually doesn’t seem to last beyond a few years because it becomes too intense and too tiring. Both of the people can’t seem to handle the energy or know how to fix the issues that keep recurring. And the other option I never tried…. Date the nice, stable dude. Throughout the years, I’ve found these guys kind of unfuckable and boring. Maybe they agree with everything you say or do, so there’s nothing to discuss or exchange ideas and opinions about. Something is just always missing.
The older I get, the second guy seems more appealing in theory because in a way Taniwha was right, challenge gets tiring. That passionate relationship is exhausting and it’s painful. I haven’t ever been able to bring myself to follow through with it because I like the excitement, the challenge, the passion and all the feelings that come with it. Something about the nice, stable dude makes me feel comfort on some level though, like he will be there for me when I give up on finding what I’m looking for (or maybe realizing it doesn’t exist) 🤣 There’s also risk with the nice stable dude potentially because you might end up with a Jonas Hill type 🥸
But the most successful relationships I know are the passionless stable ones though, where they never argue and just get along 99% of the time. I honestly don’t think you can have both in one person. Because what you like about the first is exactly what the second is missing, which happens to be what makes the relationship last in the first place. I didn’t word this exactly how I wanted to because it’s 8am and I don’t sleep much, but hopefully got my thoughts across.
Yeah! So while you equated power/control with sex, I equated passion with love I suppose. Maybe I see the boring couples and wrongly assume there’s no love there. Thanks for identifying walk_on_by, I was scared last night and shan’t contribute much to this thread anymore 😂 If I quote him anymore froggie might be resurrected and stab me
I feel like lots of my posts here and on my former account were low or high-key misogynistic due to my environment that doesn’t reflect the audience on this site at all. I’m gonna work to heal that asap. People on my old account definitely caught on that I was a woman hater and shaded me about it. When I read blind items and shit about Gemini female celebrities like Angelina Jolie they say we tend to hate other women- I wonder if it depends on our introversion level.
Anyway, have a good one nano, I’m a marriagecel at the end of the day 😂click to expand
LOL GIRL ain’t no waaaaaaaaay instant karma was harassing you over Taniwha too. What the fuckkkkkk !!!!!! 🫨🫨🫨🫨😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I don’t fuck with catty women who lay claim to men online. I interact with who I want to, when I want to. And you should do the same! We aren’t 12 anymore.
Don’t go away, stay. I like your posts and I’m sure others do too.
It’s good to be aware of certain behaviors but also take what people say, especially here, with a grain of salt. People are Delulu (thanks @eggroll I’ve been saying that here and irl lol). I’ve been called a feminist monster and a pickmeisha days apart on here recently. I’ve been called whore and also prude. I’ve been called liberal snowflake and also bigoted trump supporter in the very same day. You can’t please everyone and everyone’s always going to have some shit to say. Don’t make yourself smaller or quieter because of it. At the end of the day, we are just another person on the internet with an opinion that doesn’t mean much.
Posted by BasicPosted by virgoOPPP
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
Plus he will live longer
So if you are ballpark the same age
You might die about the same time
Lol sorry so darkclick to expand
yeah we're about 2 years apart .
and tbh i srsly don't want any of our kids to deal with most people on my side of the family. i don't trust them to care for my kids nor do i trust them with any piece of property or inheritance. it's the best way to protect your children from vultures.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by BasicPosted by virgoOPPP
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
Plus he will live longer
So if you are ballpark the same age
You might die about the same time
Lol sorry so dark
yeah we're about 2 years apart .
and tbh i srsly don't want any of our kids to deal with most people on my side of the family. i don't trust them to care for my kids nor do i trust them with any piece of property or inheritance. it's the best way to protect your children from vultures.click to expand
Lol I don’t even expose myself to my side of the family! 🤣
Would you go as far to change your last names so that your kids have a different last name so you know all those spawn come from you and not connected to said side of the family? or is that too much. 😅
Posted by BasicPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BasicPosted by virgoOPPP
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
Plus he will live longer
So if you are ballpark the same age
You might die about the same time
Lol sorry so dark
yeah we're about 2 years apart .
and tbh i srsly don't want any of our kids to deal with most people on my side of the family. i don't trust them to care for my kids nor do i trust them with any piece of property or inheritance. it's the best way to protect your children from vultures.
Lol I don’t even expose myself to my side of the family! 🤣
Would you go as far to change your last names so that your kids have a different last name so you know all those spawn come from you and not connected to said side of the family? or is that too much. 😅click to expand
traditionally, the woman takes the man's name anyway and his name sounds better than mine so it's a win-win.
Posted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochip
@dragonh0rsecvck I think the post got too long to quote anymore lol. I wanted to reply to the part about sacrificing passion for stability. I dated a lot in my midtwenties, I was going on dates with nice enough men, but realizing that something was missing and it was the passion aspect. I came to the conclusion that you can have this exciting, sexy, turbulent, CHALLENGING (throwing that in there for Taniwha), passionate relationship that usually doesn’t seem to last beyond a few years because it becomes too intense and too tiring. Both of the people can’t seem to handle the energy or know how to fix the issues that keep recurring. And the other option I never tried…. Date the nice, stable dude. Throughout the years, I’ve found these guys kind of unfuckable and boring. Maybe they agree with everything you say or do, so there’s nothing to discuss or exchange ideas and opinions about. Something is just always missing.
The older I get, the second guy seems more appealing in theory because in a way Taniwha was right, challenge gets tiring. That passionate relationship is exhausting and it’s painful. I haven’t ever been able to bring myself to follow through with it because I like the excitement, the challenge, the passion and all the feelings that come with it. Something about the nice, stable dude makes me feel comfort on some level though, like he will be there for me when I give up on finding what I’m looking for (or maybe realizing it doesn’t exist) 🤣 There’s also risk with the nice stable dude potentially because you might end up with a Jonas Hill type 🥸
But the most successful relationships I know are the passionless stable ones though, where they never argue and just get along 99% of the time. I honestly don’t think you can have both in one person. Because what you like about the first is exactly what the second is missing, which happens to be what makes the relationship last in the first place. I didn’t word this exactly how I wanted to because it’s 8am and I don’t sleep much, but hopefully got my thoughts across.
Yeah! So while you equated power/control with sex, I equated passion with love I suppose. Maybe I see the boring couples and wrongly assume there’s no love there. Thanks for identifying walk_on_by, I was scared last night and shan’t contribute much to this thread anymore 😂 If I quote him anymore froggie might be resurrected and stab me
I feel like lots of my posts here and on my former account were low or high-key misogynistic due to my environment that doesn’t reflect the audience on this site at all. I’m gonna work to heal that asap. People on my old account definitely caught on that I was a woman hater and shaded me about it. When I read blind items and shit about Gemini female celebrities like Angelina Jolie they say we tend to hate other women- I wonder if it depends on our introversion level.
Anyway, have a good one nano, I’m a marriagecel at the end of the day 😂
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LOL GIRL ain’t no waaaaaaaaay instant karma was harassing you over Taniwha too. What the fuckkkkkk !!!!!! 🫨🫨🫨🫨😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I don’t fuck with catty women who lay claim to men online. I interact with who I want to, when I want to. And you should do the same! We aren’t 12 anymore.
Don’t go away, stay. I like your posts and I’m sure others do too.
It’s good to be aware of certain behaviors but also take what people say, especially here, with a grain of salt. People are Delulu (thanks @eggroll I’ve been saying that here and irl lol). I’ve been called a feminist monster and a pickmeisha days apart on here recently. I’ve been called whore and also prude. I’ve been called liberal snowflake and also bigoted trump supporter in the very same day. You can’t please everyone and everyone’s always going to have some shit to say. Don’t make yourself smaller or quieter because of it. At the end of the day, we are just another person on the internet with an opinion that doesn’t mean much.click to expand
7 years later still causing havoc 🤣
Posted by virgoOPPP
taxes, insurance, inheritance, protection.
a way of saying i want it known that this is the person i trust to make medical decisions for myself if i cannot; the person i would want by my side if i were sick or dying; this is the person i would want to have my things if i died.
can't imagine anyone else. dude stuck with me throughout my saturn return, paranoia, trust issues, survived my irrational urge to break up with him every month, held my hand throughout multiple funerals, gave me a child.
and i think marriage is absolutely necessary when people have kids. ideally, it's the most stable environment to raise a child. provides a lot of protections for everyone (survivor benefits, power of attorney).
These are the types of answers I originally sought but instead got 11 pages of everything else
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochip
@dragonh0rsecvck I think the post got too long to quote anymore lol. I wanted to reply to the part about sacrificing passion for stability. I dated a lot in my midtwenties, I was going on dates with nice enough men, but realizing that something was missing and it was the passion aspect. I came to the conclusion that you can have this exciting, sexy, turbulent, CHALLENGING (throwing that in there for Taniwha), passionate relationship that usually doesn’t seem to last beyond a few years because it becomes too intense and too tiring. Both of the people can’t seem to handle the energy or know how to fix the issues that keep recurring. And the other option I never tried…. Date the nice, stable dude. Throughout the years, I’ve found these guys kind of unfuckable and boring. Maybe they agree with everything you say or do, so there’s nothing to discuss or exchange ideas and opinions about. Something is just always missing.
The older I get, the second guy seems more appealing in theory because in a way Taniwha was right, challenge gets tiring. That passionate relationship is exhausting and it’s painful. I haven’t ever been able to bring myself to follow through with it because I like the excitement, the challenge, the passion and all the feelings that come with it. Something about the nice, stable dude makes me feel comfort on some level though, like he will be there for me when I give up on finding what I’m looking for (or maybe realizing it doesn’t exist) 🤣 There’s also risk with the nice stable dude potentially because you might end up with a Jonas Hill type 🥸
But the most successful relationships I know are the passionless stable ones though, where they never argue and just get along 99% of the time. I honestly don’t think you can have both in one person. Because what you like about the first is exactly what the second is missing, which happens to be what makes the relationship last in the first place. I didn’t word this exactly how I wanted to because it’s 8am and I don’t sleep much, but hopefully got my thoughts across.
Yeah! So while you equated power/control with sex, I equated passion with love I suppose. Maybe I see the boring couples and wrongly assume there’s no love there. Thanks for identifying walk_on_by, I was scared last night and shan’t contribute much to this thread anymore 😂 If I quote him anymore froggie might be resurrected and stab me
I feel like lots of my posts here and on my former account were low or high-key misogynistic due to my environment that doesn’t reflect the audience on this site at all. I’m gonna work to heal that asap. People on my old account definitely caught on that I was a woman hater and shaded me about it. When I read blind items and shit about Gemini female celebrities like Angelina Jolie they say we tend to hate other women- I wonder if it depends on our introversion level.
Anyway, have a good one nano, I’m a marriagecel at the end of the day 😂
LOL GIRL ain’t no waaaaaaaaay instant karma was harassing you over Taniwha too. What the fuckkkkkk !!!!!! 🫨🫨🫨🫨😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I don’t fuck with catty women who lay claim to men online. I interact with who I want to, when I want to. And you should do the same! We aren’t 12 anymore.
Don’t go away, stay. I like your posts and I’m sure others do too.
It’s good to be aware of certain behaviors but also take what people say, especially here, with a grain of salt. People are Delulu (thanks @eggroll I’ve been saying that here and irl lol). I’ve been called a feminist monster and a pickmeisha days apart on here recently. I’ve been called whore and also prude. I’ve been called liberal snowflake and also bigoted trump supporter in the very same day. You can’t please everyone and everyone’s always going to have some shit to say. Don’t make yourself smaller or quieter because of it. At the end of the day, we are just another person on the internet with an opinion that doesn’t mean much.
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She wasn’t, I just knew she liked him more than anyone else on here. But an experience I think both you and I had with froggie was when I first made the Acsquarepluto account, she had me move to discord (or maybe I was already there bc of cards against humanity) and then she told me that the men privately voted her the prettiest girl on the site and she said to me, “You weren’t even considered, LOL!” I’m like whoa for one I’m new and second I have/had self image issues out the ass, also I’m bi and I think it lessens my jealousy over other women’s looks and replaces it with pure admiration and the desire for them to sell me their nudes. 😂 But as such I trust my ability to evaluate women’s appearance without bias and gauge how I compare, I don’t think I’m delusional in that respect. Yet she was trying to knock me down a peg just in case 😂 it was mean af. Other than that i liked her ok
Remember when you jumped into her truth or dare thread and you asked her if she’d rather let a rotten egg fart rip around Hydorah or Tiziani? I can’t remember the names but I was dying that day 😂😂
As far as this threads topic, I’ll say one more thing: I go to great lengths irl to keep my social and professional environment 100% male or as close to that percentage as possible, even family circles. It’s just what I learned to do and there seems to be less treachery this way… there’s definitely still treachery though.click to expand
Hahahahaha I can remember the truth or dare thread vaguely, but I don’t remember posting that 😅😅 everything else sounds about right. I don’t think the men ever privately voted on most beautiful woman. Even typing that feels cringe and embarrassing. It’s like there was a group of people who just waited for new comers to pull into all their personal baggage, beef, and BS. Some of which caused me to avoid users who actually could have been my friends. Had been involved in quite a lot of drama in the past, some of it against my will, some of it not! But now we are all older and wiser. Hopefully. Because it’s been like 10 years or something lmao.
I can’t remember if we ever discussed this but I got my cosmetology license and worked in the field, maybe 3 different jobs in hair and makeup. It was quickly a big nope for me. They didn’t like my clothing. They didn’t like the way I held my hair dryer. One woman didn’t like that I didn’t stay late after work and do her hair for free. I know all about working in all female-environments. That’s why I decided to go into engineering but also the most male dominated field IN engineering. Now I have peace but also have to deal with lazy coworkers and male confidence/ego. Both of which grates my nerves. It’s still the lesser of 2 evils imo lol.
Posted by Astrobyn
Going on vacation tomorrow, below is a division of task/labor
My List
1. Checking the State Park page every day, to find a cancellation to an impossible to get Beach Camp site.
2. Makes List of activities/events/restaurants that are dog friendly
3. Take dog to Pet store to be fitted for a harness, to have better control, after he complains about other people’s dogs fucking with his dog.
4. Find and schedule House sitter.
5. Makes a camping checklist.
6. Purchases additional camping gear.
7. Organize and pack camp gear.
8. Create camp daily menu and grocery list.
9. Buy groceries.
10. Prep Meals (Marinate, Chop, portion)
11. Organize and pack groceries.
12. Pack Kids clothes, toys and beach gear.
13. Pack, Games, Puzzles, Art Supplies
14. Charge all Electronics & check batteries in all lights
15. Load Ice Chest
16. Pick up house before leaving.
Shit he's gonna do
1. Get Ice
2. Load Truck
Did he divide the assignments or did you just take it on yourself bc "otherwise it won't be done"? If you were seperated and he had the kid and was going on vacation, you don't think he would manage to pack for the occassion? What part do you play here really?
This reminds me of when women complain of men not helping around the house, which usually means "you should drop everything and do vacuum cleaning today because I feel it should be done today!" 🙄
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by Eggroll
Me trying to figure out what froggie and taniwha means.
Blue Froggie/Instant Karma was a Gem with Leo Moon who was posing as a Gem with Taurus Moon. She faked a lot of things about herself on here...even her voice if I recall...
As it turns out, taniwha also refers to a supernatural being in Maori Mythology (New Zealand). Kinda cool.click to expand
I'm just trying to wrap my head around the idea of a person faking an astrological placement (that isn't the Sun sign) 🤣
Posted by Eggroll
Me trying to figure out what froggie and taniwha means.
Taniwha was his old name, now he’s walk_on_by
Posted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochip
@dragonh0rsecvck I think the post got too long to quote anymore lol. I wanted to reply to the part about sacrificing passion for stability. I dated a lot in my midtwenties, I was going on dates with nice enough men, but realizing that something was missing and it was the passion aspect. I came to the conclusion that you can have this exciting, sexy, turbulent, CHALLENGING (throwing that in there for Taniwha), passionate relationship that usually doesn’t seem to last beyond a few years because it becomes too intense and too tiring. Both of the people can’t seem to handle the energy or know how to fix the issues that keep recurring. And the other option I never tried…. Date the nice, stable dude. Throughout the years, I’ve found these guys kind of unfuckable and boring. Maybe they agree with everything you say or do, so there’s nothing to discuss or exchange ideas and opinions about. Something is just always missing.
The older I get, the second guy seems more appealing in theory because in a way Taniwha was right, challenge gets tiring. That passionate relationship is exhausting and it’s painful. I haven’t ever been able to bring myself to follow through with it because I like the excitement, the challenge, the passion and all the feelings that come with it. Something about the nice, stable dude makes me feel comfort on some level though, like he will be there for me when I give up on finding what I’m looking for (or maybe realizing it doesn’t exist) 🤣 There’s also risk with the nice stable dude potentially because you might end up with a Jonas Hill type 🥸
But the most successful relationships I know are the passionless stable ones though, where they never argue and just get along 99% of the time. I honestly don’t think you can have both in one person. Because what you like about the first is exactly what the second is missing, which happens to be what makes the relationship last in the first place. I didn’t word this exactly how I wanted to because it’s 8am and I don’t sleep much, but hopefully got my thoughts across.
Yeah! So while you equated power/control with sex, I equated passion with love I suppose. Maybe I see the boring couples and wrongly assume there’s no love there. Thanks for identifying walk_on_by, I was scared last night and shan’t contribute much to this thread anymore 😂 If I quote him anymore froggie might be resurrected and stab me
I feel like lots of my posts here and on my former account were low or high-key misogynistic due to my environment that doesn’t reflect the audience on this site at all. I’m gonna work to heal that asap. People on my old account definitely caught on that I was a woman hater and shaded me about it. When I read blind items and shit about Gemini female celebrities like Angelina Jolie they say we tend to hate other women- I wonder if it depends on our introversion level.
Anyway, have a good one nano, I’m a marriagecel at the end of the day 😂
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LOL GIRL ain’t no waaaaaaaaay instant karma was harassing you over Taniwha too. What the fuckkkkkk !!!!!! 🫨🫨🫨🫨😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I don’t fuck with catty women who lay claim to men online. I interact with who I want to, when I want to. And you should do the same! We aren’t 12 anymore.
Don’t go away, stay. I like your posts and I’m sure others do too.
It’s good to be aware of certain behaviors but also take what people say, especially here, with a grain of salt. People are Delulu (thanks @eggroll I’ve been saying that here and irl lol). I’ve been called a feminist monster and a pickmeisha days apart on here recently. I’ve been called whore and also prude. I’ve been called liberal snowflake and also bigoted trump supporter in the very same day. You can’t please everyone and everyone’s always going to have some shit to say. Don’t make yourself smaller or quieter because of it. At the end of the day, we are just another person on the internet with an opinion that doesn’t mean much.click to expand
We don't talk about froggiegate
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by Eggroll
Me trying to figure out what froggie and taniwha means.
Blue Froggie/Instant Karma was a Gem with Leo Moon who was posing as a Gem with Taurus Moon. She faked a lot of things about herself on here...even her voice if I recall...
As it turns out, taniwha also refers to a supernatural being in Maori Mythology (New Zealand). Kinda cool.click to expand
She told me she had no birthdate because she was born during a civil war and fled the country and just made it up because she felt like she was a Gemini/Taurus or Leo whatever she claimed…… who freaking knows.
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Astrobyn
Going on vacation tomorrow, below is a division of task/labor
My List
1. Checking the State Park page every day, to find a cancellation to an impossible to get Beach Camp site.
2. Makes List of activities/events/restaurants that are dog friendly
3. Take dog to Pet store to be fitted for a harness, to have better control, after he complains about other people’s dogs fucking with his dog.
4. Find and schedule House sitter.
5. Makes a camping checklist.
6. Purchases additional camping gear.
7. Organize and pack camp gear.
8. Create camp daily menu and grocery list.
9. Buy groceries.
10. Prep Meals (Marinate, Chop, portion)
11. Organize and pack groceries.
12. Pack Kids clothes, toys and beach gear.
13. Pack, Games, Puzzles, Art Supplies
14. Charge all Electronics & check batteries in all lights
15. Load Ice Chest
16. Pick up house before leaving.
Shit he's gonna do
1. Get Ice
2. Load Truck
Did he divide the assignments or did you just take it on yourself bc "otherwise it won't be done"? If you were seperated and he had the kid and was going on vacation, you don't think he would manage to pack for the occassion? What part do you play here really?
This reminds me of when women complain of men not helping around the house, which usually means "you should drop everything and do vacuum cleaning today because I feel it should be done today!" 🙄click to expand
He is capable of doing all these things, in fact we just had a conversation 2 mins ago where he said "when are we going again? oh tomorrow, So I guess we need to get everything organized tonight then" But it is already done, because all of these things can be done in one night.
And because I know he will not do the vacuuming today, or anytime in the next two weeks. We hire a cleaning person, so I don't resent him, and stab him in his sleep.
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochip
@dragonh0rsecvck I think the post got too long to quote anymore lol. I wanted to reply to the part about sacrificing passion for stability. I dated a lot in my midtwenties, I was going on dates with nice enough men, but realizing that something was missing and it was the passion aspect. I came to the conclusion that you can have this exciting, sexy, turbulent, CHALLENGING (throwing that in there for Taniwha), passionate relationship that usually doesn’t seem to last beyond a few years because it becomes too intense and too tiring. Both of the people can’t seem to handle the energy or know how to fix the issues that keep recurring. And the other option I never tried…. Date the nice, stable dude. Throughout the years, I’ve found these guys kind of unfuckable and boring. Maybe they agree with everything you say or do, so there’s nothing to discuss or exchange ideas and opinions about. Something is just always missing.
The older I get, the second guy seems more appealing in theory because in a way Taniwha was right, challenge gets tiring. That passionate relationship is exhausting and it’s painful. I haven’t ever been able to bring myself to follow through with it because I like the excitement, the challenge, the passion and all the feelings that come with it. Something about the nice, stable dude makes me feel comfort on some level though, like he will be there for me when I give up on finding what I’m looking for (or maybe realizing it doesn’t exist) 🤣 There’s also risk with the nice stable dude potentially because you might end up with a Jonas Hill type 🥸
But the most successful relationships I know are the passionless stable ones though, where they never argue and just get along 99% of the time. I honestly don’t think you can have both in one person. Because what you like about the first is exactly what the second is missing, which happens to be what makes the relationship last in the first place. I didn’t word this exactly how I wanted to because it’s 8am and I don’t sleep much, but hopefully got my thoughts across.
Yeah! So while you equated power/control with sex, I equated passion with love I suppose. Maybe I see the boring couples and wrongly assume there’s no love there. Thanks for identifying walk_on_by, I was scared last night and shan’t contribute much to this thread anymore 😂 If I quote him anymore froggie might be resurrected and stab me
I feel like lots of my posts here and on my former account were low or high-key misogynistic due to my environment that doesn’t reflect the audience on this site at all. I’m gonna work to heal that asap. People on my old account definitely caught on that I was a woman hater and shaded me about it. When I read blind items and shit about Gemini female celebrities like Angelina Jolie they say we tend to hate other women- I wonder if it depends on our introversion level.
Anyway, have a good one nano, I’m a marriagecel at the end of the day 😂
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LOL GIRL ain’t no waaaaaaaaay instant karma was harassing you over Taniwha too. What the fuckkkkkk !!!!!! 🫨🫨🫨🫨😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I don’t fuck with catty women who lay claim to men online. I interact with who I want to, when I want to. And you should do the same! We aren’t 12 anymore.
Don’t go away, stay. I like your posts and I’m sure others do too.
It’s good to be aware of certain behaviors but also take what people say, especially here, with a grain of salt. People are Delulu (thanks @eggroll I’ve been saying that here and irl lol). I’ve been called a feminist monster and a pickmeisha days apart on here recently. I’ve been called whore and also prude. I’ve been called liberal snowflake and also bigoted trump supporter in the very same day. You can’t please everyone and everyone’s always going to have some shit to say. Don’t make yourself smaller or quieter because of it. At the end of the day, we are just another person on the internet with an opinion that doesn’t mean much.
We don't talk about froggiegateclick to expand
Did you get poonanny pix?
And more importantly, please confirm that the men of dxp did or did not have a private meeting to deem her most beautiful user
Posted by nanochipPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by nanochipPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by nanochip
@dragonh0rsecvck I think the post got too long to quote anymore lol. I wanted to reply to the part about sacrificing passion for stability. I dated a lot in my midtwenties, I was going on dates with nice enough men, but realizing that something was missing and it was the passion aspect. I came to the conclusion that you can have this exciting, sexy, turbulent, CHALLENGING (throwing that in there for Taniwha), passionate relationship that usually doesn’t seem to last beyond a few years because it becomes too intense and too tiring. Both of the people can’t seem to handle the energy or know how to fix the issues that keep recurring. And the other option I never tried…. Date the nice, stable dude. Throughout the years, I’ve found these guys kind of unfuckable and boring. Maybe they agree with everything you say or do, so there’s nothing to discuss or exchange ideas and opinions about. Something is just always missing.
The older I get, the second guy seems more appealing in theory because in a way Taniwha was right, challenge gets tiring. That passionate relationship is exhausting and it’s painful. I haven’t ever been able to bring myself to follow through with it because I like the excitement, the challenge, the passion and all the feelings that come with it. Something about the nice, stable dude makes me feel comfort on some level though, like he will be there for me when I give up on finding what I’m looking for (or maybe realizing it doesn’t exist) 🤣 There’s also risk with the nice stable dude potentially because you might end up with a Jonas Hill type 🥸
But the most successful relationships I know are the passionless stable ones though, where they never argue and just get along 99% of the time. I honestly don’t think you can have both in one person. Because what you like about the first is exactly what the second is missing, which happens to be what makes the relationship last in the first place. I didn’t word this exactly how I wanted to because it’s 8am and I don’t sleep much, but hopefully got my thoughts across.
Yeah! So while you equated power/control with sex, I equated passion with love I suppose. Maybe I see the boring couples and wrongly assume there’s no love there. Thanks for identifying walk_on_by, I was scared last night and shan’t contribute much to this thread anymore 😂 If I quote him anymore froggie might be resurrected and stab me
I feel like lots of my posts here and on my former account were low or high-key misogynistic due to my environment that doesn’t reflect the audience on this site at all. I’m gonna work to heal that asap. People on my old account definitely caught on that I was a woman hater and shaded me about it. When I read blind items and shit about Gemini female celebrities like Angelina Jolie they say we tend to hate other women- I wonder if it depends on our introversion level.
Anyway, have a good one nano, I’m a marriagecel at the end of the day 😂
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LOL GIRL ain’t no waaaaaaaaay instant karma was harassing you over Taniwha too. What the fuckkkkkk !!!!!! 🫨🫨🫨🫨😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I don’t fuck with catty women who lay claim to men online. I interact with who I want to, when I want to. And you should do the same! We aren’t 12 anymore.
Don’t go away, stay. I like your posts and I’m sure others do too.
It’s good to be aware of certain behaviors but also take what people say, especially here, with a grain of salt. People are Delulu (thanks @eggroll I’ve been saying that here and irl lol). I’ve been called a feminist monster and a pickmeisha days apart on here recently. I’ve been called whore and also prude. I’ve been called liberal snowflake and also bigoted trump supporter in the very same day. You can’t please everyone and everyone’s always going to have some shit to say. Don’t make yourself smaller or quieter because of it. At the end of the day, we are just another person on the internet with an opinion that doesn’t mean much.
We don't talk about froggiegate
Did you get poonanny pix?
And more importantly, please confirm that the men of dxp did or did not have a private meeting to deem her most beautiful userclick to expand
Sometimes I double take when I see a woman from the sub continent just incase I have to run
Posted by Astrobyn
Going on vacation tomorrow, below is a division of task/labor
My List
1. Checking the State Park page every day, to find a cancellation to an impossible to get Beach Camp site.
2. Makes List of activities/events/restaurants that are dog friendly
3. Take dog to Pet store to be fitted for a harness, to have better control, after he complains about other people’s dogs fucking with his dog.
4. Find and schedule House sitter.
5. Makes a camping checklist.
6. Purchases additional camping gear.
7. Organize and pack camp gear.
8. Create camp daily menu and grocery list.
9. Buy groceries.
10. Prep Meals (Marinate, Chop, portion)
11. Organize and pack groceries.
12. Pack Kids clothes, toys and beach gear.
13. Pack, Games, Puzzles, Art Supplies
14. Charge all Electronics & check batteries in all lights
15. Load Ice Chest
16. Pick up house before leaving.
Shit he's gonna do
1. Get Ice
2. Load Truck
All that and I bet the kids don't like your boring activity list and games and have the most fun doing some random shit he decides to do 🤣
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by poppyflowerPosted by EggrollBlue Froggie/Instant Karma was a Gem with Leo Moon who was posing as a Gem with Taurus Moon. She faked a lot of things about herself on here...even her voice if I recall...
Me trying to figure out what froggie and taniwha means.
As it turns out, taniwha also refers to a supernatural being in Maori Mythology (New Zealand). Kinda cool.
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I'm just trying to wrap my head around the idea of a person faking an astrological placement (that isn't the Sun sign) 🤣click to expand
Scorpio Moon too. I thought she was actually Dazed for a while
Posted by cerseiPosted by cerseiPosted by nanochipNow THATS a bit too much. Sounds like a new world orderPosted by __ixi__
I wonder what kind of beliefs does a person have to hold in order to feel threatened by feminism? I am genuinely curious.
The best I got is that the kind of guy who might feel threatened by the kind of world that is not as gender-defined fits a certain mold, picture this: They like the world being a certain way, like those old black-and-white movies where the men wear the suits, smoke the big cigars, and run the show. They are comfortable for several reasons being in a world where men and women have clear, distinct roles, and they don't have to question their own privileges, prejudices, or feelings.
Throw in newer concepts of inclusivity and intersectionalism and it's like you're asking him to watch a movie in 3D after a lifetime of 2D. Suddenly, there are layers and dimensions he's not used to dealing with, and it understandably could leave them wondering "Why are the rules changing? What does this mean for me?" It's like someone just told him their comfortable armchair is being replaced with an exercise ball. It might be better for his posture, but boy, is it going to feel different at first! It's that fear of change and the unknown that's really causing the discomfort.
Ixi, this is probably a post for another topic, but I’m thinking about what you said about men feeling threatened by a world without gender definition. I’ve spoken with quite a few Gen z recently at work and on an anonymous posting group that I’m apart of. We know that the world is changing in terms of how gender is viewed, and talking to gen z’ers it was interesting to hear what they had to say. I don’t know if these are the beliefs of radicals or not. But I was told by 2-3 in separate scenarios, that the goal would be to ultimately have so much gender ambiguity and lack of sexual dimorphism, that gender roles would crumble completely. The dumbed down version of my understanding, would be you literally could not tell who was a male or who was a female and thus the gender roles would cease to exist. That seems a little bit extreme, because many people are traditionally biologically attracted to the opposite gender for their masculine/feminine traits. I know you work in a school - not sure their ages - but have you heard about this? What do you think?
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That’s why gen Z scares me because they take things to extremes
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Omg it turned 11:11 when I posted this 😨
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I finished a 11:11 video at 11:11 yesterday
Posted by AstrobynPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Astrobyn
Going on vacation tomorrow, below is a division of task/labor
My List
1. Checking the State Park page every day, to find a cancellation to an impossible to get Beach Camp site.
2. Makes List of activities/events/restaurants that are dog friendly
3. Take dog to Pet store to be fitted for a harness, to have better control, after he complains about other people’s dogs fucking with his dog.
4. Find and schedule House sitter.
5. Makes a camping checklist.
6. Purchases additional camping gear.
7. Organize and pack camp gear.
8. Create camp daily menu and grocery list.
9. Buy groceries.
10. Prep Meals (Marinate, Chop, portion)
11. Organize and pack groceries.
12. Pack Kids clothes, toys and beach gear.
13. Pack, Games, Puzzles, Art Supplies
14. Charge all Electronics & check batteries in all lights
15. Load Ice Chest
16. Pick up house before leaving.
Shit he's gonna do
1. Get Ice
2. Load Truck
Did he divide the assignments or did you just take it on yourself bc "otherwise it won't be done"? If you were seperated and he had the kid and was going on vacation, you don't think he would manage to pack for the occassion? What part do you play here really?
This reminds me of when women complain of men not helping around the house, which usually means "you should drop everything and do vacuum cleaning today because I feel it should be done today!" 🙄
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He is capable of doing all these things, in fact we just had a conversation 2 mins ago where he said "when are we going again? oh tomorrow, So I guess we need to get everything organized tonight then" But it is already done, because all of these things can be done in one night.
And because I know he will not do the vacuuming today, or anytime in the next two weeks. We hire a cleaning person, so I don't resent him, and stab him in his sleep.
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So he didn't vacuum more than once or twice a month while he was single either?
Congratz on the family bliss. Ohh i remember when Robyn was a brooding goth Taurus (or that how I saw it) and now she's living the Stepford life picking up shit after her husband 😬
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