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Twin Flames
Yeah, Im pretty sure I found mine. By just looking and reading "twin flame" one would think it was a blessing and easy. I can assure you it is not an easy relationship. When its on its on, but you will have so many issues and distractions throughout your relationship. It will bring out the best and the worst of you.
Our relationship has been on and off for 4 yrs. We have been to hell and back together. Yet, one of us is always running from each other at some point.
The purpose of a twin flame is to bring out all of your past hurt/issues/ and the best of you. It will always be a challenging relationship, but the love between each other is solid.
No matter how many times we split apart, we always find a way back into each others arms and life.
Best of luck to you
Our relationship has been on and off for 4 yrs. We have been to hell and back together. Yet, one of us is always running from each other at some point.
The purpose of a twin flame is to bring out all of your past hurt/issues/ and the best of you. It will always be a challenging relationship, but the love between each other is solid.
No matter how many times we split apart, we always find a way back into each others arms and life.
Best of luck to you
My intuition is strongly pushing me to believe so! I think it is my ex, actually, we've gone through many things and a lot of intensity. The reason we parted ways (because she wanted) was, in fact, linked to our overly connected spirit, and it became overwhelming..
I can tell you the pain I went through after the rupture was so brutal... it knocked me out!!
But I have gone through a totally different path ever since, actually started reconnecting with my true self and not being scared of jugement anymore. Been more daring, more entreprising, it worked out positively for me.
Yet, she is part of my heart, i cant just simply "move on" like id do with other people. Shes constantly in my dreams, and I have signs of her everyday, lots of synchronicities happening, i smell her body odor at random moment in the day, all types of things, Ive accepted it.
Its so very complex, but there are no manual that will tell you how to behave, we must follow our intuition.
I can tell you the pain I went through after the rupture was so brutal... it knocked me out!!
But I have gone through a totally different path ever since, actually started reconnecting with my true self and not being scared of jugement anymore. Been more daring, more entreprising, it worked out positively for me.
Yet, she is part of my heart, i cant just simply "move on" like id do with other people. Shes constantly in my dreams, and I have signs of her everyday, lots of synchronicities happening, i smell her body odor at random moment in the day, all types of things, Ive accepted it.
Its so very complex, but there are no manual that will tell you how to behave, we must follow our intuition.
Yes.
Twin flames aka the narcissist - codependent relationship with a layer of new age veneer.
Yes
We have been together 6+ years, including two separations where he totally ghosted me. Currently, we are back and doing great.
If it was any other person, I would've moved on and never looked back. But with him, I couldn't. He was on my mind every single day. It was like a piece of my soul was missing.
We have been together 6+ years, including two separations where he totally ghosted me. Currently, we are back and doing great.
If it was any other person, I would've moved on and never looked back. But with him, I couldn't. He was on my mind every single day. It was like a piece of my soul was missing.
I was sure until now than with twin flame - it's no arguments and no fighting because everything is just perfect!
Posted by TallsagdudeSame as above, but we've been on and off for 3 years
Yeah, Im pretty sure I found mine. By just looking and reading "twin flame" one would think it was a blessing and easy. I can assure you it is not an easy relationship. When its on its on, but you will have so many issues and distractions throughout your relationship. It will bring out the best and the worst of you.
Our relationship has been on and off for 4 yrs. We have been to hell and back together. Yet, one of us is always running from each other at some point.
The purpose of a twin flame is to bring out all of your past hurt/issues/ and the best of you. It will always be a challenging relationship, but the love between each other is solid.
No matter how many times we split apart, we always find a way back into each others arms and life.
Best of luck to you
I know I found mine. Met him in 6th grade. 17 years now and I doubt we've gone longer than a week without communicating.
I love the man. I really do. I'm going to marry him. We don't even "date" (realizing how delusional I must seem haha) it's an unspoken knowing. He is mine and I am his.
I'm just waiting on the prenup... Any day now ✍
I love the man. I really do. I'm going to marry him. We don't even "date" (realizing how delusional I must seem haha) it's an unspoken knowing. He is mine and I am his.
I'm just waiting on the prenup... Any day now ✍
Posted by KemetisinmeYeah I'm not sure how I feel about the twin flame theory... It's like a coined term that magically explains an authentic connection. Maybe I should actually look up what it means, lol. I always assumed it was like comparing two people to the way plants grow towards the sun. Or the way magnets pull together, or the way the beach pushes and pulls on the coast. I'm talking out my ass but it makes sense to me.
Twin flames aka the narcissist - codependent relationship with a layer of new age veneer.
Codependency is altogether a different subject but hey, I like the way you worded this.
Posted by LunabeePosted by KemetisinmeYeah I'm not sure how I feel about the twin flame theory... It's like a coined term that magically explains an authentic connection. Maybe I should actually look up what it means, lol. I always assumed it was like comparing two people to the way plants grow towards the sun. Or the way magnets pull together, or the way the beach pushes and pulls on the coast. I'm talking out my ass but it makes sense to me.
Twin flames aka the narcissist - codependent relationship with a layer of new age veneer.
Codependency is altogether a different subject but hey, I like the way you worded this.click to expand
Hmm I used to believe in that twin flame theory until I learned more about narcissism.
Afa I'm concerned, my so-called twin flame was nothing more than a covert narcissist. The reason why a twin flame appears to be your soulmate is because he/she embodies the image of your ideal partner in order to hook you and keep you hooked (love bombing stages).
As for the impression you can't let go of the person because you share an otherwordly connection, it would be the result of trauma bonding. IMO, the way to deal with your twin flame would be to ignore your emotions (which are being manipulated for that person's benefit), go with your intuition and remove soul ties (for those who -really desire- to move on, that is).
Posted by infiresCan you sleep? How long can you go without thinking about him?
I want to believe it's my partner and I feel the connection. long term, he can be too immature h and I need someone to understand. Our communication is lacking.
Alot of people dont like him because he's hurt me many times and I kept justifying it. He is the first one who took my virginity and the one broke my heart when we broke up. Would feel physical pain and shut myself in the room. Out of nowhere, dream of us seeing each other even if we don't in real life.. hurting each other in the worst ways possible
he apologized for letting me go. He told his friend that his heart feels at ease after getting back together
His moon opposition Saturn, Saturn dominant dude.. too insecure, untrusting.
we are different completely, my virgo dominant clashes with his gemini dominant. Feel like the Leo is what's keeping us together. Other times feels like it our venus signs cancer and virgo. Maybe our mutuble energies working together to blend our personalities
We act like we hate each other on the outside, but there is also deep mutual understanding and raw honesty. He's really sensitive on the inside and has the sweetest way of revealing his emotions
Strange... everyone that is in love with their partner believe their SO is their twin flame...
Posted by infiresI don't mean to judge - obviously you know better than me since it's your life - but if so, there's a possibility he's not your twinflame. To be considered such, a week without the thought of him popping up seems like a very long time. You relationship seems unhealthy but not as toxic as the one people experience with their twinflames.Posted by Paleriosometimes can't sleep but not because of himPosted by infiresCan you sleep? How long can you go without thinking about him?
I want to believe it's my partner and I feel the connection. long term, he can be too immature h and I need someone to understand. Our communication is lacking.
Alot of people dont like him because he's hurt me many times and I kept justifying it. He is the first one who took my virginity and the one broke my heart when we broke up. Would feel physical pain and shut myself in the room. Out of nowhere, dream of us seeing each other even if we don't in real life.. hurting each other in the worst ways possible
he apologized for letting me go. He told his friend that his heart feels at ease after getting back together
His moon opposition Saturn, Saturn dominant dude.. too insecure, untrusting.
we are different completely, my virgo dominant clashes with his gemini dominant. Feel like the Leo is what's keeping us together. Other times feels like it our venus signs cancer and virgo. Maybe our mutuble energies working together to blend our personalities
We act like we hate each other on the outside, but there is also deep mutual understanding and raw honesty. He's really sensitive on the inside and has the sweetest way of revealing his emotions
since we see each other so often, idk maybe a week
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Normally, it's more destructive than that. Most days, after only 5 minutes you feel your head is about to explode. Assuming you can't see each other that day, the best part of such day will become craving for the bed due to knowing you’re going to reconnect with him during your sleep... The day after you wake up, you get 2 minutes of ecstasy because your mind is free of thoughts, then all of a sudden boom it hits you like a moving train and you’re left thinking “Oh not again. Let me at least have breakfast, it’s too soon for this”.
The day ends a 7 am. You can’t do butter for the rest of the day. You can’t read. You can’t run. You can’t focus. You can’t write an email. You can’t work productively. You can’t watch a movie to distract yourself. Anything revolves around the thought of when are you going to see him again. You live in a state of apnea that only cease when you see each other. He allows you to breath. It's not a metaphor in this case. The level of intoxication is so high that even when you're together you miss him already because you know how butterty you're going to feel in a few seconds after saying goodbye. Dxp becomes a nice distraction. And that alone it's a tragedy already :p
There's a sense of codependency that makes you run in circle. You start living vicariously through him. With him you feel complete, understood and accepted for who you are. That feels undoubtedly great. You want to get to the bottom of things. You’re discovering yourself, but at the same time you're scared of facing that side of you that torments you. That side of you that it's obsessive and must be changed. That side of you that is turning you into an highly dysfunctional individual.
Fundamentally, through him you can see clearly into yourself because he’s just like you. A mirror. Every flaw he has you have it too. On the other hand, you’re his opposite as well. You strengths are his weaknesses and vice versa. You need each other because you have a lot to learn from each other. Astrologically speaking, being together it’s like having the most beneficial planet of all, in Jupiter, conjunct Chiron. The more expansive you become the more you experience pain. This feeling can go on for years, until one of the two decides enough is enough and pulls the plug.
While you would think it’s simple break up between two people that don’t get along anymore, it’s not. You’re not breaking up with him (that too), you’re breaking up with yourself. It’s not about him, you’re slamming the door on yourself because you’ve realized that it was necessary for you in order to survive. And I mean this literally. As never before, after pulling the plug you will feel empty.
Euthanasia.
@infires
Technically, a lot more can be added. However, I'm in too good of mood today to do so; possibly next time 😄
Technically, a lot more can be added. However, I'm in too good of mood today to do so; possibly next time 😄
Posted by infiresMuch like a cusper won't ultimately behave differently as a result of being labelled as such, I'm with you when you say it's not important to establish whether or not he's your twin: end of they day, the label won't really change the dynamic you're experiencing. Generally, if you think he doesn't resemble you then it's probably not - when in front of a mirror, one doesn't usually doubt that he's looking at himself.Posted by PalerioSorry to say but that seems like a mental illness, especially if that person can't stand being without the person for even 5 minutes.Posted by infiresI don't mean to judge - obviously you know better than me since it's your life - but if so, there's a possibility he's not your twinflame. To be considered such, a week without the thought of him popping up seems like a very long time. You relationship seems unhealthy but not as toxic as the one people experience with their twinflames.Posted by Paleriosometimes can't sleep but not because of himPosted by infiresCan you sleep? How long can you go without thinking about him?
I want to believe it's my partner and I feel the connection. long term, he can be too immature h and I need someone to understand. Our communication is lacking.
Alot of people dont like him because he's hurt me many times and I kept justifying it. He is the first one who took my virginity and the one broke my heart when we broke up. Would feel physical pain and shut myself in the room. Out of nowhere, dream of us seeing each other even if we don't in real life.. hurting each other in the worst ways possible
he apologized for letting me go. He told his friend that his heart feels at ease after getting back together
His moon opposition Saturn, Saturn dominant dude.. too insecure, untrusting.
we are different completely, my virgo dominant clashes with his gemini dominant. Feel like the Leo is what's keeping us together. Other times feels like it our venus signs cancer and virgo. Maybe our mutuble energies working together to blend our personalities
We act like we hate each other on the outside, but there is also deep mutual understanding and raw honesty. He's really sensitive on the inside and has the sweetest way of revealing his emotions
since we see each other so often, idk maybe a week
Normally, it's more destructive than that. Most days, after only 5 minutes you feel your head is about to explode. Assuming you can't see each other that day, the best part of such day will become craving for the bed due to knowing you’re going to reconnect with him during your sleep... The day after you wake up, you get 2 minutes of ecstasy because your mind is free of thoughts, then all of a sudden boom it hits you like a moving train and you’re left thinking “Oh not again. Let me at least have breakfast, it’s too soon for this”.
The day ends a 7 am. You can’t do butter for the rest of the day. You can’t read. You can’t run. You can’t focus. You can’t write an email. You can’t work productively. You can’t watch a movie to distract yourself. Anything revolves around the thought of when are you going to see him again. You live in a state of apnea that only cease when you see each other. He allows you to breath. It's not a metaphor in this case. The level of intoxication is so high that even when you're together you miss him already because you know how butterty you're going to feel in a few seconds after saying goodbye. Dxp becomes a nice distraction. And that alone it's a tragedy already :p
There's a sense of codependency that makes you run in circle. You start living vicariously through him. With him you feel complete, understood and accepted for who you are. That feels undoubtedly great. You want to get to the bottom of things. You’re discovering yourself, but at the same time you're scared of facing that side of you that torments you. That side of you that it's obsessive and must be changed. That side of you that is turning you into an highly dysfunctional individual.
Fundamentally, through him you can see clearly into yourself because he’s just like you. A mirror. Every flaw he has you have it too. On the other hand, you’re his opposite as well. You strengths are his weaknesses and vice versa. You need each other because you have a lot to learn from each other. Astrologically speaking, being together it’s like having the most beneficial planet of all, in Jupiter, conjunct Chiron. The more expansive you become the more you experience pain. This feeling can go on for years, until one of the two decides enough is enough and pulls the plug.
While you would think it’s simple break up between two people that don’t get along anymore, it’s not. You’re not breaking up with him (that too), you’re breaking up with yourself. It’s not about him, you’re slamming the door on yourself because you’ve realized that it was necessary for you in order to survive. And I mean this literally. As never before, after pulling the plug you will feel empty.
Euthanasia.
I do feel the intense need to see him and cuddle or sleep together..on somedays but not everyday like him. He literally needs to see me everyday and calls after to make sure im still here. We are also different from each other..because our ways of thinking and our personalities clash.. However, we are the same because of parents and because of the feelings/thirst for knowledge that we have of each other. Still don't know this person completely.
I cry when im with him and often think of doing the things we do.. when we're not together anymore. He asks 'why are you crying out of nowhere'. I never have a response prepared. He provides a kind of escape from everything that defines reality and for him too..a unreal character. However, being apart from him..I still felt like we're together. Just the disappointment and aching feeling, and insomnia was 10 fold. neptune in first house, neptune dominant
But there's no feeling that he is me, but that he's with me..all the time. If it's not twin flames, then must be destructive anyhow
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With that said, from your description I can't deny I'm having the feeling he's going through exactly what I've described previously (what about asking him?) and hence he might be him. Like a similar family situation and thirst for knowledge, in theory, it's perfectly in line with what defines mirrors/twins. On top of that you might also, and both, be going through a period of your life in which you feel directionless and afraid of changes.
I'm just making hypotheses, but the type of escapism you provide each other could be exactly what's preventing you from making progress in life. Obviously if you're making progresses it's not the case; however, I'm saying it because it is a frequent pattern among twinflames: becoming an highly unfruitful individual cuz of the amount of time you spend together.
Unrelated; have you ever thought about ending it yourself for his own good? If he literally needs to see you every day, do you realize his obsession over you it's just going to increase to a point he'll likely implode? Because if you care about him, this behaviour might be a sign that you need severe ties with him. Personally I notice it's very frequent among Virgo dominant folks to be self-centred. Like they're so caught up in their head that they become oblivious to the fact they're hurting people with their passive- aggressive communication style . They are nice, as they rarely mean to hurt people; but on the other hand, they don't realize that is exactly what they're doing.
p.s. just food for thoughts.
Posted by Sagberrylol i don't believe in twin flames
Was about to say something.. but everyone seems to believe in twin flames so i better shut up and mind my own business ?
Posted by Palerioi'm also not here to judge. been there done that though so as a survivor, i think i don't need to be shy to say that most likely this twin flames thing is created to make sense of the insanity of our (neptune) minds lolPosted by infiresI don't mean to judge - obviously you know better than me since it's your life - but if so, there's a possibility he's not your twinflame. To be considered such, a week without the thought of him popping up seems like a very long time. You relationship seems unhealthy but not as toxic as the one people experience with their twinflames.Posted by Paleriosometimes can't sleep but not because of himPosted by infiresCan you sleep? How long can you go without thinking about him?
I want to believe it's my partner and I feel the connection. long term, he can be too immature h and I need someone to understand. Our communication is lacking.
Alot of people dont like him because he's hurt me many times and I kept justifying it. He is the first one who took my virginity and the one broke my heart when we broke up. Would feel physical pain and shut myself in the room. Out of nowhere, dream of us seeing each other even if we don't in real life.. hurting each other in the worst ways possible
he apologized for letting me go. He told his friend that his heart feels at ease after getting back together
His moon opposition Saturn, Saturn dominant dude.. too insecure, untrusting.
we are different completely, my virgo dominant clashes with his gemini dominant. Feel like the Leo is what's keeping us together. Other times feels like it our venus signs cancer and virgo. Maybe our mutuble energies working together to blend our personalities
We act like we hate each other on the outside, but there is also deep mutual understanding and raw honesty. He's really sensitive on the inside and has the sweetest way of revealing his emotions
since we see each other so often, idk maybe a week
Normally, it's more destructive than that. Most days, after only 5 minutes you feel your head is about to explode. Assuming you can't see each other that day, the best part of such day will become craving for the bed due to knowing you’re going to reconnect with him during your sleep... The day after you wake up, you get 2 minutes of ecstasy because your mind is free of thoughts, then all of a sudden boom it hits you like a moving train and you’re left thinking “Oh not again. Let me at least have breakfast, it’s too soon for this”.
The day ends a 7 am. You can’t do butter for the rest of the day. You can’t read. You can’t run. You can’t focus. You can’t write an email. You can’t work productively. You can’t watch a movie to distract yourself. Anything revolves around the thought of when are you going to see him again. You live in a state of apnea that only cease when you see each other. He allows you to breath. It's not a metaphor in this case. The level of intoxication is so high that even when you're together you miss him already because you know how butterty you're going to feel in a few seconds after saying goodbye. Dxp becomes a nice distraction. And that alone it's a tragedy already :p
There's a sense of codependency that makes you run in circle. You start living vicariously through him. With him you feel complete, understood and accepted for who you are. That feels undoubtedly great. You want to get to the bottom of things. You’re discovering yourself, but at the same time you're scared of facing that side of you that torments you. That side of you that it's obsessive and must be changed. That side of you that is turning you into an highly dysfunctional individual.
Fundamentally, through him you can see clearly into yourself because he’s just like you. A mirror. Every flaw he has you have it too. On the other hand, you’re his opposite as well. You strengths are his weaknesses and vice versa. You need each other because you have a lot to learn from each other. Astrologically speaking, being together it’s like having the most beneficial planet of all, in Jupiter, conjunct Chiron. The more expansive you become the more you experience pain. This feeling can go on for years, until one of the two decides enough is enough and pulls the plug.
While you would think it’s simple break up between two people that don’t get along anymore, it’s not. You’re not breaking up with him (that too), you’re breaking up with yourself. It’s not about him, you’re slamming the door on yourself because you’ve realized that it was necessary for you in order to survive. And I mean this literally. As never before, after pulling the plug you will feel empty.
Euthanasia.
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when you just cannot take it anymore, phoenix reborn from ashes, your perception changed. it's a whole new happy world. FREE from the prison of your mind. your perception IS your reality
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