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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
venus is in aqua then he's into some weird shit lolNow now, romance language speaking primadonna, calmate, calmate
Do you like anal and licking asshole?
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I know a bunch of non-Aqua venuses into that shit! (Pun intended ??)
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Are you already emotionally invested in him?Sí.
No
It's a slippery slope
Get uninvested until he's invested
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I meeean, I'm moving in less than a month so it'll all be okay once I leave.
Am I the only one who thinks this is endearing that you actually care enough to ponder if you're on his level? You don't strike me as someone who easily gets emotionally invested just based on my observations. I'm Aqua Sun Cap Venus( but a lady).... and if my spouse told me this I'd cry. But I would do what I could to show them it's not true. Too bad you're moving soon.
Posted by Wineaux15
Am I the only one who thinks this is endearing that you actually care enough to ponder if you're on his level? You don't strike me as someone who easily gets emotionally invested just based on my observations. I'm Aqua Sun Cap Venus( but a lady).... and if my spouse told me this I'd cry. But I would do what I could to show them it's not true. Too bad you're moving soon.
I'm only moving 100 miles away so technically we could make it work [since my other friends are willing to make it work], but idk if he'd be interested in that.
I feel like this is gods way of messing with me. Like "Look here Whorpio; here's someone who treats you right, but you can't have him!" I feel like I'll never find anyone like this boy again 😢
What is the procedure for #cope?
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Working more!
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
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How much have you saved so far? Anything?
Posted by Sagiluv27
Stop putting yourself down be confident that your enough and you'll be enoughI'm not really enough. I'm not smart. I'm not a quick thinker. I cannot keep up with intelligent/deep conversation. All I know is superficial stuff, like sports and stuff I learn in school. And I'm definitely not the admirable kind of funny that makes you say "dang, this is someone I enjoy being around".
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You're getting a degree in nursing, which means you are passing your classes. That's smart enough. There are different types of smarts in this world. You don't have to be quick-witted. And everyone has their own level of deep conversations. You just need to learn as you go. You can fake it until you make it by asking questions, "Oh really? Why is that?" or "Wow, that sounds interesting, I'm gonna have to look into it" You just have to keep afloat with the conversation.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
How much have you saved so far? Anything?
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I only have $ 20K in cash saved right meow.
Posted by Whorpio
The only thing I could think to invest in is bitcoins, but they are at their highest price right now 😐I was thinking something more tangible, like rental property.
Interesting... How do I get into that? I already have a couple time shares; could I rent those out? Or maybe buy a condo and rent it out on Airbnb? The opportunities are starting to seem endless!! ?
Yes, buy a condo in Florida. Rent it out. Dxp'ers coming every summer, filling your wallet. 😆
I took the liberty of coming up with a business plan:
1st year: 1 condo
2nd year: 2 condos
3rd year: as much of the condo building as possible
4th year: the whole street!
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a real life game finally for members on dxp......
Monopoly
whorpio edition.
Read more books.
Work on things that will make you a better person.
Don't chase after him
like someone else said
chase after the better version of yourself.
Posted by saggurl88
You're getting a degree in nursing, which means you are passing your classes. That's smart enough. There are different types of smarts in this world. You don't have to be quick-witted. And everyone has their own level of deep conversations. You just need to learn as you go. You can fake it until you make it by asking questions, "Oh really? Why is that?" or "Wow, that sounds interesting, I'm gonna have to look into it" You just have to keep afloat with the conversation.
I do this and that's one reason I feel stupid; because I'm not contributing any knowledge, I'm just being taught. .
Posted by saggurl88
You're getting a degree in nursing, which means you are passing your classes. That's smart enough. There are different types of smarts in this world. You don't have to be quick-witted. And everyone has their own level of deep conversations. You just need to learn as you go. You can fake it until you make it by asking questions, "Oh really? Why is that?" or "Wow, that sounds interesting, I'm gonna have to look into it" You just have to keep afloat with the conversation.I do this and that's one reason I feel stupid; because I'm not contributing any knowledge, I'm just being taught. .
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Yeah but you're being taught for the next time you have a conversation on the subject. It's all about learning and educating yourself. No one has automatic knowledge. Just like you learned about sports, you can learn about the stuff that interests him.
Posted by saggurl88
You're getting a degree in nursing, which means you are passing your classes. That's smart enough. There are different types of smarts in this world. You don't have to be quick-witted. And everyone has their own level of deep conversations. You just need to learn as you go. You can fake it until you make it by asking questions, "Oh really? Why is that?" or "Wow, that sounds interesting, I'm gonna have to look into it" You just have to keep afloat with the conversation.I do this and that's one reason I feel stupid; because I'm not contributing any knowledge, I'm just being taught. .
Yeah but you're being taught for the next time you have a conversation on the subject. It's all about learning and educating yourself. No one has automatic knowledge. Just like you learned about sports, you can learn about the stuff that interests him.
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Ohhh I didn't think to look at it that way! You're right
Posted by ruscovaxx
Damn girl, stop selling yourself short for a man. You're unique in your own way, if he can't appreciate that then fuck him.You'll find someone that fits you like a puzzle piece, just focus on yourself and your future.. not sit here and undermine yourself like youre doing OVER A MAN. I could slap you right now.
Maybe you moving is a sign that this guy may seem like a good fit for you.. but actually isn't. It's simply a mask and underneath is something ugly.. especially since alcoholism is a factor. Who's to say this guy in the long run doesn't get aggressive with you? You're a babe irl, jealously can stem from that. It just sounds toxic.
What if he is the one who fits me like a puzzle piece though?
Posted by Astrology101
What makes you think he is better than you? Also how old is he?
Because he's smart and funny and quick-witted and very generous and caring.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
How much have you saved so far? Anything?
I only have $ 20K in cash saved right meow.
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You can't change life with that!
Keep working girl...
Posted by Wineaux15
Am I the only one who thinks this is endearing that you actually care enough to ponder if you're on his level? You don't strike me as someone who easily gets emotionally invested just based on my observations. I'm Aqua Sun Cap Venus( but a lady).... and if my spouse told me this I'd cry. But I would do what I could to show them it's not true. Too bad you're moving soon.I'm only moving 100 miles away so technically we could make it work [since my other friends are willing to make it work], but idk if he'd be interested in that.
I feel like this is gods way of messing with me. Like "Look here Whorpio; here's someone who treats you right, but you can't have him!" I feel like I'll never find anyone like this boy again 😢
Wrong.
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What part?
Posted by ruscovaxx
Damn girl, stop selling yourself short for a man. You're unique in your own way, if he can't appreciate that then fuck him.You'll find someone that fits you like a puzzle piece, just focus on yourself and your future.. not sit here and undermine yourself like youre doing OVER A MAN. I could slap you right now.
Maybe you moving is a sign that this guy may seem like a good fit for you.. but actually isn't. It's simply a mask and underneath is something ugly.. especially since alcoholism is a factor. Who's to say this guy in the long run doesn't get aggressive with you? You're a babe irl, jealously can stem from that. It just sounds toxic.
If she ever wants to be serious with anyone, she needs stop doing what she's doing.. it doesn't matter if it's him or any other guy.
It's quite normal to feel shy, over think or feel inadequate when you really like someone. That's just human nature.
That type of ego of "I don't have to change for anyone", sets up people to stay alone. Relationships takes trust and compromising regardless of signs. You become a better you, he becomes a better him and they combine as one.
She needs to focus on herself and her future career.
Not a guy or compromise for a guy who obviously suffers from alcoholism. Alcoholics irk the fuck out of me and I will uplift a woman to think for herself if they feel inadequate to someone like that, whether you like it or not flo.
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Ugh it is frustrating because he will cancel our plans because he's either drunk or made other plans to get drunk with his friends ?? That's one thing that helps me feel more detached though because then I can remind myself he's just like all the other douchebags I've hooked up with and that there will never be potential there.
Posted by Whorpio
Have you ever just met a person who would be completely perfect for you, but you know things won't work with them because you are so out of their league?I met someone who treats me right. I've never felt this special before. But I know I don't have a chance with him romantically because I have 0 personality to offer. All I have to offer is my body and for someone as smart and generous as him it's not enough in the long run.
Have any of y'all felt like that? Like you aren't good enough for a certain type of person? How do you get over that feeling and move on?
It's not up to you to decide if you are for him or not. It's up to him. If he feels for you ..then you have no right to tell him you are not good enough.
If he doesn't feel it for you...move on. And try to feel higher self esteem for yourself. You are special ...for yourself. Not for anyone else 🙂
Posted by Whorpio
I'm only moving 100 miles away so technically we could make it work [since my other friends are willing to make it work], but idk if he'd be interested in that.I feel like this is gods way of messing with me. Like "Look here Whorpio; here's someone who treats you right, but you can't have him!" I feel like I'll never find anyone like this boy again 😢
Wrong.
What part?
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Where I live it seems like good men are very far and few.
This is so sad
Why do you feel you are not worthy ?
Posted by brianafay
This is so sadWhy do you feel you are not worthy ?
Because I'm not smart or hilarious.
Posted by brianafay
This is so sadWhy do you feel you are not worthy ?
Because I'm not smart or hilarious.
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You seem smart to me
Maybe in a different way than he is, but I can tell you seem to know and understand things - like how people work - "street smarts" if you will.....and that is a type of intelligence that will complement his
You will make a good team
Also as someone else already pointed out .. a lot of men prefer to feel like the smarter, funnier one in the relationship so that's a total cop out
If you like him and he likes you - just go for it. You are worthy of love.
Not to psychoanalyze you too much but you've already noted you feel like your value is in the way you look and maybe that's because you have gotten attention and advantages that way so now you rely on it too much. There is more to you than that and you know it. You just don't let people in because you're scared it isn't enough ...but it's all in your head. This is a lie you've convinced yourself
Let someone prove you wrong
Posted by brianafay
This is so sadWhy do you feel you are not worthy ?
Because I'm not smart or hilarious.
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lol
I beg to differ.
I think you come across as funny and charismatic
The over emphasis on the sex thing maybe could be worked on?
Posted by brianafay
Also as someone else already pointed out .. a lot of men prefer to feel like the smarter, funnier one in the relationship so that's a total cop outIf you like him and he likes you - just go for it. You are worthy of love.
Not to psychoanalyze you too much but you've already noted you feel like your value is in the way you look and maybe that's because you have gotten attention and advantages that way so now you rely on it too much. There is more to you than that and you know it. You just don't let people in because you're scared it isn't enough ...but it's all in your head. This is a lie you've convinced yourself
Let someone prove you wrong
Ily ❤️❤️❤️
Posted by brianafay
This is so sadWhy do you feel you are not worthy ?
Because I'm not smart or hilarious.
lol
I beg to differ.
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Lmao honestly Monty my heart does skip a beat when I see you liked one of my posts ? You make me feel clever
Have any of y'all felt like that? Like you aren't good enough for a certain type of person? How do you get over that feeling and move on?
Yes, definitely, more than once. I think its a bit of a relief to move on when you feel like this. You take a lot of pressure off of your self and you free them to be with someone who has the confidence, security, and compatibility they need from a partner. I understand everyone wants to build you up when you say things like this, but sometimes I feel our intuition is right and a person is really just out of our league.
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So true ?
But sometimes it is hard to accept you ain't got a serious chance.
Posted by MyStarsShine
I think you come across as funny and charismaticThe over emphasis on the sex thing maybe could be worked on?
Posted by MyStarsShine
I think you come across as funny and charismaticThe over emphasis on the sex thing maybe could be worked on?
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What does that mean?
Posted by MyStarsShine
I think you come across as funny and charismaticThe over emphasis on the sex thing maybe could be worked on?
What does that mean?
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It means it's hard to turn the sex appeal off when that's what you're accustomed to being used for.
Posted by Whorpio
Have you ever just met a person who would be completely perfect for you, but you know things won't work with them because you are so out of their league?I met someone who treats me right. I've never felt this special before. But I know I don't have a chance with him romantically because I have 0 personality to offer. All I have to offer is my body and for someone as smart and generous as him it's not enough in the long run.
Have any of y'all felt like that? Like you aren't good enough for a certain type of person? How do you get over that feeling and move on?
First of all... perfection is an illusion. Or, more accurately "it's a mental disease (whenever you're in that state - where you're trying to achieve perfection or you're looking for it on the outside - in others maybe - you're bound to suffer meaninglessly)".And yet, when you're in love... that special someone's imperfections makes him/her more perfect in your eyes (it's what refines ones identity - what makes one more unique).
Second point... above statement (especially the bolded part) - is a contradiction. If you found someone whom you consider "completely" right for you - then you should be "completely" right for that individual (like two pieces from a jigsaw puzzle binded together). Though, in the same time - you seem to find this guy highly incompatible. So, i'd take it... this is probably an infatuation. Maybe you have a strong physical chemistry with this guy. Cause if it's emotional and mental too, then... "it can work". If you're not part of a family that controls every aspect of your life (that being something you agree with - "like an obedient child") - including your decisions when it comes to choosing a partner... then each-other's public status - doesn't mean much - for a romantic relationship. It's more important - to have what it takes to get along, to support and enjoy each-other's company. Mutuality (mutual-attraction/support/understanding and so on...).
Isn't that "what you truly need (same goes for almost everybody for that matter)?" Cause... if you know things won't work with this guy - then he's clearly not what you need.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
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....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
You have two paths you can go down.
1. Being who you want to be
2. Being who this guy wants to be with
Those are your choices. You already know what's at the end of either path.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
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She is very young and hopefully will change direction at some stage.......not many men would be comfortable with taking a wife who goes with so many other men.....
There is always time to change careers
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
She is very young and hopefully will change direction at some stage.......not many men would be comfortable with taking a wife who goes with so many other men.....
There is always time to change careers
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Ya, my point is that I don't think most men will want to be with someone who spent their 20's hooking. I've got nothing against prostitution, I'm not trying to be degrading. You can change your future but you can't change your past. You can try to hide your past but that probably won't end well.
But real talk; we've all heard this story before. And true love ain't the ending.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
She is very young and hopefully will change direction at some stage.......not many men would be comfortable with taking a wife who goes with so many other men.....
There is always time to change careers
Ya, my point is that I don't think most men will want to be with someone who spent their 20's hooking. I've got nothing against prostitution, I'm not trying to be degrading. You can change your future but you can't change your past. You can try to hide your past but that probably won't end well.
But real talk; we've all heard this story before. And true love ain't the ending.
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I believe we can all make the decision to purify though
Born again.......you know?
What difference is it from a man that sleeps with hundreds of others....plenty of women marry them
Posted by cornmaizeshark
You have two paths you can go down.1. Being who you want to be
2. Being who this guy wants to be with
Those are your choices. You already know what's at the end of either path.
I have now idea who this guy wants to be with
He said he's "definitely living the Aquarius life style "... idk where to even begin interpreting that ?
Posted by cornmaizeshark
You have two paths you can go down.1. Being who you want to be
2. Being who this guy wants to be with
Those are your choices. You already know what's at the end of either path.
I have now idea who this guy wants to be with
He said he's "definitely living the Aquarius life style "... idk where to even begin interpreting that ?
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Well you're lucky it's an aqua cause they may be the most open to unorthodox relationships.
As for who he wants to be with- ask him, straight up.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
She is very young and hopefully will change direction at some stage.......not many men would be comfortable with taking a wife who goes with so many other men.....
There is always time to change careers
Ya, my point is that I don't think most men will want to be with someone who spent their 20's hooking. I've got nothing against prostitution, I'm not trying to be degrading. You can change your future but you can't change your past. You can try to hide your past but that probably won't end well.
But real talk; we've all heard this story before. And true love ain't the ending.
I believe we can all make the decision to purify though
Born again.......you know?
What difference is it from a man that sleeps with hundreds of others....plenty of women marry them
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We can all learn to accept ourselves but that doesn't mean other people have to, will, or even should accept us.
The difference is that "plenty of women marry them." But she's interested in a man.
Posted by cornmaizeshark
You have two paths you can go down.1. Being who you want to be
2. Being who this guy wants to be with
Those are your choices. You already know what's at the end of either path.
I have now idea who this guy wants to be with
He said he's "definitely living the Aquarius life style "... idk where to even begin interpreting that ?
Well you're lucky it's an aqua cause they may be the most open to unorthodox relationships.
As for who he wants to be with- ask him, straight up.
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Yeah... if this falls apart I'm definitely going for another Aqua.
I feel like it's too late to ask him what his type of lady is because I said I'm not looking for a relationship and he was immediately like "Me neither". So I feel like it would be absurd to ask lol
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
She is very young and hopefully will change direction at some stage.......not many men would be comfortable with taking a wife who goes with so many other men.....
There is always time to change careers
Ya, my point is that I don't think most men will want to be with someone who spent their 20's hooking. I've got nothing against prostitution, I'm not trying to be degrading. You can change your future but you can't change your past. You can try to hide your past but that probably won't end well.
But real talk; we've all heard this story before. And true love ain't the ending.
I believe we can all make the decision to purify though
Born again.......you know?
What difference is it from a man that sleeps with hundreds of others....plenty of women marry them
We can all learn to accept ourselves but that doesn't mean other people have to, will, or even should accept us.
The difference is that "plenty of women marry them." But she's interested in a man.
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I am sure there are some understanding mature men out there that could accept that our past has gone and we are prepared to turn over a new leaf....
🙂
Posted by cornmaizeshark
You have two paths you can go down.1. Being who you want to be
2. Being who this guy wants to be with
Those are your choices. You already know what's at the end of either path.
I have now idea who this guy wants to be with
He said he's "definitely living the Aquarius life style "... idk where to even begin interpreting that ?
Well you're lucky it's an aqua cause they may be the most open to unorthodox relationships.
As for who he wants to be with- ask him, straight up.
Yeah... if this falls apart I'm definitely going for another Aqua.
I feel like it's too late to ask him what his type of lady is because I said I'm not looking for a relationship and he was immediately like "Me neither". So I feel like it would be absurd to ask lol
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Well look, you're in my generation so just YOLO. You changed your mind, so what? That's not against the rules.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
She is very young and hopefully will change direction at some stage.......not many men would be comfortable with taking a wife who goes with so many other men.....
There is always time to change careers
Ya, my point is that I don't think most men will want to be with someone who spent their 20's hooking. I've got nothing against prostitution, I'm not trying to be degrading. You can change your future but you can't change your past. You can try to hide your past but that probably won't end well.
But real talk; we've all heard this story before. And true love ain't the ending.
I believe we can all make the decision to purify though
Born again.......you know?
What difference is it from a man that sleeps with hundreds of others....plenty of women marry them
We can all learn to accept ourselves but that doesn't mean other people have to, will, or even should accept us.
The difference is that "plenty of women marry them." But she's interested in a man.
I am sure there are some understanding mature men out there that could accept that our past has gone and we are prepared to turn over a new leaf....
🙂
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mature men
*coughs*
sure...
😉
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
She is very young and hopefully will change direction at some stage.......not many men would be comfortable with taking a wife who goes with so many other men.....
There is always time to change careers
Ya, my point is that I don't think most men will want to be with someone who spent their 20's hooking. I've got nothing against prostitution, I'm not trying to be degrading. You can change your future but you can't change your past. You can try to hide your past but that probably won't end well.
But real talk; we've all heard this story before. And true love ain't the ending.
I believe we can all make the decision to purify though
Born again.......you know?
What difference is it from a man that sleeps with hundreds of others....plenty of women marry them
We can all learn to accept ourselves but that doesn't mean other people have to, will, or even should accept us.
The difference is that "plenty of women marry them." But she's interested in a man.
I am sure there are some understanding mature men out there that could accept that our past has gone and we are prepared to turn over a new leaf....
🙂
mature men
*coughs*
sure...
😉
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🙂
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
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Why don't you tell me since your so definitive. How many former pros do you have in your social circle?
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
Why don't you tell me since your so definitive. How many former pros do you have in your social circle?
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It is definitive, isn't it? She'll be the literal definition of a worn out hooker?
Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.
That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.
But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.
Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.
Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.
Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.
....lol, nah. Then she'll literally be a worn out hooker. How many of them do you reckon end up finding love and stability?
Why don't you tell me since your so definitive. How many former pros do you have in your social circle?
It is definitive, isn't it? She'll be the literal definition of a worn out hooker?
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Why do you say that? Worned out...
You watching too much TV.
How about women who are working 24/7 to bring children up due to a loss of a breadwinner? They working too hard.
And a lot of them still pretty and young looking. And some are wormed out...
Not hookers. Worned out by hardship of life...
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