Why is your ex your ex?

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Posted by brianafay
Why though?

What caused your breakup ?

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Why though?

What caused your breakup ?

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
I love all my exes so nothing bad to say.

Posted by WarAngel1
Jeez, I could write a book in this thread, lol!

What most boiled down to: I wasn't ready.

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Posted by WarAngel1
Jeez, I could write a book in this thread, lol!

What most boiled down to: I wasn't ready.

When will you ever be ready ?

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Posted by imbatgirl14

Posted by Soul
Needed too much attention from too many people. Huge friend circles will kill a relationship. Also they couldn't withstand my crazy on a bad day. I'm fine for months, but one day everything will fall apart and that day will be terrible. I've yet to meet a person besides friends and family who stick around after seeing my worst. I end every relationship myself though. I just break things then completely withdrawal, and they just disappear.

so in other words you push people away and then when they leave wonder why they didn't come back?

Scorpio moon I presume?

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Posted by ChrisIsKodak

Posted by brianafay

trying to dip out on the libra? Oh snappy

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Posted by Soul

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Posted by Soul
Needed too much attention from too many people. Huge friend circles will kill a relationship. Also they couldn't withstand my crazy on a bad day. I'm fine for months, but one day everything will fall apart and that day will be terrible. I've yet to meet a person besides friends and family who stick around after seeing my worst. I end every relationship myself though. I just break things then completely withdrawal, and they just disappear.

so in other words you push people away and then when they leave wonder why they didn't come back?

Scorpio moon I presume?

Kind of. More or less I just have a tendency of taking something nice that I worked hard for then destroying it because I feel I'm undeserving, or it felt too easy to achieve.

Sometimes I do accidentally do sting people, then when I chill out I don't understand why they let me chase them away.

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
I love all my exes so nothing bad to say.

Posted by imbatgirl14

Posted by Soul

Posted by imbatgirl14

Posted by Soul
Needed too much attention from too many people. Huge friend circles will kill a relationship. Also they couldn't withstand my crazy on a bad day. I'm fine for months, but one day everything will fall apart and that day will be terrible. I've yet to meet a person besides friends and family who stick around after seeing my worst. I end every relationship myself though. I just break things then completely withdrawal, and they just disappear.

so in other words you push people away and then when they leave wonder why they didn't come back?

Scorpio moon I presume?

Kind of. More or less I just have a tendency of taking something nice that I worked hard for then destroying it because I feel I'm undeserving, or it felt too easy to achieve.

Sometimes I do accidentally do sting people, then when I chill out I don't understand why they let me chase them away.

I'm beginning to understand Scorpio moons a bit more based on my observations, research, and people like you who I come across. I see an inherent pattern, self-destruct to 'reconstruct'. I don't judge you because it's in your nature and it's embedded in your subconscious.

That Phoenix quality of coming up from the ashes continuously (life cycle) is part of your nature. You see beauty and wish to turn it to ashes because Scorpios are responsible for bringing out the ugly out of beauty; to transform it into something else and this reflects in your relationships. It's also part of your insecurity that fuels this need to deconstruct or destroy a beautiful thing to save yourself from the pain. That darkness in you needs to be balanced with light, so finding a partner who can tolerate your darkness and cast you out of the shadows without judgement, is ideal for a Scorpio moons. I think this is why they tend to be attracted (even Sun signs) to Geminis, because Geminis are the everlasting Peter Pans, full of wonder, joy, and eternal youth. They have a quicker turn over rate if they're feeling depressed, something that Scorpios wished they had and crave. They feed off of that Gemini energy (as a lot of people do). You need to find someone like that with staying power, someone with heavy earth placements, preferably a Capricorn.

As far as the stinging, you might not realize the power you have to sting people. (What's your sun sign btw?) You have to understand that the Scorpio has a powerful and poisonous stinger. When you get stung, you will naturally run away, coil, or avoid a Scorpio if you ever come across one again. Your trauma on that stinger is what makes you feel repulsed by it. This is how people are when you sting them. Because Scorpios are emotions, they attack via emotions due to their innate ability to get into your core (depths) of your personality. Superficiality is not in your books especially if you have another concentrated (FIXED) sign as your sun sign. So you go in deep, you don't injure to hurt them, you injure to destroy them. Going into the depths of someone's heart should not be taken lightly and as a Scorpio moon it's your responsibility to be aware of that power you have.

You Scorpio moons are loving, loyal, and amazing people. But just as you guys have that ability to be amazing, you also have that ability to distance people you care for. People flock to you because of who you are (positive qualities) and love you deeply for it. But can't bare with the pain associated with your rejection (stinger). In other words, you can say really cruel things that can push people away because you destroyed part of their souls. (Hade's powers)

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Posted by Soul
Needed too much attention from too many people. Huge friend circles will kill a relationship. Also they couldn't withstand my crazy on a bad day. I'm fine for months, but one day everything will fall apart and that day will be terrible. I've yet to meet a person besides friends and family who stick around after seeing my worst. I end every relationship myself though. I just break things then completely withdrawal, and they just disappear.

so in other words you push people away and then when they leave wonder why they didn't come back?

Scorpio moon I presume?

Kind of. More or less I just have a tendency of taking something nice that I worked hard for then destroying it because I feel I'm undeserving, or it felt too easy to achieve.

Sometimes I do accidentally do sting people, then when I chill out I don't understand why they let me chase them away.

I'm beginning to understand Scorpio moons a bit more based on my observations, research, and people like you who I come across. I see an inherent pattern, self-destruct to 'reconstruct'. I don't judge you because it's in your nature and it's embedded in your subconscious.

That Phoenix quality of coming up from the ashes continuously (life cycle) is part of your nature. You see beauty and wish to turn it to ashes because Scorpios are responsible for bringing out the ugly out of beauty; to transform it into something else and this reflects in your relationships. It's also part of your insecurity that fuels this need to deconstruct or destroy a beautiful thing to save yourself from the pain. That darkness in you needs to be balanced with light, so finding a partner who can tolerate your darkness and cast you out of the shadows without judgement, is ideal for a Scorpio moons. I think this is why they tend to be attracted (even Sun signs) to Geminis, because Geminis are the everlasting Peter Pans, full of wonder, joy, and eternal youth. They have a quicker turn over rate if they're feeling depressed, something that Scorpios wished they had and crave. They feed off of that Gemini energy (as a lot of people do). You need to find someone like that with staying power, someone with heavy earth placements, preferably a Capricorn.

As far as the stinging, you might not realize the power you have to sting people. (What's your sun sign btw?) You have to understand that the Scorpio has a powerful and poisonous stinger. When you get stung, you will naturally run away, coil, or avoid a Scorpio if you ever come across one again. Your trauma on that stinger is what makes you feel repulsed by it. This is how people are when you sting them. Because Scorpios are emotions, they attack via emotions due to their innate ability to get into your core (depths) of your personality. Superficiality is not in your books especially if you have another concentrated (FIXED) sign as your sun sign. So you go in deep, you don't injure to hurt them, you injure to destroy them. Going into the depths of someone's heart should not be taken lightly and as a Scorpio moon it's your responsibility to be aware of that power you have.

You Scorpio moons are loving, loyal, and amazing people. But just as you guys have that ability to be amazing, you also have that ability to distance people you care for. People flock to you because of who you are (positive qualities) and love you deeply for it. But can't bare with the pain associated with your rejection (stinger). In other words, you can say really cruel things that can push people away because you destroyed part of their souls. (Hade's powers)

Damn that's all really spot on with the deeper parts of how I feel, and what I see myself doing from an outer perspective. My sun is Leo.

I do have one question though,

what do you mean by "I'm fine for months, but one day everything will fall apart and that day will be terrible."

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Posted by starwars
bish was ugly and too short

and you cant be these two things in 2016

so i ended it

Posted by starwars
bish was ugly and too short

and you cant be these two things in 2016

so i ended it

Posted by aquanib
damn lol, reading you girls is like...all you ever met were people one step below getting hanged for crimes against humanity.