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Posted by SmidgeWas your partner holding you back and you couldn't improve yourself with your partner?
i was stuck in the same place and needed to move forward, but alone, with only myself to think about.
i wanted to become an improved version of myself, to grow and learn but i felt i couldn't do that while i was also thinking about somebody else.
and stuff. >_>
I see what you saying just tell me there was no love! Right?
Posted by blackphaseSo you left with or without partner knowing why you are leaving?
I have never ended a serious long term relationship.. EVER.
I have only ended things with people that I did not connect with on a deeper level, no passion, lacking intellect. But I figure that stuff out very very quickly, so I never end up in a relationship with someone that I foresee myself leaving in the future.
Leaving them in a dust or saying it's just not what I want at the time? Just to make them get it - it's over and no texts or calls needed anymore?
Posted by yupvirgooCheating I said obvious.
Cheating and lying
Lying is hard to prove. However depends if they say it's an old blouse - and they just bought it - it a white lie if they know partner flying off the handles about every $ 10!
Lying about being in library and actually being in hotel with another person having sex - is cheating.
So...what kind of lying we have here?
Capricorn: I found someone better. More consistent (taurus moon) very handsome (double Libra) and interesting (foreigner).
Libra: physical distance. It was a LDR to begin with. Then I married him. Moved to a different town after a couple of years and then to a different country.
Pisces: lack of sex. He stopped shagging after 5 years, smh
Libra: physical distance. It was a LDR to begin with. Then I married him. Moved to a different town after a couple of years and then to a different country.
Pisces: lack of sex. He stopped shagging after 5 years, smh
Posted by HareFry it with eggs for breakfast!
Chlamydia
Again being married from young age to the same woman HOW do you even know this word! Did she bring it to you!
I have unprotected sex with my Scorp and this problem not even entering my mind! Nor his!
And you forever married to the same woman...wait are you BGYN?
I don't think so!
Self worth? Is it not that obvious?
...what the fuck is a BGYN??
Posted by rockyroadicecreamVagina Doctor.
...what the fuck is a BGYN??
Posted by UndineI am sure few Pisces just died!
Capricorn: I found someone better. More consistent (taurus moon) very handsome (double Libra) and interesting (foreigner).
Libra: physical distance. It was a LDR to begin with. Then I married him. Moved to a different town after a couple of years and then to a different country.
Pisces: lack of sex. He stopped shagging after 5 years, smh
Lack of sex? Hahahaha
I had never had one but I've heard sex is their breakfast lunch and dinner! No?
Lol
Posted by SmidgePlease tell so others can understand how is it possible? Lots of love but right decision to leave? Why—Posted by Gemitatithere was a lot of love.Posted by SmidgeWas your partner holding you back and you couldn't improve yourself with your partner?
i was stuck in the same place and needed to move forward, but alone, with only myself to think about.
i wanted to become an improved version of myself, to grow and learn but i felt i couldn't do that while i was also thinking about somebody else.
and stuff. >_>
I see what you saying just tell me there was no love! Right?
it was just the right decision for me to leave.
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Posted by HareWas there life BEFORE you married?Posted by GemitatiIt was before I was married.Posted by HareFry it with eggs for breakfast!
Chlamydia
Again being married from young age to the same woman HOW do you even know this word! Did she bring it to you!
I have unprotected sex with my Scorp and this problem not even entering my mind! Nor his!
And you forever married to the same woman...wait are you BGYN?
I don't think so!
Duh.
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What a revelation!
Let me give you my take on it...there is life AFTER you married! Lol
Posted by HareI am so glad I am not an young adult!
Chlamydia spreads through young adults faster than fire through a Chinese fireworks factory.
Because I walked in on my Aries fucking a girl in our lounge.
Posted by GemitatiOBGYNPosted by rockyroadicecreamVagina Doctor.
...what the fuck is a BGYN??click to expand
You really should know this stuff at your age, Mrs. ex-IT Engineer.
Posted by GemitatiI bet 95% of people will say cheating.
I guess cheating is the only one don't need to be included because it's too obvious.
Posted by nikkistarYour post makes no sense but I've used to it. Just go cook something or whatever'Posted by GemitatiI bet 95% of people will say cheating.
I guess cheating is the only one don't need to be included because it's too obvious.click to expand
I broke up with a guy because there was no romantic spark and I didn't see a future with him. I don't think he was going far in life.
Posted by HareSo I am not depressed? I have chlamidia—Posted by GemitatiWell that was when I was young.Posted by HareI am so glad I am not an young adult!
Chlamydia spreads through young adults faster than fire through a Chinese fireworks factory.
Now days it's not Chlamydia...its crippling depression and anxiety over student loan debt that these kids catch
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Let me kiss your...whatever for this wonderful news!!'
Posted by GemitatiPosted by nikkistarYour post makes no sense but I've used to it. Just go cook something or whatever'Posted by GemitatiI bet 95% of people will say cheating.
I guess cheating is the only one don't need to be included because it's too obvious.click to expand
Let me dumb it down for you, Mrs. ex-IT Engineer.
I bet 95% of the people will say they ended their relationship because of cheating.
P.S. Go make me a sandwich.
Posted by nikkistarYou can go now. It's time for meds. And masturbation!Posted by GemitatiPosted by nikkistarYour post makes no sense but I've used to it. Just go cook something or whatever'Posted by GemitatiI bet 95% of people will say cheating.
I guess cheating is the only one don't need to be included because it's too obvious.
Let me dumb it down for you, Mrs. ex-IT Engineer.
I bet 95% of the people will say they ended their relationship because of cheating.
P.S. Go make me a sandwich.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by HareSo I am not depressed? I have chlamidia—Posted by GemitatiWell that was when I was young.Posted by HareI am so glad I am not an young adult!
Chlamydia spreads through young adults faster than fire through a Chinese fireworks factory.
Now days it's not Chlamydia...its crippling depression and anxiety over student loan debt that these kids catch
Let me kiss your...whatever for this wonderful news!!'click to expand
I broke up with my ex-bf because I wasn't happy anymore... the relationship was going nowhere. He took me for granted and stopped to progress and grow with me at some point. This was aggrevated by his tempers and his egocentric attitude. It was pretty painful because I loved him a lot and I tried to sort things out and took him back several times.. we just didn't work out!
Posted by Gemitati
You can go now. It's time for meds. And masturbation!
Posted by SmidgeI think you just described my marriage!Posted by Gemitatiyou can love someone but it doesn't necessarily mean that being with them is the right decision.Posted by SmidgePlease tell so others can understand how is it possible? Lots of love but right decision to leave? Why—Posted by Gemitatithere was a lot of love.Posted by SmidgeWas your partner holding you back and you couldn't improve yourself with your partner?
i was stuck in the same place and needed to move forward, but alone, with only myself to think about.
i wanted to become an improved version of myself, to grow and learn but i felt i couldn't do that while i was also thinking about somebody else.
and stuff. >_>
I see what you saying just tell me there was no love! Right?
it was just the right decision for me to leave.
i find it difficult to express my emotions, my ex was very uninterested in other's emotions (not intentionally) and so to finally express my feelings and to then only have them ignored, was really getting me nowhere.
among other things.
i needed to grow alone and work on myself, alone.
but i still loved him and it was very difficult.
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Posted by nikkistarWow! You must be really hungry and having no hands or no food! Find yourself a sugar daddy! Moron!Posted by GemitatiPosted by HareSo I am not depressed? I have chlamidia—Posted by GemitatiWell that was when I was young.Posted by HareI am so glad I am not an young adult!
Chlamydia spreads through young adults faster than fire through a Chinese fireworks factory.
Now days it's not Chlamydia...its crippling depression and anxiety over student loan debt that these kids catch
Let me kiss your...whatever for this wonderful news!!'click to expand
x1 abusive / cheater
x1 bored
x1 he tried too hard / turned off
x1 didn't trust
x1 talked too much
x1 just knew he wasn't the one
x1 important things not in common
Those are my big relationship reasons anyways
x1 bored
x1 he tried too hard / turned off
x1 didn't trust
x1 talked too much
x1 just knew he wasn't the one
x1 important things not in common
Those are my big relationship reasons anyways
x1 LACK OF PASSION!
Posted by GemitatiI like riling you up. I should really lighten up on you, since it is obviously not an even playing field at this point.Posted by nikkistarWow! You must be really hungry and having no hands or no food! Find yourself a sugar daddy! Moron!Posted by GemitatiPosted by HareSo I am not depressed? I have chlamidia—Posted by GemitatiWell that was when I was young.Posted by HareI am so glad I am not an young adult!
Chlamydia spreads through young adults faster than fire through a Chinese fireworks factory.
Now days it's not Chlamydia...its crippling depression and anxiety over student loan debt that these kids catch
Let me kiss your...whatever for this wonderful news!!'click to expand
But then, I wouldn't have fun at your expense.
Posted by yupvirgooBut my affair doesn't!Posted by GemitatiBut your marriage sucks.Posted by HareWas there life BEFORE you married?Posted by GemitatiIt was before I was married.Posted by HareFry it with eggs for breakfast!
Chlamydia
Again being married from young age to the same woman HOW do you even know this word! Did she bring it to you!
I have unprotected sex with my Scorp and this problem not even entering my mind! Nor his!
And you forever married to the same woman...wait are you BGYN?
I don't think so!
Duh.
What a revelation!
Let me give you my take on it...there is life AFTER you married! Lolclick to expand
Posted by nikkistarI think we need to have a drink!Posted by GemitatiI like riling you up. I should really lighten up on you, since it is obviously not an even playing field at this point.Posted by nikkistarWow! You must be really hungry and having no hands or no food! Find yourself a sugar daddy! Moron!Posted by GemitatiPosted by HareSo I am not depressed? I have chlamidia—Posted by GemitatiWell that was when I was young.Posted by HareI am so glad I am not an young adult!
Chlamydia spreads through young adults faster than fire through a Chinese fireworks factory.
Now days it's not Chlamydia...its crippling depression and anxiety over student loan debt that these kids catch
Let me kiss your...whatever for this wonderful news!!'
But then, I wouldn't have fun at your expense.click to expand
We might find some grounds drunk!
Sober I can't get your drift...wait! I forgot I had had a drink already!
Not for your expense! So don't get all I paid for it! Lol
Posted by TerramineLightvoidSo?Posted by Gemitati
But my affair doesn't!
Yur a sick fuck.
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Posted by TerramineLightvoidPosted by blackphase
I have never ended a serious long term relationship.. EVER.
I have only ended things with people that I did not connect with on a deeper level, no passion, lacking intellect. But I figure that stuff out very very quickly, so I never end up in a relationship with someone that I foresee myself leaving in the future.
Problem: Passion isn't love. That is merely infatuation. Love isn't an infatuation nor a connection. It is simply regarding someone as more important than yourself.
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Maybe you are mistaking passion for lust. I have known some couples who have been together for years and have great feelings of passion for each other.....it is probably rare but some marriages can sustain this. Sometimes it is mutual, and sometimes it's one sided
Posted by TerramineLightvoidHahahahahahaha!Posted by pinkbird03
I broke up with a guy because there was no romantic spark and I didn't see a future with him. I don't think he was going far in life.
Right because love is going for an upgrade LOLOLOL
I swear. This attitude right here. This is why men are playas. Caused women don't know what loyalty is from the get go. Herpderp.click to expand
Oh!
Lol
LMAO!!!
Posted by TerramineLightvoidYeah took too damn many years to figure it out! Luckily I got my head out of the sand and have learnt my lesson. 🙂 Best of luck to all of you!Posted by taurusgoddess
x1 abusive / cheater
x1 bored
x1 he tried too hard / turned off
x1 didn't trust
x1 talked too much
x1 just knew he wasn't the one
x1 important things not in common
Those are my big relationship reasons anyways
Lmao, you are retarded. You don't know what love is, and from the sounds of it, never will.click to expand
Posted by HareSTI? Well...
JFC I mention I got an STI from a skanky Gemini chick like...20 years ago and everything falls apart.
I feel for your wife if she married you with everything fell apart! Is she a Saint someone? Or shenosnsrinking enough to never mind the fact that you have everything...nowhere to be found?
Posted by Gemitati
I think we need to have a drink!
We might find some grounds drunk!
Sober I can't get your drift...wait! I forgot I had had a drink already!
Not for your expense! So don't get all I paid for it! Lol
Posted by TerramineLightvoidIt's been almost decade moron!Posted by GemitatiPosted by TerramineLightvoidSo?Posted by Gemitati
But my affair doesn't!
Yur a sick fuck.
Karma is a bitch: You'll lose your marriage, but then you'll find out there is no love in affairs, so you'll also lose your affair when you try to go to them for love.
Lose - Lose
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And I just had best date of my life...again!
So shut ya hell up retard!
Posted by TerramineLightvoidBro, I don't know if you know this, but Gemitati could give two fucks if her marriage failed.Posted by GemitatiPosted by TerramineLightvoidSo?Posted by Gemitati
But my affair doesn't!
Yur a sick fuck.
Karma is a bitch: You'll lose your marriage, but then you'll find out there is no love in affairs, so you'll also lose your affair when you try to go to them for love.
Lose - Lose
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Matter of fact, she would likely throw a party if it did.
Posted by SmidgeGrowing out is harder! Don't wish on enemy!Posted by Gemitatiit's difficult, for sure.Posted by SmidgeI think you just described my marriage!Posted by Gemitatiyou can love someone but it doesn't necessarily mean that being with them is the right decision.Posted by SmidgePlease tell so others can understand how is it possible? Lots of love but right decision to leave? Why—Posted by Gemitatithere was a lot of love.Posted by SmidgeWas your partner holding you back and you couldn't improve yourself with your partner?
i was stuck in the same place and needed to move forward, but alone, with only myself to think about.
i wanted to become an improved version of myself, to grow and learn but i felt i couldn't do that while i was also thinking about somebody else.
and stuff. >_>
I see what you saying just tell me there was no love! Right?
it was just the right decision for me to leave.
i find it difficult to express my emotions, my ex was very uninterested in other's emotions (not intentionally) and so to finally express my feelings and to then only have them ignored, was really getting me nowhere.
among other things.
i needed to grow alone and work on myself, alone.
but i still loved him and it was very difficult.
growing *with* somebody else is probably one of the hardest things to do.
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Posted by HareYou always get to the rabbit hole when I grab your tail...good it didn't fell off yet! LolPosted by GemitatiLOL @ this hoPosted by HareSTI? Well...
JFC I mention I got an STI from a skanky Gemini chick like...20 years ago and everything falls apart.
I feel for your wife if she married you with everything fell apart! Is she a Saint someone? Or shenosnsrinking enough to never mind the fact that you have everything...nowhere to be found?
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Posted by GemitatiNo real future is the #1 reason for me.
This place is flooded with dumped crying people and I have just decided to ask those who had dumped someone after sexy on first date or a year after...
For any reason...
Can you tell the story of why have you dumped your partner. I guess cheating is the only one don't need to be included because it's too obvious.
- Not smart or resourceful
- Bad temper
- Destructive habits (drugs, gambling, drinking too much, etc.)
Posted by TerramineLightvoidOh, I understand. However, you are assuming the other party you are currently addressing has the intellectual wherewithal to comprehend what you are trying to say.
But you heard her response as to why she thinks that. She used the affair. Which as I am saying won't work as a replacement like she seems to think.
Posted by Harethe no English ho !Posted by GemitatiLOL @ this hoPosted by HareSTI? Well...
JFC I mention I got an STI from a skanky Gemini chick like...20 years ago and everything falls apart.
I feel for your wife if she married you with everything fell apart! Is she a Saint someone? Or shenosnsrinking enough to never mind the fact that you have everything...nowhere to be found?
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Posted by GemitatiBreakfast, lunch and dinner for the first year (false advertizing!). Dinner for the next four. Christmas meal after that 😛Posted by UndineI am sure few Pisces just died!
Capricorn: I found someone better. More consistent (taurus moon) very handsome (double Libra) and interesting (foreigner).
Libra: physical distance. It was a LDR to begin with. Then I married him. Moved to a different town after a couple of years and then to a different country.
Pisces: lack of sex. He stopped shagging after 5 years, smh
Lack of sex? Hahahaha
I had never had one but I've heard sex is their breakfast lunch and dinner! No?
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Posted by TerramineLightvoidGuess you need a synopsis.
A decade since what?
Gem is married
Gem has been in an affair for 10 years with a man that is married as well
Posted by TerramineLightvoidMy affair is THAT old! Shove it!Posted by GemitatiPosted by TerramineLightvoidIt's been almost decade moron!Posted by GemitatiPosted by TerramineLightvoidSo?Posted by Gemitati
But my affair doesn't!
Yur a sick fuck.
Karma is a bitch: You'll lose your marriage, but then you'll find out there is no love in affairs, so you'll also lose your affair when you try to go to them for love.
Lose - Lose
And I just had best date of my life...again!
So shut ya hell up retard!
A decade since what?
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Posted by TerramineLightvoidPosted by Smidge
well, one, that time hasn't come yet. i'm still not ready to be in another relationship as i believe i still have shiz to figure out on my own.
also, we're in different places in our life now.
to go back to him would be like moving backwards for me, and it would be for him also, i'm sure.
change has to happen.
Lmao not in love. Love is the one thing that never changes. If it allegedly does, then there was no love to begin with.
This is exactly why women are the true cause of all the heartbreak in the world. Sure men become players. But it is only because of this shit. Because women don't naturally have loyalty in them.
I mean. You are flagrantly wrong. Love is a fixed position. Not a mutability or a cardinality. To say "change has to happen" in regards to love is to say that you have to abandon love. Which is the most evil thing ever.
You aren't even asking him. How he feels about all of this. You aren't asking him if he can even accept being without you. You can't assume on his behalf. If he wasn't in the wrong. Then why is it a step backwards. He isn't a part of your lack of self development.click to expand
What about when people fall out of love? Love isn't always fixed. I would say it is between parents and chilidren ... Well it should be. Between two adults it can break down and the love can change form or even cease..people move on from each other
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