What zodiac sign couples do you know irl...

Where you think the men can definitely do better?

kittens idea thread #2 ❤️

I think water seeks its own level and people stay together for a reason. whether karmic or because they're secretly happy in their own way

First example is my Gemini dad who:

has a degree, a doctor daughter (not me), never gets sick & works 30 12-hr shifts in a row;

& my Aries stepmom who:

dropped out of high school, is a stay-at-home wife who's too sore from having shingles before to clean or do laundry, her idea of a home-cooked meal for her husband is some microwaveable Banquet bullshit, and her Taurus son has 3 young kids who he and Pisces wife lost custody of because of a feces-infested home and possibly meth and she took the responsibility of those kids upon herself and my 59 year old dad. AND she insists on sleeping in separate beds bc of the residual shingles pain. she also talks while eating and spits out globs of food. and she has 2 previous marriages that all ended because she cheated

he's highly intelligent but has little water in his chart. very empathetic and sweet. I know he had an affair on Aries once before and I assume he still does, and that he works so many hrs to avoid her. once he told me if she was a horse he'd shoot her. I'm sure he loves her for valid reasons, but on the flip side I think he's a dark person (ive worked with him and seen how he cliques up with good-ol-boys who get up to criminal shit but are charismatic enough to get away with it) and he keeps her around to abuse emotionally

Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)

the aqua dude who I was obsessed with when I came here is married to a virgo who has an ex-parté on her record for child abuse filed by her ex-husband, it was dropped because he didn't show up to court and he soon after killed himself. she doesn't work, he climbed his way up to a nice, very well paying salaried job from nothing. he was making like $ 12 an hr 7 years ago. she had also been sued multiple times for nonpayment before he married her. he got me into normalizing fat-shaming, she was over 200 lbs until she had a gastric bypass around 6 years ago, I used to skip meals and treats out of fear of seeing him with a pooch lol. I know he has cheated (did w me for years, was a massive waste of my time) and he probably loves her because she's an unpresst Virgo who hopefully cheats too. 💅 I love Virgals and aquas together fr.

also so far my examples seem to be jealousy based lol I apologize.

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Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports

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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him

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Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports
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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him
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Possible 😂 bf claims she must be Taurus, no way she's anything else 😂 I kinda agree, can't imagine what other sign could she be

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like Scott and Laci Peterson lol

I can think of tons of examples where the man is the "Venusian" and the woman is a troll but usually she makes up for it in some way, either she works, is ambitious, has an exciting life of her own or generally is easygoing with little baggage

an example that I'm not emotionally invested in: my old friend Bri (Sag) and my ex's friend Cainan (Libra). he's fine and looks just like young Dave Grohl, an ambitious and talented musician, and works. their house-apartment is in his name, he moved her in. she refuses to work or stay at a job, is obese, has become a radical SJW and has her many friends over all the time. he may like the social aspect and fun but also my ex told me she sits on the computer all day playing Second Life because she's insecure about being fat and lives vicariously through avatars. apparently Cainan's obsessed with her because her sex drive is insatiable.

oh yeah, my Pisces former coworker is married to this ugly Libra on disability with a huge room filled with MLM makeup that she'll never sell although she's an "inspiring influincer". but I guess she's a horndog and he definitely gropes others (he did to me)

I know another Pisces who cheats on his homely gf but I guess stays because she's alt and treats his twins well. and an aqua boss ( $ 30/hr, lots of OT) who's married to a hambeast cancer manicurist

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you're welcome to participate. what sign man settles with high-baggage behemoths in your life

Posted by MidAtBest
I think water seeks its own level and people stay together for a reason. whether karmic or because they're secretly happy in their own way

First example is my Gemini dad who:

has a degree, a doctor daughter (not me), never gets sick & works 30 12-hr shifts in a row;

& my Aries stepmom who:

dropped out of high school, is a stay-at-home wife who's too sore from having shingles before to clean or do laundry, her idea of a home-cooked meal for her husband is some microwaveable Banquet bullshit, and her Taurus son has 3 young kids who he and Pisces wife lost custody of because of a feces-infested home and possibly meth and she took the responsibility of those kids upon herself and my 59 year old dad. AND she insists on sleeping in separate beds bc of the residual shingles pain. she also talks while eating and spits out globs of food. and she has 2 previous marriages that all ended because she cheated

he's highly intelligent but has little water in his chart. very empathetic and sweet. I know he had an affair on Aries once before and I assume he still does, and that he works so many hrs to avoid her. once he told me if she was a horse he'd shoot her. I'm sure he loves her for valid reasons, but on the flip side I think he's a dark person (ive worked with him and seen how he cliques up with good-ol-boys who get up to criminal shit but are charismatic enough to get away with it) and he keeps her around to abuse emotionally

Shingles 🤣

I think this wasn't kittens' best idea, this thread topic is a recurring one

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Posted by PhoenixSag

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports
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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him

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Water moons are pathetic. My bro is a pisces moon and he married a lazy entitled Leo with Cancer moon. She got married to him with an idealistic view of marriage where he and her would just be dating for life, even though for him having kids was a big part and he told her that. Her mom told her to have kids in order to save her marriage even though she didn’t want to have kids because that was the only way to keep the solid provider my bro is. She popped out two kids who are neglected despite that she’s a stay at home mom. My poor niece and nephew are lil Matildas that dress themselves, eat junk food that she leaves out for them when they wake up early, and my brother is not just the earner, financial provider but is also carrying the domestic weight. He’s madly in love with her despite that she’s a shameful mother and a homemaker. My brother is a definition of what men call a simp.

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Posted by PhoenixSag

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Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports
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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him
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Water moons are pathetic. My bro is a pisces moon and he married a lazy entitled Leo with Cancer moon. She got married to him with an idealistic view of marriage where he and her would just be dating for life, even though for him having kids was a big part and he told her that. Her mom told her to have kids in order to save her marriage even though she didn’t want to have kids because that was the only way to keep the solid provider my bro is. She popped out two kids who are neglected despite that she’s a stay at home mom. My poor niece and nephew are lil Matildas that dress themselves, eat junk food that she leaves out for them when they wake up early, and my brother is not just the earner, financial provider but is also carrying the domestic weight. He’s madly in love with her despite that she’s a shameful mother and a homemaker. My brother is a definition of what men call a simp.

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in my personal life I have a lot of problems with scorpio moons. the people in this world I've always been the most impressed with are those blind to status and power. people can be beautiful, worthwhile and interesting while poor and unpopular. water moons are susceptible to games, I guess that plays into their attraction to power because some narc can persuade him overtly or covertly that he's beneath her and it makes him obsessed with chasing her despite looking and being sloppy (shit maybe they love those women more for that, whatever reduces competition). I think the Aries moons I've met are the most "caste"-blind. possibly libra too... as much as I hate to say it

I feel so bad for those kids, and if they suffer hopefully he realizes he's guilty for enabling her. the Leo needs to work. getting out and going to work is good for our mental health, interacting with different people, tackling small challenges, setting goals

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Based pick me thread, OP.

hi kimbo

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Posted by MidAtBest
I think water seeks its own level and people stay together for a reason. whether karmic or because they're secretly happy in their own way
First example is my Gemini dad who:
has a degree, a doctor daughter (not me), never gets sick & works 30 12-hr shifts in a row;
& my Aries stepmom who:
dropped out of high school, is a stay-at-home wife who's too sore from having shingles before to clean or do laundry, her idea of a home-cooked meal for her husband is some microwaveable Banquet bullshit, and her Taurus son has 3 young kids who he and Pisces wife lost custody of because of a feces-infested home and possibly meth and she took the responsibility of those kids upon herself and my 59 year old dad. AND she insists on sleeping in separate beds bc of the residual shingles pain. she also talks while eating and spits out globs of food. and she has 2 previous marriages that all ended because she cheated
he's highly intelligent but has little water in his chart. very empathetic and sweet. I know he had an affair on Aries once before and I assume he still does, and that he works so many hrs to avoid her. once he told me if she was a horse he'd shoot her. I'm sure he loves her for valid reasons, but on the flip side I think he's a dark person (ive worked with him and seen how he cliques up with good-ol-boys who get up to criminal shit but are charismatic enough to get away with it) and he keeps her around to abuse emotionally

Wat

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🤣 this thread is ridiculous

it might have hit harder if I left out the context but yeah

I made my life sound really ghetto there 😰 (it is)

my aries sister : does nothing in the house, doesn't clean or cook, verbally abusive with everybody. Married to a virgo man who's pretty much her zealed janitor, cleans everything all the time. I noticed they installed a small bed in a room for him, like a boy bedroom, while she occupies the whole masters bedroom and has her shit spread around the room carelessly

VirgoM+aries F is a common trope

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Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports
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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him
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Water moons are pathetic. My bro is a pisces moon and he married a lazy entitled Leo with Cancer moon. She got married to him with an idealistic view of marriage where he and her would just be dating for life, even though for him having kids was a big part and he told her that. Her mom told her to have kids in order to save her marriage even though she didn’t want to have kids because that was the only way to keep the solid provider my bro is. She popped out two kids who are neglected despite that she’s a stay at home mom. My poor niece and nephew are lil Matildas that dress themselves, eat junk food that she leaves out for them when they wake up early, and my brother is not just the earner, financial provider but is also carrying the domestic weight. He’s madly in love with her despite that she’s a shameful mother and a homemaker. My brother is a definition of what men call a simp.
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in my personal life I have a lot of problems with scorpio moons. the people in this world I've always been the most impressed with are those blind to status and power. people can be beautiful, worthwhile and interesting while poor and unpopular. water moons are susceptible to games, I guess that plays into their attraction to power because some narc can persuade him overtly or covertly that he's beneath her and it makes him obsessed with chasing her despite looking and being sloppy (shit maybe they love those women more for that, whatever reduces competition). I think the Aries moons I've met are the most "caste"-blind. possibly libra too... as much as I hate to say it

I feel so bad for those kids, and if they suffer hopefully he realizes he's guilty for enabling her. the Leo needs to work. getting out and going to work is good for our mental health, interacting with different people, tackling small challenges, setting goals

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A dark empath is the worst. At least a true narcissist makes it pretty obvious imo.

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Posted by PhoenixSag

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Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports
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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him
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Water moons are pathetic. My bro is a pisces moon and he married a lazy entitled Leo with Cancer moon. She got married to him with an idealistic view of marriage where he and her would just be dating for life, even though for him having kids was a big part and he told her that. Her mom told her to have kids in order to save her marriage even though she didn’t want to have kids because that was the only way to keep the solid provider my bro is. She popped out two kids who are neglected despite that she’s a stay at home mom. My poor niece and nephew are lil Matildas that dress themselves, eat junk food that she leaves out for them when they wake up early, and my brother is not just the earner, financial provider but is also carrying the domestic weight. He’s madly in love with her despite that she’s a shameful mother and a homemaker. My brother is a definition of what men call a simp.
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in my personal life I have a lot of problems with scorpio moons. the people in this world I've always been the most impressed with are those blind to status and power. people can be beautiful, worthwhile and interesting while poor and unpopular. water moons are susceptible to games, I guess that plays into their attraction to power because some narc can persuade him overtly or covertly that he's beneath her and it makes him obsessed with chasing her despite looking and being sloppy (shit maybe they love those women more for that, whatever reduces competition). I think the Aries moons I've met are the most "caste"-blind. possibly libra too... as much as I hate to say it

I feel so bad for those kids, and if they suffer hopefully he realizes he's guilty for enabling her. the Leo needs to work. getting out and going to work is good for our mental health, interacting with different people, tackling small challenges, setting goals

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Aries moons are goat and they are all about attaining power and success. I like them. Water moons are masochistic and pathetic. Anytime I see a person putting up with a user with no redeeming qualities, they are always water moons. My simp bro doesn’t even see how he’s hurting his kids by not getting her to pull her weight. The reason he doesn’t confront her or speak to her about her role as a mother is because he doesn’t want to rock the boat or disrupt his sex. He’s selfish and all about his needs. He doesn’t even care technically how his lack of backbone is affecting the kids.

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Posted by MidAtBest
I think this wasn't kittens' best idea, this thread topic is a recurring one

My initial idea for the original post of this thread is actually a diss directed towards Aries women which goes something like this:

"Where you think the men can definitely do better?

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My vote would be to:

Aquarius man - Aries woman

Taurus man - Aries woman

Cancer man - Aries woman

Scorpio man - Aries woman

Pisces man - Aries woman

Virgo man - Aries woman

Capricorn man - Aries woman

Libra man - Aries woman

Sagittarius man - Aries woman

Gemini man - Aries woman

Aries man - Aries woman

Leo man - Aries woman"


😭😭😭😭

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🤣🤣🤣 Fire women are not faring well in this thread

Posted by Stardustmopped
I know an Aquarius that paid for labiaplasty for a Virgo and she cheated on him immediately after with a guy in a motorcycle gang that killed his Dad.

You think I am mean for being strategic and matching energies but I am not ‘cheat on you with the new labia minora you just bought me and get your Dad killed’ mean.

Long labias are lowkey goated though

This is the definition of aqua m Virgo f, the men love the coldbloodedness

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Posted by neveadrianne

Posted by MidAtBest
I think this wasn't kittens' best idea, this thread topic is a recurring one

My initial idea for the original post of this thread is actually a diss directed towards Aries women which goes something like this:
"Where you think the men can definitely do better?
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.
.
.
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My vote would be to:
Aquarius man - Aries woman
Taurus man - Aries woman
Cancer man - Aries woman
Scorpio man - Aries woman
Pisces man - Aries woman
Virgo man - Aries woman
Capricorn man - Aries woman
Libra man - Aries woman
Sagittarius man - Aries woman
Gemini man - Aries woman
Aries man - Aries woman
Leo man - Aries woman"

😭😭😭😭


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But i'm past my controversial era and decided for the vanilla, harmless one.

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You have my support either way, we just want you here

Posted by neveadrianne

Posted by MidAtBest
I think this wasn't kittens' best idea, this thread topic is a recurring one

My initial idea for the original post of this thread is actually a diss directed towards Aries women which goes something like this:

"Where you think the men can definitely do better?

.

.

.

.

.

My vote would be to:

Aquarius man - Aries woman

Taurus man - Aries woman

Cancer man - Aries woman

Scorpio man - Aries woman

Pisces man - Aries woman

Virgo man - Aries woman

Capricorn man - Aries woman

Libra man - Aries woman

Sagittarius man - Aries woman

Gemini man - Aries woman

Aries man - Aries woman

Leo man - Aries woman"


😭😭😭😭

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Kittens had known best all this time

If only we all had taken note

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Posted by Stardustmopped
I know an Aquarius that paid for labiaplasty for a Virgo and she cheated on him immediately after with a guy in a motorcycle gang that killed his Dad.
You think I am mean for being strategic and matching energies but I am not ‘cheat on you with the new labia minora you just bought me and get your Dad killed’ mean.

Long labias are lowkey goated though
This is the definition of aqua m Virgo f, the men love the coldbloodedness
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I don’t have a labia preference. I saw on Reddit they can shrink in menopause though, which is terrifying. Just trying to enjoy mine before they disappear.

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The long ones envelop the dick as it pulls out like a soft vacuumy vagina extension. And it looks aesthetic too. Sounds obvious but I had no idea till my ex shot a porno of us. Ok end of tmi but I'll have to check that out. Another horrifying reddit thing I learned is that the husband stitch is real 😳

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Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports
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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him

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Would that apply to a man with water moon and venus but not sun sign placements?

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Posted by PhoenixSag
Hm, I know a Scorpio man and a Capricorn man who could do waaaay much better (based on looks and personality - applies to Scorpio only, Cap's wife is a nice person tho too). But I don't know their wive's signs so can't respond to that part. As for everyone else I know - the men got lucky cause their wives are much better than them.

scorpio energy loves the drama of single moms and competing with her baby dad(s)
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Hm, these two have two kids together, been together long time I guess. She's everything opposite from him, she's short and thick and she's loud and bossy 😂 she's the boss of everyone in the house and she often screams at all three of them😂 he's quite nice from as much as I know him, very polite, quiet and well mannered. Also looks much better than her and plays sports
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I think that's a water sign man thing to crave a woman to control him
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Would that apply to a man with water moon and venus but not sun sign placements?

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maybe not in the case of scorpio venus or moon. or cancer moon

I think my Leo brother deserves better than his Aries wife 🤷🏼‍♀️

I don’t know what she offers to the relationship. She’s basic, boring, superficial, spends all the money, and only wants to think/talk about food. Like there’s nothing else on her mind ever period point blank

We went to the beach and she left after 20 mins of watching TikTok and not doing beach activities to go back to the hotel room and eat potato chips for over an hour

The second we woke up, she was on the phone looking up breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Didn’t say a word about anything outside of the food from what I can remember

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We went to the beach and she left after 20 mins of watching TikTok and not doing beach activities to go back to the hotel room and eat potato chips for over an hour

The second we woke up, she was on the phone looking up breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Didn’t say a word about anything outside of the food from what I can remember

Aries women are taking L after L in this thread 😂

there are so many beautiful and classy Aries female celebrities but many irl certainly aren't up to par

Aqua men with Pisces venus drool after their mediocrity though

Even though this was eons ago I don't know if this still counts but anyway my scorpio colleague the one used to back me up on bass guitar was married to an aries lady and she used to treat him real bad they used to get into heated arguments quite a lot. That's all the info I'm giving on that. I haven't seen him in so long he probably finally took my advice and leave her. I think he could do better. I used to feel sorry for him to the point of giving him money and all. He was a Scorpio with libras in all of his inner planets. He come off more as a libra.

Jesus Christ.... what negative energies do yall surround yourselves by!?

I can’t think of any men but plenty of women who could do better

Sorry 😅🙃

Posted by KimboSlice

I fuking legit gigglesnorted! 🤣



That's trrrrble...

None of them are outstanding. The relationships that start out strong get targeting responses from people that are ugly and offended.

Those unliked, scorned people will eventually choose the couples' new steers and new images. You will not be the same people any more. You'll be an idiot's choice, usually someone that doesn't hurt their sensitivity because they are nothing exceptional.

I have lost and forgone relationships due to this.

The identity and image assigners make redeeming people ugly, fat and boring(or unreasonable)with their new picks for steering. They will use your steer access for sex, drinking and food, too.

If you're with someone and things are great, hide everything you can from Ugly Characters.

Posted by Triggered_Conservative
None of them are outstanding. The relationships that start out strong get targeting responses from people that are ugly and offended.

Those unliked, scorned people will eventually choose the couples' new steers and new images. You will not be the same people any more. You'll be an idiot's choice, usually someone that doesn't hurt their sensitivity because they are nothing exceptional.

I have lost and forgone relationships due to this.

The identity and image assigners make redeeming people ugly, fat and boring(or unreasonable)with their new picks for steering. They will use your steer access for sex, drinking and food, too.

If you're with someone and things are great, hide everything you can from Ugly Characters.

DopeFly?

Posted by MidAtBest
the aqua dude who I was obsessed with when I came here is married to a virgo who has an ex-parté on her record for child abuse filed by her ex-husband, it was dropped because he didn't show up to court and he soon after killed himself. she doesn't work, he climbed his way up to a nice, very well paying salaried job from nothing. he was making like $ 12 an hr 7 years ago. she had also been sued multiple times for nonpayment before he married her. he got me into normalizing fat-shaming, she was over 200 lbs until she had a gastric bypass around 6 years ago, I used to skip meals and treats out of fear of seeing him with a pooch lol. I know he has cheated (did w me for years, was a massive waste of my time) and he probably loves her because she's an unpresst Virgo who hopefully cheats too. 💅 I love Virgals and aquas together fr.

also so far my examples seem to be jealousy based lol I apologize.

The thing about Aquarius is that they have very dark side. I bet that the reason he stays with her or "loves her" is because he's feeling better about himself knowing shes bad too.

I was stuck in this mindset for years - I don't have to do better, I just need someone who won't bitch about it. And she probably does not.

This is not love for her, this is him staying in comfort zone to not expose his egoistic nature as Aquarius tends to have, a love for himself.

Hope you recover from this obsession.

The couples I tend to see is earth x water, fire x Air.

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the aqua dude who I was obsessed with when I came here is married to a virgo who has an ex-parté on her record for child abuse filed by her ex-husband, it was dropped because he didn't show up to court and he soon after killed himself. she doesn't work, he climbed his way up to a nice, very well paying salaried job from nothing. he was making like $ 12 an hr 7 years ago. she had also been sued multiple times for nonpayment before he married her. he got me into normalizing fat-shaming, she was over 200 lbs until she had a gastric bypass around 6 years ago, I used to skip meals and treats out of fear of seeing him with a pooch lol. I know he has cheated (did w me for years, was a massive waste of my time) and he probably loves her because she's an unpresst Virgo who hopefully cheats too. 💅 I love Virgals and aquas together fr.
also so far my examples seem to be jealousy based lol I apologize.

The thing about Aquarius is that they have very dark side. I bet that the reason he stays with her or "loves her" is because he's feeling better about himself knowing shes bad too.

I was stuck in this mindset for years - I don't have to do better, I just need someone who won't bitch about it. And she probably does not.

This is not love for her, this is him staying in comfort zone to not expose his egoistic nature as Aquarius tends to have, a love for himself.

Hope you recover from this obsession.

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I've posted more backstory about this situation in the "jorniest dxp user" thread but I'm long past that obsession. he and I parted ways 6 years ago. what hurt me was the fact that I was recovering from an eating disorder, he said he was obsessed with my skinny body, he fat-shamed people gratuitously and gave me very little meanwhile I found out years later that his stay-at-home wife who he moves states around for at her whim was obese (so he bought her that gastric bypass after a while). meanwhile I was 95 lbs and still restricting out of fear of being too fat for him. that was the only and last time id ever be involved in an affair. load of tripe it was

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the aqua dude who I was obsessed with when I came here is married to a virgo who has an ex-parté on her record for child abuse filed by her ex-husband, it was dropped because he didn't show up to court and he soon after killed himself. she doesn't work, he climbed his way up to a nice, very well paying salaried job from nothing. he was making like $ 12 an hr 7 years ago. she had also been sued multiple times for nonpayment before he married her. he got me into normalizing fat-shaming, she was over 200 lbs until she had a gastric bypass around 6 years ago, I used to skip meals and treats out of fear of seeing him with a pooch lol. I know he has cheated (did w me for years, was a massive waste of my time) and he probably loves her because she's an unpresst Virgo who hopefully cheats too. 💅 I love Virgals and aquas together fr.
also so far my examples seem to be jealousy based lol I apologize.

When I was younger, I was attracted to Virgo women. They just seemed tolerant and hardworking. But as years went on, I realized I'm too radical for earth energy (and most people)

My 1st is at 28° Virgo with Lilith conjunct same degree. Now I just see them as good friends and excellent helpers if you help them even just once.

My Sun is in the 5th so all my solar energy goes into Aquarius traits. I have only experienced true close relationships with masculine signs, especially Aquas, Libras, Leo's and a few Aries. No one else can handle me.

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I've got Lilith and Aphrodite conjunct my Saturn & some sex asteroid conjunct my midheaven. it's a hard life esp since family is repressing me from stripping it up (Pluto in 4th). the Saturn conjunctions apparently mean that I am so unsightly that only he for whom love is blind could ever love me 🤣 & that I won't wind up w someone younger

I truly love virgals. it is interesting how much we want our quincunxes sometimes but we can't force it to work. I was shocked at how easy the libra fling went. aqua, I dont trust em anymore

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the aqua dude who I was obsessed with when I came here is married to a virgo who has an ex-parté on her record for child abuse filed by her ex-husband, it was dropped because he didn't show up to court and he soon after killed himself. she doesn't work, he climbed his way up to a nice, very well paying salaried job from nothing. he was making like $ 12 an hr 7 years ago. she had also been sued multiple times for nonpayment before he married her. he got me into normalizing fat-shaming, she was over 200 lbs until she had a gastric bypass around 6 years ago, I used to skip meals and treats out of fear of seeing him with a pooch lol. I know he has cheated (did w me for years, was a massive waste of my time) and he probably loves her because she's an unpresst Virgo who hopefully cheats too. 💅 I love Virgals and aquas together fr.
also so far my examples seem to be jealousy based lol I apologize.

The thing about Aquarius is that they have very dark side. I bet that the reason he stays with her or "loves her" is because he's feeling better about himself knowing shes bad too.
I was stuck in this mindset for years - I don't have to do better, I just need someone who won't bitch about it. And she probably does not.
This is not love for her, this is him staying in comfort zone to not expose his egoistic nature as Aquarius tends to have, a love for himself.
Hope you recover from this obsession.
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I've posted more backstory about this situation in the "jorniest dxp user" thread but I'm long past that obsession. he and I parted ways 6 years ago. what hurt me was the fact that I was recovering from an eating disorder, he said he was obsessed with my skinny body, he fat-shamed people gratuitously and gave me very little meanwhile I found out years later that his stay-at-home wife who he moves states around for at her whim was obese (so he bought her that gastric bypass after a while). meanwhile I was 95 lbs and still restricting out of fear of being too fat for him. that was the only and last time id ever be involved in an affair. load of tripe it was

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I'm Sorry hear that. You deserve better 🌷

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I think water seeks its own level and people stay together for a reason. whether karmic or because they're secretly happy in their own way

First example is my Gemini dad who:

has a degree, a doctor daughter (not me), never gets sick & works 30 12-hr shifts in a row;

& my Aries stepmom who:

dropped out of high school, is a stay-at-home wife who's too sore from having shingles before to clean or do laundry, her idea of a home-cooked meal for her husband is some microwaveable Banquet bullshit, and her Taurus son has 3 young kids who he and Pisces wife lost custody of because of a feces-infested home and possibly meth and she took the responsibility of those kids upon herself and my 59 year old dad. AND she insists on sleeping in separate beds bc of the residual shingles pain. she also talks while eating and spits out globs of food. and she has 2 previous marriages that all ended because she cheated

he's highly intelligent but has little water in his chart. very empathetic and sweet. I know he had an affair on Aries once before and I assume he still does, and that he works so many hrs to avoid her. once he told me if she was a horse he'd shoot her. I'm sure he loves her for valid reasons, but on the flip side I think he's a dark person (ive worked with him and seen how he cliques up with good-ol-boys who get up to criminal shit but are charismatic enough to get away with it) and he keeps her around to abuse emotionally

maybe she's so depressed being with him that she just gave up like she's not gonna put in any effort

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Posted by MidAtBest
I think water seeks its own level and people stay together for a reason. whether karmic or because they're secretly happy in their own way
First example is my Gemini dad who:
has a degree, a doctor daughter (not me), never gets sick & works 30 12-hr shifts in a row;
& my Aries stepmom who:
dropped out of high school, is a stay-at-home wife who's too sore from having shingles before to clean or do laundry, her idea of a home-cooked meal for her husband is some microwaveable Banquet bullshit, and her Taurus son has 3 young kids who he and Pisces wife lost custody of because of a feces-infested home and possibly meth and she took the responsibility of those kids upon herself and my 59 year old dad. AND she insists on sleeping in separate beds bc of the residual shingles pain. she also talks while eating and spits out globs of food. and she has 2 previous marriages that all ended because she cheated
he's highly intelligent but has little water in his chart. very empathetic and sweet. I know he had an affair on Aries once before and I assume he still does, and that he works so many hrs to avoid her. once he told me if she was a horse he'd shoot her. I'm sure he loves her for valid reasons, but on the flip side I think he's a dark person (ive worked with him and seen how he cliques up with good-ol-boys who get up to criminal shit but are charismatic enough to get away with it) and he keeps her around to abuse emotionally

maybe she's so depressed being with him that she just gave up like she's not gonna put in any effort

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I'm sure of it actually. She's admitted to depression

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Posted by Triggered_Conservative
None of them are outstanding. The relationships that start out strong get targeting responses from people that are ugly and offended.
Those unliked, scorned people will eventually choose the couples' new steers and new images. You will not be the same people any more. You'll be an idiot's choice, usually someone that doesn't hurt their sensitivity because they are nothing exceptional.
I have lost and forgone relationships due to this.
The identity and image assigners make redeeming people ugly, fat and boring(or unreasonable)with their new picks for steering. They will use your steer access for sex, drinking and food, too.
If you're with someone and things are great, hide everything you can from Ugly Characters.

DopeFly?

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Don't smoke dope. It'll make you go crazy. You'll start dancing like blacks do.

I asked around.



You don't like when people's identity/identifying problems are discussed because you use a perspective character as a secondary life.



Understandable. You are the driver's character. It is your personal investment.

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I asked around.


You don't like when people's identity/identifying problems are discussed because you use a perspective character as a secondary life.


Understandable. You are the driver's character. It is your personal investment.

actually I recall when you checked my mound and discovered that I'm a non. and a steer-assigner

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I think water seeks its own level and people stay together for a reason. whether karmic or because they're secretly happy in their own way
First example is my Gemini dad who:
has a degree, a doctor daughter (not me), never gets sick & works 30 12-hr shifts in a row;
& my Aries stepmom who:
dropped out of high school, is a stay-at-home wife who's too sore from having shingles before to clean or do laundry, her idea of a home-cooked meal for her husband is some microwaveable Banquet bullshit, and her Taurus son has 3 young kids who he and Pisces wife lost custody of because of a feces-infested home and possibly meth and she took the responsibility of those kids upon herself and my 59 year old dad. AND she insists on sleeping in separate beds bc of the residual shingles pain. she also talks while eating and spits out globs of food. and she has 2 previous marriages that all ended because she cheated
he's highly intelligent but has little water in his chart. very empathetic and sweet. I know he had an affair on Aries once before and I assume he still does, and that he works so many hrs to avoid her. once he told me if she was a horse he'd shoot her. I'm sure he loves her for valid reasons, but on the flip side I think he's a dark person (ive worked with him and seen how he cliques up with good-ol-boys who get up to criminal shit but are charismatic enough to get away with it) and he keeps her around to abuse emotionally

maybe she's so depressed being with him that she just gave up like she's not gonna put in any effort
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I'm sure of it actually. She's admitted to depression

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tbh it's hard to think of a couple where the male can do better coz it's usually the other way around. the men listed have their own misgivings which is apparently being a doormat with basic needs 🤷🤷

but in general, it must be hard to marry your hater coz that's an everyday heartbreak. these women prob aren't trying coz they might know about the infidelities and instead of trying hard, they went the opposite direction.

some women go for their haters while men tend to get with their fangirls.

like let's be real here, like what's the demand in the market for a penis?

i'll never understand why my scorpio sun/taurus moon aunt puts up with my libra sun/scorpio moon uncle. dude pretends to be 'asleep' choking her, cheats sloppily (always gets caught) like exert better effort in hiding it pls and he sucks at handling business/money/dude has a literal island property with nothing to show for it. she literally married her #1 hater 🤦🤦

she would've been better off with her beta orbitter ex-husband.

men show you they hate you in a variety of subtle ways. they're more manipulative and insidious like that. when women hate you (they mostly exhibit hating themselves) like they don't take care of themselves, catching eating disorders/turn to substance abuse or they go the opposite direction and get all glammed up to cheat. even the worst they can do--- grab your kids and drown them in the bathtub to exorcise the demons out of them is at least to 'save them' yet somehow men can find a way to top that through the slow but sure degradation of your personhood not to 'save you' but to exploit you.

but hey, my aqua friend always did tell me back then that i'm sexist but in reverse. still don't know what that means but i do know that women simply by virtue of being female will always have someone waiting in the wings. just change your status in fb to single and watch all your options roll in. meanwhile, men out there wonder if they're even talking to a ciswoman online or someone from the alphabet mafia.

a man has to try a little harder in certain aspects depending on the woman vetting him. it's sad that most women forget the true nature of the dynamic of the sexes.

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I asked around.

You don't like when people's identity/identifying problems are discussed because you use a perspective character as a secondary life.

Understandable. You are the driver's character. It is your personal investment.

actually I recall when you checked my mound and discovered that I'm a non. and a steer-assigner

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Wow! If you weren't pictured in your profile, I would've immediately mistaken you for my ex-fiancé. She did not pass check.

Did you just confess something horrible, by the way?

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I asked around.

You don't like when people's identity/identifying problems are discussed because you use a perspective character as a secondary life.

Understandable. You are the driver's character. It is your personal investment.

actually I recall when you checked my mound and discovered that I'm a non. and a steer-assigner
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Wow! If you weren't pictured in your profile, I would've immediately mistaken you for my ex-fiancé. She did not pass check.

Did you just confess something horrible, by the way?

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Go talk to someone you like

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Posted by Triggered_Conservative
I asked around.

You don't like when people's identity/identifying problems are discussed because you use a perspective character as a secondary life.

Understandable. You are the driver's character. It is your personal investment.

actually I recall when you checked my mound and discovered that I'm a non. and a steer-assigner
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Wow! If you weren't pictured in your profile, I would've immediately mistaken you for my ex-fiancé. She did not pass check.
Did you just confess something horrible, by the way?
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Go talk to someone you like

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That's the best advice I've gotten in a while, if interpreted literally. Which I, as a Conservative, am prone to doing anyway.

Maybe that's not a strong suit. I almost married a wh**e in a character cover.

It seems that the question that is posed in this thread is, which men go for low hanging fruit and list them by sign as well the less appealing woman's sign. It's sort of like measuring inferiority in both subjects.

Are you like the chicks in the movie Clueless except not as nice, and barely as smart?

The author of the thread might even be more conservative than I am, which is terrifying.