@Deedee75
13 Years
Sag pretty much dumped me last night (Page 2)
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I want that bracelet! Do you have a link?
it's kind of corny, the lamps are better
I travel a lot for work. I don't want to carry a lamp around with me. 🤣😂
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Same
And he travels more than me. I have enough trouble fitting everything
You entered into a long distance relationship and this is what happened. This usually happens. You entered the relationship and accepted the risk.. now you need to deal with the consequences. Sorry, but that’s how it is.. you could also enter a relationship with a married man.. then later you can get upset that he doesn’t leave his wife. You took this risk at the start? I can go to the casino and lose money, I know it’s not nice but I should have accepted the possibility I can lose money.
I'm really pathetic.
My plan was to back off and lay low.
But have you met me? That's impossible.
I sent a screenshot of texts from a month ago. he tells me that he feels that I am truly his soulmate and he never said that to anyone and that we need to keep our bond together like duct tape.
I followed it with "it breaks my heart reading this because we had it and let it go"
He read it 5 minutes ago. No reply yet.
Someone come and take my phone before I embarrass myself even more!
I'm in the slow process (work shit) of reading this thread, but was contact ever established again?
Yes, Sunday night. Monday he was telling me that he loved me. Tuesday night this happened.
No arguments or any drama leading up to it.
I'm really pathetic.
My plan was to back off and lay low.
But have you met me? That's impossible.
I sent a screenshot of texts from a month ago. he tells me that he feels that I am truly his soulmate and he never said that to anyone and that we need to keep our bond together like duct tape.
I followed it with "it breaks my heart reading this because we had it and let it go"
He read it 5 minutes ago. No reply yet.
Someone come and take my phone before I embarrass myself even more!
Wake up!!!!! Stop sabotaging yourself...
You are becoming fixed on the idea and a part of you wants to kill everything you have with him. Stop it NOW or you will regret it for a very long time!!
You aren’t even listening to him!! He said he has never said it to anyone, he believes he is your soulmate. PLEASE BELIEVE HIM.... don’t torture him, you, both of you. Stop it.
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My scorpio is coming out
And so is his
We suck at emotions
Okay after reading this entire thread, next time you want to blow up on the poor guy - blow up on here first. He still keen on you but don't do that too often.
I understand what it's like to have that doubt but in this case it was unwarranted.
I need you on speed dial!
I'm really pathetic.
My plan was to back off and lay low.
But have you met me? That's impossible.
I sent a screenshot of texts from a month ago. he tells me that he feels that I am truly his soulmate and he never said that to anyone and that we need to keep our bond together like duct tape.
I followed it with "it breaks my heart reading this because we had it and let it go"
He read it 5 minutes ago. No reply yet.
Someone come and take my phone before I embarrass myself even more!
I love the way Scorpios rush in and secure what they want in an over dramatic, over the top way. lol
He has enough Scorpio in his chart to be understanding of your craziness. I don't think you have much to worry about. As long as you can get back on track of talking normally. Switch it up and go back to being loving instead of insecure. It will be fine. You got this out of your system.
Long distance is EXTREMELY hard for a sag, but at least he can tell that you miss him just as much as he misses you. Even though he's not saying it the same way you are.
Will be checking on you for updates DeeDee . Don't text him anymore, let it go for a bit. Let him think and come to you on his terms. Please don't destroy everything. Situation seems salvageable, give him time to think
Will be checking on you for updates DeeDee . Don't text him anymore, let it go for a bit. Let him think and come to you on his terms. Please don't destroy everything. Situation seems salvageable, give him time to think
Ok....I am putting this phone down!!!!
DeeDee, you are a great lady but this thread is really sad to witness! I really do think being a Scorpio is a sentence worse than death.
Do you think that you want to push him away subconsciously, so that you can be “right” about him leaving you? You will create a self fulfilling prophecy.
Yes. I don't notice it at the time but looking back, I always push people away.
Thing is, so does he.
I was too intense in love so decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
Yup....that's me. My text bombs. It doesn't help that I'm snowed in today. I have a zillion things to do but just have zero motivation so I'm dwelling on every thought.
I love being in love but I hate this feeling when it goes sour.
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
I wish i could love like that, and i do, but it's always one-sided
i think from that happening in my last relationship, i don't want to be that emotionally involved. Where i can get triggered by every word, look into every meaning.
it's exhausting
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It really is! After the Libra, I was totaly shut down for 2 years. Sag melted my ice. Now, I wish I can shut down again. Feelings suck! Emotions suck!
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
She is right. I saw the text messages.
Nikki turned it into the Guantanamo Bay of LDRs.
But he loved it so alls fair in love and war.
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LMAO
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
How did you turn it off and go cold turkey? I hate this vulnerable feeling.
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
Yup....that's me. My text bombs. It doesn't help that I'm snowed in today. I have a zillion things to do but just have zero motivation so I'm dwelling on every thought.
I love being in love but I hate this feeling when it goes sour.
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As a lot of folks on here have said, you may just be over-analyzing the situation at hand. His responses sound more like he wishes you were closer, and is crashing low from the high of having you there. I don't think he dumped you. He was just expressing that he is now realizing the distance is taking its toll on the both of you, and probably wanted to have a conversation about finding a solution on expediting you guys being closer, sooner rather than later.
But you're also probably missing him too, and that's effecting your rationale thoughts and is making you go hyperspeed emotional reactionary thinking.
Step back a little. Explain to him why you love bombed him with all the texts. That you were just assuming the worse because you were just feeling so low after having such a great visit, and that you miss him terribly. That it is difficult on the both of you. Have the conversation with him, and work it out as a couple.
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
She is right. I saw the text messages.
Nikki turned it into the Guantanamo Bay of LDRs.
But he loved it so alls fair in love and war.
LMAO
This is hilarious 🤣👏🏻
Kudos to your Cancer for knowing how to handle you...lol
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LOL. I think his Scorp moon lowkey enjoyed that I would obsessively message him with my jabs.
Worst part is, is that for a week or more, I could go without hearing a peep from him or me messaging him at all. But when I got a bee in my bonnet and wanted to actually talk to him, I would go straight into defcon 5 jabbing. lol
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
he's more than likely showing it to other dude's.
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Nah...he's not like that. Plus, he is on a work trip.
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
I wish i could love like that, and i do, but it's always one-sided
i think from that happening in my last relationship, i don't want to be that emotionally involved. Where i can get triggered by every word, look into every meaning.
it's exhausting
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Yes ma'am, exhausting and draining.....
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
How did you turn it off and go cold turkey? I hate this vulnerable feeling.
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In true Scorpio style , i let life push me to the brink with the last lover i was with, all the classic Plutonian stuff, extreme passion, obsessive sex, yearning for him (it was an LDR), giving him a hard time.
So what life brought me was a Scorpio dom Aries man....and he was the one who healed me of all my obsessions, if I hadn't of stepped away, I'd have been in big trouble...
Can't believe that was me 😳
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
She is right. I saw the text messages.
Nikki turned it into the Guantanamo Bay of LDRs.
But he loved it so alls fair in love and war.
LMAO
This is hilarious 🤣👏🏻
Kudos to your Cancer for knowing how to handle you...lol
LOL. I think his Scorp moon lowkey enjoyed that I would obsessively message him with my jabs.
Worst part is, is that for a week or more, I could go without hearing a peep from him or me messaging him at all. But when I got a bee in my bonnet and wanted to actually talk to him, I would go straight into defcon 5 jabbing. lol
I’m sure he loved it!! Lol... not only his Scorpio moon, but Cancer sun - just love that feeling of security. I feel that Cancers don’t like to be hounded all the time, they are moody... but, because Scorpio has that independence streak and really love their space, tables are turned and Cancer craves getting it from you. So, when it’s finally given.... it’s like heaven to him 🥰😍🥰......🤣😂👍🏼
I found this so hilarious because I’m the same way🤭😂👏🏻... I love a lot of space, love to do my own thing, get busy and immersed into my stuff - but when I call, BE THERE!!! Hahahahaha...
I’ve never done LDR before though...🤔, I don’t think I would be as relaxed and collected. 😳😖😰
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We are like cats. We want affection on our terms. lol
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
How did you turn it off and go cold turkey? I hate this vulnerable feeling.
In true Scorpio style , i let life push me to the brink with the last lover i was with, all the classic Plutonian stuff, extreme passion, obsessive sex, yearning for him (it was an LDR), giving him a hard time.
So what life brought me was a Scorpio dom Aries man....and he was the one who healed me of all my obsessions, if I hadn't of stepped away, I'd have been in big trouble...
Can't believe that was me 😳
Was the Scorpio dom Aries the one you had an LDR?
How did he heal you? And what was it that made you want to step away?
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Yes he was
Healed as the reasons I wrote in my other post.....that I did everything to the extreme with him and it hurt me so I had to stop it, let him go and allow myself to heal...
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
he's more than likely showing it to other dude's.
Nah...he's not like that. Plus, he is on a work trip.
You don't sound like a stalker.
Emotional times give us all a lil emotional blindness at times. Give yourself a break.
Right now he seems a lot bigger in your world than he actually is.
I am really sorry. But i know these things pass and you are meant for someone else.
Lots of love. xx
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Thank you. That was sweet.
LDR is not a real relationship. What you had was nothing.
Modern tech makes people thing they can be in a relationship by text. It's a load of bullshit.
If you want a rship with someone, stop texting this person
LDR is not a real relationship. What you had was nothing.
Modern tech makes people thing they can be in a relationship by text. It's a load of bullshit.
If you want a rship with someone, stop texting this person
Harsh but I have said the same in thing in the past.
This was real. We initially met in person and spent a week together before going long distance. We spend plenty of time together in person and had a move date. Even if we lived together, we would be apart for weeks at a time due to work. This was as real as either of us could have.
He texted me. Its just small talk about the snowstorm but I kept it light and stopped replying after 3 exchanges.
You know that I am dying to discuss relationship stuff but don't want to push
He texted me. Its just small talk about the snowstorm but I kept it light and stopped replying after 3 exchanges.
You know that I am dying to discuss relationship stuff but don't want to push
Keep on keeping it light Dee
No *R* word 😀
LDR is not a real relationship. What you had was nothing.
Modern tech makes people thing they can be in a relationship by text. It's a load of bullshit.
If you want a rship with someone, stop texting this person
Harsh but I have said the same in thing in the past.
This was real. We initially met in person and spent a week together before going long distance. We spend plenty of time together in person and had a move date. Even if we lived together, we would be apart for weeks at a time due to work. This was as real as either of us could have.
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Of course it’s real
He texted me. Its just small talk about the snowstorm but I kept it light and stopped replying after 3 exchanges.
You know that I am dying to discuss relationship stuff but don't want to push
why don't you call eachother and please stop discussing your relationship and actually be in it.
you're aggravating me
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I'm posting here to calm my crazy. If I obsess here, I won't annoy him with obsessive texts.
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
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WhatsApp status
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
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but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
He texted me. Its just small talk about the snowstorm but I kept it light and stopped replying after 3 exchanges.
You know that I am dying to discuss relationship stuff but don't want to push
Stopped replying after 3 exchanges? Why? Or do you mean the conversation just ended there? Be careful to not play games either, it doesn’t have to be a power struggle.
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It ended naturally
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
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It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
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oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
You keep hanging on to this guy (or anyone) too tight, you’re going to lose Deedee (no comma there.) You were fine before you even knew who he was, you’re fine now, and you’ll be fine after.
If you need the relationship, it owns you, and your sanity will follow wherever it pulls you. Anytime you go into a situation based on need—for love, fulfillment, completion, to add “meaning” to your life, or any of those illusory ego candies, you’re at the mercy of whatever happens. If you aren’t going in to a situation already happy and therefore able to walk away from it if necessary without the world falling apart, you’re finished: it’ll be peaks and valleys every time and you’ll be pulled from one extreme to the other and suffer your suffering accordingly. Death by a thousand tiny cuts, aka a life of quiet desperation.
My worst trait. I rarely get involved but when I do, it's an all in, do or die, kind of love. Everything is so extreme.
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
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I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
WhatsApp and social media are the devil. Why do they exist.
Lord help the water doms.
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Agree. We don't do social media. I only use WhatsApp to communicate with him when cell service is bad
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
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So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
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In this case, it was so I know if he looked at it.
In the past, we would text directly and just put silly stuff on there
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
Burn all mobile phones.
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lol can you imagine what it was like prior to cell phones? Oh yeah people just dated within their own vicinity.
Although, I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation... but a girl can't get a text back. So yeah burn the mobile phones!
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
Burn all mobile phones.
lol can you imagine what it was like prior to cell phones? Oh yeah people just dated within their own vicinity.
Although, I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation... but a girl can't get a text back. So yeah burn the mobile phones!
" I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation..."
Even though planes existed in their heyday, that was literally how my father married my mother lol
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How sweet! See, true love does exist.
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
Burn all mobile phones.
lol can you imagine what it was like prior to cell phones? Oh yeah people just dated within their own vicinity.
Although, I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation... but a girl can't get a text back. So yeah burn the mobile phones!
" I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation..."
Even though planes existed in their heyday, that was literally how my father married my mother lol
How sweet! See, true love does exist.
They eventually got divorced, but yeah they had a good run.
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I'll just adopt 10 cats then.
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