No contact for a week, should I call him?

I lost contact with this guy i met online i was getting to know, back in October. I know it will sound bad but i think he was waiting on a call from me then. Life got in the way, work/family etc etc.. but he didnt reach out again either . Forward three months (january 1st)and i thought i would give him a call. I sent a message aswell saying im sorry for the lack of contact, explaining i was busy and if he wants to resume contact id be fine with that.

He replied with "i see".

I just asked what hes been upto and he said hes been busy working and will go away on holiday soon.

I told him my friend tried to set me up with someone but i wasnt interested.

He just straight up then asked me if i liked him and if hes my type. I said sometimes i like him sometimes i dont. ...and then he said he feels like a sandwich. That text exchange ended middle of January. Then a few weeks went by where no one said a word. I assumed he was busy maybe packing for his holiday. I then decide to reach out middle of February, whilst he was on holiday i just asked how he is and got no response.

I thought forget this and decided to block him for a few weeks. I unblocked thinking i was being silly then another month went by n i decided to call him on the 24th march, he missed the call but did call back later (which i missed) and messaged aswell saying he thought i deleted his number and i asked why he would think that. To which he replied he messaged me but i didnt respond. I said i didnt receive anything. ( i assume must have been the time i blocked him) .

We finally ended up speaking about a week ago now, it was a two and a half hour conversation. He seemed quite happy that we were finally speaking after so long. Although He kept repeating how i didnt reply to his messages and how comes i decided to contact him after months. I just said it seemed mutual and that we drifted but i think he was implying it was more from my end and that i left him. He said if you found someone and it didnt work out and then you came back to me its fine just let me know. I just said there was no one else, but i guess that is what he assumed. And then he kept saying im cool and unique and an interesting person. Rest of the time he was asking me a multitude of questions about what ive been doing the last couple of months and where have i been. I kind of replied vaguely though i just said times flown by.

We carried on speaking for another half hour. He asked lots of other questions personal and general. It felt like an interview. He asked about my family, and work life, what my plans are in the near future, told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me. Personal question wise he asked about sexual experiences and dating experiences. So as you can see we talked about pretty much everything.

Ill be honest though although i was trying my best to open upto him, i think it was him doing most of the talking and answering/asking questions. I think i just felt shy/awkward since i hadnt spoken to him in a while.



Right at the end he asked if i want to see him/meet up, i said i dont mind, and then he said you make it sound like im an option. To which i replied everyone is an option. He said i guess you could say that.

Eventually he said he had to go, so he cut the conversation short. And was like wow weve been speaking for nearly 3 hours.

That was on Sunday, its now been a week and have not heard since. Either by text or call.

So my question is what now. Should i call again? Even though i was the one who called last?

Continued: What should i do guys 😳😪. Ok i know i haven't been straight up with him fully and have been giving him the run around a bit. Now i just thought let me check his dating profile out of curiosity and ive seen hes changed his pic to one he sent me in january. But i didnt even look at his profile on the app since last year 😳. So i dont know the timing of the photo change could have been anytime.

I don't know what to do now. I did ask him during our two hour convo if hes chatted to anyone on the app he said no, hes been busy doing up his house and busy working 🤔. So didn't mention anyone else. But kept going on about how may be i went off and found someone and came back to him. 🤔 since i didnt speak to him for a month and a bit

What should i do seriously. On the phone he obviously ended the convo with asking me to meet him, and me being a plonker and being like yeh i dont mind and then him thinking he's an option.



i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app.

He is probably just talking more cause he's in self isolation and has nothing better to do.

Besides that I think you are over thinking this and you are trying to hard to make something from nothing.

He also already sounds manipulative to me and putting the blame on you when he could have reached out to you too. I hate that shit.

You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!

When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!

You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!

Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!

Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!

"told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me"

I would have told him...how about I make you a fuck off sandwich?!

Anyway, as someone who is oblivious and aloof themselves...even I can see you play too much.

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

sounds like the dude is catching feelings lmao

but you shouldn't have blocked him, what was that all about. he didn't do nuffin

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

haven’t you created a thread about this at least 3X

Aren’t you the same woman who posted about the cap doctor, who you block and unblock cause he’s not giving you the attention you are looking for?

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

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Right! I'm bewildered at the cluster of thirsty birds flying around. I'm starting to see why men will play women like a fiddle; because they play themselves. They put so much out so soon, get attached too early, start acting insecure and dramatic and over WHAT exactly?!?! 🤔 This shit is unreal and damn near exhausting 🤦

"i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app."

It doesn't really matter at this point if he is. You all aint dating. Hell, you can't even keep up a text/phone communication.

Just enjoy the chats and let what will be, be.

Whaaaat air signs love mental gymnastics

""Sometimes I like you and sometimes I don't....."

😆

Obsessed with the guy since.

No you should definitely not call him.

A guy that wants you in his life, will remain in your life daily trying to be part of it.

Don’t call him.

Posted by SeaLion

He is probably just talking more cause he's in self isolation and has nothing better to do.

Besides that I think you are over thinking this and you are trying to hard to make something from nothing.

He also already sounds manipulative to me and putting the blame on you when he could have reached out to you too. I hate that shit.

Hes a key worker so hes at work majority of the time

When he kept repeatedly saying he hadnt heard from me in months. And i said it was mutual multiple times, he didnt say anything to that

Posted by Arielle83

Are you seriously a real person?

Just as real as you love.

Posted by Clair_de_Lune

Seriously, chill. You met back in Oct, no one made a move till Jan, once in Feb, then blocked him to almost the end of March. You then lead him with you sometimes like him and you sometimes dont. Then treated him like an option when you did give a chance and you're freakin because he hasn't responded in a week?

Leave him be, if hes still interested he'll reach back unless thinking you probably blocked him again. Go do your own thing

Yeh i have left it now.

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Posted by molly94

Continued: What should i do guys 😳😪. Ok i know i haven't been straight up with him fully and have been giving him the run around a bit. Now i just thought let me check his dating profile out of curiosity and ive seen hes changed his pic to one he sent me in january. But i didnt even look at his profile on the app since last year 😳. So i dont know the timing of the photo change could have been anytime.

I don't know what to do now. I did ask him during our two hour convo if hes chatted to anyone on the app he said no, hes been busy doing up his house and busy working 🤔. So didn't mention anyone else. But kept going on about how may be i went off and found someone and came back to him. 🤔 since i didnt speak to him for a month and a bit

What should i do seriously. On the phone he obviously ended the convo with asking me to meet him, and me being a plonker and being like yeh i dont mind and then him thinking he's an option.



i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app.

you played yourself, donkey.

lmfao at the self-sabotage.

what is your sign? *notawatersignplease*

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Im a virgo.

My moon sign is scorpio

Posted by _mudra

Lol act more interested. Be more engaged.

Duh.

id think at the very least me initiating contact would show enough. But apparently not

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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.

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how does that make any sense you snake.

The reason why we lost touch in the first place is because he said he didnt want to be just a pen pal. I didnt mame enough effort.

Posted by PiscesGal76

You do give him the runaround and you are treating him as an option!

When he asks to go out, you react like...meh... how would you feel if you would be the one asking someone out n get a ... meh... response? I bet you wouldnt like it!

You know, asking a woman out is just as scary for a man, as it would be for a woman. He finally has the guts to ask you out and you reply with a ...meh... response. How awkward!!

Seriously, make your mind up! Do you like him enough to procede to actual dating and see where it can lead to or do you already know it should stay in the friendship zone? If you already know, do yourself and him a favor and tell him. He obviously likes you enough to ask you out and he tried to see where it can lead to but you are very indifferent and give... meh... responses. Ofcourse he'll say things like you are treating him like an option. Cause you are doing exactly that!

Make your mind up and stop with the headgames!

Well the way he asked was not massively assertive, it sounded more like a friend asking to hang out. We were in the middle of talking about some thing else completely and he just randomly put that in there. Like oh btw do you want to meet me. So then i paused for a bit as he caught me off guard..and then replied with i dont mind.

If i friendzoned him, there's no way i would initiate contact with him at all.

But i suppose initiating isnt enough he needs me to tell him maybe that im interested. Which i admit i have failed on doing so

Posted by bmoon8

What do you want from this guy?

Funnily enough. He asked me that once a long time ago. I cant remember what my answer was though.

I just want to find out more about him and see where things go.

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.

Ya it’s typical.

Did you read the capricorn sexting one?

ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄

i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.

One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.

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Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!

Posted by LostinmyMind11

"told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me"

I would have told him...how about I make you a fuck off sandwich?!

Anyway, as someone who is oblivious and aloof themselves...even I can see you play too much.

LOL i think its one of his potential wife questions 🤔.

Because when i told him some of the things i can cook, he replied with, well even i can make that 😂

Posted by Raakac

You're dramatic and passive agressive . You blocked him and then unblocked him, that's really immature along all other thingz. The question isnt what should you do, but What decent man would want woman like that?

How about improve yourself in some way so when a decent man sees you you're worth of him and not doing this bs.

You told him he's an option even tho you were the one doing bullshit before, that makes you an option , not him. He's treating you to good for what you are.

It's women like you that end up complaining that there are no good men left, because they all don't deal with your bs and they find someone decent.

Im not dramatic actually. I think that's the last word he would use to describe be. I blocked him with the intent to not speak again, but realised i maybe shouldnt have and soon enough unblocked him.

I messaged while he was abroad, and i get that when someone is away theyre not goimg to always have time to respond. But i saw him online for a couple of days on n off. So he obviously had time to respond to everyone else.

Anyway according to him he messaged me and i didnt respond im only assuming it was when he was blocked tht he decided to reply. I didnt receive a single message from him. So he kept sayimg on our last conversation he thought i had deleted his number. But i didnt tell him i blocked him or go in to all that.

And then he said he assumed id found someone else in that time. I said no but he kept saying the same thing. If i found someone else its fine and it happens. I just had to keep saying there was no one else

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Posted by molly94

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.

Ya it’s typical.

Did you read the capricorn sexting one?

ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄

i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.

One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.

Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!

Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL

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Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

You know what maybe you're right

But i also believe hes got a huge ego and tonnes of pride.

Posted by besarlalluvia

sounds like the dude is catching feelings lmao

but you shouldn't have blocked him, what was that all about. he didn't do nuffin

He didnt reply to last two messages so i assumed he wasnt bothered anymore.

Then i realised i was too hasty.

Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

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This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

Posted by CreativeCap

haven’t you created a thread about this at least 3X

Aren’t you the same woman who posted about the cap doctor, who you block and unblock cause he’s not giving you the attention you are looking for?

nope i dont know any cap doctor.

So not me sorry!!

Posted by LadyNeptune

"i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app."

It doesn't really matter at this point if he is. You all aint dating. Hell, you can't even keep up a text/phone communication.

Just enjoy the chats and let what will be, be.

Yeh i agree. Im so bored of it all.

Posted by LadyNeptune

"i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app."

It doesn't really matter at this point if he is. You all aint dating. Hell, you can't even keep up a text/phone communication.

Just enjoy the chats and let what will be, be.

As much as i am surprisingly interested in the guy. Just gonna have to let it play out

Posted by molly94

Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

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Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.

You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.

I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.

He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

These are so great. It’s like I was looking in a mirror. I need to do better 🥺

What’s high vibrational? Do you have a list for comparison?

Posted by 7thHouse

Oh he hasn't responded to my messages for 446 hours, 35 minutes and 2 seconds. Why? I called him. I said these things, did I do something wrong? Is he playing me? I have options you know. But I really think we have a connection. He's just not seeing it yet because he's not responding. Should I apologise for not texting him? Should I give him a call when he hasn't responded in like 2 hours? Because last time, I talked to him for like 2 hours, 30 minutes and 2 seconds and he seemed fine.

😂 #tendingnow

It always gets interesting once you see they don’t give a shit either lol.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.

Ya it’s typical.

Did you read the capricorn sexting one?

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which one is that?

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by molly94

Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.

You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.

I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.

He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.

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I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁

Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before

He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.

Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂

Posted by molly94

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by molly94

Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.

You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.

I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.

He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.

I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁

Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before

He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.

Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂

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If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.

Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.

I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by molly94

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by molly94

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by NemDeux

Posted by Arielle83

Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.

Ya it’s typical.

Did you read the capricorn sexting one?

ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄

i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.

One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.

Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!

Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL

Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!

If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol

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I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by 7thHouse

Oh he hasn't responded to my messages for 446 hours, 35 minutes and 2 seconds. Why? I called him. I said these things, did I do something wrong? Is he playing me? I have options you know. But I really think we have a connection. He's just not seeing it yet because he's not responding. Should I apologise for not texting him? Should I give him a call when he hasn't responded in like 2 hours? Because last time, I talked to him for like 2 hours, 30 minutes and 2 seconds and he seemed fine.

😂 #tendingnow

It always gets interesting once you see they don’t give a shit either lol.

That's actually caring so much for saying they don't care about it. It gets annoying.

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This is the thrill of the chase for me! I love the challenge. This is when a man actually gets interesting. When he gives no fucks about me and then I can chase him down and see if I can change his mind.

I like working for things and taking my time.

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You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.

You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.

I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.

He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.

I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁

Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before

He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.

Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂

If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.

Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.

I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅

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Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂

Have you lost anyone because of being that way?

Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious

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"i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app."

It doesn't really matter at this point if he is. You all aint dating. Hell, you can't even keep up a text/phone communication.

Just enjoy the chats and let what will be, be.

As much as i am surprisingly interested in the guy. Just gonna have to let it play out

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Are you interested?

Or are you just reaching out cause quarantine has got you bored...ijs

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You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.

You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.

I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.

He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.

I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁

Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before

He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.

Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂

If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.

Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.

I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅

Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂

Have you lost anyone because of being that way?

Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious

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Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣

I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.

But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝

Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.

I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.

If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.

I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.

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Oh he hasn't responded to my messages for 446 hours, 35 minutes and 2 seconds. Why? I called him. I said these things, did I do something wrong? Is he playing me? I have options you know. But I really think we have a connection. He's just not seeing it yet because he's not responding. Should I apologise for not texting him? Should I give him a call when he hasn't responded in like 2 hours? Because last time, I talked to him for like 2 hours, 30 minutes and 2 seconds and he seemed fine.

😂 #tendingnow

It always gets interesting once you see they don’t give a shit either lol.

That's actually caring so much for saying they don't care about it. It gets annoying.

This is the thrill of the chase for me! I love the challenge. This is when a man actually gets interesting. When he gives no fucks about me and then I can chase him down and see if I can change his mind.

I like working for things and taking my time.

But.... It could prolly be the reason why it didn't work out for you with the recent guys you talked about on here. Yes, I understand the thrill of the chase. But for someone who wants a relationship, I don't think they would waste time doing this. Unless you're only interested in games, like of course. It's amazing. Not only that, but the guys have feelings too and you will be wasting their time not just yours.

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I’ve only been dating 2 Virgos. 1 for a year and a half, who I’m still dating and the other one lasted 9 months, but it was over once quarantine happened.

A Leo came back but it was right when the quarantine happened, so I think it was just for attention and I’m not that bored with life to shoot rays of sunshine up someone’s ass without them giving me attention as well. I refuse to chase a man. It needs to be equal.

I don’t date much at all. Once this is over, I’m gonna get back out there.

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Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.

Ya it’s typical.

Did you read the capricorn sexting one?

ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄

i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.

One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.

Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!

Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL

Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!

If you got options then why are you so bothered that he's not reaching out? Don't you have better things to do? And check out all the other posts in here of women similar to you. They aren't in a proper relationship. Always asking why the man isn't texting, isn't calling, isn't making an effort. That will answer your question. It's not just "my world" lol and FYI. I've already graduated from dating lololololol who do you think you are? God's gift to men? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lol

I didnt say all women in the world who are of that nature are with guys. But there are a lot of women who operate this way who are in relationships!!!!. And usually the guy ends up fulfilling all their needs.

You actually seem young. So I guess I should be more understanding of your immaturity. Dating is not finding a man who fulfill their needs. You have to fulfill your needs on your own. You don't seem to know what you want and yet you expect him to know what you want. You are vague like many mentioned and yet you come here asking why he hasn't responded. Why are you wasting your time doing that? Most people in matured relationships don't do clingy because there has to be respect for independence and freedom while still maintaining good communication. In other words, the one you re asking about is not interested because you've been initiating. At first it was more like you left on your own so you came back in your own. But if he was excited that you're back, he would've made more effort. But he can't be blamed because of things you said as well. You're masking your neediness with "I'm too good for you" vibe. Why would you do that? And if he's looking for a serious relationship, you won't be part of the list anymore because of the things you say. You have no right to test him either by being wishy washy. Who are you? And then you ask why he's being the way he is. You have to ask yourself. And stop pretending that you got options because you are already wasting enough time here asking about a guy you consider as an option.

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If it was the other way round and i hadnt heard from a guy in three months, i doubt id respond at all. So at least he is responding. And spending hours on the phone to me.

And as i already mentioned when i did reach out to him in january he did ask me straight if i like him, if hes my type, if i want him, strsight3 up questions. And i admit i didnt reply with yes yes and yes.

I do have options. But im very fussy as well i dont go for just anyone. I mean there was another guy i was speaking to not that long ago who did continually message me and is even doing so now, but i dont see him as a feasible option.

And youre right i am young. Well mid twenties

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"i dont know what to do. If hes speaking to other people even if he said he isnt and didnt mention anyone hes still on that dating app."

It doesn't really matter at this point if he is. You all aint dating. Hell, you can't even keep up a text/phone communication.

Just enjoy the chats and let what will be, be.

As much as i am surprisingly interested in the guy. Just gonna have to let it play out

Are you interested?

Or are you just reaching out cause quarantine has got you bored...ijs

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Im actually interested in him. Im not the type to just speak to someone because im bored

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Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.

You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.

I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.

He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.

I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁

Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before

He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.

Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂

If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.

Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.

I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅

Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂

Have you lost anyone because of being that way?

Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious

Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣

I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.

But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝

Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.

I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.

If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.

I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.

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Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.

Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.

Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.

One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂

And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂

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I lost contact with this guy i met online i was getting to know, back in October. I know it will sound bad but i think he was waiting on a call from me then. Life got in the way, work/family etc etc.. but he didnt reach out again either . Forward three months (january 1st)and i thought i would give him a call. I sent a message aswell saying im sorry for the lack of contact, explaining i was busy and if he wants to resume contact id be fine with that.

He replied with "i see".

I just asked what hes been upto and he said hes been busy working and will go away on holiday soon.

I told him my friend tried to set me up with someone but i wasnt interested.

He just straight up then asked me if i liked him and if hes my type. I said sometimes i like him sometimes i dont. ...and then he said he feels like a sandwich. That text exchange ended middle of January. Then a few weeks went by where no one said a word. I assumed he was busy maybe packing for his holiday. I then decide to reach out middle of February, whilst he was on holiday i just asked how he is and got no response.

I thought forget this and decided to block him for a few weeks. I unblocked thinking i was being silly then another month went by n i decided to call him on the 24th march, he missed the call but did call back later (which i missed) and messaged aswell saying he thought i deleted his number and i asked why he would think that. To which he replied he messaged me but i didnt respond. I said i didnt receive anything. ( i assume must have been the time i blocked him) .

We finally ended up speaking about a week ago now, it was a two and a half hour conversation. He seemed quite happy that we were finally speaking after so long. Although He kept repeating how i didnt reply to his messages and how comes i decided to contact him after months. I just said it seemed mutual and that we drifted but i think he was implying it was more from my end and that i left him. He said if you found someone and it didnt work out and then you came back to me its fine just let me know. I just said there was no one else, but i guess that is what he assumed. And then he kept saying im cool and unique and an interesting person. Rest of the time he was asking me a multitude of questions about what ive been doing the last couple of months and where have i been. I kind of replied vaguely though i just said times flown by.

We carried on speaking for another half hour. He asked lots of other questions personal and general. It felt like an interview. He asked about my family, and work life, what my plans are in the near future, told me i should learn how to cook and it could be a little project for me. Personal question wise he asked about sexual experiences and dating experiences. So as you can see we talked about pretty much everything.

Ill be honest though although i was trying my best to open upto him, i think it was him doing most of the talking and answering/asking questions. I think i just felt shy/awkward since i hadnt spoken to him in a while.



Right at the end he asked if i want to see him/meet up, i said i dont mind, and then he said you make it sound like im an option. To which i replied everyone is an option. He said i guess you could say that.

Eventually he said he had to go, so he cut the conversation short. And was like wow weve been speaking for nearly 3 hours.

That was on Sunday, its now been a week and have not heard since. Either by text or call.

So my question is what now. Should i call again? Even though i was the one who called last?

Nobody wants to be with someone that’s not interested in them. Or cuz they are bored. Sounds like he likes you n your like whatever.

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So even if initiate calls and texts? He wont think im interested ? He will just think im bored? I just dont know how to express myself the best way if i likee the guy

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Are you seriously a real person?

probably half donkey

There’s like a hat trick of these clingy obsession types

so needy. but acting all independent .....i can´t deal with this type of person. because, her opening post already reeks of selective information flow ....like seriously, gtfo.

Ya it’s typical.

Did you read the capricorn sexting one?

ohhh boy ..... no, i did not. smh. 😄

i just don´t understand why people are so confused when their own lack of clear communication or manipulations comes to bite them in their dumb asses .....that is what irritates me.

One of the things I hate the most when I see posts here. Needy, clingy, cringe.

Shut up woman. If i was clingy, then perhaps we would be in a relationship by now. Go figure!!!!!!!

Lol. Omg. The bet was right you'd feel bullied and attacked 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and for the record, clingy women don't end up in relationships and if they do, it's rarely a good one. So YOU GO FIGURE! LOL

Errr i dont know what world youre living in but its the clingy ones who are with people!!!! I know as i have friends who act this way with their significant others. They cant live without being in a relationship. Ive not been with anyone for at least a couple of years.but ive had plenty of offers which i declined, of guys who would move mountains for me so !!!!

That’s exactly it. You expect him to move mountains for you with out lifelifting a finger meaning showing mutual interest) . But this guy is acting like a real man

Being direct

Do u like me

What do you want

Want to meet me.

And you are ACTIng like the southern bell

That won’t work with Scorpio

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Ill give him that he is good at being direct and obvious. But then i wont hear from him and ill be the one initiating. Of course he always responds. But i guess he wants more from me. I feel like he wants me to move mountains for him now 🤔😂

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Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV

You're very confusing

middle of the road

vague

Act like you cant be bothered

Lowkey gaslighting him

Not being definitive

Scared of rejection

Not showing your cards

Answering like hes a burden

Not being grounded

Everything is a maybe

Answering a direct question with wordplay

Looking for reactions

Temperature checking

If he is grounded individual, he wont put up with this behavior. Its low vibrational and scattered. He been wont succumb to mind games.

Please figure out what YOU want outside of him.

Dont damage him.

I should note that..with the right person, your communication style would be super attractive and appealing. Air signs, the like.

Earth and water, not so much.

Fire, toss up

This guy is a scorpio or sag. His bday is end of November not sure which sign

Why don’t you try sending text messages more frequently instead of monthly.

You actually text the way I do. But I respond quicker because I suck at reaching out.

I wish I was more clingy and caring when it comes to communication.

He could be either sign based on his texting. But he’s flirting so that’s a good sign. Pick up the pace and see if he matches you.

I like your profile image/gif. I used that myself. 😂 actually i think its quite fitting for my situation. And thanks for actually replying without judging or scrutinizing 😁

Yeh he is quite flirty. Even on the phone he kept flirting i think half the time he was implying sexual things but me being a little slow didnt even realise till later. Like ohhh that's what you meant 😂. Oh and he complimented me a lot. Saying im unique and a very interesting person. Unlike women hes met before

He doesnt respond to texts that that well i think he prefers phone calls more often. So i think if i called more he would be happy with that its just, i get so lost doing my own things that i domt end up calling him.

Ill try picking up the pace thanks 😁🤔😂

If he’s a Sag, that’s probably what he’s waiting for.

Good luck. And thanks for the avi compliment. It’s my alter ego. Sometimes I could punch myself in the face for not being quicker about things. I’m always busy when it comes to reaching out. Even if I like or love the person. I don’t even know how to change.

I have a hard time with it being too little, or too much, so I just do nothing instead and hope they are mind readers 😭😭😭😖😅

Erm how am i exactly the same as you 😂😂😂😂. You described yourself and it describes me perfectly lol. Even if i like/love the person im terrible with contact. Wow. At least you understand and im not the only one 😂

Have you lost anyone because of being that way?

Its hard to tell. He could be sag because he complained about other girls being boring and hes quite adventurous. But then he gives me scorpio vibes too, in that he was so defensive at the beginning and is very untrusting and suspicious

Sometimes I lose them but I have a big ego so I think that it means it wasn’t meant to be if they go 😩😩😫🤣🤣

I recognized myself in the way you communicate. The only thing I do differently is respond fast because it’s the least I can do, since I don’t reach out.

But my communication gets better if they text more frequently. Sometimes men want it to be more even. I don’t mind that but once I text and it gets ignored, I go back to not texting at all. Either we’re doing this or we’re not! 😝

Men have told me that it seems like I’m not interested in them. I lose guys who love too quickly. I don’t lose the ones who need time to get to know someone. They are the ones who tolerate me and my bullshit.

I have Scorpio in my chart. So I am the same way. My birthday is the end of November. Scorpios reach out more and show more interest, I think. I love that about them cause I need that.

If both of you are really attractive, you both just may have too many options and so you will need to work a little harder to meet in the middle.

I’m good at knowing what I’m supposed to do, but I’m lazy at doing it. I always make excuses of why the guy should try harder. I never learn lessons. Lol.

Im the same aswell sometimes. Like i may be initially like damn. But then be like it is what it is.

Im exactly like that. I will rarely double text. Or double call. It would have to ne fairly equal. With this guy its exactly that too he will rarely call more than once and never text more than once if i dont respond back.

Im a scorpio moon. Snap!! 😂. I dont want to seem bigheaded so all ill say is a lot of guys say im pretty/hot/beautiful. As for this guy hes been in multiple relationships so i assume hes the same. And he keeps dropping all these female friends he has in to the conversation.

One weird thing is. At the start of the conversation (after i took initiative to call him) i mentioned my friend and how she spends a lot of money per month on makeup and he was like i should dm/snap/message her. Implying shes got money so hes interested. I just brushed it off. Inside i was like what a weird thing to say about my friend while youre on the phone to me l😂

And as for your last paragraph, same, im lazy too in terms of contact and think well the guy can do something. Its only when some time has passed that i think fine i will initiate. 😂

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What’s your sun sign?

He sounds like a Scorpio, playing that jealousy card, looking for a reaction 🙄

You should’ve asked if he’s a gold digger and not a man who likes working for his money! That would’ve shut him up. Lol.

I’m the same as you with the double texting. People get the phone calls and text, so I just wait for a response until I forget about them completely. Too many men have been conditioned to get needy women who chase the hell out of them. I can’t do that, so I just give up. If the man wants me, he knows where to find me.

You should reach out a little more. Surprise him and see if he starts doing the same. 😉