stayathomewife
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Synastry, Plutonic marriage/relationship. His Scorpio Pluto is everywhere in all my planets.
Pluto is the one who controls the relationship from what I understand. You will get hurt.
Posted by ImperfectStorm
Some of the best and most intoxicating relationships I’ve had were plutonic… but I’m a Scorpio myself so I’m like bring on the heat 🙃🔥😂
Thank you sis, I'm a Gemini Sun, Pisces Moon (my Gemini Sun, all these walls of text of me, and how chatty I am, and my curious brain). I'm new to astrology so I'm really dissecting my husband chart, and learn as I go.
Our Synastry, the Pluto (him) trine my Venus, Sun, Moon, it all at close orb from 0 to 2 degree. The Pluto trine Venus it at exact orb 0 degree, so it pretty strong.
The Pluto conjunction Mars it pretty wide, like 9 degree, so that shouldn't count right? because we won't feel it much.
And I have some question about his natal.
He Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. So it intense. And he has this Saturn conjunct Mars-Pluto midpoint.
Saturn (Scorpio) conjunct Mars (Scorpio)-Pluto (Scorpio) midpoint, and it 0 degree, because his Saturn degree and his Mars-Pluto degree are exact, so it give a 0 degree, so it intense right?
Should I worry? All those malefic planets combined, and all in Scorpio sign.
Both his Mars and Saturn in 5th house. His Pluto in 4th house. Capricorn sit on his 7th house, so rule by Saturn too.
He likes dangerous hobbies and dangerous jobs. Hobbies he great at, guns, riffles, shot out outdoor range moving targets. Archery, bow and arrow. Ride horses.
His jobs (for the past 13 years), work at huge chemical plant, deal with corrosive Hydrofluoric acid, hot asphalt, flammable gasoline, etc.. And Hydroflouric acid is the strongest acid out there, will literally eat through your bone and skin. I think the Mars (Scorpio) in his 5th explain this. But Saturn in there too, shouldn't Saturn keep his 5th house in check?
His Midheaven is Aries (fire sign). His Uranus (fire sign) in 6th house. His Jupiter in Capricorn also in 6th house.
Mars in Scorpio, his Saturn in Scorpio, and Pluto in Scorpio. I was told these 3 planets together are basically like the most powerful planets in one of the most aggressive signs.
Mars (Scorpio) has the whopping percentage % in his natal ranking, Mars and Pluto planet has the highest percentage % dominant his chart too. So I feel it more than his Aries MC.
Which contribute to all his dangerous hobbies and jobs? I just try to understand his chart you know, I'm still learning alot.
It is all the Scorpio in there? Or more of the Uranus in 6th?
Thank you sis.
and ofcourse you don't have to help me or answer me. You can just ignore my reply/comment if you not want to answer it. But thank you though for your explaination on the Plutonic relationship.
Thank you sis. The reason why I asked about Uranus in 6th house and Jupiter Capricorn in 6th too. It because I heart Uranus in 6th can means unusual job. And Capricorn Jupiter are hard on themselves, so make him work even harder.
Saturn (Scorpio) conjunct Mars (Scorpio)-Pluto (Scorpio) midpoint, and it 0 degree, because his Saturn degree and his Mars-Pluto degree are exact, so it give a 0 degree, so it critical. But what I not understand is, what is Mars-Pluto midpoint, what exactly is a midpoint? So If he has Saturn conjunct Mars-Pluto midpoint, then his Saturn conjunct Mars, and then his Saturn conjunct Pluto too?
I know I asked you this before in my other thread, you think he Scorpio Sun or Pisces Sun? lol. You probably won't guess because last time you say you don't like to guess.
Sorry English is not my native language, and I still have alot of astrology to learn.
And his chart is rare too, he has North Node in Direct.
It said that under 10% will have North Node in Direct. 90+% are Retrograde. And in order to have it direct, you born around eclipses.
From research on Direct Nodes, it said: Someone very stubborn, non-comformist, lots of energy, and can loose a cannon with hard aspect (which he has alot).And that by have them direct, they are very old soul who already spent a great time in this physical world, have signify karma maturity. And this will be their last time in this physical realm finish up their karma, and will not come back!
I don't know if you heard of North Node in direct before, it just rare, as everyone else have it in retrograde, and it suppose to be in retrograde according to science, it pretty much always in retrograde, that the nature of their movement. But my husband has direct.
Saturn (Scorpio) conjunct Mars (Scorpio)-Pluto (Scorpio) midpoint, and it 0 degree, because his Saturn degree and his Mars-Pluto degree are exact, so it give a 0 degree, so it critical. But what I not understand is, what is Mars-Pluto midpoint, what exactly is a midpoint? So If he has Saturn conjunct Mars-Pluto midpoint, then his Saturn conjunct Mars, and then his Saturn conjunct Pluto too?
I know I asked you this before in my other thread, you think he Scorpio Sun or Pisces Sun? lol. You probably won't guess because last time you say you don't like to guess.
Sorry English is not my native language, and I still have alot of astrology to learn.
And his chart is rare too, he has North Node in Direct.
It said that under 10% will have North Node in Direct. 90+% are Retrograde. And in order to have it direct, you born around eclipses.
From research on Direct Nodes, it said: Someone very stubborn, non-comformist, lots of energy, and can loose a cannon with hard aspect (which he has alot).And that by have them direct, they are very old soul who already spent a great time in this physical world, have signify karma maturity. And this will be their last time in this physical realm finish up their karma, and will not come back!
I don't know if you heard of North Node in direct before, it just rare, as everyone else have it in retrograde, and it suppose to be in retrograde according to science, it pretty much always in retrograde, that the nature of their movement. But my husband has direct.
Do you have much Scorpio in your chart op?
You ask my chart? Or you ask my husband chart? If you ask me, then No, I'm Mercury Gemini in my chart. I'm just chatty, and curious mind, and my mind do jump around alot, multitasking mind, classic Gemini trait. I'm Gemini Sun, Pisces Moon.
Posted by stayathomewife
You ask my chart? Or you ask my husband chart? If you ask me, then No, I'm Mercury Gemini in my chart. I'm just chatty, and curious mind, and my mind do jump around alot, multitasking mind, classic Gemini trait. I'm Gemini Sun, Pisces Moon.
What is your main worry about him?
Maybe you feel he’s too intense for you?
Posted by ImperfectStorm
No I’m not familiar with north node direct/retrograde so now my interest is piqued so I’ll have to look that up later out of curiosity. Lol
as far as his sun sign, I’m going to guess he’s a Pisces since you talked about how contradictory his Plutonic actions were to his sun sign in the other thread.
North node direct produces rebelliousness
Which house is it in op?
oh shit, did I let my husband sun sign slip out?
He is second decan Pisces Sun (which rule by Cancer moon), then he is Cancer Rising, which is the moon pointed back to his 4th house. Mars (fixed Scorpio) and Saturn (fixed Scorpio) both in his 5th, Capricorn sit on his 7th house so Saturn too, Venus fixed sign Venus in his 8th house. So he very family oriented man.
But I don't feel the Pisces much in him beside he a very selfless husband and he dotes on me like crazy.
The thing is his Scorpio Mars took a whooping % percentage in the ranking of his chart, even overpower his mid-degree Pisces Sun. Then Mars planet and Pluto took the highest planet ranking % in his chart.
The gang of his malefic planets (dominant his whole natal chart) Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. And then his fixed Venus too. And his Moon.
He only has Jupiter in Capricorn and Neptune in Capricorn. And Aries midheaven (which is in Mars too).
I don't know, I just feel he very Mars and Scorpio, I mean look at the type of his hobbies and jobs.
He not even look Pisces, he 6'2" (187cm) so he tall, and lean muscles. And he only wear black and dark blue. And what up with the stare (still stare me after 11 years), lol. I mean stare is classic Scorpio trait right? I think it the Plutonic him and that Scorpio Mars.
As for our marriage, somehow it work. I'm Pisces Moon at 1 degree so it pure, I'm more Pisces trait than he, as you feel the moon more and his PIsces Sun is mid-degree (Gemini Sun though). My 7th house Pisces sit on it, my 8th house also Pisces sit on it. And those are personal house.
And I have 5 planets aspecting Pisces, 4 of which are personal planets.
So I guess his Pisces Sun somehow find me (the Pisces Moon), Lol
I don't know if you know Reddit or in Reddit, but there an astrology sub in there, and I posted that thread and they all voted for Scorpio, they just don't find him to match Pisces Sun. But he is. It just his Sun get diluted and overpower by that whole malefic Scorpio gang planets lol
Anyways, your so nice. Thank you for not kick the chatty Gemini me out of the thread yet, haha.
He is second decan Pisces Sun (which rule by Cancer moon), then he is Cancer Rising, which is the moon pointed back to his 4th house. Mars (fixed Scorpio) and Saturn (fixed Scorpio) both in his 5th, Capricorn sit on his 7th house so Saturn too, Venus fixed sign Venus in his 8th house. So he very family oriented man.
But I don't feel the Pisces much in him beside he a very selfless husband and he dotes on me like crazy.
The thing is his Scorpio Mars took a whooping % percentage in the ranking of his chart, even overpower his mid-degree Pisces Sun. Then Mars planet and Pluto took the highest planet ranking % in his chart.
The gang of his malefic planets (dominant his whole natal chart) Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. And then his fixed Venus too. And his Moon.
He only has Jupiter in Capricorn and Neptune in Capricorn. And Aries midheaven (which is in Mars too).
I don't know, I just feel he very Mars and Scorpio, I mean look at the type of his hobbies and jobs.
He not even look Pisces, he 6'2" (187cm) so he tall, and lean muscles. And he only wear black and dark blue. And what up with the stare (still stare me after 11 years), lol. I mean stare is classic Scorpio trait right? I think it the Plutonic him and that Scorpio Mars.
As for our marriage, somehow it work. I'm Pisces Moon at 1 degree so it pure, I'm more Pisces trait than he, as you feel the moon more and his PIsces Sun is mid-degree (Gemini Sun though). My 7th house Pisces sit on it, my 8th house also Pisces sit on it. And those are personal house.
And I have 5 planets aspecting Pisces, 4 of which are personal planets.
So I guess his Pisces Sun somehow find me (the Pisces Moon), Lol
I don't know if you know Reddit or in Reddit, but there an astrology sub in there, and I posted that thread and they all voted for Scorpio, they just don't find him to match Pisces Sun. But he is. It just his Sun get diluted and overpower by that whole malefic Scorpio gang planets lol
Anyways, your so nice. Thank you for not kick the chatty Gemini me out of the thread yet, haha.
No sis, if your North Node is direct, it will have a letter "d" for direct next to it. If it not have the letter d then yours is retrograde just like 90+% of everyone else.
My husband just happen to be a rare case, and a rare Pisces Sun too I guess, lol
My husband just happen to be a rare case, and a rare Pisces Sun too I guess, lol
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by ImperfectStorm
No I’m not familiar with north node direct/retrograde so now my interest is piqued so I’ll have to look that up later out of curiosity. Lol
as far as his sun sign, I’m going to guess he’s a Pisces since you talked about how contradictory his Plutonic actions were to his sun sign in the other thread.
North node direct produces rebelliousness
Which house is it in op?
On my birth chart I see the R next to my Mercury indicating that I have mercury in retrograde but nothing next to north node. Does that mean my north node is direct?click to expand
I don’t think so....most n nodes on charts show that way. Not sure how to find out? Maybe op can look at husbands chart to see how it shows?
You should do some research on North Node direct, it just rare. 90+% are retrograde because that how the Nodes go with the Sun. If you have it direct, astrodienst will put a letter d next to it.
Actually only 1 person guess he a Pisces, everyone else in Reddit said he a Scorpio. I guess that 1 preson really know astrology because they said this. Because I wrote that his Sun Trine Mars, Sun Trine Saturn, Sun Trine Ascendant, etc... And yeah the gang, Scorpio Mars Scorpio Saturn Scorpio Pluto.
And that person said No way he can be a Scorpio Sun if his Sun Trine Saturn!
You can't have a natal Scorpio Sun and then trine a Scorpio Saturn.
Ha! I learn something new in astrology everyday, it like endless things to learn!
Do you have Reddit sis?
Actually only 1 person guess he a Pisces, everyone else in Reddit said he a Scorpio. I guess that 1 preson really know astrology because they said this. Because I wrote that his Sun Trine Mars, Sun Trine Saturn, Sun Trine Ascendant, etc... And yeah the gang, Scorpio Mars Scorpio Saturn Scorpio Pluto.
And that person said No way he can be a Scorpio Sun if his Sun Trine Saturn!
You can't have a natal Scorpio Sun and then trine a Scorpio Saturn.
Ha! I learn something new in astrology everyday, it like endless things to learn!
Do you have Reddit sis?
oh sis, please read through this, it will explain it sis.
https://psychologicallyastrology.com/2019/11/23/true-nodes-stationary-during-eclipses/
This will explain the North Node direct in only less than 10% of people.
https://psychologicallyastrology.com/2019/11/23/true-nodes-stationary-during-eclipses/
This will explain the North Node direct in only less than 10% of people.
The link above clearly explain about North Node (True Node) direct, which is rare, because the Nodes always go retrograde, that just how it is. So about 90+% people have their retrograde, that why natal chart will never mark it unless it "direct" then they will put a letter d, or else then yours is the normal retrograde.
My husband North Node is Gemini (and direct North Node),
My husband North Node is Gemini (and direct North Node),
OMG the guy that drives me crazy is 1984 Scorpio Mars. I heard the sex is rough with them and men with Scorpio Venus are better in bed. I've been with Scorpio Venus and that is no joke.
If your husband dotes on you why are you worried?
Posted by Mission2Venus
Should I tell my 1984 high school friends to drop their gf’s coz they are wanted by the DXP ladies? 😝
Hell yeah. Have you every had sex with one of those 1984 SM men? How was it. OP won't tell.
Posted by stayathomewife
11 years and going, not getting divorce, he a great husband.
I think it his Pluto everywhere in my planets that explained his undying devotion, and undying obsession love for me in the past 11 years and we never parted a day, he never get bored of me. His intensity just won't subside.
His Pluto (Scorpio in 1 degree in his natal so it pure), so I think he definately feel more, also he the Pluto in our synastry.
I put in our synastry and download this .pdf page and what stood out to me was the Pluto column for us. All of these, few blanks, no squared, but all that:
He the Pluto one below:
Pluto Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Moon
Pluto Trine Mercury
Pluto Trine Venus
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
Pluto Sextile Uranus
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Conjunction Pluto
Pluto Sextile Ascendant
Pluto Sextile Midheaven
I heard Pluto Trine Venus is a the most painful and intense plutonic relationship type. And all those Pluto aspect in all of my planets too, it crazy. Trine Venus, Moon and Sun, etc..
I think we need some squared, but the synastry list doesn't show squared.
We have alot going on in our Venus column too, but Venus is nice, I want to concentrate on the malefic Pluto which is all about obsession, and controlling.
Can we grow old together? The Pluto person (him) will be very hurt more if we somehow separated right?
He the Pluto one in the synastry, so I think he has it harder than me.
You know any Plutonic couples, or how was your experience with it?
Pluto forces people to confront themselves on both sides. Pluto forces growth though the challenges it brings.
Pluto dominant rships are bloody awful even for a Scorp person. I had one and it was life changing but not going there again
Heavy, controlling and oppressive
🥴😬
Heavy, controlling and oppressive
🥴😬
Posted by 51R60Posted by MyStarsShine
Pluto dominant rships are bloody awful even for a Scorp person. I had one and it was life changing but not going there again
Heavy, controlling and oppressive
🥴😬
Do they do that to build the sexual tension? I don't feel like they're that controlling/oppressive. Idk I always felt like you had good taste in charts though.click to expand
Unconciously i entered into that Pluto rship to heal my strong need for another person to make me feel whole. It actually worked but i felt oppressed and stifled by it even tho it was something i craved. Yes he tried to control sexually. Pluto is all about control and keeping a lid on things😯
You seem bored with all his devotion.
Start fights to liven things up. Pluto is all about burning shit down and rebuilding it up, he will still be devoted. Men bond more when there is turmoil. Just keep it within reason. 😄
Start fights to liven things up. Pluto is all about burning shit down and rebuilding it up, he will still be devoted. Men bond more when there is turmoil. Just keep it within reason. 😄
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by DonnaLibra
OMG the guy that drives me crazy is 1984 Scorpio Mars. I heard the sex is rough with them and men with Scorpio Venus are better in bed. I've been with Scorpio Venus and that is no joke.
I have never been with neither Scorpio mars nor Venus.
WTF I’ve been deprived 😭 lolclick to expand
Yeesss girl, you have. I feel deprived I've never been with a Scorpio Mars, dang it!
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by MyStarsShine
Pluto dominant rships are bloody awful even for a Scorp person. I had one and it was life changing but not going there again
Heavy, controlling and oppressive
🥴😬
I haven’t really felt this in my Pluto connections I just felt the powerful magnetic/subconscious connection and a little bit of possessiveness but nothing extreme. And the possessiveness went both ways so there was that agreement type of feeling.
I couldn’t be with someone that’s controlling or abusive though. One thing that’s frustrating is the power struggles. Both are afraid of relinquishing control or getting hurt again.click to expand
Not abusive for me but definitely the control thing albeit done subtlely
Power struggles are unhealthy to me ...
Posted by ImperfectStorm
Based off the number of threads you’ve made in which you’re obsessing over your husband, I’d say it’s safe to assume that you are equally obsessed, ma’am. 😅😂
She sounds like she's compensating.. like that Lisbethur character we had here before, who was constantly bragging about her husband and what a great marriage she has when it turned out to be all in her head lol
Posted by Mission2VenusPosted by saggurl88
Men bond more when there is turmoil. Just keep it within reason. 😄
Lol just no
We want the source of that turmoil goneclick to expand
Liiieeeessss lol
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by ImperfectStorm
Based off the number of threads you’ve made in which you’re obsessing over your husband, I’d say it’s safe to assume that you are equally obsessed, ma’am. 😅😂
She sounds like she's compensating.. like that Lisbethur character we had here before, who was constantly bragging about her husband and what a great marriage she has when it turned out to be all in her head lolclick to expand
I gave lisa a way out but I guess she only loved the attention .
Posted by SandsPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by ImperfectStorm
Based off the number of threads you’ve made in which you’re obsessing over your husband, I’d say it’s safe to assume that you are equally obsessed, ma’am. 😅😂
She sounds like she's compensating.. like that Lisbethur character we had here before, who was constantly bragging about her husband and what a great marriage she has when it turned out to be all in her head lol
I gave lisa a way out but I guess she only loved the attention .click to expand
I don't even remember anything about it just that she lived in her own fantasy bubble and over-compensated on the boards.. Was she an Aqua?
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I think it his Pluto everywhere in my planets that explained his undying devotion, and undying obsession love for me in the past 11 years and we never parted a day, he never get bored of me. His intensity just won't subside.
His Pluto (Scorpio in 1 degree in his natal so it pure), so I think he definately feel more, also he the Pluto in our synastry.
I put in our synastry and download this .pdf page and what stood out to me was the Pluto column for us. All of these, few blanks, no squared, but all that:
He the Pluto one below:
Pluto Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Moon
Pluto Trine Mercury
Pluto Trine Venus
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
Pluto Sextile Uranus
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Conjunction Pluto
Pluto Sextile Ascendant
Pluto Sextile Midheaven
I heard Pluto Trine Venus is a the most painful and intense plutonic relationship type. And all those Pluto aspect in all of my planets too, it crazy. Trine Venus, Moon and Sun, etc..
I think we need some squared, but the synastry list doesn't show squared.
We have alot going on in our Venus column too, but Venus is nice, I want to concentrate on the malefic Pluto which is all about obsession, and controlling.
Can we grow old together? The Pluto person (him) will be very hurt more if we somehow separated right?
He the Pluto one in the synastry, so I think he has it harder than me.
You know any Plutonic couples, or how was your experience with it?