Whenever your partner

Goes out, do you always have to know where they're going? Or what and who they are doing outside?

My husband has a habit of going outside but not letting me know about his whereabout going out. It is somehow weary about this. I think as a wife, I deserve to know where he's going or what is he doing and with who.. just out of respect, you know..

Is it wrong for me to think this way.

What about you?

Nah I rather not have to tell them where I m going so I don't need to know where they are going either. It's optional. If you don't trust them then you're fucked anyway

Posted by Whynn
Goes out, do you always have to know where they're going? Or what and who they are doing outside?

My husband has a habit of going outside but not letting me know about his whereabout going out. It is somehow weary about this. I think as a wife, I deserve to know where he's going or what is he doing and with who.. just out of respect, you know..

Is it wrong for me to think this way.

What about you?

Usually my partner will just ask or I will just tell her out of respect before she asks but after that we do not talk all night I am left alone and so is she unless of emergencies.

I kind of prefer it that way because I don’t go out a lot and when I do it’s about enjoying it with your friends.

Also, I like the time to myself when I am home and she is out I like being left alone lol

Posted by Wizardzzz
Nah I rather not have to tell them where I m going so I don't need to know where they are going either. It's optional. If you don't trust them then you're fucked anyway

You're a gemini sun and he is gemini moon. So you guys gimini energies like to share this?

If she and I are committed, they will always know where I am and what I'm doing, as a courtesy.

If we are not committed, I don't always give details and she is under no obligation to give me details. It makes it easier to detach in case things don't work out.

For me, no. If they are doing malicious things I will instantly know because of their vibes/ energy. That probably sounds dumb to people outside an astrology forum, but I pick up on the slightest changes of patterns and vibrations in a person. So I don't really have a need to know what they do. I'll allow the aspect of trust until something is wrong. At that point I'll just secretly investigate, and find the real answers if needed. Then play dumb until I find the right dialog to get them to lie to my face. At that point I would just leave. I try not to get that way unless I'm 99% sure something nefarious is going on, and so far I've been 100% correct every time.

Distant family of mine have this weird app that let's them see where eachother are at all times. I always found that pretty wild. Personally I would hate that. Also even with that app it would still be extreamly easy to spoof your phones location and fake where you are. You could also set up paths on other apps to make it look like you are moving. I think knowing where someone is at all times is a deep issue with trust, which is something I rather not want/ need. I rather just trust someone naturally until the energy is off, then investigate what source is changing the energy. Also I 100% don't want people knowing or constantly asking me questions of what I do in my free time. I have nothing to prove, or confess, so it should remain understood and respected imo.

I don't have to worry about it because I keep them locked in my basement. I trust her completely

Posted by Whynn

Posted by Wizardzzz
Nah I rather not have to tell them where I m going so I don't need to know where they are going either. It's optional. If you don't trust them then you're fucked anyway

You're a gemini sun and he is gemini moon. So you guys gimini energies like to share this?

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Oh for sure

I don't even like being asked how I am

Anything of that nature. Just let me come and go as I please and be how I am. No questions..

It's not like Geminis aren't going to tell you everything anyway so why ask 🤣

Posted by Generous1987


I think being married is different, you need to know where they are in case sth comes up, or an emergency, No?

I already explained that to him but still..

Yes, it's normal to know where the person supposedly closest to you goes when they step out the door (unless it's work or throwing garbage) if you're cohabitating.

It's like wtf, are you married or sharing space with a flatmate?

It would be super weird if we're both at home and suddenly she takes off, no info where she's going or if she'll be gone most day, should I include her in today's plans/dinner, or what?

But maybe y'all married/shacked up for the wrong reasons.

Posted by Soul
For me, no. If they are doing malicious things I will instantly know because of their vibes/ energy. That probably sounds dumb to people outside an astrology forum, but I pick up on the slightest changes of patterns and vibrations in a person. So I don't really have a need to know what they do. I'll allow the aspect of trust until something is wrong. At that point I'll just secretly investigate, and find the real answers if needed. Then play dumb until I find the right dialog to get them to lie to my face. At that point I would just leave. I try not to get that way unless I'm 99% sure something nefarious is going on, and so far I've been 100% correct every time.

Distant family of mine have this weird app that let's them see where eachother are at all times. I always found that pretty wild. Personally I would hate that. Also even with that app it would still be extreamly easy to spoof your phones location and fake where you are. You could also set up paths on other apps to make it look like you are moving. I think knowing where someone is at all times is a deep issue with trust, which is something I rather not want/ need. I rather just trust someone naturally until the energy is off, then investigate what source is changing the energy. Also I 100% don't want people knowing or constantly asking me questions of what I do in my free time. I have nothing to prove, or confess, so it should remain understood and respected imo.

Instead of "interviewing" them you just place trust and rely on your intuition or gut instinct to know if theyre doing malicious things. I would do that too from now on. It's just my cancer moon feel that need of knowing the whereabouts my partner for my emotional safety.

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II
Yes, it's normal to know where the person supposedly closest to you goes when they step out the door (unless it's work or throwing garbage) if you're cohabitating.

It's like wtf, are you married or sharing space with a flatmate?

It would be super weird if we're both at home and suddenly she takes off, no info where she's going or if she'll be gone most day, should I include her in today's plans/dinner, or what?

But maybe y'all married/shacked up for the wrong reasons.

Understanding you are a cancer moon too, right? This is exactly my pov too! Lol

Posted by Whynn

Posted by Soul
For me, no. If they are doing malicious things I will instantly know because of their vibes/ energy. That probably sounds dumb to people outside an astrology forum, but I pick up on the slightest changes of patterns and vibrations in a person. So I don't really have a need to know what they do. I'll allow the aspect of trust until something is wrong. At that point I'll just secretly investigate, and find the real answers if needed. Then play dumb until I find the right dialog to get them to lie to my face. At that point I would just leave. I try not to get that way unless I'm 99% sure something nefarious is going on, and so far I've been 100% correct every time.

Distant family of mine have this weird app that let's them see where eachother are at all times. I always found that pretty wild. Personally I would hate that. Also even with that app it would still be extreamly easy to spoof your phones location and fake where you are. You could also set up paths on other apps to make it look like you are moving. I think knowing where someone is at all times is a deep issue with trust, which is something I rather not want/ need. I rather just trust someone naturally until the energy is off, then investigate what source is changing the energy. Also I 100% don't want people knowing or constantly asking me questions of what I do in my free time. I have nothing to prove, or confess, so it should remain understood and respected imo.

Instead of "interviewing" them you just place trust and rely on your intuition or gut instinct to know if theyre doing malicious things. I would do that too from now on. It's just my cancer moon feel that need of knowing the whereabouts my partner for my emotional safety.

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I'm pretty much the same tbh. I've realized my issues with the past and trust makes problems at times however. At this point im trying to move past all that, and try to have more faith in people. Its difficult, but worth it with a bit of caution